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| 6 | Why is someone like you single???I’m kind of tempted to tell them: “Unfortunately my husband passed away last year,” because it will make them feel like a shitty person for asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:36 AM |
| 61 | Bet this guy would have 0 qualms about having sex while “hanging out”Imagine a potential employer requesting this 😂 yeah let’s see if you vibe with the team before we hold a job interview! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:45 PM |
| 15 | The tinder subreddit is full of men praising pickmeishas and making fun of girls for how they look... oh and I hope she gets pickedI thought she was being cynical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The guy didn’t confirm the date. So I didn’t meet up. What’s your policy on this?I don’t quite understand the issue with not texting in between. I mean, once something (specific time and location - I agree in this case of this thread it might have been too vague) has been agreed upon, it’s agreed upon. It’s happening. And no use texting after that because talking face to face is better anyway. So I would show up. Is this a cultural thing, maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 9 | What about the lesser attractive women?Unfortunately, there is. It devalues you in the eyes of a man. Makes you seem ‘easy’ or ‘desperate’. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Run as fast as I can or stay??6 months is great. No red flag here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:56 AM |
| 34 | A woman’s right to say ‘meh’: being sex positive won’t guarantee you an orgasm | Life and stylesex blah-sitivism should be the new norm. For it is more accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 9 | Message First then NOT reply once I respond???This! The solution is to block them yourself once they come out of the woods again. Give yourself some peace of mind :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | "How To Be A Heartbreaker" by 'Marina and the Diamonds' is FDS in song formNever heard it before, but I certainly do approve of that video clip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Ever met what seems to be a HVM and then don’t know how to act and think it must be a facade?Wow, that sounds though. I’m sorry it happened to you. What do you do to protect yourself against them in the future? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Ever met what seems to be a HVM and then don’t know how to act and think it must be a facade?How would you guard yourself against that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:42 AM |
| 30 | Ever met what seems to be a HVM and then don’t know how to act and think it must be a facade?When someone is keeping up the con for years, they are probably lying to themselves, too. That is the kind of thing you can’t really protect yourself against... we should always make sure that we are prepared to walk away out of a bad situation and have the funds to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Dating and looking low maintenanceI think your style is great and I cannot imagine it coming across as low maintenance. Maybe you’re just extra attractive with this style so that now MORE men (and proportionally more LVM) are coming your way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:37 PM |
| 29 | No wordsAgreed. This man is ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:33 AM |
| 6 | If you see anything that can be perceived as shady, get out IMMEDIATELYDoes that mean it is shady if I have pictures of me and/or my ex around? It feels like white washing years of my life if I were to throw out everything that has a connection to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:41 AM |
| 35 | FDS on the front page... as a hate group!It would actually be impressive if someone would maintain acting like an absolute HVM, paying for stuff, helping you, make your life better and after a year: “ha! I just used you for sex!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:41 AM |
| 12 | Inside the mind of LVM.Also wondering about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:21 AM |
| 2 | A Quote For Life: Don't worry, Ladies!Your advice is probably applicable to other areas of life too. Now that I think about it I have had regrets of rushing things. 🙁 no more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | A Quote For Life: Don't worry, Ladies!I needed to read this. Anything good will wait for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:27 PM |
| 22 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSI believe FDS can become a big movement that will improve the lives of women and men alike. The time is right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone watched I am not an easy man on netflix?Absolutely loved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:28 AM |
| 31 | this is what happens when you "give the ugly/fat guy a chance". attraction is important in a relationship, you can't be with someone you're not attracted to. don't let anyone shame you for that.‘Hotsexual’. I like that word. Amen, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else enjoy "trolling" jerks like this? I know responding is not a HV use of my time but it's entertaining for my friends and I 💁🏽♀️From someone like him, “Uptight” is in fact a compliment. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Can you imagine how much development men would be forced to undergo if all women collectively raised their standards??? What a beautiful fantasy...Same for me. It makes me wonder if there even is a man that can actually make our lives better, because I do somewhat miss the intimacy. He will probably have to be fucking spectacular. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:57 AM |
