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I’ve never met a women who wasn’t up for a more casual date first or a date zero, as I like to call it. This idea of the guy not caring is a bizarre one to me. How is he supposed to care about you when he doesn’t really know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:03 AM
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Homophobic nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:10 AM
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Sure. And she wanted to jump my bones because of the way I looked in a white tshirt. I didn’t have to mop or primp shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:57 AM
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That sounds very transactional to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:39 PM
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In what way is it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:07 PM
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In general, women value self-confidence in men more than the other way. It’s much more common to hear women list it in wanted traits when it comes to dating You will very rarely see female-targeted romantic media with a timid or shy male protagonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:39 PM
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The men you are referring to need to work on their friendships with other men first and foremost. As this is the root cause of the so-called loneliness epidemic. Romantic relationships should be considered after the fact. My suspicion is that a lot of men just don’t like the way they are evaluated by women as potential partners. The concept of romantic love is dying out for a good chunk of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:46 PM
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Thanks for the personal anecdote, my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:19 PM
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You are missing the point. Of course that constant need for validation would become irritating and a strain on the relationship for men. But you used the phrase ‘turned off’ which implies sexual attraction. It is women who tend to lose sexual attraction based on how confident and self-assured or not a man is. This doesn’t work in the same manner for the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:41 AM
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They may get annoyed by it but I doubt many men are getting ‘turned off’ by it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:02 PM
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The fear men have of looking feminine or seeming gay is rooted in women being sexually repulsed by male homosexuality. I’m convinced that if women found male-on-male sex to be as arousing as female-on-female sex is is to men, the vast majority of homophobia towards gay and bi men would disappear or only be found within strict religious doctrines. Homophobia is a social construct derived from female sexuality. We have only seen this recently as women have become sexually liberated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:04 PM
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Exactly my point then. Since there is no standard of merit here, we can only conclude that men value the extra leisure time while women value the extra effort. I’d sooner spending dusting time sleeping or enjoying a hobby. It’s not my fault that she can’t relax when there is dust present in the house. My main gripe with these surveys is that they are used to create the impression that women are being oppressed by lazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:49 AM
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Nor does it get to represent an imbalance outright
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:55 AM
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Women are doing the most childcare and therefore probably doing less paid work and commuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:54 AM
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So it can’t be men ‘taking too long’ can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:50 AM
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Men are ‘taking too long’ at what? It is women that are missing out on leisure time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:11 AM
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Sure you could but it’s not men complaining about having fewer hours of leisure based on these surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:32 AM
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I hate these surveys and the implications people try take from them. How do we know that women aren’t doing extra work or taking longer to do things because they are overly anal about certain chores or tasks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:51 AM
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You are trying to excuse away something that is inherent in women by blaming it on the homophobic assumption that all bi and gay men are sleeping around on Grindr or that it is based on a past religious-based social construct That’s the only bullshit here. Whenever women are challenged on their sexual nature - there is always someone like you that wants to strip out the agency of individual women and blame it on ‘social conditioning’ which is really a de facto means of blaming it on men. Learn a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:04 PM
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Maybe you should try reading the experiences of bi men in this very thread? Feels like you came into this thread with your prejudiced defence already lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:49 PM
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Not dating or sleeping with someone based on perceived promiscuity is a secondary decision made after you are sexually attracted to someone. What you are talking about is a common excuse made by women to disguise the fact that they find male homosexuality sexually repugnant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:09 PM
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The issue is women not being ‘sexually attracted’ to bi men because they view them as less masculine. Your gibberish about Grindr is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:59 PM
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He is, pal. You just can’t read properly or understand subtext
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:07 PM
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It was a comment aimed at both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:03 AM
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Why would you have heard it at all? It’s a conversation between men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:49 AM
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I’m 41 years old and have worked numerous jobs over the years and traveled over most of Europe and Asia. Trust me, I’ve known lots of people on a personal level. Now… care to answer the very basic question I have asked? Or can you only resort to cheap insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:01 PM
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Because women never married for love in the first place. And while it has taken a long time… Men are just waking up to accepting this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:04 PM
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How can society collectively approve of these situations when they are based solely on individual choices? Who is forcing women to get with these men and stay with them? To believe in what you are trying to suggests that women have no agency of their own. The reality is that women who remain in unhappy situations like described, are incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:32 PM
