You're right, it's just all about the viiiibes. What are vibes you ask? Just that strange, tingly phenomena women get in their panties whenever Chad's 6 feet of pErSoNaLiTy walks through the door.
No amount of common ground will make listening to you talk about your underwater knitting club and office gossip and socioecomic issues fun or interesting.
And not doing so won't make the results any better. The simple fact is women want a five star Chad even even when they're an average Annie from bumfuck nowhere.
The only women who don't expect the world and more are usually the trash women who have 5 kinds by three guys and more tattoos than a tribal chief. And even then, they end up being utter nutbars.
That's literally what most of the strongly blue/pink leaning women here do. Yeah it only takes a few minutes to post, but you make the effort to come here and argue with men about this stuff lol