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| – | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastBecause she would be less pleasant to be around? Isn't it obvious? That doesn't mean kindness is attractive. It just means its more pleasant being around someone who is nice than not nice. The same way I can consider my friends pleasant to be around because they're good people without wanting to fuck them. See how that works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringslol then I guess you don't read at a high enough level to be able to differentiate between singular and plural. That's worrying. Good luck out there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t go after men with wedding rings"more times in my few months wearing a ring" I highly recommend reading before commenting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastI'd imagine the nice identical twin. Why does it matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastWho are "you people"? "It is not attractive by itself" So, not attractive. It makes the person more pleasant and tolerable to be around, not more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I thought so, yeah. And now I'm even more confident since you have no response. I'll take that to mean you realize how incredibly wrong you are but are too proud to admit it so instead are trying to pretend like I'm stupid due to projection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"pseudo intellectual" lol wut? How was what I said pseudo intellectual? I wasn't trying to sound intellectual "Over 90%" And the other 10%? "and my "fweelings" told me so." That's what I said, yes. I'm glad you are capable of understanding the things I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I mean, has every person in human history gotten married? Has anyone ever died alone? If the answer to either is yes, then you are wrong and it's not true. Is there any actual reason whatsoever to believe it's true besides wanting it to be because it would be nice if it were? Is there any evidence? Proof? Anything? Or are you just saying stuff and declaring has to be true because your feelings told you so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish last"Kindness is attractive, but it's not attractive if it's the only thing a guy has going for him" That means it's not attractive. Kindness isn't attractive. It's totally irrelevant to attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?"I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone." There isn't, stop spreading this lie. All it does is make people who are already bad at life feel worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:38 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedWhy does it matter? If OP is telling men to be happy single and not complain, surely women should do the same, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:51 AM |
| 3 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Yeah it sucks. Bizarre how people can't stop talking about how much women love tall men and how fucked short men are until a short man says that being short might make dating harder. Then they look at him like he's insane for daring to suggest such a thing. Not nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:55 PM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to date as a man"That still doesn’t invalidate my point…." I wasn't trying to, in fact I explicitly agreed with you, so I'm not sure how you even came to the conclusion I was trying to invalidate it, but okay I guess? Weird for someone to agree with you then get mad at them for not invalidating your argument, but whatever works for you. Just saying it's not a gendered issue and something both men and women do. That's all. Chill out, seriously, I promise it's not that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"I don’t care about clothing" Impossible! You must hate yourself! (according to everyone here) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?“Because boys spend more time playing video games and less time socializing irl. They choose this because video games give them the dopamine they crave without any risk of being rejected.” It sounded like you thought girls were immune to this and that it didn’t apply to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?“Look around.” I work with kids. Girls spend way, way, way more time on their phones than boys. Girls spend way more time sitting together not speaking to each other. Girls spend way more time scrolling social media. I’ve seen the exact opposite, that it’s girls who become much more anti social than boys when they get smart phones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It's not good or bad, it just kind of is." Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Like everything in life, the reasons why are multifactorial." Well, as long as you recognize it's not as simple as "boy play video game = boy bad," as people seemed to be implying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:59 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Don't really know. Part of it is people who do care about dress tend to be snobby and more judgmental than people who don't. Part of it is, for some reason, I see dressing up nice more as a way to distract people from bad parts of someone's personality. I doubt that's true a lot, but for some reason that's often my impression, that people dress up in order to hide something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:43 PM |
| 4 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It seems like we have these built-in biases about how girls/women and boys/men are different and it colors our perception of what's really going on." For sure. That's why I question this "too much boy screen time" thing. I work with kids. I see them get their first smart phones and their first chance at screen access without any kind of supervision. Every day I see boys playing together and actually interacting with each other in person...while girls will be sitting at a table together, silentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:39 PM |
| 5 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"A lot of younger Gen Z women I've talked to as a younger millennial have this same problem." Agreed. I just think this "if boys just went outside more they'd be fine" is a wild oversimplification and totally ignores that girls should, hypothetically, be suffering from the same problems boys are, if we're saying what is causing boys to struggle is too much internet and screens. Girls are exposed to just as much internet and screens as boys, so it doesn't make sense that it's only boys who strugg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 02:05 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?lol well that's the first time I've ever heard someone say that not caring what other people think of you = self-loathing. Not a very good troll job if you have to resort to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Sounds like you're a troll Genuinely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"This feels like a virtue signal" I'm sorry you feel that way "a more favorable first impression than someone dressed like a schlub" I'm aware! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?You tell me. You're the one who said that doing these things will get you better results, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 7 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Its not widespread with girls as they have more socialisation, go out more, have friend groups, and have experience and understanding of the world around them because they dont tend to live so antisocially." Again, do they actually? Or are you just guessing and declaring it true because you need it to be in order for your argument to hold water | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"ut you can’t deny that attraction is a pretty important piece to dating, no?" It definitely is! I'm arguing people who care about how they look because of what others may think of them are far more likely to hate themselves than people who genuinely do not care what anyone else thinks of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:06 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Yeah, shame women care so much about such dumb shit. They'd probably be much happier in their dating lives if they judged less on a man's clothes and more on what he does and says | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Terrified?" Yes, if you care so much about what people think you change the way you dress, you are more terrified of other people than someone who does not care what people think of how they dress "And I do enjoy expressing myself with clothes." That's great! Other people could not be less interested. Isn't it cool, how people can care about different things? "When you dress like shit, you communicate to yourself, "I'm a sloppy dude who doesn't give a fuck." If that's the message you want to se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 01:02 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?But why doesn't it happen to girls? They also like dopamine and fear rejection, and video games would do the same for them as they do for boys. So why does it happen to boys way more? Do girls actually spend more time socializing than boys, or are you just guessing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:56 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"I guarantee that the vast majority of people who dress like shit and eat like shit feel like shit about themselves." Eating is very, very different, that I'd agree with :"You're jumping straight to "worry so much." To me, putting on clean, well-fitting clothes doesn't mean you're worrying very much." Worrying way more than someone who doesn't care. Terrified of other people way more than someone who doesn't care. Hating yourself way more than someone doesn't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:50 PM |
