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Question For MenHotOutcome9161/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:58 PM
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If a woman truly wants kids, fear of pregnancy usually won‘t stop her. So for me it would not be worth it because I simply dont want kids. Even if I didnt have to be pregnant. I want to live my life for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:12 PM
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I just need to know that we are compartible and that he cares about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:22 AM
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Yes a lot of guys lie about that. But it‘s much harder to keep the facade up the longer you date. I wouldnt say it‘s specific questions that you ask. Of course the basics should match like kids or no kids and stuff like that. And these should be answeared early on. But you can see the true caracter of a person by their actions and not just their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:55 AM
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A high value man to me is a man that has the same mindset, morals and goals in life as me. So no, he wouldn‘t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:41 AM
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I just red a post that talked about how off putting it is when women state they don‘t want to have sex outside of commited relationships. Women are either a whore or a prude. Everyone should just go at their own pace and the right person for them will match it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:37 AM
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As long as men have no standarts, women will always be the gatekeepers of sex. Waiting for a relationship won‘t be to much for the man I want to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:22 AM
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I don‘t agree with this definition. If I say I don‘t want to date a certain race because I don‘t find them visually appealing. That would be my preference. If I say I don‘t want to date them because I associate negative traits with them, that would be bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:26 PM
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So if Bonnie Blue went celibate for 5 years and stopped doing only fans it would be bigotry not to date her based of her past because she cant change her past but she is not promiscuous anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:38 AM
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Would he be angry if one of his male friends turn out to be promiscuous? If not, he was never just a friend to him. And if he wanted more, he should have communicated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:12 PM
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Yes I do. I‘d so the same for him. Obviously not for a 6month relationship but when we‘ve been together for years and I love him I cant imagine just being like „that‘s my spot, hope you find one too“ Anyone I truly love I‘d want them to take the spot instead of me. And if he loved me he‘d think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 04:30 AM
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People have different hobbies. A women isnt automatically boring because she doesnt like your hobby. For me personally it would depend on how much time he spends on gaming. I wouldnt want to be with someone who spends most of his free time on gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:53 PM
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If you are a man with self control why are you mad about woman saying having no self control is no excuse for rape? It‘s not even an „all men“ trend. They are specifically talking about rapists. Why are you so angry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:18 AM
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I dont doubt that she get‘s hate from women. No one in public has 0 haters. Especially not her. But I‘m also sure that Bonnie is saying anything to keep her in the tabloids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:23 PM
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I‘m not as invested as I am in actual health issues but it‘s still positive and I think most women would agree. It‘s a cosmetic benefit. While I‘m happy for anyone that gets to benefit from it, I dont think it‘s as important as for example bringing awareness to prostate cancer. I sometimes watch these videos where guys wear a toupe for the first time and the comments are always positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:15 PM
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If I knew my friend my friends would be good together I would introduce them to each other. I dont know what being a terrible wing means but I‘m only introducing you and telling my fried why I think it would work. The rest is up to you. I think men only see physical attraction and think why doesnt she help me out? But you might not be her friends type and she knows it (physically or emotionally) Deascalation should always be the first step. And I wouldnt be friends with people that provoke fight…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:14 AM
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I just checked her comments on Tik Tok. Havent seen a single death threat. Barely even insults. And if, mostly from men. Most comments are talking about how she actually seems normal. The claim that women hate her because she made sex easy for normal men is absolutely stupid. She had sex with 1000 men. 10 Seconds each. You can barely call that sex for the individual and 1000 for 1 Media stunt isnt going to the average duded sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:15 AM
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Or maybe it‘s because people barely even intereact in real life anymore? The elefant is in the room we are all on reddit now I dont know how you came to the conclussion that it musst be consent that‘s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:02 PM
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you started the analogy and I continued with it and now you are mad? .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:42 AM
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pitbulls are an inherently agressive breed that can attack at anytime totally unprovoced. They should not be procreating or out in public. Much like abusive men. Ideally for they should be put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:36 AM
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Well yes, because statistically as a society we have such a good job of eliminating all other dangers and protecting women from everything that the only thing left that could even harm women, are the men women choose to let into their lives.< That‘s why I‘m saying laws that protect women in these situations are much more valuable than relying on your partner to protect you. Statistically men are half the domestic abuse victims but apparently nobody cares about victims if they have penises, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:24 AM
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I wouldnt be close friends with a guy anyways but especially not if he confessed his feelings. It would be best for both of us to end the friendship. But let‘s say he says he is 100% over his crush and I kept being friends with him. In that case I would treat him like any other friend and introduce him to my boyfriend. If he is not ok with that he needs to grow a backbone and end the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:55 PM
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Statistically it‘s the man she knows, especially her partner who is going to hurt and abuse her. When we talk abou violence and rape towards women we think of some stranger in a dark alley but that‘s usually not where it happends. Women are being protected the most by having the option divorce their husbands. By being financially independent. By laws that protects womens rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:48 PM
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Everything valuable in life takes efford. A person that has no standards and doesnt care how people treat them is not a good partner or friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:31 AM
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Ethnically I‘m half german half tunesian. But I was born and raised here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:13 PM
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Absolutely agree. It doesnt have to physically hurt to be disrespectful. Also, it even hurts when my 2 year old nephew hits me so I‘m sure a playful hit from a woman can still be painful to a man. I also don‘t tolerate insults from my female friends or a boyfriend. Or at least not serious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:14 AM
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I mean this with no disrespect but you probably dont interact with women much or you dont see the work women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:02 PM
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No Not at all. I live in germany, anything is more attractive than a german man to me. (No shade)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:53 PM
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If you have sex with someone by who doesnt actually want sex with you, our morals don‘t align. Sure there are a few women that atually love that job, but they are rare and probably not in your budget. The „affordable“ woman who has to take 5 clients a day to make ends meet won‘t be the one happy with her job. The fact that you didn't even come up with the idea that women can be harmed and that you see men here as victims because women don't want to date them if they paid for prostitutes, tells m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:00 PM
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Are you seriously comparing millionaires to average women? Women are happier single and childless because for a lot of women the alternative is working full time, while doing most of the childcare and housework. If you are a millionaire or you won‘t have to worry about cleaning the house or having to get enough sleep between the baby screaming before you have to go back to your 9-5. You get to do only the fun stuff mothers do. Even givinng birth is optional. You could get a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:50 PM
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yes I dis that once. I‘m 6‘ so I put 6‘ feet as the minimum and that‘s apparently to much to ask for. But in reality, in my country that‘s just the average male height. It‘s not hard to find at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:15 AM
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80% are not even in my age range. They are either to old or to young. It‘s definetly much less than 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:39 PM
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I would‘ve done the same as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:50 PM
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The problem with that logic is that most mothers actually want to spend time with their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:00 PM
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The use of „bad boy“ is so cringe. Woman like men who are attractive. Just like men like women who are attractive. The way that men on here always have to call them bad boys in order to invalidate the preference is so embarrassing. Men aren‘t assholes just because they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:27 AM
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People compare sex work to regular jobs untill it‘s time for their daughter to find a carrer. Yes most people are not happy with their work but being overworked from a regular office jobs doesnt compare to the trauma of having to sleep with 5-10 men a day. Sex work is not a neccesary service. Men will live without it. Also, what a lot of women report is that they need time for themselves after having a client. Some women are lucky enough to only book as many clients as they seem fit for their me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:04 PM
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There is nothing wrong with finding love in a different country. But a lot of men do it because they know they will have total control over their wife. They wont let her work, they don‘t have a say in anything, money is always held over their head. You should see what the children of those have to say about their parents. They hate their fathers for being abuse to their moms. Obviously thats not the case for every marriage. There are a lot of happy succesful intercultural marriages. But there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:52 PM
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It‘s absolutely crazy to me that men think the biggest issue women have with sex work is having competition. That tells me how little you know about the struggles sexworkers have to go through. Not that I‘m surprised. Men usually only think about their quick fix instead of the person who is behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:14 PM
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Legal for sexworkers but illegal for the buyers is how it‘s done in sweden. No one that is anti sex work wants to hurt the women in these situations. I‘m from germany. It is legal on both sites here. In theory that‘s s good thing. If every sex worker was happy to do it I‘d be 100% for it. But the reality is that most women are not in it because they want to. A study estimates that 90-95% of all sex workers in Germany are exposed to indirect or direct forced prostitution. When we think of sexwork…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:12 PM
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Most people will never have the opportunities that people who are very good looking have. If you are a man, you are most likely not good looking enough to participate in hook up culture. If you are a woman, you are most likely not good looking enough to get a rich husband. Both could still succed if they throw all their standart out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:20 PM
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Absolutely fine. We‘d be on the same page. I like when people tell their dealbreakers upfront. If we dont match, that‘s fine no hard feelings. But that way we both didnt waste our time going on multiple dates expecting a different outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:51 AM
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Most men are not wealthy enough to pay for a seperate apartement + paying for her spending money. So she‘d be forced to live with him. That‘s a 24/7 job instead of working a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:45 AM
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I still like bigger guys. Not exclusively I like normal sized guys too and have before. But it‘s not that I got fit and only want to date fit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:23 PM
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Because fortunatelly, most people in developed countries are priviledged enough to decide what they want to be. We can choose what we are interessted in to some degree. Men are more into the trades than women are. Why is that a bad thing? Are you just as angry that the elderly are mostly taken care of by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:22 PM
