So you're agreeing with me or is your whole argument about the fact that one time for men is enough? That is still irrelevant when the base believe is sleeping with men lowers value regardless which was what I pointed out initially One man on here kept bring it up as a way to show how women are bad, all the while saying women lower their value when sleeping with men, he wanted it only one way About the hypocrisy
A man sleeping with another man 1 time is enough to disqualify him, big difference between being a slut. Madona whore complex, a slut isn't the woman you are thinking about some men view a women who has been in many failed relationships as a deal breaker, some view one casual sex encounter as a deal breaker So no even one encounter can make it enough to be disqualified but nice try exaggerating it so your argument can me sense wonder why men have no problem dating bi women They don't mind bi wom…
One man on here kept bring it up as a way to show how women are bad, all the while saying women lower their value when sleeping with men, he wanted it only one way
I would consider it sexual assault It is often said that men sexually assault more than women do. However, I honestly think that women do it just as much, but we don't know it, because men have been conditioned not to see sexual assault done to them by women as such. Definitely
It is so funny how the new cope of men avoiding accountability is creating the illusion that only highly desirable, irresistible men are abusive, while normal, average men are not lmao
Here because polygamy is more culturally accepted in certain areas, single older women are often mocked by people who urge married men to take them as additional wives. This happened to my father, and it is so disgusting
Some people are indeed sympathetic to a core even when done wrong, supporting another person's right isn't "generosity" individuals who oppose policies like forced military conscription or infant male circumcision are acting consistently when they also support women's rights to make decisions about their own bodies It still is admirable when people extend that principle to others despite feeling that their own concerns are overlooked but it's not generosity to the point of a sacrifice or gift Pl…
Historically, because women were the ones who bore children and raised generations, and men were the protectors and providers, men held the power and influence. This is why, if you look back, everything was catered to them. Women's lives were controlled to ensure the man got himself a virgin wife to ensuring paternity and inheritance while he got to have mistresses, and it didn't matter what he did or who he was because she was the one who would influence the children. This is ironic, since the …
Gay men are raised in the same patriarchal societies as straight men, meaning they are not inherently immune to absorbing sexist biases Just like even some women themselves are misogynists
The vast majority of misogynists are heterosexual, because straight men make up the largest demographic of men so to say that a lot of misogynists are gay is simply not true
Did you see the case of the "Xuzhou chained woman"? It's about a Chinese TikToker who was known for posting videos about his eight children, but people later found out the mother was locked in a doorless outdoor shed with a metal chain around her neck after being sold to him
Ah true, I think some came from bad experiences that made them generalize all men, or, like you said, based their opinions purely from online takes If you are against paternity fraud, you support pedophile I'm confused what this one even mean
I get the feeling but you should focus on today and your current reality, rather than getting too immersed in the future. You never know how close or far that future might be, so you should never stop improving yourself in preparation for when it arrives
Yeah I know but I'm saying the number would be even less since people are having less sex overall https://www.researchgate.net/publication/342137078_Possible_Reasons_US_Adults_Are_Not_Having_Sex_as_Much_as_They_Used_To Not to mention OP lives in a conservative country, which also tends to mean adults start having sex much later in life
Yeah, I never noticed how it would look to the receiver until a few weeks ago. My classmates were constantly asking me about the projects, and they always just send off the message, which gives me time to think before replying. In comparison, I usually send "Hi, how are you?" wait for an answer, and then ask the question, which probably doesn't give them the time to think or reply when they feel like it
Oh definitely, I meant that he calls me cute and wants to pick me up I still take on the older sister role when I'm advising or warning him, even though he hates it
I’ve had some very angry men apologize or compliment me after a very very long back and forth conversation where we can get to all the nuances of an argument. lol reminds me of a dude i was arguing with and he ended it with "have a good day and I hope you go back to X religion"
He always wanted a younger sister when he was little, and over time, I became that "little sister" to him. It really doesn't help that he is taller than me now, lol
But I mostly see only one gender being able to argue with logic without resorting to personal insults If you mean my comment then what do you call this? Coming from a gender that has never taken accountability historically And no, men have thrown at me personal insults countless times both genders do this and there is no "logical gender" So I'm inclined to believe the logical ones. If you don't believe me. Do this simple experiment. Go to any male dominated sub and compile a list of comments. Do…
I mean I could say the same for women, it's tiring for both genders and I disagree with generalising either half of society just because of a few experiences
