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interesting, just pulled y up graph of 2024 divorce statistics by gender, still shows 69%+ And same sex (women) relationships at 80%+. common denominator is? women, go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:50 PM
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The only benefit to a western modern relationship. companionship. nothing more, nothing less. Sex is no longer guaranteed They are better off in just friend groups and dating casually for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:44 PM
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Easy enough. Stop seeking men for sex. We are more than happy to seek out traditional women internationally and let western women with these views to their own Bobs to satisfy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:42 PM
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umm no, the articles was soecific to numbers from the US I'll try to find it when I get home later tonight. And that one child policy is no longer in effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:12 AM
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Once I get home I'll try to find the article. And yes it has reached the millions in men seeking international wives. It is a significant increase pre covid. Why? Because of the switch to remote jobs has made it so much easier for men to earn a 50k or above salary remotely. Not only do they find more successful dating options, the cost of living in those locations let them live a very comfortable lifestyle. Make no mistake, there are varied reasons but just off the last report I read, by 2030, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:44 PM
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check government site for passport statistics. surprising enough there is enough information to giveaway good idea just HOW popular
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:28 PM
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doesn't surprise me. But the question was she didn't see it gaining in popularity. Those posts show nor only has it gained traction, a highly significant western male population are now actively pursuing it. We are now talking millions, not 10's of thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:04 PM
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no, report Jul 2023 https://hudsonweekly.com/passport-bros-the-growing-movement-a-manifestation-of-the-quest-for-a-better-quality-of-life/ Sept 2023 https://theunhedgedcapitalist.substack.com/p/do-you-even-have-a-passport-bro Nov 2023 https://www.foxnews.com/media/passport-bro-growing-number-men-ditching-american-women-overseas novel published around Feb 2024 detailing the movement and it's increased popularity. https://www.westco.coop/markets/stocks.php?article=marketersmedia-2024-2-15-first-pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:34 PM
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In my dating experience over decades, the reverse is actually true. You will always find exceptions to every type of dynamic. I am not sure why your wasting brain power on such a topic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:42 PM
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Lol your looking at it the wrong way. The majority of us are CHOOSING to remain single, yes those reasons your posting is part of it, but a very small part. The biggest reason is almost always, THERE IS NO, ZERO, NIL, NONE, NUL positive reason or benefit to lock ourselves down. I much enjoy just dating casually. I know the risks, just don't care to pursue any type of long term commitment. I raised my kids. Paid off my debt and took early retirement. What possible reason besides companionship wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:39 PM
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For reference, 56, worked out twice a day since high school, admittedly in better shape than most my age. I only date casually but get approached by younger women in the gym and in public. Now, while I did take early retirement, am financially secure, I do not wear flashy clothes, jewelry or drive expensive cars. I can't imagine a 35 year old who has his shit together can't find younger women who will jump at the chance to date him at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:29 PM
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go watch survivor island I think season 2??? all women team against men. then ask yourself that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:59 PM
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Found the whole problem. "So Im the one who likes to be the egalitarian or dominant in relationships" That one sentence tells the whole story. Basically if your being the dominant, you don't believe or act as an equal, your acting as his superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:01 AM
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nope, I say this because in decades of dating, it is extremely exhausting, trying decipher or dealing with the confusing, entitled, narcissistic, and just plain emotional draining bullshit in trying to date western women. Your damn lucky as a guy to approach 100+ women and find 1 that is normal and sane that doesn't make you want to jump off a 100 story building. The real issue, a good majority of men, and that number multiplies daily, are realizing the same thing. That is the reason the latest …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:03 PM
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Absolutely nothing. I will never again approach any westernized woman for a date, no exceptions. Further I will never accept a date request from a westernized woman. no exceptions. I'll stick to my international options even for just casual dates. Otherwise I will be content not dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:21 PM
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I've known more than a few of such guys and overall, they mostly hold women with contempt, almost borderline hated and or complete indifference. They see them as nothing more than a used piece of chewing gum, something they use and dispose of once done. I feel quite sure that isn't universal with all but I feel a good majority just based off posts, conversations and given behaviors it's a solid majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:49 PM
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Men are no longer seeing any real benefit to marriages besides companionship, and are realizing they can satisfy that typical interaction with casual dating or just hanging out with friends. While fully being expected to full traditional provider roles, In the west they are not seeing marriages as providing the same traditional wives roles. Because of this, it becomes cheaper, easier and more fulfilling to stick with friend groups, outsource by hiring someone to occasionally clean, use laundry s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:16 PM
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Real question? why? No shade sarcasm or hidden meanings. Wanting and being in a traditional relationship where she's submissive and agreeable, or he for that matter, and expecting it to be 50/50 is not mutually exclusive to one type of relationship or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:32 AM