| 7 | A day in the life as a Red Pill wife😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 43 | Beware of peacockingWell this may be an unpopular opinion but THANK GOD. Halleluja. Men should be peacocking. That’s what they do in the animal kingdom too. Come on, make yourself pretty for us! I am sooo tired of seeing grown ass men in jeans, sneakers, t-shirts and hoodies. But of course, thank you for the warning OP. I will make sure to VET VET VET these men too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 07:22 AM |
| 19 | Instant Left SwipeAnything negative or self-deprecating in his profile, even if it’s in a joke. Because I automatically assume it’s true and that he has issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 07:13 AM |
| 5 | "don't ask just one person to give you what a whole village should actually give you"Ah, Esther Perel. I have heard her talk before on this topic. Basically she says that the things we expect from a partner these days (emotional support, being a friend, being a lover, sharing household duties, raising a child, etc.) were, a long time ago, shared by a whole village. And that this is why many relationships go awry - you cannot expect one person to do all these things and then still have a deeply satisfying sexual relationship, just to name one frequently recurring theme in her wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Just heard from a guy I have a queen vibe surrounding me... Thanks to FDS no one gives me shit anymoreIs it in your posture? Your face? The way you dress? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:16 AM |
| 67 | FDS isn’t new or fringe, that’s why it’s growing so quicklyMy aesthetician is naturally FDS. This movement will only grow, and as a beneficial side effect aid men in their growth too. 😎 The future is now, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:39 PM |
| 10 | Is this what hitting the wall looks like?The only “wall” there is, is decreased fertility after 35. But it’s the same for men - so this is a level playing field, in which the people who look after themselves have an advantage. Usually, these people are women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 06:37 AM |
| 17 | Why Intelligent and High Performing Fall for Toxic Partners (Article)Well that was a scary read. All the more reason to employ FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:29 PM |
| 102 | Lifehack for this monthHave my upvote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | I have no words. Redditor doesn't know what message splitting the bill sends.A) I’m broke B) I’m not very interested in you C) All of the above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:44 PM |
| 16 | Useful when doubting your intuitionThanks! on behalf of all anxiety sufferers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 38 | She speaks the truth. 😂😭Replace boyfriends with husbands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 07:41 AM |
| 22 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"Oooof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | NO EXCUSES - Date Multiple Men Until Commitment is EstablishedMay the best man win. I love this motto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:11 PM |
| 6 | “The one who loves the least is the one with more power in a relationship”Not All Men Are Like That. I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Thank goodness for this satire sub exposing the misandREEEE of FDS!!Mood for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Small things your HVM does to demonstrate he puts you first?😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:20 AM |
| 45 | LVM thought he could get away with a $6 engagement ring from Amazon. His fiancee found out when she was going to resize it at a jewelry store otherwise she would've been fooled.My heart breaks for her. I hope she leaves his lying ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 15 | How much efforts did you put into meeting someone from dating app?My bad, I just meant near you (your town/city) rather than at your actual house. I definitely do not recommend giving your address to strangers! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 41 | How much efforts did you put into meeting someone from dating app?Have you read the handbook? It covers this subject. You do not travel to see a man. He comes to you or you don’t see him at all. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:05 AM |
| 17 | This guy seems to be doing all the right things, but something feels off. Advice?An ex did that correcting thing too. It wasn’t even that harsh - I thought at the time, but it set the tone for the rest of the relationship. I always felt less than, and am so happy to be away from him. Protect yourself sis! Don’t let him do this to you! Get out while you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:56 AM |
