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If he doesn't give you the foreplay you want, you don't give him the penetration that he wants. Believe me, that will make him stop shrugging it off! Sex should be mutual. Never give a man what he wants unless he gives you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:29 AM
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My impression is they're trying to move everything to the website and Discord, unless it's podcast-related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/22 03:36 PM
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I do, too, but check out the Discord. There's a link to it in the sidebar. There's a lot of great discussion there. Some of the channels require people to submit a selfie to get verified to use. I'm too paranoid to send a selfie to anyone, but many of the channels are available without verification and there's a lot of fun discussion there. Also, the FDS website (address in the sidebar) has some good stuff on it. As many people have commented, it's kind of clunky, but it's not a bad substitute f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/22 03:35 PM
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A big CONGRATS on achieving such a wonderful lifestyle. I've found boat shows and resorts to be a great place to meet men who've been successful enough to afford a boat. Vetting is still important, though. I've met men who spent every last extra penny they had on their boat. They weren't doing proper long-range financial planning and didn't have enough left over to take me on the kind of dates I expected. (Boat rides and waterskiing are fun, but there's more to life than just that!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 10:46 PM
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hand enough to cover my order to the staff You're far too kind. I just leave. His covering the bill is your compensation for the time and money you spent getting ready for the date. LVM's deserve no consideration, financial or otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:42 PM
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they should choose a meal within their budget Absolutely not. They should choose a restaurant where we can eat the food we deserve in the atmosphere we deserve. If one guy won't, it's not hard to find plenty who will. A man's budget isn't my concern. I'm not going to waste my time on a loser who doesn't have what it takes to meet my expectations. None of us should. Besides, you can pretty sure that the same guy who can't afford a decent date has plenty of money to spend on porn, cam girls, OnlyF…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:17 AM
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I’ve got men I’ve never physically met yet delivering meals to my house You're good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:45 AM
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some words of encouragement would really help Encouragement: Handling this guy so well will increase your confidence. You'll project that increased confidence (even if you feel despondent). HVM's want a confident woman who handles difficulty well. The confidence you radiate will drastically increase how attractive you are to the men you want to attract! (I totally ❤️ the idea of keeping date places within walking distance so resources aren't wasted on commuting. I'm gonna remember that one!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:00 AM
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YES!! I didn't want to get into an argument with the <5' replier in that other post since I was already pretty heavily downvoted. I wanted to acknowledge her concern in case she saw my comment here. You are absolutely right, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:14 PM
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That even beats a black belt 😂! EDIT: I was thinking about this after I posted it. I actually have a concealed carry permit, but unarmed self-defense is still important. Consider the situation in this case: She'd have to get the gun out of her purse and disengage the safety while the old man had her pinned. It was a crowded setting and she'd be jostled by him and the crowd, so it would have been easy to lose control of the weapon. If the sight of the gun didn't scare him away, it would have been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:40 PM
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our male friend who's a black belt in taekwondo We all need to get our own black belt. I posted something like that a while back and got massively downvoted. Someone said her height was under 5" so she'd never be able to hold her own in fight. I'll admit that even the most skilled woman of that height might have a problem with a 6'+ linebacker-type guy. In the vast majority of cases, though, I still say a woman who knows the proper techniques can put the vast majority of men in their place. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:05 PM
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I'm going to make a guess that one reason you didn't have time to date is that your kids were your top priority when you allocated your time. I think a lot of these pick me mothers don't have the time they should for the kids because they're spending too much of it looking for a worthless man to replace the worthless father in their love life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:00 AM
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YES!! Girls who allege abuse against a man should ALWAYS, unconditionally be responded to on the assumption that the allegations are true. Of everything I've read on here, this one got to me more than anything. I'd take a bullet without having to think about it to protect my younger sister. To take advantage of that instinct in such a viciously cruel way is so utterly monstrous and hideous I don't even know what words to use to describe it. A man like that should be castrated, beaten to death an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:46 AM
