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Thanks! I think I’ll give them a try. I’d like to build up my collection without dropping a ton of money.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 03:30 PM
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Have you had any issues with AdoreMe? I’ve read a few threads on the lingerie addict sub that talk about it being a subscription service and that it’s hard to cancel/low quality. I like a lot of their stuff, and the prices are good. I was about to do it, and then I got discouraged reading a thread...of course, many of those people like the high end stuff that is too far out of my price range.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 12:52 AM
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I would love this! I’ve read a lot of the recommended stuff, like FW and Surrendered Wife, but even if we started with stuff like that I’d be in. There’s nothing like going through the book and reading other ladies’ discussion points.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 03:34 PM
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Check out r/dentistry, too. A lot of dentists, hygienists, and other professions hang out there and have lots of good recommendations for oral hygiene, how to pick out toothpaste, info in waterpiks, etc. It’s a very informative sub.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/18 06:58 PM
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Love the Tosowoong Pure Snail! Have you tried the Propolis version? It’s right up there with Snail for me. Also, I love the Sulwhasoo Balancing Water. Where do you get yours? I’ve done the samples on Amazon lately because of cost.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 11:09 PM
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I bullet journal, and I’m definitely no artist. I look at it more functionally /practically than a lot of the artistic people online. Check out the subreddit-you’ll see a lot of ideas. I find that the whole concept is great for me. I can purge all my thoughts/lists on paper and it becomes less overwhelming to me. I also don’t have the weird/pointless guilt I feel after falling off the wagon and not filling out regular planner pages.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 07:01 PM
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I second the Laura Doyle suggestion. My husband isn’t a “take charge” types, but her suggestions have helped me react and behave in a way that encourages him to lead, and it’s really worked!
/r/RedPillWives28/06/18 08:44 PM
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I agree. I like her much more in the first half of the show.
/r/RedPillWives20/06/18 03:32 AM
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This might sound silly, but Daphne from Frasier. She wouldn’t date a married man that was rich and in love her (for most of the show), she was stylish (most of the time), she took care of her family, but she held her own, too. She also let her personality quirks out, meaning she didn’t change who she was and her values as a blue collar woman when she moved in and worked for a wealthy psychiatrist.
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 10:40 PM
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Please do!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 03:16 PM
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This is great! Is your etiquette book Emily Post? I want to get more into entertaining, so I’m looking for a few resources to get started.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 02:50 PM
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Allrecipes videos have helped me tremendously. A lot of people give reviews, too, so it’s helpful to see how people actually get the dish to turn out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:38 PM
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This is not always the case, though. Im sure we all know people who look great at 35 and some who look haggard at 25. It’s lifestyle and genetics, too.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 07:42 PM
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Ok. Sounds nice. This is a discussion forum, not an echo chamber. It’s ok to have different ideas and opinions. I’m not belittling you plan for when it’s ideal to have kids. I’m really not. I’m just saying that women have value outside of and in addition to motherhood. I am a childfree person, and I like to think that my bad eggs and I serve at least some value to my husband, even at my age of over 28.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 07:41 PM
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I don’t think so. In my circle, it’s normal to wait 35+. I know that’s considered late by many RP people, but generally speaking, it’s not as late as it used to be. I also do not think every man cares about eggs...there are childfree people. My opinion is that taking care of oneself and and grooming > eggs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 07:24 PM
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I think 28 is too young to age into a lower SMV, personally. Most 28 year olds that I know (who take care of themselves) don’t look different from mid-20s...plus, it’s likely that you know your style, better and know better how to take care of your skin and hair than when you were younger. That’s how it’s gone for me, at least. I’m married, so SMV is not applicable in the same way as for single ladies, but I still think the SMV rules are awfully harsh on some the RP subs (unless you live in an e…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 03:50 AM
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I know this might not seem helpful right now, but those bullies from school won’t matter in a few years. You’ll eventually move on, so please remember that this awful situation is temporary. You’ll never be able to control other people’s behavior; you can only control your own. Remember to try to put your best foot forward. Be kind always, try to stay out of drama, and continually work to improve yourself through leaning new things (like social techniques), hobbies, and any physical things you’d…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 01:27 AM
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First of all, that’s terrible and I’m so sorry that you’ve experienced this kind of behavior. It’s appalling! Secondly, can you provide a few more details? What’s your age range? Why do you think you’re ugly? I’m sure you’re being unnecessarily hard on yourself. How do you try to initiate conversation? Are you just introducing yourself? Are you making small talk?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 11:20 PM
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What kind of requirements did he give you that put you out of your comfort zone?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 11:17 PM
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You’ve already received some great insight here. I’ll add my own story to encourage you. My husband is from a family that is emotionally distant and doesn’t offer a lot of support. When we started dating, he worked as a custodian in a retail store part-time and had another part-time job as a reporter for a small newspaper. In my country. (US), newspapers had a huge financial crisis and no longer offered viable career opportunities. He’s very driven, meticulous, and smart. Through the contacts he…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 11:13 PM
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Look for an Italy towel on Amazon. I learned about it on the Asian skincare subreddit. It’s a rough cloth that you can use to exfoliate, and it completely got rid of my razor bumps. You have to be VERY careful to not over-exfoliate, though. The best part is they’re like $5. I actually use one over my whole body except my face and neck.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 12:16 AM
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This response really got me thinking, and I’ve enjoyed reading your perspective in some of the other threads. I agree that this guy might be stressed or overwhelmed. Out of curiosity, if OP worked outside of the home as well, and the rest of the situation were the same, would your advice remain the same?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 02:27 AM
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I having the same issue right now, OP! I’m looking forward to seeing more responses. We’re in a “season of disappointment” as I call it in my own mind, although I’m secretly glad my man didn’t get the recent promotion he tried for. I think it was a impossible job in my husband’s situation. I work full time, but since he’s been out of sorts (and while he was in competition mode for the promotion), I ran all the errands, made his favorite foods, kept a very neat home, and generally made sure he di…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 10:06 PM
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We’ve been on a healthy kick for the past few months, but I’ve definitely had more junk food around the past week or two when this stress began. I don’t want to wreck his hard work, but I have been making sure to have his favorite homemade cookies on hand! :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 01:34 AM
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This has been what I’ve been doing for the past few days, and it’s worked very well. He’s wanted to veg and watch Netflix, so I’ve made sure his comfy clothes are washed and ready, and I’ve been making his preferred dinners that are doable on weeknights. He’s been handling himself well and risen to the occasion. I really enjoy the opportunity to be a “soft place” to land at the end of the day.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 01:31 AM
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Great suggestions. Thanks! I’ll definitely be cooking a lot of his “comfort foods.”
