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DUH.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:24 PM
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Stop conflating basic safety and situational awareness and discernment of peoples character with victim blaming. This is why we have no hope with people like you now. Yes let's continue to wait on bad people to stop being bad and make it easier for them to get to us, just because how they attack us is not our fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:32 PM
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Dude you're arguing points that were NEVER MADE. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:39 AM
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I never said that STOP STRAWMANNING!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:27 AM
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I had to explain the first sentence to her and also the fact she blacked out during another encounter counted too. She did have desperate traits… which led her to choosing low quality men at her level. Her desperation had nothing to do causing sexual assault. Only giving access to men capable. So Don’t you dare go there. Actually read my comment to understand cuz how tf you come out with that conclusion. Like are you okay? Or you just make negative assumptions cuz you think you’re so smart and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:37 AM
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Women like you caused the respect for women to go down cuz hall couldn’t have common sense. Who gives the gender known to blank and pillage since the beginning of time something that gets stolen, jail time risked for and murder of men away for free and little effort. I feel bad for my female family members because of women with low self esteem and other women who never went to therapy, but could go lay on their back with a stranger first. I’ll never respect that logic. NO ONE who can’t confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:00 AM
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Dude that’s oversharing to the detriment of others. And that’s an assault not a sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:38 AM
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I’m do know what OCD is? Cuz clearly you don’t. It’s an actual mental disorder than can be extreme to the point they can behave like people with psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:01 AM
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Then you probably have an exception to the rule that does not make the rule. It’s literally already a study on how of your around someone for more time for some reason their face becomes more attractive to you. You’ve missed this apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:42 PM
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Right according to stats this is how society was run but behind the scenes so no one was upset. The Nicki Cannons and Elon Musks create the next generations apparently. The “big cave men” are now rich and wealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:12 PM
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No because most people have enough pride to not beg. Once you are pretty much clear and say “I don’t want you” in a nice way people usually get their things and go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:56 PM
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Stick to this no matter what anyone tells you. I made the dumb mistake twice of letting people, well women convince me I was being too harsh. The results were exactly what you’d expect. Prolly worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:18 PM
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You’re a helpless case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:38 PM
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Listen learn to take constructive criticisms without getting defensive or doing ad hominem attacks. You’re not at the level of my intelligence or emotional intelligence for that matter. Just keep practicing and like I said learn more sophisticated words to describe things, that requires reading books and journals, not just reddit or social media. Not a dig just a caveat. Then you tried to be condescending with you can do it, no I’m not going to. The quality is so poor it’s not worthy of my time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:13 PM
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This is written very remedial . Please work on your writing skills, spacing out paragraphs, more descriptors and more nuanced explaining. This was bad and I just know you gotten eaten up before I even look at the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:14 PM
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It’s baffling I have to say. There’s gotta be something to female nature. I keep thinking about how someone wrote, Pimp C said “Pxssy a commodity but dxck sell better” From what I’ve seen I can’t lie it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:26 AM
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Facts. I’ve SEENT IT. Once I realized even the bookworm girls are on tinder now getting slayed the first hangout, no date, not even an offer of a cup of water, then sent home (true story btw) I finally choked down reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:48 PM
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Cool so stick to that. But we know how that goes like “Just to let you know, we’re not doing anything when we hang out later..”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:36 PM
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Why is it so hard to say this instead of making it about other things. It’d be great if a trust fund baby said that outright. Instead they go “well the poor doesn’t work hard enough, wage discussion and workplace customs/rules is just jealousy and trying to eat the rich." Even if its true for some, it buries the real concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:28 PM
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I want people who are downvoting to look at this. The OP calls her own behavior not needed and hedonistic. I agree using her language intentionally because I didn’t want to play semantics with people and STILL… Look at the reply from OP to school me on “well just because something is “unnecessary” doesn’t mean ppl don’t enjoy.” And now this guys reply, “well just because something is hedonistic doesn’t mean is bad.” Can someone please help me make sense of wtf is happening here?? Am I in the twi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:12 PM