| 12 | Five Ways You Attract Narcissists (hint: don’t be a Pick Me)I came to the same conclusion. Perhaps the difference between FDS and a ”game show” is not so big in this regard... the differences are probably found in mutual respect and a mutual willingness to build something together. The author gives some insight in the last paragraph: “Strategies that seek negotiated mutuality attract people who want to build a relationship that works while discouraging narcissists.” He advises raising a little conflict and to see how the other handles it. Normal healthy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:27 AM |
| 67 | So true...Cruella speaking the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:16 AM |
| 14 | No to online dating. How to mean a HVM in the wild?Agreed. OLD gets very bad rep here but it’s pretty hard to meet new people after college. So what happens is all men, of high and low value, flock to OLD. Everyone you meet IRL who is looking for a relationship is on OLD too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:24 AM |
| 23 | how could we!!Admission is the first step! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Dollface on Hulu for those looking for another FDS film/series.Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Dollface on Hulu for those looking for another FDS film/series.What is it about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 13 | Sociologist has similar opinions to FDSOooh. That one goes on my wish list. We’re really on to something here with FDS! Hence the Washington Post article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 12 | I lost the weight and they came running. Boy bye.I was literally laughing out loud reading that grape anecdote. Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 9 | Be aware of men with a "magnetic pull"Hmm the discussion here reminds me of a family member who I think is a psychopath. He normally has a somewhat moody demeanor but he can be very charming and funny if he wants to. He’s a smooth talker and capable of making grand (romantic) gestures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:32 PM |
| 8 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?It’s exactly the same for me. Sad high five. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:24 AM |
| 10 | PSA: Saying we’ll be “single and lonely” is not an insult. It’s better to be alone then in bad company.I miss my cat more than I miss my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Everyone, I'm a florist and this is HELLWhhhhyyyy always at the last minute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 7 | I’m going to go buy my own flowers. I take myself out on dates. I take myself to concerts. I don’t let myself down.Hear, hear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 14 | starting the car for me and scrapping off the ice so I don't have toNow I must say that sounds like real dedication. Good for you sis, you’ve earned it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Requesting songs for the Female Dating Strategy playlist.Zero Gravity by Kate Miller Heidke. Great lyrics about cutting loose dead weight from your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)Oh my god Alexandra was so incredibly sexy in her masculine role. I had a girl-crush and at the same time she is definitely #goals for me omggg Anyone else feel the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)Watching it now 🤯🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:52 AM |
| 39 | Would you date a man who secretly thinks you are a "5" or a "6" on their "scale"?In my pick-me days I even asked my ex what he thought (a 7). 😅 crrringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 42 | Unexpected power movesInteresting... I’m always afraid displaying power would be considered un-feminine and unattractive, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 22 | So disappointed.Aww I feel for you :( how horrible! You are very, very strong and you did the right thing. You will get through this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Low effort, I’m telling you!😭 whyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 16 | Live laugh love ... or not 😂🤡It’s funny because it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:21 AM |
| 19 | What are some ways of implementing FDS when I have the higher libido in the relationship?Maybe this is too dark triad or something IDK, but: take a lover 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Why is “What do you do for work” the first question guys immediately ask?This is a very normal question for adults to ask strangers. Just avoid talking about where you exactly work and when (to avoid potential stalkers) or how much money you make (because obvious taboo in most countries). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 7 | How much do you agree with this post?I don’t think you need to share deep knowledge about yourself on a first date. It’s a first date! When I overshare (which I tend to do) with someone I don’t know well I always feel uncomfortable afterwards. Who knows what they do or think of the information. Don’t make yourself vulnerable so quickly. It also lessens the mystery around you. Tips for fun and light conversation topics are welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:34 AM |
| 24 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"Women take mens feelings seriously. Thus women are nobody. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:17 PM |
