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| 8 | Lifting vs martial arts/cardio/body weight exercise. | Hopeful_Eye8816 | /r/askMRP | 30/04/26 07:04 PM | |
| 3 | Strategies for slovenly wife. | Hopeful_Eye8816 | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 08:30 PM |
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| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Fyi since you asked and I said, I did some dumbell shoulder work on top of my press ups this eve. Also started studying Athol Kay. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Look, if you're interested, just say it man. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/26 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Strategies for slovenly wife.I was thinking about this exactly the other day, how I understand what you mean by "divorce her in your head" but I don't like it as it sounds too schizoid...If I'm really divorcing in my head I might as well go ahead and divorce. "The stay plan is the go plan" sounds more reasonable as it's like planning for both eventualities. I'll look up that book. I'd not heard of it, thanks. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Appreciate being called out on it. I'll start Dumbells tomorrow and report back. OYS I prob shouldn't have said, as I don't think I'm ready yet. Dumbells first, and by next weekend I'll have studied and digested Athol Kay MMSLP. I have the pdf. | /r/askMRP | 23/05/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Strategies for slovenly wife.I think you're right. turns out i'm gay. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/26 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Not washed for weeks on end, not brushed for days. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/26 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.I've continued with daily press ups and she's noticed and complimented. I will be moving on to dumbells. You may be right I eventually need to get back to the gym to take it further. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/26 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.A couple of months back, and membership now lapsed. But I started body weight stuff on Friday and did every day since, which might sound lame, but my upper body always responds well to copious press ups. Instant six pack and big pecs. After a few sessions I look how I did in my early 20s martial arts period. But to get bigger looking, and not just sculpted, I'll be adding dumbells soon using Stronglifts dumbell approach, mostly to target shoulders. I have soooo much on at the moment and genuinel… | /r/askMRP | 11/05/26 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Strategies for slovenly wife."Divorce your wife in your head! You are completely in her frame at the moment brother." That's kind of where I'm at after the tongue lashing from some of the others here, LOL. And no, she was quite stylish once. | /r/askMRP | 10/05/26 03:37 PM |
| -1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Challenge accepted | /r/askMRP | 10/05/26 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.OK. On it. | /r/askMRP | 10/05/26 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.funny stuff bro | /r/askMRP | 10/05/26 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Strategies for slovenly wife.This is very true sounding and helpful. thanks. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 10:02 PM |
| -3 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Your name says it. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.OK, understood. Cheers. Maybe I just needed to blow off steam a bit. I'll get back to the basics. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.I think I get you. I'm still looking at her way too much, up her ass as you say, even when I think I'm not. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:49 PM |
| -4 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Thanks. This I have begun working on and I'm getting bigger. I've also improved wardrobe and grooming some. The problem is my motivation for these is sapped by her constant tone of not caring about that. She tells me she doesn't notice what I look like, and truly she never comments when I make an effort. She also does the "women hate muscles" routine. I have gotten better at ignoring that shit and carrying on, but it's hard. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Ok. What's the basic move or attitude here then? Imagine you're teleported into the described situation. I can't force her to improve her "grooming". Is it a case of stopping giving a fuck about that and just working the sidebar material for my own benefit, and if she improves great, if not, move on? I'm looking for the broad strokes view of this. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Strategies for slovenly wife.How would I make her go? She's super stubborn remember. And never wants to go to hairdressers. That said, being so direct as booking an appointment is something I haven't tried. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:20 PM |
| -3 | Strategies for slovenly wife.What would you do in my situation, such as you've heard it so far? | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Strategies for slovenly wife.Good question. I take it you won't accept "because I'm monogamous" as an answer? If you mean why don't I get EOIs from other women, well I have over the years but not many so I take the point. I'm working on that. As said, early days. Do you have more to say? | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Help out a young man?All I'll say is, from my point of view, you're very lucky to be finding this material at such a young age. I'm 44 and only discovered it relatively recently, after many years of errors. So there's no rush. You're in a good position. Take it a step at a time, and believe in yourself. I'm sure you can go far. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/26 07:49 PM |
| -1 | Lifting vs martial arts/cardio/body weight exercise."do what you want". Good advice. It's easy to be influenced to think you gotta do what everyone else is doing... | /r/askMRP | 30/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Lifting vs martial arts/cardio/body weight exercise.Cool, so if I may ask is it mostly body weight stuff you do then rather than gym weights? | /r/askMRP | 30/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Lifting vs martial arts/cardio/body weight exercise.Interesting. Part of the reason I'm asking is that I did take out a local gym membership, but found other commitments eating away at my attendance rate. Meanwhile, I do have some past martial arts background with bodyweight exercise being a big part of it, and I feel like I'm more likely to stick at body weight than Strong Lifts, even if resistance training can give quicker gains. Martial Arts I'd like to get back to also, but I'm worried I'll not stick at that for same reasons as gym. Whereas I… | /r/askMRP | 30/04/26 07:47 PM |
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