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She wouldn’t have needed to put “unnecessary” in quotes which was my exact phrasing and then give a caveat as if she needed to clear up what I said, when I was repeating what she already said. Does that make sense? And also it simply didn’t read that way to me. Also when she did that I started getting downvotes while ppl were upvoting her even thought she was supposedly adding to what I was saying. Like nah I caught the undertone. Cuz if I’m talking about ppl in general I’ll try to put something…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:56 PM
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Nah you just pressed for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:51 PM
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“There are some tigers that are white so I just can’t say MOST tigers are orange” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:58 PM
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First of all who are you? Why comment on something that ended that has nothing to do with you? The 304 I agreed with was pressed. I’m in other threads. My comments move quickly. This was a waste of time and annoying. 304s know they lack value and are always on the defense when no one is even says they did something wrong. This was not a thread of two people agreeing. U can see that. Which is asinine how it even got here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:48 PM
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Mmhmm I read it tho and had to laugh at the tumbleweeds at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:45 PM
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But don’t they always beg for it tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:34 PM
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Thank you. With number 1. It’s basically like an affliction men are born with that everyone knows about so we kinda give them passes on some things. Only men get something referred to as “blue genitals” they are known for “morning wood” also “thinking with the wrong head” and ofcourse the coming of age “wet dream” In media, crime, science we see the difference with interest in sex. So any woman who says “we need sex just as much as men” and literally means it or “well men do it why can’t we do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:31 PM
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You were arguing but I called it. You were on the defense since you felt the need to tell me “something doesn’t need to be necessary to be justified” Like who tf said it had to be? Some things go without saying otherwise why else would you waste breath and time to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:09 PM
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You: “No one NEEDS A hoe phase” Me: “Yep it’s unnecessary” Google: Define Unnecessary: “Not needed” I just agreed with you. It’s not about right or wrong. Some stuff doesn’t have benefits but just be real about it. If I want to sit on my a** 5 hours and watch a football game every day you could say it’s not only, unnecessary but also a risk to my well being. But if I’m happy I will tell you Idgaf and I plan to continue. There’s been a study that humans will literally shock themselves when the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:55 PM
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It used to be dating with deep connected sex as icing on the cake, that accomplished this, but guys figured out how to save money and it worked. More power to them I say. I never thought women would fall for it and boy was I wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:49 PM
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Don’t forget women are encouraged to lie and hide their totally okay “healthy” past, to keep these “judgmental unwanted misogynist men”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:47 PM
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Suddenly a lotta ppl can’t read anymore 😩😂 Got quiet after this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:44 PM
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“They have no obligation to marry anyone, let alone a guy with a low n-count” Please spread this message far and wide cuz the actual response is “it’s none of ur boyfriends business if your values are compatible” “Just lie to keep this person who may not want to be with you if they knew the truth. Force them into a relationship under false pretenses. Take away his autonomy”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:41 PM
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Glad you’re honest. It’s unnecessary and at its base it’s hedonism. I love people who are just real. Yes this is what it is and I sure did it and might do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:38 PM
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These people are d*mb sorry. Dating does the same with more benefits unless you’re an impatient person who prefers instant gratification. And that’s totally fine but yes it says something about you. And young and dumb doesn’t work when we can easily point out young people who paid attention in health class and simply moved with common sense and self esteem. So yet again it’s okay but it’s says something… Someone’s a lil slower than others
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:35 PM
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Lmao yet someone else told me it was clever. Now based on that hillbilly comment of yours, who do you think im gonna listen to.. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:22 PM
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The irony. Like have you read your comment he’s responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:19 PM
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Should say “does a person look better to you over time” but there’s enough context clues you shoulda known that. I basically say it in the previous sentence and the last sentence. If ur not an English speaker first then okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:20 AM
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Well thank God for this good news because it’s getting worse and this normalized. I know more people who had unprotected sex without asking questions then I do people who were always safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:09 PM
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Women were never meant to date for looks for safety reasons and not to mention they have the ability to grow attractions. Finally it came up in a discussion does a person look better to you, overwhelmingly nearly all women said yes. This is something women literally know. Its literally a dating strategy among women in my family. They are taught it doesn't matter if a man is a little ugly, your love for him will improve his looks to you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:15 PM
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For the love of God build self esteem BEFORE ANYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:04 PM
