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Pls delete this Edit: Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:40 AM
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After a deeper dive into the research of human sex trafficking, I have shifted my stamce here. Yes you are correct that human trafficking would be a huge problem. All the literature I have read so far agrees with this sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:51 AM
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In places where prostitution is legal, for example in Amsterdam, there isn’t a flux of women wanting to become prostitutes. There’s only about 20,000 prostitutes in Amsterdam.. Even in legal ass Netherlands, there’s still a sstigma to sex work. Fair enough. Can not argue with that. Women would not sign up en masse. Not necessarily due to the stigma, a lot of women just don’t want to sell their bodies. There’s only about 1 million onlyfans creators in a country of 100 million. It doesn't need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:54 PM
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Are in the west? Casual sex isn’t stigmatized in America For women it is, "Sluts and whores and thots". Not as it used to be, but it still is. Either way, both sides feed into my argument. Prostitution is. It’s stigmatized everywhere, except areas that are really, really poor and even then it still kinda is. Yes, because its illegal. But just like pot smoking, when they society realize it isnt hurting anyone, prostitution will be destigmatize or at least re evaluated in society view. I actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:20 AM
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Casual sex is "stigmatized" and that does not stop people from having alot of random sex. In this case women lol. Just think about it for a second. In American society , alot of women are having causal sex....for free. Even with the stigmation, NOW they can legally get paid for it....???? It will be wide spread regardless how we feel about it. Edit: The more I think about it. The more i see it being a -not so good- thing for women with "morals". Any boyfriend, husband, FWB anything, can at any p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:32 AM
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Yes in this environment. But with it legalized and more destigmatized, women would be alot more open to doing prostitution, especially discreetly and as a side gig. It doesn't even have to be a profession. I can see plenty of women doing it a couple times when times get rough, an easy buck, or just for fun. Like an exmaple: A friend of a friend offers you 200 bucks for some sex during a group night out. He's not bad looking, and you are somewhat comfortable around him since he is a familiar face…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:05 AM
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Yeah. I remember when onlyfans was like 40 bucks a month. A year later, some of the woman are now charging "discounts" at 5 a month. With same or lower subscription base.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:34 AM
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IMO, if it be becomes legalized, prices would decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:29 AM
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I mean for the most part I agree. But I definitely do think its different for men and women when it comes to achieving orgasms. I cant quite articulate it thought tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:51 PM
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Not trying to say that this pertains to your situation, but bad hand jobs (unless they hurt) is always better than no handjob. Guys cumming is usually mainly mental with stimulation (any stimulation, really) Guys like to be touched lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:34 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:11 AM
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Idc what women do with their bodies. Thats their right. But I can judge you if I want. Lol. Thats something you cannot control. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:54 AM
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Only the sith deals in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:02 PM
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Should you just break yourself in half just to accept partner's lack of attraction? You are assuming a partners lack of attraction. It can be literally anything. Significant percentage of men deem this important. Yes, alot of men who either A. Want to, but cannot get laid, freaky sex or alot of sex from multiple partners. Or B. Men who follow a strict set of morals whom expect the same for their future partner. From what I've notice, its usually A.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:38 PM
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I actually like that better lmfao its a bit snarky to the wrong person and actually more defined and true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:53 PM
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Thats not fear, thats insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:52 PM
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First of all, only weak and insecure men actually care about how many guys you've slept with Not insecure nor weak, but dont really want a women who fucked alot of people. Second, if this is continuously happening it sounds more like you're picking shit guys. Don't date shitty guys. Lol because shit guys got "im a shit guy" tattooed across their forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:48 AM
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Do it when you're comfortable, it's not as if there aren't enough men out there. 100% agreed Honestly, don't give a shit about what men think about you putting out soon enough Well thats a bit extreme IMO. It sounds good to not give a shit about what others think, but to an extent you should have some sort of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:41 AM
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Which is a retarded to always think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:38 AM
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What guy are you having sex with after a cup of coffee date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:37 AM
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Orrrrr just hear me out, orrrrrrr they are just horny and want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:10 AM
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This is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:35 AM
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Projecting, victim mentality, and deflection. Go seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:05 AM
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Individuals as yourself need to go to therapy. The Incels, femcels and extremist on this sub need professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:25 AM
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You said when “people” say this but I’d bet anything you meant when “women” say this, You sound like the incels on this sub. I said what I meant. If was about women, Id make it clear. Go look at my post history. I attack both genders where I feel they go wrong. Then grow out of your victim mentality, believing everything is about oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:58 AM
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Misogynist? The word loses its meaning when you throw it for every little thing like the race card. Also, there is nothing I said that is misogynist, I refered to both sexes. Nice try though. Sex workers can’t feed their ego. If they know they had to pay for it they don’t get the satisfaction of knowing she chose him above other men to have sex with You...agreeing with me? Lol because thats part of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:13 AM
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Everyone is different. No doubt about that. I was speaking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:38 PM
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Her flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:18 PM
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Not everyone gets to have these options. Yes to an extent. If you are an average man, you can acquire chicks from average to below average as fuck buddies or potential LTR if you have your shit together. Its below average men that complain alot, which is always about the sex. It's about whether it's my thing. It's about whether a person gets the same treatment as their partner's ex. This is silly. Life isn't some robotic ass system "we have 3 dates then sex or if you give 1 one you must give to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:17 PM
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but if he’s 40 dating someone who’s 20 he has some other problems … Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:57 PM
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Then whats stopping you? If I wanted marriage, a husband , a diamond ring, food on demand, shoes, dresses etc I could get it at the snap of a finger. No lie. TBH when people say this, I usually default to believing its a lie or not entirely true. Men could in theory get sex with a snap of a finger (sex worker) but these subs exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:55 PM
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Tbh dude, if she makes you want then so what? Wait it out. That doesn't mean to LTR while waiting nor does it mean you can't have sex with other women. I never understood this with this sub. If a woman im about to start seeing is making me "wait" for sex for her terms then I dont really care. Chances are, I have another chick on speed dail that I've already did the waiting (Whether it was 1 date or 6 months) ready to fuck if its that important. If you argue that casual sex isn't really your thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:48 PM
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Thats BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:33 AM
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Lol okay? And?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:59 PM
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Well yeah I said that lol, I gave 2 factors affecting house work. You just combined them both. But I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:14 PM
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I do agree many men take the lay back approach. But its definitely not theory. Like for me on a personal level, I 'technically' do more chores around the house in comparison to my GF. I clean (she does too but not as much as I do), I do dishes, take out trash, wash both our clothes (she folds her own clothes because I hate folding so I only fold my own), and food shopping (I carry this bill alone). She cooks most of the time, cleans when im burnt out from work (like once a week or every 2 weeks)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:30 PM
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Even if earnings is more, its the time spent at work the biggest factor. The second factor would be how income is distributed. For example: Person A works 40 hours and makes 100k, person B makes 65k and works 40 hours. Bills are split 50/50. So chores should be split 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:11 PM
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I will also like to point out that hours spent doing something doesn't equate to efficiency. Edit: And quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:00 PM
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Then dont date a SAHM? Just like you wouldn't date a gold digger. If a dude falls for that scam then let him. I still laugh at younger people who fell for Nigerian prince scam back in the 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:53 PM
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What does the standard man bring to the table? If a woman has a good job and can support herself independently, and a man has a good job and can support himself independently, why do men feel like in a relationship the woman MUST carry the load of housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:49 PM
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Ew who have you been dating lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:45 PM
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Nursing is NOT easy. Not even close. I rather work my old "dangerous" job than be a nurse bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:33 PM
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Whatever works for you. But so far in good relationships, you never feel like you are taking care of someone. Infact it would be both of you taking care of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:32 PM
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In that situation, why shouldn't they say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:29 PM
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Then thats perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:45 AM
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Yes. Men and women should NOT care. Thats why women and men should be honest about their past from the beginning. You give your potential partner to decide if they are still right for you. Its the manipulation, being intentionally misleading or down right lying about the past that is first problem. The second would be the rude reaction from telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:31 AM
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Give me a real life example of what you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:11 PM
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Because you cannot stop people from judging you. Its human nature. Judging only becomes a problem if it directly places you in a inferior state, places a professional disadvantage, or puts you in danger. We judge everyday. Don’t marry a woman who isn’t a virgin and then drive her crazy with your paranoia and judgements. Don't be disingenuous. You know exactly the problem men have. Women should be upfront and honest with their past if asked (to a partner or potential) or at the very least say the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:44 AM
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You are literally judging men who care about their partners (or potential partner) sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:55 AM