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Yes and I appreciate that but do you really think women wouldnt do the job if there was a shortage of men? It‘s like saying men would let old people die if women stopped working in care homes. Absolutely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:29 PM
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If you get sick or injured: There’s a 77% chance your nurse is a woman. There’s a 37% chance your doctor is a woman – and rising fast. If you went to school: 76% of teachers in the U.S. are women (K–12). In early education, it’s over 95%. Buy food? Go to the bank? Travel? 58% of the retail workforce is female. 71% of hospitality jobs (hotels, restaurants, etc.) are held by women. Many men rely on: Childcare workers (94% women) Elder care professionals (nearly 90% women) Need mental health suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:44 AM
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And she pays for that service via taxes. You realise women work too right? Men are just as dependent on womens labour. I‘m not saying I don‘t appreciate the the work blue collor men do. I really do. Is this some kind of push back against women saying they don‘t need a man? Because for the 1000th time, this is not what women mean. Saying she doesnt need a man means that she doesnt need a partner to provide for her cause she owns her own money. A right women had to fight way to long for. How are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:39 AM
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Emotionally stable (no one with anger issues) no adicts of any kind can communicate well morals and values align has hobbies and friends doesnt want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:21 PM
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That logic doesn’t hold. If you’re allowed to exclude trans people based on their history, then excluding bi men based on theirs is equally valid. You can’t call one a “preference” and the other “homophobia” without contradicting yourself. It not wanting to date bi men is homophobia, not wanting to date trans men people is transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:15 PM
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But I don‘t see how having a preference for biological men/women is any different than having a preference for straight men. You put more weight into what gender someone is born as and I put more weight into what sexuality someone has. Neither is right or wrong as a dating preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:33 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:06 PM
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I think you can support LGBT relationships without wanting to be in one or be with someone who is queer. It‘s like supporting trans people without wanting to be with someone whi is trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:15 AM
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Yes it‘s true for a lot of women. Don‘t know if it‘s most.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:26 AM
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They want their man to really love them. The word obsessed is debateable. Women dont want a man thats actually obsessed, that would be scary. They just want a man that is deeply in love with them. I think a lot of men date or are in relationships because they dont want to be alone or they want acces to sex without having to do much for it. They can be in relationships without even liking their partner. Of course the same thing can be said about women. But I do think men have a much higher level …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:42 AM
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Whenever the is a question about women being generalized we usually answear „women aren‘t a monolith“ So why is it wrong that I dont want to be grouped together with all women? I have my own opinion on this and I dont agree that all women are against being talked to in the gym. it‘s completly fine if you or the commentor think differently. But you are not the spokesperson for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:41 AM
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She said the consensus is dont approach women at the gym. I disagree. This is a debate forum I can disagree with other opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:57 AM
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Abuse can happen at any point of the relationship. If he wasnt abuse at the start, he can still become abuse later. In fact, thats usually how it goes. No abuser is going to show their true color from the start. Only after they made you dependent on them so you cant leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:28 AM
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I was making an example of why preference doesnt mean it cant be abuse. I‘m not calling men who want a woman who makes less abusive. However, the scenario I talked about in my first comment, is absolutely abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:59 AM
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Preference doesnt mean it‘s ok. If his preference is beating his wife, he should still be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:39 AM
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You can be a feminists and still be a traditional housewife. Or you could be a working women and still expect your partner to get a job and pay 50%. What does this have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:27 PM
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If the millionaire is only dating people who are less fortunate because he wants someone that is dependent on him, someone who cant afford to leave, someone who will put their own needs last because they are afraid to speak up because their partner is holding finances over their head… then yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:22 PM
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Since I‘m pretty tall for a woman (1,80m) I‘m usually not as afraid of men as smaller women would be. But still, I feel anger and frustration and sometimes also fear being in these situations. For example, once a guy followed me and talked to me for several killometers. I was going around my local lake. It was early in the morning so there were no other people around. He came from a party and was still a bit drunk. I screamed at him to leave me alone, I tried to run away but he‘d run after me. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:54 PM
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I know most people at my gym. I know all the cashiers at the grocery store I frequent. These are normal places to socialise to me. If someone politely asks me for a date when i‘m not in the middle of a set, why would I be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:07 PM
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If an older women is dating a guy 20-30 years younger from a developing country that constantly asks her for money, wouldn‘t you think she is stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:05 AM
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Please don‘t speak for me. I wouldnt mind being approached at the gym or the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:19 AM
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If I tried to sell you a sandwich for 200€, wouldn‘t you think that‘s u reasonable? Sure, you can always choose to buy somewhere else but you‘d still think that price is unreasonable. I might not make a single sale and end up broke and that‘s my choice. But it‘s inevitable that others will comment how unreasonable it it to set the proce so high. And I shouldnt complain about being broke if I choose to price my product to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:44 PM
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Yes the customers can define it as unreasonable. The customers are the ones I‘m trying to attract. Of course there could be a marked for my sandwich. If I sold my sandwiches at the sky lounge of the burj khalifa handmade by gordon ramsey, the millionaires buying it probably won‘t think the price is unreasonable. But if If my sandwich is just a gas station sandwich that you could get anywhere and that doesnt taste very good, people will think my pricing is to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:44 PM
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If I tried to sell you a sandwich for 200€, wouldn‘t you think that‘s u reasonable? Sure, you can always choose to buy somewhere else but you‘d still think that price is unreasonable. I might not make a single sale and end up broke and that‘s my choice. But it‘s inevitable that others will comment how unreasonable it it to set the proce so high. And I shouldnt complain about being broke if I choose to price my product to high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:18 PM
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Having a good personality has nothing to do with how well you can writte.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:24 AM
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I‘m a woman and I would‘ve thought you probably just love these flowers so much you want to keep them as long as possible. A friend of mine keeps her flowers untill they are completly dry and then some. The woman was the idiot in this situation. Yes you should give your partner flowers or any other small acts of kindness to show they you still care. But not everyone grew up in a household where flowers are a staple like toiletpaper that need to be replaced once it‘s due.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:14 PM
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Do I really have to explain to you that singing about raping and beating women is completly different than just singing about sex with women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:14 AM
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What do you mean? I cant compare it to future decades lol. A lot of Rap songs are still mysoginistic to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:06 AM
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Maybe I don‘t remember it corretly but I think robin thicke mostly got backlash because he actually sexually harassed the models on the shoot. Pharrel williams was also in the song and video but didnt get any critique
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:18 PM
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I know they are not all bad. But it‘s probably the genre with the most misogynie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:09 PM
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I don‘t think you know what unconditional means. Also, men have conditions. Being sexually attracted to the women. For most men not being fat, much taller than them, not bald, Basic hygiene, not being abusive. Sure some men might not care about some of those as much as others do. But most men do care. Some men will take a lot of abuse. But usually only from women they are st least attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:15 PM
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Someone else that will have his own conditions. You will never meet a man that has no condition. Even the guys whose fetish it is to be a money slave. Who love to be insulted, spit on whatever and asked for money. Even they have conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:55 AM
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Yes it is. But let‘s not pretend men would lose their carrer if they made a similar song about women. There are plenty of rap songs that reduce women to sex objects, call them any name in the book, call for violence against women. Even talking about raping them. This song is nothing compared to what men have been singing about for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:56 AM
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No absolutely not. Have you ever heard any rap song? This sabrena carpenter song is nothing compared to the average rap song.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:51 AM
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And the other dude would have conditions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:00 AM
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Nobody is loved unconditionally. There is always a condition. You wouldnt love a woman if she killed your mother? thats a condition. For most men it would be enough if he wasnt sexually attracted to her or id he is, but she won‘t have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:39 PM
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I don‘t see anything wrong with it. Much more ethical than watching regular porn. However in a relationship I would consider it cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:18 AM
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I‘d run from any white dude in finance. But I know that‘s not the point. Paying 20-30€ meal for someone you asked out on a date is not equal to sex. It‘s like saying you‘d suck the recruiters cock to get the job. Sure if both want to, why not. I‘m not judging. But in most countries it would be counter productive. Men dont respect women as long term partners if they put out on the first date. While women do respect guys that pay for their meal. So if the end goal is a long term relationship it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:39 AM
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If you want to date you should ask others out. Simple as that. Why look left and right? Focus on yourself. Yes a lot of women don‘t have to ask men out because they are being asked. So? Would you stay unemployed because some people don‘t have to work hard to get a good job, they can just work at daddys company? And since I love work analogies so much I‘ll answear the dinner question with one too. If you have a job interview at your absolute dream job, would you ask them to compensate you for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:11 PM
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I don‘t think about them. They are excluding themself. It’s up to them to change it. I used to be fat and socially akward. I never thought damn men really never give fat women who can barely get two words out a chance. Because it was my own damn fault I didnt get a date. Please take some responsibility. I agree that men have a harder time getting a date then women do. And men are expected to persue more than women and that‘s not fair. But if you want to date you can either cry about how unfair t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:49 PM
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most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:48 AM
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Men are rapist and pedophiles. You don‘t need to know what percentage. If you are dating as a woman in 2025 you will know this. Unfortunately it‘s prevalent behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:47 AM
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That sounds like most womens dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:31 PM
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Sociologie is a thing you know? We can and do study human behaviour and measure how common certain types of behavior are. It‘s common sense to expect prove of a ridiculous claim. „Women are gold diggers and will leave you for a better option“ Ok but what percentage? It makes a big difference it it‘s 0,2% of women or if it‘s 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:28 AM
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Having sex with someone who doesnt actually want sex with you is a no for me. You are delusional of you think you’ll make it a good experience for her. I live in germany near hamburg which is notorious for their red light districts. All legal and suppsedly safe. I know women who work in the industry. All broken women. Even if they were not forced or coerced into it initially, it‘s hard to leave and it does something to you mentally. Women who actually do it enthusiastically and enjoy it are rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:20 AM
