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Honest_Inevitable632/r/seduction09/06/22 12:16 PM
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Honest_Inevitable632/r/seduction11/06/22 02:58 AM
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Majority of them I met online and I’m 40 years old
/r/seduction11/06/23 08:14 PM
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I have maybe close to 600 by now. It in fact helped me become happier being single. It depends on what you want and where you are in life tbh
/r/seduction11/06/23 10:10 AM
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I take good care of myself really well
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:58 PM
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Point is you can do something about it
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:20 AM
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Easy and being into you is not the same
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:23 AM
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Whatever she’s doing with her current bf, she will also do it to you
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:22 AM
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Wise words
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:18 PM
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Keep in mind that what she wants for short term and long-term stuff are different
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:42 PM
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Looks are very important at least initially and for casual sex. It’s importance declines if it’s heading towards more serious stuff. I wasn’t born like this bro. All the women I pursued when I was a teenager rejected me. I can pm you my before and after transformation
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:11 PM
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Thanks but I earned it bro. Self-care/ self improvements/ self-investment is the best way to seduce women by making her want you. I’ve been there, done that. I focused on things both physically and internally that I can work on and guess what, the people I attract became a byproduct.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:06 PM
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I’m guessing she’s probably more attractive than the OP but maybe since they clicked through texting prior, she gave him a chance to go out on a date but still ended up getting friendzoned. Most women are the same; if she’s highly attracted to you, she’s likely going to sleep with you that same day even after few minutes of matching online for example hence I’m surprised that people on here take their tinder matches on a date whilst I take them all straight to the bedroom.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:01 PM
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I see your sentiment but going out on a date is pretty much giving him a chance but if he met her attractiveness threshold, she’s more than likely to hookup first before even dating. I personally hookup with all of my tinder matches before I consider taking them out on a date.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:52 PM
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It’s called assortative mating. In the context of hookups, the more attractive you can make yourself to be especially in the looks department, all you have to do is to downgrade (let’s say you’re an 8 therefore, it would be easier for you to sleep with 6-7s)
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:58 AM
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She knows right away. Attraction is instant
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:48 AM
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I hate to say this but you perhaps did not meet her attractiveness threshold. She already said she just see you as a friend so leave it as is. If I were you, if you genuinely like her company as a friend, hang out as a friend with zero expectations. You might as well channel that attention to someone who is equally into you.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:56 AM
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She’s interested viewing people’s stories for entertainment but it’s not necessarily a sign that she’s interested to you
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:52 AM
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This might be risky to take but if you’re interested, ask her if she’s trying to seduce you. Ask. I personally wouldn’t shit where I eat.
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:39 PM
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Her type seems like she just want attention and validation. Ignore her and move on
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:06 PM
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P.S. you don’t just approach a woman and ask if you can be FWB. You hookup then if you can exceed her sexual expectations, it’s up to her to proceed. Women are the gatekeepers of sex always.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:30 AM
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Focus on what you can work on: looks max, fitness max, inner self max
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:14 AM
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Hookup first. Blow her mind in the bedroom. This is how you make her want to keep on seeing you again.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:13 AM
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This is exactly what I’m saying. I was rejected by almost all women I approached during my childhood but I now turned the table upside down now that I’m almost 40
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:59 AM
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Practice mewing and keep your body fat levels low to acquire that angular/ chiseled jawline. Women love that shit
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:07 PM
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Looks max yourself too. It may sound shallow but if you look good, you feel good. It also feels amazing when women flock you, telling you how good looking you are so external validations of your hard earned effort adds up. In my experience, the more I invest in myself, the easier it is for me to woo women honestly.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:14 AM
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Establish a sense of self-security by investing in yourself whether it’s looks, financial freedom, being less needy, learning new skills, etc. You need to establish a great relationship with yourself. Yeah, it’s easier said than done. But once you learn how to do this, you’d gain real confidence Talk to people. Be comfortable with it.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:41 AM
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Do you pursue women far more attractive than you? This takes honest objectiveness in ourselves. You need to meet a woman’s attractiveness threshold for her to consider a man at least. However, women get approached by several attractive men on a daily basis especially in the dating scene.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:39 AM
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Dude, if I were you, I’d tell that to any women you meet lol