| 4 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?You tell me. You're the one who said that doing these things will get you better results, remember? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"It doesn't take much effort to put on clean" I never said it did. "just understand that people are going to see you as such, and your opportunities will be limited." I know. And I would argue people who worry so much about their clothes and how they look and what other people think of them, are far more likely to hate themselves than people who genuinely do not give a shit about any of it. Can almost guarantee it, in fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:36 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?To me the way a person acts and treats others matters a lot more than what they wear. I never said dressing nice deducts from that, but it doesn't add anything either. It's a complete neutral. I really don't care what people wear...at all. If anything, people dressing nice makes me like them less, because, like...why do you care so much? When I see men walking down the street in full suits on their way to work, I feel bad they have to dress so uncomfortably all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"Boys spend their formative years in a dark room isolated from the world on the internet then wonder why the cant function as adults in society." Why is this happening? Why isn't it happening to girls the way it is to boys? How do we fix it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:29 PM |
| 0 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"then you probably hate yourself on some level." Or you just don't care about clothes and think people who put so much stock on what they wear are prioritizing the wrong things. If you have to put on a nice outfit to fell good about yourself, you probably hate yourself on some level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:24 PM |
| 6 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Something seriously crazy must have happened to distract him from his obsession with bait posting on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:03 PM |
| 9 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?"And if you have, what's stopping the results?" hilarious. "It's so easy, just do these things and you'll get results. If you did those things and it did not work, explain to me why my full-proof method did not work" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:00 PM |
| 6 | It has never been easier to date as a man"Honestly your answer doesn’t surprise me because I feel like a lot of men see dating so transactional." *people* see dating as transactional. Don't pretend women aren't just as bad as men in this regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"If it worked that way then that would be great, but we can't just go changing definitions to suit what we want." Yes, that's what I'm telling you...that's what you're doing...using the word "hell" when really you mean "a little bit higher than hell" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:25 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"t can absolutely still apply, the bar is in hell yet these chronically online men still can't reach it." Which, again, means it is not actually in hell. You want hell to simultaneously mean the absolute worst of the worst, but also a little better than the worst of the worst. Pick one, dawg, you don't get both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"It's only the bottom tier, chronically online Redditors that actually struggle." But if the bar was in hell, this would not be the case. Even the worst of the worst would be able to date somewhat, if the bar truly was in hell...but it's not...so they can't...so they're here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:45 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for womenBased on how angry everybody is at each other, it seems it's a problem for both, but yes, much more for men. Men's low standards definitely let women get away with being low quality, but clearly women aren't happy about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | The bar is beneath hell for women"Have you ever stopped to think of the low quality of options women often get on dating sites?" And women don't realize men's options are equally low quality, but just the fraction of the percentage. Chances of finding someone good among very many very low quality options are still much better than finding someone good from very few very low quality options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:38 AM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough."it's also implied that you will also need" lol "the bar is in hell" does literally the exact opposite. It explicitly states dating should be incredibly easy for any man who can cross the street without needing help, since, ya know, the bar is in hell "Sure the phrase is an oversimplification" Of course it is. It's saying that, since men are terrible, it should be super easy for any quarter-way decent man to get into a relationship. That's what the phrase means It's not, however, an oversimplifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"It would be funny if it wasn't so sad that this became a self-fulfilling prophecy." Very, very true. "deserved it." Yeah, that's my thing. Like, I totally understand women's frustration and wariness towards men, because men can be awful obviously....but that's not my fault, yet I'm treated as if it is and am punished for it, which just feels really dehumanizing after going through it enough times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:57 PM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough."The phrase just means that a partner only doing the bare minimum (ex. equal involvement in parenting) is still going to be seen as something special" Right, which means....since the bar is so low that even just being nice is seen as doing something special, that being nice should be plenty to get into a relationship, since that would be seen as special. You cannot simultaneously say the bar is in hell means being nice is seen as doing something special, but also that nobody says being nice is e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenWell, I sure hope you're right. Think we'd all be happier that way, in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 11:19 PM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.Huh? "The bar is in hell" is women saying all a man has to do is not be totally awful, and he should be able to find someone. So...yeah...people say being a decent person should get you a relationship all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"And this person has repeatedly told you that they aren't saying it does but that it helps. " They are saying it helps a little, I am saying it does not help at all. I disagree that it helps. I do not think having friends makes any difference one way or the other. Having friends makes you less platonically lonely, but not less romantically lonely. I do not think it helps. Is that any more clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:22 PM |
| – | Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change?"these days gym content is known to be a pipeline to the alt right" What? It's...a gym. How could it possibly be a pipeline to the alt right? What does that even mean? Are neo-nazis going to gyms to recruit now? Are we saying that exercising turns people into fascists? Or are fascists just more likely to exercise, and therefore go to gyms more often? Or were they already fascists, and going to the gym just brought it out of them for some reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"If you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"If you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that" read those words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenlol explaining that friendships are not the same as romantic relationships isn't whining, but classic to jump to hyperbole just because someone disagrees with you...shame you can't be more mature...but classic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I never said they are the same." "I'm saying men won't feel lonely if they have community and friends" If you agree that friendships and romantic relationships are not equivalent, then how will friendship help someone who is romantically lonely?" Once again, having lots of friends does not replace a romantic relationship, if a romantic relationship is what one really craves. So telling romantically lonely men to get more friends and they won't be lonely is inaccurate and unhelpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I never said they are the same." Oh. Saying guys wouldn't be lonely if they had more boys trips was weird then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenIf you are romantically lonely, having friends doesn't solve that. No matter how much you insist to the contrary. They are not the same. They are not interchangeable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:55 PM |