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And yet again fall short on intelligence and comprehension there slick. I raised them solo, aka single dad, when I lost my wife in 2002 to a drunk driver. I would say good try in an intelligent insult, but that barely registers on "your opinion is valid" on my give a shit meter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:02 PM
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Rofl, this man worked in a nursing unit, predominantly with women for 25+ years, and another 10 in hospital administration and had to oversee employee complaints. After DECADES of hearing the same complaints, from the multitude of women nurses, who did EXACTLY as I just described plus the multitude of women that were frequent flyers who were assaulted by spouses BUT ALSO did exactly as I posted and either returned or refused help. Guess what? How dare YOU. I spent hours upon hours upon weeks upo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:37 AM
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When I say "choose better" it is generally centered around a woman constantly complaining about their choices cheating or abusing them. And yet, they don't leave, or leave and constantly return or make excuses why they choose they EXACT stereotypical men over and over and over. Never, and I do mean NEVER, does this mean choose me. I have zero interest in any type of long term commitment, and am very clear to everyone I casually date upfront. While your statement is likely true for a percentage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:39 AM
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OK, trundicated version. Cut down to the very basics, women in general, their main currency in a relationship is companionship and affection. Yes it can and usually involves much more but stripped down this is the basics. Men's is financial security and protection. Again just the very basics. Either can decide to withdraw and withhold these basic elements. THIS IS THEIR RIGHT AND CHOICE. NO ONE IS REQUIRED to freely give or maintain these basics to ANYONE if they so choose. Now either partner ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:30 AM
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Umm guess that works both ways. The world is a violent environment, men have to be quiet and submissive or face physical violence. As a result men when dating should never act like providers or protectors. Women should expect less than masculine traits Once women prove themselves to be worthy of being protected and provided for, demonstrating trustworthiness, faithfulness and femininity, men can feel safe dropping their guards and assuming a more masculine role. Only after those conditions are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:20 PM
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I referenced 2 different statistics. Overall census data, but for the dating demographics was specific to 20 to 50. She referenced dating and marriage and using older demographics I never referred to under that study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:54 PM
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dude, WHERE IN ANY OF MY POSTS ANYWHERE DID I USE DEMOGRAPHICS from 60 and older???? read to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:24 PM
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where exactly did include the 60 to 100 demographic? AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:18 PM
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You quoting globally, but westernized women most likely won't find husband's internationally, especially in areas that are strict "traditional ". In the US, for the first time in history women outnumber men. Direct from 2024 study "The percentage of the female population is 50.51 percent, compared to 49.49 percent of the male population The United States has the 4th highest number of exceed female population of 3.48 million, only behind Russia, Brazil and Japan. The United States of America is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:47 AM
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It already has for men. There have been major news article's describing how those apps are having a rough time enticing marriage or relationship minded men to join. It's only the ones seeking quick sex that are joining and there aren't near enough men to satisfy the huge demand of the women. Even the app designed to allow only women to connect first, changed its policies to let men message first to tth and entice them and it hasn't worked. We have abandoned match making events and businesses, cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:43 PM
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Agreed, but it tends to be in our nature as competitive humans. Especially now when our society is so focused on instant gratification and damn everyone else mentality that has developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:36 PM
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Their choice. But they need to realize that choice as with all choices has a cost. The men she ends up wanting or needing for a relationship may no longer view her as an relationship option. That is their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:29 PM
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You need to look at the sheet number of times men are rejected. If they approach 200 women and get rejected 199 times, they are naturally going to get very frustrated. I've seen women get angry at bring rejected once, much less multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:25 PM
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Really? so why would men expect her to cook? Is he going to eat it remotely?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:38 AM
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Very simple, if you do not exhibit "wifely" attributes and behaviors before entering into a relationship, then it's highly likely you will never exhibit them. edit by the way, that goes for both sides. women should consider thst before dropping their clothes if the man they are seeing exhibits husband or at least great father vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:04 AM
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Or, men just date traditional women internationally. problem solved. Go date a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:35 PM
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Men fully expect to work for women's attention. We aren't complaining any of that. What we complain about is what we receive for that effort. It's the difference of a great, supportive and loving partner to a great big migraine of entitlement and a war zone as a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:05 PM
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umm yeah sure that's what thst means, here's your sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:59 PM
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Try again mate. I worked as a CVICU nurse on a large unit predominantly full of women for 25+ years. I can attest after thousands of hours and overtime hours, with thousands of full time, part time and contract staff and thousands of discussions I tried to either ignore or not be apart of, The idea and thought is as common as the common cold. I can easily say those that were content and happy were the overall minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:14 AM