No, it is actually quite even considering there is a persistent gap in the division of housework and childcare which leads to husbands gaining significantly more leisure time on average Just like men often group all women together for not condemning hostile feminists, men who do not harass still rarely show sympathy or understanding. Instead of equally opposing those men, they try to distance themselves by simply saying "not all men"' This is not to mention the rise in red pill content directed …
If men had to be conscious around women for their safety getting harassed by old women as teens and were told to dress a certain way I'm sure they would have regarded them with equal hostility and you mean jobs that are much safer than the past
I meant, if women themselves don't notice it or even know about it, then men won't either. It's just like when men say they like natural women with no makeup but can't actually tell them apart
just a weird sideshow you wanted to talk about It shows how irrelevant your point is to actual violence rate Some "Dark Triad" or antisocial traits can increase short-term attractiveness in some contexts, but these traits are neither synonymous with violent offending nor representative of most sexually successful men. Most men with many partners are not violent offenders if favour of more violent ones. Further, if 90% of men are "relatively chill", and all men are dating, it would mean 90% of wo…
You don't have any proof that violent men who obtain substantially more sexual partners than nonviolent men have an increase that is large enough to affect population-level abuse rates Population-level rates of intimate partner violence and sexual abuse are primarily driven by widespread social norms, gender inequality, and systemic behavioral patterns, rather than the specific reproductive output of a small demographic of highly violent individuals while sexually coercive men are more likely to…
Sexual violence depends on many variables besides who has more sex, the violent men's actual offending rates, consent education, cultural norms, alcohol/drug use, pornography influences, law enforcement, willingness to report and the victims' ability to leave abusive partners
Sexual abuse is fundamentally an issue of power, control, and learned violent behavior, not a mathematical byproduct of the number of sexually active people in a population
They do, but such a woman lived with alot of restrictions in her life and makes alot of effort to keep her looks, they are very picky because of that and the pressure to marry once young
Bruh it's pretty shit having Mk over my head all day, They took regions that belong to us. The positive is it's mostly less bombs, all because of our piece of shit president
Lmao try changing what you wrote first then, and don't make it seem like it's women’s problem that they are insecure over their height Whataboutism truly lost it's meaning on this sub just thrown around when someone loses a debate lmao
The misunderstanding has been cleared up. They meant that students at private institutes still haven't taken their final year exams. I'm at a public institute, so I did mine already
Official exams are standardized, state-sponsored assessments administered by a government’s Ministry of Education. They happen for specific classes 9th, 12th grade, BT3 and my level (TS2), to ensure all students across the country are held to the exact same educational standard. Usually, after you finish your normal school exams, you take the official exams a month or so later
We literally don't have enough safe spaces to do them. They bombed a place where students were doing their exams not too long ago, which is why she finally made this decision
Intelligent men still get attractive women And this like an average man being compared to a highly attractive man who has more freedom. He would act like that too if he were more attractive, but he isn't. Humans adapt to what they have, It's like the worst of both worlds, lacking the attractiveness while also being unfairly compared to someone with more options
Oh for sure, thanks. Hopefully, though, I stopped having those a few years ago. Now it's mostly me realizing I'm in a dream and just continuing it. Sometimes I do change things if I'm really in control. There was one time when I realized I was in a dream, I thought about asking on PPD how many people experience lucid dreaming and I asked after I woke up, lol When did you start having yours?
My biggest problem was often having frequent false awakening loops. I would always talk about them to my sister or brother, and when I actually woke up, I'd realize I only told them in the dream, lol. I used to jump from windows to wake myself up, but eventually, that stopped working. After that, I started being able to move more freely inside the dream
I do a lot, but it happens depending on my sleep quality. There was a time I was in a really bad place and slept badly, which was when I lucid dreamed the most, about twice a week and I enjoyed those dreams. However, I never intentionally change anything in my dream, even when I know I'm dreaming. I unintentionally turn it into a nightmare because it 'makes sense' to my brain so I just enjoy it as it is
Are you secretly my brother? He told me something like that too, lol. He said, "You should just relax and not give a fuck like me" Funnily enough, people at my institute think I'm the most unemotional nonchalant person, they even get irritated by my lack of energy. But when my teacher was doing a personality analysis on me, she said, "I can tell you keep it all inside" Lmao
Netflix? Streaming Love Island, buying outfits and taking a million selfies or pictures of food (that they don't eat)? Some of these are also done with friends why would they be considered shallow?
