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There is two counters to all shit tests Intent and attitude. To a question if you are into whatever there are so many good answers depending on who you are. My answer would be in the goal of my conversation: being playful and interested Mine would be probably along the lines of, „im into you a little“ smile „is this a thing really? types?“ pause „actually I don’t have a certain type I’m into, so I’m wondering. Is this a thing? You only date sweet Canadians or something?“ I think it’s a shallow q…
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:01 AM
1

Why would you go with Mutual friends if you are not getting enough 1o1 time? Holding hands for a quarter of a second is not kinestetic escalation
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:19 AM
1

What is your goal in the whole process? Do you want sex it’s girlfriend or fwb or what?
/r/seduction21/04/24 10:16 AM
5

Failing at seduction, attraction or comfort. I would add: not having clear intent. That’s probably it.
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:01 AM
1

Once or repeatedly? You know that maintaining and escalating are two different things? How about your seduction? Also do the women in question want to spend time with you or is the friends thing an excuse?
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:00 AM
110

Either she didn’t like what she saw in the apartment or she just got cold feet. Sometimes people get scared for reasons that are beyond you. I understand that that may hurt but maybe this has nothing to do with you at all. Let’s say you have a special lamp at your place and that lamp was there when she had a traumatic experience and she just had a flashback. Let’s say she puked while you were in the bath and had to go. You don’t know. Go back over what happened and how your place looks. Search f…
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:06 AM
1

No. You are free to have your own opinion. But it’s that: your opinion. Learn to phrase constructively and learn to speak in a way that others not only can understand and accept but a way others want to understand and accept. That goes especially for politics. We could argue that topic for ages and not get on the same page. So if you want to argue that (is there a possibility for a positive benefit of this interaction?) then you should make sure it’s a pleasant interaction. That does not mean yo…
/r/seduction08/04/24 01:54 AM
3

Criticizing and being mean are totally different. However even if you are constructively criticizing some people will see that as „attack“ towards them as a person. Not everyone handles criticism well So my rule of thumb is: will this feedback harm my relationship towards this person more than it will better it? Can this feedback from me possibly create a positive change? However I get the vibe that you just bluntly tell what bothers you or where you see „weakness“ and yeah that’s going to lose …
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:47 PM
10

Yes. Most women absolutely hate that. You want to be the big guy who is in control? Be that. Women notice if you play others down to make yourself seem bigger. There’s nothing said about being a pleasant tease but most people who are not mean are not attracted to mean people
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:17 PM
0

Awesome. So how about that coffee? €i like the answer of a different user even better: Awesome. So is it serious? Some women say „boyfriend“ as a bullshit test. Some say it because it’s true. And some say it because it’s true and they are still interested and some say it as a polite way to say no. You do not know which one it is, however asking would be very impolite. So for me that has always been what it is. I ask a question, someone answers another question, I repeat the question as if they d…
/r/seduction24/03/24 11:23 AM
0

Yes. Common sense. You do the equivalent of verbally grasping for their tit's. With that script you might do as well this: hi i am xx and I think you are beautiful and i was wondering if you want to come with me and have some fun today. However I doubt you have the attitude to pull that off. However that is what you are doing. The rate of return with that will not be great. What do you want to achieve with your "script"?
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:00 AM
4

You escalate this physically by setting up a meeting.
/r/seduction20/03/22 12:42 AM
7

It's not the what It's the how. You want to befriend her? To me this wouldn't work If you wanted to romantically and sexually pursue her - sure why wouldn't that be an ok thing to say? However it depends wether and how you are standing behind your words. Your intent and attitude are what will be most important not the words you use.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:38 PM
1

Lot of good stuff in here I don't thi n it really matters if you answer honestly or playfully as long as you have your attitude and intent right. Its a shit test. And with that you have the basic options you have with every shit test. I would probably respond with: maybe? probably. But I think the real question is: how exactly I would do that? And i would insist on her making a story out of that. Details please! And then go: and you would like that?
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:00 AM
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Hi
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:57 AM
1

Yeah as long as your criteria are met there's nothing wrong.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:41 PM
0

If you stop being respectful to people then you will have them stop being respectful to you. I personally do not want that in my life. I do neither cower from women or worship them for no reasons. I worship them tho - there are many reasons why you should. That being said I'm still against feminism - however I fail to see what that had to do with the price of the butter. Makeup is something that I can see. It's not hidden. It's there to enhance beauty. Like a polished car looks nicer than a dirt…
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:57 AM
1

But it's not an honest mistake. It's an intentional mistake. And that's what matters Besides I do not appreciate insults...
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:45 AM
2

Pretending to have a character you are working on - imagining being successful with women and people is different from pretending to be a celebrity. 1 is tricking yourself. 2 is tricking others.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:56 PM
2

Ahh yes fake it till you make it is indeed a good way. For your own emotions and mindset. That doesn't mean fake yourself to get laid. There's a difference
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:53 PM
4