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It‘s time for you to start dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:51 AM
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No she didnt. She had sex in past relationships. She never said she doesnt want to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:40 AM
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I saw the post to. They were just getting to know each other. He could have simpy said „Hey this isnt for me, I want to have sex with my partner“ Which is completly valid. But no he thats not what he did. He told her he is not judgemental and that He doesnt mind. Then proceeds to shame her for having sex before and now wanting to be abstinent. No one if forcing you to be with a partner that is abstinent. Just be honest about what you want so you won‘t waste both of your time. Why is that so hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:26 AM
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I mean If I as a straight woman knew my partner made OF content thst would only be viewed by gay men, I‘d have less of an issue with it then if it were women. It‘s still a no for me but less bad. I think its mostly because for lesbians there is no threat that an actual connection could form with their viewers cause its mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:39 AM
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The only issue I have with dating apps are that peeople think it represents real life. Men get no matches on dating apps and think women only want 10/10 men. Tinder is 75% men 25% women. (And half of those 25% are probably bots or sexworkers) The public is 50% men 50% women. Your chances are way better in real life. dating apps are designed for men to spend as much money as possible. Not for you to find love. Besides, people on dating apps are jaded. Men because they have to play the numbers gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:32 AM
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I don‘t disagree with paternity test. But there are a lot more reasons for marriage than just lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:33 AM
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that is probably the better route to take. Every couple can decide what their boundaries are. For some couples it‘s conpletly normal to check their partners phone routinely. it‘s up to them to decide what works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:52 AM
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It‘s like her accusing you of cheating and having a child with another woman. I absolutely understand wanting to be sure. But I know for sure most man would not be happy with that accusation either. This is one of the few things where I think you should not talk to your partner just do it. In every reddit cheater story the one being cheated on is an insecure asshole for checking the phone unless they find evidence. Then they are lucky they found out. Just do the test and be quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:37 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:42 AM
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I think the height expectations for men are ridiculous. Also the privilege thing. I hate when women say „if he couldnt make more money than me as a white privileged man I don‘t want him“ Maybe you had the priviledge of growing up with a loving family. Maybe your had the privilege of having no financial struggles during college. Maybe you have the privilege of having no mental health struggles and a strong friendship group. Everyone has some kind of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:45 PM
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Having children doent mean you cant have a carreer. I never said that‘s the case. But it definetly is a hindrance. I mean it‘s not not that hard to grasp. Kids are a lot of work. Of course someone childfree has extra time and energy to put into work compared to a parent. It‘s like I‘m saying smoking is bad for you, and you counter with „oh but my grandfather smoked evey day and made it to 90!, XYZ won Olympic gold and they smoked!“ It‘s a stupid argument. Besides, fortune 500 ceos are not the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:27 PM
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The minimum a child should be breastfed is 6 months. And she most likely stopped working maybe 2-3 months before the birth. If it was a complicated pregnancy/birth it could be longer. You might not find good childcare right away. People go on waitlists for childcare as soon as they know they are expecting. The few months career break can easily turn into 1-2 years. Also, you need to stay home when your child gets sick. And it gets sick a lot when it‘s in daycare with orher children. A highly com…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:52 AM
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I don‘t see how this is proving your point? Millions of regular women date and marry regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:06 AM
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A consistent thing I read on here is mean conplaining women want treatment of a 10/10 meaning who are more valuable than her. Why is the treatment of the women you are interessted in dependent on her looks? When you date to marry, why don‘t you treat her equally as good? Isn‘t this the person you love and want to spend your life with? I‘d always treat my man like he is a king. And I expect the same in return. It‘s not a chore to me. I love that person, why wouldnt I want the best for him? I feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:01 AM
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91% of men watch porn. A study analyzing popular pornographic films found that 88% of scenes included physical aggression, with 94% of these acts directed toward women. Not even taking in account trafficking, coercion etc., porn is bad for women. But most men don‘t care. Otherwise they wouldnt watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:34 AM
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Women were and are still the default parent. It makes a big difference on your CV if you took a few years of for childcare. Especially in fields where there are constants updates you need to keep up with. Even if you don‘t want kids, the assumption is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:25 AM
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About 50% of men and women cheat. We need to stop pretending like it‘s just bad vetting when you end up with an asshole. Cheaters are assholes and they make up 50% of the dating pool. It‘s rough out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:08 AM
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Men when women and children are sex trafficked, beaten and raped for the porn industry:😶 Men when women are the sole benefactor of the porn they ethically created without hurting anyone: 😠😡🤬💢👿
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:44 PM
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It‘s not off topic. You just have to connect the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:11 PM
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The only way you can actually think that is when you have a terrible environment. Maybe you live in poverty, among educationally disadvantaged people. I don‘t mean this as an insult. I grew up in poverty. Most men where addicted to gambling or alcohol. I was the only one in class that still had their parents living together. It was eye opening once I got a good paying job, to see that not all men were like that. That‘s the issue with most people here, they don‘t have a healthy environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:10 PM
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Funny how a man can be shitty partner an men will still blame the woman and not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:59 PM
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Men will tell you one thing but do the other. Actions speak louder than words. I don‘t want to date a guy that will tell me „oh I thought about getting you flowers today“ Ok, then where are they? I don‘t trust a mans words, only his actions. At least when I don‘t know him yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:12 AM
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She insisted she wants to pay so I see no problem here. But I‘d be sooo embarresed if my card declined. I wouldnt call it a red flag but I‘d be worried about her finances. It‘s one thing to be broke but why are you going out when you can‘t afford it? And why don‘t you know how much money you have left on your card?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:44 AM
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The thing is when women ask men „in what scenario would you pay for a womans dinner“ They usually answear they would if he was really into her/if he really liked her. So to women it‘s seems like you are not actually into her if you don‘t want to pay her dinner. However, I also get that men can‘t pay for every womens dinner. Dating nowadays is more focused on mass than quality. We are not willing to invest in a person. If we don‘t like the smallest imperfection, we‘d rather ghost and skip to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:36 AM
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That‘s such a stupid take it can only come from a man. It reminds me of this study they did. Male surgeons where faster during surgery and therefore were regarded as better surgeons. Turns out female surgeons were more carefull and took more time to actually talk to their patients before and after the procedure. Their patients had a much higher survical rate and had less long term problems than the patients of their male counterparts. Faster doesnt mean better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:38 AM
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Then why is it that it‘s always women asking for couples therapy and not the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:27 AM
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That‘s like saying you should‘ve known that women will baby trap you and put holes in the condom. You should have known she will cheat ob you and pretend another guys child is yours. Sure some women are obviously crazy and you could tell from the start she should be avoided. But that cant be said about most women who‘d do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:37 PM
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These are traits that most women look for in a partner. But they are not enough to get a partner. Physical attraction is a big part too. If a woman had to choose between two twins that look like a 10/10 but only one of them is treating them with respect, most women would take the obvious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:32 PM
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Yes most abusers don‘t have a criminal record. It‘s not always that easy to tell. Abusers usually only show their true colors once you are hooked and dependend on them. For example, a police officer looks clean on the books. Most women would probably feel lucky to be with someone who protects others. How honorable. In a study 40% of them admitted to being violent to their spouse or children in the last 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:52 PM
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That are a few of many factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:47 PM
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The only way it can help men in dating is if they finally delete the apps. I‘m begging you, don‘t be that desperate! The guys who cant easily get a date are the ones keeping this app alive with their premium memberships. It‘s a scam. You wont find your soulmate on tinder. I hate to use that word but no respectable woman is on tinder anyways. Maybe bumble or hinge but not tinder. Also, I really hate that you‘re making me side with the men on this one but the height requirements some women have ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:12 AM
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Most women would not date a criminial. Sure some would but thats a minority. Women who do date abusers are dating them despite them being abusive not because of it. So women saying be kind etc. is not them lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:32 AM
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FGM is more harmfull than MGM. I agree that both should be illegal. But why do men always expect women to do the work for them? Women had to fight for every single right they had. Sure some men would march with them. But the initiative had to come from women. I‘d march with you on protest against MGM. But please put in the work yourself. Organise a protest. Get politically active.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:21 AM
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Men are the ones that claim women would date a morally corrupt person if he is hot enough or has enough fame/money. Meanswhile they‘d do the same if given the chance. So my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:15 AM
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Are you for real? It‘s morally wrong to date a murderer even if she was the last woman on earth?! What is wrong with you?? Besides, even guys who could get dates would line up for sydney sweeny. If you have no backbone and no morals it doesnt matter how many options you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:10 AM
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If sydney sweeny murdered her last boyfriend, there would still be cue of men who‘d date her if they had the chance. I don‘t know why the men on here act like only women would date a morally corrupt guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:24 AM
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It‘s simply rude. I‘d end the date right then. But just as women can be whatever they want, men can too. If he wants to be a provider, good. If he doesnt thats also fine. Maybe he‘ll be a great dad and do most of the house work to compensate. Or maybe he doesnt want kids. People don‘t have to live their live to please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:44 PM
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I don‘t see a point in havin male friendships. Aquaintances, ok but not a Friend. It‘s not that I value men only for sex. But all my friendships are very deep. I‘d do anything for my friends. If I had a guy friend I think it couldnt go that deep because it would be inappropriate. He could just be an aquaintance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:16 AM
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I think the height requirements some women have are ridiculous. But I wouldnt go on a date wearing a padded bra either. If it leads to more dates you potential partner will find out and it gets akward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:09 AM
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It would be fine in your cultural context. In my situation (living in germany, rent is affordable where I live) It would at least raise some concerns. But there are still legit reasons to still live with your parents even here in the west. If he is independet and helps his parents out thats a different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:27 PM
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Some women buy super realistic baby dolls and pretend its their real kid. they are called reborn baby if you want to google it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:11 AM