| 37 | What do you think of ¨Living together apart¨ relationships?LAT relations are sort of #goals for me. It is sooo nice to have my own place. I have lived together with 3 men, all very different (one was super messy, the other was way cleaner than I was etc.) and I don’t think I ever want to share my house again, lol. Might be tricky with children though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | If He Has to Be Dragged, Leave Him BehindWell I did it two times. Saves me from a third 😅 But damn this hits home. Great post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 4 | If He Has to Be Dragged, Leave Him BehindAnything less than an enthusiastic “yes!” is a “no” in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | "Sexual compatibility" is a load of shitDoes he need to feel that same physical attraction, too? How do I know it’s there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑Oh my god! I love this! What a great idea! I’m going to save your comment and think about how I can apply this tactic to various areas of life, hehehe. Stay woke sis you’re a genius 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 9 | Have you ever noticed men will date literally *anyone* once they decide they want a relationship?That’s rough. Have a hug. I hope you’ll find someone who is worthy of you. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 6 | 1. FDSers don’t have crushes. 2. We don’t fall for mind games either. #blockdeleteHey I have this too. One example: I crushed like crazy for years on a guy in high school. When I finally asked him out and he rejected me, I got over it in a week. 🧐 How does this work??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | How important is sexual chemistry?Yes, I was in a somewhat similar situation, and it took me years to understand my gut feeling was right. It was good of you to post it here. I wish you the best of luck and strength for your decision. I hope you choose you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:29 AM |
| 3 | So here I am, loving dating and being single, not looking for a relationship. . . . and I meet a really great man!Would you maybe like to share some of your experiences? Lately casual sex / fwb has been discouraged here a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 8 | How important is sexual chemistry?I’m sorry dear but money does not make a man high value! Not giving you orgasms makes him low value, and the fact that he hasn’t put a ring on your finger after 5 years while you are both late twenties means he will never do this. He is waiting for someone “better” (this is subjective) to come along. Love yourself and get out before you let him waste more of your precious time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Oh my god--the audacity! I don't even know what to flair thisYou are not alone sis. I’m comfortable in my own skin, I can flirt and I can be playful... but not if I actually have a crush on the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 10 | The Case Against Online Dating For WomenThe book is by Amy Webb, and she has a Ted talk on the subject: TED talk on youtube Highly recommended! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 9 | So here I am, loving dating and being single, not looking for a relationship. . . . and I meet a really great man!Agreed! Somehow, even knowing that women are better of single than married - thanks to research, marrying a HVM still seems to be the major goal for over 95% of women here. Personally, I’m in my thirties and I have been in LTRs for all of my adult life until recently and I just can’t do it anymore! Maybe I will change my mind when I’ve been alone for long enough but until then I’m much more in my element, single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 08:01 AM |
| 15 | I got a dog and it’s cured my Pickme-itisDon’t get me wrong, I love cats 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:37 PM |
| 41 | Presenting: The official Pickmisha wedding cakeThese kind of cake toppers always made me cringe. Thanks to FDS I know why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:49 AM |
| 81 | I got a dog and it’s cured my Pickme-itisAwww. It’s so beautiful how animals can just love unconditionally! I think even cats are better at this than most men. Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Sex isn’t worth it for womenReading all of your posts makes me wonder... how about male escorts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:07 AM |
| 9 | I’m actually really excited for valentines day this yearSpa day plus enormous bouquet of roses here. 💐💐💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you gotten over your BDSM kink?Therapy, therapy, therapy. A (female of course) therapist helped me through traumatic sexual experiences with EMDR therapy and my BDSM kink disappeared over the course of a few weeks. I didn’t even have to tell her all that much about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 33 | Men seem to think that attractive women are *trying* to attract themMen think like this because apparently they themselves can not fathom being nice to someone ‘un-bangable’. So if you’re nice to them, you’re definitely DTF!! This was from a study posted here in FDS a week ago or so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.Which picture is before and which is after? I don’t see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:05 AM |