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out dated study New study. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2024/05/240501125748.htm You will notice this concentrates on the social media impact. The interesting point was the difference between the students asked to stop viewing and using social media, and those who continued. After just 1 week there was a significant difference in their self esteem. As noted one finding ""Back then, you could only spend so many minutes or hours looking at fashion and beauty magazines and they only came o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:06 AM
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pretty self explanatory title "Men are never allowed to be "Good enough" in the body of text " whatever you are proud of- it is trivial, you need to be more, you need to be doing more, you have to prove your worth, what right do you have to feel proud?" It absolutely applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:44 PM
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I saw a poll. Don't remember where thst is very telling. Asked guys, "would you enter a relationship with a woman who has 80% of your required behaviors or traits you want in a partner?" OVERWHELMING men answered hell yeah!@ she would be a keeper. When the same number of women got polled, again OVERWHELMING the answer was "Hell no, that's settling and I should not be expected to settle"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:25 PM
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no, I find the whole idea disgusting and the death penalty applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:40 PM
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Basically, would never be accepted by men overall. It would just force them to use extreme force to overcome and retaliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:06 PM
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under 18, it is in my opinion. no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:47 PM
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Nothing. why? pedophilia is against the law yet you see teachers of both genders sleeping and being caught with their underage students. People will still make stupid decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:42 PM
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First men and women view dating and relationships completely differently. Men tend to focus more on companionship and physical needs, while women tend to focus more on the emotional aspects. Men will generally be able to compartmentalize such a dynamic more easily. Then consider the most recent Pew research that shows over 54% of men are currently single and looking for either companionship and or relationships and if AI and robotics can step in and even in the short term fill that need, you may…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:40 PM
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As always, companies and corporations will recognize a growing need or want in the market and respond with a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:24 PM
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Pretty soon they will have what the wanted. Complete indifference from men. Look at recent articles revolving around men's absence from match maker events, significant decrease of attendance to clubs, dating apps or even approaching women at all for the purposes of dating. They have started avoiding contact both professionally, privately and socially, in favor of friend groups and online connections. Even the most recent study I remember stated all women between dating ages 20 to 50(?), by 2030,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:15 PM
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Which mirrors what I stated. Those still disillusioned with western dating, and have the option will still just move to an international search for a traditional wife. Those not able to take advantage of that option will at the very least give the robotic option a serious thought. The end result will be the same with slightly different outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:39 PM
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Where did I say sex was involved? However your not 100 percent correct. From an article discussing dating vs courtship. "Societal mores before the 20th century weren't so rigid as you might think. According to Weigel, "In the United States, a long tradition gave courting couples tacit permission to engage in sexual behavior so long as they stopped short of intercourse." Young couples could sleep in the same bed, provided they were each "tarried," or sewn into cloth sacks. "Benjamin Franklin remi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:36 PM
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You need to research further. Dating, for the most part has been around longer than a century in some form. Arranged marriages were the norm but even then, depending upon socio economic and cultural dynamics, one or the other could veto the match. Marriages themselves were nothing more than a contract to secure titles, land, make political connections and further secure wealth and increase social status and lineage and succession of families. In some cultures the intended bride and groom would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:40 PM
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Not completely but will later. I did skim it to get the main idea of the studies involved, some of which I am already familiar with. Truthfully I would really enjoy reading an actual real time data study done on a significant sizeable portion of participants to get a better understanding of where this technology is heading. I don't necessarily agree with the direction, but understand fully how it would be an easy sell to the men not able to travel internationally for brides, but also very disill…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:32 PM
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Read closer. Their "proof" is by an online poll of 212 participants. That is not even a good cross section to form a valid statistical account. One idea particularly states " The terms robosexuality and robofriendship are specific to this study due to a lack of existing measures for the study of interest in robots. Examining individual differences and social dynamics that may relate to interest in engaging with social robots may provide important insight on potential ethical and moral issues wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:22 PM
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Because it isn't all about sex. That's your misconception. Men enjoy companionship and have just opted friend groups and online friends to compensate for the lack of attention from entitled women convinced they are all "10's". The majority of the time in a relationship given how they are treated by someone that claims to love them but his entire home life is nothing more than arguments, drama and a constant war zone, being able to have even a close proximity to that relationship without all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:09 PM