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Youre getting hung up on minutiae and technicalities from the overarching point. Tell you what, do me a favor. Make sure you tell any woman you meet to stop being so hung up on sex, let loose and give it up, have fun on the first date. In fact tell them to invite us over for fun stress relieving hookups when we initially meet. Why waste time and follow societies pressures and rules. Make sure you remind them its the patriarchy wanting to hold them down. Thanks in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:02 PM
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It isn’t about manipulation. You know what I really effing hate when someone misinterprets and strawmans what you say on purpose. You shoulda stopped at im not following. Let me make it simple… Think things like kinks, bdsm, swapped gender roles. This is an easy illustration where one person can have more “power” in the situation and BOTH enjoy. Thats so far off topic though. Point is NOT ALL WOMEN ARE MENTALLY BUILT FOR CASUAL ENCOUNTERS. I would go as far as to say no women are until something…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:53 PM
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Any time a woman tells me she’s slept with a guy on the first date and I ask at any point did you discuss STDs before you got into it, and she says no… that is when I consider her an absolute no self esteem gutter snipe who doesn’t even care about life of death over dxck. I have zero respect for that. As far as the “cc” I give allowance for that one fwb person who fools ALL of us. All of us have gotten enamored by looks and acted desperate. If not you must have been born with the face and charis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:00 AM
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None of what you said is any thing I actually said so let’s just stop right there. You’re absolutely strawmanning and I don’t engage in that. But you can quote what I actually said and we can go from there. And it baffles me you’d even argue when I gave examples of BOTH sides beings dishonest. But you’re up in arms cuz you’re projecting thoughts out of your mind I never stated. And for the record I will never blame victims for a perpetrators actions but I do place responsibly on them to not pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:52 AM
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Basically the point is, many of those women genuinely have the ability to disassociate from sex if they choose or some will seek out relationships where they truly hold the power or engage in sexual encounters where they genuinely feel great after. But these women should not advise other women to date or have encounters the same way they do. And Ofcourse never all. So need for a but not all caveat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:48 AM
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What responsibility? Be veeeeery specific because I hope youre not making the "Noooooo stop it criminals. Stop criminaling." "Noooo stop selfish aholes, stop finding willing volunteers and living your best life. Its not nice " argument I'm weary of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:17 PM
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Unfortunately you could say that. That's why gentlemen, emotionally healthy men and men with discipline are so exalted.. Its like the good cops argument. Yes they are so needed, some have hearts of gold and are brave but there's really unsettling culture among them and therapy as a whole is needed even for the good ones. Explaining what led to an inexcusable act is not an endorsement for the act. It just makes sense of it to try to circumvent it ever happening again. But first an explanation wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:12 PM
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The word dating is about to be obsolete at the rate we're going lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:03 PM
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Okay I understand. That is true how so much messaging gets tangled. We keep overcorrecting things and having to pull back but I guess that's societies growth. I totally agree and love how you expertly nuanced out my ideas instead of just shutting me down with insults. I'm of the philosophy anyone can have anything they want, or any standards, as long as they are honest because you never know who is willing to accept you just as you are. I personally also will date people from a toxic family as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:00 PM
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Thank you. I don’t know how many ways this must be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:54 PM
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Becuase boom we know you had low self esteem and chose to self harm instead of seek help. Hypersexuality has been researched and written about for decades. It’s causes have already been discussed. Other women have already told their story. So for you to miss that, you come from relatives no one wants to be in laws to cuz they either caused you trauma or didn’t teach you many important things. Or you knew and decided to be lazy and not put effort into therapy or learning how to love yourself BEFO…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:52 PM
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This! When did promiscuity, which is literally the term for sex gluttony become a good thing? We still call men dogs for their behavior. They call themselves dogs and will admit to how shameless they can be. Why would other men and especially women want to do that??? Why tf would anyone encourage youth under 21 to participate in it before they build up their self esteem and goals first? The world is sideways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:46 PM
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And let’s say this is true, would you see why it’s inherently gross to men that women sleep around so recklessly with other men they know can be savage. TLDR tangent: There are overweight women who have slept with fatphobic men, we know women who sleep with men who have murdered (see rapper Asian Doll who makes it a dating requirement), minorities have slept with racists… you name it because women couldn’t be bothered to take even a day to get to know the guy cuz well men do it too. But men on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:42 PM
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Nah that’s rare. That’s why healthy lasting love seems like such a fairytale. It’s like with obesity, the answer is out there but people are def gonna take unhealthy shortcuts. Besides we see both sides are encouraged to lie nowadays… “Don’t say you don’t want a relationship directly or they won’t sleep with you wasting a period of time in their life, develop unrequited feelings and they’ll go find someone ready for a relationship to start building a deeper bond with.” “Don’t say how many people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:25 PM
