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1

At your height you need to hit the gym and make some more money.
/r/seduction28/07/26 02:20 PM
0

Move. To. LA.
/r/seduction15/07/26 05:00 AM
31

You need to spend more time in the gym and make more money.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:21 AM
2

Yoga, Pilates, Zoomba classes. Basically most fitness classes.
/r/seduction30/01/25 12:06 PM
10

That means she doesn't like you.
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:19 AM
6

For women. Not for dudes.
/r/seduction19/11/24 12:25 AM
1

You’re only young as far as society is concerned. As a human women are going to be weirded out by a grown ass man that hasn’t had a date. Fake it till you make it,
/r/seduction08/11/24 03:03 PM
1

Marry someone going to class with you that understands or wait till your degree gets you a good paying job.
/r/seduction05/10/24 11:06 PM
1

If she’ll cheat on him she’ll cheat on you.
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:25 PM
2

Be funny and pretend like you're giving them special treatment.
/r/seduction03/10/24 04:11 PM
19

Post a picture of these Black passing Indian men.
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:34 PM
-1

Have you considered just being hungry? What messes a lot of people up with dieting is they aren't used to the actual feeling of hunger so it freaks them out. No you're not going to feel full going from 5000 calories down to 2500 but your body will get used to it.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:25 PM
3

This sub turning into a marketing arm for lame dudes to market to incels instead of a place for men to learn how to attract women sucks. Got bored and looked up some of the most popular videos on this channel and it just confirmed what I was thinking.
/r/seduction04/09/24 11:09 PM
2

I think it’s weird that people chase the easy way out by picking mainstream hobbies so they can get a default regular woman. You can literally take the harder but more fun route of finding a woman who enjoys whatever geeky nerdy hobby you like. Changing your core beliefs just to smash stanley cup girls is fine but you’ll get tired of it faster than if you’re with a woman who enjoys what you enjoy. Make hot women like what you like don’t change yourself for them.
/r/seduction25/08/24 03:34 PM
0

If you want to be approached at the gym, buy smaller workout clothes, setup a camera on a tri-pod near a mirror, do yoga poses. Some guy will eventually wander over. I see tons of them on this sub that seem to have a desperate need to flirt with women at their jobs and gym.
/r/seduction17/08/24 01:56 PM
1

Considering women aren't as concerned with looks when considering long term partners you'll be fine if you're not obese, not short, and not actively ugly. If you're any of those three you just have to compensate even harder with having a good personality or money which pretty much anyone can do.
/r/seduction06/08/24 12:46 AM
2

LA has the most beautiful women in the world but you'll need money. NYC has a lot of women so you'll find attractive ones and you don't need nearly as much money. Main difference between the cities is do you want a german luxury car payment, if no go for NYC.
/r/seduction05/08/24 07:44 PM
11

Yep, 29 hitting your peak then falling off the mountain.
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:43 PM
1

Do you go to work more often than going out clubbing? It's best to live near the thing you do most often.
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:40 PM
42

If she’ll cheat on him she’ll cheat on you.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:52 AM
1

Match their energy and mirror their actions.
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:33 PM
1

You're acting like anyone here is capable of changing your mind lol. I hope you get help bro.
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:13 PM
3

Wasting time to make a new reddit account just to go on incel rants and have the audacity to come to a sub that is supposed to be helping people with this only to post this nonsense is wild.
/r/seduction14/07/24 02:33 PM
15

House parties are easier but riskier. In a club you mess up a set and you can just move along and nobody knows. You blow 3 or 4 sets at a house party and you’re labeled that guy. Much harder to mess up at a house party but possible for a newbie.
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:05 PM
9

Ask her on a date. She can’t read your mind.
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:55 PM
2

Basically he’s playing the “I’m so nice and i’m doing all these nice things” card manages to get sex probably comes off weird and women realize it after a few dates and call it. The sex is also probably bad though.
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:47 PM
2

The thing about your first sentence is that what was actually happening was that guys you were attracted to wouldn’t talk to you. You can always go date a goblin, lowering your standards is almost always an option. People just don’t want to unless they’re extremely lonely.
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:36 PM
1

All the things listed could be considered strong, powerful, or rich. Most likely a mix of the three. These things attract women irl these books just take those qualities to the extreme.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:49 PM
5

You need to go ahead and invite her on a date immediately.
/r/seduction08/07/24 07:35 PM
29

Give us an example of something you're saying that is turning off average women that makes you think conservative women would be into?
/r/seduction02/07/24 06:33 PM
0