I have been looking online for any updates since yesterday, but I still haven't found anything. Thankfully, they aren't listed as martyred, as their names would have been made public and we would have known
This is the second time I have almost been at a place that was exploded or bombed. The first was the port explosion. My sister and I used to go right to the spot where it happened every single day on our bikes, but on the day of the explosion, she wanted to buy shoes, so we didn’t go. In a few days I was going to get a haircut at my usual salon... and the place got bombed yesterday I still want to know what happened to the hairdresser and his family. My mother said she will check today. I hope t…
Well "nikah" is word barely used irl we usually say "zawaj", but men often say "baddi neekaha" it's slightly similar sounding to it, It means "I want to fuck her", so I thought it's another word for Muta ah, that was my sleep deprived brain for a second
Apparently we are now slut shaming people even when they are in relationships. It all comes down to the fact that women have the choice to make their own mistakes and learn things. Thats what slut shaming boils down to. And thats what victim blaming boils down to Yes excatly, only the guy can experiment and learn for better future outcomes, they don't want women making better dating decisions, it doesn't benefit them
I read it as nothing changes in the marriage if she starts sleeping with other women it becomes an open marriage, it sounds like it's the exact same marriage but with the knowledge that she is only attracted to women
I understand how you feel. The best solution, I think, is to distance yourself from them mentally and build your own supportive social circle of friends. It helps a lot, I don't know what I would have done without my best friend during my darkest times I do feel much more grateful when I receive it now, like you said in your initial comment, but there is still a small part of me that is resentful. I keep wondering why this wasn't always the case, and why she only started caring about me after I …
That is true. I just think that people generally start ignoring and forgetting the things they receive. Like for example the roles were reversed in my home, my brother was the one who was pampered, listened to, encouraged, and cared for all the time, while I was the one who ended up with mommy issues. He never noticed that, not because he is selfish, but because it is human nature to adapt to a norm
Idk but I know a few women who were arranged married young, they might get attached to a dude who treated them better and cared about them way more, but they decided against it to keep the family together
She still didn't marry the guy she truly wanted and isn't in love with him. These things you mentioned also stop meaning much over time, especially if his attention is elsewhere cheating
Idk what I hate more Islamic culture and Islamic men who benefit from it or non Islamic men who benefit from it... I think the latter is more disgusting, tell him he's disgusting when you get the chance
Weird, I'd assume he dates Muslim women because they tend to be virgins submissive and feminine, but aren't Hindu women the same? Maybe it's the power play and ego boost of being islamaphobic and using Islamic women who most likely are easy to manipulate depending on their family situation
That's life for everything, I don't go around obsessing over an unrealistic unattainable goal like becoming a billionaire, it's an experience for a few who are privileged, same thing for casual sex it's not a need and it's unrealistic
Yeah I'm sure it was such a privilege, arrange married as little girls and teens, going through pregnancy and childbirth, the leading causes of death for women back then. Getting beat up by their husbands and forced to marry their rapists, does that sound like privilege to you?
Do men really assume only the top 20% of men are bad partners? Have they never seen average men be bad partners too? I'm pointing out how absurdly they deluded themselves, stripping bad partners of accountability just to blame women for choosing them
It’s funny how the new cope for men is trying to convince women that the average guys they ignored in their early 20s are actually the 'good ones.' Lmao
Neutral, maybe slightly negative if it's something I associate with deeply. I lived most of my life where watching anime and having male-oriented hobbies is weird, so a small comment on Reddit wouldn't faze me much You might not notice, but things similar to such comments happen a lot, where men generalize all women over something. I just skip over them because it feels too obvious that generalizing like this is wrong. It's not like they don't know, they just don't care Heck, I've seen a man co…
If a man said the exact same thing I still wouldn't comment on it, the only things that bothers me or the things I debate the most are generalisations of a particular group or hypocrisy in dating For example alot of people, men included have opinions on feminine hobbies or interests, I still wouldn't comment on a man who for example says "thank god my wife doesn't play those dating games/ was obsessed with a male idol, I think people like that are cringe" unless he says later on that he plays si…
The vast majority of women who give birth in their mid-to-late 30s have entirely healthy babies I would love to see the same reaction for men 45+ who have children lmao but how dare someone control a man am I right?
Yeah it is, I'm not saying all women are genuine with their friendship but even if she made friends with a man benefiting from his circle it doesn't mean she doesn't see him as a person unlike my example Plus women are more capable to befriend men they'd never date like gay men, while some men are still weird toward lesbian friends as if she'll magically change her mind for him
I don’t think that pattern is specific to women. A lot of it comes down to social conditioning and grooming norms. Men are generally given less pressure or guidance around appearance, so there’s more variation in how much effort they put in, while women are often encouraged from a young age to maintain certain standards of presentation For men, there’s a wider variance in effort (style, fitness, grooming, social calibration), so in some dating environments you get a more noticeable split between…
Well I think it depends if someone wanted to try it at least once out of curiosity What's your take on men obsessed with casual sex and hook up culture?
