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| 27 | She lost interest after a bad first kiss | Hook_me_up | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:51 AM |
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| 1 | I think I am going to die alone because I am uglyDye hair black, let them grow, consider hair transplant for the eyebrows, Minoxidil and dermarolling the brows too. Go get braces. Start supplementing vitamins | /r/seduction | 21/12/23 12:12 PM |
| 101 | Hand /cheeks kissing is definitely underrated.Hot guy could do anything and a girl would be "mesmerized". As always, ignore women advice on anything | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 11:23 AM |
| 5 | Do you think this guy was trying to impress me?What the fuck did i just read | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Are men approaching me for my body or?Those don't look large tbh. You got a better pic? | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Help with my ex-best friendplease seek therapy | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 0 | He said : “ you always smell good , I like your perfume. Whenever I’m in the room and I smell this perfume, I know you’re around » . Is this flirting or he’s just trying to be nice ??This has to be satire | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Best costumes for halloween partiesSexy nurse. +1 if you have some muscles on you | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.It takes literally 1 minute to understand that what you need is not a boyfriend nor a girlfriend. You need therapy. Please seek help | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | A woman keeps going back to her cheating exSeek mental therapy | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?Seek mental therapy | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing?He didn't seem interested? They had a date planned and she cancelled it | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I guess his feelings faded. Am I not good at expressing?Bro why are women like this. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Approached a lot of girls in the club this weekendJuSt Be NoRmAl | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?It helps me move on tbh. I understand where you're coming from though | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | What’s the oldest woman you’ve slept with or biggest age difference with the woman you hooked up with?she was a neighbor and came to our house a couple of times to drink coffee with my mother. she mentioned she had a broken pc and wanted me to come over to fix it. i go there she starts getting all touchy and literally kino escalates with me. i had literally 0 idea what i was doing back then and she was also very stiff in bed, which was soo bad and i still cringe to this day. its not like in the movies where the hot gilf with a big booty is fucking you in all positions, it was more like me care… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:37 AM |
| 7 | What’s the oldest woman you’ve slept with or biggest age difference with the woman you hooked up with?She was 57, i was 21. I'm not proud of that one | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Should her vulnerability be winning me over?Sounds to me you're in the friendzone tbh | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Help meI have no idea what this means | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Why does it always come down to the gym?Just a tip, dont go to the gym to lose weight. Instead, go to the gym to build muscle. The weight will come off too eventually, but id you've got a nice muscle mass, your total daily energy expenditure will be higher, and you'll burn way more calories off compared to 30 minutes of elliptical or whatever | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 11 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Take a look into finasteride, dermarolling and Minoxidil. Edit: OP's comments are pathetic. Don't bother trying to help him because he will shut down any attempt of helping | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman?What? No. You simply pull yourself out of the situation and say "please do not touch me". | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:10 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with other guys trying to embarrass you/ make you feel smaller in front a woman?Do not touch me I dont care about some random coworker story If I'm not part of the conversation, i either join in or leave. He push you and you act like it didn't bother you? Lmao, maybe try to rephrase it "he pushes me and i lack the balls and self respect to stand my ground, regardless of a silly joke or not" Please grow a pair and be a man | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | What to say when she says she has a boyfriend/ seeing someone?my go to is "every barbie has it's ken" | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | hard to getAhaha | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Girls saying "I love you", is it just more common now?Who cares, just dont say it back if you dont mean it. If asked why you dont say back, reply with your own reasons as to why you don't say it back | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | “*Your name* isn’t for me.”Its disqualification. Its used to gauge a womans interest. If she tries to qualify herself, shes subconsciously interested. If she doesnt, like in your case, she probably wasnt attracted anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 7 | The moment of clarity when you realise there’s no sparkBecause women will lose their attraction if you put too much effort into them | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:11 AM |
