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Long term this is a good problem to have bc when you get older you’ll look great for your age. But I was like you I always lookex a lot younger than people thought. When I was 19 I hit the gym hard. Put on 20 lbs in a semester and went from skinny to muscular. Took me from looking like I was a young high schooler to being sought after college bachelor.
/r/seduction31/07/22 10:57 PM
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You don’t want to date women who care only about money. With that said if you’re smart with your money now life will become a lot easier in the long run. Saving a crap ton in your early 20’s and investing it can allow you to live a very comfortable life and potentially retire very early. Im 34 and lived with my parents when I got out of college. My biggest regret was not investing as much money as I could. Not the potential missed dating opportunities
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:44 AM
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Also be honest with women if this is what you want. No need to play with feelings. Tell them straight up
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:28 PM
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I’m a big snowboarder. This year I wanted to start doing some more complicated tricks like 540s. They terrified me as I’d never done them. So I just went full throttle and just kept trying to do it. Fell a bunch and it hurt but eventually I learned new tricks and I’m happier than ever with my snowboarding.
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:02 PM
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My favorite game to play with my girlfriend is called Patchwork. 2 players. Not expensive. Lots of replay ability. Kindof Tetris like. Only takes like 20-30 min to play and isn’t super thinly so you can chat
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:19 AM
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No girl is out of your league brother. You’re a high value individual who has something unique and great to offer any women. Don’t forget this and don’t undersell yourself.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:50 PM
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You’re still young and in your dating prime where the expectations women have aren’t to just settle down and have kids, and women really look for a guy who’s best days are ahead of him. Focus less on trying to score with hot women and focus more on improving yourself in every way possible… physically, financially, socially, emotionally, etc. You’ll find by focusing on always improving yourself you’ll be much more interesting to high quality women. Plus by focusing on improving yourself you’ll fi…
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:36 PM
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Practices the cowbell for months to join band
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:20 PM
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What I’m finding difficult is I’m in a similar boat with a girl. I’m just currently not doing a lot of social stuff due to Covid. Normally I’m always going out to bars w people but I work nights and you can’t get alcohol past 10 pm at any restaurant and bars are closed. Also currently living with a friend who has kids to save money while i house hunt. So I kindof have to chase bc I cant do what I normally do and just have abundance or invite them to gatherings I’m going to. Plus I’ve done a few …
/r/seduction23/07/20 07:10 PM
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Good to hear. Thank you
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:30 PM
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This is very good advice. Thank you. I have to see her again regardless bc I left my watch so I can def gauge her. I honestly think she’s really into me, she’s just a harder girl to pursue bc she works 2 jobs and has an active social life so she’s a busy girl.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:53 AM
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Ain’t that the truth.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:38 AM
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Ya for sure. I went out of town to officiate a friends wedding which she thought was cool. Just sent a picture of me performing the ceremony which I thought she would like bc it shows a cool unique thing I do. So I’ll prob just call tomorrow and if she doesn’t answer send a text saying “hey just calling to see when you’re free this week”
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:25 AM
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Ya. She was texting me a bit while I’m out of town. Def feel like the opportunity is still there. I just overthink and analyze this stuff and always wanna make the next right move. She’s a very attractive social girl. The type who prob has numerous guys currently chasing her. She has some sort of nterest in me it’s obvious. Just wanna make sure I make the right moves and things progress bc this I’m incredibly picky when it comes to women, and this is a chick I def wanna date.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:21 AM
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Is calling tomorrow to set a time for a date after no text response you think a good idea? Or is a text better? I really wanna see her again this week bc were about to both become really busy with work and it’ll be harder later on. We talked about trying to set a date this week but she’s not expecting a phone all.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:14 AM
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I’ve been out of town since the day after and get back Tuesday. Sent her a text of a picture this morning that doesn’t require a response but would’ve expected a response and didn’t get it. You think actually calling and setting a date tomorrow is a good idea?
