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| 1 | Had a relapse last nightI did AA as an atheist, understanding that it is what it is and has had a lot of successes. I didn't respond to the evangelists in the group, nor did I shy away from expressing my views. Perhaps it was the group but I got nothing but support. The one thing that was a catch at first was the whole "higher power" thing. For me, I defined the higher power as my sober self. Taking control of my life with a clear mind and healthier body. No problem is solved or removed by consuming alcohol. You will n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you made money from your divorce?What? You haven't monetized Reddit yet? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | It is over, it is doneAssuming it's a precious metal keep it for a rainy day, or for when the idiot leftist accomplish their goal of reducing us to a pure barter economy | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | When I'm with girls 1-on-1 at parties, what do I talk about ?The chick's dig it when you talk about your dick size in comparison to other men in the locker room. Oh yeah, be sure to have a manly name for yours, that way she'll be able to track the comparison better. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | When should someone give up on dating?When the level of discomfort in approaching women exceeds the level of discomfort caused by chafing, it might be time. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Unplanned family discussion.Get a lawyer. at least as a consultant, you can still do all the paper work and save money. Communicate with her only in writing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 13 | Do men find it unappealing when a woman is more upfront (ie less of a chase)?Women enjoy mystery. men don't. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Small talk with a milf at elevatorIf she touched you. she's interested. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?Well, you certainly have drunk the kool-aid | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 20 | Its amazing how much difference height makes in how women treat you, even in non romantic settingsA door open wide enough to get a foot in is far better than one closed and locked. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Symmetry is one of the most significant factors.. the closer the left side mirrors the right and the proportion of features to each other. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the god damn fuckin' logic behind why taking the initiative or taking initiative is a masculine thing?There's also the potential (some cultures higher than others) for the male to take off after insemination or at any time. A female making the approach will almost always be accepted my the male for a quick bang and nothing more. If the male approaches her, she has a higher expectation he wants something more than just sex (less so in the last 25 years or so). | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is Money Worth the Wait?Money changes everything. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:48 PM |
| -2 | do girls know they're being approached?You're married with a kid. Why would you even think about it other than to stroke a fragile ego. If you want to have sex with anyone other than your wife, get divorced, first. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 02:51 PM |
| -1 | The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends houseIt seems you have misread the situation with the girl. Why didn't you take her to your place instead of leaving her at your friends?. That you left her there is an indication that you are fine with them hooking up - you didn't say how many others crashed at friends house. It reads to me that you simped out, left her and are now butt hurt that YOUR actions gave default approval of them banging. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How can I pay to have sex with a woman?Getting laid should not be your primary concern. Becoming someone others want to spend time with should be a higher focus. You appear to be erratic and unable to form complete and coherent discussion, judging from this post. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:41 AM |
| -2 | My girlfriend seems to be less engaged lately...I want her to be focused and chasing after me to the the best possible way. Will absence help? Advice is appreciatedReally??? Your a grown man, not a high school sophomore. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you keep chasing the girl whose always busy?That sounds perfect, as long as you get what you need from the relationship. Many people strive for occasional and casual. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.So you're dissing this lady's friends. Nice. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | When a lady is bending over in front of you, is she giving a sign or am I overthinking?When you see she's about to bend over, walk up from behind and do a little grind when she assumes the position. You'll know pretty quickly if her picking up a weight is intended as a come-on. You may need to do this with three or more women before you can determine the intent all women have when they do this. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | So I went to 2 bars (for the first time)If you're 22 in a small town. you already know all the single people and who they're dating. Go a couple of towns over. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | So I went to 2 bars (for the first time)It sounds like you went to date places. not where singles go. Choose netter. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | As a man. Do you use makeup to look better?Only if your eye shadow doesn't clash with your skirt. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How the shy girl and shy guy story ended.If you won't go after and earn it for yourself, that's on you (I think you get that now), and you effectively must rely on others to be proactive, which may not happen the way you want. This is one of the many lessons that move one from boy to man. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?It's fun. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | would you rather have sex with one girl for life or will you keep having sex with different girlsYeah, sure. One of you isn't being honest. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I (20M) get my FWB (24M) to give me more head without me askingJust keep pushing her face to your crotch until she gets the hint. OR, only go down on her after she blows you, but do it every time she blows you. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 0 | WHERE THE FUCK DO I LOOK AT WHEN A GIRL IS WALKING PAST ME?Summer is coming. Boobies should hold you gaze. Staring at her crotch is just creepy. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsLooks definitely aren't everything - unless she's butter ugly. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | She is shy as fuck, and so I am.You know what the issues are. One way for both of you to be more comfortable together is to spend time together and building some shared experiences. This is where movie dates can shine, You both experience the film and after go somewhere for a bite or drink -you have a built in discussion thread to fall back on when conversation lulls. Or maybe get a double/group date thing going with common friends that like each other, that takes the pressure off the two of you to hold up an entire conversati… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | So I Suck At Texting WomenPerhaps what you think is funny, is not. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Im back to school at 33, need tipsGo to bars and clubs around campus. Underage won't be there | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 03:02 AM |
| -7 | I like everything about my chick but her faceThis is why I don't ever consider dating anyone with a face that would frighten or repulse me if that is the first thing I see in the morning. add: Like the people down voting me are sleeping with trolls and ogres | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when girl writes her name on my hand?All Dudes take notes: use this tactic when you hook up with chicksvin bars. Then the next morning you'll have better than 50,/50 chancebof getting the name right the next morning. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | girls keep rejecting me at the club95% are 9.5-10 only in high end gentleman's clubs. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | girls keep rejecting me at the clubTry a diffent venue - someplace where YOU are comfortable and confident | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | The reason why girls who want 6ft/6fig/6pac men piss me off and why I personally think it means you're a low quality women.You understand that lower numbers are less desirable. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | The reason why girls who want 6ft/6fig/6pac men piss me off and why I personally think it means you're a low quality women.'Fat ass, big gut and face isn't that good.' Dude, that does not describe a "7" in my book - more like a 4/5. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?I've always thought that about 26-32 years. Plus their confident. ambitious and horny. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 0 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Undesirable neofeminists with melting faces/bodies and young betas who can't find dates. Those two groups interact in their mid 30s when the clock is running down and both are bitter. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Do wearing nice clothing really play a role when it comes to dating and girls? I truly see good looking guys wear whatever and still get girls easily.I think many of us have been surprised when the girdle comes off and others by a four inch pencil. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Do wearing nice clothing really play a role when it comes to dating and girls? I truly see good looking guys wear whatever and still get girls easily.Dont give a shit attitude turns some chick's on. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 20 | Getting rejected for heightSame girls will be begging for you in 10 years | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionThe great misconception is that men are unemotional. Most men I know feel all emotions strongly. We just done put it on display for everyone to see. If we need to talk we will. If we need to grieve we will. But, you may not have an inkling that the guy next to you is in that shape. What he's feeling is private to him. Anger, joy and grief are the few exceptions that are so strongly felt they can be impossible to keep in. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 08:34 PM |
| 0 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborIf you want a shot. apologize for behaving like a scoolboy then offer to take her to dinner to make up for it | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | I’m angryChances are you are not paying any attention to the queues given off by women. If she hasn't at least shot you an "I'm open to be approached" eye contact. your just some dude that is interrupting her evening. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Girl is more friendly and talkative to my friends, but is more shy around me?She nervous speaking with you? Pass her a note, like in grade school... "DTF?" Guage whether she likes you or hates you from her reaction | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoverIt's almost at the point wher we must have a signed consent form and video of her signing the form. Bonus if there is another person signing as a witness, also on video. The, after the deed, you need another video of her signing a post coitus acknowledgement that all activities were consensual. Perhaps all sex acts need to be recorded so that there is documentation that both partners remain consenting throughout the encounter. Stories like this reinforce many tenets of the men's movement. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Best places besides bars to meet college girls in volume?My first two months of college, I didn't spend more than 5 consecutive nights in my own bed. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | 10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and AnalysisFunny what having a career vs working at Walmart will do for a guy. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 02:03 AM |