| 6 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.I sure hope so, otherwise, as far as intelligence goes...yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 11 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way.Again, right, they are incorrectly stating lack of success = bad person. Which is why people bring up just world fallacy, since so many people act like the two are equivalent and say things like "just be nice and someone will love you, it's that easy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 11 | It is not “just world fallacy” to believe that anyone who is chronically unable to have anyone ever desire them despite trying, is unattractive in some way."Being sexually repulsive doesn’t mean you’re inherently a bad person." Right, which is why people bring up just world fallacy, since so many people act like the two are equivalent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"this isn't a gendered experience." I didn't say it was. I don't think romantically lonely women will be any more satisfied by platonic friendships than romantically lonely men, if what they really want is a romantic connection "It can take weeks in advance to schedule a dinner." Which is exactly why friendship is not the answer, the way so many people like to pretend it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"I don’t think ‘having your social needs met by friends’ necessarily = ‘never running into situations where everyone is busy.’" Right, which, again, is why it's not the answer. If you're lonely and you want to see someone and everyone is busy, even if they are your friends, you still end up lonely. If anything it's worse because you realize you're no longer a priority and as important to them as you once were. You no longer matter enough to make time for because they have more important things t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"It is harder for adults with young children (or really any other time-consuming commitments) to find time to socialize." Which is why it's not the answer. If you crave a truly deep connection, and all you have reality is "well maybe I can find time this weekend," you're still going to end up lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:34 PM |
| -2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenAre your friendships and romances identical? You seem to think they are the exact same, when I think most reasonable people are able to recognize that a friendship is not equivalent to a romantic relationship. If you are romantically lonely, having friendships doesn't solve that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"The actual answer to male loneliness is for men to hang out with each other more." Depends on the age. I have lots of friends. Problem is, my friends now all have partners and families they have to prioritize over me. So having friends no longer helps with the loneliness, because I'm not as high priority to them as their wives and children. If I try and organize something, chances are pretty high everyone is too busy to get together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenidk, the main justification I hear women use for treating men badly is "well a long time ago women didn't have rights, and even though I wasn't alive and this guy wasn't alive then, it's still super unfair, to me, personally, that these women were treated that way, so I can treat men terribly now to get back at them for what they did to me decades before I was alive," and that excuse will never not exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:10 AM |
| – | Being nice is the bare minimum. Most guys' definition of a good guy usually seems to be someone with basic human decency. Women on average have alot of options compared to the average man, so of course just being a good guy is not gonna be enough.You've never heard "the bar is in hell"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving womenNah, it's just not the same. I have plenty of friends. Last weekend, I was lonely, wanted to hang out with someone. Guess what? All my friends were busy with their partners and couldn't make time for me. I sat around by myself all weekend. It's no one's fault, that's life, but this idea that friendship = romantic relationship and men should be able to get all their needs met by male friends is....how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women"Teach women in general to not be nasty towards men approaching them, which can be done over time by just shaming nasty behaviour." Let's be real, women are never going to start shaming other women for being nasty to men. It just will never, ever happen because too many women have had bad experiences so they understand and sympathize the nastiness and believe it is deserved. Even my closest women friends refuse to ever negatively judge another woman for treating me terribly. There's always a jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?lol I'm just saying what's happening. Saying what's happening is not an ad hominem attack, it's just saying what's happening. Dunno how you could confuse saying what's happening as an ad hominem attack, but that's for you to figure out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?I'm not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 11:36 AM |
| – | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?He's not, OP has an obsession with this sub and makes pretty much the same exact post bashing men every 12 hours, or as often as the mods will allow him. It's weird, and a little worrying, tbh. I hope he's okay and can eventually sort out whatever is driving this obsessive thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:38 AM |
| 2 | You can't be red pill if you're sexually unsuccessful.I believe in the theory of gravity, that doesn't mean I can explain how/why gravity works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than menReally? Because there are a lot of women here who complain about how unfair it is that the loneliness epidemic is centered so much around men when women are just as lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 09:39 AM |
| 7 | Porn watching is more morally wrong in men than it is in women" we sincerely, wholeheartedly, do not want you." lol then why the fuck do you care so much what they do? Jesus christ, if you hate these people so much and are so disgusted by them, just ignore them. Leave them alone. There's no need to go around kicking people who are already down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 08:47 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?She’s a troll. Just here to insult men as much as she possibly can, so she’s desperately reaching for reasons to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have changed your preferences (likes/dislikes, turn-ons/turn-offs) because of begging; pleading; shaming; or derogatory remarks from women?“Admitted” 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?To warrant insulting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Would you date asexual person?What’s with insulting people for no reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Would you date asexual person?“but they're very much outside the norm” If course, doesn’t mean you have to insult them for no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you date asexual person?Asexual people are weirdos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Would you date asexual person?Why can't it be a question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Relationship Advice Tier List by sexual orientationYou….did the same thing? One of the weird things about this sub, people will make claims with absolutely no substance to support them, then turn around and use the “no evidence” like it’s some kind of clever gotcha. Either also provide evidence to support your claim, or stop saying others need to but you don’t because you don’t like what they’re saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?I certainly try. They meant it as in the concept of love and support are the bare minimum and useless to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No idea, I've only ever heard women separate the two. But apparently for some, there is indeed a difference....and a big one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No, I think men resent women demanding princess treatment, and being told that the love and support we otherwise offer doesn't count in the "princess treatment" equation because offering love and support are "bare minimum" and "useless" to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys bristle at the notion of a woman deserving princess treatment?No idea, but that's what women tell me all the time. I've never not had a woman say "that's bare minimum" when I say that love and support are what I "bring to the table" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 04:00 PM |