Actually that kinda proves my point. You don't really care about being respectful to others. And that's not helpful long term. I promise
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:51 PM
5

Yes and no. Pretending to be someone you are not however is wrong
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:42 PM
2

Oh no. Makeup is there and you can see it. And people do have a problem with too much makeup. Pretending to be someone youre not however is wrong
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:41 PM
-17

And that folks is classic manipulation. I dislike it.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:00 PM
4

Yes yes yes. I have been saying that for ages.... It's the same question I always ask people who experience I clarity and like they are in a mess: What do you want?
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:36 PM
1

I totally forgot: Good job for going out and bettering yourself. Although it's perfectly fine to want to have sex with women and to make that intent obvious or not hide it.
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:29 PM
22

Yes. That's the problem. If youd do this for your social skills with no expectations then what's the problem talking to the dudes? Especially in the 4+3 set you could just speak to the guys. But you don't. You speak to women - without clear intent. And that's weird. Also you don't care for their answers it's about you having fun. Try making it about them having some
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:52 PM
2

It's not about age
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:05 AM
2

?
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:33 AM
3

Actually I ment it the other way around. If a woman came up to me like that it could also mean something fishy was going on... Also there is quite a good evolutionary explanation for fear of rejection: imagine being in a small and being rejected. Everyone knows and you lose status and attraction. It was dangerous then. Now this doesn't apply anymore much. In highschool perhaps, but not as an adult
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:51 AM
2

I think it's both. The danger added with the unlikelyness
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:42 AM
13

Yes well I think I would if I wasn't married. However I'd use the drink to find out what exactly she wants and how come we were talking. Maybe it's a fraud or shes up to something. Maybe she just wants some fun. Depends... However I think that's an unlikely scenario. However if you switch the gender around then it gets kinda weird because guys try that all the time and don't think that's weird.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:26 PM
3

No. But they should teach relationships and how to relate as well as differences between men and women and how to deal with them. On the matter of school shootings. Ye well that's just an American problem and it's not due to people not getting ass but people being asses....
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:08 PM
77

So let me recap. You work there and as an employee you comment on your customers cuteness? That has nothing to do with being in India. I don't know India but I do believe that getting to know someone you haven't met before is possible in every culture. Complimenting someone with some dubious intention however is not likely to work.
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:07 PM
2

No I didn't read. I merely think your title is either clickbait or wrong Either way is bad so i criticize. Also if you think insulting me makes your opinion count more or having me not commenting makes your title any better you are mistaken. I would also suggest that if you don't want to or cannot handle or even do not welcome critical feedback you probably should not give advice or publicly speak about any opinion you might have. I'm not saying you can't. It's just not likely to help you or any…
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:57 PM
2

Saying all pick up artists are a certain way is like saying all men or all Germans or all white people are a certain way That's deceptive and victimization...
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:32 PM
2

This has been bookmarked. Not for me I will not need this. But for others to refer to. Good stuff.
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:18 AM
3

Believe what you believe. It's not going to help you. You just blame your lack of success on your exterior. And that in itself is unsexy. I'd say like about a 5/10 at best... But then again. It doesn't matter what I say because in order to agree with me you would have to put into consideration that there is actually things you could change in oder to be more successful and that means you can't just blame something you cannot control. And we both know your not gonna do that. However I would reall…
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:13 AM
8

I think you are wrong. I personally know people who are good with women and who aren't looking that good. I'm not saying looks don't help. They do - a lot But it's not the determining Factor
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:57 AM
6

I'm not into that whole push pull thing myself. I don't see what's wrong with being interested in a person. However you are not being honest with her. You like to be with her romantically and sexually. Yet you seem to not show that or hide it or try to seduce her slowly or whatever your doing you aren't doing it with conviction It's ok to be sexually interested. Not about work or something but about fcking her brains out next Saturday if she'd like that. What i mean is: you don't have to be rude…
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:14 PM
1

Yes and about physically ramping up the seduction process. You may as well google diCarlo kino escalation ladder
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:02 PM
1

Google "kino escalation" then
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:52 PM
3

Google is your friend
/r/seduction13/11/21 07:18 AM
0

Actually my comment was completely serious and on topic. You just didn't get it
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:53 PM
12

Kino
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:37 AM
26

That's what I've been telling people all day long. Clear open intent and confidence in that intent is everything you really need. Everything else is just secondary.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:49 PM
2

Just ask?
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:54 AM
2

I'm sorry this is so short but I'm not in the mood of going more into detail. You will have to work on each paragraph. It's a little full. I would suggest reading this over each day for the next week once and thinking about a different paragraph each time. You can't possibly emotionally (not intellectually) understand everything up there in just one go. You get what I mean soon enough, but changing your emotional belief system takes time and subconscious effort (emotional understanding)
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:48 AM
5