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:49 AM
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You should have told her you were a virgin. It’s a plus in this context.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:25 AM
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K bye
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:54 AM
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Lmao. I prolly get laid more than anyone on here. You guys would benefit from me more than I would from here
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:52 AM
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If you don’t play, you don’t win. Put yourself out there. Be good at handling rejections.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:49 PM
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All races actually. I live in LA so competition is tougher but I take it as a challenge to better myself each day. I attract models, actors, doctors, lawyers, creatives, tourists and all women from different walks of life. Most of them love my facial bone structure Yes, some of the girls I hooked up with were more facially attractive than me imo hence I even question my own reality sometimes lol
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:51 PM
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Being skinny and lean are two different things. I’m Filipino, 5’7, been lifting since 2006, visible abs lean, chiseled face, clear skin, good teeth, hairstyle on point, groomed brows, honest and assertive. I stand out easily on dating apps and most sleep with me the same day
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:29 PM
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Because it’s not all about cosmetics nor looks max alone; it’s a part of it. I do very very well on dating apps
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:07 PM
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Instead of jumping from one relationship to another, focus on developing a great relationship with yourself first. Enjoy being single. Invest in yourself physically, emotionally, socially, intellectually, spiritually, sexually, financially, etc. You create real self confidence by having a sense of security in yourself by creating your ideal self and the people you attract becomes a byproduct. This would eliminate the need for validation of others.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:44 PM
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Why choose between being handsomest version of yourself and attractiveness while you can have both. Good pictures are essential but my point is there’s a plethora of things anyone can do to looks max themselves. On tinder, personality is at the bottom of the barrel. You must first get the interview through superior good looks. One key is to have a chiseled face, clear skin, good teeth and a strong brow game. These are all workable
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:41 PM
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If that’s the case then just be honest and upfront to your intention. Good looks and confidence are important but you seal the deal by also being the most assertive one.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:09 PM
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Visible abs lean? Chiseled face lean? The key is creating a facial harmony. Aim for proportion not perfection
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:06 PM
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If you’re on the chubby side, lose body fat levels. This will also indirectly affect your face towards a more chiseled face. Even if you’re a decent looking dude, you need to stand out on dating apps. You get what you put on the table. This applies to looks department I’m not jacked by bodybuilding standards but I lift weights and I maintain low body fat levels which makes me look good naked
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:00 PM
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Improvements are improvements. Can you go to the gym? Yes. Can you diet? Yes. Effort > excuses
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:56 PM
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I strongly disagree. The most basic thing anyone can do is to get fit and lose some body fat. This indirectly reshape the facial appearance. There are plenty of workable parts of the face to increase attractiveness (skin, teeth, hair, eyebrow grooming, etc) so your argument is invalid.
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:52 PM
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Physical attractiveness is both nature and nurture. You have no clue
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:46 PM
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Why does it bother you? If you’re not willing to invest to make yourself better looking version of you then stop
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:44 PM
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You can be better looking than them. Good looks + confidence wins
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:29 PM
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If you look good, it really doesn’t matter whether you’re more feminine looking or masculine looking. The combination of both sexual dimorphism is the best. Make sure you have an angular bottom lower face though. Women drool over this quality
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:56 AM
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I was married for 10 years. Now that I’m single, I can enjoy pretty much everything that I used to do when I was married. The only difference is that I can sleep and be intimate with whoever I want without the drama or any other BS
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:54 AM
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While I’m not disagreeing with you, the probability of her sleeping with you is higher during the spur of the moment
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:34 AM
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Dating/ hookups is supposed to be fun. Don’t let this scene define you as a person.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:30 AM
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Women don’t like insecure men; the fact that she opened up to you, appreciate her honesty. It’s a good sign.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:14 AM
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You can’t change her past. The fact that she’s seeing you at this moment, it means that her attention and attraction is towards you. You can determine the size of a man by the size of the things that bothers him.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:21 AM
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Another example is let’s say in Africa: people who have more extra weight were seen as more attractive because it means that they have access to food. In western society, lean people were perceived as more attractive because of food abundance so people who are lean are rarer
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:13 AM