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Can you cultivate a "family of friends?" A non-sexual, non-familial embrace from a friend makes me feel wonderfully supported. If holidays make you feel especially lonely, I'm going to repeat my suggestion about volunteering, especially with Christmas coming up. There's a wonderful camaraderie that develops among holiday volunteers at places like shelters and hospitals. I've struggled a lot myself with feelings of social isolation so your posts really strike a chord with me. I hope you find your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:13 PM
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I can’t help but feel lonely since i chose solitude Choosing solitude and feeling lonely are different and choosing solitude doesn’t have to mean feeling lonely. Solitude is the state of being alone. It’s emotionally neutral. It just means there’s nobody with you. Feeling lonely is how you’re reacting to having nobody with you. It means you’re perceiving not having somebody with you in a way that’s producing negative feelings. You can alter your perception. I’ve spent several Thanksgivings and C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:34 AM
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Glad it helped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:19 PM
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Don’t get suicidal, get strong. Start doing some martial arts and get real good at it. I find I’m a lot less concerned about being raped since I left a guy who tried to assault me with some broken bones and crushed balls. The value we get at puberty and lose when our bodies age is the value men assign us, not our true value. I know a woman who’s a senior executive at a huge corporation. She no longer has the value of a hot body, but she doesn’t need it. No man is going to control her. She can cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:42 AM
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I posted this up above, but I think it's relevant here, too: Women should have high expectations for how generously the men in their lives treat them. “Gold digger” is a term society came up with to shame women out of setting those expectations. Let’s reclaim the term in a way that meets our needs. If a guy calls you a gold digger, come back with something like this: “Damn right I am, baby. Nothing wrong with a woman having high standards. Besides, I don’t have to dig for gold. Plenty of men are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 08:19 AM
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Gold digger is a term to shame and control women. I’m actually trying to embrace it with pride. If a guy accuses me of being a gold digger, I like to come back with something like, “Nothing wrong with a woman having high standards, baby. Besides, I don’t have to dig for gold. Plenty of men are eager to treat me as nicely as I deserve.” That usually makes him go away or up his game, either of which are fine with me. Take him to the cleaners…don't give a fuck because…it's his investment that went …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:31 AM
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It's very important to remember that Britney was able to get out from under the guardianship only because of her fame. There are many thousands of people trapped in unneeded guardianships without the kind of resources she was able to use to break free. Guardianship reform is desperately needed in the US. Don't just move on from this issue now that Britney is free. Keep some pressure on your state legislators for real guardianship reform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:59 AM
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YES!!! I've never understood why it's perfectly acceptable for a man to like big breasts but not for a woman to like big wallets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:53 AM
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Like you, I also was trapped in a non-materialistic view of men and dating for a long time. Women should have high expectations for how generously the men in their lives treat them. “Gold digger” is a term society came up with to shame women out of setting those expectations. I grew up in a very traditional small town where women were discouraged from expecting much of anything. When a job offer took to me to a huge metro area with a lot of super high-wealth men, I was amazed to see women whose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:25 AM
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This is why women should always choose well-paid careers (blue collar or white, anything from plumbing to law, etc., etc.) and insist on being paid the same as the men in those fields. As long as we're underpaid, men will always be able to control us. The ever-rising costs of housing, healthcare and education all increase the power of the financial weapon the Patriarchy has always used to disempower us. Men's all-consuming desire for us should be a crippling male weakness, but we need to be fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:53 PM
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This is why a woman should never feel bad when a man calls her a gold digger! This poor, deluded woman actually sounds apologetic for wondering if the situation is unfair to her. She needs to do a lot more than just leave. She needs to get a solid plan in place to move in with friends or family. Once that’s ready, she needs to tell this clod, “I supported you when you needed it. Now, we’re really going 50/50, figured over the length of our relationship. At my level of education, I can only make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:02 PM
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Good idea! Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:41 PM
