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Re read your post as if you yourself didn't write it. Then re read it again...and again....and again. Then take a step back and smack yourself in the face with your keyboard. Congratulations! You've just discovered the reason girls don't like black people, actually err you just found out why they don't like you... Look at the negativity. The self loathing. Now ask yourself if you'd want to hangout with a person like that. The answer is no. Good news is that you can change. You are not the identi…
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:49 AM
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Just run hard sexual disqualifying. Take away the possibility of sex and assuming you are a cool dude she will want to hang. After that it's up to you to decide ;) Or ya, go for the threesome Or hangout with the with friend and friend zone her. chances are you'll get In a group hangout with tinder chick at some point. Then isolate and progress. Only if you are up for a real challenge of course
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:23 AM
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Yeah dawg, build your entitlement. Gradually you will get comfortable with a certain caliber girl then you push it up to the next level. You might freak out a bit' but hang in there and follow the process. In no time you'll be getting your dream girl ;) That's really the only long term solution. Short term just assume you are the shit and go through the steps. They are the same as any other girl we just mentally assign more value to them and get nervous as a result.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:16 AM
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If your text game sucks. Learn text game. Manwhore is by far the best when it comes to that, head on over to his site. In the meantime calling her is fine do that. If she doesn't answer though, you have nothing to fall back on.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:11 AM
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Come on now boys. Ain't no need to argue Not responding doesn't burn any bridge. And sending a 2-3 line text isn't needy. It's also only a waste of time if you have poor text game
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:07 AM
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The edit specifically comes from a bad place. The whole post isn't necessarily trash, but it's largely irrelevant to the dudes actual problem which is scarcity.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:04 AM
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You got needy. Period. End of story. No tricks are likely gonna save you now. Also a needy relationship is entirely way too stressful. Forget about the girl and rebuild your abundance. Should you then desire you want to reach out then do so, only after you've slept with a couple more girls of course ;)
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:00 AM
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Also the guy clearly stated he got needy. In that case he fucked up. The girl didn't do anything but react to him being weird all the sudden. Disillusionpants here addressed the wrong problem to begin with. Not necessarily bad advice, but don't think this issue is so cut and dry.
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:56 AM
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The edit is retarded. Tit for tat, doesn't necessarily apply in the bedroom. It may sound crazy, but you can give the gift of blowing you. I've gotten plenty of BJ's that were never reciprocated, it's all about the strength of your reality and moving in accordance with your own desires. A buddy of mine actually had a girl tell him thank you after she blew him. Ya, let that sink in for a bit.
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:51 AM
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Read the power of now. Tolle teaches an idea of becoming the observer. He directs this towards eliminating thoughts, but I use it whenever I feel myself start to seek approval from another person. Helps cut that shit out. Otherwise gradually acclimate yourself to resisting him. While simultaneously focusing on improving yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:40 AM
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currently going through same situation as you. Fucked it up big time. Oh well... you live and you learn. You will start to over analyze, and then because you are over analyzing you will develop emotions as a result. Which in turn will bring on more over analyzation and stronger emotions. Best bet is to not play that game. Get into meditation to reduce thoughts and focus on building a life for yourself. A basic principle of game really stand out to me after I look back on them. Always assume attr…
/r/seduction29/01/16 12:55 AM
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where in the hell did you get this rule of thumb. genuinely curious
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:13 PM
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I mean. Yo. How is she going to respond to "ok!". All she can do is say ok back, or keep the conversation going herself. Which unless she is really really really into you, will probably never happen. There are simply too many demands on her time and attention. It also seems like the conversation should naturally be over as you book ended it with ok! If you wanted to keep the convo flowing you need to create a message with something for her to work with, or at least compel her to respond. Also yo…
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:12 PM
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Become a boss and it will happen naturally. In the meantime, forget about her and go approach other girls.