Oh wow No. This is wrong. I don't know where to begin. First i begin at your definition of love. I think you are having a crush. You really like the woman and she gives you the soft kneed and butterfly's in your stomach. Love is when you - fuck i totally fuck this explanation up every time I try... Ok I'll try: love is like a mother loves her child, she wants it to succeed to grow and be happy. She wants her best even if that is hurting her or if she doesn't agree. She just needs to be well and …
/r/seduction30/10/21 02:43 AM
2

Yes there is. Women are at the club to have fun and possibly meet someone for the night. You go there get drunk, trying to impress them. But to what purpose? To feel appreciated? If you are not really good at what you do, the club will remain a numbers game, meaning you will have to get some nos in order to get a yes. So you will be not appreciated by the majority and only by a minority. Getting better at being the dancing monkey will change that balance more towards a bigger minority or maybe e…
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:59 AM
-10

So you warn people from every business transaction that went wrong for you?
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:00 PM
-8

What do you want?
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:59 PM
1

Yes. Same. But then a lot of relationships work without people knowing anything about seduction game or pua intellectually. I agree, knowing is better.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:42 AM
1

Also seduction is not completely necessary to do on a high level in order to maintain a healthy relationship Not saying it's not a plus. Or that you don't have to also seduce your partner regularly. However with intent and familiarity this gets way easier with your partner compared to seducing random strangers
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:12 AM
117

Honestly if it were me I'd just tell them I liked their fried very much and asked them if they were ok if we went to my place after the party. And just to make safe I'd ask who the responsible person from the group was and I'd give her my address and phone number so they know everything was fine and we just really liked each other and wanted to see if we can have a little fun. I suck at game. I'm just honest and have clear intent. If they wouldn't be fine with that i'd understand and we could po…
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:58 PM
391

You probably just got cck blocked by her friends This happens if you aren't introduced and made friends with them.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:43 PM
1

Ye I get that. However from all 4 dates you have cancelled 4 so far. I really want to hang out get to know each other and specific in here, e.g. have some fun together; go a little deeper; whatever. However I think you should pick the next place and time and make it up to me? :-)
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:47 AM
3

Why would you date a bitchy person. I wouldn't. And I don't spend time with those people.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:33 PM
6

It's more like the very small dudes often complain that it's a problem for them. However I think it's more like a soft minus if you are a little short rather than a huge plus if your above 180
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:14 PM
1

Well at least you have something to show for it 😂 As long as you pay attention to vibe and emotions and empathically care for your partner nothing is being wrong with being a hot millionaire.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:25 AM
2

Yes. Attraction however isn't based on looks or social status alone. A lot of it is vibe. However vine has a lot to do with attitude and character.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:24 AM
3

No. Not at all. But dating and hookups aren't the same as a good deep relationship. Ofc you have more options. The hot girl has more options. It depends on what you want: many causal hookups? Then yes super helpful! A single person you want to settle down with for a long time? Still helpful but not a must have.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:20 AM
1

To go even a step furtg and challenge you more: how come you have that belief? What are you compensating for? The one that got away, because you weren't enough or the circumstances weren't right? Sadly neither belongings or a sixpack and not even a huge penis help with heartbreak and emotional pain. But they are still nice to have. And I wouldn't want to miss em. :-)
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:18 AM
3

You think you are worth more than me because you have a house and a car and money and good looks and a huge penis and i don't. But there you are wrong. We are worth the same. We just have different shit. Another example coming right up: what is the worth of a baby? It just screams and poops and eats and doesn't let you sleep. Is it more worth or less worth than you or me?
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:14 AM
5

People are people for who they are. Looks and their job is only a part of it. And NOT the most important part. You can be good looking and rich and still be a prat. Who wants to be with a prat? That begs the question who do you want to be with? A good looking millionaire? What does this information tell us about the person? Very very little. If you put to much store by your income and social status you can lose connection to what really matters and reality and emotions. And then no money or stat…
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:04 AM
3

If you can't see it it's probably not happening anytime soon without luck. However that's true for any big goal or thing. You want to learn the piano and aren't just nimble enough to play the bumblebee? Yeah guess what. Practice makes perfect. You want to be a good chef and can't make the perfect tender loin the first time around. Yes that happens. Seducing women and attracting them is a skill. And like any complex skill it also involves attitudes and thought patterns. I give you an example. You…
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:58 AM
9

You understand how seduction and display of social value works. However you don't understand how deep connections and relationships really work. With your mindset I do not believe you would be able to. Let me explain: If you think you are absolutely right with that looks come first and then comes money and career, then the above described scenario is unlikely at best. However if you were right all or most of the dad's who have had no jobs or aren't really good looking can't get good looking wife…
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:38 AM
1

Physical qualities: you are groomed. Personal qualities: none. You learn those while you learn seduction
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:26 PM
2

I used to like Joop green. But here's a tip: take a pen and go to Douglas or something similar. Smell your way through the testers, then use some on different areas and write next to it what it is. The cologne will change it's odor after an hour and after two and will smell different on you. After that you have your tier 3
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:16 PM
1

Actually it was Dumbledore who said that
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:19 AM
1

