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| 1 | Having a hard time with text game in terms of escalation.Text game is hard, its either there or it isn't. Texting should really be used to meet up with people. However, you can be successful with it. I have been myself. But some girls aren't engaged by it and some are. but all girls are engaged when you are there in the physical sense. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop asking BORING questions?You are over thinking it. Questions are boring. But the rapport isn't. So ask away. But aim for questions that cant be followed by a yes or no answer. When in doubt, just keep talking. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Small TalkNa man, as an Englishman the weather is the topic of all coversations. People just think of it as "so this weather eh?" When really it should go like this. "Ite man hows it going" "nothing much mate, just working" "What you up to nowadays anyway?" "Window cleaning." "Bet that's good when the weathers like this" referring to recent good weather for once Annnnd go from there. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Small TalkAre you good at talking to people when you have had a drink? I don't shut up once I have had a drink or some bugle. I just think about what I was saying when I was talking shit and just try to act like that normally, the only thing that holds you back is the anxiety of looking stupid. Once you don't give a shit it just flows. I was kicking a ball about by myself (I do a lot of shit by myself because why the fuck not) and this kid comes over, must be like 3 and his mum is trying to stop him and I… | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | ELI5: KissingMate, its not as big a deal as you think. I have been told I was a good kisser by someone who knew this girl I slept with. But I don't even know what the fuck I am doing half the time. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I decrease how much rejection affects me?Its only really happened twice to me, and I tell you what, it bummed me out big time the first time. But I was also high as fuck on MDMA which usually makes you feel fucking amazing, so when you feel so shitty it overpowers it, its not great. But the second time I gave zero fucks, I was just like "fair enough, it was worth a try I'll see you around". | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How and why I may have fucked up a little with a particular girlYou are over thinking it. You can never truly fuck up something. Trust me. I had a proper falling out with this girl and I still managed to patch that up and make a move. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety when asking for girls numberHave you ever been really nervous about something? Like starting a new job? You are anxious, you feel uncomfortable, but after a few times it doesn't bother you, it becomes routine. This is exactly what this is for you. Once you do it more then once it becomes nothing. You just need to take the first step. Its so hard to explain how you get over this, because basically its ALL down to you. You have to just say it. As confident and cool as you can. Soon it will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:14 PM |
| 0 | How does one assure the girl that they are going on a DATE, not just like friends?By telling them its a date, if they don't know it is then that's a little unfair on them. You could just tell them "hey want to go out on a date?" or go out on some 1v1's and then judging by how its going then suggest you go on a proper date. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 09:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I'm shy. But last night, I had the smoothest game and got laid with a striking hot woman.Self fulfilling prophecy mate. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 07:33 PM |
| 10 | [FR] I'm shy. But last night, I had the smoothest game and got laid with a striking hot woman.The gentlemen comment would have been seriously cringey, neckbeardy even, if it wasn't for the context of your conversation. Nice work. I am a strong believer that you can get away with saying ANYTHING if you are confident enough. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 07:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A silly excuse for an FR but one small teeny tiny step away from being an AFC and I needed to share :DI think you should have maybe built up to that. "Excuse me, what are you listening to". Judge the conversation, and then say "Lets have a listen". Go from there. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time you get rejected it will not be because of who you are or your personality. It will be because of your game.I cant remember what I said because I was fucked, but I still got with her anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/01/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | A blunt, socially retarded shit test that threw me off.If someone is being blunt, be blunt back. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time you get rejected it will not be because of who you are or your personality. It will be because of your game.Heres my secret, get drunk enough to get to my sexual deviant stage. Drunk me does the rest. Jokes aside I totally agree with this. What rings true is that women are terrified of being labeled sluts. I got with this friend of mine that had already dated two of my mates, when I took her away from a party to make out with her she freaked out a little; "I don't want people to think I am a slut." Bullseye OP. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 05:20 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach This Girl?Well you know more then me, I sucked at it in high school. I guess I cant get into the mentality, being straight up works for me, but hey, its been years since high school. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 05:08 AM |
| 2 | When girls' responses are so concise you feel like you're almost talking to yourselfHeres the deal. I was on and off with a girl who was concise and bad at texting. There was no rapport. The only reason I got into her pants was because I knew her in real life, from work. On the other hand, I had a good long distance relationship with a girl where we spoke only through text and sexting. At the end of the day though, you will always have a better rapport with someone in real life then when texting. As Phreakiedude said, texting is for setting up dates. But I can understand how th… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 05:05 AM |
| 1 | General anxiety (not approach anxiety) tips and suggestions?Its hard but you do get out of it if you put the effort in. At one point I couldn't even leave the house. I would throw up before I could step outside. It was awful, crippling, my social life disappeared, its like people forgot about me. I dropped out of college, I lost my job and I just fell into a pit of despair. Dark times. I had no girlfriend, I had no sex life, or social life at all. But that was 3 years ago. Now I still don't have a girlfriend, I have a better sex life and I am so much mor… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach This Girl?Ditch the lines altogether. Walk up and say "Hi, I'm just wandering if you would like to ________ some time after school?" Best thing would be to walk her home or something. Heres my theory, most people are quite shy, most people want YOU to make the first move, be it in a group with awkward silence, or a cute girl trying to get your attention. You don't actually have to put much effort into the line, its not about the line its about the delivery. The fact you make the effort to go up to her and… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Finally asked a girl I randomly met for her number and got it!Nice one, they take it and run with it and never look back. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:46 AM |
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