Not everyone is comfortable with it, but some people have a different definition of what is acceptable in a relationship, especially when the differences are clearly visible. While some are fine with age or economic gaps, others are not. However, when there is a stark contrast in almost every aspect of a relationship, you will find that far more people tend to disapprove I personally don't see it as immediately bad if the two met naturally and bonded. Over something being deliberate if one perso…
Yes, it could be a case of falling in love because they met organically. He didn't deliberately travel to a whole different country just to find a woman he could control with his money and who was control sexually her whole life And yes that can exist in the west which is why a man targeting religious women when he isn't religious himself, solely to find a virgin, is just as bad. However, the example you gave was a waitress which is different so clearly your companion was wrong
Western culture differs significantly from Eastern culture, particularly regarding their levels of sex positivity. so a wealthy man falling in love with a local woman is still vastly different from a man targetiing specifically women who were denied sexual agency and bodily autonomy due to strict social, economic, or religious control
Obviously people aren't gonna be on their best behavior when it's established not to work. It does work for some but these men are too busy focusing on the bad examples to justify their shitty behaviours
Men also refer to women they want relationships with as wifey material aslo one with lower n count than themselves, so they do in fact have lower standards for hook ups and they themselves have said this
It doesn't mean they found her attractive, it means she is fuckable and the attractiveness measure for a man to want to have sex a woman is not that high Disagree. We now have studies that show us that women only found a very small amount of men attractive while finding the rest to be ugly. Women themselves have made men’s value low. You didn't address anything of what I said, men hate other men having had been with their women they want a relatively innocent woman who'll make them the exception…
I mean not really I don't get hit on much, but it’s not really validating or a proof of attractiveness when my friend says she has guys asking for feet pics on her insta or men being creepy in general Men themselves have made their value low, they deem others being with them or receiving their attention as lowering value so no one wants a man's attention especially when they aren't attracted to him themselves
Yeah, they mostly do, but there are areas where they mix. For example, my building is mostly Sunni, along with my Shia family, even though it is mostly a Shia region I even grew up attending a Christian public school alongside mostly Shia and Sunni classmates, with Christian teachers and a Druze best friend lol Yeah, I get told about this. My classmate, who is Shia and with whom I was with for two years, was surprised to learn I'm Shia (well, a Shia family, at least), since I don't fit the stere…
Even though they have been bombing the South for months, they recently warned today that they will target my area. This morning, my family woke me up because of a warning, and we sat in the car for three hours before returning home. We asked around about a house we wanted to rent, but it is in a very dangerous location near a refugee area. My father checked if it was safe to stay there, and people advised him against it. On top of that, all the schools are full
It was just the typical debate about whether someone should do it or not and I pointed out that if the genders were reversed we wouldn't be having this conversation
"but has decreased steadily in both groups with the overall average dropping <30 years since 2015 (27.5±10.6). Since 1990, there has been a steady increase in the percentage of FTM such that it is now equivalent to MTF."
Well, you are wrong. If you think you see more MtF than FtM individuals in daily life, it is because testosterone has a much stronger and more permanent impact on the human body than estrogen. This makes it biologically easier for trans men to pass as cisgender men
Lmao, calling it "narcissism" for suggesting focus should be on helping the birthing person, sounds like these words should be directed to the people always screaming about their loneliness with zero regards to others
Lol yeah women growing up being told they are worse than men in everything because they are women, and mocked for feminine things is now envyness. Sure dude let me just tell my young self that men thinking they are better smarter than me because they are men and how female friendship is fake, female interests and hobbies are dumb and cringe was just envyness. Just like slut shaming them and controlling or judging how they dress is all envyness
I mean you are insisting on this irrelevant wording then sure Just because men treat each other even worse doesn't disproves that they don't treat women like people
Well yes you might do but you can't deny many men think otherwise, idk the number of men without an inflated ego whom also aren't obsessed with n count
It is misogyny for both. Sleeping with men or being submissive to them, traits associated with women are seen as inferior. That is why women doing the opposite, such as sleeping with women or acting more masculine, are not viewed as negatively, they are adopting perceived male behaviors
If you consider it misandry when women are turned off by men who sleep with other men, then half, if not more, of men are misandrist by viewing women who sleep with men as negative
Yeah totally a woman required to save herself for a future man who doesn't care about her and sees women as just a means to an end, whether for his pleasure or to serve him What a lovely deal these women get
It would make more sense and be more believable if these men didn't want their own version of af/bb as an ideal world to them, these women are just them but with opportunity
OK sure but if we’re going back to your original comment, it still doesn’t make sense. These love stories are written around teenage obsession, unbalanced crushes, redemption arcs, and character growth, as part of shōnen-era romantic subplots that are often intentionally messy.