Really, Hagrid, if you are holding out for universal popularity, I'm afraid you will be in this cabin for a very long time.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:15 AM
5

What do you want?
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:40 AM
0

What do you want?
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:52 AM
15

The problem is neither your looks not your instability the problem is your emotions and your attitude. Who wants to be with someone who looks at himself with disgust and who will not take the risk of being hurt. The latter is the bigger issue btw. However there is hope. You are the one person who can change your attitude toward dating and women. I can try help along the way but the decision is yours. Also if you are able to i would suggest seeing a professional therapist. I don't think you have …
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:50 AM
2

So what does he want?
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:28 AM
2

What do you want?
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:18 AM
7

I don't get it. You know what you have to do. Do it
/r/seduction22/06/21 12:09 PM
1

While true I see no point anymore in spreading the black ops tactics. Nothing good will come of it so spreading them is in my opinion not a good idea. Instead there is a positive approach for this. What do your friends sexually want? Maybe your friend in question doesn't like bad boys and jerks but maybe she just likes it rough. Like choking and making her do stuff and the like. If you are willing and able to give the other person what they want sexually then that's usually a huge turn on.
/r/seduction22/06/21 04:18 AM
1

I think that when we were younger we all turned to each other and see what the next person did. Due to the internet the bubbles will have increased in size probably though. However i personally do not fail to meet genuine and beautiful women. As to following a script: maybe maybe not. If you are really good at picking up women you know what you need to do. You can categorize women's behavior and have a answer ready for any situation. That however is true for almost anything anywhere. If you are …
/r/seduction22/06/21 04:09 AM
17

Buy condoms. If it happens it happens if not then not. Don't focus on tips or techniques or something. Enjoy yourself and let her enjoy herself (or yourself for that matter) Have fun
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:46 AM
8

Just brabble. You will get your point across. What you say and how wellyou say it is not very important. What you want and expect is more important. Next time you see a girl GO talk to her. Say hi or anything. As long as you bridge or get her contact information it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:13 PM
9

Tl/Dr You act with intent and you expect positive outcome from your interactions while still paying attention to what is going on NOW (and adjusting accordingly, while keeping your intent and positive expectations true until they are (for the moment) refuted) Yes.
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:10 PM
1

You will just have to go at it any way you can then ? No?
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:23 PM
1

Then you go and buy some?
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:22 AM
1

What do you want?
/r/seduction13/05/21 10:21 AM
0

Thy have style. Tis the better way that is yours!!
/r/seduction11/05/21 04:06 AM
2

You don't have taste. Go away. I'm not relinquishing my aux power. Evil laughter. Never relinquish your aux power. You should go on a date with him if he is that good with playing ... Music. Stop getting on my nerves. Are you annoying me on purpose or is it just your usual persona? What do I get for him playing one song? ... No that's not enough. Do that puppy dog eye thing and beg for him to play a song. ... Haha omg you're bad at it. After she told you that one song the other dude was playing:…
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:50 AM
2

That is another part of it. What we are referring to is ikigai
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:58 PM
6

When that mission includes helping others and being useful to them then gratitude and content will go hand in hand with not giving a fuck (when you don't want to)
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:35 PM
-2

If you do not have success with finding someone to be intimate with on tinder and bumble why would you assume talking to random possibly unwilling strangers on the streets will get you better results? Also: aren't you the one seeking to validate himself with female attention but are unwilling to give back? What do you bring to the table to make other people want to have you as their fick buddy? 6 Inches?
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:32 PM
1

And they are probably the ones being sane and rational people...
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:22 PM
2

You are fun. I'd like to get to know you more. You want to swap numbers? And you ask her to call you and e voila.
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:55 AM
2

What do you want?
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:46 AM
2

And is there any shame to that?
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:37 PM
1

No I didn't mean that. I meant: whatever she answered you would get to know her to the point that you know wether you are compatible or not?
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:36 PM
1

Depending of how she said so: yes. So regardless of her answer you would get to know her well enough?
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:02 PM
3

What do you want?
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:01 PM
1

So if she says she doesn't want to go grab a coffee what would that tell you about her?
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:58 PM
1

You want to go to Starbucks with every really cute woman?
/r/seduction20/04/21 03:01 PM
1

Why do you want to go to Starbucks with her?
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:06 PM
1

Why ?
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:05 PM
1

Well do you want to go to Starbucks with her?
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:04 PM
3

If you phrase it like that. Yes. If you ask her to grab a coffee after work or whatever. No.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:56 PM
0

Hi.
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:59 PM
1

That's probably not the real issue
/r/seduction16/04/21 10:32 PM
1

Hi!
/r/seduction16/04/21 08:57 PM
1

I totally agree. However fun is not the only emotion that counts. It's making them feel is what counts.
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:47 PM
1

I don't disagree. I'm just noticing that this is his excuse for not getting some. And I'm not saying text game can't be beneficial to that. However it's not necessary. At all.
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:31 PM
3