/r/seduction10/01/16 12:22 AM
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What text did you send? In the future if you think you are about to get flaked, text her a few hours before the date and tell her you are going to be about 15 minutes late. If she doesn't respond then you can infer she's probably not going
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:49 AM
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Tell her you Iike her whispering eye
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:44 AM
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You're adventurous. I love it Compliments are fairly straight forward. If something she does genuinely impresses you then say so
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:42 AM
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If you can trace your excuses back to fear or laziness. It's generally a good rule of thumb to push through it
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:32 AM
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Yo if you like it. Rock it
/r/seduction09/01/16 01:28 AM
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Anything scary
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:12 PM
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RSD puts out quality night game advice. Their free videos should be enough for you to get started. If you want it all consolidated in one place Julian’s Pimp program is pricy, but good. This video is good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg Basic night structure. Open=>Hook=>Vibe=>Pull The main difference between night and day game is just the stimulus level. There is a lot more going on so you are going to have to do more for their attention.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:54 AM
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1.) No idea what your pickup talk is like. Elaborate please ;) 2.) I dont kiss at end of first date. I kiss when i get the urge to kiss her. Usually around midway. ive even kissed a girl right after we met for the date. She was surprised, but definitely let her know what was up. Lesson being timing doesn’t much matter. Be on your schedule. 3.) Actually seems like an unnecessary amount of venue changes. Drinks at your favorite bar then a short walk back to your place should be fine. Or shoot pool…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:40 AM
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search seddit for info on buyer/seller dynamic. Since you appear to be having to work in minute and a half intervals;) I’m not really sure to be honest. Never been in that situation before. Gonna need some details. Like how often you see her. how you know her. etc basically will need to know everything. Also gonna need to see your entire text exchange. Be aware though that its unhealthy to put all your focus like this into one girl. Ill help you through this as good reference for your future, bu…
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:13 AM
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Yo! not bad dude. I see that you walked her to class. Good work implementing that this time around. Your banter is also also good and you seeem to represent the buyer frame well. Im impressed, just a few subtle things ill point out. 1.) Don’t address any prior awkwardness and pretend like it never happened. If you do choose to address it playfully blame it on her. 2.) Assume familiarity on all approaches, but especially on re approach. Whenever, I run into girls I’ve met I always greet them with…
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:35 PM
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Sure. Will reply on other thread
/r/seduction06/01/16 06:55 PM
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It’s not always the wrong approach. Certain situations call for certain actions. As a general rule of thumb though asking her to hangout (compliance) wont go over so well if she doesn’t know much about you (comfort) and she hasn’t invested much in the interaction yet. be playful. get her talking. go for meet up. I really dig the fact you had the balls to ask for the meet up, just slow it down a bit and your results should follow. Hit me up if you have any questions
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:52 AM
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Don't know what you did, but if they are in a hurry and are about to go somewhere I usually walk with. Gives you a bit more time to work with. Low investment texts can be flipped and avoided. I'd need to see the whole convo to know what you were dealing with there. Willing to help just pm me or something
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:07 AM
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Depends if you bailed because it's really what you wanted to do, or if you just bailed cause you thought it was the alpha thing to do. Also you'd be surprised how often just telling them not to bring the friend works.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:29 AM
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All you could do bro. You went for yours. Good on you
/r/seduction04/01/16 03:12 AM
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Crashed wedding. Midnight kiss with nfl cheerleader. Then rain around in the rain n shit. 'Twas dope. Sounds like you had a good night too man ;) keep up the adventures
/r/seduction04/01/16 03:10 AM
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Talk louder and if you have to use hand gestures/ more expressive body language to get people to focus on you. Try to get everyone in the group to have a good time. Not just yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/16 03:02 AM
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Your first text was fine, but it should have ended with get home safe. You asked way too much of her when she hadn't really had much chance to invest yet alone know you. Re engage and establish yourself as a friendly and cool guy she can just vibe with only then progress towards the meet up.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:59 AM
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Yo his first text was abysmal. And there is no sense giving up so easily. Missing a lot of opportunities by doing this.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:49 AM