Yeah sure I'll have a list of all things I did and he brings me his to compare, if I have 2 more than him he should do two more hook ups before getting married
No these are official exams but because of the whole situation right now instead of canceling them or giving students optional subjects, they decide on written exams
If we are talking middle east then easily 10s people go crazy over blond and blue eyes there If you mean their native country 8 to 9. I personally think the woman in the instagram reel looks better than Sydney not by a crazy amount tho
He doesn't need to say it directly the phrasing suggests women’s rejection as some kind of inflict of harm or unfair punishment rather than a neutral preference
It very much is entitlement look at how op talks Dismissing a man because he can't make you laugh or put you at ease, relegating him to a lifetime of jerking off, is not a virtue
The post doesn't say that, they want women to start having casual sex with less desirable men, which no one owns them and it's a very unrealistic thing to obsess over You are free to do so but don't make it others problem
So you just proved my point you liked it because it's rare, I'm sure if you were a woman receiving unwanted attention from a man especially growing up you'd have a different opinion, women also like compliments from other women because it's not loaded with intentions
Women and men get different things and have different experiences from relationships, which is why they don't have the same standards, you can't expect women to have men's standards when they don't get the same benefits or experiences as those men
It depends on the group. In my current environment I mostly interact with older people, but I was once called weird by someone my age too so idk, it's just anime and video games, I might have a more obsessive interest tho
Disconnected from my culture and the religion of people around me, and with weird hobbies and interests and a weird personality and I'm also very different from heterosexual women (like my sister and women I interact with in general)
Average gender differences in competitiveness exist in many contexts, but they are substantially influenced by socialization and can shrink or reverse depending on institutional conditions and culture https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167268111002010 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/241891096_Gender_Competitiveness_and_Socialization_at_a_Young_Age_Evidence_From_a_Matrilineal_and_a_Patriarchal_Society
It is still not comparable in terms of intimate trauma, and sexual assault carries forms of stigma and social judgment that are qualitatively different in both intensity and nature Also, sexual assault victims statistically face unusually high levels of disbelief compared to many other crime victims. There’s a cultural tendency to scrutinize their behavior before, during, and after the assault in ways that don’t usually happen with property crimes.
Nowhere near close to that. Are they asking questions about something that traumatised you? Is it questioned in ways that imply moral responsibility or consent?
41% of women are overweight in the US that is alot of women, you can't say you have low standards and removed 41% of your dating options (and that is excluding the single moms and former sex workers part which adds even more)
Was it caused by mixed-gender schooling and early socialization? I never did since out of my 12 years of schooling, about 10 years were in girls-only schools
Feminism only serves to sow chaos and resentment between the sexes. Women have rights by the good grace and empathy of men. Wise words Privilege of talking like this
Yeah that's why there was a post where alot of red/black pill were dancing around the fact they would have wanted to live in afghanistan. You're not some oppressed group on this sub, this a debate sub if they can't handle it they can leave
Even tho they are pampered in their parents home, but fantasising about getting killed is enough justification lmao Ain't none of them fighting in war, they can't even win a reddit debate
Yeah let's remove all accountability and responsibility of the man doing the action, you guys love throwing the word "accountability" around while never owning it
Who even said I'm blue pilled LMAO There's so way you interpreted this way💀 I'm just weirded out with his obsession with casual sex, no shit trump had it, but is trump really the best person to say he had sex with women? Are we sure they were women
My point still stand normal people are using normal ai they don't need to buy an ai girlfriend to have intellectual conversations, and the ones that do buy it already show what men with an girlfriends usually do
Why should I answer? Ai ≠ ai girlfriend there's already a difference between each ai app you think an ai girlfriend is equipped for deep intellectual conversations?
I wouldn't imagine my brother or sister thinking about their past exes this much, especially my brother who adores his current girlfriend, so it's weird to fixate this much on exes Does she even remembers them much
I'm not talking about her specifically idk what she means excatly and I'm not speaking for her I'm talking about men who are fixated on being a first choice that's way too delule even for my conservative religious region
It is so silly how you have western dating experience but still have Purity culture-level delusions, even in the most conservative regions, a husband isn't guaranteed to have been the first guy she was romantic with
what you are referring to is me saying that most men on sugar dating are cheating to have fun, something that you encourage women do and my response was "hey, men do the same in sugar dating"./ When did I encourage it?