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Funny how people always want to be given a pass for their own skeletons while actively judging everyone else. But thats exactly what you are doing as well. IMO Judging of character is natural. Thats what we do as humans. There are some things we judge more differently than others and we tend to do it as a individual or in a societal level. It can sometimes be a genderized thing. If men or women feel that a high body count is a no no prospect for ther goal of LTR, then I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:45 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:03 AM
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What makes it non consensual?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:47 AM
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This is delusion lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:55 AM
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You do allot shit daily that you not in the mood to do but do it, and you draw the line at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:21 PM
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Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:21 PM
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Isn't the issue tho that they cant keep their men? Don't men have standards too, past physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:29 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:22 AM
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What does it mean to be anti feminist? Like the opposite of of feminism such as taking women rights away? Or as in not believing there is a 'major' discrepancy in the rights between men and women. I never quite understood it. No sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:18 AM
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Althought the source is very interesting. I do not find the part where it states that 95% of women pass their genes throughtout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:13 AM
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Dam bro you got some low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:56 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:51 AM
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If you want sexual variety that much get cheap hookers. Job done. I mean, men do that too. But some men do care about some sort of emotional connection or validation that they are a bit more special than other men and that usually ends with sex. Thats how sex kind of means to us. Its a mix of "You win! A women actually wants to have sex with you!" and "I get sex and sex feels great". But the disconnect happens when Long term partnership plays a role. To achieve what I said above doesn't take too…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:04 PM
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But for him to have a standard for her implies that he objectively views such in a negative light. I disagree. Having a standard is about quality. There is no difference in quality between a women with high n count to low n count (although some guys here will disagree). One likes sex with others more and it has nothing to do with the individual. Thats it. Alot of guys shame high count women when they themselves dont hold the same standard in their own moral compass, and those are your targeted "…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:21 PM
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Its not textbook hypocrisy. As ive stated before, its what "he" is attracted to, not a moral standard. If a guy claims otherwise, then you have a point. But for the most part it is highly unattractive to LTR a woman with a "high" body count hy·poc·ri·sy /həˈpäkrəsē/ noun the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense. If you have nothing against people sleeping around, and you see nothing morally wrong with the sex culture (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:58 PM
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You can make whatever standards you want. Life is fluid like that. But the fact you believe it HAS to be a 1 on 1 equal relationship between sexes IMHO is silly. Women and men naturally different. Shoot everyone woman is different from the next woman and the same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:33 PM
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Its not hypocritical unless you carry it as a moral standard. I don't think any less of women who likes to sleep around. That is their choice. I am just highly attractive to low count women. It has nothing to do with myself and my body count which can be high or low. I also like women with big butts, I am NOT a hypocritic because I do not have a big butt myself but am attracted to big butt. Or here is a finer example, what if I am a low body count guy looking for a high count partner, does that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:22 PM
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Women with low body counts to alot of men is attractive. It has minimal to do with themselves and their reasons for that standard is irrelevant to argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:37 AM
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Lmfao you can call me whatever you want. I dont live whatever way this sub expects me to be. You need a cheat sheet in life? Do whatever makes you happy. I dont give a shit lol. What i got working for me....works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:20 AM
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You see and thats where I differ. Its not a "higher" lifestyle. No ones lifestyle is superior to the others. With that being said, its perfectly normal to have standards or preferences for a partner opposite of that you don't hold yourself , nor does it make it hypocritical (some of the time). I like to clean more than cook. My partner likes to cook more than cleaning. I may like chubby chicks, and a chubby chick shouldn't be called a hypocrite if she dates a fit man just because she herself is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:51 AM
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This...is simply aint true. If I find chubby chicks attractive, doesn't mean I should be chubby or im a hypocrite. Atrraction is none negotiable. Men tend to find low body count women highly attractive (amongst other things). Their reasoning shouldn't be up for debate because its simply it is what it is. Just like short dudes gonna argue to death about its hypocrisy that women like taller men. Its attractive to many. Nothing you can really do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:54 AM
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Well my LTR (a woman) should beable to provide in the future as well. Paying for her half shows she has disposable income and some sort of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:33 AM
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What exactly makes a 30 year old dating a 20 year old bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:33 AM
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Lol okay dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:12 PM
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So far, it seems like the dudes be folding quicker than the chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:35 PM
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Okay....episodes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:02 PM
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Episode?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:09 PM
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What? Are you retarded or intentionally being disingenuous just to feed your own ego. Aint no where did I defend him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:36 PM
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To retort what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:34 PM
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Your source doesnt prove anything. He was NOT RP or apart of it. Black pill is frown upon in TRP and is consider apart of this "manosphere". If ANYTHING he was apart of that extreme group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:33 PM
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You responding to my message downplaying violence on men, is the same thing as saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:30 PM
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Sure, that means that we dont count. Yayyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:02 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:59 AM
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Whats funny about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:40 AM
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What TRP man killed a women?!?!??! Where is violence and physical abuse even mention in TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:55 AM
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Women too. Its just reported alot less by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:50 AM
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FDS = Demand nothing short of a fairy tale fantasy, regardless of their own self value. TRP = Accept reality for what they perceive it to be, and beat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:01 AM
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Men have no choice but to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:26 AM
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Or all the above?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:25 AM
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Whats small?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:27 PM
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Yo im a dude (straight), and when i watched squid games i was like dammm thats one pretty looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:34 PM
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You know them dudes butthurt. Give em some slack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:13 PM
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Are you young or a teen? I aint spend no more than i care about. If i want to hang i hang. If i want to eat out ill plan to eat out. If i want to do it with a chick then ill do it. They care about me paying but idc cause for 1 im eatting too, and 2, i wouldnt invite them to those if i wasn't planning to pay. If i dont feel like doing a dinner date then I dont and offer something else that I planned to do anyways. I make money and if i decided ima spend 200 tonight then fuck it its part of what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:44 PM
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What? What part did you hear she didnt? If she doesnt then i dont give a fuck? I dont live for pussy, you dummy. If a chick want to take 1 day to 3 months to fuck me i dont care. Chances is she isn't my only pussy supply and im already fucking other chicks that i already went all that shit with already. New chick is just me adding another one or replacing a old one who fell off. Unless you a dude that fucks 1 person at a time then you have a point. And im assuming you are that way since you auto…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:32 AM
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Idk why alot of guys get butthurt over this. In the world of dating, if she making you wait then idgaf. I'd probably still will be fucking my FWB or finding more dates on the meantime. Ya'll not exclusive. And if she is the real deal for LTR down the road and she also too wants you for LTR then drop your side chicks and officially link up with her. It aint that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:40 AM
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Nah dude its not optimism, this is life. Im at the age where people either are finally marrying or divorcing. Some people I know have kids, some are paying child support some isn't. And trust me based of experience, its NOT as extreme as the internet makes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:25 PM
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Dude the stuff you read here are the loudest of the bunch. Usually ESPECIALLY now and days, it is fair. Prenup does work if done correctly, and don't marry some dumb bitch with no job. Also many states are fair with regards to child support, especially if you have 50 50 custody. And that is being granted almost 90% of the time. Alot of information you find usually is made up, or men who got the shit end of the stick because they didnt either protect themselves, didnt even try to contest it, or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:03 PM
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Bro no. How can a women in any way be a problem to you? Any rule you'll apply to men you dont trust, you apply to women. They aren't much harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:08 AM
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Shh be quiet. Yall be fucking up the game when it work in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:07 AM
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Whats wrong with what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:02 AM
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Well acceptable is subjective. To some it can be 3, to others it can be higher like 20. Age is also a factor. To me personally it will be below 30 if i was looking for a woman in my age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:14 AM
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Men find women with lowbody counts attractive. Especially if he searching for a LTR. Nothing hypocritical about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:37 AM
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Eh thats subjective mate lol. As Jay Z famously said..."I got 99 problems but a bitch aint 1"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:11 AM
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Dont leave me hangin brah. Im all for the bros
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:26 AM
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Fall in love with LIFE, fall in love with yourself. Not women or cars and shit. None of that shit matters. Treat your body good. Workout(I do 3-4 times a week), eat right (I try and incorporate healthy foods here and there). Do good at work, and strive to make more money or advance (Just got a raise). Invest (TESLA IS HOT RIGHT NOW) and travel (Going to DR in jan). Pick something new and learn it (mines is spanish). LOVE LIFE. Pussy will come. The moment I stop chasing it to get laid, the more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:56 PM