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The bottomline is we can do some things to bring out our handsomest version using conventional beauty/ handsomeness standard. For example, you cannot change face symmetry but you can diet down to be lean enough to have a chiseled face. It creates an illusion as if you have more symmetrical face. Clear skin is another thing. We can do something about it
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:08 AM
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Why is it not useful? You just don’t know the difference. Attractiveness is subjective whilst handsomeness is objective.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:55 AM
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Why not? Opportunities only come once. Grab it. Even if you don’t get the desired outcome, regrets are mostly about the things we didn’t do more than we did.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:48 AM
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Reading comprehension works
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:39 AM
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I’ve stayed long enough in the dating apps to learn people’s behavior. I’ve hooked up with doctors, actresses, lawyers, and other people from different walks of life and they all have commonalities: they felt lust and they’re not immune to good looks
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:36 AM
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Almost every single person these days have dating apps of some sort. Dating apps offer something real life doesn’t offer: convenience, accessibility and the people on there were actually looking for something
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:34 AM
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But I also look really good for my age because I take care of myself well. Bragging is posting something without advice. My advice is to be your handsomest version which is actually within everyone’s control unless you have a massive deformity.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:33 AM
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In fact, if one is doing very well on the apps, he should do much much better irl since online standards are ridiculously high
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:31 AM
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I’m not whining lmao Attractiveness and handsomeness are completely two different things
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:30 AM
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I’m doing very very well hence I’m ballsy enough to actually post this
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:29 AM
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I’m laying the fact of what to do to sell well on Tinder and other dating apps.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:28 AM
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This. I recall a psychological science study that men in general tend to overestimate their real attractiveness. It kind of makes me cringe that I’ve seen various posts on here regarding mental masturbation why their matches won’t respond, ghosts them, etc. The point is their match found a more handsome option.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:27 AM
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First, you lost it if she’s really interested to you. You should have asked her out in that moment. Or she’s just being nice to a customer.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:22 AM
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I honestly like it. I enjoy meeting and hooking up with different women. Dating apps offer something you can’t have in real life: meeting people from different walks of life and unlimited options to choose from. Men who say dating apps don’t work simply don’t get any matches
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:17 AM
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Bingo. I pretty much summed up most men’s questions here why women don’t respond to them, flakes on them, ghosts them, etc. Good looks is the king.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:15 AM
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To keep it simple: women typically tells me what they find attractive: it’s either my jawline, my smile, my hair and they typically calls me pretty. The key is creating facial harmony.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:13 AM
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I evolved myself; I’m a 39 y/o divorced dude who has been using Tinder and other dating apps for 5 years. I started by being lean and fit then I wasn’t happy with the matches I was getting so I concentrated on what’s on the neck up. My matches did not just quadrupled but the quality also improved. On top of that, the ladies were equally enticed to sleep with asap.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:12 AM
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Exactly my point. And good looks is extremely workable; most men just have no clue what women really find attractive
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:08 AM
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Women in general typically browse the first 3 photos if she thinks you’re attractive. You can have good pictures but good looks is still king when it comes to capturing her attention.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:03 AM
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The point is if you’re really good looking af, they’re not gonna flake nor ghost; in fact, they’re going to be really attentive
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:55 AM
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Be friendly to people. Learning how to talk to people in general extends to dating scene. Once you learn how to do that, it comes off naturally
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:36 AM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about. Now I’m starting to think that you’re either a troll or just plain clueless. Justine Bieber, Channing Tatum, and all other pretty boys in Hollywood are always swoon by women. Their commonality? Being a pretty boy.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:17 AM
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And that’s how that should be anyway. You improve for yourself then the people we attract becomes a byproduct. It has nothing to do with feminine or masculine, it’s beyond our control. Sexual dimorphism (whether your face would look feminine or more masculine) depends on your pubertal hormonal status. Beauty is gender neutral. What makes a face more masculine is keeping body fat levels at bay to have that sharp angular face look
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:11 AM
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The problem with most men on here is you try to help them but they let their ego get in the way. Rather than learning and listening, they get defensive? Why? Because they’re just too lazy and egotistical to learn and apply work.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:06 AM
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It’s not nature if it’s mostly nurture. See my point? Most men don’t understand what beauty is nor what women find physically attractive. Can you create chiseled face look? Yes. Can you fix bad teeth? Yes. Can you do something about bad skin? Yes. Can you change your hairstyle? Yes. Etc, etc, etc.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:04 AM