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I just feel like you were conflating customized expectations for beneficial reasons with hypocrisy. At this point society’s knows men are born as sex addicts lite. That’s why they get grace from their over indulgence and desperation. We know scientifically their testosterone is a factor. Only one gender has a phrase about their genitals turning “blue” if they do not release sexually. Only one gender since the beginning of time were willing to kill, kidnap, go to jail, go after animals, elderly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:17 PM
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Do they have the same risks? Yes or no? If the answer is no why tf would they move the same or have the same dating strategy? I’ve told this story before but I got in an argument on Facebook when I told a girl inviting a guy over at 3am at HER place for the FIRST TIME hanging out because she wanted sex wasn’t safe. In fact she was accusing the guy of assault because he went for anal and she told him no so it got really awkward with him apologizing and putting his clothes on and leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:32 AM
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Thank you! I don’t understand how women hold this view but will list off all the EXCLUSIVE risks and vulnerabilities only they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:29 AM
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Also which is a sad question, were they violated or assaulted at any point in life. Sadly 9 out 10 women I meet with this philosophy were violated in youth and I try to gently explain to them that based on psychology what they are saying is normal for THEM but for touchy reasons it’s not advice to be given to young women especially those who did not experience brain altering trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:27 AM
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No its that the women are easy despite the risks you name. You can’t help but think that person was asinine even if it wasn’t “women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:24 AM
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Very simple. And these two groups should not try to force each other to mix. But even more importantly they should reject those they can sense aren’t really about it and are in a desperate state. That would take things to an even better level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:12 AM
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I legit just looked at Frank Sinatra's mugshot for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:55 AM
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They are also now starting to say “Well bad boys are attractive and are usually gentleman. The most handsome men who tossed me actually had the best personality. Good guys are actually bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:26 AM
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Only into verbal and consensual roughness. I’ve had the choking thing requested and it’s annoying cuz I’m too focused on not applying real pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:44 PM
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This! And women have harder to detect STI’s too. And that’s not mentioning the other EXCLUSIVE risks. No reason women should even want to move like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:26 PM
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And this is why it’s so wild women want to be like men. Older men will literally tell you how their sexual urges near ruined their life and drive for goals. Thousands of men are sitting in jail for what their sexual urges led them to do. And even when that evidence is denied we know testosterone increases sex drives. So there is no reason women should be claiming to be the same as men or should even desire to date as men or have as much sex. That tells me something is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:23 PM
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Behind every dictator, nearly all criminals, and the worst of the worst men, is a loyal woman. By this life decision to be low effort for men, which was never meant to be, we are seeing women run head first into men with bad motives and usually with glaring red flags that other women and even some men will point out. I agree with that meme, a lot of you woulda smashed Ted Bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:14 PM
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But but but.. men have super manipulation powers! Women can’t just say no. They could be attacked! You don’t understaaaand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:51 PM
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You’re missing the most important caveat that all people do and I don’t understand why you disliked my comment. It’s they don’t take these girls seriously for relationships. Their dual mating strategy is run through sleezes, in this group are legit women who really don’t give af and don’t want to be tired town and they go on an marry the plain Jane girl. Well women say they then go on to sleep with their secretary when he gets board. Then there’s women. They go for the attractive bad boys and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:04 PM
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Glitch. One was an edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:41 PM
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Just know if you’re ever the victim of a crime 9.9 times out of 10 they were the product of quick lust
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:39 PM
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And this is why RedPill guys as douchey as their called live their best lives. Their motto shut up and ride the wave. And we can’t stop them cuz they have willing female volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:38 PM
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And naive and easily impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:34 PM
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If you truly believe this, I need you to spread the message for women to stop being so hung up on things like self respect and safety and have fun. YOLO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:34 PM
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THIS until you’ve been in that position the description of the embarrassment is not even enough. I was with this girl I knew was a sleeze tricking on her. Super beta, cape secured. I believed what the hookup positive people and my single mom said. I was just insecure. Until one day, I went with her to a corner store and saw this thug guy grinning in our direction while I opened the door and walked her in. I remember thinking “that’s weird why is he staring this way and smirking. Maybe he thinks …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:30 PM