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Are men not capable of the same thing? (Other than paternity fraud). You have a higher chance of getting fucked over by a man in your life than you do a women. What Im trying to say is, women isn't the root of our problems here. I remember when I at core believed all those things you said. Then once I realized IM in control of my happiness. Bitches want to cheat? Cool im out. Lie? Cool im out. Nag? Cool I aint got to listen. Once you realize that you are in more control than you believe. Life ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:44 PM
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Like what? It seems like you need to learn reading. Please quote. Unlike yourself I read the entire article.I also cross referenced researched what the categories men watched the most on pornhub in 2019, and you can not even be any more wrong than you are. Stop cherry picking and open your dam eyes. You are doing yourself a disservice for all dudes bro. Stop trying to be right to discredit women because you can't figure them out. LISTEN to them. LEARN from them. Adapt and overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:49 PM
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Those 2 aren't directly related. You can have an acceptable body count and be kinky and all that spaz.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:58 PM
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How ironic....did you even read your own source? Lmfao!!!!! Let me guess, you read one paragraph and assumed it was close enough? Lesbian is the highest searched by women. Along with pussying licking amoung other things. The TOP kinky searches like alien and such is NOT singled out to women, but in porn searches generally. Funny thing is men are the dominate demographic of those porn users. Reread the article boo boo. Stop with the shit. Men are just as bad as women. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:37 PM
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Don't exaggerate. Flat chest pornstars may have a market but it is no where as dominate as one of the most searched categories on pornhub. Which is big ass and big tits. Anything else beating it is usually a fetish as creampie or fantasy like step mom. Small tits dont even make the cut on the highest searched list. Men and women do the SAME shit in their own way. Yall need to get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:19 AM
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Your point in reference to my original comment? I dont see how this is even a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:57 AM
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Source? Because I think what you say is not only irrelevant to what we was dicussing, but BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:56 AM
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Men want to watch women get poked by big penises....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:35 AM
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Don't be obtuse. Majority og the user base is male
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:34 AM
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Men: "Tits and ass do not matter" Also men: Big tiddies and ass is one of the most searched on google and pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:57 PM
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Men do the same shit. The world is balanced as thanos wants
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:06 AM
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Yeah yall go fuck some air. Ill stick to the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:48 AM
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Lol good sex is mostly mental. And if you're unappealing aka physical unattractive, then it make them less interested in sex. Yes therr are other factors but physical attraction is a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:02 PM
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Then that sounds like you feel you're one side of the equation (beta who get sloppy seconds) instead of looking at it from being on both sides of the equation (Dude who got random BJ from chicks behind clubs, but later settled and married a women who was right for him)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:14 PM
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Im telling you, i definitely wasn't wish washy. I told my intentions straight up and it seriously changed after the sex. And internal feelings definitely didnt decide whether or not I slept with them, that was my penis talking. But im a firm believer after my current girlfriend, that somewhere deep in your subconscious, it is that who picks whom you going to have deeper feelings for after sex. Ever had amazing sex, but didnt get attached? But had lukewarm to good sex and for some odd reason you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:04 PM
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And women are upfront with wanting a relationship. And guys can 100% be upfront about sex. That aint the problem. But if you no get sex, you can't get mad. Pretty simple And ALWAYS remember, behind every locker room BJ, there is a dude behind that cock. Probably a dude who was upfront, attractive or fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:59 AM
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I see what you're saying, I know what lust is. But Im telling you, it was feelings, like I actually cared for the individuals and did respect them. I even pictured myself with a relationship with them and being around them felt great. They really didnt have any red flags. So essentially there was literally no rational reason for me to say "this isnt going to work out". But for some dam reason after that first time having sex (which ranged for bad to amazing), I just didn't want to be in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:46 AM
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Lmfao have you seen how many guys literally throw themselves at women they find attractive enough to fuck, which is like 80% of women? Men and women are both inconsistent, just in different areas of the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:25 AM
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I don't disagree entirely, but personally there is has been plenty of times I thought I had feelings for a chick, told her how i felt, clapped her cheeks and them rose tinted glasses came off and I realized I didn't like her as much as I did. Like post nut clarity but add some black magic feelings in that soon went away. I felt really bad about it afterwards, cause I just simply didn't like them as much anymore with no fault of their own. And tbh I feel alot of men go through the same thing. Wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:00 AM
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Thats not entirely true either, for it to be a "match" then the woman (who thinks the guy is attractive) would have to match with them too. The app is designed so it requires 2 to tango. That process you describe above only "affects" unattractive women who wouldnt have other wise got the match if the guy wasn't spam swiping on every female, granted the average women isnt paying for tinder gold to see who has liked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:50 AM
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Disappointed at the market? Lol I mean if you're a fan of WNBA then by all means go support them. I root for all fans to support their teams. But If you not, then people telling you that you must be because its a woman hating thing is ridiculous.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 04:22 PM
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We are talking about the given subject...
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 03:30 PM
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Except you, the unhappy one lmfao.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 11:27 AM
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I agree with another user. Child support its needed, but should be reformed
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 10:37 AM
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People want to see the best play. Its not women vs men, is good players vs the best players. People want to see the BEST players, so they will watch and support them instead
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 07:10 AM
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I loled at "better deal"
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/21 06:49 AM
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Eh, it happens more than you think. I work a job where most guys are around 40+ and married and somehow still manage to pick up chicks 35 and younger. Lowest ive seen was around mid 20s. (And yes they are cheating and its wrong i know)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:40 AM
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Women and men cheat for virtually the same reasons and around the same frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:44 AM
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Nah fuck that dude, theres always justifications and exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:13 AM
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Being a door mat doesn't mean feminine just as much as being masculine means being a arrogant aggresive douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:31 PM
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Eh, I only use that because a small population of women uses it. But I do agree that romance novel isnt a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:14 PM
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Dammm they getting fat holy shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:24 PM
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Personally I couldnt give a shit what women choose to do, let them! They should be free to do what they want to do. But sexual market always corrects itself. Men decide whats attractive in women, women decide whats attractive in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:08 AM
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Nah you straight. Let them sit there and play victim all day. Its easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:29 AM
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DM me Edit: Im a dude, ill be straight up with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:00 AM
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Lol dam yo, those dudes salty af you wont assist in letting 1 friend smash the other. They seriously arguing that it is your job to play matchmaker, as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:57 AM
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For majority of people, usually the person they end up with (good relationship or bad) is their second choice or not their original option. To me, If you make it pretty obvious I was a back up plan, then thats fine. You'll lose being my first option for commitment. Ill smash if you let me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:53 AM
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Porn to men is just as deadly as Erotic literature or social media is to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:46 AM
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I bet you, you not as bad looking as you think and dont realized your incel is ironically more of a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:27 AM
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Um I think we already agree with that? In no way men should have rights when it comes to abortions. That was never an issue in my arguement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:30 AM
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What are you even talking about? Did you make up an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:10 PM
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I don't know how to quote over mobile But the child isnt being taken away from its mother, its living with the breadwinner while the other parent shares custody rights. All of that stuff is over dramatic for the situation. If thats the case, on the reverse side, the child automatically being awarded to the mother is a tragic for the father. The child isn't being stolen from a parent. The child will live with the parent who is more suitable financially. As you argued that being financially stable…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:42 PM
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Lmfao where the hell do you live that a "crappy" 2 bedroom apartment cost 2400. I live around NYC in a 2 bedroom apartment thats around 2k. In Jersey you can get a nice 2 bedroom in a decent neighborhood for 1200-1600 and still have access to public transit if need be. And ill give you daycare, its around 1200 where Im at but its definitely a GOOD daycare. As a male, im not paying that unless my child actually attends daycare. So that shouldn't be calculated in child-support unless the child act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:58 PM
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Don't word choke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:27 PM
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I only use minox from those 2 and a small amount. The real growth came with dermarolling and scalp massaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:19 PM
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Dermarolling 1.5mm per week, minox in a mix of essential oils, and nirozal (i believe thats how you spell it) and scalp massage when im bored (helps with blood flow). Started seeing picture different results at the 2nd month, and clear regrowth where other people notice around the 4th month mark. Took about a year to have a good set of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:17 PM
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There is complications from pregnacy that can last years....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:14 PM
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Thats the point i was making, its the same symptoms as being pregnant, without the actual pregnancy taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:34 PM
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And as a previous bald guy which runs in the guy side of my family, if its genetic its fightable. Source: Went from bald to full set of hair with aggressive hair treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:08 PM
