| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 230 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice | CMV | Hot-Stranger24 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:38 PM |
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| 4 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceIf I do that, there's essentially 0 chance of meeting single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceSounds like a fantastic way to get some woman's 6 ft 5 250 lb boyfriend to beat the living fuck out of you for attempting a conversation with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI've done the "force yourself out there" thing for at least the last year and I'm about as miserable as I've ever been. It's difficult, and at times humiliating. Trying to fit in places where you don't fit. People seriously underestimate how difficult it is to just make a Social Circle out of thin air at the age of 28. I was much, much happier being by myself and enjoying my own company even if it meant I was terminally online. The only thing is, I'm never going to have a romantic connection whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 3 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice👌👏👏👏👏 Finally someone who gets it. It seems like it would be a massive waste of time. At best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:10 PM |
| 5 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI can already tell you're a woman without even asking because this is how life works for women. You show up, and it gets thrown your way. This is never the case for average man and this is why women cannot empathize with us. It's a totally different life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:00 PM |
| 7 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceThis. Without fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceOnce again, this argument was probably true 15 or 20 years ago but this is a different world. We have apps where women can sit in the comfort of their own home and match with Chad. They don't have to "network" jack shit. No matter how much you network or socialize, you are not going to compete with that guy unless you have the looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:43 PM |
| 8 | What do you think actually helps men date?This. People saying "just get a social circle" are stuck in 2004, when such things had a high rate of success. Now you can join a social circle and to the women in them, Chad is just a right swipe away. Why would she waste time on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 11 | What do you think actually helps men date?This is extremely difficult to do once you reach your mid 20s and all your friends from college have paired off with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | If could use just 1 (one) argument to convince someone from the opposite pill about the validity of your own pill, what would that argument be?Somebody else already beat me to it, but the Tinder experiment. Just make a profile as an average looking male (not a model, but actually average), and look at your results for a week. Then make the same experiment with pig woman. Contrast the results. If that isn't enough to make you blackpilled, nothing will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere"Access to assisted suicide. Full stop. My body my choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | The simple fact of modern dating today is that being single just means you are in one way or the other just plain undesirable.For me it's because I'm 5'2" and ethnic. It's over brother, inshallah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Are most modern women's standards for men too high? Why or why not?Who said I wasn't happy? I think a key component of acceptance is the understanding that sometimes things just aren't meant to be and that's okay. I'm not depressed or sad about not being good enough for the current dating market, it just is what it is. I still have tons of porn, I have platonic female friends, I can still enjoy love songs just like anyone else. So I can either enjoy what I do have or hyper focus on what I don't have. Only one of those options will positively serve my mental hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 10:56 PM |
| 12 | Are most modern women's standards for men too high? Why or why not?My ancestors didn't have to compete with 6ft4 guys on Tinder and Instagram. If you go back far enough with my ancestors, there was probably a lot of rape and other coercion involved that is now socially unacceptable. And beyond that, not all of my ancestors on the male side were short. What a disingenuous comment. Times are totally different and this is blissful ignorance at best. If you're a woman looking for a romantic partner, are you going to waste your time talking to the 5'3" guy in your t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 06:43 PM |
| 29 | Are most modern women's standards for men too high? Why or why not?I don't think so, if I were to put myself in a woman's shoes it makes sense to want someone who is genetically healthy and attractive, even if that means they have to be a certain height or have certain facial features. Or income. Or whatever it may be. It's sensible. "I ain't good enough" is a very difficult pill for most people to swallow because we are raised with the idea that the world has to be fair or just, but it really doesn't have to be. So when they can't swallow that pill, they compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Are the anonymous insights from women useful or shit tests to help filter out the naturals?It's mostly garbage platitudes because women can never understand the day to day experience of the average male. It's beyond foreign to them, like trying to imagine living on Mars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | will the Gym help his dating life?He looks ethnic and his face is about a 4/10. He's probably doomed no matter how much muscle he puts on because white Chad will outcompete him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Porn. They have a better chance jacking it to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Are dating apps at least worth trying, or are they really THAT bad?If you wanted to get ghosted and rinsed, or your self-esteem utterly fucking ruined, then by all means get the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Change My Mind: Men who want to be feminine or submissive in relationships are almost doomed.I agree, OP, but only to an extent. The best thing you can do is get friend-zoned and cucked, which is the only kind of relationship I'm willing to entertain with women at this point. So you aren't "doomed" if you can embrace that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 12 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason.LOL except I've literally done all this and it simply led to mingling with other "I have a boyfriend/husband" women. I have friends in 48 states and several other countries. I've traveled. Was a prominent member of a charity organization for the last 10 years. Total BS this advice is. Basically, if you're physically ugly, you end up romantically alone with a huge social circle. Not much difference at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 20 | Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason."Just get a social circle bro" might have been solid advice 15 years ago when the dating market wasn't absurdly imbalanced like it is today, but now it's pointless. First of all, if you're able to find a relevant social group, you can rest assured any attractive woman in the group will have a boyfriend 100% of the time. Or maybe she won't be in an "official" relationship but will be getting pumped and dumped by Chad from Tinder so she has no intentions whatsoever of wasting time with you. Also i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 03:05 PM |
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