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Interests are not a personality trait. Looks are not a personality trait. How people ‘function’ is vague and meaningless Tell you what - just try and name three personality variants instead? You have claimed to know all kinds of ‘different’ people. I’m just asking you what makes them so different from and other?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:58 PM
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What a nothing answer I’m curious though… what toxic environments are deemed socially acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:55 PM
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You can’t even list any?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:10 PM
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What makes them all so different from each other then? And then list some of the variants that make up this magical diversity in people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:51 PM
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Then how do you explain all the women that end up with wife beaters and con men? What happens to their spidey senses?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:46 PM
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And men like you want to pretend there are endless variants of people and personality types out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:44 PM
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There’s that OCE we all love so much on here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:44 AM
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This seems to be a cope for some people who just can’t seem to handle that the ego of many a woman is too fragile towards rejection. I would be that the majority of men are just thrilled to be approached
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:54 PM
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And then there is Shallow Hal. A movie that shames men for not liking fat or old women. The subplot with the little girl with the burns is the cherry on top .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:12 PM
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The women in that thread are nutty af. They are all engaging with this game in a romantic sense and then wondering why their partners are insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:39 AM
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Hard to take this serious as a critique of men, now that we know about how women feel about bi men and men who may have experimented with other men in the past. Rules for thee but not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:53 PM
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A lot of men, if not a majority, actively pushed for equal rights and equality legislation. How would that happen if all men actively hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:47 AM
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This is how current divorce works. Look at Adele as a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:40 PM
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The same exact rules apply to a relationship where the woman is the breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:39 PM
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No. It would be half as she has more than suitable ground to file a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:13 AM
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You are actively changing the analogous scenario as I question it. It’s now a partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:28 PM
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You are still reaching with this comparison as when you are at the point of dismissal you have already been compensated for your work. You have no entitlement to company assets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:05 PM
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That analogy only works if falling out with your boss results in your dismissal and you get to take away half of the company profits garnered when you were in employment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:53 PM
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I don’t understand your second sentence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:13 AM
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Men are more prone to getting caught for cheating because male affair partners are more likely not to catch feelings and demand more than just a sexual relationship. Save your ‘Women are wonderful’ nonsense for the birds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:12 AM
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Because cheating breaks the agreement of the marriage. You don’t think that should be penalised in anyway? You think because she does menial labour around the house - she should be able to sleep with other people behind his back and still take half the assets from a legal contract she has broken on purpose? You don’t think that is open to being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:03 AM
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And if a wife cheats on her husband - is she still entitled to half the assets? I think you make some fair points about the division of labour and compensation but it has to be aligned with the reasons for divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:32 AM
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Virgins are going to struggle to satisfy a person who enjoys a more submissive role. That is undeniably true since it takes confidence and confidence can only come from experience. I would guess that you are kinda young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:09 PM
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I have sex the way I like it. If she isn’t on board with the way I like it - we aren’t compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:40 PM
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How old are the women in these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:49 PM
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That red pill is about MRAs, not red pill in the intersexual relationship sense. I think she even makes that distinction clear in the documentary
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:28 PM
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Now you can join us menfolk at cringing when women say “tHE PasT doESn’T mAtTeR”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:16 PM
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We know from the research that it is the majority of women who have an issue with it. And I would guess that some women lie on surveys about it to feel better about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:09 PM
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But are they still attracted sexually to bi women? Choosing not to date to someone and not being attracted to them is not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:22 PM
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Most mature men understand the futility of trying to satisfy their sex drive though. If a god granted a man the ability to snap his fingers and instantly have any woman he wants to sexually desire him. What happens to his perspective on sex after he has slept with many a woman. These biological drives we have are evolutionary traits to spread genes and build the herd. They having nothing to do with individual happiness. Some men understand this fully. Other men never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:37 AM
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Men find lesbians attractive because gay sex between women isn’t seen to diminish their feminine appeal. Unless they are really butch, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:31 AM
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So essentially an observation about how female attraction works is farmed out to being a larger societal problem. Even though we know that men prefer feminine women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:06 AM
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If being feminine in society is weak/bad, in a sexual context, then why are men attracted to feminine women? The cognitive bias in this thread is off the charts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:58 AM
