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| 1 | Eye contact during sexi wear glasses so eyesight is pretty bad without it. when having sex i can't really see her face plus the light is off so what do you mean eye contact? lol. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with girls in collegeYeah, totally agree. just be yourself...nope. Talk big, talk loud, and don't apologise...yup When you are in a relationship then Be yourself...yup Talk big, talk loud and don't apologise...nope. Well that has been my experience anyway. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 04:20 AM |
| 10 | Struggling with girls in collegeYou need personify the big dick mentality. Don't apologise and don't put them on the pedestal. It works. If you are a nice guy then stop being a nice guy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough?The way I see it is if the girl is worth it then keep up the momentum and the way you can tell she is into you is by the fact she keeps showing up to the date or she maybe after a free meal. Who knows? | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 09:17 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]right on brotha. early july got out of a short term relationship and by end of july i was talking to a girl firstly online and in real life. when we first met I was like don't give a fuck attitude. totally swearing and sat really relaxed which is totally opposite to before when I was meeting girls on the first date. 2 months later we are still together in fact planning a holiday over the summer. i don't know what gives but not giving a fuck actually works. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Feeling unusually nervous around someoneHave a wank. That usually works. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference?Height can also equate to dick size. Again that is something out of anybody's control and is genetics. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is the “height requirement” such a common/widespread preference?I'm 180cm and my gf is 156cm so yeah women like tall guys. Another good friend of mine says she wants someone taller than her with broad shoulders because she wants to be wrapped up when held. Again going back to the protection idea. But for me I find tall girls to be really sexy so maybe she can protect me instead. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghostedMate. There are many forms of anxiety it doesn't matter if you already had many intimate encounters. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghostedI think you didn't pass the audition so I wouldn't go for a career in porn. But seriously, performance anxiety happens to everybody but I wouldn't imagine it for a 19M. Yeah, if you are 40M like myself I do suffer from performance anxiety from time to time. All I can say to help you out psychologically is lay off the porn, seriously, it messes with your mind. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 08:38 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]This is what Ive found about dating and my current gf is full of mind games. I'd say game on...let's play ball. Go into first date without any expectation. In fact, a fukitol version worked out for me. Be confident and honest about the interaction is key. The thing is I just got out of a relationship so when I met her for our first coffee meetup I was just like whatever. I was like in the whole conversation, shit this/that and fuck this/that. She wasn't much of a talker but looked like the perso… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsHer place is always the easiest and you might be lucky her friend wants to get down as well. True story. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls ask “why are you so quiet?”The trick is ask them questions so they talk and talk so they don't have time to ask you why you are so quiet? | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 06:08 AM |
| 6 | Getting Attention Without Tryingexactly. although im seeing someone now i would see what she is doing every now and then because I have my own stuff I want to work on. garden, boxing, studying. feel better because you are achieving in your life and not rely on your happiness solely based on your partner. | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Seduction should never be the #1 priority in your life2 months ago, I got out of a relationship. Then a month ago, I started dating another girl but I am taking it really slow. if she is not available or super late in getting back to me i am just like meh. ive got other side projects i want to do in the mean time. we will sort something out. funny enough there will be days that I just don't think about my next date but i know it is coming up. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to ask a girl for her permission before I go for a kiss?Some people think asking for a kiss equates to no experience in dating and it is a turn off. Same goes with the stigma of being virgin. Whatever, dude. You do what feels right to you. And sometimes, you just need to read the situation with the girl you are with. I have found being playful with her helps ease the situation somewhat so rather then posing it as a question. You can do something playful to let her know your intentions. OR you can just straight out and kiss her down there. This I did … | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:57 AM |
| -1 | How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem?ffs. If you are not r/smalldickproblems then I shouldn't worry about it. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | I can’t stress enough how important this is!this is so funny!! what happens if she is wearing her sunnies? The sure way to see if she is down with you is to work on your conversational skills. Be interesting my friend. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Shoot your shot today, there's no difference in getting rejected tomorrow.bingo...what else do you have to lose? You are pitching for your self interest, right? This is applicable to everything in life like getting that job promotion you've always wanted etc. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach tinder girls who are obviously dtf?Have you considered they are the local pros in town? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:44 AM |