| 95 | The moment of clarity when you realise there’s no sparkIf a girl is interested, she'll even call in sick to work to see you. Never sweat too hard for women, let them do the work for you | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 14 | 35M here looking for a long-term woman friend to chat with.What no pussy does to a mf | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Think she’s mad coz I made her give me head?OP getting roasted because dumb reddit "people" only read the title and assume the whole post. read the actual thread and you'll realize how fucking dumb and asinine these commenters are. anyway, women are flacky as fuck and their emotion fluctuate on the daily. pay no attention to her and keep doing what you always do. laught at her attempts to bring you down, or ignore whatever shes trying to do. keep living your life and talking to other women | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever had strong feelings for a fat girl(not curvy fat just plain)? What would you tell a guy who caught feelings for one?Pics or it didn't happen | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever had strong feelings for a fat girl(not curvy fat just plain)? What would you tell a guy who caught feelings for one?What the hell is a bodybuilding dad bod? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | This girl tends to get emotional and try to make me jealous .Sorta happened to me too. Had a ons with a coworker and that was the end of it for me, she thought i had a crush on her or whatever, and was trying to make jealous every occasion possible. Even when called out on her id get responses such as "see? I knew you were jealous! Why does it bother you?" She freaked out and left work early when i had another shortie pull up at work. End of story? Its just projection. She is/was likely very jealous and thought you were too | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 6 | This girl tends to get emotional and try to make me jealous .Shes mentally unstable and will, at some point, lash out on you. this might be just me, but i make sure to never fuck with girls who show emotional/mental instability | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | I Have RSD Juliens Inflied VideosI'm interested | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you expect investment from a girl before asking her out, or just ask her out based on attraction towards you?Test the waters. Mention you're going somewhere fun and she if she says you should bring her there | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?Any seduction tip coming from a female is irrelevant | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceAbsolutely do not contact her. Just live your life and keep having fun. If shes interested, she'll ask her friends about you. Going for the number screams of neediness and borderline desperation | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a guy looks at you from afar?Jesus Christ its you again. I thought the man in question was the desperate one for cheating on his gf, but I'm starting to think you're the actual desperate person, obsessing over some fuck months ago. You either haven't talked to any other male in months, or the guy must've gave you the sex of your life | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | She doesn’t believe in loveShes just sugar coating her words. Heres my take on this, shes been lonely for some time, enter you and she feels desired. Shes got no feeling but assumes that you'll grow on her with time. That ends up not being the case and shes looking for an abort mission button. Solution? Tell her you dont find emotional instability attractive and you break up with her. You move on and talk to other women while going zero contact with her, even if she tries to reconciliate | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good thing if a woman says she trusts you?You've been put in the friendzone | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:25 AM |
| 74 | Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on.This is a common shit Test. In this case let her be known that there will be no date and you hope her all the best. Then you go zero contact. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 57 | How do you isolate from the fatty friend / not so good looking friend?Befriend the Beast | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | I want to fuck my manager so badly - how do I make it happen without risking my job?Never fuck a manager. They WILL ruin your work life. Literally. Please, do not fuck your manager. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Guys shit test you too!Thats more akin to teasing to shittest. Although you could say a shit test IS the female version of teasing | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!Men dont usually deliver shit test, they usually use a mixture of qualification and disqualification to properly calibrate the interaction. A shit Test coming from a man might be seen as insecure. A common female shit test is "do you tell this to every girl you talk to?" Had a male asked this question, it would be seen as a red flag for a girl. Shit test might work, but its much better to deliver some sorta qualifier to gauge her response, then act accordingly. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Is She Just Stretching Or Trying To Show Off Her Body?not 100% relevant, but if you check out this research paper, https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.0702624104, and you scroll down untill you see an image of 2 different primates( A. young chimpanzee and B. teenager bonobo) the image description reads "An adolescent bonobo male making sexual advances to a female adds the arm raise gesture. Photographs by Frans de Waal." | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Do girls talk about other guys as a test?"Why are you telling me about your dates?" Its literally that simple. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:06 AM |