But a man is less likely to deal with people who are just collecting body counts or just looking to use them, the few matches he gets can sometimes be more meaningful because women aren't as deceiving about their intent
This is more about men who are still comparing her to her past relationships in their heads, which is different. It is not her fault that her priorities have changed, they are comparing how much effort they have to make compared to her past partners, even though she is now seeking a long-term relationship. It is their insecurities that are making them think this way, especially when the relationship is not casual to begin with
There is this one that says men go on more dates (even tho they have fewer matches than women) https://www.datingnews.com/daters-pulse/the-great-dating-deficit-survey/?utm_source=chatgpt.com And this one that says there is a dating recession for young adults generally https://ifstudies.org/report-brief/state-of-our-unions-2026-the-dating-recession?utm_source=chatgpt.com
No it is recent data Women typically have much higher match rates than men, they receive more messages and options but they’re also more selective about meeting in person. Many women average about 1-3 dates per year while actively dating, some go months without meeting anyone even if they’re using apps while a smaller group of very active daters might go on 10-20 dates in a year, but that’s not typical It's because of safety concerns, overwhelming choices, low-quality interactions and app fatigu…
I can see what you mean it can happen, but I don't think the average woman goes on that many dates, it's around 15 to 25 first dates over a lifetime for the average woman even if those women get the same attention usually of an attractive man
Not seeing him as special doesn't mean not seeing him as human, and yes it is more rare for men but the few who do tend to say alot of dehumanising things about women and the partner they are with compared to the average woman who gets the same attention and is abel to form meaningful and deep relationships
It really doesn’t matter that you would have had sex with him. He is a rapist, sexual violence is primarily driven by power, control, and coercion rather than sexual need or lack of access to consensual sex
And you know who she be less inclined to being radicalised if they were actually logical? Men because no one questions their rights, but I guess having them isn't enough they need to feel powerful and strong
We'll keep going in this circle Women don't have rights-->they protest--> they get rights--> men starts hearing hurtful things from some women-->demand their rights to be taken away-->women don't have rights (if they manage to do so)
I think that because radical feminism put such a high emphasis on degrading men as a whole, and a lot of dei initiatives put biological sex over merit and the general talk about "men bad" a lot of people are swinging hard in the other direction of "no, no equal rights for women. I've seen where that leads". This just proves that anti-feminists are exaggerating when they can say shit like that
Anthropologists have documented societies with more balanced or even matrilineal structures, so patriarchy wasn’t the only viable system it was just a very common one
It's a double standard, no matter how you try to justify it. This is why no one cares about your first comment the red pill wants empathy, yet they still want to have things their way and benefit from the double standards they deem right
I live in a non-Western, poor country, so I know what drives these women to act like this out of desperation. However, that does not reflect on feminism or all women. Just because they claim they are feminists because they believe it will get them what they want, it doesn't mean this is what feminism actually is. It is just like any person of a religion who claims they are religious while doing anything but that
A woman says women shoddy vilify fathers to their children, but does actively vilify mothers A woman who says women who falsely accuse men assault should face consequences, and proceeds to talk about how women are liars A woman says if she stays home and the husband works he should do anything when he gets home, then proceeds to talk about how this is where women belong. Yes like a "I'm not like other girls" type
putting down other women like for wearing makeup or gatekeeping interests, claiming to only have male friends to avoid "drama," and acting subservient or constantly agreeing with men to seem more desirable
Historically, more women in the workforce increased national productivity and GDP, which can actually help dampen inflation by expanding the supply of goods and services-specific cost bubbles. The "inflation" many families feel is often concentrated in specific fixed costs like housing and childcare rather than a general rise in the price of all good Inflation is primarily driven by factors like monetary policy, supply shocks and demand relative to production As more women entered the workforce,…
You are free to do whatever you want, but be mindful of how you raise your daughter if she turns out to have your dominance. Forcing submissiveness on her might not work, my mother tried it with me with religion and it failed because it’s not who I want to be
You can be a feminist in principle, believing in the ideology itself, without joining a group or being anti-feminist especially without fully knowing what the other person actually means.
They are quite similar to red pill, but without the label. You can also watch shows where married women discuss their marital problems, and experts advise them on how to fix the issues and prevent them from recurring, the religious ones
I would say you'd find more people to watch and engage with if you said Christian traditional woman rather than red pill woman, my sister used to watch alot of it growing up (not for Christianity tho)
Both men and women continue to notice and sometimes desire others even in happy relationships. The difference is usually in how that desire is expressed and managed, not whether it exists at all The dynamic you’re describing (women complaining about men following other women) reflects norms around respect, jealousy, and signaling commitment not a fundamental absence of women being attracted to others. Women do experience attraction outside relationships, it’s just often expressed differently or …
I don't think it's new, you find extremes on the internet all the time if you dig enough. Telegram in particular has become a haven for criminal activities You have the right to call them out, but instead, you just made it about generalising women who discourage paying for sex, how would you view women who do the same? making bad stereotypes against men from things you don't even believe in
common across cultures ≠ biologically encoded, It just means it’s a stable cultural solution under certain conditions Humans don’t show a single fixed mating system in the way some species do And those tendencies don’t point specifically to polygyny as a biological trait, They point more generally to flexible mating strategies shaped by environment and social structure Human mating and relationship behavior is highly plastic in both sexes, and economic and social conditions strongly shape what s…
Good date, but she wanted me to initiate her to BDSM and then I realise she's already an expert at a lot of things so now I need to up my game a ton for the next time and probably research ideas for a scene more appropriate with her tastes. Lots of work for the next time and pressure is on. My steak is too juicy my lobster is too buttery ahh conclusion/s