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Planning 10 days off is asking for a flake. I usually abstain from plans like this and just re engage at a later date. But since you are here follow your intuition you answered your own question already.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:47 AM
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Never depend on a girl to be in the same headspace as the last time you saw them. Tighten up your texting. shit is weak.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:38 AM
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Lol no need to move on just yet. If you see her in person just act like the whole thing didn't happen and run basic game on her again Ike you would a new set. Who knows this might even compel her to text you back, if not just wait a few weeks and re engage via text. If you don't see her again just wait a while and send another text. No worries. Those of y'all who call it quits after she doesn't respond once are missing a lot of opportunities.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:33 AM
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Some girls can just be shit texters. Or really busy. Or just sending low investment texts which you can flip around. If he knew she was a boring in person then I'd agree unequivocally,but texting can produce some grey areas in terms of personality.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:21 AM
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Great post. The process of fear and overcoming fear is the same no matter what scale.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:16 AM
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Chat with her a bit though so she doesn't feel used. Then tell her to leave. Now don't be a dick about it, but if it's a personal boundary then set it.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:12 AM
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Leave the venue. You described making out as a peak and it's only a peak if you don't keep escalating. You can slow down a bit but make sure the interaction is on an upwards trajectory over all. And honestly, there isn't much higher you can take it in the club unless you are into public sex. So ya leave the venue.
/r/seduction04/01/16 02:03 AM
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This advice is priceless.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:52 AM
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Not a bad idea. Work with what you have at your disposal
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:43 AM
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Good lesson
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:29 AM
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Ya go ahead and add them. Social media makes text game so much easier. Think of it as indirectly showing everyone how dope your life is without directly having to message each one. Don't worry about girls seeing it either. Just do you man.
/r/seduction03/01/16 07:42 PM
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"Yo homie let me suck that cock"
/r/seduction03/01/16 07:34 PM
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Let's go lick chocolate off each other's nipples. While we listen to the weeknd :) Doesn't really matter how you get there as long as you actually get there. They'll usually forget about that part within 30 seconds of being inside.
/r/seduction03/01/16 07:28 PM
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pathetic
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:17 AM
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This is good
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:16 AM
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This is a complex situation. Just remember a truly abundant guy won't care if he has to wait cause he has so many other options and is not attached. Plus he knows getting the girl is inevitable. It's easy to confuse abundance and being a boss with being ruthless. Have some empathy. Acknowledge her emotions and realize she is a person too.
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:14 AM
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Ya this isn't that situation. She has been seeing a dude and have a history together obviously she is gonna side with the dude she knows more. Fuckin delusional to think otherwise. there are too many other things to consider in this situation to know why she is attached to this other dude. He's not a silver medal he's not even on the podium and that's ok. No offense OP you just haven't had the opportunity to even compete yet
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:06 AM
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Just wait yo. Say " No worries" move on. Keep in touch with her till time comes.
/r/seduction02/01/16 12:57 AM
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This is good advice. But dude has some limiting beliefs about daytime kissing to over come first. Kiss every coffee date you get until you no longer feel this way. Then follow evils strategy
/r/seduction02/01/16 12:51 AM
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Yo what the fuck does it matter. She wants to hangout so fucking hangout
/r/seduction02/01/16 12:48 AM
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Try and go to their place. If they lived together all you have to do is wait out the other friend going to bed and you'll be isolated. Assuming they don't share a bed ;) of they didn't live together even better. Could have invited the girl you like inside regardless. Could have let her go and tried to text her to meet up. A lot of possibilities here. Could have made a makeshift wingman in the club Although the best course of action is to be preemptive. Figure out the logistics earlier in the nig…
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:42 PM
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Beneficial
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:34 PM
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No one said you had to get shitfaced. Just don't drink. I've found the cathartic release of being purely uninhibited and making a fool of yourself at a night club very benificial.