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The argument that ‘straight people are attracted to straight people’ is redundant because we know that there are very few men who lose attraction to a woman once they find out she has previous experiences with other women. This is issue is about what women find sexually attractive in masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:13 AM
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So straight men are only attracted to masculine women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:08 AM
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Are the mental gymnastics that are used in evolutionary psychology really any worse than those used in theories of social constructionism? There is a female poster on her that believes that women aren’t attracted to bi-men due to internalised misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:51 PM
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Because feminism has never tried to dismantle marriage, even though it is a cornerstone of patriarchy. Therefore it and the related customs still stand They never go after it because they too many women have weaponised it for personal gain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:48 PM
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Women are not a monolith. There are plenty of ultra sexually submissive women who don’t like it all as they don’t like their man to be anything apart from dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:00 PM
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Exactly. OP is delusional about the limitations of AI. It’s much easier to replace a HR agent than it is to replace a plumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:59 AM
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If a man doesn’t openly state that he is red pilled - then how would a woman know that he is? And there are plenty of married red pilled men and plenty of blue pilled men that sleep around. Red pill is just the observation of female dating/mating strategies. What men choose to do with these observations is up to them. TRP does prescribe behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:53 AM
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The same woman that blamed women not being attracted to bisexual men on ‘internalised misogyny’
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:55 PM
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Good for you. Younger women are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:27 AM
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Old Crow Energy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:44 PM
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Younger women like older men for their youthful appearance? This reeks of OCE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:18 PM
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It’s not cringe at all. Just look at how women will blame so-called ‘social constructs’ for shitty behaviour. A good example is whenever a ‘why are women not attracted to bi men’ thread appears on here… there is always a decent amount of women blaming it on ‘internalised misogyny’ They deflect so they don’t have to challenge their own prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:40 AM
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And black women that complain about black men dating white women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:36 AM
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It just seems that way because vulnerable men aren’t seen as partner material in the first place. Those are the single men dying the quickest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:38 PM
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If prostitution were ever to become 100% normalised, I reckon the bar would be raised for the men who really need it to be allowed to participate. I imagine girls who decide to sell sex would either have a group of regulars that they are attracted to or a group of the most wealthy they can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:27 AM
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Some men get to choose. Other men have to be chosen. These two groups of men have to wrestle with very different variables. There is nothing simple for the latter group - they have to find contentment in being a second or even third prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:35 PM
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I salute you for your honesty And I’m glad you now have insight into why arguing with the brainwashed ‘social conditioning’ feminists on here is a tedious waste of time. Because why be self aware when all your flaws can be blamed away on an abstract gender construct?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:57 AM
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All parents do this? All churches do this? All social media does this? All regular media does this? These are not monoliths. What era are you living in? And what you are talking about with the Boy Scouts is a cover up. Not a culture. Nothing of what happened there is approved by any western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:58 PM
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Ok, that is just you explaining what the messages are. Where are these messages coming from? Who or what is ‘conditioning’ women to think like this? And there is no such thing as rape culture in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:06 PM
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Where is the modern patriarchal messaging telling women not to be attracted to men who have had sex with another men? Bonus question: is there any flaw that women have that can’t be blamed on social conditioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:23 PM
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More like men get caught more A male affair partner is much more likely to keep his trap shut (and his dick wet) than his female equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:23 PM
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ohhh dozens eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:44 PM
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Women gatekeep male sexuality. Modern feminism becomes hilarious when you realise that women reinforce gender archetypes more than men ever did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:38 PM
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I’ve noticed that whenever this question comes up there are always women here who try to move the goalposts Your distrust of someone who has a higher potential to cheat on you is 100% valid. So a bi guy that constantly sleeps around falls into that category, sure But this topic is about why women are sexually turned off by men who have a sexual history that may involve other men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:33 PM
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Are those men as common as women who will have nothing to do with a man who has been sexual with another man? You are reaching with this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:27 PM
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They use the dating app’s statistics as evidence of this divide. Which is why I agree with it in principle but I don’t agree with the numbers. In general: Men who are truly sexually attracted to women is much greater than Women who are truly sexually attracted to men. I think this has always been the case. Our previous patriarchal society hid this truth from us
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:33 PM
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The wild incel statistic is that women are only truly sexually attracted to 20% (I think it’s more likely to be 40-50%) of men. Women settle for men they aren’t attracted to for other reasons. Not saying it is true. But marriage rate has nothing to with attraction rate in this regard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:20 PM