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Also don’t call literal children Pickmes or Pickmes in Training. They are way too young to understand what they are even doing. That's a really good point. I should have realized that. Also, I'll go ahead and report the page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:48 AM
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It's kind of similar to the way Seeking Arrangement avoids the prostitution laws. If the ad said, "You can live here rent-free in exchange for having sex with me," that's prostitution. There's nothing illegal, though, about letting a woman live rent-free in exchange for being a sort of sexy decorative item around the apartment. And what does "exploring our naughty fantasies" really mean? Maybe it means having sex. On the other hand, he said he likes to be teased, so maybe it just means getting h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:37 AM
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I just don't think there are any grounds to report. I mean she posted some sexy pix. So many girls her age do that these days, what action will Facebook take? She didn't solicit sex or money and her male friends were all smart enough not to post anything other than things like "exquisitely sensuous." I mean it's totally disgusting, but it's become normalized. sad as that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:31 AM
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Ya always gotta be thinking about how to turn the tables on scrotes like this. I ❤️ to take a guy who's as smug and sure of himself as this guy and take him down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:07 AM
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Wow. I didn't think of going that far. You have a wonderfully evil mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:56 AM
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You know, I actually wondered about that. It would be the perfect set-up for a sting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:51 AM
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It's not just Dallas or Toronto. High housing prices and high tuition costs are everywhere now, They're really just more tools of the patriarchal domination women have been facing forever. They've become a major driver of some women feeling they have no choice other than to turn to something like Seeking Arrangement. Another commenter on here said more women just have to get into fields like tech and finance. That's really the only solution. Women are inherently superior to men, but money's powe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:50 AM
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He's really set himself up to be victimized by a woman who'd enjoy treating him the way he deserves. "You like to be teased, baby. I'd love to tease you good. Let tie you to the bed so I can go real slow and we can be sure you won't jump the gun." I can think of a lot of entertaining things to do at that point before making off with his stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:20 AM
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Yes! Women's power is very frightening to nearly all men because we have so many natural advantages over them. That fear motivates the Patriarchy to go to great lengths to disempower us. Trying to turn what is basically exploitation and servitude into something "trendy" is a great example. It's an attempt to weaken women by dividing us so that we don't use our united power against sexual slavery. "Divide and conquer" is an old strategy, but it still seems to work. Another example that's mentione…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:17 PM
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Thanks. I have a lot going on IRL right now that's keeping me super busy. I won't make the post for a while because I think it will lead to a lot of good discussion. I don't want to put it up until I'm sure I'll have time to participate fully. I'll definitely post it if things ever slow down for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:24 PM
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I totally understand you weren’t saying a woman needs to be rich to be treated as nicely as she deserves. Pickmeishas, though, are real good at finding excuses to justify their behavior, so I want to make it absolutely explicit: I’m not rich and I have no problem motivating guys to be very generous. Attitude, confidence, self-image, etc. will get a woman what she wants from men regardless of her financial status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:03 PM
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Another option would be a complaint with your state's physician licensing board or some kind of ethics complaint to a professional organization or to a hospital where he has privileges, but a lot times those organizations tend to favor the physician. A lawyer probably is your best bet. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:55 PM
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Thanks. I have a lot going on IRL right now that's keeping me super busy, so I probably won't make the post, but I appreciate the vote of confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:27 PM
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It’s sad how many women feel they have to say something like “I’m not a gold digger.” I like that you come right out and say you “want steak…fine wine, and Gucci bags." None of us should feel ashamed for liking the finer things in life. I only recently learned just how it easy it is to get them and I’m thoroughly enjoying it. Men want us bad and it's not hard to make them do a lot to try to get us. The woman in the screenshot said she'd be happy with a teddy bear from Walmart. That's just so sad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:46 AM