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:13 AM
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Ya I hope she understands that was the main reason why. Def not trying to have sex the first time with a girl no condom.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:10 AM
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Ya for sure. You’re 100% right. I always feel like I’m walking on eggshells when I’m trying to date a woman. Feel like I don’t enjoy it bc I’m just trying not to fuck up. I’ll really kick myself if I fuck up this one. Sex was a 100% guarantee if I went for it. Hard to look back at that if it doesn’t work out.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:09 AM
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We talked about doing a date this week a few days ago but haven’t really talked since and I feel like she might be losing interest. How would you proceed from here?
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:45 AM
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Ya fuck man this is what I was worried about. I wanna right my wrongs and hope I can get the chance to do so. Its literally all I’ve thought about the past few day. I had to leave town the next day and won’t get back until Tuesday. We texted a little but I sent her a pic and got no response so I got all in my head. We’re both really busy this week, but Do you think it’s a bad idea to call her and try to set up another date? Or should I just text her trying?
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:45 AM
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Man I’ve actually been dealing with the opposite problem. I get the date pretty easily and then after the date the girl isn’t super interested. I think it’s bc I come across as too nice and boring and needy. Luckily these are things I am working On, like sexually escalating And flirting better and not playing it so reserved and safe.
/r/seduction07/07/20 09:35 PM
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I can respect this and in a lot of cases you are right. But not all the time. For a lot of women now is just not a good time for them and it has nothing to do with you or any guy. She’s not going after the Chad either. That’s why I say don’t break ties completely. You never know. There’s so many scenarios that have nothing to do with you and only themselves. Keep your options open and go after other women but don’t write her off. The more you do this the more options you’ll have and you’ll find …
/r/seduction30/06/20 03:13 PM
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It’s also natural too that men will develop crushes on hot women if they become very close to them. That’s why it’s good to have hot women friends who there’s no way romance could spark. And if interest does start to spark, nip it in the butt.
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:37 PM
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Take this Coursera class. It’s online, free, and super insightful. It’s all about happiness and increasing your happiness and well being. It’s only 2 hours a week too. Also the most popular class ever taught at Yale. Also get into a good workout routine. Exercise is essential to being happy. Fitnessblender.com is a great place to start. https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being?ranMID=40328&ranEAID=EHFxW6yx8Uo&ranSiteID=EHFxW6yx8Uo-Uci2hsujbjhLhsPVPPWGCg&siteID=EHFxW6yx8Uo-Uci2hsu…
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:32 AM
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All I have is time right now bc I’m currently not working and I need to stop being lazy. I’ve been working out a bunch but haven’t been really improving myself elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/04/20 12:17 AM
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Someone who says that most likely has a life that revolves around social media. They likely spend hours a day on Instagram and the like and are hugely focused on it. Which imo can be a huge turnoff. Social media can help you with women if you have an interesting fun lifestyle that you can convey. It’s a way to show people and women the cool things you do without being needy or looking for their approval bc you’re putting it out there for everyone not just them. Snapchat is great in that way. I w…
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:46 PM
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Ya I totally get that, but it’s a pandemic and options are severely limited. Normally I go out a lot and do fine for myself but currently the situation can’t allow that. Prob should just put women on the back burner and work on myself right now...
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:43 AM
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Thanks for the input I appreciate it. I’m not an instagram user but maybe I should. I do a lot of fun cool things so maybe that’ll help me in dating.
/r/seduction08/04/20 10:21 PM
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I had not heard of that subreddit. Thank you. I’ll prob post this tomorrow.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:58 PM
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Ya that’s a lot of what I was thinking and makes total sense. Thank you for responding. Normally I’d try to get a girl like her to get a few drinks near me but everything’s closed and I’m limited on things to do. Also it’s harder to come across as being a busy guy bc we’re both currently not working and have a LOT of free time. Given her hesitations would you say It’d be better to ask her on something more casual like another hike or a small group thing with friends while doing social distancing…
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:57 PM
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So basically you’re saying don’t push hanging out so much and just continue to have fun flirty texts and try meeting later? My concern is I’ve heard a lot advice saying early on to limit texting too much bc girls get bored and it’s hard to differentiate yourself. Not saying they’re right, just curious your take on that. And how am I supposed to view no response from her given she said she’d let me know a good time to hang out? Normally I’d see that as she’s not interested but there’s just a lot …
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:39 PM
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It depends on where you live. Some areas won’t really allow you to meet up with people under any circumstance, but other places will. My state is under shelter in place but we’re still allowed outside. Find something fun and active outside. Go on a hike. Take a walk. Meet at a park. Fill water bottles up with wine and have fun. Or if you’re comfortable with the girl and know she’s been social distancing invite her over.