No. You don't attract people over text much. You can connect and even seduce, but attract? However i doubt that is your sticky point. Textgame doesn't get you anywhere. For you I suggest using text to get somewhere.
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:26 PM
1

I'm too old for tinder but I know a lot of girls who meet and met men over the platform. So yes. It's just you and not tinders fault. That's good though. It just means you have to identify sticky points and continue working and improving yourself
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:31 PM
1

Then try that. You can just walk up to people and tell them that you are nervous when speaking to people and that is why you want to make some effort and have some conversations. And if they have 5 minutes. Or you can tell them you are benny the marsian and you want to know what they favourite taste of bowling balls is. It's doesn't matter much to be honest. As long as you keep q good attitude and don't pester people who don't want to talk
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:59 PM
3

I think you should answer my question first
/r/seduction02/04/21 11:21 AM
10

No that's not ok. You don't just walk up to people and ask their number. You make conversation. What would you gain from a number? Nothing. Besides that, I think it's a good idea to talk to beautiful women at the mall (maybe a town over)! What is your goal in approaching women at the mall (or at all) for the time being?
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:02 AM
2

Then stop it. Enjoy the real life.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:24 AM
2

You place waaay too much meaning on texts. You have fun with her, she wants to see you and you worry about her leaving you on read? Stay real.
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:19 AM
1

Fix a date. Stop overanalyzing
/r/seduction16/03/21 06:35 PM
1

Probably. However if you feel uncomfortable going to her place or yours then maybe you can enjoy a nice stroll together and maybe grab a coffee or make some pasta together at your place after?
/r/seduction05/03/21 09:06 PM
2

Read also neal strauss the game. Work on your inner game and attitude towards sex relationships and women You seem to mix those up. While all of them are quite enjoyable they are fundamentally different. Sex is not the same as relationship nor love.
/r/seduction05/03/21 09:02 PM
1

I think beginners should not focus on technique at all. Beginners should focus on the right attitude (or inner game as some call that) and in addition to making their opposite enjoy themselves and relax.
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:11 PM
2

This will work if your goal is to get laid. It's a numbers game. However I don't like the numbers game. I like to believe in sincerety and connection.
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:06 PM
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Well what you want? Relationship, connection or just some booty?
/r/seduction08/02/21 06:43 PM
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I find my girls at Home. 3 of them. That's enough for me lolo. Try a dating app?
/r/seduction08/02/21 06:39 PM
2

Gaming in gym is baaad style.
/r/seduction08/02/21 06:32 PM
2

And you think learning to seduce and attract women and learning how to behave around women somehow diminished your soul?
/r/seduction28/01/21 06:50 PM
2

And how is that working out for you nonchad?
/r/seduction26/01/21 08:59 PM
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This is not an inner game question. And neither of those are preferable. Knowing how to attract and seduce women and being able to spend time with many pretty women are probably the key features, besides having a killer body. That would probably down the amount of time necessary to attract and seduce significantly. However I do not see how this question is useful or how the answers would benefit anyone
/r/seduction08/01/21 05:56 PM
2

The dude posts this again and again. It's spam. Old don't bother answering.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:14 AM
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Comment
/r/seduction23/12/20 02:58 AM
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There's loads about that but most comes from experience. You can look into alpha male body language, eye contact and flash game. However getting your body into shape helps too
/r/seduction20/12/20 10:23 PM
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Hi. I'm a sorry to interrupt you with your ... But I just couldn't let the chance pass to get to know you. I'm hooo. So I see would there be a convenient time for you and if you like we can get to know each other then? And take it from there. Being introvert doesn't mean you can't talk to people. It also doesn't mean you cant set appointments or cant exchange numbers.
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:56 PM
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I don't see the point If you both would like to continue the conversation you take out your phone and call her number. That's it.
/r/seduction13/11/20 10:51 PM
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This is a useless question. Would you? So what if I would or wouldn't. This doesn't help you.
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:29 AM
1

Like every other girl by saying hi
/r/seduction18/10/20 04:45 AM
0

Logic mistake If many girls a after a guy, girls like the guy. Not the other way around. Or at least not sooo much. There's always the experienced part and the social value part and it's not to be underestimated. But manly it's your logic flaw.
/r/seduction17/10/20 10:48 PM
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Go to a different town for starters. Ask them if you e got a minute because you have social anxiety and you want to practice especially speaking to beautiful women. Don't sit. The 3 second rule applies
/r/seduction13/10/20 06:29 PM
3

Do not put game before responsibility.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:44 AM
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I just noticed I have your number even though it's been such a long time ago that you gave it to me. Sorry for texting. Hope this isn't weird. Just wanted to say hi and ask if you still remember me? 😊
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:33 PM
1

Though I disagree on many accounts with the do what you want approach. Do what you want for yourself and work as a team on what you want as a relationship team
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:46 PM
1

