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You could also consider "I want sex, he wants fries." It's about men having testosterone problems.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/19 07:35 AM
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If you are a shrill harpy who gets fat, yes, expect him to lose attraction to you. If you work on being sweet, kind, yet assertive, while maintaining your health... Things will be fine.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/19 07:33 AM
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Funny you say that. My husband started looking for a wife because he wanted to get a woman pregnant. In his words "what's the point of sex if you can't knock her up?" ​ And yes, I have a large family, I wanted one. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/18 08:57 PM
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First off, quit the porn. ​ Second, get some books on role-playing out some scenarios. ​ Third, have him read Sex God Method. It's the most RP sex book you can find. I'm posting a link to the PDF because the book goes for $750 on amazon. ​ https://www.scribd.com/document/317641132/Sex-God-Method-2nd-Edition-pdf
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/18 03:42 PM
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RP Men are often realistic, it's the whole point of being RP. IF you're 17, then yes, being a virgin is probably expected. If you're 27 and have had an LTR or two, then probably not. ​ It certainly is a valuable thing. I slept with my husband before marriage. It actually ended up upsetting him more than me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/18 03:40 PM
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Thanks for the link!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 02:47 AM
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Oh of course, I can believe that historically. The data I"ve seen actually is worse then that, the farther back we go in time, the fewer men we are descended from. 5000 years ago we're descended from something like 13 women per 1 man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 04:59 PM
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Do you have a cite on that statistic? I'd heard there was a difference, but nothing near that severe.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 09:29 PM
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Others can clarify here, but the people I know who got into medical school did it in 5 years and with a Biology Major and maybe a Chemistry minor. I'm aware there are required classes, but 8 Years full time for a bachelors degree?! Anyway, what does have a major in, and how many? Has he at least graduated? This greatly affects his employment prospects and the advice we can give you. I do hear you on time studying. My husband did his Masters part time and the classwork took him 2.5 years to compl…
/r/RedPillWives30/07/18 03:30 AM
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You have to practice something called "self forgiveness." Seriously, google it so you can move on. If you turn off the tap to your BF now because of your guilt... Expect to be dumped, or for him to get a serious porn addiction.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 08:17 PM
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I suggest both of you go to Athol Kay, a Red Pill marriage coach. He's the author of the famous "Married Man's Sex Life Primer." http://atholkay.com/2-coaching/ If nothing else, pick through some of his videos on his youtube channel that would be applicable. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOM7soH3_cDJ5XWd4S1ni4g/videos In particular, the videos "why the red pill is partially right" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NEVK2mQlI0&t=4s Should hopefully help open your husband's eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 06:55 PM
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How does that make you more loyal? Honest question.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 02:04 AM
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Please give us an update to this. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 02:00 AM
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Are you capable of swing or ballroom dancing? Unfortunately the ratio is usually skewed to be more women than men... But the men LITERALLY have to learn how to lead. I'm not saying this is the best place, just *a* place to start.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 11:18 PM
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Have you tried to bring this up in conversation at all? Just how cognizant is he of this issue? One way to find out about this is to bring it up with his mother. I suspect she may have some useful insights. I had to do this with my husband when we first got married. He showered frequently, but just STUNK constantly. I finally broke down and talk to my MIL about this. Apparently HIS father has the same problem. I found out the solution was showering EVERY day without exception and always applying…
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 01:19 AM
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How are you finding the men you're dating? I'm curious how you're screening them in the first place.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 01:14 AM
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His n count minus one. :P, minimum 0.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 01:08 AM
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You are very welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 03:31 PM
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Absolutely. It's an impediment that has to be made up for.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 12:21 AM
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Honey, think hard about what kind of women men are looking for at bars and tinder. They are looking for SLUTS to FUCK. If you don't want to be a piece of meat to them, you have to go to new activities. Actual, NON drinking activities. Have you considered ballroom dance lessons? Swing dancing?