When I was in NYC tons of my doctor and lawyer friends went to bars and clubs to unwind. Going to a bar in Columbus circle is better than meeting someone at Le Bain most likely but it can be done. Briefly dated an heiress I met at Le Bain she was not highly educated, met a lawyer at Oscar Wilde’s she was highly educated.
/r/seduction01/07/24 02:48 PM
9

Please humor us, who is telling you that you're scaring the hoes, and what topics are you bringing up around women? Because if you're going off about being red-pilled or something I could see that being an issue.
/r/seduction28/06/24 11:27 PM
-1

Change your dating profile to something less attractive to overweight women?
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:29 PM
2

Ask her.
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:17 PM
1

How old are the women you’re talking about? You might just be running into aging, if the age gap is over 10-15 years they probably are expecting a sugar daddy experience.
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:13 PM
0

No. Longer answer absolutely not.
/r/seduction26/06/24 08:51 PM
15

People who think hitting on their female friends is ok don’t actually have female friends so I wouldn’t trust their advice on this one either.
/r/seduction20/06/24 02:34 PM
-2

I think you meant nationality.
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:00 PM
5

Hand holding has such a built in mythos with women that whatever instant reaction she has will tell you a lot. Does she keep holding it, does she look at you weird, does she snatch it away is she looking shy and embarrassed when she pulls it away etc.
/r/seduction16/06/24 02:33 PM
15

I’d take the club over constant field reports in here of dudes hitting on women at their gyms and jobs after staring at them for months or passport bros swearing that the 3rd world country they’re at has the best women in the world.
/r/seduction15/06/24 02:51 PM
4

Cool to see another person from the good ole days still posting. My experience is it comes down to abs, if you have abs it’s easier to pull twenty somethings. For women older than that you just need to have an actual dad bod, defined pecs no gut, don’t need abs but you can have a big gut. I’ve never dated anyone older so i imaging requirements slide after 40.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:39 PM
1

Hello no. The only time it’s even kinda funny is after you’ve slept with someone you comment on their first post but even that YMMV.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:10 PM
0

I’m dying because at 300 days of duolingo that is a pretty weak line. So question was the woman blonde? You’re obviously not in Japan so are Japanese people rare in your country? Also i’ve been to japan women are women globally you can’t really lump them together like what you’re doing.
/r/seduction01/06/24 02:43 PM
20

Ignore the comments. You want to know how to get laid every time you go to a bar? EASY. Lower your standards. If all you want is sex then you can find it, if what you want is sex with your preference then you're going to need to learn. Especially this summer of Ozempic there are going to be tons of women who used to be much heavier who aren't going to be used to dudes hitting on them. For your part dress nice, go to a stylist a couple of times to figure out what works for you, and buy some nice …
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:24 PM
1

When I was coming up back in the day we called people writing long make believe posts like this AFCs or Cuddlebitches maybe? I don’t think the author of this did the leg work to interview enough hot women to get this info. This sub is now full of internet guys larping as pick up artists or weirdos who think texting is important to game.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:27 PM
0

Yeah... I'd love to know what the training data was for this because the personality of this bot is very over the top. Getting eastern europe PUA vibes from it. Figured it out, the old I'm an admin trick works on it.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:14 PM
0

I'll ask you an important question. How tall are you? Because if you're completely average that'll be your differentiator.
/r/seduction20/05/24 06:55 PM
7

The number one thing you need to remember is most of the advice on this stuff is based on a lot of approaching or matches like tons and tons it’s a numbers game. So the people who you do eventually attract will actually be into you instead of forcing it. As you get better you get more interactions and your skillset improves.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:13 AM
12

Maybe change your tinder.
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:31 PM
-1

It really really isn't worth it. Does your office not make you take annual sexual harassment training? She might like you, but most likely she's going to be weirded out by a coworker she never talks to who looks at her every other day just wandering up to her. But if you really don't care just ask her out to coffee or something. If she says no, your career is now in danger, if she says yes and ghosts you, your career is now in danger, if she says yes and goes with you on the date and isn't feeli…
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:36 PM
3

Listen if a woman is talking about not wanting to ruin a friendship you’re kinda fighting a really serious uphill battle. Can you try putting her on a back burner and dating someone else? Make yourself less available.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:56 PM
0

You need your job to survive it’s not worth it. There are literally billions of women who don’t work with you.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:23 PM
1

