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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 97 | The little things matter too when vetting | STRATEGY | Hot-Raccoon1823 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:35 AM |
| 55 | Can LVM become HVM? | Hot-Raccoon1823 | /r/askFDS | 07/07/21 01:57 PM | |
| 39 | FDS tips for getting over a crush?? | Hot-Raccoon1823 | /r/askFDS | 16/01/22 12:28 PM | |
| 34 | paying for dates - first date vs later dates | Hot-Raccoon1823 | /r/askFDS | 05/07/21 03:21 PM |
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| 3 | paying for dates - first date vs later datesYep that part in the handbook totally makes sense. Thanks for your input! However I was asking for a bit more specific advice: what would be the FDS perspective on this type of man who is happy to split at first but later on is more than happy to take care of financial thing ? even though he has stepped up as we’ve gotten to know each other and covers 100% nowadays, we did have a phase at the very beginning when we split (this was before I found out about FDS, I just naturally would offer to pay… | /r/askFDS | 06/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.I think this is a joke /satire lol xx edit: the yaaaaay reaction is what gives it that vibe + anyone with standards this low wouldn’t realize it haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 5 | There are no green flag shortcuts: the only real green flag is consistencyI know it depends but how long would be a “long period of time”? Like there has to be a point where we can let down our guard more , but even then still have the ability to leave whenever Or is it more situational? For example a crisis/emergency kind of situation would test them better than normal peaceful life? For me it would be around 1-2 years(?) before I can truly believe someone has shown me their true self. But I know this will change as I get older and the timeline for dating shortens as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | What happens if you give wife benefits to a HVM?Hmm this is such a tough question - I guess "wife benefits" is another way of saying that we want to make their lives easier. But then my ideal HVM wouldn't want me do that for him without helping me out at least (e.g if I cook for him, he'll also be in the kitchen cooking with me, at least). Like a HVM would probably want to give u the wife benefits right back?? so that he can make life easier for u as well? So I guess you would expect at least equal efforts in return for your effort/"wife bene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Queens with healthy, successful relationships: where/how did you encounter your HVM?Dog park! Still vetting ofc but he seems HVM in the way he treats me and speaks about his family/others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:25 PM |
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