Didn't mean to sound apathetic Someone less privileged than you will want what you have, while you will want what those more privileged than you possess. It is human nature to seek what you have not yet obtained. Regarding our discussion, when we haven't personally experienced something, we naturally assume the best-case scenario and hold a one-dimensional view of it, thinking it would have been better than what we currently have. However, people back then still had complaints sometimes even con…
Mind you in that context a man can go around getting to know other women and dating them while he refuses to let his wife to talk to other men He has a sense of ownership over her, but she does not have the same over him And I live in a place where this is more common these households are only standing on one leg because of the money and nothing else, the wives don't like each other and it creates drama between their children and of course he is too busy finding a 3rd wife over being a present f…
Evolution doesn’t rank systems as “better” in a moral or universal sense. It favors what works in a given context In environments where resources are stable and child-rearing benefits from two parents, monogamy can be advantageous while In environments with strong resource inequality, polygyny can emerge because some males can support multiple families
You'd still have to have enough money to support said family with a much worse economy while being up to your wife's parents expectations and women from conservative religious countries are just as picky in partners as anyone else, wake up from your delusions
That doesn’t automatically mean they are the decisive “majority voters” in every election or that outcomes can be reduced to a simple gender split. It varies by country, election, and year And military decisions are made by governing elites, not directly by voters
Civilizations don’t have a single “sexual norm phase” that predicts rise/fall, sexual norms vary within the same civilization across time and class and they also vary simultaneously between regions and subcultures And civilizations don’t rise because they are sexually strict or sexually free, those rules usually change after a society is already developed, not before
Human societies regulate sexual behavior in many different ways, and these norms vary across cultures and historical periods. Some societies emphasize strict monogamy and sexual restriction, while others are more permissive. These differences are shaped by economic structure, religion, social organization, and local history rather than a simple “tribe vs civilization” divide. Claims that sexual freedom is uniquely tied to societal decline are not supported by anthropological or historical eviden…
repeatedly indulging in risky behaviour is indicative of immaturity and poor judgements. If you just like sex, you can have more of it with a committed partner than you can by sleeping around Same for men
No, they'd rather find a man overseas or wait for a man to get his life together over being a man's 2nd wife; otherwise, you'd have seen much more polygamy in the countries where it exists (excluding low-income ones)
I mean when you know your male friend is doing something to other women you hold him accountable by not accepting and continuing the friendship passively and actually confronting him or when you see for example a female coworker visibly uncomfortable with a man or men at work in general having a sexsist normalised environment either by crude jokes or rape jokes and not laughing along calling them out for their behavior Idk excatly the situation you're talking about but they probably mean if you …
Even within evolutionary theory, humans are not a simple “female-chooses, male-competes” species. Compared to many animals, humans show nutual mate choice (both sexes are selective), long-term pair bonding, social and cultural overlays that strongly influence behavior In fact, research in evolutionary psychology consistently finds that both men and women have preferences and both exercise choice. The degree and criteria may differ on average, but it’s not one-sided
Women always have parental certainty, men never do. Yeah cause no dna tests exists these days at all Also, as women are the sexual selectors and men the sexually selected, “sleeping around” communicates significantly different things about the value of the individuals engaging in such behavior - for a woman it demonstrates that she isn’t very selective, and for a man it demonstrates that he is highly selected. Attraction is mutual selection, not one-sided. People choose from those who are availa…
It's not the fact that men should sleep around it's the fact that they criticise women for doing the same thing If you as a man want to have a traditional marriage as an end goal but all you are doing currently is sleeping around you are being hypocritical If this truly what red pill think men should be like then no wonder they're always complaining
I think it does take practice and having them consistently, you'll naturally start being abel to have control over it In the past, trying to move my body at all after realizing I was dreaming would wake me up immediately. However, after a while, I was able to move and even jump from a window without waking up
No it's actually fun you experience the dream like your playing a story but still get to have your normal thoughts It used to be way messier tho like realisation loop and trying to force myself awake many times, my most common method is jumping from the window but at one point it stopped working
Idk which one but I never intended on having them, used to have ALOT of realization loop, but now it's mostly oh I'm dreaming nice Funnily enough I thought today inside my dream after realising I'm dreaming about asking this question here
The fact some exaggerate so much by saying virgin or traditional women no longer exist, like of course they'd think that they aren't religious and the hook ups/hook up obsession aren't helping much lmao
I just check it again, there's improvement, no complaining about not finding a husband 👏 They complain more about strict parents, relatable honesty lol
I was following for a while a sub reddit dedicated to women from the religion I was born into out of curiosity, the posts are like this 2 complaining about not finding a husband, 1 complaining about seeing the same posts all the time and then 2 about not finding a husband again lmao
I didn't notice you weren't op That is still what most red pillers would want, some would have to be ok with a partner with experience but most would rather a woman with zero experience so there is no comparison between them and past partners
I could say for example that all men are undisciplined and sleep around the moment they get the chance, criticising them all the time while actively engaging in the lifestyle that keeps them in my life This is what red pill always sounds like
Why do they still ask for a traditional virgin woman when the lifestyle they chose will push them away further? (not all red pill but the general idea of discouraging casual sex for women but not for men)
Yeah just watch one documentary and see how these poor women and girls lives especially when it's illegal So them not seeing illegal prostitutes is less because of morality and more because they don't want to face consequences?