And evolve your masculine energy
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:44 PM
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That's basically the worst summary ever
/r/seduction16/09/20 11:59 AM
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And if I noticed that they would feel threatened at all then I'd leave. And I'm sorry and I hope we meet again under better circumstances. Women get intentions. Women do get the fact that I'm huge and strong. Women know that if I wanted to do anything I would - but I absolutely don't seem to. So I would keep it short, polite, give her my number - keep my distance and leave asap. Like I said: I wouldn't intentionally go out speaking to women on dark streets at night, but I also wouldn't let an op…
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:13 AM
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You can always say hello can't you? It's not that you'd go out And start searching in a dark backyard alley is it? It's just more difficult, but why let the chance pass? Let us assume the lady of your dreams walks by and it's quite dark. And excuse me I realldY don't want to bother you,. Especially because it's creepy at night and all, but I just couldn't let you walk by, knowing I'd kick myself for weeks for not talking to you. So I'm Hooo. And I have got much time I'm off towards home, but I j…
/r/seduction14/09/20 06:57 PM
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Context my friend
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:43 AM
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You just assume what you would like to happen and act accordingly, paying attention to wether she likes what is happening or not.
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:47 PM
1

Well If you both are Happy the way your Relationship is then why is your girl nagging you to prove your love to her?
/r/seduction09/08/20 05:52 PM
1

If your relationship can be described as "enjoyable while being obedient" this makes a great porno title or describes a master and slave relationship. What it not describes is a healthy two sided equal relationship. You are leading your slave on. You make her believe you have feelings for her as a person, which you obviously don't. And I can only hope she realizes that sooner than later and gets out of there. To you I advise getting in touch with your own emotions. Where does that wall come from…
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:23 AM
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How exactly are you feeling towards your "girlfriend"
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:11 AM
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BE interested and sincere. Be playful and enjoy yourself. Be true with your intentions and take it easy. Be seductive and step forward. Keep the distance and allow some room. There is nothing wrong with being interested in girls/women. If you too are compatible you evolve further. If not not. Be pleasant and emotionally strong. Empathize also. Know what you want, think about how to get it, do that and expect the right outcome.
/r/seduction09/08/20 06:08 AM
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Im serious, we should. Is there a reason for You too laugh? Be more confident in yourself and your intent
/r/seduction07/08/20 03:34 AM
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What makes you want to get interest from women? How do you feel. If you think women are attracted to you? What do you gain by having relationships and or dates with women? How would you have wanted the situation you described in your first post to optimally play out?
/r/seduction05/08/20 03:35 AM
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What do you gain out of cold approach? What are the reasons for you to keep doing it? How would you have liked your relationship with the woman in question to evolve?
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:47 PM
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Answer the question first. Can't tell you what to do right if you don't know what you wanted to do any how
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:39 PM
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What do you want in regards to the woman in question? You lack intent, that is what makes you feel you didn't do the right thing, because it never was clear what you wanted to achieve in the first place
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:36 PM
1

Why would you even want to?
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:30 PM
2

What do you want? Please don't say an opinion
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:29 PM
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I don't see what you can do besides getting to know beautiful women and connecting with them, apart from reevaluating your standards. Women aren't what you get out of them. And if all you have to offer is much great sex then probably that is all you will get in return.
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:49 AM
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No one is perfect. You aren't perfect too. You have high standards and that means you run through a lot of women in order to find the right one. Emotionally connect to the women in your life, have deep talks and see where you want to go with them. Good Luck
/r/seduction03/08/20 03:40 AM
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Hey I don't want to be invasive but I have to admit that I noticed after the party at xyxy that I am indeed a little into you, so Id like really to keep our conversation goin. What do you say towards a date at Coffeeplaza in Friday, so we can get to know each other more?
/r/seduction01/08/20 07:13 PM
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I think she's scared. I would let her know that she can take her time and that you can move forward whenever she's ready
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:09 PM
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I don't believe that at all. Are you sure that you just want to take some women out on dates?
/r/seduction28/06/20 09:32 PM
2

What do you want from your game?
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:22 PM
1

What do you want to achieve?
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:15 PM
1

Then make it your goal. Get rejected by 5 women before you start speaking to any
/r/seduction14/06/20 02:56 PM
1

What is the worst that could possibly happen in a situation like that?
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:25 AM
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Have the talk by the fire about what you both like, maybe sexually and or emotionally. Muscles also surely are sore if you have traveled way long. That probably needs to be eased up a little. I mean what's better than talking about what both of you really like while you are slowly caressing your sore areas beside the campfire. Kissing maybe better but that kan wait for another day. Except maybe there's an insect in her hair, which by the way is very nice.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:13 PM
1

This is not an outer game issue. What do you want from numbers women give you?
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:09 PM
1