/r/seduction31/12/15 11:34 PM
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CRS. Conversational Retardation Syndrome. Or maybe she's just mirroring you
/r/seduction31/12/15 05:02 AM
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I agree with the the over eager part and never caving on your joke. Especially before she has had a chance to react to it. So I would have cut that whole paragraph out. The tease in the beginning was good but a lil combative. Instead you could have been like , " nope, whatchu gonna do about it ;)" you are essentially saying the same thing,but the vibe you project is a lot more playful and subtly sexual. Both are crucial. At the same time it opens up a lot more room for her to play around with yo…
/r/seduction21/12/15 09:15 PM
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Definitely gonna steal this ;)
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:49 AM
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Interesting point yo. Gonna keep an eye out for this now
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:44 AM
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Targets lol. Cmon bro these are women. Little disturbed by your view on this issues. Seem to come from a pretty dark place. Follow stx advice below. Then come back for more. As of now I'm a little scared I might be unintentionally aiding a serial killer.
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:42 AM
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If you want to pay then pay. If you don't then don't
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:31 AM
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Key thing to remember is the more you do it the easier it becomes. Short term though I think you are blocking yourself. You've lived enough of your life and have enough stories and knowledge to never run out of things to say. You could in theory talk nonstop for just as long as you've been alive. You just have to allow yourself to do so. For now realize that everything you say doesn't have to be perfect. I say stupid shit all the time and make the most mundane statements possible. And guess what…
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:25 AM
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Interesting advice. Especially the part about combining convo with setting up date. I could see that being very useful. Good fucking stuff man. Did you come up with that on your own? Or did it come from somewhere cause I'd really like to hear more advice like this. I also tend to think of texting serving two key purposes. 1 going for meet up 2 creating a dynamic that allows you to hit the ground running once you do meet up. Also best done through banter and innuendo lol. Really like your advice …
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:14 AM
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It was part shit test/ part she didn't know what else to say/ conversation continuer. You could have said anything really and I think you would have been fine as long as it was playful. Good instincts here. But by this point your initial interaction was replaced by your text one. Think of texting not as a battle and more of just playing around with her with intent to fuck. Calling them out on not responding is super tricky to do without coming cross as needy. The third one you sent is best but s…
/r/seduction19/12/15 04:33 AM
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Also get a better first text. Name :) is vanilla bean as fuck and expresses absolutely no personality. Do you see where I am going with this? You need to show her who you are at every opportunity. Especially with these 5 min number.
/r/seduction19/12/15 03:52 AM
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Yo. This chick is interested but you fucked it by pressing too hard. Below you also said it was a quick set. What she needs is comfort. She barely knows you and you just kept pressing for the meetup like some creepo. Your first indication was that she didn't hit you up after you asked if she was free tomorrow. She's needs more comfort yo. Then you hit her up with a slightly butthurt message . instead you should have just sent anything else unrelated. A anecdote from your day or a joke would be f…
/r/seduction19/12/15 03:47 AM
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This is delusional. Also what the fuck is a bag guy.
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:14 AM
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Hit her up once or twice but cut the convo after each one. And bring up a completely new topic the next time you do decide to hit her up. Worst thing you can do is drag the same busted conversation out over a week. Trust me on this.
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:11 AM
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Lol. Doesn't sound Ike she is too hard to get with Yo chances are this chick is batshit insane, but if you wanna stick your dick in crazy I'm not here to stop you. But you should also realize that your feelings for this chick are a result of you mindfucking yourself into them. Get real with yourself. You don't know this chick and you haven't even fucked yet. Personally she sounds like a basket case. I'd steer clear
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:06 AM
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You have a whole lifetime of things to say. So it's pretty much impossible to actually run out of things to say. What you are doing is mentally blocking yourself by worrying too much about making her like everything you say. So just chill out. Say whatever happen to float into your head and own it. Should you hit the point where you are blocked simply say, " I ran out of things to say". No need to get flustered shit happens and she will understand. With time this issue will self correct itself, …
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:57 AM
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Actually can work to your advantage by social proofing yourself with the waitstaff. Should they bring it up brush it off and it will be like it didn't happen.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:47 AM
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Open the door naked. Tell her you don't allow clothes in your house. Like that Buddhist shit but purer.