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You absolutely can. That‘s why certain countries have different preferences then others. They were conditioned by the society they live in to like what they like. Of course there are exeptions to the rule but Most people will like what the beauty standart of their environment tells them to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:58 AM
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It’s true but is it really necessary to point out? All it does is minimize people traumas. People already don‘t take men being raped as serious as women being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:34 AM
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My stance on pedophiles is only a dead pedophile is a good pedophile. Japan is a country full pedos. Their media is full of child sex references. Their age of consent was 13 for the longest time. I would not base my moral compass on what is legal. Especially not when it comes to sexualisation of children in japan. It is also up for debate whether these dolls might actually reinforce the inclination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:17 AM
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I don‘t agree. As long as they are not hurting anyone or their choice of sexdoll is questionable, (for example child-sexdolls) what‘s the problem? I don‘t judge women who are infertile and buy these super realistic baby dolls either. Some people are in shitty situations and they handle them as best as they can without hurting anyone. Being socially inept is like a disbility. Not everyone can work their way out of it. And sometimes they dont even want to and thats fine to. Let people live how the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:04 AM
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There are activities / behavious you obviously don‘t do when you are taken. These are societal norms that most people whould agree on. Like going on dating apps or kissing other people. Going to the club however is not seen as cheating or as off limits for couples by default. So the expection here is that you communicate your boundaries early on if they they go against the grain. And that you at least aknowledge that its a dumb idea to find a girlfriend who is fine with not going to the club, at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:24 PM
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Going to the club is an activity you can do for fun and not because you want to get laid. Dating apps are exclusively for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:04 PM
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Men do care if women can get abortions. They are actively preventing it. Women are not actively stopping you from having sex. We don‘t want laws that are forcing men to be celibate. One of these two can easily be fixed. But how do you expect women to fix this problem for you? Men are so angry at women for not getting sex but what the fuck should we do about it? What‘s the solution? Force every women to have sex with 1 lonely guy a month? But then we would be whores which you also hate. Besides w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:18 AM
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I don‘t think partying has to equal cheating. If you go clubbing every couple months because its a special occasion fine. But people who party every weekend probably won‘t make a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 AM
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The only problem is when you meet a girl who likes to go to clubs and wear short clothes, decide to make her your girlfriend and then suddenly you have an issue with it. Probably even met her at the club. Just date girls who have the same opinion on things that are fundamentaly important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:35 PM
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What is so bad about a man waking up his woman with breakfast he made? 80% of women in the us regulary cook for their partner. Why is it so wrong the other way around? As long as men don‘t pull their weight in the household and in childcare, women wont want a man that offers less than them monetarily. Men care about male validation more than anything else. Women could tell you they are willing to be the breadwinner but men only care how other men view them if they fill a more domestic role. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:45 PM
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It‘s not considered anti abortion. I don‘t know how you got to that conclusion. A lot of men don‘t care about using protection now that they have to pay child support, what makes you think they would care more if there are no consequences? If the fear of paying child support makes you moves to another state, you would not be a good father and should not have custody. Most men don‘t want 50/50 custody. So if the mother of your child does most of the childcare, you have to compensate her for the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:18 AM
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That would be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:21 AM
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Women should date their partner for the man he is now. And not the potential he could be. If he has mental problems, doesnt behave as you want him too, has anger management problems, that is the man you will probably have to deal with for the entire relationship. Don‘t date a man because you think you can fix him. In most cases you won‘t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:43 AM
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You think women don‘t give blowjobs because we i itiate divorce more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:38 PM
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Asking for money sets a completly different scene. I am obligated to provide X for amount X. It‘s work not just fun. Besides, you would have to be good at it and put on a performance. If he pays, its obly about him and not about me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:23 PM
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I‘d argue that women do a lot more kneeling during the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:13 PM
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I just googled wheter there are certain physcal traits that are common among abusers. There are not. Or at least there was never a study about it. Men on here claim the attractive dudes are the abusive ones. But by that commentors logic it would be the other way around. I don‘t know if its true or not but it‘s a good argument imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:31 AM
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I am lol. But I think a lot of it also has to do with culture. It seems like in america it is much more likely to be hit on than it is here in germany. People here are mich more reserved in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:45 AM
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Abusive men dont have a look. Just because a guy is ugly doesnt mean he will treat you right. Someone on here once said attractive guys are more likely to be respectful to women because they have good experiences with women. Men who don‘t get female attention are the onces building resentment and being hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:56 AM
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Because women are being abused and men could care less. The comments here are relly telling. Why is it that women know how abusive it is but men who cosume most of it seem ignorant? It‘s an open secret. If you don‘t do the interview after a brutal scene and tell everyone how much you liked it, you are not getting paid. It is common that women have to wear diapers for the rest of their lifes because of anal scenes they had to do. A lot of women are traficked into it. But even if they are not, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:21 AM
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That is not the experience of the average woman. Yes you get a lot of attention on dating apps. 100 matches a day might be true for some women but after a week it‘s all the same guys if you don‘t live in a big city. Besides, since men swipe right on anyone there are a lot of guys who are not actually interessted in you. Most women I know don‘t use datting apps. Women don‘t get hit on as much as you think. For me (an average woman that doesnt really go to clubs and bars) I‘d say it‘s once every f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:59 AM
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We all need kids for society to function. So it makes sense for the governemnt to impliment incentives for couples to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:08 PM
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Yes, Katie chose to send the photo. But that doesn’t justify the humiliation she went through or the violence that followed. It’s shocking to see someone put the blame for that entire situation on a 13-year-old girl, while completely ignoring the boy who spread the image without consent. And if you’re seriously saying this had nothing to do with misogyny, you’re ignoring the many moments in the show that prove otherwise. Jamie idolizes his father simply for not hitting his wife—as if that bare m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:15 PM
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I don‘t know where you saw that but I just said she was also bullied but didnt kill anyone. And that other boys bullied him worse than she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:58 PM
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I wonder why men who are so young at heart that they need to date a 19 year old girl never care about their friends being that young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:13 PM
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Where did I justify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:35 AM
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kill a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:15 AM
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I understand the urge to be empathetic, but we also need to talk about accountability. Yes, Jamie was bullied. Yes, he was struggling. But so were others. And they didn’t become murderers. Even his victim went through something arguably worse. she was publicly humiliated, her nude photos shared across the entire school. She didn’t respond with violence. And let’s be honest: most of the bullying Jamie faced came from other boys. They mocked him, beat him up. But he didn’t hurt them. He killed a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:15 AM
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If I cut out men who play video games and men who watch sports I‘ll have to agree on the 20/80 rule cause my dating pool would be tiny. Besides I think its nice when we have different hobbies. I love when people are passionate about something. I would love to listen to my partner talk about a video game or science fiction movie eventhough I could care less about it. The general outlook on life and morals have to align. But if you have a parner that you actually care about music taste or hobbies …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:55 AM
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I nevel felt lonely. I love to be alone. And when I want company I can visit my friends and family. A good partner would be a cherry on top but I can live a happy live without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:13 PM
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No I don‘t care but I‘m also not from a tipping culture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:35 AM
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Yes it matters to me. I want him absolutely obsessed with me. As I would be with him. No inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:22 AM
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I don‘t think I contribute anything important to society but I‘m not selling cigarettes or fast fashion either. I make ads for so that out clients can find employees. Sometimes I make them a carrer websites. It‘s an easy but fun job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:27 AM
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I knew it looked wrong but was to lazy to look it up lol. English is not my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:23 AM
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I personally think a guy who can build stuff with his hands like a capenter or an electrician is so much hotter than a guy who just sits in an office all day like I do lol. But unfortunatelly you can often tell if there is an intelectual divide. Not that I claim to be particulary smart. I work in Marketing so more creative than smart. But for me it‘s important that he can grasp foreign concepts and that we can have conversations on a deeper level. Also, I think a lot of women would be much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:33 PM
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So do younger men. That‘s why they usually end up together Same goes for men. Sperm count declines and the quality is mucher lower too. Meaning older men are much more likely to father disabled children. Older women still have more options than men. Also the men age better stereotype existed because men were allowed to be ugly. Women were not. That’s why we had different standarts for men and women. However there is a shift nowadays. Women want partners they are attracted to while in the past th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:39 PM
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When it‘s their own daugther, men suddendly understand when age gaps are inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:33 AM
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Killing your partner is illegal, so why is murder through your partner still the leading death cause for pregnant women? Hitting women and children is illegal. So that means we won‘t need any women‘s shelters anymore right? And coming back to legal aspects: Most medicine is only tested on men. In studies they prefer to use men for test because their hormones or possible pregnancies wont effect the outcome as much. In return many medicines have a completly wrong dosage for women, dont work as int…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:08 PM
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Yes it is I agree. Like others have mentioned before, it is punisheable by law. Most women would agree that this is absolutely unacceptable behaviour. Women who do this are selfish, so I dont think telling them its wrong will do it. Selfish not only because they are forcing a man to be in this situation but also because they should have their kids best interesst in mind. And having a father that doesnt want them is a terrible outcome for all involved. So how can we change this? I think more men …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:04 AM
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I mean if you want to date a straight woman I think the expectation is that you have male anatomy. And if not, there are queer people who are open to different bodies. But dating a trans person and making them get more surgery is obviously shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:33 AM
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If you see no value in a womans partnership beyond her giving you children I fear for your future wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:20 AM