| 43 | Don't send nudes. EVER.YOUR NAKED BODY IS ONLY TO BE ADMIRED IN PERSON. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | One month after IUD insertion, I'm still having horrible pain. Fuck the lack of male birth control purely for their convenience. You should NEVER have to be the only one who suffers and sacrifices. Fuck that.That’s really depressing (no pun intended.) Does that mean you might as well stay just on the pill if you’ve already taken it for years and years? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 34 | Had a hilarious dream last night, my brain is so done with lying menMy phone does this regularly! Now I know why! It’s a LVM 😂 You had me literally laughing out loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:57 PM |
| 5 | How do i approach this?No. He is disposable to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else attract emotionally distant/unavailable men?Wow. I never really knew wat emotionally unavailable meant in practice... but this hits home. I knew and know men who go through life like this. There is no passion. It makes me feel depressed just reading about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:23 AM |
| 25 | How do I get him to chase me again?Indeed. OP, If none of the dread works, and you’re unhappy, he’s not right for you. Work on yourself then - that is being a HVW 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:12 AM |
| 148 | What was that about being a lonely spinster?Talking about life goals, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:02 AM |
| 5 | FDS works and I’m bummedAww. Have a digital hug! Next time you will be more prepared for something like this to happen, you will grow and it will hurt less! ☺️ Take some time to for yourself. You’ve done great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 7 | Remember ladies - we can get porn sick tooSo... is (regular) masturbation bad for women, too? Does anyone know anything about this topic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:11 AM |
| 6 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.They could stand up straight. Many men have terrible posture and it makes them look worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:17 AM |
| 9 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.Slightly off topic but... penguins give pretty rocks? That’s adorable! On the other hand, I’m pretty sure most women like certain pretty rocks as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:15 AM |
| 6 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.Me too 😍 being hot AF is only the first in a looong list of requirements for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.Well I like the way my bust looks when I wear them. Although I do sometimes wonder if I should wear normal ones in order not to ‘mislead’ the men I’m dating. Wait.... Screw that, doing what I want in 2020. 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 14 | Be Careful Out There Everyone!!Thanks for your reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | I pay $3/mo for an app that gives me their real name with their phone number. 100% worth it. Never met a murderer but lots of catfish.I would like the name of the app too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 16 | Be Careful Out There Everyone!!How do you do this and not have him ask for your last name? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | No one: Pick me:Looking hot AF is the first on my list of qualities I’m looking for in a man because it’s the easiest one to check! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 5 | FDS is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnaturalHahaha love the GIF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 12:14 PM |
| 3 | I think I found a HVM but I’m not catching feelingsHave you managed to build this attraction with men over time? This never worked for me and while affection grew, the relationships always end in dead bedroom. I kind of decided recently to only go out with men who I am instantaneously attracted to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Possible to find more than one HVM in a lifetime?This is so relatable! “I said 'something is missing and I don't know what it is, but it's not right'. It was ME. I was missing me. I didn't know who I was,” Time to fall in love with ourselves instead of men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:01 AM |
| 12 | Possible to find more than one HVM in a lifetime?Well, I had the same feeling with my ex: a lot of things were great in our relationship and I was afraid that if I left him, I would never find such a good guy again. Nevertheless, the doubt only got worse and I broke up with him after a couple of years. And well... I should have broken up with him sooner. I feel so much better and happier now! Currently I’m not looking to be in a relationship again. If it happens, it happens. I still think my ex is a pretty decent guy, just not the one for me. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | (26 F) Any chance of pulling this back FDS style? Wanted fun, now I want options...So for the first part of your post.... are you me? 😂 I don’t want any new LTR either, and am ready to have some fun too! Although I’m so unused to flirting that when I see a man interested in me (and I in him), I chicken out and flee the scene. 😱 Anyway, best of luck to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 09:07 AM |
| 11 | Beware your male friendsMine surprisingly enough didn’t! I’m still on my guard though. Maybe they’re just super super low effort, or intimidated. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:54 AM |
| 2 | What makes a woman Low Value?Wild, free and high value! Love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Men who dislike animals and especially cats are a red flagOh no! Maybe ask for a second opinion from another doctor on the allergy treatment? Whatever you do, don’t compromise on your dreams! The best of luck to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:59 AM |