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I watch these grifters for the way their advice is shot down in the comments section by men who have had to deal with BPD women. If I were to do the same on here I would be labelled as insensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:18 PM
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Men are conditioned to love women ‘warts and all’ There are tons of videos teaching men how to deal with a BPD wife or girlfriend. There is next to nothing teaching women about autism or Asperger’s in men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:33 AM
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And what if the younger woman is approaching the older man? Would that be seen as odd too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:44 AM
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Then maybe you can answer my question that others here want to avoid: Now that we know how women feel about effeminate men and men with homosexual experiences, do you think that influences how men and boys think about their own masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:26 PM
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Because he might aspire to have children of his own? He will need a woman for that, no? It’s telling that you keep avoiding my other questions. You only seem to be interested in preconceptions that suit your ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:12 PM
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I’m challenging the notion of ‘preconceptions’ stated above
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:09 PM
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The US hasn’t gone back 75 years. What a load of reactionary feminist nonsense. The left was booted out for abandoning the working classes. The left, of which I am part of, needs to go back to its roots. And do homophobic fathers exist? Sure, I would guess they are mainly religious driven. But other fathers? They have probably seen how effeminate and gay-seeming men fare in the dating world. Why are women not sexually attracted to men like this? Do you think if they were, that men would embrace …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:20 PM
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You seem upset. Interjecting like this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:05 PM
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What a bizarre retort. Is he not entitled to raise his son in the style that he believes will prepare him for adulthood and become a man that women will find attractive? And feel free to answer the question in my previous post anytime you like. Let’s go deep on ‘preconceptions’ of both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:03 PM
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We live in the most educated and self-aware society ever. These so-called preconceptions have been all deconstructed and laid bare. What decade are you living in? You read like a feminist dinosaur And now that we know how women feel about men that have had sexual encounters with other men - can we really blame the masculine framing taught to young boys by their fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:28 PM
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You know what… I’m happy for women to trash men of yesteryears as much as they like, most of them deserve it. But I’m drawing a line in the sand at generic attacks on young boys They are not males born of a patriarchy. Trying to claim they are is a form of cruelty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:07 PM
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Then I recommend that you should leave. Your kind isn’t welcome here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:55 PM
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True. And I can only love skinny girls with low self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:44 PM
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Hold me closer, tubby dancer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:29 PM
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Cool. Let’s try to find out what the conditions are for the LOVE of the poster above. Let’s burn down her delusions of happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:28 PM
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There is no equivalency between dick size and weight. One is controllable while the other is not. Stop it with the fat girl energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:12 PM
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Is it unconditional love that you have for your husband? According to most women, that sort of love doesn’t exist and all relationships are transactional on some level. Both teams suck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:03 PM
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Right but the poster above was stating how it is men that are disgusted by male sexuality - I just wanted to clarify that male homosexuality is a turn off for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:35 PM
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Curious what you think that women who aren’t attracted to a guy after they discover a previous history of sexual activity with other men? Does this play a part in the disgust felt towards male homosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:46 AM
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Which is just describing the framework. It’s saying nothing about the different factions of red pillers who scrutinise and interpret it in different ways. This is why a lot of people assume that tradcons are representative of the red pill holistically. And that people like Rollo Tomassi are spokespeople
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:40 AM
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It’s not just the framework. It’s also a culture of men reflecting on their experiences with women throughout their lives, romantically and otherwise. Saying it is just a framework is to dismiss the community that scrutinises it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:22 AM
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Based on the responses here - the past matters to both men and women. Funny how it is only ever men that are gaslit about being insecure or sexist. And then people wonder why the manosphere and the red pill have become more popular
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:51 AM
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Sure but aren’t you forgetting that for the last 25 years have seen feminist ideals being indoctrinated into all facets of the western environment - education, art/music, politics, etc? Why has that had seemingly very little impact on the attitudes of gen z women in regard to how they objectify men? Women, in the west, are liberated now and free to educate themselves and analyse what influences are in their environment - that is independent thought To think otherwise implies women are passive id…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:49 PM
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Do women have free agency or not? How can you still be blaming historical social constructs for their own independent choices? To believe in what you are saying - women have to be passive idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:44 PM
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Does Dworkin provide any solutions for the female trait of judging men as financial or success objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:32 PM
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Can you give an example of this sociocultural pressure in action?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:50 PM
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This is hilarious. I know a lot of women hate that men can find a lot of entertainment from video games, but to build a nihilist philosophy around it is very amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:37 AM
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