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I‘d wait maybe upto a year. But not untill marriage. I wouldnt marry anyone without having sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:51 AM
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Having prefferences is fine. But they shouldnt be forced ob your partner. I‘m sure there are many women who would love to be a tradwife. But don‘t date a carrer woman and try to change her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:09 PM
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Men have rights, both biological fathers and falsely named men have rights that shouldn’t be ignored. The biological father—no matter how "unfit"—has a right to know his child exists, and the falsely named man has a right not to be forced into fatherhood under false pretenses. We wouldn’t excuse a hospital for swapping newborns, so why allow paternity deception? Yes men have the right to know if they are the father. thats why paternity test are legal. And how do ou think people find out their ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:42 PM
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If a woman wants child support, she has to file the documents, in many cases get legal support and it can take years untill she finally has it. But its to much work for a men to do a paternity test? Besides, I thought you‘re all against big government? You realise there are also a lot of men who wouldnt want big coorperations to have a sample of their dna? Or maybe just dont want the paternity test done? If you want the test, do it on your own dime. Especially in america where healthcare is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:34 AM
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There are a million different things that could be defined as traditionally masculine or feminine. No one is going to agree with all of them. We all pick and choose what we want. I dont expect my man to be the sole provider, never show any emotions/weakness, and hunt for our food. But I do want a man that doesnt want sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:09 AM
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Yes women are less likely to date feminie men. But I think overall they are more accepting of them when it comes to social life outside of dating. Men are usually the ones insulting anyone that isnt traditionally masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:04 AM
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I do think men care about women acting feminine. Or at least a good amount do. Excessive dominance, lack of emotional expression, bluntness or agressiveness talking like sailor. I‘m sure some men are into that but I‘d say the majority is not. Or at least it seems like it when men talk about their ideal woman. I dont know which gender cares more about their partner acting as their gender. But I do think women have more leeway in society about being traditionally feminin. Men get more backlash for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:40 PM
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For me personaly its not attractive to me because I see it as less manly. So I guess I have to agree with the men that said its because we prefer traditional gender stereotypes. I dont see it as bad either. Most people do to some degree. Also, I would fear that I‘m just the beard for a gay guy. And things as simple as sleeping at a friends house would leave a bad taste in my mouth. Call me insecure but I know men wouldnt want a girlfriend that has tons of male friends either even if you trust th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:27 PM
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Why is ist always XYZ - phobic when it comes to dating preferenced? If you are cool with trans people but wouldnt date them, you are transphobic. If you are cool with „insert any brown/black ethnicity“ but wouldnt date them you are xenophobic/racist If you are cool with bi people but wouldnt date them you are homophobic. By that standart most people are and will always be racist & homophobic. Thats a sad way to look at it. I‘m half arab. If someone doesnt want to date me because they want a blon…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:20 PM
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Yes men don't either. A man could literally beat a women to the brink of death and would still see himself as the victim is she presses charges. But its not a men thing it's an abuser thing. he difference is that men don’t get to ignore reality the way women do. Like I said "A better statement for a debate would be „society doesn‘t see women as abusers“ I dont argue that society doesnt see women as abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:43 PM
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Men don‘t either. A better statement for a debate would be „society doesn‘t see women as abusers“
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:11 PM
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I don‘t like texting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:19 PM
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Its for both if you have the right partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:02 PM
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No I wouldnt date a conservative man. Sure there might be some common ground I can find with conservstives but when it comes to things like abortion I need to know we are on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:15 PM
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Yes that would be a dealbreaker for me. Not that most men would admit to it. It doesnt align with my morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:23 PM
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Thats like saying „No one cared about martial rape, it wasnt an issue back then“ Yeah and why do you think that is, Einstein? Womens voices didnt matter. They couldn‘t say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:09 PM
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Everyones saying they don‘t know the dick size before the hookup/relationsship. Can you imagine they just asked women what size they prefer for those scenarios? It‘s doesnt mean you‘d take out a measuring tape before a hookup to determine wheter you‘d sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:42 PM
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I absolutely hates this. They post for sympathy but get angry when people suggest divorce or say that their partners behaviour is not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:40 PM
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Ok but why is it wrong to say men should focus on their friendsships then? What does womens options have to do with it? If a married man told you you should focus on your friendships instead would that be wrong too? Obviously if you didnt ask yes. But this is a forum where women regularly are asked what lonely men should do in that case. I mean what else is there to say? You shouldnt be content without a partner so keep on trying eventhough it doesnt make you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:28 AM
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Yeah obviously thats the first choice. But thats not in the cRds for everyone. So at some point they have to realise it and look for other sources to have a happy fullfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:38 AM
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I know that‘s what all purple pill men like to believe. And I cant make ypu change your mind. But from my own experience: I only started dating at 25. I used to be overweight and therefor not very attractive. Also, I’m very tall for a woman so that also made it harder. I know for a fact I never punched to high lookswise. Even back then. Men hate that feminists generalize all men like „oh you are a white straight men, how hard can you life be? you are priviledged. But you also think women are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:17 PM
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No why would I? I wouldn‘t ban anal sex either just because it‘s not my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:53 PM
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Women have the option to have sex but not all women have the chance to get a partner. I personally don‘t think that access to sex deminises loneliness. Besides, it‘s not even necessarly good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:16 PM
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Not really the perfect flair for the post but I‘m happy you are content without a partner. I think we should stop telling people that every nut has its bolt. Thats simply not true and it was never true. There have allways been people who will go their whole life without a partner. I think we should normalise alternative lifestyles that dont focus on finding a partner and getting married. Having strong friendsships is jist as important. What‘s funny though is that when a woman would‘ve mentioned …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:32 AM
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I have empathy for anyone suffering from loneliness. But I‘m not sure what to do about it? I try to be nice to people when I‘m outside. I‘ve always made an effort to befriend outsiders that don‘t easily make friends at school or at work. But what else is there to do? Men don‘t listen to women wen we tell them to to to therapy. It‘s a fact that are much more likely to listen to other men then to women. So Men need to be the ones advocating for mental health among their friends. It wasnt men who g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:41 AM
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I agree with this. Feminists don‘t actually advocate for men‘s rights. Yes I see a post here and there saying all bodies are beautiful with a variety of male body types. But it‘s not as often as I see women shame men for their height or dick size. I mean I personally don‘t think feminists have the obligation to advocate for men. Women have much less knowledge of mens struggles. So men should do the first step of pointing out unfair treatment. But feminists should support them just like they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:21 PM
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Marriage is not necessary to have a strong support system. I love my friends kids. I'm always the one who bakes them cakes on their birthdays, I go to doctors appointments or pick them up from school if their mother doesnt have time. But why would I marry my friend? Thats completly unnecesarry. Besides I'm not their only support person. They have other friends and family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:55 AM
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You cant meet your friends at your house? Besides since women barely make the first move I highly doubt you‘ll get asked out so much you cant meet up with your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:56 AM
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That is the worst video you could have possible picked to prove your point. She is morbidly obese and therefore not attractive to most people. But her personality is so much worse. ‚Fremdschämen‘ would be the perfect word to discrible my feelings watching her friend beating around the bush and listing all the wrong reason why no one wants to date her. But since most of you arent german I will have to call it cringe. She is insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:32 PM
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That sounds like the perfect timeline to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:07 PM
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Not saying that male obly spaces should not exist. I think they should if thats what men want. But acting like thats the only place where you can met your friends is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:34 PM
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I think wanting a relationship and wanting sex on the first date are 2 things that dont fit together for most women. So his chances are low if he is honest about them. Never had sex on a first date (I know, I‘m not the person who was supposed to asnwear) But this is why I think its incompatible: If you want a serious relationship, there will be sexless period, no matter how much both of you enjoy sex. when she is pregnant or postpartum, maybe she has a particular stressfull time at work, maybe s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:21 AM
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Any information were you think this might be a dealbreaker for your partner should be disclosed early on. Otherwise you are just wasting both of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:45 AM
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Yes, women face unique disadvantages compared to men but they also have unique advantages. And why is it wrong to point them out and to advocate for change? For example, most medical testing is done on men. There is no legal requirement to have a mixed group of testers. The pharmer industry usually chooses men because there is no risk of pregnany and their hormone levels are more balanced. The result, many pills either don't work on women, don't work in the same dose or can lead to death. I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:15 PM
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The things she listed in the video are completly valid. same values, attracted to them, same interessts, wants monogamy, not a cheater, wants something serious Can a man please confirm that this is not asking for to much??? If feel like I‘m going crazy reading some of these posts here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:22 PM
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Will friendship also be considered a scam? Since the trend goes more and more to hyperindividualism instead of relying on community. This subreddit is really sad to read sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:23 PM
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You think women should do all childcare and household duties plus pay 50% on top? Seems lile you are to broke or to cheap to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:49 PM
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They dont. You can google it there have been more than enough studies about this. That depends on how every couple wants to handle things. Wheter they do everything 50/50 or one does the cleaning for less rent or whatever. Everyone should see whats best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:46 PM
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I mean how does this even work? When you were bullied in hs by lets say 4-5 girls. Its absolutely understandable that you dont want to date them. But its also unlikely that you will met them again 10+ years later and that they will ask yout out. But what is crazy is to project what those girls in highschool did on every woman you meet now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:36 PM
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Untill men do 50% of childcare and domestic labour they need to be the ones doing more of the outside work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:43 PM
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You realise that childcare and domestic labour is also work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:41 PM
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Men on here really think getting into a relationship with a man is like build a bear for women. You can just choose all the traits that you want. Edit: guantity doesnt mean quality. Yes women have more options but the options women have for an actual relationship, marriage and kids are much less. A ugly guys dont have better personalities than attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:06 PM