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Exactly. Whoever said that knows it.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:00 AM
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I worked on it. I wasn’t naturally lean but I got into fitness stuff since 2006. I kept my body fat levels low to create that chiseled face look. Women really love that. How did I know? Women tells me. And I asked all the women I hooked up with why they slept with me. Their response? “You’re hot af.”
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:00 AM
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Where did I say guarantee? I said it would increase the probability by ten fold. Are you trolling? Do you wanna learn something new? Then pay attention Do you have a chiseled face? Clear skin? White teeth? Strong brow game) etc Then get back to me
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:56 AM
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I stand firmly with my stance. Bringing out our most good looking version is within our control to a degree. What do you have to offer? Just by being good looking af. Like I said, you don’t need to date your tinder matches. Just FaceTime them and if she sees that the product she’s getting based on the catalogue (your pictures) is really the product she’s getting (via FaceTime), all you have to do is to be honest that you wanna take her in the bedroom. She’ll likely say yes.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:51 AM
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What did I specifically said that killed my post? Enlighten me. The truth of the matter is most men are lazy to put effort in themselves. Most men have zero clue how to create a more handsome version of themselves
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:46 AM
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Confidence is nothing if you don’t meet her attractiveness threshold. Attraction gets us the interview, honesty and assertiveness seals the deal
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:44 AM
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Ok. You do you
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:43 AM
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Why worry about their game? Focus on yours. Women get attracted to you based on what you have to offer on the table
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:41 AM
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And it sounds you’re salty af You learn by listening
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:37 AM
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That’s the entire point of my post. Be handsome af. This is within our control If your friends get laid often, I doubt that they actually get to sleep with beautiful women. And besides, focus on yourself rather than comparing yourself to other dudes
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:37 AM
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The problem is most men tend to overrate their handsomeness. It means that we (men) tend ti think that we’re more handsome than we actually are. The women we attract is the mirror of how attractive we really are. Assortative mating in the works
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:33 AM
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That’s not biology. Biology is attracting women through health or wealth. There’s no other way around it. Personality only matters due to mere exposure effect (still not the most efficient in hookup scene)
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:33 AM
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Confidence comes from creating our ideal self including our ideal body and face image
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:31 AM
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Who do they get laid with? Do they have money? There are only two kinds of attractiveness: health (good looks) or wealth (money, resources, social status)
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:22 AM
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We as dudes can never control who swipes right back on us but this is a foolproof guarantee to increase the probability of getting more matches and getting lots of interviews or even getting them in the bedroom right away (if that’s your goal)
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:21 AM
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What’s wrong with messaging her first? It’s a good sign that you have balls to actually make a move. Everyone wants to be desired
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:17 AM
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Hot from a woman’s definition means very handsome face and an athletic body (lean and cut) Most men have zero clue what an aesthetic male face looks like (chiseled face, clear skin, strong brow game, straight white teeth, hairstyle on point)
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:15 AM
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My point is she’d equally be enticed ti hop in the bed with you if she sees you hot af Your overall agreeableness increase.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:11 AM
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How she sees us is outside our control but beauty is universal. The key is to maximize our own beauty based on conventional beauty (chiseled face for example could create an illusion as if we have more symmetrical face) then the rest are devil in the details
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:10 AM
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Then you have no idea what you’re talking about. The fastest way to get into her pants (if that’s your goal) is to penetrate her emotions first and that emotion is called lust. Women equally lust and desire like men.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:06 AM
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My point is if she sees you very attractive (in our control), you’d earn her trust easily
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:03 AM
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There’s always room for improvements so be more handsome in the process. In psychological science, it’s called halo effect. Be handsome and be one of the most if not the most handsome amongst her matches. P.S. I live in LA and I compete with models and actors It starts from being the best option, be honest and be assertive
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:02 AM
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This is secondary. The real problem is most men have zero clue what makes a dude “hot” in women’s eyes
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:55 AM
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Not with 5 years of experience I made this thread to help other dudes.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:54 AM
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Halo effect is more powerful. If you look “hot” in her book, this triggers halo effect. She’d see you as more trustworthy, more confident, happy, more intelligent, and all other good stuff. Sure it’s a human bias but it is what it is
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:51 AM