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 09:46 PM
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Many older feminists remember the bad old days when things WERE bad. When women did get paid $2 hour for the same job with the same title, a man got paid $4/hour for. They remember when at 16 all the perverts popped out of the woodwork to deflower you, and God forbid you let one! When getting married and that ring on your finger meant protection and social status. When you had to go with your husband to the bank to get a savings account opened. When girls were told they stupid. Back when men fel…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 09:26 PM
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My husband changed like night and day after reading that book. I highly, highly recommend it. All you have to say is "for me, please consider reading this book. The title is cheesy, but the content is gold."
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 03:46 AM
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IT's honestly not a spam comment. It's a FANTASTIC book and I've been wondering about writing a field report for it. I think it should be on the list of recommended books on all red pill subs including this one.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 03:44 AM
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Honestly I've thought about doing a "field report" on Sex God method because my husband changed SO much after reading it. But I haven't read it myself, so I wonder if that would be disingenuous? As for getting it for him, tell him it is considered to be THE BEST BOOK on men having sex with women ever written. My husband read about 5 to 10 books on getting better at sex, nothing really changed that much until this one.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 03:41 AM
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Honestly, the horrifying answer is NO because I have looked for me!! And I can't find much good stuff out there frankly. Most books just assume if he's getting sex then it must be awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/18 03:40 AM
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It sounds like you've identified a big problem on his part: He was a lot more active in sports, and more energetic and wanting to do things with you. He lost 30 pounds!!! holy crap! That's a different man. He's playing computer games way too much. A way to frame this is: "Darling. I think I've put my finger on the issues with why I don't want sex, I'm not quite as attracted to you as I used to be. Here's what I'd like to see improved: More activity, more getting out of the house, and 1 hour of c…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:39 PM
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He needs to read Sex God Method. I harp on this book all the time,but it is the best book out there for the majority of men. https://www.dropbox.com/s/ghqyx3c8t6bq69b/SGM.pdf?dl=0 It sounds like you need more comfort and soft time with him, which you need to be upfront about your needs. And, when he does meet your emotional needs, for heaven's sake, TELL HIM. Reward him, thank him, appreciate him when he does. Otherwise he just hears that whatever he does isn't enough, and when he does try you d…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:35 PM
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Great article!
/r/RedPillWives07/06/18 03:33 PM
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It sounds like while he wants lots of sex, he is not necessarily that GOOD at sex. Maybe ask him to read Sex God Method? It works wonders. https://www.dropbox.com/s/ghqyx3c8t6bq69b/SGM.pdf?dl=0
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:31 PM
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I agree with this. Start asking him to buy groceries for the meals you cook for him. Does he know you're cutting coupons? Does he know you're out of a job? You can be honest "I don't want to treat you like an ATM, but I'm really broke. Can we renegotiate how we do our dates so they're less expensive?" A decent guy will appreciate you being honest with him, and that you're trying to figure out how to cut your costs (and his) without asking him for money and handouts.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:30 PM
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Good for you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 03:23 PM
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He's not alone feeling that way, and that's the sad part.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 04:09 AM
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Actually it's been noted in literature. I saw a research paper verifying this assumption. Sorry that I don't have a link, it was a long time ago.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 04:09 AM
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It sounds like what you need is him to be more assertive and dominating. My husband finally said to me one day: "I finally get it now. Men have a strong physical reaction to looking at a woman in a bikini. Women have a strong physical reaction to male assertiveness/leadership/dominance." I just about smacked him and said, "DUH! Took you this long?" My recommendation is, as others have said, keep him away from the nasty redpill groups on the internet. Ugh. Much as I'm glad ***now*** that my husba…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 04:07 AM
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I asked my husband about that quote and he vehemently agreed. "Nothing I could do is ever enough for the sin of being male."
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 03:55 AM
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Many excellent replies here. Why not just by some lingerie and new sex toys? Way less threatening to your marriage. Maybe ask what kind of sexual present he'd like, and plan accordingly?