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Great solution!! Sex is the problem just self castrate yourself!! lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:38 PM
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Let's see, tailor ordered women that will be able to fulfill all their needs with zero drama, trauma, arguments and real possibility of losing their entire financial health on an esoteric "feeling" Not to mention they should be able to design a "perfect" partner. Yeah, I can't fathom why the majority of men would want and choose that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:36 PM
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Jesus ill cut and paste response to another asinine post. "Lets not be asinine. Shall we? If he didn't want to provide IF the marriage dissolves, he should place in an alternate account a set amount each month as a savings for her to take a lump sum in case of a divorce. If she gave up the opportunity to earn fir herself and had no training or opportunity to learn a career skill, then he absolutely should feel obligated to help up play catch up. Let's get real, if he makes enough to provide for …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:53 PM
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Lets not be asinine. Shall we? If he didn't want to provide IF the marriage dissolves, he should place in an alternate account a set amount each month as a savings for her to take a lump sum in case of a divorce. If she gave up the opportunity to earn fir herself and had no training or opportunity to learn a career skill, then he absolutely should feel obligated to help up play catch up. Let's get real, if he makes enough to provide for a family, he makes enough to hire a house keeper, nanny if …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:35 PM
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If the couple agrees with her staying.home, and she spends her time, energy and loving takes care if their home, children and supports him. If the marriage is dissolved he absolutely should make arrangements to see to her needs at least until she remarries OR is able to train for a career or job to take care of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:13 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/Business/wife-wins-million-husbands-alleged-mistress/story%3fid=10151957 https://www.trucknews.com/security/brampton-trucker-passenger-charged-after-100-kg-of-suspected-cocaine-found-in-trailer/1003172362/ https://www.vicnews.com/news/suspected-drugs-pulled-from-passengers-rectum-following-surrey-vehicle-stop-85483 https://www.wrps.on.ca/en/news/police-lay-drug-charges-after-a-traffic-stop-in-cambridge.aspx just a few from a quick search.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:39 PM
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You talk violent criminal capital crimes. Not the same thing. If your in a car for example and the passenger has say 1 kilo of meth on them, they get a trafficking charge, guess what so does everyone in the car if they are stupid enough to say "yeah I knew about it" . Again, if they are a willing participant, they are just as guilty. NO EXCEPTIONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:23 PM
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Yes and no, the court case is determined and judged by intent. If the person was truly deceived, coerced, manipulated or lied to, then yes the punishment is usually reduced. However if the person knew what was going on, and was a willing participant, it is more likely they will share the same sentence unless they get a very soft judge. Again, I have zero issue judging someone who willing participates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:13 PM
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I am not quite sure where this is going. This isn't a question of forgiving anyone. I can forgive the cheater but it's my choice to not have a continuing relationship of any kind with them. To me it's a matter of trust. If I can't trust you, I do not want to have you in my life. I have no time to be bothered by thoughts of your motives and your true intentions. If you want to continue to get shit on by a cheater, go for it, that's your choice. My choice is to wish them the best and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:03 PM
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Never said I couldn't forgive them, I would just never trust them. If I can't trust them I have no use for them in a friendship or relationship. Forgiving someone doesn't mean I am required or expected to have a continuing relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:55 PM
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Nope, do not agree. why? this is akin to the argument of trying to defend yourself in court saying " I didn't know it was illegal to help my friend " and the judge replying "ignorance of the law doesn't mean your innocent " Nope, sorry if you knowingly and willingly enter an affair, your just as guilty if you helped someone commit a crime. Far as I am concerned, they are one and the same and I would not want to associate with either of them, even on a friend level. My dad cheated on my mother in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:14 PM
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Yes, if someone knowingly and willingly is part of anyone's affair, they are just as guilty. no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:10 PM
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There is no debate here. The answer is absolutely yes. If you are sexually mismatched, regardless of gender, then the relationship fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:51 AM
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Nope, never said trust me bro. With more than a 3 second search you can find the data. I lived in Cebu and am very much aware of how their system works and their shorts comings. I care very little about being challenged. As I've said before research it yourself. All I am saying is the stereotypes being used to describe these women are wrong in many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:38 PM
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Which women and which Asian culture, Are these westernized women or still living in asia? Lots of variables here. I've lived in these other countries and am very familiar with many cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:22 PM
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OK, article from 2023 Nov. https://ivypanda.com/essays/the-philippines-and-united-states-education-systems/ article 2024 by someone who experienced both systems. https://ospi.k12.wa.us/about-ospi/news-center/special-projects/student-stories-differences-between-philippine-and-american-schools Their main issue is funding and resources. The actual system is largely based on the US system, which btw has lowered education spending which has put the US system in decline for the last 3 decades? Is ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:56 PM
