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I like it. One of those truths that hard to internalize (just like TRP). Good post - keep moving and staying high SMV; you won’t even think of her again
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 07:00 PM
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Not to mention if she's reacting this way to A&A on social justice topics... that alone should be enough red flags for a soft next
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 03:51 AM
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Hard pass. This isn't advice - this is vindictive blackmail. Relationships are built on current attraction. This is advice for a beta cuck with oneitis
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 04:24 PM
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Think you reading too much into this. What you're hearing: Don't do favors or things ever What you should think is: Don't do favors with expectations of return. Holding her purse for a second while she grabs something or opening a door is just good manners.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:15 AM
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This is pretty easy: if you don't enjoy these parties, don't go to them. What are you worried if you're not there she's going to hook up with another guy? Good that means she's not LTR material. Don't be a babysitter
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:11 AM
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I can give you better advice if you talk more about age/your friends/your history... No one is Really 100% alone. Monk Mode isn't about being alone. It's about bettering yourself and putting yourself first. For a lot of guys that means cutting off or reducing relationships that don't promote that goal. Solitude isn't the goal, its a byproduct. What do you do for fun/for work/hobbies/exercise? How do you spend your day? How much time is in front of a screen?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:06 AM
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You're in your own head, it's not nearly as bad as you think. Everyone is a little self conscious and no one really knows where to look in the gym. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. If you and someone lock eyes, smile or nod and get back to what you were doing.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:03 AM
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100% this ^
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:59 AM
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Cut her off and move on. She'll be hurt for a bit but long term it will be better for both of you. AWALT, she can find another guy in an instant. Just from context I assume she's decent looking or you wouldn't put up with all of this. You're not her only shot or her white knight. She'll be fine
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:57 AM
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don't expect anything. Go out and focus on having fun and enjoying yourself. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 07:50 AM
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Also: https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:04 AM
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Nailed it. Good luck, you know what you have to do
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:59 AM
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Doesn't matter what she was it matters what you can get now. You got what you describe as an "8.5" when you were a 4? Either you're undervaluing yourself or overvaluing her (my bets on the latter).
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:53 AM
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Stoicism isn't attractive by itself. It's a method for you to better yourself and react to situations. Women need to feel emotion, "tingles," and an emotional connection. My interpretation: Stoicism will help you stay in frame but you won't get laid just because of it. Have game, be bold, but always be in control.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:50 AM
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"Currently tempted to contact my ex" Maybe, you two were in different spots in life and now you're comfortable revisiting it? Maybe if you just talked to her about what went wrong you can learn from your mistakes and avoid them in your next relationship! And then you wake up Don't do it. You know you shouldn't and you shouldn't even be able to. If you are able to, delete every avenue of contact you have so if your mind BP's out you aren't physically able to reach out. You know damn well you shou…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:46 AM
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Don't think of it in terms of "alphas" and "betas" but instead of people who add to your life. Places to meet: Gym, group fitness classes, adult inter-murals, dog park if you have a dog, cooking classes, and literally anywhere, anytime if you approach someone who is doing something you find interesting. The balance between DGAF and trying is inviting them to do things YOU want to do. If they join it's a mutual benefit, if they don't then you benefit all the same. Always try to accept new invites…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:37 AM
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What are you spending all your mental energy on and all your effort? Getting girls... and it's clearly not going well. You have tied your value solely to romantic success. This is what's called a positive feedback loop. You strike out with a girl and because your self-worth is tied to that you feel worthless, lose confidence, and mope. That feeling of insecurity only makes you more unattractive to women yet you double down because you believe that a girl can make you worthwhile. Want to stop fee…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:31 AM
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Honestly you're doing fine. Try adding a lotion to your morning routine that smells great. Easy to do and builds attraction without ever saying a word.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:15 AM
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There's a difference between "having a beer with the guys" and getting blackout drunk with your GF. "Having a Drink" = holding frame while allowing yourself to "loosen up" and "wind down" after a long day. "Getting Blackout" = losing everything because you're chasing the buzz. You're using a substance to cover your insecurities. Want to blackout every now and then? Fine... just don't take the gf
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:13 AM
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Good luck but read this too: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/64mvgf/the_most_important_part_of_game_is_not_being/ avoid getting too emotionally invested = avoiding oneitis. Play the game for yourself not to just get "the one". The point of the article is to show that RP works, not get you back into a toxic spot
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:10 AM
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Introduce yourself to trainers and guys at your gym. If nothing else it will bring some familiarity to it. Adult Inter-murals are everywhere. Top ones near you will likely be Tennis, Soccer, and Racketball. Join a yoga or a similar class (like pilates). Interact and be friendly, you'll meet people and better yourself in the long run. Don't AND I MEAN DON'T try to meet friends at night or at bars. I've been there and done that and never had anything come out of it. Meet people in places where the…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:07 AM
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Sort of a broad statement that I would actually disagree with. Girls love associating themselves with lower value girls to increase their apparent attractiveness.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:01 AM
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Be fun, short, and remember the 2/3 rule. You're not going to increase attraction over text, only lose it. The purpose of text is to set up your next encounter. At the peak of your "small talk" get there and disappear. Her hamster will do the rest.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:00 AM
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No it's not your area, it's you. Your profile probably needs some work (there's 1000 guides for that). Once you build matches: Read up: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5sii83/easy_tinder_text_game_the_6_message_rule/
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:57 AM
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Put your phone away. Your mind will race when you hop on it and "the future" is just a touch away. Stressed? Go lift. Read a book. Mediate. Cook. Clean your place. Go shopping for new clothes. Don't just "be busy" go be productive and use that uncertainty to motivate yourself into action. Find a good friend or older role model (male obv) that you can talk to when it really gets hard. Sometimes we all need a helping hand and there's no shame in bouncing your thoughts off someone.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:55 AM
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If you want to drink pick better bars. Try nicer restaurants with bars, the clientele will be chill and you won't have to deal with guys like that. If she wants to go to the bars you mentioned, she either wants the attention or is shit testing you to see how you deal with it. If you don't enjoy yourself at these places tell her you won't go. Don't sacrifice your enjoyment for hers.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:51 AM
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Firstly, AWALT... accept it. She's not special, she's not "the one", the more you think and put time into this the more you're just going to hurt in the end.... That said: https://archive.is/7Qi7n read this. Not saying she is an "ex" but you can't look desperate or move to fast. Let her come back while you live your life
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:49 AM
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What type of online dating do you mean? Stuff like OkCupid or Tinder? Very different profiles, very different results.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:46 AM
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I wrote out a bunch of stuff that was way more savage but you're blaming everyone but yourself. People (not just girls) don't like you because you don't like yourself. Want to change? Stop replying to these posts and go lift. Then go do it again. Then again. And don't fucking stop. You have no purpose other than getting a girl which goes to show you haven't read anything on here.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:57 PM
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Anyone have a guide for good skin care? I know that when my skin clears up I look so much better but have a hard time keeping a routine. There are tons of different guides so I wanted to know what worked best for you. Quick info: 23, typically get cystic and red spots but nothing major. Oily skin
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 04:33 AM
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