Easy, tell her you like her and try and take her out on a date, like say the word date while you’re asking her out. Either she’ll say yes or no and you’ve got your answer so you can stop worrying about it.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:22 PM
0

Nah judging from the posts lately people don’t understand anymore. You want to get good at this you need to practice a lot it’ll take up a pretty decent chunk of your time. You’ll want to read and do all the side stuff like learning clothing styles, really good hygiene practices like how you deal with your facial hair, fingers nails, etc, and start going to the gym regularly. People think you can just keep doing whatever you’re doing and post on reddit and be successful. Let me tell you even if …
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:19 PM
39

Was that a really long way to ask about being a lowball sugar daddy? No. Don’t lend people money, just give it to them or not.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:08 PM
1

Are you escalating touch prior to trying to kiss these women or does it feel like its coming out of the blue for both of you? If you're holding hands, bumping into each other, maintaining physical contact while seated somewhere then you should probably be able to kiss them. But you're going to feel awkward until you're used to kissing strangers.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:09 AM
1

Listen, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you want to date her you'll need to tell her because the last thing you want to do is become her friend then a few months from now muster up the courage to confess your feelings to her. Next time you're hanging out you make some concreate plans and ask her out and let her know its a date. This is sounding kinda brooklyny so you've got a lot of street closures and outdoor concerts coming up to make use of. If you're in Manhattan take her to Yaki…
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:06 AM
2

Repeatedly try to play videogames with her, she'll get the hint. If that doesn't work be honest with her, if you're not attracted to her I'm guessing her physical appearance isn't your cup of tea so let her down gently.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:01 AM
2

Complement one of her photos with something that isn't directly about her physical attractiveness, like the energy or her outfit and why it made you pick her. Let them know you chose them, the ones who are still game after that are the ones worth spending time talking to.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:59 AM
4

Unless you're a teenager you're in the friendzone and she's keeping you around for emotional support until she finds a guy. Also, I strongly suggest getting some dates with other women so you can see if you're really into this chick or if you're just lonely.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:57 AM
4

Do you really want to spend your time trying those odds? A mixed group is likely to have a relationship in it and 3 guys and 1 girl seems like terrible odds, you're way better off with 3 girls 1 guy because then you can at least befriend the guy.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:55 AM
0

That is the most after 1am in hollywood opener I've heard in a long time.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:54 AM
-4

Have you considered making going out and picking up chicks your hobby? Like get good at talking to people and go to local bars and clubs regularly? When I was younger back in the early 2000s we made the whole "pua" thing our main hobby for a couple of years and it worked out fairly well. You meet interesting people and get into some crazy situations, the pictures and stories from those adventures will help you in dating in the long term.
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:51 AM
1

It's weird to hit on someone who is forced to interact with you. But basically you tried way too hard, your story is identical to all the dudes on here getting ghosted by chicks they try and hit on at the gym or at work. This is why we had a 3 second rule back in the day, you can't hit on women who see you repeatedly unless you're in their social circle in some way or they REALLY want to meet you. Life isn't a rom-com the women who you see constantly in your daily life probably get hit on by a p…
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:47 AM
70

This new generation is doomed. Y'all are wild, like go read a book. Also I don't understand this fascination for trying to hook up with chicks at the places you go to everyday? If you have a bad set at the gym or at work you're potentially poisoning a well. Just go outside to normal places and do approaches.
/r/seduction16/05/24 08:48 PM
2

Considering the site you're on. Get yourself some professional or semi-pro photos with women in them preferably women who look like the ones you're trying to attract. Make sure they're action shots, maybe in the club or whatever. It sounds cliche but you basically need 2-3 shots of you on a boat with women smiling and maybe bottle service with women smiling. Also get rid of any picture of yourself holding the phone you're taking the pic with in it.
/r/seduction15/05/24 11:04 PM
1

First date go somewhere cheap coffee in the day, dive bar in the evening. 3rd dates are always in Central Park. If you want to be impressive but cheap my goto used to be Yakitori Totto on 55th there is a Mexican food place that has a good bar and rooftop across the street for either before or after you eat. Also there is a Irish Whiskey bar across the street that is cheap. I also used to take people to Spyscape on 007 night I don't think they do it anymore but it was a martini and charcuterie ni…
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:36 PM
4

Yeah this sub jumped the shark hard. Now its just weird questions and keyboard experts explaining nonsense.
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:27 PM
5