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You are correct. In public they will be respectful of their spouses and family and even complimentary. But they hold men to a much higher traditional husband role and if he crosses a line they have no issue standing up for themselves and making it very clear disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated. It really has nothing to do with misogyny but their ideals of family, culture and overall respect. They families mean everything to them. They will treat that regular husband like a king but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:18 PM
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I really wish people would research more. This stereotype of these women being less educated and having no opportunities is so FALSE. Most of their education systems easily rivals and in some cases exceeds the US system. The foreign students are held to a much higher standard. Most of the women are better traveled, speak multiple languages and still do not run around with "I'm a perfect 10" attitude. The US medical systems go to places like the Phillipines and actively recruit these women to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:58 PM
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No, they "beta" guy gets a part time wife that isn't really invested in him, the relationship and likely will harbor constant resentment for having to "settle". This will create a very toxic dynamic with a much high chance of relationship failure and or infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:16 PM
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Never works out in my opinion. The woman will try, but overall ends up being disappointed and is plagued by "what if" thoughts and hating themselves because she "settled". The men, get a spouse that isn't really invested in the relationship. No matter what they do, the wife is never completely happy. Unfortunately this will usually end in infidelity and or a divorce. Personally, I will immediately opt out if I get the impression I am the "fall back guy". If you search relationship forums, there …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:44 AM
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I agree to a point, but lets clarify what you mean about "traitional" wives. There is a huge difference between westernized "traditional wives" and wives born and taught from birth to be traditional, example women men seek internationally from say the Phillipines or Thailand for instance. Contrary to what most western women believe, these women hold men they are seeking relationships with to a much higher standard as a husband than western women do. The big difference is what those men as husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:19 PM
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It's just not Bumble. All the apps are finding men are not signing up anymore except the guys looking for hookups. There are multiple articles complaining of men completely avoiding match maker events, dating apps and even attendance to clubs is significant enough to be noticed. The only men still attending are the guys only looking for quick one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:14 AM
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What or how would they benefit for making that commitment? BESIDE obvious companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:49 PM
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Really? Who exactly are they bragging about being independent from?? hmm??? MEN, the very men they want to date, have a relationship with and or get a long term commitment from. Thats the whole point. It is asinine. Brag about a job? buying a house? running up debt? working 40+ hours a week? Seriously all they are saying is "I am an adult doing the minimum adult things!" and yet they try to make a scouts badge out of it to show the world!!! You know who won with feminism? The govt. Thats it. Ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:23 AM
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Pretty much, the nuclear traditional family is fast becoming extinct. Most men are not even considering marriage much less long term relationships. They aren't seeing any real benefit to them anymore. Even the last study I saw showed it by 2030, almost 50% of all dating age women in the west between 20 and 50 will be single and the younger women likely child free and will never get the opportunity to experience a committed relationship or marriage at all. The men who do want traditional relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:38 PM
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HELL NO, why? Because they would only get married to take financial advantage of the guy stupid enough to step up. Let them be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:00 PM
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No, why? In the current social climate women have the overall advantage to men. If a woman choose that "beta bux" then she chose him over a plethora of choices. For men it's the exact opposite. He will chose the one that fulfills his need of companionship and the one that he feels is his best chance of an actual relationship, not just a "simp provider "
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:01 AM
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Very true just as non educated can live in privileged areas such as the US. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:48 AM
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I think there is a huge difference in numbers that will be skewed right at the start. Being realistic, everyone may have a type that is optimal, however men can and often will date someone who in no way matches that type but she showers him with attention. Men also "date down" more often than women will ever attempt. Most women want men at the very least on their income level, where most men do not care. Even given your example, while someone may prefer someone of Asian descent, they will absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:39 AM
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I do not, and never have thought I was owed sex. However that doesn't mean I can't chose to end a relationship based off her choice to limit or withhold sex. Everyone has a choice. Do men want sex? absolutely, more often than women? can be debated but testosterone can push men to want sex more often. The main issue is what each looks at as valuable. Women think all men should think of them as the princess prize and be willing to spend money on them. Men think that because they spend valuable mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:13 AM
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OK again, submissive can be very misleading. They have zero issue with standing up for themselves with their chosen spouses. In public they will talk their families up but make no mistake, if a spouse gets out of line they will take offense and won't be quiet about it. They will treat their man like a king as long as they act like that king and take care of them. Act like an ass an see how fast those cat claws will come out in a private setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:30 PM
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I'll address the second. Asian women will hold men to a high standard to the provider role. The big difference is how they treat that man and the respect they show him and the relationship. You need to research before speaking lies. Those East Asian women aren't living in poverty as you think. They have a good majority of highly educated women in that area of the world. Western women have been picking up and running with the 3 B argument without even understanding that it isn't a majority but a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:17 PM