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:04 AM
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LOL! Unless she is an ax murder. Who the fuck cares
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:00 AM
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Buy stilts
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:54 AM
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Might work. Try it. I'd rather make a real tinder and get real laid tho. But whatevah
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:49 AM
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If you want to pursue it then pursue it. Go for what you want then manage the fall out after it happens. Do what doggie says it's good advice
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:47 AM
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In my experience being vulnerable over text made me look like a massive bitch. Any chump can do that. Best done in person unless you are extremely well calibrated. Even then it requires a certain finesse This situation seems like a big mess. personally, it wouldn't be worth my time. But it seems like you have real feelings caught up in this so I know this must be difficult for you. Kind of seems like she isn't interested and is giving you just enough to keep you around as an emotional tampon. My…
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:44 AM
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Girls do weird shit especially in social situations. So it is possible, but at the same time it's could absolutely be nothing. Best bet is to get isolated with the girl you like and you'll find out real quick. And if she doesn't take the chance to see you one on one. Meh. Life goes on
/r/seduction17/12/15 07:28 AM
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Also you don't need an excuse to get her number. A simple," you're cool.let me get your number". Is fine
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:50 PM
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To me this comes across as very rigid. And you are asking a lot of questions. My big gripe with the this is that it doesn't allow the girl to experience you at all. There is no story about your day. So anecdotes of who you are. No riffing off things she says. It's all very mechanical. And forgettable. To her you are nothing more than the dude who asked her questions and invited her to a party. She has experience your personality to connect to you put it out there. My advice is when you talk to h…
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:47 PM
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Alright bro, let's sort this shit out. #1 the community preaches this because it's good for beginners. Who have be trained to idolize pussy their entire lives. They have to break the habit. Obviously this is not black and white. Learn the rules then with experience you learn when to break them. All situations require something different. 2 realize that you are probably going to lose this girl. Unless you've been sleeping with this girl for some time already. But we don't know that cause you didn…
/r/seduction06/12/15 07:26 PM
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Yo no girl is ever gonna make a choice. It's up to the dude to lead. Why do you think the cliche of couple not being able to figure out where to eat. It only occurs when the man is indecisive. Don't say we can watch this movie together if you'd like say. Let's go watch x.
/r/seduction26/11/15 07:16 PM
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If you want to pay pay. But don't do it cause you think it will make the girl like you. "I'll get this one, but next time it's on you" Works well If you want to split then split.
/r/seduction26/11/15 07:10 PM
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What you say doesn't so much matter as your energy. I went home with a girl last week and for the first half of our interaction I just made the most ridiculous animal noises imaginable. She played along and we had a great time making the noises at all the people that walked by. Didn't even introduce myself for the first 15 minutes. But I was physical and projected a good vibe. A good starting point is just to talk about whatever interests you. Can be school. Can be vitamin b 12. Or fucking ww2 f…
/r/seduction26/11/15 07:06 PM
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Flirt with them the way you'd flirt with a fat girl. go through the motions, but you don't put the dick behind it
/r/seduction26/11/15 06:59 PM
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Only sing to them
/r/seduction26/11/15 06:55 PM
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Bro if you really want to go see a movie with this chick go see a fuckin movie. But only if you are doing it cause you really want to, not because you think it's the right thing to do. Choose any movie you really fuckin dig. Don't choose one she might like. pick out a few of your favorites and go from there. My go to movies for dates are oceans 11, snatch, guardians of the Galaxy. Tucker and dale vs evil.
/r/seduction26/11/15 06:50 PM
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Text her again. Would you rather be viewed as non needy or would you rather get a fuckin date.
/r/seduction25/11/15 12:35 AM
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Ya. No. This is bad advice. How is brashness and risk the only way to attract women and how is that only capable of being shown to random strangers.this point is so useless it's mind boggling. The point about blind luck is also retarded. Learn game. Also saying women like power is too narrow. Expand this to include status as a whole and you might be getting somewhere. The only thing redeeming about this article is that it advocates cold approach.