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Before signing up on dating apps, it’s not as easy as just installing the app. Looks max yourself (yes, there’s a shit ton of things we can do to enhance our facial and fitness attractiveness). I’m surprised that too many dudes on here even take hookups for date whilst I just take them all straight to the bedroom. It may sound like I’m using women; actually no. I’m always upfront with my intention and they’re likely going to say yes the same day/ night to sleep with you before even meeting you i…
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:47 AM
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You gotta make her want you first before she even considers swiping right on you. Women say looks don’t matter but it does. Tinder and other dating apps is perhaps 99% looks and 1% bio. It’s best to be one of the handsomest amongst her matches, be witty on your bio and be the most assertive to seal the deal. P.S. This is not act of manipulation. You simply provide what she wants. Dating is selling.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:41 AM
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In plain English, you need to bring out your handsomest version for her to automatically want you. It takes 11 milliseconds to determine sexual attraction hence dating apps (swiping left or right) work
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:36 AM
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Like and want are two different things. Words have meanings. Like is what happens after getting to know each other Want happens doing nothing. It’s an immediate instant emotion (lust for example)
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:29 AM
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If you don’t get to take her home that same night, she’s not that interested
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:47 AM
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Self-improvements is the way to go. Whether you’re approaching women online or irl, one must opt to create their handsomest version from inside out. You may be good looking but the goal is to be one of the most attractive amongst her options.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:27 AM
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Real confidence comes from creating your ideal self.
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:39 AM
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Proper mouth posture is one but the key here is maintaining low body fat levels (I mean visible abs leanness) and for most guys, this is when the face starts to get chiseled. Women really really love this especially if you have a good ratio of jawline: cheekbones: chin
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:16 AM
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They are pickier. It’s just what she’s looking for in a man varies whether she wants a fling or a LTR. For one night stands, you need to be handsome af and 1% personality,
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:49 PM
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I’m just pretty and beauty is gender neutral
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:34 AM
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Just because they can doesn’t mean they would. Women are generally pickier
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:45 AM
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You gotta realize that it’s on you. People have varying opinions and preferences. I was married for 10 years and I only slept with my ex wife. Now that I’m single, I felt more sexually free and I’m enjoying it. At the end of the day, do what makes you happy. Imposing your beliefs to someone else isn’t healthy.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:32 AM
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It depends. I think you’re confusing sex and intimacy but you can always have both. Jus because hookup isn’t your thing doesn’t mean that other people find it enjoyable.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:25 AM
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Haha this is fair
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:48 AM
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Blame evolution. Sex for men is like hunger. As long as there’s honesty, I don’t see anything wrong with this. Women can equally be sexually active.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:59 AM
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You can try playing around with some changes; style, fashion statement, hair color, etc
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:54 AM
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Sex can also be a start of an amazing connection. If it’s mutual and consensual, there’s totally nothing wrong with hookup culture.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:44 AM
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How short? I’m 5’7 and also people of color. DM me a face pic. Perhaps I can suggest something
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:43 AM
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Bro, there’s always room for improvements. Do you have chiseled face? Controllable. Do you have clear skin? Good teeth? Are your eyebrows groomed? Are you lean and cut? How’s your hairstyle? All these things are highly manipulatable. It takes effort but the rewards are super worth it
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:37 AM
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Western women for example are becoming more independent, more ambitious, more career-driven, they make their own money so they DON’T need a man. The only reason why she would choose you is if she WANTS you. The popularity and convenience of dating apps also play a huge role here because she now has so many options to choose from more than ever. Your goal is to be one of the best, if not the option for her.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:34 AM
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Lemme tell you something: women have more access to sex in general because all they have to do is to lower their standards to get laid. Women sleep with who they want whilst men sleep with who they can. Solution: using the formula I mentioned above, increase your overall looks. If you can be an 8 or 9, all you have to do is to lower your standards to 7-8 and they’re still pretty good options.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:32 AM
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You have two options: either settle where you are or increase your overall SMV to have access to more attractive options
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:22 AM
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Dude, you’re assuming that women don’t equally lust and desire like men. They’re also humans. Just because I’m not looking for a relationship doesn’t mean I don’t value connections. These are two different things. No one is being used if it’s both mutual and consensual. Keep that in mind.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:29 AM
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No, women’s standards just have gotten higher and plentier than ever. Solution: be one of her best, if not the best option
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:27 AM
1