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 03:37 AM
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It's okay. You need to remove the texting speak and acronyms because some people like me had a hard time reading it. I do want you to come back and post more, because it sounds like you need more help! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 03:29 AM
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First off sweety, if you want some help, please write out your posts in more detail and better english, it will make people feel more inclined to help you out. Second, you say you're sweet, then say you're a bit. I can imagine you might be giving a lot of Hot/Cold moments where he's not sure how much you like him? Here are some different ideas: Words of affirmation: "I really like it when you did X for me..." (X is whatever he did that you liked. Seriously, if he does something you like let him …
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/18 03:31 AM
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Not all men can handle dating an extremely attractive woman. I once read a fascinating article that described the narrative of a "normal" man dating very beautiful woman. The story was quite depressing, because it ends with the man destroyed. The gist was that most men are unaware of just how relentless other men's interest is. They are distinctly not conscious of it. Unless they're confident, they can't handle it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 03:43 AM
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Continue to treat him wonderfully, and that will make all the difference. Be kind, honest, faithful and loyal. Continue to support his dreams and ambitions. He knows he has options. But he gets to say to himself: "My fiance is nicer to me than that woman." "My fiance takes better care of herself than this hussy throwing herself at me." And most of all, he'll look at some women and think, "She reminds of the girls who rejected me when I was younger. I'm so grateful u/SchemingInBathrobes took a ch…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 03:04 AM
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Great post.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 02:56 AM
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It's a big problem in the region I live in. Many of my friends assume their man is dumb because they don't understand him. These are men that make 100k per year... By definition in the upper 10-20% of incomes in the area. They can't be as dumb as their wives backbite about them.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 02:54 AM
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Good examples, but I can still see them destroying an already insecure man. That said, you're picky enough in the first place... That maybe it works. Maybe.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 02:48 AM
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How wonderful! Please let me know how it goes. I really hope your journey towards self improvement nets you a great guy in the end. :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 03:41 AM
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Oh honey, my heart hurts listening to your story! My husband used Athol Kay some years ago to great success. He's the one who wrote the famous "Married Man's Sex Life" , the red pill book for men. You can go to his youtube videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOM7soH3_cDJ5XWd4S1ni4g They are full of fascinating insights. He's the only Red Pill life coach I'm aware of. While his typical client is a married man, he does have female clients and helps them out. He's less expensive than a therapi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 03:55 AM
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Have you thought of something like self authoring to really reflect on what's gone wrong? https://selfauthoring.com/ Or have you considered a life coach? like Athol Kay? atholkay.com If you keep having failed relationships, I understand you that something seems to be going wrong for you, and how hard it must be to deal with that, when it may not be obvious why. I still recommend trying nun-mode and a lot of self reflection before trying a relationships again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 04:05 AM
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Honey, you need to define yourself by something other than the men you date and attract. What are you doing for social & community activities? You need to fill that void with activity, with just regular normal people with no romantic strings attached. Take a break from dating apps etc. Get off the internet. Get out of your place, go for runs, to the pool or the gym. Get lots of sunlight. And for heaven's sake, DELETE HIS PHONE NUMBER. Delete him off your facebook and whatever other social media …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/18 09:26 PM
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LOL!!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 10:28 PM
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This!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 09:26 PM
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2 to 4 times a DAY?! His pecker must be sore! When my hubby and I first got married we were like that at first and it tapered down over time. Even men have emotional needs, which it sounds like he wants those met!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 09:25 PM
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Honey, how long have you really known this guy? Do you have a ring on your finger? Sounds like you need to wait a bit longer. "Giving" it to him isn't going to make you any more high value to him than what you've already shown. Edit: Where did you get the goofy idea you need to sleep with man #2 to impress man #1? Please don't do that!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 06:51 PM