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 02:47 PM
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This is all great. Thank you. I’ve definitely taken to upping my housework routine. I feel like a decluttered, tidy home puts the mind at ease. I love the notes of affirmation, and I’m going to work that in, too. That fits perfectly with my personality!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 03:17 AM
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Thank you for your response. I agree with you. I think I’ll dial it back and play it by ear depending on his mood. BJs are definitely a must. I need to step up my game with that. He tends to be the type that wants to talk about his stresses. I’ve been really conscious to be encouraging without acting like he’s being “put upon.” I’ve been trying to work some things in like “I appreciate all the great work you do to provide us with a good life and nice things, and I’m proud of your ambition,etc” I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 01:04 AM
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Is it a possibility that he may be sexually incompatible with you? Could he be repressing homosexuality or bisexuality?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 02:24 AM
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I am around feminist perspective all the time as someone who works on a college campus. I see so much misery...There’s so much divorce, so much of a push for women to “have it all.” No one can have it all; something has to suffer, and in my small window of observation, it’s often marriage. Third wave feminism locks women in to living/believing a certain way and is emasculating. I stumbled upon this sub when looking for marriage/women related subreddits. I wanted to see posts from a more traditio…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/18 03:38 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what would an “acceptable (for my lack of a better word here)” n-count be in your area?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 02:13 PM
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I’m in the learning stages of cooking, too, unfortunately. My mother isn’t much of a cook and I’m a picky eater, so I never really had a reason to learn. I’ve been making a concerted effort to learn how to make more meals. I have a couple of weeks worth of recipes I’ve gotten down, so I’ve made real progress. Now, I’m trying to add in more complicated stuff that my husband enjoys but I’m not great at, which is mostly Asian type stuff. The thing that helped me most in my learning was allrecipes.c…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 02:46 AM
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This is the first RPW book I’ve read. Although I’ve always leaned toward more traditional gender roles, I work at a university, so I’m always surrounded by a hard-lined feminist perspective. I think those ideas have seeped in (along with TV shows, books, music, and other media) and made me kind of unhappy/depressed. It’s like all of those world views and influences invade your mind. I have had problems with being a nag and expecting my husband to fulfill all my needs, and that’s simply not possi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 04:33 PM
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I just ordered surrendered wife. How well do you think it works as a companion piece to this book? I’m really looking forward to getting it in the mail!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 04:24 PM
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Me, too. My husband and I get along great and have good communication, but this doesn’t sound like me at all. I think I’m going to approach it when he’s talking about stress from work. He’s been extra stressed because he’s up for promotion, so I’m going to talk about how he’s prepared, meticulous, a good leader, etc., and then frame it to where I want to be a better helper at home and want to be the best wife I can be to support him and his goals. I’ll then talk about how I’m glad to have marrie…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 04:22 PM
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I love having a nice nativity scene! I got this one last year, and I’m loving the simplicity. I think it’s great to have a sentimental set like the one your mother is giving you.
/r/RedPillWives21/12/17 01:52 AM
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This, OP. When I was 21, a very similar thing happened to me. I had been dating the same guy since I was 17 and felt invested. He was sweet, independent, good-looking, and had ambition. I just knew I would marry him. However, he was a cheater. I found condom wrappers, which he said he used in his alone time. I heard a sketchy voicemail inadvertently, which he said was a friend of his sister’s. He had friends that would get high and drunk with him, causing all kinds of bad behavior., which he bla…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 02:34 PM
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Can she try non-hormonal? There’s a cooper iud that’s as effective as sterilization.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 11:45 PM
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Some women are just like that, especially if they’re on hormonal birth control. Is she on the pill?
/r/askMRP14/11/17 02:23 AM
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Oh, how I want to do this. My job is as a social media/digital marketer for a university. I feel like it’s such a time suck and I can’t get away. I have to monitor my work accounts (Instagram, Facebook, twitter and Snapchat). I only have a Facebook, which I’d love to get rid of, but you have to keep a personal account to link to the business page. :( I’ve unfollowed everyone but family and close friends, but your post is making me consider unliking certain news pages and professional pages, too.…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 02:51 AM
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