I don't see what her going outside habits have to do with you seducing her?
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:08 PM
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You don't need to impress other people Get to know her. What she likes, why she likes it. Talk with her. Remember that body contact is normal. People like it. You are a great person, find out if you maybe compatible. If you are that's fine. If you find out you are not - maybe because she doesn't like you back in that way - then that's ok too. If you pay attention to her and are with her and you don't hide that you think she is cute and whatnot you will be fine. Even if she doesn't like you back,…
/r/seduction08/06/20 12:11 PM
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I think the question is off. You learn how to relate to women. But not everyones goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I was the odd one in highschool and now I have a wife and understand relating to women to a very high degree
/r/seduction01/06/20 07:47 AM
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I meant: what is the purpose of game? What does it do? What does someone gain from game? Philosophically speaking
/r/seduction29/05/20 02:56 PM
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Real talk: how come you define your relationship status on a number that averages sex partner per month This doesn't add up to me
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:30 PM
1

I mean: what is the use of game? What reason is there to game? What does it do, philosophically speaking
/r/seduction28/05/20 01:27 PM
1

What is the purpose of game?
/r/seduction28/05/20 07:22 AM
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Women are not a thing. They are a person. What's the reason for you being in a relationship?
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:46 AM
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Women aren't a thing. That's not meaning you can't toy with them. That's meaning they have their own decisions. Any woman can be seduced but you will not have success with every woman you want to seduce. That would be ridiculous. Your so is being seduced by you. You treat game as if someone does it to her and she has no choice and boom she's away with them. That's not true. The rest is trust in you own level of seduction trust in you communicating everything with each other and most importantly …
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:43 AM
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I think this is more a concept of attitude. If you hold that attitude that looks isn't everything and she should be just as (if not more ) interested in you than vice versa, you betray that in your actions. Being the one in control being the one pushing and pulling is the point, not verbalizing it. At lot of the game boils down to having that attitude. You don't have to verbalize anything. Look at flashgame for example. It works and most other principles don't apply. But it works out of experien…
/r/seduction14/03/20 10:11 AM
1

Google pua lair Austin Texas. There is one in your town.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:21 AM
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Good luck then
/r/seduction05/03/20 04:29 AM
1

What do you want?
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:45 PM
1

Google that.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:44 PM
1

What do you want?
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:05 PM
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I think you are missing a big part here. Most men actually don't try to play the numbers game because it doesn't involve connection and real love. What you are feeling may be seen as having a crush. However you are missing the deep connection of a real intended to last relationship. A relationship where both partners have true love and aren't just living out their crush. It's a part where both of you become most vulnerable to each other for the amazing connection they have. I am lucky to be havi…
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:29 AM
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No. I meaning that some people are and some people are not. I myself for example know quite some about being a push but I have never played the numbers game nor will I. But as to you in have no doubt that there is no difference
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:41 AM
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It is their job to be friendly to you. If I really really liked what I saw I'd personally excuse myself for talking to her on her job, but since I thought she is extremely hot and I would like the chance to see wether her personality lives up to her looks she can have my number so we could set a date for us to get to know each other. I'd rather cut that as short as it is. Open intention and not bother her with her work. There's probably loads of different ways to approach it but hired guns are a…
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:31 AM
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Hey ____. I'm sorry if I did come on sort of strong. I just came out of a relationship and focussed on getting better and being on my own for a while and then you came along and I wouldn't want to let you pass me without at least speaking to you. Obviously I would very much like the opportunity to meet you again and get to know you better - no strings attached. But I get the vibe that you don't. If you would like that too then i would love to invite you to casual place in public where you can sp…
/r/seduction14/02/20 07:47 AM
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No. It is not bad advice. You write that it doesn't matter what happens with the girl and that you are not concerned anyhow. That is why I think you don't treat her as a person but as a tool. If that is not the case then great. If you just want to know how to escalate physically the easiest way would be a massage. You could also touch her hair. If she allowed that end enjoyed that you are very likely allowed to kiss her. If you do that with enough passion you can start touching her ass and start…
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:07 AM
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Picking up girls doesn't mean you only want sex. It can also mean you want a relationship. Of the intent is just meaningless sex then I personally don't see any difference. However I don't think being a push means you just want meaningless sex.
/r/seduction14/02/20 06:01 AM
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Don't treat her as a piece of meat. She is not a tool you use to get rid of your virginity. If she is then at least let her know that. Also you don't need to fake anything. What is there to fake. You kiss then you undress her and let her suck you and then you go from there
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:00 PM
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No but I'm curious. What are the other questions?
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:57 PM
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Intent is the difference
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:40 PM
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They also can sense your approach as a numbers game. That puts them of. Especially in groups. You would also have to deal with a lot of cockblocking. Try easier sets.
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:31 PM
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Instead of iois women are real. Iii is just a concept. Also I'd suggest working on your inner game. I am here to help, not to be discarded in a bad way. If you think my advice is shit just don't listen. Making fun or amogging people who want to help is just bad style. You should be above that
/r/seduction13/02/20 07:08 PM
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Di Carlos escalation ladder pdf. Google it. Enjoy. Also remember: touching is natural.
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:34 PM
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I think you set too much store by iois Imagine they didn't exist, what would you want to do?
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:29 PM
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It's about intention. You think (maybe) that wanting to have sex with a woman you meet first thing in broad daylight is not appropriate. And you would be right. If your intent is to get to know a person and possibly seduce her then this is very appropriate. And whatever happens you will achieve that intent I don't really think the confidence based mindset is helpful to getting to know and seducing women It means that there is something to be confident about. You don't have to be particularly con…
/r/seduction12/02/20 08:12 AM
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And how much can you learn if it's not innate?
/r/seduction09/02/20 09:30 PM
3