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THIS until you’ve been in that position they description of the embarrassment is not even enough. I was with this girl I knew was a sleeze. But I believe what the hookup positive people said. I was just insecure. Until I went with her to a store and saw this thug guy grinning in our direction while I opened the door and walked her in. I remember thinking “that’s weird why is he looking this way. Maybe he thinks I’m a chump who’s not in this girls league but I’ll show him as I buy her what she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:25 PM
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Whenever I hear a woman say she had a one night stand for fun. All I can think of is with all the rumors about men that women spread themselves, knowing a high amount want to use you for your hole and move on, and with real risks you were so impressed with a guy you gave it up immediately. All I think of is that guy is walking around with the biggest ego boost and bragging rights forever. Even more if she’s goes on to get a quality high status man or high powered job. This isn’t hunting but meta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:17 PM
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You be surprised at what people will reveal to get guilt off them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:39 PM
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Lol whose gonna break the news to OP about modern times and why this sub is even so active 👀😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:31 AM
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So basically you shut down your other needless comment. It’ll be a cold day in hell before we get the gender known for r____g and pillaging the women and children, to be sexually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:26 AM
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I just love when people act like metaphors don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:06 AM
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You can definitely have that standard. You’re a rare woman who looks for a chaste man. However even if you were sl*t positive it’s your prerogative to still seek a chaste man regardless of others opinions. You can say no and yes to whomever. However it would be hypocritical to not expect the same with men who also have freewill to discriminate based on life choices and even on unchangeable physical features. You can also expect men not to insult those women they turn down. That’s reasonable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:42 PM
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And it’s not “settling” in the same sense as women. Before they jump on your post. Men are perfectly content with their choice for the long haul, when they fiiiinally reach that point of being okay with forever with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:42 PM
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Because to accept this on that basis they would have to admit they are taking the fast food route. In the grand scheme of things the person who cooks, has more discipline and will get better results. Technically yes they are better than those who take the easy route. You’d have to pretend cheap plentiful willing d—k for p—sy is a fair swap cuuuuz well women like sex too. When no it’s only a swap if the guy is high value and she gets an experience out of laying on her back. Only one gender has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:37 PM
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And now you see why men are disgusted by reckless choices in a past, which certain people claim means nothing, yet it shows your level of self value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:30 PM
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Your conclusion you added is the correct answer but it’s a brutal truth to swallow even in other dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:28 PM
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No but you’re probably not valued either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:12 AM
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Except to give them brains to overcome impulses. I think it’s only us and like two other species that have sex for pure pleasure. Our brains were to make it so we would have some semblance of control. But now that discipline and discretion are leaving, problems are coming. And that’s with literally anything even drinking water.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:54 PM
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It’s sad but they drove their own price down. But they’d rather strawman any anologies to “we’re not objects” but with basic economics you’re selling to plentiful buyers at a very low price and usually to buyers offering the least money or nothing at all. There was a day I thought women would scoff at Netflix and chill and stop that delusional idea men had in its tracks. Boy was I naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:27 PM
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This because we have seen time and time again that women have and will continue to risk literal death and a life of poverty for children, in their romantic choices. You would think that’d be a buffer. But like with proud smokers they can’t admit there’s a problem to begin with. FREE WILL MY BOOOODY. Literally men will have to lead the way on curbing unwanted pregnancies, warning women about other men and danger since they ignore other women and setting emotionally healthy relationships standards…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:23 PM
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In other words we need women to stop volunteering for trauma. The same way we understand the trails and tribulations overweight people go through but ultimately they hurt themselves and put a strain on the health industry affecting others, we also understand desperate, traumatized and low self esteem women BUT they have work to do. Literally judging a book by character not by the outside, which women with higher intuition were blessed to do, would fix so much. Less trauma on them, less children …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:21 PM
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Birthers of children would have to accept they can’t move like or make decisions like non birthers of children. Heavy is the head that holds the uterus. Our literal society depends on it. But it’s being made to be not a big deal or not a real correlation, when stats and peoples stories says otherwise. I have a saying that masculine beings with no emotional intelligence and feminine beings with no backbone or boundaries are the true root of all evil in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:16 PM