| 18 | Be careful approaching women especially with the mask mandate going onthis should in r/TIFU | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I try harder, or is she just not interested?When a woman is interested in you than she would also do her best to play off every word you say. So the reason she hasn't done anything to your advances is that she doesn't see you as a romantic partner. Alternatively, if you have an extrovert personality then you just ask her straight up like do you have a bf and wanna go for a drink? Shoot your shot. Some women react to positive masculinity i.e. alpha male mentality. Be interesting, let her chase you. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What are your fastest hook up stories?In the 3rd date, my ex had come over my place and her excuse was she needed a massage and my reply was I know how to do massage. So she came over and only massage I did was a very exciting one 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are some men naturally born to be good at women?It helps if you grew up with sisters. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Drought and no confidence with womengo for john gottman's stuff. he knows what he is talking about. he has youtube videos as well. https://www.gottman.com/ Think about dates as job interviews...come up with short blurb about yourself that you can say in 2 minutes or less. The listening time span of an individual is averages about 12 seconds so you don't want to do a verbal vomit on your life since the dawn of time. Be interesting. Ask yourself what are your attributes and why are they interesting? then expand on it. Read up on loc… | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Drought and no confidence with womenNope, you give her your number. It is like swiping left on bumble, where you let the lady decide whether she wants to have coffee with you. If you get the date, then just ask common questions about her life. The usual things like... do you have any siblings? what is your favourite food/music/place to visit? You know all the random questions that you ask someone when you want to get to know them. The idea is let her talk about herself as much as possible and you pay attention to what she has to s… | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Drought and no confidence with womenYou don't force a conversation. Use this, Hi, I think you are an attractive woman. Can I give you my number and we can go for coffee sometime? Have something written up on a piece of paper. if she is ok with it, then say, I am looking forward in meeting you again. Mate, it works. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]nice to know that im not a douche when women reject me. (well, at least, in this scenario) | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Cute barista gave me her numberoh just saw the edit. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes you’re not that shy to approach girls, you just don’t set a clear intentionit is all about confidence. you can say whatever as long as you get her attention. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl skips question for a dateMy ex gf is like that. I call it selective amnesia. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 05:56 AM |
| 4 | How to get her number smoothlymate, the quickest way is to show her your lambourghini. lol. Oh yeah, I don't own a lambo. damn. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | I just wish there was a documentary that showed a real relationship progressing from first contact to first kiss.Just like you I wanted to gain an idea how it works. But like a lot of ppl I've asked nobody could give me an informative answer. But that is OK. The main things are communication, reciprocate, compromise and honesty. | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Where should I keep my hands while speaking to a woman.If you know her well enough like a gf then you use one hand to cup her boobs and the other to draw her near to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Make yourself scarce instead of perceiving other's as scarceSure. I know what you are saying however think about the last time you've spent a lot of time with someone and for some reason you just want to have some alone time. So, there is no good answer for things that should be this way or that way and what the norms are. We can work out a pattern of things but it's never absolute. The most responsible thing to do is talk to your SO like an adult. Communicate how you feel at appropriate times and give her space and give yourself space. What the op allud… | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Make yourself scarce instead of perceiving other's as scarceThis is what I do with my gf. I ask and she is busy then go let her be and go do my stuff or hang around her friends instead. Then I will come to her when she is good or im good. | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 09:10 AM |
| 0 | What turns a girl on in general and conversations?You are kidding me, right? Babe, I want to see you naked. Babe, I don't want to sound like a creep but I want to play with your breasts. Babe, you are beautiful I would like to have you now? Babe, how about we kiss now? I basically move in for kisses. Ofc, you have to charm her first, right? make sure you know how to sweet talk and slip in the sexual talk in between. | /r/seduction | 17/07/20 12:10 AM |
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