I get it, approaching is hard, but approaching some woman at the gym after looking at her for who knows how long is bad form. This is why back in the day they used to say to approach women you're interested in instantly. What you did it walk up to a woman you've never talked to who knows you've been staring at her randomly for months and ask her out. People can forget every single detail about another person but they don't forget faces once they've made eye contact over a few days. My best advic…
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:04 PM
8

These kinda posts are getting old, literally saw a guy saying he gets girls because he's masculine and confident. He's just 6'5. It used to be about game and now its just white passport bros telling us about how they're banging young poor asian/latin people.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:31 PM
38

Social media, inflation, and very expensive venues specifically catering to the ‘flashy guy’ persona. Bottle service was 1000 bucks in the early 2000s in Hollywood got a couch, security, a few bottles. Did the same thing this weekend in Vegas because Lovers and Friends got cancelled. 10k for an identical experience. Club game is crazy different you’re now competing with dudes dropping money that was previously a drug dealer thing.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:02 PM
4

The fun part is those are more than likely Africans. The reason we say Black in America is because we don’t have a country of origin that we know of because of a Slavery. We don’t think it’s cute, you should at least try to figure out those women’s nationality and maybe talk to them about that.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:34 PM
3

You better make a limited profile that shows you doing something interesting. Women 100% will think you’re strange if you’re under 40 outside talking them and don’t have even a private instagram.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:30 PM
7

She literally tells you what to do in the last message. She’s clearly invested in you, not sure why, but she’s willing to stick it out if you stop screwing up.
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:56 PM
1

Stop sending them pictures in the texts.
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:59 PM
2

Yeah approaching a woman as though she can do something financial for you is a pretty big red flag. Unless you're hot enough and she's old enough for a sugar mama situation.
/r/seduction29/01/24 03:04 AM
91

Open Mic nights with female performers.
/r/seduction28/01/24 08:20 PM
4

Yes. People wildly underestimate their appearance.
/r/seduction13/09/23 05:21 PM
1

Ugh when the word simp got columbused i knew we’d get to this point.
/r/seduction31/08/23 02:59 PM
2

Older men tend to have more money than younger men and older men who bother with the entire club lifestyle are probably generous toward young women.
/r/seduction22/08/23 05:41 PM
3

Nope. NOPE. Listen, if you're 40 working in a bar in Florida don't date a 20 year old co-worker. They're dumb and will ruin your life because their brains aren't done cooking yet so they don't understand things like long-term consequences.
/r/seduction22/08/23 05:40 PM
1

Yikes read through OP’s profile a little. The problem with Reddit is definitely people with little to no experience confidently giving advice.
/r/seduction02/08/23 06:17 PM
1

Bro “in a couple of days” and she’s known you two weeks that’s not going to fly in 2023.
/r/seduction02/08/23 06:12 PM
16

Didn’t they used to call this Kino back in the day?
/r/seduction28/07/23 02:12 PM
1

People always get weird about races. The most populous race on earth self selecting for their richest and brightest moving a tiny percentage to America and people get excited. Also the flattening of all those billions of people with many distinct cultures into ‘Asian’ is a silly. There is no such thing as Asian culture that generalized that’s like when people think Africa is a single unified culture or that Hispanic groups are a monolith. How much cultural overlap is there between a Cambodian, a…
/r/seduction04/06/23 01:22 PM
1

How tall are you and be honest about your attractiveness, because those 2 qualifiers lead before you can get into any technique. Also are you talking with women you've known for a long time or a short time to get this info?
/r/seduction07/04/23 04:38 PM
1

They aren't attracted to that. And when they aren't attracted to you anything that could be remotely considered flirting is considered creepy. If you want to build up your calibration start with women slightly below your target level of hotness. Also you're a grown man calling anything creepy that isn't also spooky is weird.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:54 PM
11

Because of the implication.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:13 PM
2

Exactly, not sure why it’s such a hard concept for a lot of newbies to grasp.
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:17 PM
1

This person is larping or an undesirable female. This person likely has their type set a little too high for what they bring to the table so they’ve made up an unrealistic scenario. Women don’t find their type creepy unless the guy has committed a wild social faux pas in public.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:06 PM
1

You do if you want to pull off physical interaction before you’ve made her laugh.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:01 PM
1

Remember creepy just means guy she isn’t attracted to performing an action of any sort.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:57 PM
1

Can you afford to fly them places? Girls in their 20s LOVE to be flown around. If you can't you can probably just work out and get away with taking them to nice places. But don't try and date them at their age level. Are you in a major city? If you are its super easy. I was in Manhattan now LA same rules of engagement apply.
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:54 PM
1