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Lmfao yeah that dude buggin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:56 AM
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What you described can also be symptoms of being pregnant. Your story sounds reachy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:40 AM
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I'm comparing biology to biology. In that retrospect, its what the body was designed to do, so yes its comparable in my response. And I would 100% be for a "pre" child support system after conception and before child birth if abortion was completely abolished. It would completely not be fair to would be mothers if it was any other way. Lastly I'm all for abortion. Doesn't bother me like it may some religious nut, however the with the current system and how things are, the child support system NE…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:10 AM
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Consent to sex is a consent for pregnancy, thats the biological process. I consent to eat, but dont consent to shitting but I still shit. And yes that logic dies mean the father is would be consenting to child support when he nuts and conception is proven (With DNA evidence proving he is the father), but that means on the same note you would have to decide that a baby is a baby at conception which means abortion should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:38 AM
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I agree with the person you was debating with. Child support needs reform. There needs to be a "max" that caps out regardless of income. No child cost 3k a month. Also, there should be a government card issued to the would-be child support payer that allows their spending to his children be tracked and documented. Tbh if finances is such a big issue, then custody should be given to breadwinner since they can easily provide a better life than the individual who is closer to poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:37 AM
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Bro what? Unions?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:51 AM
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Yes she is taking risk, a risk she decided to take by staying pregnant, which should not reflect the responsibility of the guy. She has ample options, before conception, avoiding conception, after conception and options after child birth. Men JUST have options in avoiding conception. They DO not any decision after conception, and their options are already picked for them after child birth (They either stay and raise a baby whether they want to or not, or not raise them and pay a sum amount based…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:55 PM
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The woman also chose to have sex knowing shes the one who gets pregnant and carries the baby to full term. With all the birthcontrol options and abortion, shit even adoption, women have power to decide if children is brought into this world. You cannot say men have equal responsibility while in the same breathe say women should have complete control the moment of conception. Its funny really. A women can GIVE up her responsibilities of raising a child through adoption, no questions asked, no chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:58 PM
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Lol you chosen to raise that child, child support ain't really a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:25 PM
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This reponse is what all men whom "dont get it" need to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:36 PM
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Lol no it aint.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:37 PM
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I mean if the men are a direct cause of the problem then no shit they need to solve it. Anything other than that is no ones responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:18 PM
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Sounds like a men problem then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:19 AM
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I mean to be fair, Ask 5 men have they felt uncomfortable/scared of another man. Chances are if they ego/pride isnt on the line, they will all say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:06 PM
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bro it be the MALE judges that gove them those sentence. Sounds like a bro problem to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:01 PM
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Good for you 👍. But given that there's a manosphere and a rp community to begin with we can assume that most mom's didn't do their jobs. Lol and fathers just dont exist? Where were they? What was their job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:39 PM
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I aint gonna lie brother, I can't agree with you on this one. I had girls that either both started as not interested or semi that went full on interested when they found out I was studying to be a programmer. Now that I am in it, it is worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 12:32 PM
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Lmfao thats what some guys feel about fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:41 AM
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This sounds ignorant. You telling me as a man you had no power at all, especially before she got pregnant? Suddenly your responsibility before she got pregnant doesn't exist. A man has ALL the power before pregnancy, you are responsible of your own birth control. The MOMENT you get a woman pregnant, you are on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:05 PM
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So women just asexually reproduce and then pick a father? Im not understanding the disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:50 PM
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Thats a win win for many men. However Men should hold some sort of responsibility for knocking up a chick. Men sitting here pretending women get pregnant by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:46 PM
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Nah fam, the trick is to show alittle bit emotions and vulnerability. Definitely not on the level as a women, but just enough for you to mentally feel better and make your woman feel more connected to you. Also, you need to show just emotion that it is understandable to whatever its about, ie my emotional output is entirely different from my dog dying to lets say a family member. When my cat died, I cried like a little child, but i did it alone. Infront of my girlfriend, I showed some grief and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:41 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:34 AM
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Maybe we have different ideas of bottom of the barrel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:27 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:51 AM
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His big tiddie goth girl fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:48 AM
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They doomed in a sense that they will not have what others are having, sure. If any group whether it be below average women and below average men, works on themselves in different aspects of their life, their social and sex life WILL improve, just not on the level they are expecting. As for the bottom of the barrel, well they are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:32 AM
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This comment too extreme man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:27 AM
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Why you gotta come in here and ruin the fun? Being all adult and shit......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:25 AM
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Dam son why you roasting them, I loled. Besides, I peeped some ugly mother fuckers on Asktrp and TRP too. So its kinda balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:23 AM
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Lol HVM and HVW would not be on subreddits whining about how they get burnt or attract low quality humans all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:17 AM
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Cant disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:14 PM
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Because they LVM. If they were HVM, they would have options and wouldnt give 2 shits what anyones says. HVM could get a slut, or submissive woman, or FDS'ers or combination. The men who are scared are worried their already limited supply of pussy (if any) about to dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:29 PM
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I like that: Mutual simping lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:25 PM
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Its only gay if you think about other cock while you are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:24 PM
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That counter arguement doesnt make sense. Women: Dont men do the same shit women do? Men: yeah but women LOVE IT when we do it Lmfao wut
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:22 PM
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You a FDS'er. But after that comment you go in my book as one of the good ones lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:19 PM
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I think he is saying, HVM can too make loopsided rules and expectations just as women in FDS can just because they are favored in the market. HVM has options, and if he could choose, he can have everything good in a FDS'er PLUS additional loopsided agreements. In one case this can be that his prefers more submissive women. Yes everyone falls inlove. But I dont think anyone falls in love with a person with their idea on partnership based on a list of rules and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:14 PM
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Dam fam you gonna die single AND a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:58 AM
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Yeah yeah lol and men do not love younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:43 PM
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But how the hell does that affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:22 AM
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Lol your signature next to your username is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:35 AM
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Well yeah, thats the point isnt it? Women create these rules and standards revolving around sex, and this guy, this bloke here was special enough to break them all and have sex with her. It makes him feel somewhat special.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:09 PM
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False pretenses, IE. Breaking the law.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/21 12:07 PM
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Bro, thats no where near the same circumstances.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/21 12:04 PM
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Lol no
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/21 11:14 AM
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I totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:00 PM
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We will never move on past it because the general idea that men and women are equal in every way shape and form and should be treated as such is inherently incorrently. Men and women are different on every level. We should treated equally and given equal opportunity but everything is going to be based on the gender roles and personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:04 PM
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Women aren't expected to give up their life to support their husband/kids anymore than men in todays society. If anything, being a stay at home parent is an OPTION more so to women than man. Many men do not get that option. It is more socially acceptable to choose to be SAHP for women or career oriented than men. I never understood how that arguement became a sign of oppression in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:29 AM
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I aint even going to lie, lowkey I did carry that mis information about how massive amount of men get crushed during divorces involving alimony and child support, however you citing im assuming correct information about it does put my mind at ease. Do you have a source for this so I can look into further (Im not the original responder) Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:36 AM
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Well of course society doesn't care, because society (men) cares more if women do. As all things free, the market balances. When men stop being thirst buckets about sex and have standards like women, then you'll see a shift to a more neutral stance. Until then, blame men for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:57 AM
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100% agreed and your words should be printed on this subs sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:26 PM
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I dont know how to quote on mobile, but anywho, Yes you care for your partners wants and needs, and sex is not needed to who you love them, then they are friends or family. So a husband you dont have sex with is a friend? Business partner? What are they. Where is the balance. What seperates HIM and your FRIENDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:17 PM
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Thats fair, but that doesn't exactly disprove the importance of sex in a relationship. Fuck buddies exists (kind of the opposite of those asexual/aromatic types), and that is a type of relationship. The point im trying to explain is, there has to be a healthy balance. If sex is lacking or the relationship is a deadbedroom, the dynamic of the relationship changes. And if its not the type of relationship you originally signed up for, I can see why men are frustrated. Its the similar to the "other"…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:10 PM