And you’re assuming that I’m looking for a relationship. Proud? No. I’ve never taken advantage of anyone because I’m honest and upfront with my intention.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:13 AM
1

Wrong again. She’s more than willing to violate her own rule if she’s highly attracted to an individual.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:06 AM
1

Yes, they will trust me. Look at it this way: if let’s say she’s a 6 or 7, if she comes across with an 8 or 9, she’s likely going to grab the opportunity
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:04 AM
1

Women in general are pickier and can be pickier than men simply because they have a lot more options to choose from. Generally, she’d go for someone who has higher SMV than herself.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:03 AM
0

This post is not about vengeance hence I openly admitted that I felt bad and guilty about it. Ok, you’ve hooked up with plenty and this is my almost everyday lifestyle.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:02 AM
2

One of the key ingredients of being successful on tinder or any dating apps based on my experience is to meet them in person asap. First, if you guys established a rapport of some sort, take advantage of that very moment to meet up. The day after is another day, she’ll get more or even better options. Good looks, connection are great things but assertiveness is another.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:00 AM
1

Yes and no. Everyone appreciates good looks especially when you’re a lot more attractive than her (higher SMV)
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:58 PM
0

Whoever you are, you’re either a feminist troll or someone who has no idea how modern hookups work or you just have an overall negative outlook in life or all of the above
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:55 PM
1

If you meet or exceed her attractiveness threshold, she’ll be happy to sleep with you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:53 PM
1

Just because she said she’s looking for something long-term doesn’t mean she’s not open to the idea of casual stuff. However, when it comes to what female wants for casual stuff, you have to be her best option which typically depicts the most good looking and most assertive option she has and a bit of connection .
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:50 PM
1

“Some,” but never assume. Ask
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:48 PM
1

Too much of anything is a bad thing
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:47 PM
2

Always compliment (make her feel good). This apply to any social setting. Find a common ground/ similar interest(s) to establish a rapport fast then escalate sexual tension.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:45 PM
1

It’s a social stigma that women always all look for relationship. This is especially true in dating apps; it equally liberated women to be sexually free without being slut shamed. Whether we like it or not, we’re all attracted to beauty. Take note that beauty is not the same as attractiveness.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:43 PM
1

It’s called equal dating opportunity
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:30 PM
1

Enjoy the process, make it a lifestyle. The more you focus on bettering yourself, the people we attract becomes a byproduct thus it distracts you away from seeing the glass as half empty.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:11 PM
5

There’s absolutely nothing wrong going on dates even without intention of anything. Dating itself can be fun but you can’t just allow yourself to wallow in misery. However, if you’re using dating to patch the wound, it’s not gonna help. Focus on bettering yourself: get a stable job, get a trade/ skill and allowing yourself to grow would also help you regain your confidence back.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:02 PM
1

Tbh, most people on here would benefit learning from me more than I could get from here.
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:50 PM
1

It’s worth giving people a benefit of the doubt
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:49 PM
1

