HotMessMan Archive

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1	[FR] Report from a newb. K-close. But unsure how to proceed? She was leaving with her roommate because her roommate was too drunk and got sick. I mean maybe I am just not being "alpha" enough, but at the club she was resistant to dance at first, but I got her to do that, I was slowly escalating, then I went to take a piss and came back and she said she had to leave with her roommate, 40 minutes early. I was escalating but her leaving early really messed me up. And yeah it's done for sure, she said she isn't looking for dating someone because it's been "to…	/r/seduction	24/04/13 05:42 PM
2	Here's a graph showing why you shouldn't waste time figuring out if it's a shit test I'm still pretty new here so could you elaborate on some examples of shit tests to respond to with that line? I read the shit test guide but still don't really get it. Asking someone's age or job is a shit test? I've always thought it was just getting to know someone and making conversation. In retrospect in the past, sometimes I would respond to these questions jokingly and not serious first, or sometimes just answer honestly first...but I am just not getting these "shit tests".	/r/seduction	24/04/13 03:20 PM
1	[FR] Report from a newb. K-close. But unsure how to proceed? Thanks for the feedback.	/r/seduction	23/04/13 03:07 PM
1	[FR] Report from a newb. K-close. But unsure how to proceed? How was that AFC? I thought it was a witty setup. She says yes, I lose the bet but eat dinner with her, she says no and "wins" the bet and I give her dinner...perhaps too playful? She was responding well to my humor all night so I just kept going with that.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 09:09 PM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Hi here: Still new to this stuff so not sure what to do here. I've got this HB-7/8 who I was kind of interested in, saw her at gym, friend's friend. We chatted and went to the gym together a few times, she calls me "coach" as I am helping her do things to lose weight. Went about 4 times and then she cancelled our last time for an "external meeting" (wtf is that? probably a date with someone else lol). Then (because she said she was going to go everyday) I asked her over text the next day, she ig…	/r/seduction	18/04/13 07:42 PM
1	How can you fake it until you make it? Especially in regards to planning around flakes? Yes that's my main problem. Hell I do even have a core group of friends, but it's only like 2-3, so the target won't want to come if it's just so little people, so yeah sounds like I need more/closer.	/r/seduction	18/04/13 03:37 PM
0	How can you fake it until you make it? Especially in regards to planning around flakes? Alright i guess I'll try this more I just always hated being fake it's against my personality and morals lol. But I guess that's why I'm not a. PUA master .	/r/seduction	18/04/13 05:37 AM
1	How can you fake it until you make it? Especially in regards to planning around flakes? Check my reply to nomadicbit, I'm doing pretty much everything you say in here and trying my best to be the friend everyone wants around,at eu need to up my value more somehow. I'm not trying to brag but when I do attend a group party or something I'm definitely one of the carryers of it. But it's just getting anything past phone close lately is becoming impossible.	/r/seduction	18/04/13 05:36 AM
1	How can you fake it until you make it? Especially in regards to planning around flakes? Well I do have friends and do do activities and have a pretty active life, but when I arrange activities I run into the second problem I mentioned. So I can't invite a mark with all my friends because they may or may not show. Second problem is were not yet close enough that they would agree to something 1 on 1 (maybe I should focus on this more, but sometimes it's really hard, in my experience when meeting someone in a group with their friends you can't be too overt because they may want to kee…	/r/seduction	18/04/13 05:34 AM