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| – | All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships.Yeah I guess so. It’s sad, my weekend hobby is I float around my pool and smoke pot. It ain’t much but it’s honest work. I thought for sure I would be a father taking my kids to soccer or something. But it’s like, I need an outlet, and thank for marijuana was legalized where I live. Completely a godsend in this era where men are made to waste away or be worked to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 08:08 PM |
| – | How do the late 20s - 30s+ men even hold conversations with much younger women?There are? I don’t know any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:10 PM |
| – | All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships.I was considered good looking in college and racked up 16 partners and I can barely get a like today. It’s crazy. Women today have zero value or regard for good men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:08 PM |
| – | Guys looking for a LTR benefit more from splitting the billMy ex began to resent me from the get go when we split bills. I was attractive enough to get away with it for a while but eventually she cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:28 PM |
| – | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.So you go through life scared to death and wimpy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:25 PM |
| – | Debunking the discourse surrounding the 63% - 34% single men vs single women statI’m in my mid 30’s and the situation isn’t any better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:20 PM |
| – | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingWhat a typical leftie you are. Quick to throw your hands up and give up on life over 100 things all out of your control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:05 PM |
| – | How do the late 20s - 30s+ men even hold conversations with much younger women?Yeah that’s probably true. I have a Master’s degree and a high IQ. Women don’t care. I think I’m too smart to deal with women anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:02 PM |
| – | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingYou missed the part where I said life isn’t fair, there’s nothing that can be done. And if we don’t want to continue the species through relationships and sex, we’re simply a useless, dead end. mentally ill society, that has no value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:58 PM |
| – | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menThat’s pretty crazy you can ask someone to hook up. If men try that it’s sexual harassment. In the old days a woman would get slapped for trying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:38 PM |
| – | How do the late 20s - 30s+ men even hold conversations with much younger women?I can’t relate to most women but especially younger women because they are just dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:24 PM |
| – | Men have to be a little entitled to womenIf the goal is reproduction then we are both entitled to each other in some sense. We have to work together to build a good society but we are all so selfish and atomized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:19 PM |
| – | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingWell, I’m not going to write a novel about every positive trait I could possibly have. Life is a process of learning. I’ve learned a lot about women since I was first sexually active in ‘09. I’ve learned I can be a very desirable partner. I didn’t think 16 partners was that high, until I talk to gen z men who are all virgins. I also learned women can be vicious. Absolutely vicious. Something is holding me back, I don’t know who to trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:08 PM |
| – | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingI don’t consider myself mediocre. I’m pretty tall, Italian good looking, double the average income, but I still don’t see any prospects for raising a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:02 PM |
| – | Any method a man can use to get into a relationship is demonisedThere is no good method to get into a relationship for a man. It’s pure luck, and otherwise you’re in silent hill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 12:12 PM |
| – | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingIt’s unfair because many more men than women are single and most of us won’t have children, which is a cultural shock for those of us who remember the 90’s and early 00’s when kids were common, but life isn’t fair. That’s the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:58 AM |
| – | All the kerfuffle about "older men with younger women" overlooks what is possibly the biggest reason why it happens: Younger women often aren't looking for relationships.I’m single in my mid 30’s. I don’t get responses from any women 20’s or 30’s. It isn’t even a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:13 PM |
| – | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?I never want to date someone who is afraid of me. That’s cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 11:04 PM |
| – | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?I never get responses on dating sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 10:58 PM |
| – | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersNature made men the dominant half of the species. Why aren’t we being utilized for any specific purpose consistent with our nature? Why aren’t we raising families? Women celebrate embodying their identity. Men cannot, Because women and society hate us. Women who want to lead in relationships can’t tell you why they even want to be in a relationship with a man. I think it’s bad for men’s mental health to be controlled and dominated by women who don’t even like us. Scientifically when a woman out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:06 PM |
| – | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersI haven’t found it hard in the past. From 09 to 2023 I was in a succession of relationships and I’m just coming to terms now with learning to value myself above relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:17 PM |
| – | What song describes your view on dating/ relationships?Bitches ain’t Shit by Dr Dre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays?No one on social media is happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersYes I think men should be the leader in the relationship. We are tall, have stronger muscles, nuts, so why would a tiny, vagina-owner be the leader? It’s emasculating and domineering for a woman to lead men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersAre the men happy in these relationships? I have my doubts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersAnd they will divorce at high rates as those relationships become dominated by the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:58 AM |
| – | Why bother dating if you hate the people you're attracted to?Women lack values today because they’ve been permitted to do so. They are still human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:42 AM |
| – | Why bother dating if you hate the people you're attracted to?Maybe some men grow resentful of women who constantly treat us badly and with zero respect. But I think most men instead just quietly get disgusted, not actually hating women, but hating women’s behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?I see women notice me all the time, every time I leave the house. What I don’t like are the relationship dynamics today where men are made to be more submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:35 AM |
| – | Why bother dating if you hate the people you're attracted to?Men don’t hate women, women hate men. Women complaining about men who hate women are 100% projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?Women lie because they are insecure about themselves and aggressive about getting what they want. They see men as inferior things to be conquered, used for resources or sexual gratification, and then discarded. This is their unrestricted nature we’re witnessing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?Because they are thinking about men. Women just think we’re too stupid to notice. You’re banking on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?Yes I’ve seen that switch happen in my prior relationships. If you confide in a woman or show any struggles or vulnerability she will stop desiring you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?Women have an in-group bias, they crave and enjoy social dominance over men, they enjoy emasculation of men, why would they ever need to dwell on one man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:07 AM |
| -2 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersI don’t see equality in relationships today, I think women have taken control in the realm of relationships, men are feminine and submissive today, and it’s led many men to leave the dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:33 AM |