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That’s true. I have to be honest, though, and admit that, if some of the guys I’ve dated recently accused me of being a gold digger, they’d have been absolutely right. I really have experimented with targeting some men purely to see how much I could get out of them. What amazes me is how easy it was. Some of these LVM’s believe so strongly that they can seduce women with money that they’ll spend a fortune before they realize they're dealing with a woman where that won’t work. So many LVM’s suffe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:32 AM
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If her doctor works in a large group, she should discuss the note either with his physician supervisor or the non-medical administrator of the group. An attorney can tell her whether she can sue over the note. Many of them will give a free initial consultation. Letting the doctor's employer know that she's considering suing might make them more open to deleting or amending the note. The only caution I'll mention is that doing this, especially if she's in a small community, might get her a reputa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:31 AM
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It's off-topic. I don't want to divert the thread into something totally unrelated to the original post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:19 PM
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This so true. I dated a teacher for a long time. He was a very HVM, wonderful in every way, but obviously not real well-paid We had to break up when I was recruited for a position in a huge metro area on the other side of the country. Nobody knows me and it's easy to have a lot of anonymity here so I've sort of experimented with different approaches to dating. I've actually tried a little gold-digging. I'm know I'm probably not going to find a LTR with a HVM that way. Done on a limited basis wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:29 PM
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then give me hard cash then...tell him she doesn’t believe in sex or affection, withdraw those all together and start seeing a hotter, more generous guy This comment is so totally on target!! The original questioner implies there's something wrong with being high maintenance. She should be high maintenance and be proud of it. She needs to remember how desperately men want us and expect to be treated a nicely as someone in that kind of demand deserves. If she smiles at a dozen men in an upscale g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:12 PM
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...and definitely trust her. That is so true. Although, I have to say, I can think of many reasons why a woman might want to buy herself a sword if she hasn't met her HVM yet and is still having to deal with LVM's. I can think of a of a lot of fun things to do with a sword in that situation...😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:34 AM
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Treating men as ruthlessly as they treat women is the key secret to being an excellent femme fatale. If a man has something you want, go after it in the same unprincipled way a man goes after getting sex from you. Don't consider his feelings or his needs. Don't think of him as person at all. When you get what you want, disappear. That's why the femme fatale stereotype scares men so much. They know a femme fatale is one of those few women who'll treat men as badly and as selfishly as they treat w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:58 PM
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When I read that you casually mentioned liking to go to x, I thought x was going to be a five-star restaurant. I give you a lot of credit for being ethical enough to just get rid of the guy with a hard rejection I find I usually can't resist the temptation to inflict some punishment on emotionally abusive men. They're usually so pathetically needy themselves that it's easy to get an expensive dinner out of them. The hard rejection comes when they try for another date so they feel some financial …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:46 PM
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Yes, she is gorgeous and I love her confidence about her gorgeousness. She clearly knows the power their desire gives her over men. Look at her sexy smile when she says, "Show me your bank statement." She knows men will do whatever it takes to get another one of those smiles, whether it's show her the statement or spend what's on the statement. The video does a great job of capturing male weakness in just a few seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:37 PM
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An LVM deserves as much pain as he sets himself up to get. I have no problems at all accepting expensive dates or even gifts from an LVM. I'm not forcing him to spend his money on me. If he's stupid enough to think I'm for sale for the price of a steak dinner or whatever, he deserves to be out the money. A man in a strip club is a lot worse than a guy who thinks I'll sleep with him because of an expensive date or two. The guy in the strip club is an exploitative scrote getting off on watching wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:29 PM
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It seems it's often the LVM who's the most eager to throw money at a woman. He knows he has nothing to offer except his money. A guy you'd never consider having sex with will often provide some really extravagant dates and gifts because he knows he doesn't stand a chance of getting sex unless he spends a lot. There's a line from a very old song that kind of captures my attitude about these scrotes: "Just take what they may give you and give but what you can." The HVM, on the other hand, may have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:57 PM
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Despite claiming to be the "logical" gender, they also fail to see the logic of this: It could be argued that men are "sex diggers." They'll do whatever it takes to get sex (lie, cheat, bully, rape). Even if women were gold diggers (which we're not), using a man for his money seems positively benign compared to using a woman for her body, then abusing her (which so many really do). If you look at it that way, maybe men occasionally deserve to be deprived of whatever pathetically little gold they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:40 PM
