HonestAd6835 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous. I'm not even gonna argue with someone who has decided he knows what I want and who i date based on my gender alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 09:38 PM
24	What are women even expected to do during the courting phase? True, I won't deny that. I'm not about to defend or denigrate my own gender, but I will say that I've been shocked and saddened by what OLD specifically has done to a lot of women. I've purposefully avoided it because I don't wanna develop a lot of those behaviors and beliefs. The problem is that OLD really isn't benefiting women either. I've watched my girlfriends become picky as hell about shit that doesn't really matter, and they're miserable because they wonder why they can't find anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 04:41 PM
3	The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous. I don't lose it when men have their own preferences, I just think the hypocrisy of this particular viewpoint is amusing. As a woman with a low body count, I wouldn't even entertain the thought of dating or marrying a guy with a noticeably higher one	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 04:34 PM
2	The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous. Anyone who has a high body count shaming those who don't, regardless of gender, is an asshole. Additionally, while guys on this sub tend to think it's always an issue of the woman having the higher N count, it's not always so. My bf, for example, is a few years younger than me and has twice the N count. It makes me uncomfortable- it's definitely not a plus. It makes sense to me that guys with lower N counts would want a woman with similar experience, because I think most people feel the same way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 04:27 PM
77	What are women even expected to do during the courting phase? As a woman, I'd say that a woman who makes you work too hard is not worth your time. I asked my current boyfriend out and planned/paid for our first date. Obviously, I expected he reciprocate the effort to show he was into me, but generally speaking, I find that dating is most comfortable when both people are putting in about the same amount of work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 03:48 PM
34	Women of PPD, how big of a red flag is a man having no relationship experience? 32F here. A guy my own age without relationship experience might raise my eyebrows a bit, but honestly, I would just wanna know why. I think plenty of people don't have relationship experience for good reason, so for me it would be more of a yellow flag. A 24 year old with no experience would be less of a concern due to age. Honestly, I would be way way more bothered by the guy with a string of one night stands (or a past cheater) than the guy with zero relationship experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 03:43 PM
4	Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women? This, and the fact that studies like this do not apply to all women	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 02:06 AM
1	Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences. Yep exactly. I'm a woman and getting over my current boyfriend's sexual history (that included a handful of ons) was difficult. I asked him his body count before he asked for mine. ONS are antithetical to my overall viewpoint on sexual relationships, so it makes sense that I would seek out someone who felt similarly. But I don't get called out for being sexist like men who ask the question do. Because as a culture, we've decided that it's normal for people to have a hoe phase and that we're just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 01:58 AM
7	If she’s into you, it’s painfully obvious. If it’s ambiguous, you’re an option at best whether she’ll admit it or not Yep 100%. My current boyfriend was kind of surprised I think when we started dating. Imo, he accepted far less than he deserved from the other girls he dated. Don't get me wrong, I know my value and expect him to treat me right- but it's a two way street in my mind. My goal (which I've told him) is that he always knows how much I love, respect, and adore him. And as long as he treats me the same way (which he has), I'm happy 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:55 PM