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11	I've been told and rated that I'm good looking and attractive, but I still can't get laid or get dates with girls. It depends on a lot of factors. Here are a few tips. But it might not be suited to you... I can only talk for myself. 1) Know who you are. What I mean by that is, know why you think this is good, this is bad. Know why you like something, why you hate something, why this thing is important to you, why this doesn't matter. All of those things are important because when you know them and you run your life based on your core values, you increase the perception of yourself, hence your confidence. It …	/r/seduction	04/10/17 07:13 PM
6	I've been told and rated that I'm good looking and attractive, but I still can't get laid or get dates with girls. 1) Most women don't do the first step. So, if you don't do it, the chances of meeting someone is lower 2) Good looking is good, but it's not the most important aspect IMO. The most important aspect, to me, is confidence. You can be the ugliest guy around, if you're the most confident, you will meet women. I'm talking confidence, not cockiness. You know your value and you don't let others push it down.	/r/seduction	04/10/17 06:48 PM
7	The Average Man on a Date I think you're taking it the wrong way. It's a date, both of you are trying to see if the other fits with you or not. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. One thing that you have to repeat to yourself is this: "There are a lot of women out there". Meaning, if it doesn't work out with this one, just go to the next one. THE one doesn't exist. I know it's easy to say, but be yourself. That is the test. If she enjoys the real you then it's a win. Maybe try to be even more "creepy" than you really are. Accep…	/r/seduction	04/10/17 06:42 PM

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