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No, I wouldnt be ok with any video porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:22 PM
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I would wonder why a dude that barely even knows me tells me all that. He should‘ve opened up about it to his friends not me. That‘s a lot to dump on a stranger just to get pity sex. Just hire a sex worker. I‘d politely end the conversation and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:05 PM
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Its crazy that you equate violence with petty theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:18 PM
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Crazy how men say they dont like overweight and old women but when I watch 90 day fiance I keep seing men who date them. Crazy how men say they care about a womans body count but yet they keep paying sexworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:16 PM
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a quick google search shows these are the main problems Lack of commitment (75.0%) Infidelity (59.6%) Too much conflict in the family (57.7%) Young age at marriage (45.1%) Financial issues (36.7%) Substance abuse (34.6%) Domestic violence (23.5%) Severe diseases or physical incapacity (18.2%)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:10 PM
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It‘s a no for me for completly different reasons. That‘s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:24 PM
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Generally I think OF porn is not morally wrong. But it doesnt change the fact that I dont want a partner that watches porn. People dont have excess to celebrities. Thats why Its different then a coworker. Basically porn is always a no for me. Wheter my partner knows the person or not. Fantasizing about someone is fine to me unless its someone they know in real life. No I dont think its better to fantasize about a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:29 AM
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Are these not real people? OF porn is still porn. I dont mind the movie thing. Its not porn. But fantasizing about people from work can easly cross the line to emotional infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:18 AM
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It doesnt involve real people. No one was harmed in the making of it. But if literary porn would also cause mental damage and fuel violence and abuse I would be against it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:38 AM
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No, I dont see any issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:31 AM
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All.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:41 PM
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But that is not what I wanted to know. I didnt want to know wheter men prefer submissive women or independent women. I wanted to know wheter men would choose their own happyness over that of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:04 AM
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Yes it can absolutely be beneficial. But is it really beneficial to your potential partner? It really depends on the individual. Some people have absplutely no business dating because they are destructive to everybody around them. But others can be a in a healthy relationship without putting others down. I think we all have our faults so its unfair to say you should only date as the perfect human being. Its a case to case thing wheter you should be dating or focusing on yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:25 PM
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You are delusional. Even OF creators or Prostitutes don‘t make that much on average. Do you really think the average man would pay that much for a women he might not even has sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:19 PM
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Is it that crazy that for some people they partners opinion and happyness matters just as much as their own? An extreme example on the womens end for this would be a woman that wants kids but her husband wants to wait. Its certain that he will be a great father that loves their kids even if they have a kid now. He just doesnt want one now. should she skip the birthcontrol? Why would she want to compromise? Most women would rather compromise in that situation. Yes some will be selfish but most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:03 PM
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Dont you think there can be another option where both compromise? Obviously the important things need to align. If one person wants kids and the other doesnt there cant be a good conpromise and that should be a 100% yes decision on both ends. But for things like one loves relaxing vacations on the beach and the other is more adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:56 PM
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My expectations were 70/30 in favour of the second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:50 PM
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Why giving orders? They would make compromises on topics they dont agree on. Both put in 50% to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:58 PM
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One could argue that having a woman cook your dinner, clean up after you and put out your clean clothes for the next day is more of a mother-son relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:25 PM
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What if you know she wont be happy with the end and there is no conpromise. Maybe you want kids but she doesnt. Maybe she wants to work but you want her to be a SAHW. She cant get out of the relationship, it has to be your decision. Would you rather end the relationship so she can pursue her wishes or would you keep it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 07:21 PM
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I honestly never met a guy with bad hygiene. I mean yes smelly people on the bus but never someone I know privately. Edit: Most men dont wash their hands after they go to to the toilet. I‘d say about 80%. You can hear when the water doesnt turn on after they went.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:46 PM
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Its a fictional caracter or a scene in my head. But I have no particular face in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:44 PM
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As Giselse Pelicot put it „shame should switch sites“ We can destigmatise being sexually assaulted for the victim but still treat rape as a heinous crime in the legal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:56 AM
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hahahha I was about to writte sydney sweeny cause she seems to be the new hot girl but I was to lazy to google how her lastname is written.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:09 PM
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1.A lot of men also claim they dont care that much about big boobs. But if a woman puts a picture showing of her cleavage on a dating profile she‘d still get more attention that the averade woman. The question is are these really quality matches? I doubt it. Same goes for the shirtless dude. For many women its more the thought of it that gets them going than the actuall thing. Women might buy a bigger dildo to try it out or for a once a year thing but on average they prefer regular sized onces. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:04 PM
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Women only complain about men making more money if a woman who is doing the same job gets less. Yes its illegal but still a very common thing. I agree that women should initiate more often. About the planning, in the course of the relationship, women do most of the planning. Christmas, birthdays, vacations, childrens activities. I think planning the first date (which is nothing in comparison, you just make reservations for a restaurant) is a nice way to see if he is willing to take a small part …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:10 PM
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Having sex with a man on a first date sounds crazy to me lol. This is why I cant date white guys. Everythig is to causal and commitment is a foreign word for many. But I‘d rather they be upfront about it so we both dont waste out time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:31 AM
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I‘d rather be single than date someone I‘m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:39 PM
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I know men like to spew the rethorik of women losing their wort after 30 to push women to secure a man early on and to marry young. But all I‘m taking away from this is that women shouldnt waste their time on a man at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:29 AM
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Yes I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:14 AM
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I‘m from germany and I never met a person that doesnt have a drivers licence in their late twenties. But even if they dont, thats not a bad thing. Maybe its not important to them. But I think it is Ok to say that you want a partner who does have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:13 AM
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In that case any form of conformation that your partner is not cheating would also be DV. Lile checking your partners phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:31 AM
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So you only date women who have sex with you on the first date? So are you fine dating women with a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:19 PM
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Recently this german reality tv star got a giant shit storm because her requirements for a potential boyfriend are 1. he needs to have a drivers licence 2. he musst have some kind of degree or he learned a trade. Literally the bare minimum for someone in their late 20‘s. But people still called her a gold digger. This is how I see this whole debate about women wanting money/status. No matter what requirement a woman has, she will be called a gold digger. If you want kids, dont date the guy who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:18 PM
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If you cant enjoy yourself on a first date with a woman, any woman without having sex with her maybe you shouldnt date women. You are not made to be a long term partner to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:04 PM
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I partly agree with you. Women should be held to the same standarts as men when it somes to clothing. I recently watched a titk tok from an hr woman who gives tipps for interviews. She mentioned that woman shouldnt show cleaverage for their cover letter image. Same as men. No more than 2 buttons open. And she got so much hate for it. I think there is a limit to what is appropiate. But I also think its inappropriate to strare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:48 PM
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I dont think anyone disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:29 PM
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If my needs arent as importsnt to my partner as his needs, I dont want him. I‘d do anything for my partner If they bring the same kind of energy to the relationship. If I have to tell my partner my needs are important too, its not the right partner. I get what she is saying but if your partner lets you do all the housework and childcsre to the point where you need to remind yourself that your needs are importsnt too, he is not a good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:38 PM
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Broke men can have sex. I dont think anyone is against this. Just use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:34 AM
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It doesnt matter what he did with his exes. I have my own expectstions on how I want to be treated. If he doesnt meet them, I wouldnt be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:18 PM
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Pretty sure they wont be together much longer. Once you get the ick its over
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:48 PM
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Pretty sure the creepy dude harrassing a women would not be opposed to beating women. But thankfully OP and the bartender had enough courage to help the woman in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:47 PM
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You dont have to feel safe to step up. She went into a potentially dangerous situation where she is at a disadvantage as a woman. Obviously she did not feel completly safe. Otherwise she wouldnt complain about her boyfriend not supporting her. But she still did it cause she cares about that womans wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:32 PM
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OP has more balls than her loser boyfriend cause she saw a woman needed help with a creep and steped up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:26 PM
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Deescalation should always be the first step. But if someone beats me and he doesnt step up I‘d definetly lose all respect for him and would end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:24 PM
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I wouldnt ignore my female friends if they were in this situation and I wouldnt ignore my man either. This isnt a female/male issue. That guy is simply a coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:17 PM
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The Boyfriend is a coward. This is why I always think its funny when men say they are the protectors. Without men we wouldnt need protection and woman are usually the ones showing courage in these type of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:48 PM
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I wouldnt be friends with a man. I know controversial take. I‘m germany so what americans call a friend would barely be an aquaintance to me. So a friend is someone REALLY close. The only men I‘d go to for emotional support are relatives or a potential partner. Things could just get messy otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:09 PM
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How do you know you could do the job effectively en masse if you've never done the job en masse? History shows women stepping into traditionally male roles during wars, from factories to farming to critical wartime industries. Capability isn’t the issue; opportunity and necessity are. Doing hard labor and fighting wars are "men's jobs," and women don't do that even in wartime. Women have fought in wars and still do in modern militaries. While it’s less common, it’s not unheard of. Hard labor, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:51 PM