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Since they're married, unless you're extremely unscrupulous, I guess you can't get them to buy you dinner (although, if they're like a lot of the married men I've had some experience with, they probably would).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:02 PM
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If a guy’s dumb enough to ask why I’m not married yet, my answer is, “I’d love to talk about it over dinner. My favorite place is <name a very expensive place.>” You can always ghost him after dinner, but he deserves a little pain in the wallet for being such a jerk and they’ll always agree to the dinner because they have that desperation for female approval. EDIT: Thank for the upvotes. I was worried this reply might get massively downvoted. It's nice to know I'm not the only one on here who's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:03 PM
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The crazy thing is that men are both misogynistic and pathetically desperate for our attention and approval. That's why they always come back, even this guy from OP's teenage years. They'll do so much just for a few breadcrumbs of our affirmation, even as they're insulting in their approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:51 PM
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This is so true and so important. My last HVM was a teacher. He would have cheerfully taken a bullet, if he ever had to, to save one of his students (or me) and was super-attentive to my needs. I had so mixed up HVM with financial value that my first post on here was asking if a teacher could be a HVM (of course, everyone said he could be). Unfortunately, I got a job offer on the other side of the country that was too good to pass up and he was tied to his school district. We agreed a long-dista…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:30 PM
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All true. Each guy has to be sized up as an individual. Also, I wouldn't go out with a guy on a real date after just a brief cold approach contact. Typically, some guys get weeded out in the first few minutes. The ones who pass the initial screening can buy me a light bite to eat. If they pass that screening, too, then comes a real date. By that time, we've both gotten to know each other a bit. If a guy just approached me out of the blue and asked me out on a real date right then, that would def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:30 PM
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If you’ve ever in a mildly wicked mood and want to have some fun with a guy you're about to dump, tell him you’re feeling kinky and that you have a pair of handcuffs ready in your bedroom. Let him get all excited about it. Then say something like, “I’m glad you like the idea of handcuffs. As soon as you get your clothes off, you can stretch out on the bed and I’ll cuff you to the headboard.” It’s one of the most entertaining ways I’ve found to get rid of a guy I was getting bored with. It really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:27 PM
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It's my firm belief that a man worth his salt will approach me in public. I don't want him otherwise. That is so true. I want a man with the confidence to make that cold approach. That confidence means he's a lot more likely to be boldly moving ahead with his life, doing interesting things. It compares very favorably to some LVM staring at women on his computer screen. Plus, at least for me, meeting guys organically IRL is just more fun. The exchange of looks, the smiles, the opening banter: it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:53 PM
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Only 10% of men may have committed rape, but many, many more have fantasized about it. One of the most common male fantasies is one where he's standing up over a woman who's tied up and unable to resist anything he wants to do to her. Only 10% of men may be rapists, but a lot more would be if they thought they could get away with it. So next time a man calls you a gold digger because you're not hopping into bed with him after he buys you a dinner or two, remember what he'd do to you if he though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:28 PM
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I was actually going to post this same link as a suggested Handbook addition, when I saw that you'd already done so. It really does a better job than anything I've seen clarifying the difference between financial investment and what FDS means by "investment." That was something I didn't understand when I first got on the site. This post would have helped me immensely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:10 AM
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Totally excellent post. I agree very strongly with other commenters who said it belongs in the Handbook. When I first discovered FDS, I made the mistake of interpreting "investment" as financial investment. It's an easy mistake to make. This post is the best thing I've seen explaining what FDS really means by "investment."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:04 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:34 AM
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Thank you for this encouragement! It's funny, just the term HVM tends to lead to thoughts of high monetary value as in high salary. I'm real curious if most comments will be along the lines of what you said, or if some or most people will say low salary = LVM. HVM is so often equated with high salary in so many places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:20 AM
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