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:41 PM
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Cock
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:27 PM
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Lol. This is overwritten gobbledygook. Simplify everything and maybe we can understand your point
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:27 PM
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I know the feeling well and believe me it fucking blows. I want you to really immerse yourself in the study of inner game. Also go out and start talking to other girls and people in general. This will really help. Keep us posted on the progress.
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:17 PM
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Word
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:12 PM
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Used to be super "introverted" myself. Trust the process and things will change ;)
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:12 PM
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That's not introversion. that is social anxiety. This will be self corrected over time should you follow the guidelines from the cold approach community.
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:10 PM
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Ya dude you just answered your own question. Go to places with people and talk to them.
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:09 PM
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You become the most boss ass motherfucker you can be. A 9 or 10 guy is not judged on his looks. He is judged on his character. On his values. On how he chooses to live his life. Increase your value as a man and you can get more attractive enough women.
/r/seduction24/11/15 09:07 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/idhjNLr.gif
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:28 AM
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really should have taken a gas-x earlier :/
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:26 AM
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pm me a video of you talking to the camera. describing this problem in as much detail as possible.
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:24 AM
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DO NOT GO RADIO SILENT. ALSO DONT MAKE PLANS SO FAR IN ADVANCE. you are basically asking to be flaked like this. Hardly ever make plans with girls more than a day away. Sometimes it is inevitable. but try to avoid it. Also fucking text her before hand. Don’t be the creepy dude who only hits her up when he wants something from her. Since you are so far off from your date you are gong to want to sporadically text her. Text her the day before the date then towards the end of the interaction plan th…
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:22 AM
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turn them on. let her know you read it. then never ever respond.
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:06 AM
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Learn more. Experience more. Figuring out what you like is a natural byproduct of this. read. push yourself. do dope shit. I used to be terribly indecisive. It will gradually correct itself if you continue with cold approach pickup.
/r/seduction24/11/15 06:00 AM
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toughen up buttercup
/r/seduction24/11/15 05:55 AM
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Go for what you want man. You sending them one more message is not an inconvenience to them. That thought is inherently fucked. It’s basically saying that their life would be made worse by you entering it. Also don’t fucking tell them to hit you up. You are the man. Lead. get the cell number. and progress from there. Always be moving towards the meet up. Bigger issue here is inner game.Study up. And your life will be so much better ;)
/r/seduction24/11/15 05:54 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/glTR9.jpg
/r/seduction24/11/15 05:45 AM
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Seems more mental than physiological to me. As a precaution I would start jerking off again just to see if it makes a difference. Worth a shot, if not you can just stop. Other than that I can only think of two things it might be. 1.) You are too in your head and logical to even get a boner. This is because you are thinking too much about game and not about the situation. My advice for this would be to put all your focus on the things you find attractive in the girl. Be present and all that good …
/r/seduction24/11/15 05:02 AM
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;)
/r/seduction23/11/15 06:45 AM
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Tool the fuck out of em
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:38 AM
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You leaving the venues with these girls? And are you going on dates?
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:29 AM
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Looks matter, but not to a huge extent. You're better off learning this just like everyone else. Work on inner game. Learn the outer tactics as well. In the mean time, good looking guys benefit from being super direct. Start there.
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:26 AM
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That sucks bro. Really hope someone here has some advice for you. These questions will help clear things up for me. Do you fully believe that all girls like sex? Do you feel like you deserve these girls? How sexually experienced are you? Also can you get a boner on your own? Are these chicks even attractive? Let's get personal up in here. PM me if you'd rather
/r/seduction23/11/15 04:16 AM
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Eternity
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:53 AM
1

Cannot stress #2 enough.
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:51 AM
1

The most simple way to view it is any message that doesn't ask anything from her. It can be a picture. A joke. Or an amusing anecdote from your day. "You are the Brazilian hermione" " beat a bunch of 3rd graders in dodgeball today. Fuckers didn't know what hit them" " watching football and eating pizza with the family. Grandpa won't stop farting. It's the simple things ❤️. "
/r/seduction23/11/15 03:37 AM
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What helped me was doing physical tasks that required me to go against my urges and manage the fear associated with them. A good one is jumping into cold water. Or just having a hot shower then turning it straight to cold. If you cant approach start with this stuff and work your way up. Learn how your body responds to that fear stimulus and learn how to manage it.