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Very welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 05:19 AM
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Sometimes the best thing to say after he's had a really bad day is "I believe in you." This was you acknowledge that he didn't do well, but you hope and know he can do better. I didn't believe the power of those words, but the first time I tried saying that to my husband a year ago... He got all teary eyed, because the words were what he needed to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 02:42 AM
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Also, hate to be a negative nelly, but hmmm. Sometimes I've seen men in these positions get anxious. And then their productivity tanks and they play World of Warcraft (or some other video game) all day, getting more anxious. And then they have big melt downs and shit really hits the fan. Also be really careful how much pressure you put on him about providing and money. Some rare men are fine with tons and pressure and just never stop working. Most have a breaking point and bad habits (porn) can …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 03:59 AM
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It depends on the man. My hubby got "baby-rabies" as he calls it at 21. He wanted to be responsible not leave a trail of abortions in his wake, and so got into marriage mode immediately and starting wife hunting. Note these are his words, not mine. Edit: We met a year after this realization of his and got married within six months. I was 21, he was (almost) 23 when we tied the knot.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 03:41 AM
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Actually, most men can handle directness. It's the pussyfooting, beating around the bush, taking forever to get to the point, wandering along the long path that drives them to a WATERFALL. But he thought you were talking about a bush? ;) "Hi. I really like you. I want to date you exclusively and I'm not putting up with side bitches. That cool?"
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 03:36 AM
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Absolutely bring it up.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 08:30 PM
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It sounds like you have a really strong "nesting" urge and want to get a man and start a family... It's not exactly "babie rabies" that you're describing. What I think your short term goal could be is to get more aggressive in finding a man to marry. And be upfront that you want to quit and be a stay at home mom.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:03 PM
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To follow up with my post on the Sex God Method, here is a free pdf. The book is out of print and goes for hundreds of dollars on amazon. https://www.scribd.com/document/317641132/Sex-God-Method-2nd-Edition-pdf
/r/RedPillWives29/12/17 07:12 PM
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Honey this sounds like such a stressful thing to deal with. Looking through your other reddit comments, it looks like you've had some ups and downs in the past with him. It doesn't sound like he's being the captain. Is he using Athol Kay's Married Man's Sex Life as his primary guide? That book got my husband sorted out on a better path. Another book, if he desires a better sexual relationship, is to read "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose.
/r/RedPillWives27/12/17 04:43 AM
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This sounds like a really harrowing thing to go through. Have you done your due diligence ot make sure that it isn't still happening? "Trickle Truthing" is a recognized problem for cheaters. Part of the suspicion you're seeing here is because it is uncommon for them to confess to 100% of their activities.
/r/RedPillWives09/12/17 06:49 PM
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Is his behavior towards you changing at all? It sound like you're trying to be aware and better, which is great. Does he put pressure on you to be normal? Or is it a relative? Or the kinds of TV shows you watch?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 06:44 PM
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How do you make it up to him later?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 04:14 AM
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How does your BF feel about your depressive moods? Do you take things out on him when you feel bad?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 04:12 AM
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I think you need to move on. There are lots of young men who want to get married, you just need to find them. My now husband described how at 20 he had young women laugh in his face when he said he just wanted to settle down. He married me when he was 22 and I was 24. In terms of getting the affection you want, have you considered reading Laura Doyle's book for single women?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 03:55 AM
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Honey it sounds like you need to pick up a social hobby, or volunteering. What kind of friend/social circle do you have?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 06:29 PM
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Have you asked him to read something like Athol Kay's married man's Sex Life Primer? Or What Women Want When They Test Men" by Bruce Bryans? As a 3rd suggestion, My husband read a book this summer called "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose, and OH MY GOD our sex life went from so-so to mind blowing orgasms. It sounds like he is not romancing and seducing you enough to day to day. He sounds very sweet, but not the kind of guy who fucks you until you like it. (And no, I have not been raped! Just kinky…
/r/RedPillWives05/12/17 04:50 AM
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