| 11 | Is he (28m) stringing me (29f) along? Not sure what to doIt might look like it, but he is not right for you. If you do manage to wrangle him into a marriage, there is a good chance he’ll divorce you after a few years because with his career and experience he will want a shiny new woman. It will be hard, but leave him. You will be happier for it, I promise you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Back on the Dating Scene but I NEED HELP :/I’m in a similar position and I’ve been wondering about this too. Would it attract fuckboys and chase away HVM if I don’t want a LTR? Good to know I’m not the only one looking for romance and fun times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 08:42 AM |
| 10 | I guess I've internalized FDS-mentalityWell, attraction /is/ important! So “balding” and “no butterflies” could be very legitimate reasons to dump a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How long since your last date?Years. Was in a mediocre LTR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:18 AM |
| 3 | We’re not safe on LinkedIn evenDoes anyone know how to protect your LinkedIn from these men? I would’t give out my last name on OLD, but it’s there on LI with my education and everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:54 AM |
| 34 | What to do when guy adds you on social media before meeting?I would ignore it and if he asks why, say you don't like connecting with people you don't know in real life. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 9 | I don’t know who needs to hear thisAnd then there is illness, too. Not saying a relationship is the only way to counter this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?Thank you for your answer. I am considering this myself, although I do not have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 07:10 AM |
| 6 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?Ooooh. How does it work for you? You don’t feel like swearing off men forever this way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Roleplaying discussions with your female friends can REALLY HELPWhat a great idea! I think this will help me a lot because usually I don’t know of any good things to say back until after the conversation... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:27 AM |
| 11 | Boyfriend and video games:, keep, compromise, what to do?!This, TO! There was a thread on this before. The man (supposedly a hvm too) often retreated to his ‘man cave’ and she felt lonely. Complaints and discussions didn’t help. What did help, was her going out as soon as he went into his cave. She went to see her girl friends, did sports, etc. you can thing of something. Lo and behold as soon as she wasn’t waiting for him anymore, he went looking for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:27 AM |
| 12 | HVM make you feel special and valued. A proposal story.I think he waited too long to propose. She could have walked out on him in the meantime. I’m not impressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 08:31 AM |
| 3 | LVM want you to prove yourself and prove you’re wifey material for 7 yrs before reluctantly proposing. HVM can see you’re a queen from day one.Yes please, this calls for story time! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:03 AM |
| 13 | Should I text him? A flowchart.Great flowchart! Thanks for sharing. Is he a crush - yes Have you kissed - no Have you even spoken to each other? - yes Don’t do it! Well I don’t have his number anyway but GODS this crush is so inconvenient! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 5 | It needs to be done from time to timeUhuh. Although I would not like to presume it is easy being a lesbian. But sometimes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 20 | New to this--what do I do from here?A man who makes you pay is by definition low value. I’d suggest you forget this man, block him, and try to date some other men who do offer dinner dates and pay (if not: pay for yourself and next him). You are the prize so maintain your boundaries. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:23 PM |
| 23 | Former BDSMers, I want to hear your experiencesI used to be into it and tried some with a former bf... but my sub preference definitely stemmed from sexual trauma. My last bf encouraged me to seek help from a therapist and I did - it changed me. I could enjoy vanilla sex again and actually got mad when said ex smacked my ass during sex one time. BDSM-people usually don’t want to hear that their kink stems from psychological damage, but I am now convinced it does. In most cases, anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Block these fuckboysI must say I do wonder why a lot of the 'fuckboys' and other LVM are not capable of typing out even one normal sentence. And why do women even exchange messages with these types? Or are their OLD profiles the epitome of eloquence?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultEven when my ex and I were sharing household and groceries cost, and we decided together that we were going to have fresh flowers in the house more often, he NEVER bought them but always bitched about it being expensive. I'll just get them for myself now thanks. Worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 07:04 PM |
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