| 3 | I absolutely CANNOT tell if someone is flirting with me!!Hard agree. Shit tests are something every woman should learn | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 11:12 PM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???They respect it more when it doesn't actually involve themselves directly. Take a woman you dont want to sleep with as an example, if you tell her you're direct and dont play around, she'll view you as a high value man who doesnt want his nor wants to waste others time. Now, if you're direct WITH her, she'll end up turning her slut alarm up 100% because shes scared of being viewed as easy. Women are extremely influenced by society to act pure so she'll want to defend her innocence as much as pos… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 3 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???You "we should go to my apartment" her "why" " cuz we gonna fuck" Thats wrong. Instead you could need to give the woman a plausible deniability. "I lost my wallet and in 2 we'll find it much quicker" or "we are gonna rearrange my living room" Depends on the context really, but generally speaking an obvious lie would be telling a girl you've already kissed, that you consider hand holding very sexy, borderline bdsm even. Exaggerating on the most innocent stuff. Or telling a girl you're an innocent… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???Yes, being assertive and bold is the fastest way to show intentions and polarize women, yet if you are too sexually direct, they'll turn their defenses on and you'll cockblock yourself. A playful smile and an obvious lie is much better than being direct | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Is She Just Stretching Or Trying To Show Off Her Body?Its not an actual itch, its more that itchy feeling you get while trying to fall asleep. Another MALE indicator of interest that comes from the primal ages is when they lift up their arms in front of females( to stratch their head most often). Theyre subconsciously showing their biceps and strength | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | So many girls call me a fuck boy and bad boy now, but they still don’t let me hit. Tf???Never argue with a woman Never listen to female advice on how to pick up other women. You're getting labeled as a fuckboy because you're too sexually bold. Start talking in IFs and Maybes and never explicitly say sex related words. You're triggering their slut defense mechanism | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 5 | What do do when she is neutral to kino escalation?If you're touching her and she lets you, thats a positive answer, not neutral. For you it simple since you're a man, but for a woman, reciprocating touch might be too bold. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | outieAs Always, you're overstressed about trivial stuff. It doesn't matter and nobody cares. If they do, thats their problems anyways. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Is She Just Stretching Or Trying To Show Off Her Body?IoI are never done consciously. its like your urge to pick a nice stick off the ground and carry it, or the urge to throw a rock somewhere. another good indicator of interest is if she's scratching herself often. the arm, the neck, the face, the thighs. that comes from our ape times. the woman subconsiously says "i have ticks on my body and i want you to remove them for me", much like current primates do. seduction is mostly done subconsciously | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 10:12 AM |
| 2 | What the f*ck to talk about during during a cold approach?How to Speedrun rejection any% | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Was he not flirting with me? Did I ruin my chances with thus guy? what happened?Maybe him tell you to flirt with the guys at the bar was a test, just like women use shit Test to see how you respond. You agreeing mightve made him jealous and decided go drop it off. Also you pursuing a man with a gf is pretty weak, but him giving you so much attention is even worse tbh. Not really sure how the thought of you being that gf doesnt make you lose respect for such a man | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How to ask a coworker outBro about to risk it all for a girl he literally meet 1 week ago lmao. Talk about desperation Go meet more women and get therapy for your mommy issues | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Best spot in the mall to daygame?Title and thread are 2 different questions. In the mall, any place is fine, since you could open with anything. Gosh, i HATE when they rearrange my favourite protein bars. Hey do you know where the snacks isle is? I'm craving some chocolate With a sitting set, its always best to not enter the set too aggressively, since they have no say of backing off. You mention a FTC and then deliver some sorta statement that might or might not induce a Response. In general, its best not to ask questions in t… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Is She Just Stretching Or Trying To Show Off Her Body?Perking up(posture), playing with hair, leaning toward someone and caressing oneself are all indicators of interest. See where her hips are pointing and who she is subconsciously mimicking, thats who shes currently interested in. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 3 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Men got 99 problems but women ain't one | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do some guys become territorial over a girl they're not dating? Especially when they themselves are in a relationship with another woman?That just sounds like pathetic behavior honestly | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Question for you guys traveling/dating in Europe?Which problem? Not getting laid? Not really understanding the point of this post. Nightgame in WHOLE europe is dead since 2017? Who told you that? Also just because you havent been laid since 2017, doesn't mean that europe game is dead or whatever. Matter of fact, its very easy to pick up interesting girls as a tourist in most european countries. For reference, i live in Europe but outside my home country, and sometimes i like to tell people I'm a Tourist, just because people tend to be more fri… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 07:53 PM |
