| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 136 | Basing your life around sex/power/dominance dynamics and spreading those ideas is bringing the society backwards | CMV | Honisalivebitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 10:08 AM |
| 80 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfish | Discussion | Honisalivebitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 04:09 PM |
| 6 | I feel like everyone would be better off if men not pursuing women would be seen as reasonable | Discussion | Honisalivebitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 09:01 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?You don't understand men and most women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?no, it's not ??? lol The incessant complaining about how high the bar is for guys was especially irking me today, so I decided to look it up... And where I live (somewhere in Western Europe), 6 foot is the AVERAGE height for guys, as is 6 inches the average penis size, and the average salary for anyone with more than a Bachelor's degree is 75k. The 6/6/6 rule literally just expects me to find a guy with average, basic physical characteristics and a wage that is high, but still just enough to fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?There is literally a justifying 6/6/6 post on front page of FDS :D https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ma8h0a/the_666_rule_is_just_asking_for_a_normal_guy/ Not very popular one, and truthfully yes most of FDS focuses on different things, probably, but yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.No, I mean women deserve it because they don't treat men as human beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.Women deserve it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 3 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.No one said men don't want committed relationships you fucking retard The question was why men who only want sex go for relationships, the answer is that there is no other option. That doesn't mean that all men don't want commitment or that all women want commitment over sex. Jesus christ, you get mad and cry "IT'S A LIE" over argument that was never even made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:16 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.'normal' andy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Bruh, that linda lovelace was complaining about shit that happened in 1970s, it's been 50 years, not your fault, but the main post is so orchestrated. None of the testimonies are recent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: When women say "personality" matters, what do you think she means by personality?I think most on this sub understand it makes a difference, but don't want to talk about it because the SMV qualities/confidence originates from success, you can't simply become that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: When women say "personality" matters, what do you think she means by personality?I think people know that those qualities make a huge difference, and that they might be lacking them. The thing is, it is very hard to acquire those qualities if you're not a natural at them/naturally grew into them, so I think people find it pointless to talk about. I guess that's the qualities TRP focuses on, so why you say people ignore it? But imo it's pretty mentally exhausting to go that 'fake it till you make it' route, you'd have to be pretty motivated to do that. Also I think it would b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 20 | Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocializedI’m a woman. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadTrp/incel ideas might get more popular after high school, when gen z men get into male dominated majors like engineering/software. I didn't think about that stuff before either. That's when the reality sets in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 01:08 PM |
| -6 | Basing your life around sex/power/dominance dynamics and spreading those ideas is bringing the society backwardsI feel like bluepill is rewarded also, and is seen in way more positive light by women than the other stuff. Men with a positive, maybe somewhat innocent mindset that I've known seem to usually have a girlfriend, so it feels like it's rewarded as well but idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 2 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?Yeah, that's probably the case. I'm not upset, it's all good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?Personally, I just don't want to interact with people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?As I said I can't control it. 99% of people annoy me within 10 seconds of being in their presence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?Can't help it, wish I wasn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?Yeah, strength in that everyone supports their stupidity and going with the herd. "Strength" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 06:06 PM |
| -1 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?The innocent, fantasizes about love, heart not damaged person you're describing. But I guess men would also be more attracted to that as well. World is just fucked, fuck this shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?As usual, stupid/blind people get rewarded, not just by women even, but society in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are the gate keepers of both access to sex and relationships. Only attractive HVM are gate keeping commitment with themselves.If getting a GF is your only goal, I suppose so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Women are the gate keepers of both access to sex and relationships. Only attractive HVM are gate keeping commitment with themselves.Or you can just not pursue women, even if you want a GF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I feel like everyone would be better off if men not pursuing women would be seen as reasonableLow effort. Posts that provide no background information, demonstrate a lack of understanding of the issue, or make it clear the submitter has failed to do even the most rudimentary web search on the topic. This includes questions which appear to be circlejerking. I don't understand how any of this applies. Can you please help me fix it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | I feel like everyone would be better off if men not pursuing women would be seen as reasonableWhat does this mean, 'low effort'? How should I make this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishBeing amoral about it is the whole point tho, that's why selfishness is a better word. It's easy to give advice to people to be respected and independent in morally 'good' way, people probably already follow that as common sense, often without good results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishK. Never said this is about being hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishBruh, I'm just using words to express ideas, I'm not trying to categorise anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishActually, I don't disagree with this at all. Be selfish, amoral as you want to be. Not conforming with 'goodness' was my whole point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishThat's true. I still stand by that selfishness is good way to go for beta with good intentions who is unsuccessful. The person you're describing I wouldn't call a beta, is selfish enough already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishThis more about mental health, than being as attractive as possible. If you think avoiding selfishness will work better for your mental health, go for it, I don't have anything against it. My point is just that people don't often consider immoral selfishness an option at all, and don't know how deep selfishness can and should go, if necessary. And think they need to follow the script of 'being a good person' to be happy and are stuck in that. For me, if an opportunity becoming a person without a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't RP talk about gammas? Why is it all alpha and beta?Does pretending to be beta male even work? I feel like people hate you even more when you're pretending to be beta, because it's obvious that is not the real you. Even other men will dislike you for it. The very least thing you can do is be completely and utterly selfish and at least make yourself happy. Western societies are individualistic, so that's how you're supposed to be anyway, in a weird way you will feel more accepted. Pretending to be beta doesn't bring any results and people won't ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 07:37 AM |