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The global economy would certainly collapse, and we've seen what it looks like historically when large swathes of the population die and the economy collapses. People aren't walking around naked, but they are wearing the same clothing for extended periods of time because it's all they have. Yes, we'd absolutely need time to adjust and it wont be fun but we'd still make it. We'd make our own clothes. Just like women would do hard labour jobs if necessary. Because women have provided little eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:17 PM
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What if asia didnt exist anymore? Do you think we‘d all walk around naked cause we didnt have anyone to produce our clothes? Its absolutely crazy to me that men think just because some industries are dominated by men women would rather die than workkng in these jobs. Do you realise women basicslly had to take over when meb were at war? Women would have a hard time with 50% of the workforce gone.Nodoubt. But so would men. I think you are completly missing the point of women saying we dont need a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:17 PM
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He rolls up his sleeves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:28 PM
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I wouldn‘t mind. I would chat a bit but I wouldn‘t spend the whole evening with someone else if I went out with my friends. But we could exchange numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:47 PM
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I see these comments all the time on tik tok. There could be a chubby or fat girl talking about something completly unrelated and men while call her the most disgusting things. Or worse, an interracial couple where the woman is white. This really brings out the worst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:10 PM
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I‘d respect him more if he treated his exes well. I just wouldnt date a cheap guy. If has nothing to do with his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:04 PM
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It‘s always funny to me that western men see asia as this dating paradise for men. east asia has the lowest birth rates in the world. Do you think they were waiting for you? Go for it. Dating apps have a bad reputation in many asian countries. Its usually only men who have them to have sex with foreign women. Besides asian countries are so much more focused on looks. If you are ugly in the west you are especially ugly in the east.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:53 AM
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3,4 & 5 are absolute dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:38 PM
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I‘d rather just get to know the person and judge based on actual interactions with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:19 AM
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I absolutely think woman need to step up and get themselves out of abusove partnerships. Especially if kids are involved, I have no sympathy for a mom that puts her kids in danger by being with a violent man. I‘ve been in that situation too as a kid. Violent father and having to stay in a womans shelter. But if I see a guy being violent towards a woman in public, I‘d either call the cops or step in myself if I think I can handle the situation. Calling the cops is the least someone can do. We don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 PM
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When you walk out the door you are putting yourself in a dangerours situation. I am not affraid to talk to strangers. If they seem dangerous, I just call the cops. This might be a cultural difference. I‘m not in the US. not everyobe has a gun. I trust most strangers I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:23 PM
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I dont think I will make them develop empathy for others if I call them out. But I can stop a bad situation. For example I once called out a guy that was bullying a girl at the bus stop. He was maybe 16 and I‘m really tall so I didn‘t feel threatend eventhoug he was a guy and I‘m a woman. If your mom didnt want help, that‘s on her. But your neighbor still did the right thing. It could have been a life or death situation. It‘s hard to judge when you can only hear the screams from your neighbor. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:19 PM
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If it‘s a potentially dangerous situation I would call the cops instead of talking to them directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:10 PM
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This seems so basic to me. If my friends behave like assholes I‘d either speak to them about it or cut them off. A friend of mine cheated on her husband. We are not friends anymore. Simple as that. If I see a stranger behaves like an asshole, I‘d call them out on it or call the police if they are actively harming someone. Is this really such a foreign concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:28 PM
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Emil - relucant yes. Depends on how often he goes to bars. There are to many alcoholc men out there. Theo - No. I didn‘t read past „lawyer“ Julian - Yes we are very similar. He seems ideal James - No I‘m out at entrepreneur. Even if he was succesfull
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:19 PM
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I LOVE them. Makes a guy so much more attractive in my eyes. But I like bodyhair on a man in generell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:09 AM
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Like others said, don‘t get married if you dont want to. But here are some benefits men have in marriages: Married men live longer snd are healthier in generell. Married men earn more money (cause they can focus on their carrer since the woman usually do the childcare and domestic work even if they work fulltime themselves) Married men hare happier Married men get more and better sex These are not my opinion. These are the conclusions of studies that have been made. It‘s the opposide for women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:15 AM
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I think traditional is a word that leaves a lot of room for interpretation. For others a woman might not be traditional if she doesn‘t wear a niqab. And others think it‘s fine to have male friends. Its up to each couple to decide what works best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:04 AM
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I‘d bever use, even in my head the word „breeding“ in relation to a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:49 AM
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I‘m half german half tunesian. I can tell you, most western men would not up to standart for an arabic woman. The man pays for everything. wedding, general costs of living, house etc. His money is their money and her money is her money. But in germany however, everthing is 50/50. You can be happy if a german guy buys you a 2€ coffe. Which is also fine. You can decide which person you want to date. But don‘t expect a modest housewife who cooks from scratch and cleans the house while being the sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:15 AM
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You think parents of minority woman want their daughters to marry white men? It‘s actually a much bigger embarrassment for a brown woman to marry a white man than the other way around. Not saying that‘s a good thing. I‘m just saying your argument makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:09 AM
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You keep saying this is not about kids but mention kids 3x in your OP. I‘d go to war to safe civilisation sure. Since this isn‘t about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:17 PM
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Only a man could descripe parenthood and raising children as „giving up some of your time“
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:57 PM
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This sub is free birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:39 PM
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But they do. Most familys can‘t live of a single income anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:34 PM
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Maybe we should advocate for men to me more involved parents. I‘m sure parenthood would be much more attractive for young woman if they knew they had a partner they can rely on when it comes to chores, cooking and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:32 AM
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oh there absolutely is. The guy who is 27 and still hanging out with high schoolers. Has a minimum wage job and still lives at his parents house. But to a 17 year old it seems like he has his shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:09 PM
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I always hatted this argument. Women don‘t have to wear make up to the date. If they do wear makeup, they get more attractive partners in return. Or more valuable by societies standart. It‘s up to you if you want to make that investment. If the guy picks you up in a lambo will you pay cause he had to pay for the transportation? I think there are some valid reasons for the men to pay on a date. But this is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:24 PM
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No I wouldn‘t date men that hires prostitutes. But I also wouldn‘t recomment it to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:14 PM
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meanswhile 90% of people in jail are men. seems like men can‘t think logically and mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:25 AM
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that point went straight above his head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:37 AM
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What is the goal of this post? Do you think it proves women are misandrist if we‘d rather be killed by the bear then the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:50 AM
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so my choices are get killed or get raped and then killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:37 PM
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No actually it makes absolute sense. We are social creatures. I want to know how he treats people in general. If he wants to sleep with me of course he will treat me good. How he treats others is much more telling of his caracter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:50 AM
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I think it‘s also a cultural thing. where I‘m from it‘s very normal to travel out of the country at least once a year. For men and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:34 PM
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you realise these are hypothtical? theey don‘t show the actual dating market. men on average don‘t make 4x more then woman. And for every single mother there is a father who doesn‘t take care of his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:32 PM
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Germany. It‘s pretty standart in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:41 PM
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3 but if he is into animes where the women sound like squeeky sex toys he‘s out too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:35 AM
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honestly I just feel like animals can feel my cool vibes and we‘d be friends. I think I could win them over. Not a polar bear but maybe a cute black bear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:15 AM
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I never thought about it since there are not many south asian men where I live. And the ones that are here tend to stick to their own people. Generally I do have a slight racial preference for my own people but I would date a guy of any race. I would just come down to cultural differences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:11 AM
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I think it‘s a nice thing you can do for your partner. As long as he is capable of doing it himself and doesn’t become entitled I see no issue here. Acts of service is my love language. It‘s a small way of showing you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:04 AM
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Yes. for example, my friend has a beauty salon. She actually works more than her boyfried who is an elictrician. We actually all went to a harry potter theater play last weekend. It‘s not something he would have ever thought of himself. But he is a major nerd and loved it. some men do like doing outside activities or going on trips with their girlfriends. If you don‘t like that kind of thinks you shpuld look for someone that has similar interests as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:12 AM
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Great then you can cook for your girlfriend or you can cook together!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:10 AM
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If I look around in my friends circle, this is what the women I know do for their partner: -cooking their favourite meals/preping luch boxes - going all out on their birthdays, christmas valentines day and other hollidays - taking on the majority of the planning when they go on vacstion - Basically suggesting most activities they do -buying them presents eventhough there is no special occasion If you don‘t get that treatment you either have the wrong partner or you don‘t put much effort into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:00 AM
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I feel like it really depends on the situation. For example anal is a always ask for consent situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:34 AM
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I‘ve seen a million get ready with me‘s. And I‘ve never seen someone this undressed. Most of them are innocent. But this woman obviously just wants to promote her OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:45 AM
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yes I‘d definetly choose the man if it was a polar bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:59 PM
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Not at all since I‘m usually not in the middle of sowhere with a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:06 PM
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getting agressive/ angry over small things. It‘s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:44 AM
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He doesn‘t have to be hannibal lecter to be dangerous. I think most women know someone that has been raped. And most women have been sexually harrased before. Men following me trying to get my number and not leaving me alone is a pretty common thing. One guy even kissed me while I was waiting at the bus stop. And these were in public places in broad daylight. Men being creeps and potential rapist is much more common than you think. Besrs will only attack if they feel threatend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:39 AM
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Bear attacks are vers rare. Humans aren’t part of their meal plan. Statistically it is much more likely to be killed by a man then a bear. A lot of people are only as civil as their environment. In the middle of a forest where there is no consequences to you actions where you know you could do anything without anyone finding out…I‘d rather take the bear. Also about your salmon reference, I couldn‘t find any case of a bear skinnig a human alive. And being killed by a man can be just as slow and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:43 AM