| 4 | New workplace advice.You're overcomplicating stuff that doesn't need to. You dont need to act any different just because there'll be women around. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating a Model - Broke frame Slightly - Insecurity & JealousyIs she your gf? No. Are you 100% you both agreed to exclusivity? Doubtful. You're starting to act needy and it might ruin the situation you've developed. First of all, never stop talking to new girls. Always have options and rotations, even if it doesn't involve anything sexual. Find a girl(or multiple) attracted to you and friendzone them. Make sure you're always exposing yourself to more potential partners. For your situationship, i would tell her whether she is sure about the exclusivity or n… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl says she likes your hair?I've gotten complimented on my hair and thats how i usually respond. Most women follow the same pattern speech | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:02 PM |
| -3 | What to say when a girl says she likes your hair?Since they are already displaying a strong IOI, you could try with a push pull response and then some sorta qualifier to show intent. For example if she opens with "oh my god your hair is gorgeous!" You could reply with "thanks for noticing! I take good care of myself! Too bad I'm not into girls who notice small details!" I don't know, just whatever small push comes into your head. Maybe she's skinny/small/blonde whatever and you point that out. Then you could say "i like girls who are confident… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Clubbing ObservationsTalking in a club? Why? You go there to dance. Hold out your hand to a girl while Dancing, if she takes it you do some random ass steps and get closer. If she's still receptive, put your hands on her hips and start rocking her left and right gently. If shes also okay with that, turn her around, put her ass on your dick and slowly kiss her neck. At that point you let her grind a bit and you kiss her. If you're feeling brave, turn her around, make out with her and put your hands in her pants. That… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:25 PM |
| 363 | Roommate avoids me nowIgnore both of them. bring more girls in. Edit: bring so many more girls in, your roomates start questioning how it is even humanly possible to have this much sex | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | How do you go about texting a girl you’re interested in without coming across as random or needy?Brief texts that lead up to date | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you want more testosterone if it meant attracting lots of women but ultimately led to a shorter life span?I would give my left nut to have a stable 500mg of test running with no side effects whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 8 | My best friends mom offered to take my v-card & she sent me a topless selfie .. is she serious? or is she messing with my head?Nice fanfiction | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm way too infatuated to have game right nowClear sign of oneitis | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What does it feel like to be attractive?Just spam lateral raises | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 5 | What does it feel like to be attractive?Other men will feel insecure when they see you receive attention from the same women who ignore them, so those men will try to square you up, call you name and try to belittle you in front of people | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | legends can provide some suggestionsWho gives a fuck lol set up a date and fuck her | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Can women tell or guess if a guy is comes of as attractive to a majority of other womenConfidence plays a huge role in my opinion | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 06:39 AM |
| 6 | White European man struggling getting White European womenEurope is not america. You are not "white european" you are categorized into whatever country from europe you are born in. So you'd be french, spanish, german, italian and so on. Ive NEVER heard someone paint himself as "european" but americans trying to look special and claim heritage. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Seduction 101: Prologue Part 2 - My Personal JourneyBeautiful post | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Help with this problemThat would only ever work if you have an extremely large social circle and people know who you are/women have heard DHV stories about you. In real life the occasion where you organically meet a woman with whom you have good chemistry is very slim. And even then, if you dont like her/she don't like you, finding ANOTHER girl organically is even more rare. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Seduction 101: Prologue Part 1 - The State of SedditHigh effort post. This deserves to be pinned, provided OP follows through | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | told my gf I clean shavedMeh. I've come to like the short to medium stubble look. I feel like i get more looks thrown at me when i let my beard grow somewhat longer than I'm used to(cut every 5 days) | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I pass this particular shit test?This is essentially a top tier response you could modify to fit literally any situation. Make sure you're setting boundaries and you're willing to follow through them. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Daygame youtube coaches are like: "Run up to her and do a front stop". Does anyone else find that incredibly beta?Because they are | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls do thisWhat kinda thoughts go through someone's mind when doing this? I open the stories i am interested in, and i dont care who or if someone looks at mine. Why are some people so invested in online validation? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | FR #7 Cold approaching in a different languageIts a win win Situation. Either she A. Is interested, and your firm and assertive attitude shows high self value or B. Shes not interested, in which case she'll leave and you dont waste your time | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Stepping Outside my Comfort ZoneYeah theres a video of mistery explaining it somewhere | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | FR #7 Cold approaching in a different languageTell her you dont think it's nice that shes looking at her phone and see what her reply is | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this the best way?Ghost her. Find new women and never go long distance. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:34 AM |
| 7 | Stepping Outside my Comfort ZoneIf you're in a bar setting where theres some background music, try slightly rocking left and right with your body. Obviously dont do it too much, it has to be natural. It helps not lock up your muscles(which could be a trigger for anxiety) plus you can reward or punish someone by turning in their direction or viceversa | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 8 | If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?What? Just because he could be interested, doesnt mean one of his friends won't try to hook up with you. Maybe the fact that you were engaging in flirty conversation or reacting positively to his friends was a turn off | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with aggressive competition from other men, how would you handle this situation?I don't think I'd let a dude idiot sit on my table or anywhere near at all. I would've escalated much sooner probably | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | She's staring at me but has a boyfriend??You did not create a strong enough connection and you got rejected. Doesn't matter if she said she has a boyfriend or not. Also if you were able to confidently accept the fact that you got rejected in front of her, it could in some cases be actually a good thing. Now she and her friends were laughing because they rarely get approached, or maybe you said somewhat funny/weird. Regardless, you were willing to put yourself in a vulnerable position, which shows confidence. If you did actually leave t… | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:28 AM |
| 2 | A super easy and simple trick to make sure that once you ARE the boyfriend, how to not fuck it up.Maybe hd means engaging in boring small talk? | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:22 AM |
| 3 | How much easier would it be for a conventionally attractive man to pickup vs a man considered average in today's standards?Hard agree. I've had the same experience going from fat to fit | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Keep your standards low.Ranking girls by any scale means you're subconsciously putting them on a pedestal. Wether you decide a woman or not should be decided by either a yes or no, no whether shes "high" enough on your fictual spectrum. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Keep your standards low.5? 6? What are these numbers you're referring to? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Instagram gameYou should have. Have firm boundaries and let her know you did not like whatever she did. Lower your interest and let her work your trust up again | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Instagram gameShe slept in and you told her all good? How is she flaking on you "all good"? How is 1 woman, 1 person, wasting your time all good to you? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 06:52 AM |
| 6 | When she flirts or brings up sexual talk, should you ALWAYS flirt back?And you go to sleep with blue balls | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Gonna hit the club again to try get my first kiss!Never approach a set in a direct line like a predator. It triggers their creep alarms and you weird them out | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I made out with a chick on FridayWas the girl you made out with, somewhat insecure? She might've used you to see if she can still pull men and once shes gotten it, she loses interest. Just a guess | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Penis enlargementWhat do you mean trolls? Penis stretching does work | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Penis enlargementr/gettingbigger | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 07:26 AM |
| 6 | As soon as I show interest in someone, it starts it’s too fizzle out. Any pointers?I don't have much to say besides agreeing with your title. I'm somewhat new to this and I've also noticed that as soon as she understands I'm also interested in her, she'll lose interest. Maybe we're only meeting attention deprived girls who want to validate their ego, or maybe it's just an excuse my subconscious has been telling me, instead of acknowledging that my behavior might become needier as soon as im interested in them. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 9 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)Top quality post | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 5 | When is the best time to tell a girl that I (24 M) have never been in a relationship/had sex?Never. Don't mention it and if pressed on a question reply with "it doesnt matter" or "i enjoy you/ spending time with you more" | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why isnt there more Southern European/Gigolo Style Pick Up Advice?You mean like Spanish or Italian people? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | She lost interest after a bad first kissI appreciate you immensely for writing this comment. The reason because i am into fitness is because it got me out of a very bad state of mind. It started with the gym and it slowly became a hobby of mine to be active. I've gone bouldering, rock climbing, running and swimming. Women are the least of my concern while I am doing the activities i enjoy. I won't hide the fact that i also work out to keep an aesthetic look, but i wouldn't really say that i do what i do just to attract the other sex. … | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:28 AM |