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Its not the primary thing, but its definitely a big component for men. Its like saying being romantic and affectionate or caring (what women mostly look forward to in a relationship) shouldnt be the primary thing keeping a relationship together. Because it isnt needed to love someone. When you strip sex from the relationship with your partner, then you just are friends, no? And nice to see ya around O.G vet lillth! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah, yall fucked lol. Women get no breaks. But look on the bright side, its really the low value men who screams all that the most. And yall don't want LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:22 AM
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Because they can, their body is a business. And if their insane standards still net them good money, the problem isnt them, its the men who are willing to accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:15 AM
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Bedding women isnt some static quadratic formula that if you are high value, you get any women you want. Thats what women have been saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:15 AM
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Cause men. Sex work will always be big. Even for high valued men, they will be a commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:35 PM
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Aye whatever floats your boat lol, theres is definitely a market with those type of guys in there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:45 PM
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This is definitely a "type" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:32 PM
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Dont even bother. Your list is pretty much valid. Incels only trying to tear it apart because they need fuel to confirm their victim mentally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:28 PM
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Bro, all she did was went into great detail her ideal partner. None of her bullet points are unreasonable any man could do it. Just being a mature, respectable and financial stable and you hit all those points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:22 PM
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Fuck I shouldn't have clicked that link, now im about to cheat lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:16 AM
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Incels hate women and wanna fuck. Trpers loves yalm for who yall are. I mean its what I at least get from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:14 AM
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Is your perfect english getting you laid? Lol or you making post on how you a virgin and its womens fault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:56 PM
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You used your own experience as an representation of all cat calling done by men. That was literally your post to the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:19 AM
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Ill do that after you get your first girlfriend. Edit: Needed english textbook
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:08 PM
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I definitely do agree that your value is also influenced off your location or surroundings. Average height in NBA is around 6'7 but the national height average is 5'9ish. So a 6 foot guy in the NBA would be below average but above average in a regular setting. I agree its all relative. There is NOTHING wrong with you. The sexual market is a market. Supply and demand. And unfortunately in the US, there is a demand for taller men in the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:37 PM
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I aint no alpha, but its funny how yall come at women for having victim mentalities while screeching that victims yourselves. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:27 PM
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Cause they not average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:48 PM
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Shut your victim incel ass up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:47 PM
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Of course, the i get their n count from girls ive personally met and confirmed. Their count is an estimate based off the infomation Ive gather over the years and may not directly from them. Like the girl saying hes a good fuck, or videos of him smashing etc etc their bodie count could be alot more from girls ive known them to hang out with but never asked or got confirmation if they actually hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 12:04 PM
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Well if you read my comment, i mentioned it could really mean anything. Alot to a person can be 3, alot to another can be 100. Its relative. But the average Male not getting laid? Thats actually not correct. You would have to be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:38 AM
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Im a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:35 AM
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Also to add to the other commenter, can it also be voluntary? Isnt MGTOW a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:34 AM
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Its easier to be victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:30 AM
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Well your social life is BELOW average, enough to affect your sex life. You're in a sense below average cause man woman cant meet you, or can even know of your existence! But your case falls in the "work on yourself" category, you are investing in yourself, so the future you will hopefully have more time and money to focus more on your social life. Keep doing you! Im rooting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:23 AM
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Average in UK, is average in UK, average in America is average in America, average in NYC is the average in NY, its all relative to your surroundings and other factors. So I definitely agree with that Of course saying the "average" male is an imprecise term, but the sub coined it and uses it as a generalization that average male isn't getting laid, hence why I used it as a counter that the "average male", is getting laid, that you must be below average. And what im aguring is the average male ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:15 AM
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I think you put alot of emphasis on word "awkward", which is probably my fault. But being very sociable, and social calibrated is a key quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:02 AM
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My generalization is attacking another generalization. Im actually not understanding your angle here, what are you arguing? Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:57 AM
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Well, what does it mean to you? Cause "alot" means whatever you want it to mean. Alot to me would be maybe 30-40 body count for men, and 50-60 for women in ages late 20s early 30s. and even then it wouldn't consider it alot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:52 AM
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Yup, said the same thing too. To be fair, we need them to exist. They make us others stand out lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:50 AM
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Well shit dont tease me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:09 AM
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But according to you, you'd rent the house thats on fire tho lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:27 AM
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Well shit yall got some high ass standards, cause id fuck all the way into the 40s percentage lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:25 AM
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Are you intentionally being obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:50 AM
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Thats fair. Thats why I believe everyone should be open and communicate from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:58 AM
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But you have time to make posts and start entire threads on FDS bashing men? Then you say my assumptions are baseless Lol Btw I get pussy, that aint no problem lmfao. So to me you kind of look butthurt at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:56 AM
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Lol, arent you subbed to a group of a bunch of pumped dumped aging women whose butthurt men don't stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:44 PM
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I tell what im looking for if the discussion comes up. If women are using sex as a tool to gain a relationship, then that sounds like their problem tbh. Have sex with people you want to have sex with, with no back door contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:20 PM
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This is the only answer needed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:51 PM
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Reddit friends give reddit advice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:25 AM
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Well Ill agree saying "need" is sort of word choking, it is most definitely important. Its like saying being "romantic" or building "connections" isnt a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:28 AM
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Kinda like the massive amount of sex men was getting from the beginning of the relationship, they expect that same energy. Its silly to say things should be exactly as it was in the beginning of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:23 AM
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So we've come to a full circle, nice guys suck, thats why trp preaches against it. And fat women are not attractive universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:39 AM
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You must not have been to FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:28 AM
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I wouldnt call it stupid, but more so that its outdated and needs to be reformed
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/21 08:59 PM
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Or brazzers
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/21 07:04 AM
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I can see that. Can't really argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:03 PM
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Because maturity level is relevant if LTR is your goal. If its sex, youthfulness and attractiveness are the go to. So if a 50 year old man is attracted to a much younger women, he is looking more at it from a sex point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:09 PM
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So what? If its a strategy that would NOT work to HVM, then it doesn't matter if every women knew about it. The sexual market has a balance. Be high value, and this will not be a bother to you. Let the market correct itself. Thats my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:07 AM
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It wouldnt matter if they was FDS or not, if any person pulled that, they wouldnt be ideal partners. Thats why don't understand the hate for it. Like, go ahead show me your true colors early on so I dont waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:18 AM
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Then she wasnt HVW lol, shed just be a hypocrite. Is that your ideal HVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:36 AM
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Yeah but if he is HVM, wouldnt he too be spinning plates while waiting to fuck this particular girl? Assuming she of high value, the wait wouldn't be such a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:31 AM
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A HVM would never have to let women know he has options. It would be normal to him, and the energy (or confidence) he carries will indrectly let women know too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:06 AM
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They are, but unfortunately they aren't the primary traits men look for in a partner, I would say high in the secondary traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:19 AM
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If we weren't a civilized society based of technology and administration, yup. Men would have loads of babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:26 AM
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I completely understand the strategy you imply, and the reason for it, but isnt that exactly what trp preaches? Your standards for FWB was lower because all he needed to do was be attractive. Okay makes sense. This individual was able to have sex with you despite not being compatible with you in the long run. Okay got it. Now your future husband comes along, whom I am going to assume is also attractive, but also too has boyfriend like qualities. He clearly passes the attractive test, so you guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:45 AM
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No, thats not what im refering too. You do not owe anyone sex. No one. But the moment you utilize it as a tactic to get what you want, you become just as bad as men who dangles commitment carrot to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:58 PM
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You are using sex a weapon to achieve your goals to secure a relationship. Its the same as a male dangling a relationship carrot to a woman to get sex, the same shtick FDS calls LVM for doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:40 PM
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Sex work should most definitely be taxed. Its a business. Service or product in exhange for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:07 AM