| 3 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to"Loneliness IS a way to discover what you need." Not if you're trying to be in a relationship. You're literally complaining about is a result of men not having enough relationship experience. You want men to know what they want in a partner when they're stuck on figuring out how to get anyone to give them any kind of positive attention. You can't think about what you actually want in a partner when you can't figure out how to get someone to go on a second date with you, that's just not how it wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”."Watching a film like that and thinking 'that’s literally me'" You say this as if these characters don't specifically exist in order for young boys to think "that could be me some day." You say this as if 10 year old kids have the understanding and knowledge of full grown adults to be able to know these movies aren't based in reality. You say this as if kids aren't dumb as shit and literally don't know anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 09:44 AM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise"the narrative i have heard is not 'be nice and you ll get a girlfriend'" "You’d have to be one the dumbest human beings ever if you think just being nice gets you a girlfriend." Come on, man, do better than this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:29 PM |
| – | It's much harder for men to build a hot body than it is for women.Depending on how you train, there's nothing wrong with leaving RIR. Going to failure isn't always the best option....everybody's body is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:13 PM |
| 8 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.I feel like in most relationships partners adore each other? You'd object to your partner saying "you're adorable"? Or "I adore you"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?So, the first one. You want him to be into you and flirting immediately, before he knows whether he actually likes you as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Which of these men is likely to find women more interested in him: A man who flirts first, and figures out whether he likes you later, or a man who figures out whether he likes you first, and flirts later?Why respond if you refuse to answer the actual question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.)The only one that's different between dating men and women are 1 and 2. The rest are the same, regardless if you're dating a man or woman. Gay dudes seem to hook up a lot, so yeah, probably more hook ups. And, as you very astutely pointed out: men are men, not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?"I'm just going off what I read here" You did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?So....why don't you base your views of men off them instead of strangers on the internet who, for all you know, are chicks getting a kick out of playing a misogynist online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why most men do more than the bare minimum to survive due to the promise or chance of a wife and kids?"I'm just going off what I read here" Do your interactions with men you can actually see and touch and speak to hold no meaning to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyone"I don't think telling someone you'll be there if there's an emergency is weird." But...she wasn't. She refused. Pretending you'll be there in an emergency is really fucking weird. Especially for a doctor "If you were incentivized to hurt yourself just to talk to them then clearly it is an emergency, because somebody in a more stable state would not consider that. " No shit, that's literally what I said. Still isn't going to stop one of her patients from eventually doing it " Doctors/therapists … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneIn that case it was really weird of her to tell me to contact her in those situations if she was just going to refuse to talk to me. My grievance is doctors are supposed to help and care, not refuse to speak to you for a week when you need help the most. To say a week isn't a long time to refuse to meet with someone is truly insane on your part. My grievance is she's literally incentivizing her patients to harm themselves, and eventually one of them will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:09 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneYou think a doctor refusing to talk to a patient in a crisis is normal? You think doctor's incentivizing their patients to harm themselves is normal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 07:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyoneYeah the problem is that psychology is mostly just common sense bullshit so it's perfect for the kids in high school who knew how to get a good score on tests without doing any of the work. My sense is most psychologists are this type, the ones who want to be smarter than they are, but are too lazy to do anything to achieve said intelligence, so they do easy shit that people think is hard so they can fool themselves into thinking they're smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:38 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women sexually assaulting men is (almost) never as severe as men sexually assaulting anyone" If you have a therapist acting that unprofessionally, it’s reasonable to report them." lol. Once I was having an especially bad day my therapist refused to talk to me before my next appointment (a week away) unless I hurt myself and went to a hospital and they called her. Reported her, got a response 8 months later telling me to fuck off because nobody cares. It's a very successful mirage you doctors have created, but I'm glad it works for the people who don't do enough thinking to see through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences“You're being recognized as an object that's useful for masturbation at least. ” No, you’re being recognized as a human being. Imagine being so used to endless validation that, even when you get it, it doesn’t feel like validation because it’s not the form of validation you prefer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:13 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"same as being invisible" It really isn't. You're still being recognized as a human being who exists. You're still participating in humanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesFar more validating than being treated like you don't exist. Just because women experience so much validation that they can pick and choose which kinds they like and don't like, does not mean someone wanting to have sex with you is not validation of some kind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQWell that's stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesYou’re really struggling to understand it’s just not that easy for men, huh? Maybe for women simply telling yourself a man likes you makes it come true, but that doesn’t exist for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 12:17 PM |
| 5 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesHuh? So you're saying if I work with a woman and think she's into me, she asks to meet up after work to get drinks, etc, and I ask her out and she doesn't respond, it's because the whole time I secretly didn't think she was into me and was going to say no? I think you just don't know what a self-fulfilling prophecy is, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:39 AM |
| 5 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiencesOkay, so it's not a self-fulfilling prophecy then. It's just a thing that happens. If it was a self-fulfilling prophecy, then telling yourself "I am valuable to her," would come true, no matter what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:16 AM |