| 3 | I've gotten far less action after I started going to the gym than before I trained. How common is this? How many of you have experienced this? I don't believe the stereotype that women prefer guys who lift is trueThats just excuses. Cico is all that matters. Go on a deficit 3 months, maintain 1 month and start the cut again till you've healthy dropped enough body fat. I'm also transitioning from powerlifting to bodybuilding and i went from 115kg to 95kg without losing too much muscle mass. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Feeling quite literally drawn to her...Meet new women and get rid of your oneitis | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionAgree but even if you go bear mode it's not a big deal. Sure, lean muscular will get more attention on average, but a big dude is gonna polarize much better. Some women will do anything to get your attention | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Anyone here who managed to rekindle interest from a girl who didn't seem interested or wished to end things?Swallow his pride? Confess? This isnt a fucking tv show. Never swallow your pride, never drop your frame, never lower your head. Unless you've invested years on a relationship, just cut it lose. You'd have to work 200% as hard to requalify yourself, when you want her to actually qualify for you. The power dynamic change and you become too needy and invested in her, she's lose even more attraction in return. Ironically you could actually sparkle her fire again by removing yourself from the situat… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | She lost interest after a bad first kissHonestly, if the answer isn't either a hell yes! Or dhe doesn't reschedule for another time instantly, she is not enough interested in my opinion. I cant be bothered to waste my time with people who dont look forward to spending time with me | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | She lost interest after a bad first kissCan you elaborate | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | She lost interest after a bad first kissShe did not try to schedule for another time so i assume she doesn't plan on seeing me again | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 05:52 PM |
| 10 | She lost interest after a bad first kissI was nervous even if i didn't look like it. I never kissed a girl before so i had no idea what to do. I just got closed and then pulled out while smirking. Told her she had to work for it | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 12:05 PM |
| 10 | Please help me create a game plan for sexHoly shit dude | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 12 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Creatine overdose might cause stomach cramps and diarrhea. I've been taking it for as long as I've been training (3years) and never experienced anything related | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 16 | I am above average looking and a lot of women want to sleep with me [M25] but it scares my virgin assJesus fucking christ | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Is she Interested or I am being stupid or desperate.Do you suffer from attachment issues? How many other human interactions do you have in a day? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you answer when a girl complements your perfume and asks which brand is it?I'm bold af so i would probably pull her closer and tell her to have a closer sniff, but thats just me | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Anxious about first casual hookup after years of abstinence. Looking for helpful advice and/or encouragement.Never apologize for things you have no control over. Keep foreplay/cunnilingus going till you relax a bit | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I’m not in any position to even try seduction am i... if you are mentally ill you’re basically fucked right?Bro you just need to eat chicken and lift 10lbs dumbbells for a month and then you'll understand just how pointless all this ranting is. Fuck, if youre considering offing, might as well take testosterone injections and see what happens. Maybe years of isolation tanked your hormones and thats why you're a pussy | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I’m not in any position to even try seduction am i... if you are mentally ill you’re basically fucked right?Then enjoy building for pillowfort alone while you rot away | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 0 | I’m not in any position to even try seduction am i... if you are mentally ill you’re basically fucked right?Good. Now take action to change your reality. You're pathethic and a loser. Stand up, reject weakness and make manhood proud. Lift weights, run marathons, be a firefighter. Be a goddamn man, bitch | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:14 PM |
| 18 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?If language is giving you problems, just open in English directly. If they reply back in English it's already the first sign of interest. Also I've noticed that women in clubs will actually screen the club at all times. If someone sees you getting rejected, that person will most likely reject you too. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:09 AM |