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We need to see a pic of ass to confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:22 PM
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Im sorry to hear that, I hope for a speedy recovery. You stated you're injured from child birth and cant currently work, so it sounds like being a SAHM is your only option. That is your literal job for now. No need to completely blame it on your husband. Also in modern workforce, gaps in unemployment doesn't mean you cannot get a job like it used too. Infact its often not even questioned based of my experience. If you really wanted a job, you'd find one. You should make up a contingency plan. St…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:29 AM
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Lol good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:05 AM
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Thats called life, and that can happen to literally anyone. I rather be HVM with life problems, than LVM with life problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:08 PM
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Knocking some chick up and getting owned in child support isn't what the AVERAGE man aspires to. 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:46 PM
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What? Are you being intentionally obtuse? Those are reasons that is beyond a victims control. Your counter arguement is "Women enjoy sex and if they get pregnant it gives them a free pass to murder". You sound foolish. Im prolife with exceptions. Dont try and make this a black or white matter because it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:46 AM
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Rape, incest or medical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:35 AM
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Not the guy you're responding, but you kind of proven his point. Your entire argument is based on an exception. I'm all for abortion. But if the state illegalized it minus the exceptions, then what other point do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:11 AM
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Yeah I agree with that, if they are going to pay then let em pay, its their fault if they decided it was a unspoken contract to get some play. Men shouldn't go on any date with the pretense that they are owed sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:29 AM
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Yes, that men are responsible for their actions just as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:46 PM
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No it isn't, get a vescetomy, wear a condom, pull out, or straight up don't have sex. You know the risk you take when you have sex, and that risk is the actual purpose for sex. Conception and child breeding. He don't want a kid, don't fucking have sex. Don't want to die from a train accident?, don't get in a fucking train. The moment you have sex, you take that risk of its purpose being fufilled, and you are on the hook for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:27 AM
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I ain't no feminist, shit im not even a female. Its common sense that you are lackin. At what point does men are responsible for protecting their own interest before, and during sex? Because we all know what sex is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:23 AM
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Him not being there isn't the argument right now. He isn't obligated in no way to actually raise a child. The mother is. But he WILL be financially responsible to support his half of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:20 AM
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And the states agree. Just like men shouldn't be having children with women if they don't have a stable income. Thats irresponsible and not something the state should pay for. Seems like both the man and woman is responsible for birthin children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:13 AM
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Thats not equivalent. You're choosing 2 ends of equations and trying to say well a = b equality. Thats incorrect. Your verison where men aren't responsible for the conception of their child leads to men having MANY kids with different women whom they don't need to provide for because well....they said they don't any kids so, ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:10 AM
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Your example of women getting government assistance in addition to each child is flawed. Its not for her, its for the child. Everyone is entitled to government assistance, even yourself. What is different is the children where the amount given is increased. Its not about the women, its about the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:00 AM
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The man doesn't have to be in a relationship with her. Shit he isnt even obligated to actually be a parent or be around. But he will be held on a financial level to provide for the child, because you know....he help create it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:58 AM
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Oh I get it, food stamps is for them to get their hair done, not food. Or could it possibly be for people to get on their feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:48 AM
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And they don't? Is raising a child not a responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:46 AM
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Yes. So where is the disconnection?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:16 AM
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Single mothers aren't a problem. And their baby isnt cash cow for government funds any more than unemployment checks is for the unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 10:02 AM
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Birthcontrol wasn't made for the protection of men, its for women. So it failed her, not him. Your arguement is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:47 AM
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Did the women have sex with themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:37 AM
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So what? Im entitled to unemployment benefits and ive never been unemployed. If i need it ill use it just like everyone else. You're frame of thinking is simply based of the hatred of women. And it stems from how unfair men are untreated amongst men. You're the bullied trying to be a bully. If you want to be upset about children and women hospital, blame biology and market. Its the SAME thing as women complaing about equivalent pay in sports. They need to blame biology and the market. You want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:36 AM
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It is inaccurate, because you're stating a opinion as an backdoor fact as if it holds water. "No strings attached?" Really? Its almost word choking. Heres food stamps for the homeless, no strings attached. Its ridiculous. Edit: How is child support even an argument here? You created a child, you're responsible for it. Whether its financial or physically. Its not even a "no strings attached" deal, provide for the child you help create. Period
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:13 AM
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No they are not no strings attached. Child support is EXACTLY what it sounds like, CHILD SUPPORT. If you was a single male and had three kids, and worked, who is going to watch your kids while you worked? You'd have to pay for child care right? How about after hours when you're home, they eat food right? They need clothes right? What about medical? What about when they get sick, you have to take off work or personal time to attend to those needs right? Those are just necessities. We not even tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:22 PM
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Men are entitled to the same benefits offered as women are. Food stamps, welfare etc etc can go to men if they needed it. Why in the HELL would you need a "Mens hospital". At least for women, they have specific hospitals dedicated for things that usually only happen to women, like child birth, or a visit to the gynecologist. Women serving less time than men is not a bigger responsibility for men or is it one less for a women. You want harsher sentence for female offenders? Or less time for male …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:34 AM
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He also needs to realize that if the man if stupid enough to allow a capable woman to not be capable for whatever reason he doesn't agree with, then thats on him for staying in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:27 AM
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Women fought for the OPTION to work those type of jobs. They don't have to if they don't want to. Its the whole point of freedom. But I too do not believe in the third wave feminist. Their ideology is twisted and too distorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:24 AM
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So youre saying that if your broke ass dead beat baby daddy can't pay support, the state can actually step in and provide some sort of financial stability for the child in the form of welfare for HIS (and her) child? Yeah lets say hell to the welfare and let civilization crumble as the next generation children born into poverty suffer even further. And if raising a child is not a responsibility, then why do men dodge it so much? You know? Since its so easy. Devaluing the job of raising a child i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:46 AM
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This, these guys acting like they don't hold any responsibility when ot comes to reproduction. Wear condoms and work on yall whack pull out game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:30 AM
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I never understood countering an argument with another argument. Instead of denouncing each other issues, why don't we do something productive and actually create viable solutions to the problems. All people do here is say "I understand your problems but mines are bigger thus you should get over yours".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:07 AM
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I loled at the comment. Its true. But women get lazy and fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:49 AM
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I agree with that, but saying that is pretending that bad people dont exist so people used to protect those whom otherwise couldn't do it on your own is useless. Its like defunding the police because there are bad apples in the police force. Human nature is not a peaceful one. I feel like both genders are quick to point out the finger at one another. Its not a gender thing. Its a people thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:32 AM
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Women will pull that "i dont have to acknowledge you as a "man"" regardless of the dynamic. Going to a date specifically with expectations, man or woman, is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:51 AM
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Same reason we sleep with sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:27 AM
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Idk, the same reason why men do it? Its fun. Thats why both genders do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:40 AM
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Well isnt that the wrong frame of thinking? Because a sex act done by a man to a woman sounds like women dont control nor have fun during sex, as if its an act exclusive to only male benefit. I too believe sex can be an intimate act between two partners, so giving it out easily is sort of devaluing its speciality. But it can also be just something to do for fun, like kissing or dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:23 AM
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How are they both pump and dump? How come thats only exclusive to male behavior? Unless you are using sex to secure the relationship, a casual fling is just a fun time between 2 parties with no alternative motive behind the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 10:42 PM
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I guess it depends of how to value "sex" itself. To some, a connection is not needed like prostitution or ONS. To others its alot more meaningful thus meant to be done with these some sort of bond together. Sex culture doomed the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:15 PM
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At the risk of sounding ignorant, what exactly is the difference between whore and slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:11 PM
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But sometimes men find a women who are awesome whom we want to be around. Unfortunately their eyes are usually focused on someone else. Perhaps a preceived higher value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:09 PM
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But what you stated is 2 fold. Men too dont have a built-in sensor in their heads to distinguish women who just want a casual fling, or something more. I understand what you're saying but majority of men don't look at sex as 'conquest' per-se. Its seems that way because of the dyanmic of what it takes to get laid from the male perspective. Just about everything HAS to go right for men to get laid. Timing, grooming, flirting, logistics, etc etc. For SOME men, they feel like they have to incorpora…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:04 PM
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Women do the same thing though. Except for it being sex, its resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:21 PM
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Well with your comment, youre implying that women are using sex to only secure a relationship and avoiding pump and dump tactics. Can we safely assume when 2 people agree to have sex, its because sex is mutually enjoyable for both parties with no other hidden motives behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:19 PM