| 2 | The term “just because you’re paranoid doesn’t mean they’re not after you” applies to dating. The average man will mostly only have negative experiences"If you think you are low on her list you put yourself there" Are you saying that if you text someone, and they don't respond, or take a very long time to, it's because the you didn't believe hard enough that you'd get a text back, the woman somehow sensed this, and so decided not to text you even though she would have liked to? Are you saying that if a man texts you and you don't respond, his reaction should be "damn this chick must be really into me, she's so intimidated by my good looks she c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use "logic and reason" as an excuse for low EQWhat's up with PPD's obsession with sweat? I see people calling each other "sweaty" here all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell“I don't know what "nice guy" is” Really? That’s…surprising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellRight. But that alone is not nearly enough to be considered attractive, as was suggested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellNo. You're confused that part of the "nice guy" trope is that he wants the girl very, very badly. Right? That's where the "want" comes in, and it never makes a difference in those scenarios. "That wasn't what was suggested." "But ultimately women are looking for "he is VERY into me, he REALLY needs me, he CARES about me very much...and that is what can make quite a difference." Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellWhat? I'm saying wanting a woman badly does not mean the woman will want you back, as was suggested. I'm saying simply caring a lot about a woman will not make the woman care about you in return, as was suggested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellOkay. I don't see how that disputes what I said. If merely wanting a girl badly enough was attractive to women, there would be no such thing as "the nice guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 03:17 PM |
| 31 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell"he is VERY into me, he REALLY needs me, he CARES about me very much"" If this was true, there would be no such thing as "the nice guy," since he'd be able to get the girl he wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationIf someone who is really shy and socially anxious pushes themselves to go out anyway to learn to overcome that discomfort and have more fun being around people, you'd call this person a fake because they had to work for that skill instead of just being born with it? That seems...harsh, to say the least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationIf someone says they're Christian but rejects Jesus and his dad and embraces the Greek gods, does that mean that's how Christianity works now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Befriending women will not make a differenceWell that's good, was going to say, she must literally never interact with women if that's the case. Or has a hearing problem that she should go to a doctor for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Befriending women will not make a differenceWow. That's....incredible. How have you managed to avoid it? I hear women say that once a month | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 11:07 PM |
| 11 | Befriending women will not make a differenceYou've never heard of the "all men are trash" trope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Speed dating is the most brutal dating setting"Also it's typically from a stranger" lol no it's not. That doesn't even make sense. How could a stranger be in a position to repeatedly abuse a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceOkay. Considering yourself superior to someone who doesn't own a car while not owning a car is really weird, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceI sure don't think so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceThen I guess you aren't a real woman, just like he isn't a real man, for also not owning a car. Maybe think of that before getting pregnant if it's such an issue for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceReally struggling to see the connection between this and women telling men who don't own cars they aren't real men. Are you saying women don't sympathize with men because they know how much worse off they'd be in the same position? Are you saying they're justified insulting men who don't own cars because they might be attacked at a bus stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:16 AM |
| 5 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Because men sure aren't fucking doing any of the work beyond the bare minimum." Okay so this is just a misandrist rant slipping out, got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."You know what the services are." I have absolutely no idea. "Pay for all those services" is very vague. Especially in the context of saying they will pay for the kid but not for the kid's mom. My guess is child raising stuff, but I don't think you're mad at men for not helping their baby mama's learn to floss. Are you saying men should be paying women to teach their kids to floss? Not sure what the rest is about or if you're asking a question or what you want me to say, but I think you're talki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.What services? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Because it makes more sense as to why married couples create better results in children rather than pretending the marriage itself is helping." So...you're just giving your opinion and presenting it as a fact. That's what I thought, but just wanted to confirm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag.No. What does that have to do with good parents being more likely to get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Men do not want to provide for their kids unless they have a built in female domestic and sexual servant." What a wild, completely unsubstantiated, misandrist claim to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Thinking relationships should be more prioritized than raising kids is a red flag."Thats because good parents typically get married" How have you determined this? Why would a good parent be more likely to get married than a bad parent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 03:02 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenFair point. As the old saying goes, never ascribe to malice that which is explained by stupidity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:39 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenIt's a troll job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:28 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenNot supposed to be able to troll either, but that's not a problem when you agree with the troll I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:27 PM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenDawg if you want to piss people off and get them to engage with you, you can't pretend to be THIS stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:31 AM |
| – | Current dating landscape sucks for young womenThat would ruin his troll post though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Most men won't succeed on dating apps"You saying those men are achieving dating with 0 efforts, is really actually diminishing the actual work and effort that these guys are putting in" I think this depends a lot on how you define effort. For men for whom dating is easy, going on the apps and swiping on girls and coming up with ideas and plans for dates and going on them probably feels like effort. To women that may seem like effort. For men for whom dating is hard, none of that feels anywhere close to effort, that's the fun part a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 04:40 PM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badYeah I didn't think it happened either until a woman called me one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 12:03 AM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badIn real life, yes. On the internet men call men simps all the time, obviously. That's fine, I figured that'd be the case, since it doesn't fit your narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 11:49 PM |
| – | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badAnd I've only ever heard women describe guys as simps. Never heard a man do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardSettling is ending up with someone "worse" than you, not failing to get someone better than you and instead choosing someone on your level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Men live life on easy modeWhat? Of course I care if I live or die. I'm saying nobody else does When was I being an ass? Sorry, was not meaning to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Men live life on easy mode"nobody gives a shit" I already said. Despite what you apparently believe, men are actually people too, and count in "nobody" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardLet's come up with new terms then, because failing to get someone objectively better than you and ending up with someone on your level is not what people mean when they say someone is "settling" A woman failing to achieve hypergamy is not settling...she just failed to achieve hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardThe real problem is that you consider this woman to be settling If an average man dated a hot girl for a while and ended up with an average woman, nobody would say he settled. But when the woman equivalent happens, that's what we call it now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Men live life on easy modeThis is great, you've accidentally and unironically highlighted the hardest, most painful disadvantage men have: when bad things happen, nobody gives a shit and nobody will help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menGetting turned off by gay sex isn’t the same as labeling people as less masculine and less of a man because they have gay sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menlol that’s not something you can disagree on. Women saying bi men aren’t masculine and aren’t real men because they got fucked by another man is biphobic. You don’t get to choose, it’s just what you’re doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Leagues within dating are only for men“ They offer similar things as what women offer themselves, ideally.” Right, but I want to know the mystical qualities women have that men don’t that people refer to when they say women offer things men can’t. I have no idea what a woman could provide that’s impossible for a man to provide, but people say it all the time like it’s fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menOkay. Saying men having sex with other men disgusts them and they can’t have sex with him because of that is still biphobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menThe women in this thread saying they would never fuck a man who fucked a man because they find it disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Leagues within dating are only for menYeah I wish I knew what people meant when they say this. I constantly hear "men don't have a lot to offer," implying women DO have a lot to offer, but I've never had anyone list a single thing women offer that men don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:00 PM |
| 3 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menHow is "I find it disgusting that you got fucked by another man and can't respect you because of it" NOT looking down on bi men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:12 AM |
| 2 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight menI'm not attracted to men. I don't think a men getting fucked by another man is gross. These women are openly acknowledging they find bi men who have been fucked by other men as gross and not really men. Surely you can see the difference between simply not wanting to fuck someone and finding someone disgusting based on who they decide to fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight men"they dont need to even have a reason to not want to sleep with them" Huh? We know they DO have a reason to not want to sleep with them. Because they're biphobic. Which is fine, but also funny when so many of these women love to claim to be pro LGBTQ+ and allies in theory, when they barely are in reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 10:06 AM |
| 0 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withBut if having sex with someone you aren’t attracted to is objectively one of the worst things a person can go through, why are they choosing that over being stone? Could it be possible that, for some people, bad sex in a relationship is preferable to being alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withSo your argument is that having sex with someone you aren’t attracted to is one of the worst things a person can go through, but women willingly make this choice every day and put themselves through this terrible, terrible experience anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:44 PM |
| -1 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withCan you please explain why so many women choose to stay in relationships with men they aren’t that attracted to if that’s way worse than being alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex with"They are not choosing to" If the women aren't being raped, and also aren't choosing to have sex with men they find unattractive, then what is happening? You're saying they're neither being forced to have sex with unattractive men, but they also aren't choosing to have sex with unattractive men, then what's the third option to explain how so many women end up having sex with men they find unattractive to the point where it's common enough that you feel the need to post about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withThen I don't understand. Why are these women choosing to have sex with men they don't find attractive if the alternative, being alone and sexless, is better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 03:18 PM |
| – | Men are menWhat? how is baselessly accusing me of harassing you, then harassing me, returning the same energy? Returning the same energy would be baselessly accusing me of harassing you, then apologizing when you realized you baselessly accused me of harassing you. In other words, not harassing me once you realized you very unfairly accused me of harassing you What you did is harass me. That's not returning the same energy, since I never harassed you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 12:11 AM |
| – | Men are menYou baselessly accuse me of harassing you because we both read the same threads made in the last day, then instead of apologizing for making such a heinous accusation with no evidence whatsoever, you find a comment from a month ago in order to harass me? Wow. Just wow. The hypocrisy is just.....wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:20 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Yeah I'm sure there are exceptions. But I'd imagine in 90+% of cases when a guy catches feelings for a friend, what he wants is a wholesome partnership | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?I never said I do or don't hate women, but really weird you're stalking my comments now in order to attack me Not to mention, once again putting words in my mouth and jumping to hateful, attacking conclusions. Women DO laugh at men doing this. It happens all the time. Every single day. See: simps. People love laughing at simps giving women who don't give a shit about them presents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:04 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Okay, then assuming a man only wants taken women because they are the most attractive is also hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:48 PM |
| – | Men have no options."Master praline said that men do not consider these things wholesome and that the things men find wholesome are not the things women find wholesome." Incorrect. what he said was "what they classify as wholesome might not be wholesome for you," that is not equivalent to that. It simply means different people find different things wholesome. But of course, because you are hateful, you make these illogical, nonexistent connections (e.g. saying not everyone finds the same things wholesome means men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:45 PM |
| – | Men have no options.No, it is hateful. If saying older women are falling apart is hateful, then assuming a man only wants taken women because they are the most attractive is also hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:42 PM |
| – | Men have no options."This can only mean that men find these niche sexual habits to be wholesome." It can also mean some people find waking up early to watch the sunrise wholesome, while other people find sleeping in and breakfast in bed wholesome. But you jump to the most hateful conclusion possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:28 PM |
| – | Men have no options."He most likely only wants the most attractive women," What a hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:27 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Wow. What a hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options.Yeah I'm confused if this means like 50,000 years ago or something. Because "I know it's become normalized for people to reproduce to the point where you are viewed as a failure if you don't, but during the ice age only 40% of men reproduced so you can't really complain," seems like a really strange argument to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:33 PM |
| – | Men have no options.That's an extremely hateful conclusion to jump to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:58 AM |
| – | Men have no options.Huh? Men who develop feelings for their friends are interested in wholesome memories and their advances are almost always unwanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:52 AM |