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Most men's type is anyone that shows an interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:06 PM
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That's a very small example. They ended up having show staff intercede even off camera to help and stull failed at nearly every task. These were supposed to be experienced independent women that bragged they would run away with the show and leave the men in the dirt and had it been a real survival situation, most would gave died of starvation, dehydration and or exposure. Hell their "scouting" party got lost multiple times IN AN ISLAND trying to find a camping spot doing nothing more than walkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:52 PM
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I think I'd have better odds of surviving and finding a way of rescue or escape. These women magically found piglets when hungry, they made pets, ruined their Jerry water can, threw it away instead of cleaning it. Couldn't make or keep a fire going. Constant arguing and refusal to help each other. The men found a caiman, made a feast, got organized and got things done. Don't get me wrong, the men had a few issues but nothing like all the stupid decisions the women's team made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 PM
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Basically the women failed in all aspects. Couldn't get organized, argued, staff had to intercede multiple times. The men got organized from the start, made tools and water filtration system. The women barely survived even though they had help, the men actually thrived in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:18 PM
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Go watch I think season 2 of survival island men vs women then answer it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:21 PM
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Thst goes both ways. You never know if the girl your dating is batshit crazy and will go off the rails. That's my point. Men are most likely to be the victim of violent crimes. Men also suffer with domestic violence but do not report it as often as women. The numbers are heavily skewed. At this point the white knight syndrome needs to end. I should be able to walk down the middle of times square wearing a suit made of 100 dollar bills and feel safe but that will never be the case. If I do and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:43 PM
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It's going to get worse. The last study I saw showed the trend. By 2030, in just a couple of years ALL western women of dating age between 20 to 50 I think were considered and it showed 50%+ of those women will be single, most childless and will never experience an actual committed relationship during their lifetime. Men however are just seeking life partners internationally where they appreciate the normal guy and the lives they share. In my opinion women are getting exactly what they wanted eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:22 PM
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These posts are getting ridiculous. The majority of men do not sit around discussing, planning or thinking about ways to harass women. Even the news and social media are posting articles complaining men are now walking away from women in general in both public and private sectors. Basically we are ignoring you. One of the big take aways is how your labeling harassment. Attractive Chad? he makes a remark and it's flattering, ugly normal guy? makes exact same remark and gasp it's harassment. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:52 PM
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Dating app data is but a small representation. Read a damn news article. Men are no longer attending match maker events. Social clubs have noted a significant drop in men attending. Even match makers and dating coaches for women are leaving the industry because their expectations and lists for potential partners by the match makers own words are unrealistic. Personally, I don't care what term is coined and used, what new trendy phrase is used, the end result is the same. The dating dynamic is ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:57 PM
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That I will agree with. Why? I've been single since 2002. I chose then to never seek a long term relationship or marriage. I won't even let anyone move into my house. Even my current gf, who I would hands down marry IF I were interested, she is perfect by all standards but I'm not even tempted. I see 0 (zero) benefit besides companionship which is satisfied by casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:20 AM
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And unless you are a highly popular celebrity I seriously doubt you know enough men to qualify or quantify the majority. GENERALLY speaking, most men do want traditional wives, most can't afford it. The financial situation in the US is trash thanks to our government and bad decisions by them. Now as someone who is 56, took early retirement and decided long ago marriage was not something I ever want, I agree there is a good portion of men in that age bracket that aren't interested. But even our b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:01 AM
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OK, https://ourworldindata.org/marriages-and-divorces data highlighted text first paragraph. Contents Marriage, as a social institution, has been around for thousands of years.1 With things that are thousands of years old, it is easy to assume that they can only change slowly. But developments since the middle of the 20th century show that this assumption is wrong: in many countries, marriages are becoming less common, people are marrying later, unmarried couples are increasingly choosing to liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:23 PM
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Never said you did. I was speaking in generalities then pointed out the missing information. The problem could be all him, but I've found normally it is rarely one or the others "fault" but somewhere in the middle lies the real truth. Obviously you both were not getting some need not fulfilled you expected to be filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:15 PM
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Except those countries are fast assuming western behaviors. I travel extensively and in 20+ years places I've visited many times you can clearly see cultural shifts that are not positive changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:02 PM
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Don't believe it. Too much missing information. Most men, unless they are seriously mentally incapacitated, will love having a "traditional " homemaker wife. To clarify, I am talking a true homemaker not someone who sits on their ass all day watching soap operas and trolling social media sites. You haven't really given a full complete picture of your relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:59 PM