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She going to pretend like it would never bother her, for the sake of winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:06 PM
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Wouldnt that be the issue though? They arent getting pussy, so they are resorting to porn, porn demand increases, so more kinky shit gets posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:52 PM
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I look at it from a different angle, maybe the guys stay around because the relationship is somewhat established at that point. Yeah you mention kids months down the road, but in their head if they aint taking care of them now, its a worry for another time, compared to you revealing it even before the first date. If they are getting sex, and good company from you without the pressue of being step daddy, why would they have a problem seeing you after?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:05 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:46 AM
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That too isn't accurate. Any middle class male will struggle to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:08 PM
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How many average males you know set up shell companies to hide money? That stuff is normally for the super rich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:31 AM
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You see, thats the thing. In my view its not only about statistics. Its stems from personal experience just like you may have an opinion about BLM based from experiences that shaped your view. Racism isn't "in your face" or "by law" as it used to be or as media projects it to be, that I can agree with. Shit I'd even go as far as saying BLM sometimes drop the ball enough to sometimes discredits them, but it doesn't mean that their point is straight up invalid. BLM is very deeper than that. I beli…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:28 AM
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I agree 100%
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:57 PM
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Sorry for the wall of text dude
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:42 PM
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Number 1: When they countered BLM with "All lives matter", I started to trust that point of view less. Its like when you see commericals of someone saying please donate to the dogs and cats at the rescue shelther because dogs and cats are special, someone at home on their arm chair is yelling "well all animals are special!". You aint wrong, but its an attempt to divert attention to that actual message. Number 2: Im not a leftist. So it being a political move to enslave me in a "vote only Democra…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:42 PM
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Because it coined the term BLM and brings up the disproportion of police aggression against blacks compared to other race, means it has a false narrative? This is why we have the problem. The entire civil rights movement was focused on racial discrimination against blacks HOWEVER it was for the benefit of ALL races; blacks, asians, hispanics and any other race that felt the racial bias. This is why it needs to be taught in school. Police brutality has been problematic for all races but affect th…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:42 PM
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Thats exactly why the protest exist. "Well shit another black treated less than human by cop? Well it sucks but oh well 🤷🏽‍♂️". Sitting on your ass doing nothing, solves nothing. Protest peacfully solves nothing ( remember when peacfully kneeling was the worst thing to happen?). Mother fuckers are pissed no action has been taken for decades. Oppotunist looting stores is wrong but you gave blacks no other option other than a mass protest which brews oppotunistic individuals.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:06 PM
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You mean like the action of protesting?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:57 PM
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Well shit I can do that too, lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:31 AM
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Ill trim your backhair for you bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:31 AM
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You can never speak your mind or make a statement as a male. It always get spun into something totally different. Women 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:58 AM
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This goes for men and women. Both genders do this actually quite equally whether we realize it not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:10 AM
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Are you stupid? In the case where a woman is granted sole custody of the children and the man has to pay child suport is a balanced solution. When a women is raising her child, feeding them, clothing then, taking them to school, paying for that child too, that too is CHILD SUPPORT, and government mandated too. You know what happens if she doesn't take care of her child? She goes to fucking jail. How does the male contribute? Paying into that child support for a child they created but is under no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:57 PM
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You do have body autonomy? Why you keep saying you don't have control of your own body, you had it the whole time up to the point of conception. I LISTED THEM, Now youre butthurt that women have one after the point of conception? Wtf is going on here. I already answered your question "forcing a man to pay childsupport is worse than abortion", you didnt do a good job reading. Ill repeat it again, abortion is a tool to prevent the birth of that child exclusively made for women that is used or isnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:58 PM
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Cause youre comparing RISK and not that actual desire affect. That doesn't make them non comparable because risk is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:36 PM
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No the desire result is avoid baby now. Having babies later is subjective. There are man who want NO children and get vasecomies early in life or no more children and get it later in life. And there are women who do not want a child or more children and opt for abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:23 PM
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You do know before the progession of medicine, that was one form of abortion, a very risky and uncomfortable one but still available. Nice try troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:18 PM
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I explained this a million times. BECAUSE abortion is A TOOL NOT AVAILABLE FOR MEN. It was never designed, made, created for men. It was made for womens best interest. Advancement in medince and technology allowed abortions to be an option for women. Their biology allowed this to be only specific to them. Its THEIR decision to use it or not use it is solely based on them. Abortion has nothing to do with the men. Men of course benefited from its use when the women used it and it fit his best inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:16 PM
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Youre comparing the risk factor of both, im comparing what its actual use is as both achieve desire results, NO BABIES. Skydiving and base jumping do NOT achieve similar desired results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:44 PM
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Your points have been answered? I keep repeating myself because if you actually understood what I was saying, you could easily come up with the answer yourself. I never said abortion is worse than child support or visa versa. You feel child support is worse than abortion. In my opinion they both suck. It doesn't matter which is superior to the other. But If a woman doesnt want a child or to deal with abortions, don't have sex or use better protective measures available to them. If a man doesnt w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:40 PM
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You're not quite understanding my point. They are tools. Just because you can name differences in them, doesn't mean they don't complete the same objective. An hammer is vastly different from a nail gun. But both can nail wood together. The biology part is the tools used available to them is based off biology. Men can't get abortions because they don't have uteruses and can't get pregnant. Its exclusive to women because biology. You saying child support is unethical and forcing men to pay child …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:20 PM
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Thats risk. The goal is to prevent having another child. One does so by eliminating sperm in male ejaculation, the other does so by eliminating a rapidly growing embryo. They both complete the goal of not having a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:51 PM
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Whoa. I don't even know how to respond to such atrocity. There was so much to disect there. You must be black pilled or something. As a male you hold superiority complex and feel women are beneath you, Im assuming one with power over that must have turned your world view upside down. Men can do the same thing with power too, dont get it twisted. Infact men fuck you over alot more than women do, its just because you want to have sex with women and developed different emotions towards them that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:47 PM
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I agree men want consistency, and my arguement is you lost that when you had sex. You agree having sex poses a risk of pregnancy. Yet you still had sex. You signed a contract when you had sex that there is a chance she can get pregnant and I as the future father am responsible.That is the purpose of sex, to procreate. If you don't want a child, you do the best proven way, to abstain from having sex. Your risk then will be 0. You want to have sex but for fun and without the risk? You can't. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:39 PM
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Your first point doesn't work. You cannot hold only women accountable for actions both the women and men took just because the man doesn't have a say in the type of contraception available for specifically the women. Abortion is a tool used to prevent giving birth, post insemination and is only available to women because of biology. Just like condoms, bithcontrol, pull out method and others are first defense tools used to prevent having a child. People forget that abortion is the same playing fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:24 PM
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Because you have no arguement. Your viewpoint is based on anger. You're terrified of woman taking your money. Meanwhile the power has been in mens hands all along. It never left. We need to teach young men how to protect themselves. Not bash women because the playing field has leveled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:14 PM
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They all fall into the same category. Just because the one option is for post insemination and only available for the women, doesn't change anything. They are tools used to prevent another life from being born. Men cannot control abortions just like women cannot control vasecomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:10 PM
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Are exactly are men paying for their decisions? By taxes? Last time I checked, both men and women pay taxes. Can the rules and regulations on what we give them be debated on its on? Yes but thats another topic. If you mean by a confirmed father being held responsible into nurturing his offspring that he helped create, then the answer is obviously, he shot his load in her, a baby was born as a result, you take care of that baby. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:04 PM
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I made a post about this the other day, people dont seem to care, they see abortion as women having an edge and thus an advantage over them. Its a tunnel vision issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:59 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:53 PM
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NONE. And not because of fucking feminism, its biology . Blame biology that women get pregnant and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:52 PM
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What? Im not understanding your point. What if the man wants to keep the baby and the woman doesnt? She should be forced to give birth and the man be the only financially one from there on after right? Problem solved with man logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:51 PM
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How am i cucked? Yall incels are butthurt because women have more advantages over their own body. You guys sound ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:47 PM
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Yes they do, and abortion is tool for after pregnancy. Because there is no tool for men to utilize for after pregnancy, they are butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:46 PM
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Like condoms? Or vasectomy? Or birthcontrol?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:52 PM
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Are you implying that im just pointing all fault at the male? That wasn't my intentions although i can see how i worded my post in such a way. Yes i do agree its both their fault, but men are saying should have a say in abortions or if they shouldnt be financially responsible for a child they didnt want is what i mainly disagree with. Sorry for the miscommunication
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:50 PM
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Abortion is a tool to avoid giving birth to an unplanned child. A tool like condoms, birthcontrol, vasectomies etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:46 PM