| 6 | Gaming at places you frequentYou could've excused yourself to the girl and start confronting the man. Who is he and why is he keeping a track on you? Is this person perhaps stalking you? You might want to consider a restraining order. Also, as if I'd even bother to engage in a discussion with this man. I'd probably prompt the girl to go somewhere else and leave the weirdo alone, or I'd just try to close the set and try next time | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:01 PM |
| 11 | I left after hooking up with a guy but idk if it was wrong/rudeThats the kinda guys we're up against? Jesus | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get laid in a foreign country where they only speak their language and definitely not English?I've been living on a different country for sometime now and it is way harder. No idea what these people are on about, probably just assuming without having actually any experience. At one point i had a girl extremely receptive, but i manage to kill all initial Attraction by making absolutely no sense with my words. You also mess up sentences, phrases you'd want to say, you cannot since you either A. Don't actually now how to translate B. It wouldn't make sense in their language. Its so frustrat… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I give up on talking to girls?and she took me to the bathroom I've watched this movie | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | PUA Forums, What happened to them?Dont go into the rabbit hole, its incel bait | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | People who are ranked above a 7 on the attractiveness scale: Who do you tend to date/go for?The ranking scale doesn't exist. Its either attracted or not attracted. Get those fake numbers out of your head | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:26 PM |
| 15 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.Because you're putting women on a pedestal. You're approaching girls to validate some sorta feeling inside you, so you start tryharding, thinking "i need to win her over" when in reality you should be looking to have fun and enjoy yourself, first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How to play The Rake/ Ideal Lover Combo?Chill out patrick bateman | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 11 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?I went from fat to strong and slightly fat. People respect me without even knowing me. i catch women glancing at me when I'm wearing a tshirt. In terms of confidence, it's night and day. Just walking into a room and knowing that i could lift most people in there up the air, makes me so unfathomably calm and relaxed, its like I'm entering a room full of kindergardeners. In terms of seducing women, they often assume I'm the rough guy thats gonna be a menace in bed(which i am, ironically) and it he… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:05 PM |
| 4 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough.This guy probably lurked rseduction 1 week, read the first 2 pages of models and then posted this | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | 22(m) this guy who I’m pretty sure knows I’m gay did the lower back touch thing and I’m confusedlike i said, if the touchy guys change their behaviour without, then they're not touchy guys, they are actively deciding to and when to touch (women). a touchy guy doesnt pay attention to touches, its almost a reflex that happens while speaking. again, just confront him about it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | 22(m) this guy who I’m pretty sure knows I’m gay did the lower back touch thing and I’m confusedI am a "touchy" guy and i touch people. I doubt there was any reason behind that touch, but you could simply point out that the way he touched you was very explicit and if he knows you're gay. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:44 AM |
| 23 | The reason why girls who want 6ft/6fig/6pac men piss me off and why I personally think it means you're a low quality women.Imagine being this invested on someone else. Why do you care so much about what she wants? Just ignore her, moved on with your life and find better people. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How to tease on this svecenarioWhat | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Getting rejected for heightHeight doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | My two cents on how to start dating after having been in a relationship for a very long time.I mostly agree. Dont waste time on "first dates". A walk towards a bar or even mcdonald for coffee/tea is enough for me. I also like to sit in front because its much easier to maintain eye contact. i usually hold my date's hand, caressing her slowly to keep some sexual tension on. Much easier to escalate into a kiss, just make sure youre both sitting across but still close to one other | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 20 | My two cents on how to start dating after having been in a relationship for a very long time.I dont agree at all with step 1. This whole 1-10 bullshit is so bad for your mental health. I dont care what number people assign me and i dont care what number other people are. If i find someone attractive, thats it. If i talk to an attractive chick and i am not interested in talking to her, i dont bang her just because i find her attractive. You're wasting so much mental energy on this weird mmr/elo think you talk about. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !Pff. I know a couple of middle eastern guys, and when they're around and see me approaching girls/people in general i can clearly see them staring and they also make snarky remarks afterwards. Such closed minded people. Guess thats what happens when you're used to forced marriage with cousins. They have no clue how the west works | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 8 | Do short guys still have a chance in casual relationships (hooking ups or one night stands)?What a loser mindset | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | I can't take this anymore.Couldn't find a book titled that way | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:07 AM |