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Well that’s terrible self preservation. In fact on safety tips given by law enforcement, because of previous crimes, certain ways of doing things make you more vulnerable to assault. I will always say it’s not your fault someone else’s actions but how much access you gave them to get to you falls on you. That accountability has to be taken to take action to fix whatever psychological blind spot or routine in your life that make you more vulnerable. But hey another thing I say, which is unfortuna…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:27 AM
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This! This! This! But you will be called judgemental just because you took advice and actually read books from other humans who came before, to learn from their mistakes and not repeat them. I haaaate the “young and dumb” phrase because some of us were responsible or forced to be early. And in all actually it’s literally how it should be. If we had savants and polymaths when there was only pen, paper and few hard to get books we should have like 1000 different versions of people like Oprah, Elon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:20 PM
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Lol I was wondering when a person more familiar with church was gonna tell ‘em. It’s like watching someone say “Well there’s lots of abandoned resources we can find in Chernobyl. Why not search there?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:40 PM
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As a Christian who has a theory that Catholicism is a secret cover for satanism, I find it interesting as an atheist you hold so much respect for them. Just a random comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:39 PM
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Well we would love to see them behave that way. I think that’s part of the reason men can’t garner as much respect for more modern women. If you tell me (true story btw) you hung out with a guy for the FIRST time at YOUR place at 3am, had sex and then feel like you were assaulted cuz he went for anal but you told him no so he started apologizing and left, I’m not gonna have sympathy. Mind you I got thumbs down and told off by trans women and women alike that I was victim blaming by saying the wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:34 PM
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Yea that too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:27 PM
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It is, you have to be a person in the black community to get it. Shemar Moore is lusted after but men like Morris Chestnuts get more attention even with lesser roles or visibility. It’s a weird thing where light skin men are seen as softer and darker men more masculine. It’s strange but yes it’s accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:53 AM
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Teeeechnically he literally is but that is not how we use the term. A redbone aka light skin is a full black person with lighter skin. Does it get used willy nilly, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:51 AM
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I’d rather ppl make posts on this is the real definition or this is how it should go instead of battling the strawman of what it’s not to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:47 PM
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Showing investment based on reciprocation and simping are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:45 PM
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This. The nerds and pimple faced girls who are shy have been ran through. They were suppose to be for loser men after they leveled up. The shy girl who was in the house all day. But chads and tyrones are running through them too. So now what was throw away trash to them and would have been a grateful wife getting d*ck for the first or second time ever and with the former nerd husband with loads of money are ran through sluts. Just not as cute as the beautiful sluts. So now what’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:28 PM
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Kudos to you for being a rare woman with proper pxssy management and not debasing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:45 PM
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Former= “first” in the sentence/list and Latter = “last” in the sentence/list
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 06:33 AM
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Tell me one simple answer. When a man and a woman are aroused who can you talk more sense into? Here’s a hint. One of these genders commits more rapes, molestation and have a higher sex drive on average. So it’s time to get real about who needs to take the initiative first. One of these genders has been recorded as “raping and pillaging” One of these genders also has a joke “Thinking with the wrong head” In others words, one of these genders I believe was biologically created to do more level he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:38 PM
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This and this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:12 PM
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Ghosting is when you leave someone in the dark. Period. If I’m no longer speaking to you, or mad, or done or blocking you, you WILL know and know why. Because you’re not going to argue with me about MY decision. Plus no one begs someone who doesn’t want them unless their self esteem is in the dirt and at that point they need to heal ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:11 PM
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Boom no one wants to admit this. The worst of men have friends and women giving them vagina to boost their confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:35 PM
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YES! This is what I believe in. We should do pairing contracts to accomplish financial goals and the split has to happen and if you want to be married married you both have to go through the trouble of getting a marriage certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:33 PM
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Thank you so much for this. You don’t understand how helpful it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:29 PM
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I read what you originally wrote so wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:08 AM
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You don’t have to peer into the future. You can date without sleeping with people you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:41 PM
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