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And I keep asking you, how is she getting an out. Abortion is just tool to stop unwanted offspring, just like plan B, condoms, birthcontrol and vasectomies. The only difference is this tool is used after conception. Men can't get pregnant, therefore that tool isnt available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:10 PM
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Just made a post on here about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:07 PM
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Sorry to be rude, i cant tell if its sarcasm or a legit comment. All the comments are against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:52 PM
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Yes, that is correct. So what exactly is your point then? You are upset at biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:49 PM
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You semi quoted me without finishing the whole quote, leaving out context. "Sex is for making babies so you have the right to complain if the outcome isn't in your favor". But maybe im not understanding your point, can you clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:49 PM
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No it isn't, the consequence of opening her legs is sex. The possible consequence of sex is pregnancy. Abortion is an option to terminate an unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:38 PM
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Thats how you view abortion? As a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:34 PM
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How does man not control the risk? You are your first defense. Women too burden risk, but deciding abortion or financial responsibility shouldnt be left up the male only. Edit: mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:22 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:20 PM
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How is she getting a pass by getting pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:19 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:18 PM
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How am i stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:17 PM
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Im a male, and ive been saying this to men recently after I flipped sides on this issue. Its up to the male to get the female pregnant. Men have complete control who they impregnate and accept no responsibility when the consequence of it is pregnancy. I really don't understand how men have sex completely knowing the risk, then said risk happens and they complain. Use protection, don't skeet into vagina, get a vasectomy if you need too and dont sleep with women whom you dont see mothering your fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:12 AM
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Pregnancy isnt a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:53 AM
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Dont worry, your future wife would have had her rounds with them ole grown niglets by the time you get to her. Dumbass racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:37 AM
1

Dam i need to find me one of your types in a wild, lol. Don't give up on those traits just cause some loony dudes fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:11 PM
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Thats a great idea! Saves everyone the trouble. If he doesn't want a relationship from the jump or a creep, you dont even have to waste time leaving your apartment. And if he doesn't like whatever he may not like, he don't got to spend his time and money. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:06 PM
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How do you know you arent wasting their time? How does HE know youre worth being in a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:04 PM
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The whole point of the date IS to find out compatibility. At that date both parties can decided whether or not its even worth going further than the actual first date, but at that point its a stranger meeting a stranger and things should be split. After the first date, after you both essentially agree to see each other more, then you can play by ear about paying for dates, presents or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:02 PM
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That opens the door for your date to be wasting his time on you if youre not his fit. Rememeber we going on this based if the women is absolutely worth the time. Men arent the only looky loos.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:38 PM
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Having them pay for dinner is a horrible way to screen them out. 2 people should go on a date, communicate what they want, and see if there is a connection to continue, split bill and move from there. Both male and female time is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:56 PM
1

We all had time to seperate and reassess ourselves. With the reopening of everything, we can all start brand new.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:18 AM
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Didn't women call themselves "queens" in a similar fashion. Regardless this men vs women shit has to go post-Covid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:50 PM
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No one wants to "feel" like their being used. We are all used. Its just not overtly commmunicated. Thats the game here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:51 AM
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Man idk what to tell these guys, go red pill? Become high value? Its harder solution than it sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:50 PM
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Oh me personally?Either situation doesnt happen much if not at all to me, so I can't say. But I do got some friends which it does oddly happen to them. Maybe they ugly, maybe their game sucks, maybe they really being used idk. Only they know. They are the ones thats bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:04 PM
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You incels hear that? Money buys women attention. Lol. To be fair, im a troll. I never have this problem but alot of people I know do. I dont know why I throw myself into debate sometimes. Reddit makes it addicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:59 AM
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I don't think its a problem the way reddit makes it to be. And yes there are a large amount of incels using the information to further their little cult and distorting it. But it is a problem that exist and does happen. Sort of like the men buying women drinks at bars debate. It is not as extreme as reddit makes it to be but its there. To be honest, i believe it is a small argument part from larger ones like using men for a wallet generally speaking and using women solely for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:56 PM
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Rare as in this doesnt happen to alot of men or rare as in this happens to men but not as much as projected?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:43 PM
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No, its not rare. Its common enough for masses of men to complain about. Goes even deeper than that. What if she really didn't have those intentions, but she really didnt connect with her date. Cool, she rightfully drops him. But now the end result is the man paid for dinner for two. At the end, the male feels used. Thats why I feel like the first date should be split equality. The second and third can be debated because the relationship is becoming alittle more comfortable, but the first date s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:55 PM
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You totally missed the point. Yes there is a risk factor for women when it comes to just being women. The solution "men paying for dates", DOES NOT stop that risk factor. So their risk factor for rape and danger is always there. You also validating that a date (men paying for their first meal) is a social contract for sex therefore risk factors such as rape and assults kick in. A womens risk factor for going on a date (getting to know someone while you eat at somewhere public) is dam near nil, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:03 PM
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I have no idea why you said everything above, i never disagree or agreed, I picked the one part of your topic and questioned that. Not trying to offend. Men fear being used like women fear being used just for different things. You said men fearing being used for free dinner or his wallet is ridiculous, but i stated it is valid just like women being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:21 PM
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Why shouldn't men fear being used for free dinner? That fear exist and is confirmed through life experiences. Same concept with women feeling used when it comes to sex. Men aren't refusing to go on dates, they refusing to pay for 2 meals. The date benefits both parties, both parties split bill, both parties decide if consexual sex happens that night. See how equal that is when I dont mention gender in that equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:57 PM
1

SHOUT OUT TO JERSEY CITYYYY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:17 AM
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This is probably the best and only answer to all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:05 AM
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When exactly did I state women are too stupid to make their own choices? Women know exactly what risk that comes with sex and the possible consequences are exactly what they are; being a single parent, co parenting with a bad partner or emotional and body trauma from abortions. I am a male, if i dont want to knock up a chick, I dam sure know it aint happening because IM the first line of defense. It takes me ejaculating inside her for that to happen. I am in full control where my body fluids go.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:01 PM
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I disagree with any arguement that men use against women lying about being on the pill. When it comes to sex, you are your first line of defense, period. Men can easily trick women with similar tactics. Birthcontrol was created for the protection of women interest, not the other way around. So when they complain that it didnt serve in their best interest, oh well 🤷🏽‍♂️ tough tiddies. Condoms and the "ole reliable pull out" method protect men best interest. Men need to stop complaining about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:29 AM
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That can't work. You'll have a rise of pregnancies with no father and the government to foot the bill. You will have many men skeet in some coohie and leave with no consequence, effectively putting every women who has sex at risk. Do remember now before the 90s, child support wasnt heavily enforced as it is today. It got a bad reputation because of some male idiot who decided to brag about how he doesnt pay his child support and gets away with it, and that clip went viral. All types of birthcont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:04 PM
3

Lol if I punch your face with gloves on, did i really punch you? Sorry I had to do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 10:24 PM
2

Your comment assumes behavior cannot be changed, even temporary. The past cannot be changed. Behavior can most definitely be changed, especially to the well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:14 PM
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Low n-count behavior is eaiser to fake in most cases. Women already know what men what naturally, they might not beable to change their past, but know how they shape the presumption of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:58 PM
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Yeah, thats not happening. Fuck that point of view lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:06 AM
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So with your logic, Men shouldn"t have children? And if they do, then what? The reason why people complain about child support is because it is indirectly bias towards men who are normally the bread winners and unfairly gives 1 side (normally women) control of finances. Now I do agree that many men out there knocking up some chick they had NO intention of dating long term is completely their fault, but that doesn't change the core issue here. "Divorce rape" is a term coined when an unfair amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:55 AM
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Your mouth ain't
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:31 AM
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Dm picture, no dick pics please
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:28 AM
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I do believe everyone deserves equal oppotunity and equal rights (Which I believe we have reached a ppint where its apporaching fairness, at least in the USA) . That being said, don't you think that the outcome of that is that many jobs are going to have various percentages of men and women working them based of the freedom of choosing the occupation they want and capablities? For example, more women pick school teachers as occupations than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:16 AM
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You can't change the definition of equality to fit your objective and motives. With that logic, the NBA would have 5 foot 7 players as average players if we used your verison of equality if that was fought for all occupations. It just doesn't work. I don't have a problem with women fighting for equality rights and equal oppotunity because that is what they deserve. But on a fundamental level, men and women aren't equal. Just like men aren't equal to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:46 AM
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Ban this nigga again
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:18 PM
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