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Yes depends on the city. You can ask "what area are you in" that is totally normal so you can set up date logistics.
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:46 PM
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What city are you in? Where are you asking the women to meet? Seems like a problem with your logistics and how you are setting up the dates.
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:44 PM
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For anyone who does cold approach day game, this method never fails- the Coffee Shop opener. You can use it on anyone, it's super low pressure, and if you get a positive reaction then you can turn it more flirty... The Opener: Hey excuse me... would you happen to know... where there is a good coffee shop around here? From here conversation usually goes one of three ways: Option 1: -Her: Oh umm there's a Starbucks over there.. blah blah -You: Oh nice.. is that your usual spot?....cool do you work…
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:31 PM
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Do you have any game or are all your dates/hookups coming from apps? As a 19 year old you should be socializing and learning to attract women in person. If you can't then that's why they are politely turning you down.
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:12 PM
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You need real life coaching. Nothing you read online will help you self improve at this age. And why are you injecting pt-141 at a wedding lol
/r/seduction26/05/26 02:10 AM
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I'm 38 get plenty of matches 27-37. There are plenty of singles in their 30s. Maybe above 50 it becomes an issue
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:33 PM
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Aaron Alexander is the most practical and also does reasonably priced coaching in the US
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:22 PM
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How so? Doesn't he just mostly push social circle game
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:21 PM
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PM you
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:25 PM
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This is just not true if you have a good profile
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:24 PM
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No offense but that's a profile and pictures problem. I don't have those stats and get plenty of matches in a major US city
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:23 PM
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Approach a lot with good energy, high fives, etc. Get physical early. Get a lot of numbers and try to be in touch throughout day. Try to stick with the receptive sets once it gets dark out and you can do stuff in the crowd..
/r/seduction18/05/26 01:28 PM
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Drinks is the best for dates. You clearly are talking about lack of success recently. That's what I'm referring to lol, are you serious bro
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:21 PM
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Use low pressure openers that wouldn't be "weird" if nothing happens. For example- 1) Hey do you happen to go to [XYZ] gym in [XYZ] area? 2) Hey, do you happen to know where's a good place to get a drink around here? This way you're not being creepy or anything and can approach anywhere. If girl is receptive / friendly then you can follow up with some observation or even joke "actually just wanted to meet you, thought you're cute." etc. If the girl is cold / not receptive then just say thanks an…
/r/seduction14/05/26 01:35 PM
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Women existed before dating apps lol
/r/seduction14/05/26 04:22 AM
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Don't do coffee dates You sound desperate to connect with every date you go out with. That's probably why you're not having success. Date to get to know them, not to win their approval. Dating is always a numbers game. Good news is you get dates so you're not ugly
/r/seduction14/05/26 04:21 AM
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If they have social media, commenting on an IG story can be a casual way. If not, can text something random that reminded you of them in a non romantic way. And see if they want to catch up for a coffee or drink. But as others have said, really don't even. It's not worth it.
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:52 AM
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What's the alternative besides apps then
/r/seduction10/05/26 03:34 AM
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Being needy for sure. Just this week has two girls super into me off the bat from Hinge. They both happen to be in town only for short while and even though they initiated, they ended up flaking. I could only think it's because I was too available and may have come off needy.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:09 PM
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Light touch on the shoulder or leg when telling a joke or something. Don't force it. If the chemistry is there, the touching should feel natural
/r/seduction28/03/26 07:29 PM
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You might need to see a therapist dude
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:06 PM
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Use the horniness as motivation to go talk to girls and try to get laid in real life. If you absolutely must release the tension, just do it without watching porn.
/r/seduction18/03/26 08:35 PM
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Why exactly do you think you are so low value? Is it looks, personality, lack of success in career, etc.? Be as specific as you can as to why you think you have these negative thoughts about yourself? Then you can start to address each one. Some of them may be limiting beliefs completely. Some of them may be things you can improve.
/r/seduction18/03/26 08:33 PM
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Online dating is definitely still the best option these days if you are in your 30s. It's the only way you will get volume. You just need to know how to work it. Plenty of resources for that. As you said you went to all these things and didn't even find single women. You just wasted time.
/r/seduction17/03/26 03:20 AM
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You're right. This does sound a little scripted. If you want, I can turn it into a more natural tone that would sound like OP actually gets bitches.
/r/seduction14/03/26 03:46 PM
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Quit weed immediately. Go to the gym. And get your shit in order. Do this so you can be happy with yourself! Don't worry about the women until for the time being until you are happy with your own path.
/r/seduction23/02/26 02:54 AM
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Bro you're 23 - go to gym, make friends, go out a lot and practice cold approach. You got so much resources out there to figure this out
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:57 PM
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What's your age and what do you do?
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:56 PM
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Pickup in the early 2000s was very different from today. But yes he was below average looking
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:39 PM
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He doesn't teach pickup anymore but he's a legend
/r/seduction21/10/24 05:21 PM
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Yup RSD Tyler is very good looking
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:33 PM
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That doesn't make sense for hot girls since they get hit on 24/7 in person and on social media, so no reason to stay with low value guys. Which is why you rarely see hot girls with low value guys.