| 11 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?Yup, different interests, more entitled than men and have 100 men fighting for their attention and willing to compromise on all of that. Even maintaining friendships with men is difficult, why would I bother with women who live in completely different dimension. The only reason to try overcome all of that is sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:56 AM |
| 2 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsObviously I meant creating those things, not consuming. Tbh if you enjoy photography, good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 07:34 PM |
| -1 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsLol I ain't some normie that has an IG. Taking pictures of anything is one of the most boring things on the planet. Art, drawing, movies, games etc. is cool and creative. Photography is the least effort one can put to appear artsy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 04:07 PM |
| 21 | The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month.Do you have reading comprehension issues? The stats are for both men and women. At no point does the article highlight men at all. This post should be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How many partners have you had?25M - 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a crossdresser?That's true. But you know, it's interesting, I feel the same way about masculinity - that women/society exaggerate it and reward it, even if it does not serve much function in 2020. Just because cavemen, hunter-gatherer had those traits, doesn't mean they are needed now. I guess that's the whole thing about AF BB - betas do better in school, earn better and get more resources and contribute more, while alphas might not get rewarded with resources, but they get the female attention. TRP is basica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Should a second gen immigrant settle for an arranged marriage if he's failing miserably in the west?Western societies are individualistic, you will never move ahead in life if you simp, be insecure and try to find middle ground with everyone. This advice both for men and women, but more so for men because they are the ones who are 'supposed' to initiate. Do what you want to do, if that means becoming unsociable, then that's what you have to do. Shyness and insecurity + pleasing others is hated in western societies, while unsociability is respected and liked (opposite in east asian cultures). h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Men concerned with women's motivation for sex display unattractive feminine behavior.I agree, but you are saying this as if this 'revelation' will help the men having difficulties. If anything, trying to apply it to your life to solve your undesirability will probably lead to more negative outcomes, because of suppression and pretending to be someone you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Are that many men really surprised that women like and respond more positively to attractive men?You underestimate how uncommon this idea is. I'm 25, went to top 1 high school in my country filled with smart people, have had decent social life. I have never EVER heard this idea expressed amongst people, amongst friends, where there is literally no reason to 'sound good', men don't give a fuck about emotions, not in media, not on twitch, filled to the brim with men, not on reddit (except these pill subreddits), not in movies... nowhere. To think that it is THAT obvious that nobody talks abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 0 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days agoI don't disagree with you, but imo online dating is a waste of time for a lot of young men, especially the type of people who frequent reddit/purplepilldebate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days agoWell, that and 1/6 of first messages from women will be from women more attractive than me, even if I'm just average. But how does that make any difference if the percentage of first messages by women is probably very low anyways? It doesn't really matter what percentage of women will be more/less attractive messaging first, if it only happens to guy 0/1/2 times... Does it really disprove that a lot of men have a difficult time dating? I don't think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days ago1/3 times, more attractive women message less attractive men first Is this not one of your main points tho? The correct statement to make based on the data would be this: If there exists a conversation (more than 5 messages) for man for who woman messaged first, there is 1/3 chance that the woman is more desirable. Framing it as 1/3 times, more attractive women message less attractive men first is very misleading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days agoAll I was trying to say, is this from my other comment The percentages are this - Of all message receiving men conversations (more than 5 messages or smth): 100 % = 36 % partner more desirable + 23 % equally desirable + 41 % less desirable And that the point you made 1/3 times, more attractive women message less attractive men first is just wrong conclusion to make from this data... I can't really answer the rest of your comment, I only wanted to point this one thing out, nothing else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days agoSame as the other commenter, you don't understand that these percentages have nothing to do with how likely a person is to get a conversation going. The percentages are this - Of all message receiving men conversations (more than 5 messages or smth): 100 % = 36 % partner more desirable + 23 % equally desirable + 41 % less desirable It says nothing about likelihood of success/getting a conversation going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days ago"When 3-star men received a (first) message: His messages were sent from: 15% were from women more desirable than him, 18% were equally desireable as him, 68% were less desireable than him. After 5 reciprocated responses, the women he was talking to were: 36% were more desirable (than him), 23% equally desirable as him, 41% less desirable than him." The 3-star men message-receivers were talking to higher-tier women 35% of the time. You are misinterpreting this big time... as are other commenters… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point in acknowledging the “problems” that incels,mgtow,weebs etc face?Imo the harm is psychological stress, and allowing yourself to moved by society towards direction where you most likely will experience it even more. If you're mostly comfortable with the traditional 'improving yourself' steps and putting yourself out there etc., then yeah I don't see any reason not to do it. Yeah, if they don't show basic decency no reason to extend it to them and any kind of maliciousness of course should not be respected. Although from personal experience I think malicious/ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Is there a point in acknowledging the “problems” that incels,mgtow,weebs etc face?Because men have feelings too, I think a lot of men don't 'just improve themselves' to get relationship, because they feel going that path will just result even more neglect and disrespect towards them, and their struggles/wishes. Not saying that women should be the ones to solve those issues, but to think they are not real/easily solvable is just wrong... It's basic human decency to try to understand and respect the feelings of others, even if you're not experiencing them yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 05:51 PM |
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