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:38 AM
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Good point. Terrible facial hair.
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:46 PM
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I don’t know the extent of your relationships but it kindof sounds like you’re setting a precedent of the relationship not being serious and primarily about sex or just having fun. If you’re looking for a relationship it isn’t a bad thing to let the girl know that early. Better to be on the same page early than after weeks or months trying to figure that out. You don’t have to push it down her throat but you can let her know that’s what you’re looking for. Or you can just ask what she’s looking …
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:43 PM
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Girls get bored if you continually have conversations via text when you’re getting to know each other. It’s hard to be interesting and different from other guys over text. (Attractive women have lots of guys texting them) Their interest will fizzle unless you make moves early. Early on, texting should be primarily about business. Setting up dates and times to see them in person so you can differentiate yourself and show them who you truly are, which is almost impossible via text. It’s kindof cou…
/r/seduction02/04/20 09:04 PM
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Big thing guys can do is see how they react around other men, especially if the men are good looking. A beautiful woman I work with always was giving me indicators she was interested; always touching me, laughing at everything I said, seeking me out to talk to, locking eyes, saying we should do something sometime, etc. Really thought she was super into me and I pursued her and would be met with flakiness, no response to texts, sending mixed signals, etc. Realized it wasn’t gonna happen then I re…
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:34 PM
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First of all, stop viewing yourself that way, it only makes things worse. Prob the best way to work on your personality is to expand your interests and activities and travel. The more stuff you do, the more you learn and the better perspective you have on yourself and the world. Just be kind to other, be kind to yourself, and try new things all the time and people will find you more interesting and you'll have more to share with others.
/r/seduction17/12/19 03:54 PM
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If you're not creepy or akward about it and are nonthreatening, what person, male or female, doesn't like a compliment?
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:30 PM
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This girl I work with does this all the time. She shows interests and says we should do something sometime. If I ask her to do anything. Always flakes. Never shows up. I take that as she's not interested so I stop flirting and showing interest. Then she pursues me again and flirts and says let's hang out. Rinse and repeat like 4 times now.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:00 AM
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Pretty much the thing main thing you did right was you were just social and fun. It's amazing how easy it can be to go out with a group and stick to your bubble of people you know and only talk to a few strangers. But you were engaging multiple people, multiple groups, and were having a carefree fun time. My guess is you could've gone home with no chick and still looked back at it being a fun night. But women gravitate towards social fun guys and that's exactly what you were. You didn't pick her…
/r/seduction12/07/19 07:02 AM
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If you're talking w a girl at the club, grab her hand and say "let's go dance." Don't ask just lead the way to the dance floor holding her hand. All you're doing is just swaying back and forth with her butt pressed against your front. If you're into it she will be as well. It's not hard, dancing is like sex, just read the woman and if she seems into it you're doing something right and keep doing it. Occasionally turn them around and make out. Women love this.
/r/seduction08/07/19 09:46 PM
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Go for it at an unexpected time like when you're walking down the street. You can't have the awkward should I kiss her goodbye moment at the end of the date if you've already kissed her.
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:40 PM
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There's a pretty good book that deals with putting your needs first and no longer being a "Nice Guy". You can listen to it for free here https://yourlisten.com/aceofplace/no-more-mr-nice-guy#play
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:33 PM
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I think a lot of people forget that women are people with their own insecurities, thoughts, wants, etc. and just kindof treat them like objects to be tricked into winning. The girls with her family. Most pick up game wouldn't even work on her bc you're not taking her home with grandma there. The vast majority of pickup that works has nothing to do with what specifically you say or passing shit tests or how you stand etc etc. it just has to do with the fact you're a fun interesting guy who has so…
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:03 PM
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Start doing classes at your gym. Join a rock climbing gym or something. If you workout you're probably somewhat athletic. Join a co Ed sports league or two. This can help expand your social circle.
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:55 AM
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