/r/seduction20/10/24 05:42 PM
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Ok if you want results though I can give you an honest opinion
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:47 PM
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Agree with the other comment, you probably don't look as good as you think or your pictures suck balls. I'm only 5'10 and get plenty of matches on the apps in NYC. Happy to give you tips if you want DM me
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:01 PM
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Watch lesbian porn to see how they build up foreplay from light touching, to kissing, to fingering and oral. Check out Dorcel network on beeg . com Also suggest a bit of alcohol for direct hookups. Have some wine and chat for a bit to get comfortable. There can't be any sexual chemistry if there isn't comfort first. If you were relaxed though not necessarily your fault, could just be there wasnt chemistry.
/r/seduction25/09/24 06:49 PM
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Lmao classic
/r/seduction25/09/24 06:40 PM
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What dude? You don't need to do anything over text, just make date plans.
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:05 PM
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Yes like the nice guy best friend who they aren't attracted to. You didn't answer my question
/r/seduction20/09/24 09:05 PM
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How are you meeting these girls and getting their number? It's unlikely that the problem is your looks. They either see you as a "nice guy" or gay if they are responding but clarifying that it's not romantic.
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:43 PM
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"no, a lot of guys"
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:19 PM
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weird af if you ask me, but im curious if you get any success with that
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:41 PM
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Just to follow up on this, the #1 mistake guys can do on the apps is come off "creepy". If you have a solid profile, that does 90% of the work. Then you just need to be a little flirty and NORMAL and you'll get better results than talking about kinky activities lol
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:36 PM
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Bro this sounds like written by someone who follows the Playing With Fire stuff. 100% anyone who calls themselves dominant or mentions kinky in their profile or messages gets their profile laughed at by girls and their friends.
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:34 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction04/09/24 04:14 PM
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And what's that got to do with video games lol
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:51 PM
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Dude it's so funny if you go to the Tinder or Bumble subs, 90% of guys asking to rate their profile have horrible photos alone, and hobbies include things like anime and video games. And the responses are like "great profile! no idea why you get no matches!"
/r/seduction04/09/24 12:20 AM
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Video games? Wtf lol. Why would you think women care about that?
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:58 AM
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Literally just say "hey how's it going" next time. You're trying to think of a perfect opener and overcomplicating it.
/r/seduction02/09/24 08:42 PM
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That's not necessarily true lol
/r/seduction22/08/24 12:12 PM
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Good points but damn dude learn how to use some punctuation
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:24 PM
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No, it's a more even playing field now because losers without any social skills can take some nice pictures and get dates. They used to have to approach in person and most guys didn't, and still don't have the balls to approach without a few drinks.
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:23 PM
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Women used to have to go out to meet guys. Now they get so much attention from social media and matches on dating apps. But they are sick of the dating apps in general due to fuckboys and weirdos. So their whole mindset towards guys is fucked. That said, can't do much to change it so just have to adapt.
/r/seduction26/07/24 10:31 PM
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Have you even gotten laid? Based on your questions it doesn't sound like it. Why don't you want a relationship anyway?
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:58 PM
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Haven't done the exact math but can usually get 5-10 matches a week (good ones) across bumble and hinge. Usually pause my profile while I work through leads. 1-2 dates a week. I've been on 15-20 dates this year, including some 2nd dates. And closed 5 of them. Some of these are girls I dated for a couple of weeks so not constantly swiping and going on new dates every week. So decent conversion overall. If you got 90 matches and can't close any then you have to work on your game. Too bad can't pos…
/r/seduction03/07/24 10:04 PM
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There's no magic bullet. Make money, get your own place, hit the gym, continue to be funny, and talk to girls.
/r/seduction26/06/24 08:17 PM
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"I stopped counting after a thousand"
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:49 PM
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Confess your love to her. Jk just hit her up more often but realize this could backfire if you come off needy.
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:06 AM
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Lot of people DM'ing me so here is what I sent them: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1jD5AJrmQqk2gMCYp5uBjC68SHWipVfdO?usp=sharing Here is a whole collection. A lot of these are old school "PUA" ebooks. Not sure your level of success with women, but the ones I would suggest are probably: Mark Manson - Models, both David DeAngelo books, Chase Amante - Make Girls Chase. There's also a few sex eBooks, best ones are 2GTS and Sex God Method
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:50 PM
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I can send you some free PDFs if you want DM me
/r/seduction08/02/24 09:46 PM
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Nice job bro that's commitment. How attractive are these girls? Post some pics with faces blurred out.
/r/seduction02/02/24 02:35 AM
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Dude that is disgusting shit to share with a girl you're trying to bang
/r/seduction30/01/24 09:31 PM
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Lol really?
/r/seduction30/01/24 09:30 PM
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Good concept but this routine is too cheesy. Do you want to go see my roof, balcony, piano, dog, etc. You can say "just don't get any ideas" as a light tease.
/r/seduction30/01/24 04:56 PM
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Women are generally attracted to the same thing. Become more attractive and higher value and you'll attract better women.
/r/seduction28/01/24 04:17 AM
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You shouldn't be getting blown out that hard and obviously to be rejected 10 times in a row. If you are then you're approaching too aggressively or something else weird.
/r/seduction28/01/24 12:21 AM
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IMO it's very easy to find out someone's true colors unless you are socially unaware / can't read cues.
/r/seduction26/01/24 03:13 PM
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You're 32 stop worrying about counting bodies and think of your long term dating goals
/r/seduction14/07/23 03:53 AM
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