Creep just means man they're not attracted to. That is it.
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:51 PM
2

If you're concerned go make more money. Money can offset skill the same way education can offset work experience. Women aren't as physically focused as men, they are, just not to our levels. Its why you have guys with moderate beer bellies or dad bods with women who go to the gym constantly. You can probably pull your level or 1 or 2 points higher and if you have above average money add a point.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:58 AM
1

https://laddertheory.com/
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:21 PM
5

I love when the old heads pop in. I’ve been lurking on this sub for years just watching the strange evolution of the community. I got into the pua scene after reading a website about the ladder theory back in the day. That lead to listening to a lot of pirated David D tapes and me and my friends sarging on Hollywood and sunset a lot. I think a lot of guys really are missing that ah hah moment you get around your 10th ish hookup.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:30 PM
-3

You're better off spending the money on saving up to get your own place rather than blowing it on dates you don't have any place to take them back to.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:33 AM
2

She flakes until her options stop improving. Then she goes with the last man standing. That’s the fun of online dating unlimited options until there aren’t,
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:40 PM
2

Bruh you got oneitis hard. Marry her or move along.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:47 PM
9

Yep, I feel like in the olden days there was a much higher emphasis on guys going out together in groups and wingmen. Of course they also emphasized comedy and magic tricks back then so maybe it's good things have evolved in some ways.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:18 PM
62

People really sleep on the advantages of having male peers in your circle who are also motivated and actively working to better themselves.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:05 PM
12

Listen the hard truth is, unless you're rich, race is going to be a factor. If you're not White or Black it's gonna be slightly rougher out there especially going for white women. You're definitely doing ok with black and hispanic women in NYC because they have a much higher immigrant population, black girls in LA would not give you the same response that you're getting out there. I've bounced back and forth between NY and LA 6' black dude of not-modest means. Height might factor into it, I've b…
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:53 PM
6

I'll explain this super easily. White women when they go outside their race are going for a come up. If they don't perceive that you're wealthy enough to bother going against racism they won't really be into it. Most white women won't date a non-white guy that they think HAS not Makes less money than their father full stop.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:44 PM
1

Word? Then who was OP matching with at 19?
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:21 PM
-1

To teenagers maybe.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:11 PM
2

Welcome to aging.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:31 PM
2

The easiest way for a dude who isn't a model or rich is to become a good ass photographer. Alternatively you'd need a family member or friend who is already in the circle and go to house parties that they're at. Clubbing with them doesn't work as well. But know they run on social capital/followers so if your clout or numbers aren't that high they're not really going to be interested in befriending you.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:10 AM
2

You should definitely do one or two FaceTime dates in the meantime if you’re waiting 2 weeks. I feel like the initial video call thing is still a holdover from Covid dating last year.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:30 PM
1

How much does she weigh?
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:27 AM
2

Regardless of what you think if a woman goes 24 hours without replying to a message you sent she isn’t that into you. She might be romantically involved with you but if her response rate is that low she’s probably exploring her options elsewhere.
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:51 PM
3

If your end game isn't to eventually have a family your priorities will differ significantly from men who do as you age.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:27 PM
1

You might want to practice on dating apps or something because at least then you’re more likely to get to a one on one interaction without burning your social circle options.
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:59 PM
1

I don't pay much attention to this sub but I'll just say I was into Pickup back in the early 2000s listening to David D and Mystery and all that. I was prowling around Hollywood dealing with AMOGs HB9s having to DHV KINO etc. The thing is it was always supposed to go unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, unconscious competence. Basically if you flirted with enough attractive women you'd simply get better at it and the tools and rules were just to get you in the …
/r/seduction20/05/20 12:59 AM
0

A. One is an obvious distanced based display to women that they are often attracted to particular as an asian guy if you're taller than average you'll stand out. B. Your parent's wealth will have a dramatic impact on how much money you have to go out and be in areas that attractive women are it also tends to have an impact on the type of work you do which will determine either your career or your free time to be an entrepreneur. But I'll just assume you're trying to scam with paid models.
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:56 PM
0

How tall are you and what do your parents do for work?
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:40 PM
1

So did you show her the Lambo before you escalated or after? The only way this story works is with cash.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:15 PM
1

Buy a Porsche? Buy better clothes and an expensive watch. Get a six pack. Then act like those things aren’t impressive to you because that is just your reality. You’ll get a bunch of twenty somethings off that but it won’t rally be genuine or anything.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:46 PM
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