| 21 | Best places besides bars to meet college girls in volume?Just walk around campus wearing a "DTF?" hoody, sweatpants, socks and crocs. You'll just bounce from dorm room to dorm room. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 0 | How can I reclaim the situation when a woman uses her sexuality to tease me.Don't be afraid to look and appreciate what is on display (unless its unintentional). If it comes up for discussion, tell her "when I go to and art gallery, I look at the sculptures but don't touch unless invited to do so." This does two things, acknowledges your appreciation for her body (gives her a compliment) and puts the ball in her court to escalate. You could also say "Thanks, if you show more, I'll be happy to see it" | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | People Having a Hard Time Accepting That You’re Higher Value Now?Ever hear of a dictionary? | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Girl sent nudes after she thought I rejected her… what does this mean?Don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:58 AM |
| -1 | What is a clever thing to say to a girl when she says you have a big D?What's your frame of reference? Or It's not how long you make it, it's how you make it long. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?Its all about marketing... | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick?Pencil dick got you down? Seriously, assuming you're not a virgin, have other women indicated displeasure with your lack of girth? You can always spin the positive that anal isn't panal. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.Every problem, no matter how large or small can be turned into a bigger shit storm with alcohol. If you frequently do stupid things while drinking, you may want to consider a life style change. It made a world of difference for me. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve been seeing gets aggressive (hard punches and slaps) - should I hit back?I had a girlfriend slap me once. I had slapped her back reflexively before I fully realized what was happening. We were together for years after that, she never hit me again... | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 4 | Going for the landlords daughter. Knowing when to flirt/escalate.Be prepared to move out on short notice. hopefully with your balls still attached. That's going to be seen as a major violation by her family. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Has Anyone Else Had their Dating/Sex Life Devastated by Mental Illness? How Did You Turn It Around?Yes,. I fixed it by divorcing her. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 4 | What's the truth about height?Part of it is many women saying one thing and doing another = hypocrites Part of it is many men using it to rationalize why they're not getting dates = denial of the real issues on an individual basis. The real truth is likely somewhere in the middle for the 80% of us who are not 8s, 9s or 10s. The one constant is if a man has lots of money, he has many options. regardless of height or build. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Finally took a chance - Now I knowShe may be dating someone else at the moment. She knows you're interested. Don't close the door completely. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | What’s your hobby?Keep in mind that places that use volunteers usually have more than one. Chances are some with be in your dating pool - with one built in common experience. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How does one be "man to woman"?This is also the primary function of the US military, to use tax payer funds for elective surgeries. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does working on yourself feel so lonely and hollow?" but it just seems like such a lonely road and I’m having a hard time investing my heart into doing what I need to do to actualize that future." This is adulthood. Make your goals and work toward them. adjusting along the way. OR don't. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does working on yourself feel so lonely and hollow?maybe join an entrepreneur group/club to meet like minded people. You are following your own path, don't judge yourself based on external expectation or societal norms. I think this is an Einstein quote "Do not strive to be a man of success, but rather a man of value" | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?Less drugs, alcohol and tobacco. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder?No. You can opt-out. There's a whole men's movement about that. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I become attractive enough to have success on Tinder?Drink more alcohol... Oh wait. that's backwards. Text your matches to have THEM start drinking before video call or in person meets. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally unstable girlThere's an old saying that has survived a long time - sage advice... Don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends?She has another dude. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 21 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Knowing one's past provides a lot of insight into values and is a fairly reliable predictor of future behavior. Yes. people can grow and change; but, if the motivations for part of the behavior are founded in insecurity self-worth issues, those are not likely to vanish without serious work over a period of years. edit: to fix autocorrect | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 16 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.She had a lot of fun riding the CC and thinks its cute. I'd bet real money this young woman is going to have a real challenge with commitment and monogamy. I'd look for her to cheat on you in less than a year. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | How to stop thinking that Women are better than Men?I too was raised by a single mother with only sisters. I run into exactly the opposite situation, I don't put women on a pedestal and have full expectation they will contribute equally in all aspects of the relationship, accounting for skill sets. Frequently, this expectation is met with dismay and irritation. many women (not all by any stretch) expect to be treated like royalty with no thought of reciprocity. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?That wasn't a personal attack requiring rationalizing. You were discussing the generic "they" not yourself. I'm not suggesting there are no legitimate uses/reasons for sharing pics that include yourself. It's the 'Look at me, and tell me I'm special' posts that earn (yes, earn) the narcissist, braggert, shallow and attention/validation seeking labels. Sharing pics with a group of friends that don't involve you as the sole or primary focus is innocuous. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?Maybe not specifically from men. just attention and external validation. Frequent posting with the intent of getting positive feedback is narcissistic and a sign of low self-confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys with lay count > 50So, you are denying there are innate psychological differences between males and females. Do you also believe evolution is a myth propagated by idiots? My comment has little to do with current societal norms and stereotypes. It is biological. with current ongoing research at U of Seattle. Also as reported on Huffpost.com (hardly a conservative or mysogenistic entity) research at U of Denver claim "we further found that the more sexual partners a woman had before marriage, the less happy she repo… | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 08:05 PM |
| -1 | You make more female friends if you treat them as if you're trying to seduce them.Imagine that, treating you people meet with decency, respect and consideration causes fewer of them to flee from you. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She sounds a little "off". Dont stick your dick in crazy. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | The33SecretsYou've spent a lot of time, effort, and focus to set yourself up for the future. When or if you decide to get married, make sure you have a prenup that protects you in the likely event of divorce. Get a good lawyer for this. Your post divorce self will thank you. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women?If they had those traits, they would not have been virgins when you met them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps; girls keep talking to me but are hesitant of grabbing a drink with meWhat fascist hellhole do you live in that is still locked down? | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Guys with lay count > 50I've read several reports that suggest what should be more concerning are the women in the >50 club. They get to 30 years and have lost the ability to form meaningful pair bonds. Whether we want to accept the science or not, there are different bonding mechanisms for male and female. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | If I take a girl to hang out/for a date, how should I go about bringing her back/going to hers?Get one uber and ride with her to her place to drop her off. That could freak her out as stalkers, as a really nice gesture looking out for her safety or maybe give her some thoughts about inviting you in. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Ahould you tell your date she looks good or not?Don't compliment the elements that look like shit. You don't want to encourage dressing like a clown. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]When women understand you're not going to chase, beg or coerce, it puts them into unfamiliar territory. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?I get it,, it's a financial boon for the kid; but, it's a drain on the parents finances and may cause them to have to delay retirement and parents moving into a few child-free years before age fully catches up to them. The extra expense may eliminate their dream cruise to Alaska or the RV tour to all national parks or whatever they've been dreaming about for the last 25 years. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 01:52 AM |
| -1 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?I want to commend you on your personal choice to help your parents out. That speaks well to your character. You have a great reason to still live with your parents. Most in their 20s do not. I'd argue that it's not more expensive now vs prior generations. Minimum wage is over double what it was when I was younger and rents are not double. How did we do it? We got roommates and lived in places we could afford. No garage, no washer dryer or dishwasher, one bathroom, less desirable neighborhoods. n… | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?You're a grown man. Get your own place, either alone or with roommates. | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Penis hurt after 3 orgasms? Mine doesn't even notice until after seven (not a contest). Did you bend it or get bit to cause pain? You're a young man you should be gtg 4 times in 6 hours with a new hotty. | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 05:57 PM |
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