| – | Men have no options.What does "throughout human history" mean, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?on the tread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Used to be. Now women laugh at and mock men who do this for being stupid enough to think she gives a single shit about him buying her stuff. Women are the ones who decided this is now "simping", not men. So blame women for conditioning men to feel like being nice without getting anything in return is shameful and pathetic, not men for being conditioned by women to feel this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Literally all simping is an act of intent. So therefore all simps must be super dominant. Never heard that one before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?If doing something as easy as sending money counts as marking territory, then buying a girl dinner or a present does too. And all acts of simping are dominant and marking territory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Okay? Women use men being short to justify finding them unattractive. Is that against the rules now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?It usually is Again, please show the facts and stats and evidence showing over 50% of men think this. You still haven't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"“I know most women don’t have a BMI under 25 but it’s their choice to be unattractive!!!”" What? All I said is that it's crazy to say that losing weight is equally as difficult as getting out of poverty. The fact that you are legitimately equating those two things is just so wildly naive and shows a severe lack of understanding of how the world works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Humans being more superficial than they admit does not prove over 50% of men think most women are too old and fat for them. Please stop trying to distract from the topic at hand to avoid admitting you can't prove your point and are just indiscriminately attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?That shows what men find most attractive. Not what they consider too old and fat for them. Please prove your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"Even you say being fat is a choice therefore it’s justified to find women unattractive for having a BMI over 25" lol no I didn't, I said equating losing weight to getting out of poverty is wild I also never said anything about who I do or do not find attractive. Literally you are inventing things and telling me I said them when I never said them. Please stop putting words in my mouth. That's an attack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?lol wut? How does this prove over 50% of men think most women are too old and fat for them? "Men are the ones who don’t want 96.4% of women." You need to show evidence that over 50% of men feel this way. You saying that is the case does not make it so. Please show your data proving this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"most men" Please prove over 50% of men feel this way. One post from one person is not more than 50% of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?The same reason women virtue signal and claim they care about personality and aren't as shallow as men: it feels good to pat themselves on the back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Men love idealistically, where women love opportunistically.You realize religion was created to pacify people's fear of death and other unknowns, right? Literally created to help deal with trauma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Now you're attacking poor people too? No it's not. If you are trying to say being fat and being born into poverty are equivalent problems.....wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?"But the reality is that most women are too old or fat for most men." This is an attack. Provide stats proving this, or stop attacking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedGot it, that makes more sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed"There are more short men than tall men" Uhh how did you decide this? Because it's not really how numbers work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: first date, she tells you her birthday is in 2 weeks. How much do you gift her on the spot?Being so insecure about other men buying her drinks he bribed her with $300 not to do it is being dominant? How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:14 AM |
| 5 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.But if a man did it you’d label it bullying and an attack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 06:01 PM |
| 4 | "Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women.aren't you the one who routinely stereotypes and makes sweeping generalizations about men then calls it a personal attack and an example of how hateful men are if someone points this out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Weird you can't name them. And extremely weird the self-proclaimed safety expert is shocked that giving a person space to be themselves without being judged makes them feel safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?huh? Why are you shocked? Not judging people is the easiest way to make people feel safe. For someone who is so proud of how great he is at making women feel safe, kind of strange that you're shocked that something as simple as not being judgmental makes women feel safe, like....how do you not know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?"That's definitely an answer to my question, but I can't see the argument your making. It sounds like words someone who knows nothing about women would guess women like." Okay. Just telling you what's worked for me in the past. If that's not good enough for you, take it up with those women and tell them they're wrong for feeling safe around me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?"'how would you make a woman feel safe?'." Compassion, understanding, consistency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | "Your value is what you can get" is a useless tautology that purely serves as a thought-terminating cliche."This is how most men treat women. See attached. Men enjoy berating and mocking women" Then so is this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Men are menI said to prove women care more about personality than looks, not that women care more about personality than men. I'm not reading that whole thing, but the second sentence of the results section says this: "Overall, the distribution between the nine traits follows a similar pattern for both sexes; for example, the three personality traits, physical build, and attractiveness, are rated quite high on the importance scale for both sexes, while age, intelligence, and education are more evenly rated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are menWhere are these stats? And that doesn’t mean they don’t become less attracted as they age, which is your claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are menThat doesn’t prove women value personality. I’ve never, ever met a woman who values personality as much as looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are men“This is because women value personality in our partners” Prove it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Men are men“This post is about how maintaining relationships with men is impossible because of their biology whereas women can be just as attracted to their partners as they age.” For this to be true you would have to prove women remain just as attracted to their partners as they age. You haven’t. This post is about bashing men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad."I didnt say that." "Correlation does not equal causation. Do they actually look into what was HAPPENING in these households and WHERE these households were? " Sounds a lot like you're saying other factors explain the statistic, but okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 02:12 PM |
| 7 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad."But bring up that 90% of rapists are men, then we see cries of sexism and not looking at other factors." I'm so confused. You said the 80% of rapists come from fatherless homes can't be true because of other factors. You didn't say what those factors were or how they prove the stat isn't true, you just said the stat isn't true because there are other factors (which, again, you couldn't list or explain but assume the existence of) explaining why it's not true. And that's fine? But if men do it..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityNot sure what that has to do with what I said, but....okay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.No because I keep making basic statements and you keep pulling things out of thin air and claiming I assumed them, in order to villainize fathers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.Of course It seems like you really hate fathers...or more accurately the idea of a good father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling.What? Where did I ever say it's not the same for a mother? Of course it's the same for a mother. So weird to be accused of "making alot of assumption" when I'm making simple statements (more parents = more chances of noticing a child being abused) and you're reading way, way too much into them. Is this what gaslighting is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling."Why are you assuming a man will automatically be supportive? " I'm not, I'm saying it's a possible benefit of having a father "Explain Brock Turner." I don't know who Brock Turner is and I'm not going to look it up "Why are you assuming a man will automatically be observant? Are we pretending men never abuse the children in their custody?" I'm not, I'm saying it's a possible benefit of having a father. And I'd add that, obviously, chances are far higher a father protects his children than abuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Bringing up fatherlessness is right wing virtue signaling."If people are running around with untreated mental illnesses, what good is a father going to do?" Support the kid and get them the help they need "If people think the only way to get by is getting into crime where the end result is jail or an early grave, what good is a father gonna do?" Provide resources so you don't need to resort to crime to get them "If everyone’s too busy to watch out for the girl getting groomed (which a large reason why teen motherhood is a thing) what good is a father g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI've never understood the disdain of single moms, so I don't have a good sense of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 02:45 PM |