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the average relationship is barely 5 years now. Sorry that's failure. That's 5 wasted years imo. As it is most modern relationships will never see 10 year, 15 or 30 year anniversaries. The last study showed that by 2030, women of dating age 20 to 50 at a 50%+ rate will be single and or childless and likely never to experience a long term committed relationship. They aren't seeing those drizzle guys as replacements for the "alpha" types they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:22 PM
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Sure they did. About 2 seconds after sharing they were wanting a real relationship with someone that could and would PROVIDE and take care of them and their children. I'll pass thanks. Casual dates only and no more than 4 dates and I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:13 PM
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Which is exactly why the failure rate of relationships is so high. I've said it in other posts. Due to the westernized dating and social environment as it exists right now, I'd rather take a long bath in muriatic acid to entering or entertaining a marriage or even long term relationship. I choose to not be the fall back guy. You start that relationship next door, just stay there I neither want nor desire to be the settled for guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:45 PM
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Load of horse manure. While you can certainly find women drawn to such men, and I'll even concede it could be a decent percentage, look at the men the MAJORITY of women are actively pursuing and chasing as sex partners and on dating apps. They aren't choosing drizzle guys but the bad boys and settling for those other guys once they realize the bad boys just see them as penis sleeve toys and won't commit to them even though they convince themselves "I'm special, he will commit to me". The data is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:11 PM
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Men are socializing either in public or online. But they are socializing LESS with random women in public, both private and business atmospheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:58 PM
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I can and I have but much prefer someone in my own age range 45+. The youngest was 22 when I was 49. I wasn't aware of her true age when we met and personally, I just couldn't relate to her once I found out. I know most guys wouldn't care, but I have a much better connection with someone that can relate to life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:02 AM
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My daughter is 30, married, 2 kids and has been with the same guy since junior high. I taught her early to make her own decisions but there are always good and bad consequences so think before jumping blindly. She doesn't do Instagram, tiktok or any other social media BS. She doesn't buy into all the social status and or lifestyle crap and loves her life. All 4 of my kids and their spouses have good careers, families and have made good life choices including dating choices. Anyone can do the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:57 AM
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I used to be that guy. Early 20's first responder in the late 80's. After being accused twice of sexual harassment, both dismissed thanks to video proving my innocence, I'll be dipped in an acid bath before stepping up now at 56. Not my problem any more. Unless I have a preexisting relationship with that woman I will steer completely away. Not taking the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:49 AM
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For reference, 56, took early retirement, no debts, money hasn't been an issue since mid 30's. Most of the men in my age group and financial bracket do well dating for the most part but, not one of us is interested in actual relationships or anything long term. Marriage isn't even being considered an option. We might be exceptions, but most men I know over 50 that are financially secure aren't interested in complicating their lives through marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:44 AM
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load of horseshit. Basically either your partner fulfills your expectations you require of a partner or they do not. This is for either partner, not gender specific. if not, your not a compatible couple. You can't "force " someone in a mold and expect a good outcome. Donovan is a damn idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:04 AM
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sorry, misread. thought they bothcheated. Would still say no. why? Her attitude and behavior would be a clear sign of an argumentative and confrontational attitude. While I am more than willing to discuss any subject and understand everyone can and often have conflicting opinions, I absolutely will not come home daily to a war zone type daily life. Being headstrong and likely confrontational, that is drama I neither need nor want. Then the single mother on top of it is an automatic pass for me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:09 PM
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zero, all of them, why? option 1 - pstar, automatically no. They all tend to thought shift and think of sex, intimacy, relationships differently than "vanilla" couples. It's a side effect of the lifestyle. Most intimate moments get looked at as transactional, regardless how hard they try, it just doesn't work out to support a long term relationship. option 2- body count too high, too much emotional damage that has never been professionally addressed. The common denominator in all hee failed atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:26 PM
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I'll just add what I've said before. Once men turn 18 and get out of school, vasectomy, most problems solved. If the men in France respond in greater numbers, their legal body will have to reevaluate their stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:44 PM
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without a doubt, YES
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:51 PM
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NO, why? Because you can love someone to your core and not be a good match as a couple. Better to focus on someone that is compatible and you can create a strong bond with where you both compliment each other. Just focusing on the "feel good" emotions has put us into the toxic dating trend we as a society have become stuck in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:31 PM
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I'll approach this from personal experience It isn't that I would want to need her to sleep with me on the first date. Where some men take issue is when they find out their interest is in someone who by all appearances is "traditional " but then quickly discover they are normally quite promiscuous but "saw real potential " in a relationship and suddenly that rule changes. To women this makes perfect sense but to the men all they see is someone who is settling with someone who isn't as exciting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:24 PM