The former is a search for holistic compatibility, including intimacy, while the latter is an objectification, where a partner is a tool to fulfill a purpose, ignoring their personhood and emotional needs.
That happens to women too they see the ones that are more attractive with terrible personalities getting the most attention from everyone, it's a human thing not exclusive to men
That isn't what I'm saying either men are against casual sex for all or with it for all, they can't pick and choose. Is that how they'll raise their son too? Telling him to find a woman broken enough that she is fine with being his fun time while controlling their daughter so she doesn't have sex Essentially training their son to disregard the very standards they impose on women, that's fucked up
In term of numbers a few men are the ones doing it with many women So who should be held more accountable for this lifestyle? One woman having casual sex with a few men or one man having casual sex with many many women?
Hiring and promotions are heavily influenced by connections, timing, and access to opportunities. Merit matters, but it’s not the only driver, and often not even the dominant one early on, so why the fixation on DEI?
I am not against either side, regardless of which one people choose, but I refuse to selectively pick which side I agree with for the same act unlike the red pill
For you trying to find people outside dating apps I'd feel is better, there are still people who would be similar to you on them but they aren't as common
Yeah I had that type of thinking too of starting out as friends and getting to know each other more, I'd find it weird when a guy who just met my friend is saying he fell in love with her Do you use dating apps mainly?
women did secretly just wanted unsucessful/redpill men to be normal For teenage boys, I wish they don’t get absorbed into that mindset especially that young
Well I'm not 100% sure since turns out it wasn't an interview she was just showing me around the place I was expecting to get the opportunity since she’s an interior architect and I’m an interior design student. She seemed impressed that I already know how to render using 3ds Max and V-Ray, and said she might consider me if she needs someone to render her projects It’s a kids’ art studio, and I have private teaching experience with kids on my CV, which was a bonus since I thought it's just a cof…
It could be that one sees them as more competent, mature etc - in which case they would look for some form of validation from them. Yeah for me I found them really attractive because of their confidence and maturity
Is the MENA region(minus UAE) as Islamic as shown by media and social media?? My country is divided between Christians and Muslims, it used to have more Christians, but the Muslim population is now growing to be the majority Do you all have women rights ?? Yes although the implementation is deemed insufficien, biggest one they're been fighting for is the right to pass their citizenship to their children Do people there have relationships before marriage or do they follow the haram and halal stuf…
Exactly. Which is why men won't do that. *Which is why most men don't have the mindset that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards women People can care about family members and still support or participate in unequal systems, your comparison is incorrect and exaggerated Op can be against enslavement of women and girls, that doesn't mean he doesn't take their right as something that can be given and taken when it stops benefiting him I'm not mixing them, I pointed out that men …
If men as a whole wanted to treat women like slaves, there's sweet fuck all most women could do about it. That would mean enslaving their own wives, daughters, mothers, and sisters Women were kept safe because men wanted to protect them You are mixing protection with control, limiting their independence like restricting education, work, or legal autonomy isn't protection Women were given the right to vote because men wanted to give it to them Women haven’t just been passive recipients of whateve…
Yes sex exists because it enables reproduction and increases genetic diversity. But humans aren’t just bundles of instincts, we’re shaped by culture, cognition, social systems, and individual variation but don't deny that this isn't toxic, it hows that you never valued the women you were with and what is consensual sex is now to you "using" her Men like that tend of have weird madona-whore complex because they never viewed the women they were with as anything but a means to an end
I do agree with your point but in law, punishment is not based only on the triggering emotion or surface scenario They usually look at premeditation (planned vs impulsive), context of violence history, power dynamics and prior abuse, statistical likelihood of recurring lethal violence in similar situations
I'm not gaslighting you, I'm stating things as they are The law works this way. Premeditated murder vs impulsive killing vs hate crime Those categories don’t imply different human worth,they imply different contexts of harm
The law is written to target a specific pattern (gender-based killings), but like any legal category, its application depends on evidence and interpretation and can vary in quality across courts and countries.
By your definition was I oppressed because of a man who tried Kidnapping me when I was 6? Does that mean all men are oppressors or is it that you find bad people in every group?