No. We were chatting on tinder and she kept on saying she’ll be there soon. She called me using a no caller id phone which made it even kind of sketchier but I guess she’s really just protecting her privacy which I respect
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:35 PM
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Yes but in online dating scene, if you don’t get her in bed the same day, she will end up sleeping with someone else the next day. Spur of the moment
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:30 PM
1

It’s called respecting time of other people
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:23 PM
1

Jelly?
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:18 PM
0

I’m not a model; in fact I’m only 5’7 but I aimed to have the conventional model facial aesthetics and I have a very lean/ athletic physique
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:02 PM
1

Because she actually showed up although super late, she was late because she put effort to look good for me and she openly admitted that she’s always late but I didn’t know that since we just matched last night
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:01 PM
0

I normally always FaceTime first but she said she’s too embarrassed to FaceTime so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. But then she kept on saying she’s almost there for 30 mins then I left, reported her on tinder then she called me 10 mins afterwards saying she just got there so I came back because she was real apparently
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:53 PM
1

Any dating apps pretty much work all the same but Tinder happens to be the most popular. I worked on my overall aesthetics yes, I sell very well
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:47 PM
4

She found someone else more attractive. Women’s moods change everyday
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:41 PM
2

If you look good, you automatically have a better personality and funnier than you actually are. Halo effect is real
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:39 PM
1

Become your handsomest version (yeah, we can do something about improving overall facial aesthetics sans the knife nor surgical procedures), be in shape (lean, athletic) as looks gets us the interview, learn true confidence by creating your ideal self, be honest and assertive
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:37 PM
1

Yeah so incels like you can read it since you get entertainment from it
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:32 PM
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It’s called valuing and respecting time
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:30 PM
-25

The best seduction there is, is to make her want you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:27 PM
2

Although high quality pictures are important because this is your catalogue to sell yourself initially, it could backfire as if one is trying so hard especially if the outfits you have really don’t depict your everyday life. Having good pictures are good to stand out but you can equally get good photos using a phone camera using proper lighting and angle Good pictures, chiseled jaw, clear skin, good smile and strong hair game typically gets me lots of interviews
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:08 PM
-4

It’s called valuing your time
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:00 PM
-3

Why not? All it takes is mutual attraction and 1% connection then game on
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:57 PM
0

She showed up, apologized and put some effort in herself to look good I also apologized and has been honest that I unmatched her when she called me asking where I was. She also told me she’s always late in everything but I didn’t know that I’ve been on Tinder for 4-5 years, and I’ve never been catfished.
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:44 PM
-51

I know what you mean but this was a super random hookup that happened at 330 in the morning and she has to wake up at 7 am. I appreciate her effort that’s why I felt so bad
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:50 PM
-26

I smashed but I lost contact of her but she knows my number so
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:21 PM
3

Not necessarily. If you want more attractive women, focus on creating a more attractive you. There’s always room for improvements. Assortative mating always rule in dating; we attract people who share similar levels of attractiveness like ours
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:11 AM
2

You’re perhaps attractive but you’re probably pursuing women who are more attractive than you
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:04 AM
2

This is the only thing we can control. The formula is keep on investing yourself especially physical attractiveness. This is something we can do something about
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:39 AM
2

Thank you. I put a lot of effort in myself. I like beautiful women so I hold the same standard in myself.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:40 AM
1

Be honest. Be vulnerable
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:52 AM
3

https://tinder.com/@jeanpaulo82
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:50 AM
1

Is this for me?
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:49 AM
0

I’m a walking proof of what I’m taking about fyi. I’m a pretty boy and I sell very very well on dating apps.
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:17 AM
1

Dude, take that beard off and you will see that he’s a pretty boy as well. I wasn’t talking about absolutism. It’s well documented research. Since the burden of proof is mine, look up “Johnny Depp effect.”
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:16 AM
2

Not really. If she’s highly attracted to you, weed just amplifies the current sensation. I seal the deal when I FaceTime them.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:02 PM
3