How much of playing football is innate? How much of good cooking is innate? How much of leading a healthy and lasting relationship is innate?
/r/seduction09/02/20 09:17 PM
1

That's called a friendship
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:28 PM
1

Then I don't get what you want
/r/seduction08/02/20 12:11 AM
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I am not friend of your game. What you are doing is an numbers game. You will choose the next woman until you find one that is willing to fuck. It works but I personally think it doesn't create connection and care and bonds. However if you don't care for the above and just want to have sex with any woman available then go for it. It would not do for me.
/r/seduction07/02/20 11:17 PM
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It's also a little blunt. It's like saying nice shoes wanna fuck as an opening line. You can do it but you should not be surprised if you are rejected The fact that you are surprised makes me think you don't know what you are doing. If you don't know what you are doing I suggest: "hey I'm name. I saw you and came over to get to know you and invite you to a coffee or anything else in public that's not threatening and gives you the chance of getting to know each other. "
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:36 PM
2

What do you want from/with regards to her?
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:48 AM
2

What do you want?
/r/seduction06/02/20 04:42 AM
1

Can you bring her home before you two spend time together?
/r/seduction04/02/20 05:13 AM
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You can't fuck a girl in a bar tho. So I still don't get what you want. You don't want to go on a date but you want sex and relationships? It's like you want abs but no workout.
/r/seduction02/02/20 08:36 PM
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If I asked you to tell me how to get a body like you have, would you tell me to do the same workout as you are doing right now? What I mean is: escalating from saying hello to having sex in a short time takes some practice (and isn't anything I'd do anyways) What do you think about taking things slow and getting the girl in question on a date alone?
/r/seduction02/02/20 08:29 PM
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The problem is that you don't have any intention. What do you want? Talk to a girl for 5minutes then take her home and fuck her? Do you think you need to lose your virginity quickly? What do you want?
/r/seduction02/02/20 08:22 PM
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No. It is a decision I made. Sometimes we regret our decisions. And that is when we learn from them and the next time we see that gorgeous woman smiling at us we go to say Hi! I'm Hooo.
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:49 PM
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Hello Sandra. I know you said I shouldn't write because you didn't want to get hurt. So in order for you not to get hurt by me leaving you all alone I thought I should send u a text asking if you are free on next Saturday evening for A dinner at my place? I will be cooking pasta.
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:55 AM
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She tells you she doesn't want to get hurt. She is obviously afraid of being emotional invested. She didn't tell you not to call. She told you not to break her heart.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:32 PM
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The problem is not the second date. I can't put my finger on the problem yet as to too little information. However I have some suggestions as to what maybe causes your problems 1) not clear enough (communicated) intentions 2) no Physical "escalation" 3) no "pushing them" away or in any direction 4) lack of masculine energy 5) acting without purpose ...5) low social value or 6( something else Obviously you are a nice guy who is fun to talk to. And that's a plus. But it's also a problem Concerning…
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:09 PM
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No that is not true What most people don't get is that being able to lead a lasting relationship needs a skillset that can be learned. Seducing and attracting women needs a similar but different skillset Being the best version of yourself means to strife to be a better person. The way you are now you already are the best person you could be, or would anyone decide "well today I'm gonna be totally useless by my own choice"
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:31 PM
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Women do not want to be an adventure. They want to be taken on one. Being confident and having a purpose, being independent and having hobbies Being interested but not needy Making her work for your notice All of those are seen as very masculine traits And not only that It feels good too.
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:19 PM
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Hi! I'm flying poutine.
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:14 PM
1

I've never heard the term before and to lazy to google it Anyone care to elaborate?
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:03 PM
0

Actually that is not what happened. What happened is that she was flattered and declined. The reason for that decline you do not know. Persistence is key.
/r/seduction07/01/20 08:53 PM
1

That is the wrong question for a variety of reasons. Here is another question: why would you even want to and what would you do to her if you had one? Read the game by Neal Strauss
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:47 AM
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Next time.you are there Ask again :-)
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:37 AM
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There is a ton of material out there I would suggest reading "the game" by Neal Strauss and if you liked it then adding "the truth" for perspective sometime later. There is outer and inner game that you will need to set straight in order to be able to confidentially attentionally attract women. The being ugly part isn't that bad. For men it's more about grooming, styling, being in shape and behaviour than about the actual face you have. Most of the stuff you can just google. For outer game I adv…
/r/seduction07/01/20 01:33 AM
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