| -1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersYou’re telling me men’s social status is artificially lifted and women’s social status is artificially suppressed. You’re telling me women lack self esteem in terms of abilities and men have too much. Maybe you’re right, in some areas. But at least straight women will come to regret painting men as their social inferior. It’s grossed out enough men to keep a majority of us from dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:24 AM |
| -1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersYou’re kind of beating around this bush, let me ask you out right, do you think men are inferior to women and should men be socially submissive? I took my anti nausea pill for the day so you can be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersThere are a lot of types of couples arrangements today that turn my stomach. Women today seem to enjoy being above men in the social dynamics, seem to enjoy leading men in relationships. It’s like for a while no one noticed but now it’s gotten gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:09 AM |
| -5 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersA lot of this praise of women also serves as backhanded insults to men. Not too long ago women hid their superiority complex, now they bang it like a big old gong anywhere they go. If we haven’t collectively denigrated men enough and it’s already vomit inducing I don’t know what to tell ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 12:05 AM |
| -5 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersWhen you see men have no choice but to live at their parents house, while single women get good jobs and buy homes. It becomes a reversal of power, not equality. With women having the degrees. The jobs. The houses. They have the social power. Straight men don’t want to be feminine. We don’t want to go begging women of higher social status. That’s sick. Decent women wouldn’t do that to their men in a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersBy masculine i mean women who are individualist, indifferent, critical of men, domineering, women who place value on out-competing men in education and in capitalism, which is what is happening. Men don’t want to become women, or play the feminine role. That’s why so many men are single. We would rather be single than be in the feminine role in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:24 PM |
| -8 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersThe social trends may have benefited some groups, but I look back on heteronormativity in the 90’s and early 00’s as a time that was more stable, less mentally ill, more monogamous relationships, more children. It was better for the majority. Women didn’t overtly hate men as they do today. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m disgusted by how women think about men and treat men that I’m pushing women away in my personal life. You don’t see the cracks in the so called social progress. 63% of men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:18 PM |
| -2 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersOf course it was. The masculine women we have today are undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:59 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADI agree it’s doomed to fail. Women are becoming masculine-presenting as a default. Financially they want a man to be a provider, but they otherwise want to act like men. And since we aren’t gay, we don’t want women to both act like men and take financial advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:55 PM |
| – | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADBumble is so gross. Why do women want to be men today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Contextualizing the Pew relationships surveyThink about how much gayer society got over the last twenty years. Gen Z has more gays than any generation. A similar change happened to women. Women have become more masculine. They display masculine indifference toward men, so of course we give up on dating. These women are impossible to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:43 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.That’s a fancy way of saying you want to be domineering, accusatory, judgmental, and devalue your man, and get away with it. That you deserve a yes-man you will walk all over. Revolting. 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:36 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.Women like you will have all kinds of excuses and justifications about why you deserve an overly attentive yes-man partner who will let you take the lead and be the man in the relationship. I was the one who ended both my LTRs so not all relationships follow this silly pattern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:31 PM |
| 10 | A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that.Men need to harden up, turn inward, turn away from civil society. Stop participating as much as possible and focus on yourself. It’s not a bad thing. This is what needs to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I didn’t even think 16 was that many partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:32 AM |
| -1 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.The way relationships work today is the woman are dominant over the men, and sexless marriages are very common. Most women have had sex just to appease. It’s gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:20 AM |
| 2 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.I don’t think that’s very common. Most women use sex as a form of control and manipulation. They need that tool in their tool kit to manage their man. That’s how they see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I used to have those desires but it’s not possible with women today. I don’t know if I will ever want to live with a woman again after my ex. You are taking your peace for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.If women do think this they apparently aren’t that smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:10 AM |
| 21 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.In my experience the fastest way to make a woman disappear is to say you won’t have sex right away. This frightens and confuses them because woman are socialized to think men are the dumber and hornier sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I’m 35 and have had like 16 partners. I feel like I got to have a lot of fun compared to the guys in their 20’s today, and I dodged children, and now I’m free to live as a bachelor, it feels great for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | 4b movement isn’t so badAre you trying to subtly roast me for being single? I like being single these days. I’ve had my share of sex before this culture went bad. I’ll take that as a win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:55 PM |
| -1 | Debunking the discourse surrounding the 63% - 34% single men vs single women statI think it’s true and also awesome men are staying single.. Modern relationships are repulsive. Effeminate men being dominated by masculine women. 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:51 PM |
| 3 | 4b movement isn’t so badGot any more digs, I like it when true colors surface. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:49 PM |
| – | Do you need to have seen a man's flirty/sexual side before you can want him?I feel bad for him, a man with a man-hater wife is cringe. A majority of marriages are sexless, probably because manly women are beating their husbands into a submissive position. A man needs to stay single today for his own self preservation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:34 PM |
| – | Do you need to have seen a man's flirty/sexual side before you can want him?From your posts I would be surprised if you wanted a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:22 PM |
| 4 | 4b movement isn’t so badThat’s awesome that us men are such disappointments to you & your friends. That warms my heart. Do your little 4B. Won’t affect me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsI haven’t had sex since the ruthaford b hayes administration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 06:55 PM |
| – | Would “emotional labor” be better described as “consideration overload”?I don’t need to do emotional labor. Emotional labor is for pussies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 02:04 PM |
| – | Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare]You know in 2004 emo girls would put eyeliner on you. Now women say “be in your masculine”. What happened? I’m like sexist emo. Go back to putting on my eyeliner. We used to be a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:25 PM |
| – | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesI know things are different today because in 2003 girls would do your eyeliner for you. Now suddenly they why conservative provider type men back. Total about face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair)It’s a lie to sell marriage to men and hallmark cards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:00 PM |
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