Using Hollywood as an example. Most men believe that manly man is what women want. Think of Jason Statham, The Rock, John Cena, etc. These men all have manly facial dimorphism yet the hottest guys in Hollywood (Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Henry Cavill, Channing Tatum, etc) were all pretty boys. What determines sexual dimorphism is your sex hormones during puberty. Solution: optimize what you got
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:52 PM
2

Archetype is pretty much nonsense irl. Women see a guy whether he’s attractive or not. It’s well documented in psychological science that women prefer androgynous faces due to “lazy brain.”
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:48 PM
3

I’m super active in hookup culture ( Tinder and Bumble specifically) and I rarely drink. I match, chat with them a bit, FaceTime then I either come over to her place or she comes to mine. The most we do is smoke a bit of weed before we fuck.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:31 PM
3

Aiming for overall facial harmony. Naturally, women are more attracted to androgynous faces by default (think of pretty boys). It means a combination of masculine and feminine facial features. It can be achieved through building conventional signs of attractiveness (chiseled jawline, clear skin) then the devil is in the details
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:42 PM
57

Maybe he’s more good looking than you think he is. Most men have no clue what women go for when it comes to looks
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:21 PM
1

I’m sorry to hear that but perhaps she just came across with someone whom she finds more attractive and more assertive. Women always have plenty of options so your role is to be one of the best if not her best option.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:17 PM
1

Yes. She first assess your looks then confidence/ sense of self-security.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:01 PM
3

If she wants you, she’d let you know by stealing glance at you, holds eye contact or skip the guessing game and ask her out. Nice guys don’t finish last; weak and boring men do.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:55 PM
1

Because the more attractive a woman is, the more options she has. So being surrounded by equally good looking men is just quite normal for her. You gotta stand out. Assortative mating is real. We tend to attract people with similar level of attractiveness like us.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:49 PM
1

98% good looks, 2% charisma
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:47 PM
1

Friends with benefits happen organically after a hookup that clicked well.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:44 PM
2

Blow her mind in the bedroom and establish connection outside the sheets
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:40 PM
1

Read “halo effect.” If you are really as good looking as you think you are, you’ll notice that people are generally nicer to you, approach you more often, compliments you, etc.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:39 PM
2

Rather than playing the victim mentality, focus on creating your handsomest and most attractive version.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:25 PM
3

Social skills would definitely help but you must meet her attractiveness threshold first to get noticed. Attraction gets us the interview whilst personality gets us the job.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:24 PM
1

Focus on improving yourself and the people we attract becomes a byproduct
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:23 PM
3

Does it make you look cool? Maybe, to fellow smokers. Does it make you more attractive? Not necessarily especially in the long run. It ages you faster and it makes your teeth yellow plus the cigarette smell can be a turn off.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:05 AM
2

She’s just lonely and vulnerable. Many women keep “guy friends” as backups.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:22 AM
1

The hotter you are, the more a man is willing to pursue you towards more serious relationship. This is just how biology designed us men. This is why you’ll see many average looking men with hotter women. It doesn’t comply to assortative mating but these guys compensate elsewhere.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:15 AM
2

She didn’t feel that you were a great fit. Move on to the next
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:35 AM
2

You need to reach her attractiveness threshold. Women either sexzoned or friendzoned someone based on our attractiveness level
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:02 AM
1

Be older and be good looking af
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:06 AM
1

Money can buy sex but not necessarily lust.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:36 AM
1

You get what you put on the table. Assortative mating
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:21 PM
2

Women always have plenty of options, always; the key is to be one of the best if not the best option
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:03 PM
1

We as humans tend to want someone/ something we can’t have. Don’t put your eggs in one basket.
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:38 PM
3

I’m 5’7, Asian, live in LA, not super muscular but I’m lean and fit, take care of my skin, I have a chiseled face, brow game are on point and I sell well even during covid
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:10 AM
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I’m not here to seek validation from my response. I’ve been active on both bumble and tinder for the last 5 years and I evolved myself especially in the looks department. It never cease to fail
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:59 AM
1

No. You just need to step up the looks department game
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:28 AM
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