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And women that sees men as required providers and require money and constant validation are misandrists. Men aren't entitled to sex just as women aren't entitled to a relationship or marriage. Just another great post detailing why men should completely ignore and walk away from western women and let them wallow in their self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:31 PM
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let's clarify, women aren't and never were trophies or prizes. They are like juicy fruit gum. Cheap, good tasting at the beginning but they lose their flavor fast and then it's time to dispose of them and buy a new pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:43 PM
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youve had sex once???@! once??? and you got it all figured out. right? Post again after your gonads actually drop into their sack and you grow chest hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:07 AM
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Yes it happens and more often than you might think. You can easily search out stories on reddit alone where divorces or breakups are predicated by the men finding out either by accident, a chance overheard remark or conversation where their wives admitted to someone, a relative, a friend group or confidant they married their spouse for security and not attraction. These same women often admit they preferred an ex over their husband but the ex's just were not able or unwilling to provide that typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:18 AM
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cool as in its fully her choice to have sex or not. But if I feel we are incompatible due to her choice, then I'll find someone I am more compatible with. That usually just ends up in huge amounts of drama anyway because they do not agree with my point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:26 PM
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Awesome, so when are you going to start into the MULTITUDE of posts, videos, tik toks etc posted by women that just sit and cry and moan in self pity because no man wants to enter into a relationship or marriage with them? Or complaining how men aren't attending single events or paying for first dates or buying them expensive gifts for their time and no other reason? Or they sit and complain about all the drama and trauma in their lives but never seek out therapy? Your going to be Hella busy wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:27 PM
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Cool, I'm ending the relationship due to a sexual mismatch. I am not punishing her, I just choose to be with someone with a matching sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:28 PM
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Which is why men are no longer being nice. No benefit in it. So women are now 100 independent, so just like men, fight your own fights, change your own tires, deal with your own problems and pay your own bills just like men have done for generations. No woman is special and men should no longer treat them as such, glad we are all now on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:09 PM
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It does, your right, just like men vary, yet you get women throwing up videos and posting about "all men are trash". But just as they are thrown aside by Chad's and Tyrones after getting used and dumped, those mothers do not exhibit such behaviors until they start feeling comfortable in the relationship. Personally, I am sick of searching a beach full of sand for that one rough diamond. So I just do as others and avoid all single mothers. Problem solved. If they have children under 18, hard pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:30 PM
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I will expand on this a bit. I tried dating single mothers after raising 4 kids of my own through college. Each time became a nightmare to deal with for the reasons you posted. I had one if them take one of my restored cars on a joy ride after getting pissed at me and her mother (she was 14 at the time) and did over 100k damage wrecking it, I ended up paying for all the damage plus losing the investment of money and time I invested rebuilding that car. Second issue is constant baby daddy drama a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:03 AM
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Google it, the sources are public and many stories and articles that cover them from the last 10+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:16 PM
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And Mr ED was an actual talking horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:27 PM
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50% of initial marriages end in divorce.2nd and 3rd marriages + are 70%+ more likely to end in divorce. Average length of marriages 5 to 8 years before ending in divorce. Men lose custody of children in 80%+ times due to divorce Men lose significant amounts of income and funds including 85% or higher having to pay alimony and child support even if their ex wives makes the same or higher income. Men lose nearly all equity in homes and 50 % of any retirement that might have taken decades of long w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:25 PM
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There is zero benefits to men being married. Marriages as a legal contract need to be dissolved and removed permanently from our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:45 PM
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A good number of women have experienced it. Men in general have stopped approaching women. There are several reasons but generally they are just opting out of any dating dynamic. In this social climate they are not interested in relationships as a whole but satisfied with casual hookups then seeking personal connections with friends groups instead of relationships. You can Google search and find articles where men have completely stopped attending social events centered around singles, social cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:30 PM
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so what happened to all those guys you dated abs were the sexiest alive? Still dating them all?? Doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:15 PM
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Then you grow bored, meet a Chad and leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:48 PM
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Let's clarify, how often do you mow the lawn? Take out the trash? Change the oil, spark plugs or fix a fence? How about fix a toilet or an appliance? Here's the issue, those 50/50 type relationships as you tried to describe are rarely 50/50. Traditional men's roles are still mainly 100% men's jobs while women such as yourself demand household chores at 50/50. So the next time your stuck on the side of the road, don't bother your husband, troubleshoot and fix it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:46 PM
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