| 5 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"The whole "nobody wants fat chicks" needs to go." Agreed! So weird to me how adamant women here are that men just want to fuck the skinniest person they can find with the fakest tits when it's so obviously not true. Just like it's obviously not true that women only want to fuck 6-6-6 men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"So is it perhaps a battle of brain versus hard for most situations like that?" Oh, definitely. Reading a post about falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality then saying "it's not like men love fat chicks for their personality!" is just bizarre. I'm used to women gaslighting themselves into thinking they aren't just as shallow as men, but this is next level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 01:27 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI agree. Still weird to read an example of the exception and respond by saying it's impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityMaybe! Not sure what that has to do with what I said, but you're right! That's definitely possible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:34 PM |
| 4 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI just don't understand how you can be so good at gaslighting yourself that you can read a post that's literally about a man falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality and respond to it saying "it's not like men fall in love with fat chicks for their personalities!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 13 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personality"why don’t men fall in love with fat chicks and single moms for their amazing personality? Since it’s so easy and can happen to anyone?" You literally just read a post about a man falling in love with a fat chick because of her personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:01 PM |
| -2 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yes, if you intentionally avoid interacting with a group of people, it typically means you think there's something bad about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?If you're over consuming calories, you are not eating healthy. It is literally impossible to over eat and also eat healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 03:33 PM |
| -2 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?She intentionally avoids talking to them. Certainly comes off as thinking they're bad and need to be avoided | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments." And funny that she called him weird for being short and he's tall" Kind of thing that feels like telling on herself. Has no idea how tall he is, but she knows she doesn't like him, so in her mind he becomes short because she finds him gross, and gross = short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Acting like men need to be avoided because they misinterpret kindness as interest, and therefore are bad people, is what I disagreed with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:29 PM |
| 3 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments."Why would you expect someone to know that?" I don't know how to answer this without sound like an asshole. It just seems kind of obvious that, if you're going to label someone as ugly due to their shortness, you would know how tall they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?I hope this is just a troll post. Because is she sincerely lacks the mental capacity to see how much harsher women are towards men's height than men are towards women's weight...yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:52 AM |
| 11 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?Just like it's shallow for women to cause short men to kill themselves because women are always saying how disgusted they are by shortness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:44 AM |
| 8 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?Why are men harsh about weight? The same reason women are harsh about height. Obviously. Did you not think it through enough to figure that out on your own? I'm confused why you're asking this question when you already know the answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?"Being randomly nice to guys is basically something that only old ladies can get away with." I don't think it's this, it's that people are so rarely nice to men they think what women consider basic decency is interest. When you're used to people acting like you don't exist, someone saying something nice to you seems like a possible sign of interest. This weird narrative where men are horrible people because they experience kindness so rarely that they don't even know what it looks like, needs to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:11 AM |
| 0 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments.Do you not know Vance is 6'2? Or is that just a really bizarre example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:58 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Well it was a brilliant choice nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:07 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I don't know if using Dasani as the "fancy" water was intentionally brilliant or not, but it is brilliant. Because Dasani has salt in it, it's designed to make the drinker always crave more. Which I think sums up the general disposition of women in 2025 quite nicely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:00 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveOnly against the rules for men, apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 12:45 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveI thought woe-is-me/incel/blackpill posts aren't allowed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:29 AM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areYeah that's a nice story book way to say it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areThat's what I said: the "i have options but i'm not going to talk about them" energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areOh okay, so you want the "i have options" energy, but don't want to hear about the options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:56 PM |
| -1 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areI don't know how you can say that "either extreme sucks" and also that you don't like men having options who aren't you. The two don't really work together. If a guy only feels like he has one option, he's almost certainly going to be overly clingy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:11 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?I agree. Unfortunately that’s my job so I don’t have a choice. But that’s also how I know you shouldn’t be letting them upset you so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 01:10 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?lol imagine giving yourself high blood pressure over teenager girls calling each other female and telling people trying to help you that you don't want to be told it's not worth having an aneurysm over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 12:32 PM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?lol kids calling themselves "females" isn't evil, you really need to chill the fuck out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:54 AM |
| – | Do Modern men lack personal responsibility?"I say Morden men cause in a time when people are meant to be equal, men are using deliberate language that refer to woman as lesser." lol I work with kids. High school girls these days refer to themselves primarily as "females." Boys call them "girls," but girls call themselves "females." Don't know where that came from or how it started, but I don't think it means what you think it means, chill out with the doom and gloom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:39 AM |
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