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When he screams at video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:58 AM
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My father is an alcoholic. It‘s not just alcohol if you need it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:08 PM
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drinking so much alkohol that you are not in control of your body anymore. Or drinking alkohol every day. Even if its „just“ a beer a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:32 PM
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Every reason is valid. But if you complain about your lack of dates or ask others for advice, it‘s also valid to point them out / critisize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:17 PM
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But why marry in your 20‘s ? Most people are not financially stable enough for children in their 20‘s. So what‘s the benefit? We can‘t marry, have a bunch of kids, and buy a house with 1 income like our grandparents did. If you care for your potential childrens wellbeing, you‘ll plan to have kids only after you are financially stable. Which for most people nowadays is their 30‘s. Besides, I‘d want a partner that lived on their own, had relationships, had fun before I came along. I don‘t want him…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:14 PM
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I atually agree with this one. And I‘d include myself in this as a women. I mean it really depends since autism is a spectrum. But if communication is a problem for him, I couldn‘t deal with it. But if he tells me I‘m autistic that‘s why I might forget to text you. That‘s why I didn‘t know it was inappopriate to come to your friends wedding in a t-shirt. That‘ why XYZ…I can deal with it. But usually woman want is considered normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:03 PM
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Most women know a woman that has been raped. Most women have expirienced sexual harassment. These are Topics men usually don‘t really deal with. They don‘t think it happend to their mother, sister, daugther. Otherwise they would have surely talked to them about it? But women usually only talked with other women about these things. So I get why most women tend to believe the victims. It‘s normal to us. And I‘m not saying believe all victims and that there are no bad woumen who would do that. I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:49 AM
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Hair and beard can really change the whole apperance of a man. Do you know the barber shop videos where the guy looks like a homeless 50 year old and after he looks like he is in his 20‘s? They use wigs, spray paint to cover up bald spots and so on. they go all out. And it looks great. I‘d never judge a guy for all that. Maybe people are insecure and thats why they do it. Or maybe they just want to look the best they can with the tools they have. Both are probably true. There is nothing wrong wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:10 AM
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And you missed the point here. You didnt debate my arguments you just called them dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:35 AM
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But you still critisize people if they don‘t treat it like a debate. And then act like you don‘t care when you have no arguments to your claim. thats weak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:33 AM
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„Also, do you not understand the point of a debate?“ you literally just asked that another commentor. I could ask you the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:28 AM
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you really made me change my mind with your excellent arguments. Calling my point dumb really invalidates everything I wrotte.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:23 AM
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would you brush/style your hair even if you only go out with your male friends? Do you put on collogne and clothes you think look nice? Do you put any efford into your looks? maybe you wear contacts instead of glasses. Maybe you got your crocked teeth straigtend. Maybe you get a nice beard trim at the barbershop. Maybe you wear cap to hide your balding hair. If you do, you are insecure by your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:14 AM
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asexual people should really stick to their mutuals. It‘s not going to work in the long run. Even if he was willing to have sex daily to keep the relationship. It would feel like rape. So no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:56 AM
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I personally don‘t want children. I love them, but in small dosis so being an aunt is enough fot me. But I think most men wouldn‘t want children either if they had to take on the part of SAHP. Especially because its not as appreciated and doesn‘t give you the status a high paying job does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:52 AM
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It completly depends on what job the Provider has and how many children the SAHP has to deal with. For me personally, I think being a SAHP is much harder. Even with only 1 child I‘d choose to be the breadwinner. I like my job. I‘d rather do that than deal with kids 24/7. SAHP don‘t really get appreaciated much. I want that sense of accomplishment that a good salary or a certain job title brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:21 AM
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I know it seems impossible but people tend to be around people they have much in common with. if you earn 200k/year, you won‘t have a problem finding a women earning just as much at work. If you go to the gym everyday, you will find enough women at the gym who do the same. so that tiny % is probably much higher in your circles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:24 AM
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http://www.iwonderifyouareoutthere.com/woman.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:03 AM
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It think it‘s even less than 20% . 4% of men are single and in my age range (26-34 years old) Does it mean I‘m shallow I‘m not willing to date someone 20 years older or someone taken? I don‘t think so. Men also go for less than 20% of women. lets say you want someone single and between 19-34 years old. not taking looks, money, children religion or anything like that into consideration. Your dating pool is 5% of the us population.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:21 AM
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childless people are already paying taxes to fund schools, social programs for parents that cant afford their kids, playgrounds, free childcare (if you live in europe) minimum 14 weeks maternity leave etc. They even get a few hundred euros monthly per kid regardless of income where I‘m from. I was a kid growing up poor and the state basically pays everything. Tutoring, school field trips whatever. I don‘t think childless people owe parents anything. But society ows children a good start in live.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:16 AM
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I wouldn‘t date a guy who watches porn in a relationship. I consider it cheating They usually are very hatefull and misogynistic towards woman in porn They have unrealistic and harmful expectations towards sex. The porn industry is morally corrupt. People are forced into scenes they didn‘t consent to and have live long damage from doing dangerous scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:56 PM
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In every traditional culture the woman wants a man than can provide for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:38 AM
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I think the whole Stay at home wife thing or in this case husband only makes sense if you have kids. Otherwise there is not much work to do that would warrant not working. Yes it males him more attractive if he cooks for me and pulls his weight in the household. But I will do the same. And we should both work. I mean if I was a millionaire I wouldn‘t care about him working but most people cant live of 1 income
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:40 PM
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I just saw the post you were talking about. The woman in question talked about sexual harrasment and not flirting / asking someone out. So I don‘t know what your point is here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:49 PM
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Its OK to ask out a women in public. But woman can still take measurements to prevent being asked out. Neither is wrong. Its like putting on headphones because you don‘t want to be bothered. It doesn‘t mean you generally hate talking to people and you think it should be illegal. It just means you don‘t want to be bothered atm. Everyone around you can still have conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:17 AM
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I think we should stop seeing being in a relationship as the default. Everyone should be happy by themselves. Having a partner is nice but it shouldn‘t be your only source of happyness. And like others have said, I‘d rather date a man that wants me for me and not becauce he just can‘t stand to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:55 AM
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It would be illegal to film someone without their consent and post it online where I am from. (if it‘s a crowd and you didnt zoom in on 1 person its fine) Maybe that‘s why I personally think its unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:43 AM
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Its not common in my social circle at all. I think that‘s how I know I have good friends. My friends would never talk about their sex lives in a way that could potentially offer information about their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:40 AM
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No. Getting a DNA test done is simple. I you want one, you can do it yourself. It‘s the same thing with child support. The women isn‘t granted child support automatically once she gives birth. She has to take the time to fill out the forms and pay the lawyers in order to get it done. We expect adults to do the basic adult stuff like fill out the form or send out the letter. Is that really to much to ask for? I really feel for men who had to raise children that aren‘t theirs. it should be illegal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:33 AM
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No that would be a dealbreaker to me. Also with alkohol. If he drinks every week it‘s a no for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:32 AM
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it could lead to having your kids taken away if you don‘t provide them with a clean house. If kids go to school in dirty clothes, that‘s the first warning signal for school staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:27 AM
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the post specifically asks about getting married young. Being in a relationship since 20 and marrying late tweenties or early thirtys seems reasonable to me. But this is about marrying and having kids young which is stupid in most cases since most people won‘t be financialy stable at that point. Better risk not getting a man than raising kids in poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:11 PM
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I don‘t think the good men will be gone once I turn 30. In my books a good man isn‘t someone that wants to get married at 22. At least not good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:25 PM
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Not a man but I think one valid reason to dislike sexworkers is that they are willingly sleeping with married men. That‘s morally wrong in my books. I would not be friends with someone who sleeps with married men. Getting money for it doesn‘t change anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:47 AM
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Ok. no protect here from my side. Men should make their boundaries clear. So then the women can decide wheter it‘s something she can desl with or not. Same goes for women and their boundaries. Don‘t take bullshit from anyone and be honest about who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:13 PM
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Even if we make education more accessible and even provide childcare during shool hours, that doesn‘t change the fact that people can‘t afford to have kids anymore. At least not at the same rate our parents and grandparents were able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:04 PM
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what I noticed is that men get angry when a women has a long list of criteria for a potential partner. It could be 30 of the most basic things like „treats me with respect, washes his ass…“ But they get angry at the number of criteria. No matter how basic they are. They equate long list to high standarts. Maybe it‘s because they usually tend to think about these things less than women do and their list would therefor be shorter. Or they generally think a woman has high standarts when they can‘t …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:49 PM
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You need to make money in order to provide for yourself. If you don‘t, you are living on someone else‘s money. Earning your own money is More ethical than leeching of someone else. Also, having bad finances will drag your partner down too. You won‘t be able to afford kids. You won‘t have a safety net if either of you get‘s sick. Or get evicted or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:35 PM
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I don‘t date women. I have different standarts for friendsships and relationships. Therefore it wouldnt bother me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:45 PM
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A Woman has to file for child support it is not automatically granted after childbirth. Just like a father has to do a paternity test if he want‘s one. We Are expecting both adults to be adults and file out the paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:24 PM
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A Woman has to file for child support. It is not mandatory. Just like a father can do a paternity test. The government is getting involved by granting them the option to do either if those. Both are legal. But they have to do it on their own accord
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:21 PM
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A more fitting Headline would be „womens high standarts are encouraging men to come out if the closet“
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:48 AM
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I don‘t care at all. In he‘s Not comfortable Sharing thats Fine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:53 PM
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