| 14 | Is GF posting status in underwear a shit test?She is seeking validation from people and her gratification is proportional to the amount of views it gets. Massive red flag for me, i would never date people with ongoing traumas | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Still an idiot, but making progressHighly unlikely that another girl will approach you like that, but just in case: When you or she reach over to shake hands while presenting, don't let go off the hand. Pull her slightly closer, try to lean on a wall or something and keep chatting. If that seems too bold for you, if say she goes up to you and say "damn you're a cool guy" and turns around to leave, take her hand and say something. "Why dk you think that?" " I am actually a massive nerd" "you look pretty cool too" Women are subcons… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:33 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone ever successfully re-attracted someone?To much effort for potentially no results. Might as well move on and learn from the mistakes | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Setting up a date with her and her friend(s)? how to escalate ?Nice write up | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 10:24 PM |
| 0 | How can I (27/f) tell if my friend (42/m) likes me as more than a friend?Holy shit that age gap | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Was my ex a hoe and was breaking up a good thing ? Also am i dumb?Why are you even thinking about an ex. Who cares, move on | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:52 AM |
| -5 | Is eye contact crucial for guys to approach girls? Would you still approach if a girl wouldn't look at you?If you're a woman, all you need to do is stand in his proximity. Even if he's half man, he'll work up the courage to approach, at some point. But generally speaking, a good indicator of interest from your part would be touching. Never been touched by someone who was not interested | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Met her friends 72 hours after meeting her - yikesNice pull on the car ride, though theres too much kissing going on, i feel. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 06:47 AM |
| 5 | keeping mysteryBro what is happening to this subreddit | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | block the girl who unfriend meYou're most likely a nice guy™ | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I need help with missionAry.If you're doing missionary, use the cat technique. Another tip, make sure to keep her legs open when she's coming | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Advice on flirting through igEither meet in person or move on | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Confused about dating multiple girls... How do I get in a better mindset?OR you're just scared to kiss them so you're fabricating this elaborate kind, emphatic persona to not accept the fact that maybe you're scared | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 4 | How can introverts use cold approach/real life game?Not gonna read your wall of text, but assuming from the title: introvert doesnt mean inept at social interactions. If you're feeling scared or anxious, that has literally nothing to do with being introverted. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 32 | Does he want me to kiss him?"friend" "cuddle" Please | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 10:50 PM |
| 14 | Best replies to those girls who doesn't follow you back...what does this even mean | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:09 PM |
| 42 | Best replies to those girls who doesn't follow you back...Imagine caring about such trivial stuff. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:37 PM |
| 6 | How to meet younger girls if I'm out of HS/ College.Reading your description of yourself and you seem the hs shooter type. Whats up with "marching german songs"? Thats weird | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Why was he staring at me and not saying anything?Hes god and you're jesus christ? Maybe he sees you as a son? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Feeling a little bit like a loserYou cant mention party and conversation at the same time. Party game is more about body language, sexual tension, kino escalation and self confidence. Women recognize a high value man just by the way he's composing himself. If you're feeling out of place you'll make people around you feel out of place | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | what do you consider on hand on hip for guys?You're overthinking it. Not a PUA move, perhaps he just doesn't know what to do with his hands | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a 21 year old virgin?I somewhat relate to this. Fat teenager, big strong guy now. Believe or not i am virgin too, never done anything more than maybe hands on hips with a girl. also have zero to no libido and i don't know why. I'll be having my hormones checked because I've also never experienced random boners nor morning woods. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Give me your best openers"yes" "oh, okay nevermind then" | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:36 PM |
| 12 | Why do women reject you if they’re attracted to you?This guy knows. What women say doesn't matter, its what they do. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:32 PM |
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