/r/seduction21/11/15 03:10 AM
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the biggest pimp I know has a small dick
/r/seduction21/11/15 03:08 AM
1

A good tinder starts with the profile. Send me a pm.
/r/seduction21/11/15 03:04 AM
1

Always this.
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:59 AM
1

It doesn't so much matter the place as the person you are with. A simple chat on a park bench reveals chemistry better than anything.
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:58 AM
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Yes and no. needing a girl to respond in order to send a message is just as needy as texting too much. If you are a beginner follow this advice. otherwise, just shoot her a value giving text and go about your day.
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:55 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:47 AM
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College game is a lot about status. And social proof. This is why athletes and fraternities have all the girls. The most people know them and they provide good value to the campus life through parties and events. Therefore they are high value/ high status. Game in a small town/ college can be very difficult because you lose the anonymity of a big city. Not to say it's impossible. Just different. None of y'all small town fuckers better quit from me saying this ;) It also revolves highly around st…
/r/seduction20/11/15 07:23 PM
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Who fuckin knows dude. Could be anything. Focus on your trip
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:55 AM
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Imagine you just busted a nut all over her face and then slapped her with your dick. See that devilish grin across your face right now? That's what you should aim for
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:52 AM
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If the texts provides nothing to you. Don't respond. If it's fucking stupid. Ignore it and create your own thread. If it's fun keep it going. Respond when you can. If you live a dope life realize this should be too often.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:46 AM
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If you are the one constantly bringing groups of people together for a good time you will always have value. And increase your social circle at the same time
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:42 AM
1

Golden.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:35 AM
1

Queefbag is right. Only if you have shitty text game. My suggestion would be to show her your balls. Literally. Take a picture of your fuzzy peaches and send it to her. Or you can take it figuratively. And say something direct and amusing. " soooo your friend x thinks we should get married . I'm not quite sold on that idea yet. You might smell like broccoli or something :p"
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:26 AM
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Quit talking about me! Yes, you can still get laid ;) Go on cheap dates. Sit on a bench and talk. Go for a walk. Go buy candy at the grocery store $5 max. It's not so much what you do it's who you are and the vibe you project. Get your shit together though.
/r/seduction19/11/15 07:10 AM
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Find it hard to believe there are no girls Tourists put out too btw ;)
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:59 AM
1

Approach more. Kudos for taking plunge. I know it's fucking scary. But the best thing you can do now is keep the momentum going. Should you see her again. Smile. Say hey. and just about the weather. Keep it simple at first and don't worry about sweeping her off her feet just yet. You'll be there soon enough ;) For now, cherish your success and keep approaching! Keep us posted.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:52 AM
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How old are you? How much experience do you have? Do you have access to nightclubs/house parties etc... There is a lot to address in this question. Especially since we don't know much about your situation. Details man. We need details! ;)
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:37 AM
1

Start patting you're crotch like you are searching for your dick and act super surprised. Be like " did my dick magically transport itself inside your pussy right now? Without either of us knowing" No. "Then who the fuck cares." And just carry on the conversation like it never happened. To think that just because you have a Bf means you can't talk to new people is ridiculous. I've started calling them out on it in a equally ridiculous way. OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE PERSONLITY TO PULL THIS O…
/r/seduction19/11/15 04:57 AM
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Well, I don't know your friend and I don't know you. More context would help a lot. But it seems like your friend is a straight shooter who is pretty secure with himself. A lot of people first starting to take control of their lives can take it a bit too far and become over controlling and entitled. My advice would be to ask your friend what he doesn't like then go think about it. I mean, really think about it. Over the next week take a long hard look at yourself and your actions through his vie…
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