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| 7 | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone else | Debate | Hot_Radiosensitizer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:06 AM |
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| 5 | CMV: Getting "called a creep" is an excuse why men aren't approaching anymoreNah bruh, back in my single days I would pull off some awkward (but harmless and well meaning, just awkwardly put) shit around cute girls But they never have/had a problem with me. Even my girlfriend whom I love very much thought it was funny. The bottom line is this, be brutally honest about your own behavior. If your acting like a creep, change your habits. If you aren't, then dont take it to heart or let it get you down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | The current rhetoric is that men and women have unrealistic expectations for potential partners. What unorthodox or off-label quirks or unconventional features do you find attractive?Love of parrots. Parrots are beautiful, smart, and have such happy personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?Im not denying that a decent amount of women can do that, but your definitly exaggerating things in your head. Not healthy imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Men say they are criticized for having high standards but it seems they are criticized for having low standards as well?Ironic that everyone wants to do their thing without criticism but at the same time have an opinion on everyone else who apparently is doing it "wrong". 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:50 AM |
| – | The black pill is becoming more popular than the red pill because of two reasonsIdk, often times when I understand a girl more, I start to like them more. If I cant understand them, that becomes a problem lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Self improvement is quite limited for menMaybe for a PhD in gender studies. Imo its either smart people who like research / academic environment or people who just want to get a career / higher salary via education. Also depends on the institution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:09 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallPlease stop using the terms alpha and beta, they were made for middle schoolers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you think will be the next big paradigm shift in dating and relationships after OLD?Damn right. Thats called taking trillions in tax dollars and giving the people MORE laws, unecccesary regulations, and subsidizing stupidity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:48 AM |
| 9 | What do you think will be the next big paradigm shift in dating and relationships after OLD?The government might try some B.S. and use taxpayers dollars to fund dating programs to boost super falling birthrates. Look at China, Japan, and especially South Korea. They are doing it now! Government already has too many laws. No need for another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:10 AM |
| 5 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.All men and women are a deeply broken person in their own way. No relationship is perfect. Stop trying to be a disney prince/princess. Relationships can still one of the best things in life despite that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:05 AM |
| – | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?"I don't think it necessarily works like this. You can be dutiful and feel zero love to this person, but you still take care of them or do what you think you have to do because it's your responsibility. I.e. children of abusive or neglectful parents can take care of them when they're old and feel no love to them. " I agree 👍. I dont think it necessarily works like this either. I think it sometimes does. Using your same example, I think most adult children who take care of their parents do feel s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:48 PM |
| – | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?I guess you are correct in your first idea IF you dont link the ideas of atheism and an origin theory together. Because people choose to do bad things. God created people with free will. Do you ever know that something is wrong, yet do it anyway? Im sure you do. Even if a child can imagine a world without sin, can that same child then live a life free of sin, which would be required in that world? Its a tragedy that anyone has to go through that. The world needs more love. And you are right to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?"Typical thiest viewpoint. We cannot explain something so it MUST be divine lmao." Typical atheist viewpoint. We cannot explain it, so it MUST have just randomly happened. "Thiests only seem to be moral under the guidance of some benevolent being. The rest of us are able to not be pieces of shit by our own volition." I dont think most people are good people. I think most people like to believe that they are so they can have a self righteous mindset Lets try pure anarchy then, and see what happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Men do not have high beauty standardsIts all relative. I would rather have a girl who is not as attractive that is devoted to me and can match my energy I am an attractive guy. Ive never approached a girl. I feel like Im always in a relationship bro. Theres too much casual sex floating around anyway, I dont like it. I need a girl who is devoted to me and takes care of me and my needs. But I feel like I have that, so I am happy. Everyone has different expectations. Some guys only care about a girl being hot. But hot people in genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 07:44 PM |
| -2 | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?I think having a duty to someone builds love for them. Same with someone having a duty to you. Does that mean it can solely grow into something like intense pure love between 2 people? Probably not, but that love is so fucking rare in our society anyway. And I would argue atheist/agnotic types are significantly less likely to find that love anyway than a Christian. As someone who is fairly educated in science, that is a joke to me. Study some basic molecular biology and ask yourself "is this all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?Duty and love are not mutually exclusive and to assume that the two do NOT have a causal relationship with each other is..... in my opinion deeply flawed. I dont think science brings people away from religon and God. I think the church having less political power so there being less of a social capital / economic incentive play a role. I think people use science as an excuse. The more you know, the more you know you DONT know. That applies to science I think the point OP may have been trying to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Could atheism by the reason behind the alienation of men and women?Yes, atheism and nihilism are the main problem. And not just in dating, but in other areas of society Viewing people as intrinsically nothing but a set of specially arranged matter leads to a pretty empty life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:08 AM |
| – | What are your guys views on "entitlement" of sex in marriage?Then why do we pay the government taxes? Answer my fucking question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 08:28 PM |
| – | Red pill ideologies do not make sense to meYep.... mediocre guys feeling entitled to a perfect girl is either naive or stupid, depending on how you look at it. Social media has also gave men and women the delusion that who they date should be very attractive, which is unreasonable unless they are also hot LOL Imo young men should be encouraged to find happiness with girls who have similar values and interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:37 AM |
| – | Red pill ideologies do not make sense to meFrom a nihilist atheist worldview..... this is true. Fuck, I feel sorry for anyone who has that worldview though 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:25 AM |
| – | Red pill ideologies do not make sense to meRight! Its the same with government. Governments are always trying to raise taxes and take more of our money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:24 AM |
| – | Red pill ideologies do not make sense to meRedpill ideologies in my opinion hurt young men far more than they help them. What would be helpful would be encouraging young guys to work hard to be successful, assertive, and do well in college and career. People want to feel special and like they deserve someone special. Cast aside the fact that most people arent particularly attractive or talented, but the pills make them feel valuble like they have some special knowledge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Anyone with a brain (you dont have to be redpilled or this so called 'alpha male') can see what the guy you are talking about acted like a fool. That doesnt even indict all male feminists or 'bluepillers'. Its not about being redpilled or alpha or all these stupid terms..... its about being a man and having control over you and your own life. And not being afraid to do things that need to be done or being a submissive pushover. Stand up and be a man. Be assertive. Thats all you need brotha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateWho tf are sending all of these is my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 07:14 PM |
| 22 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateYep, Its a very neurotic post. And his mindset is a bit of a self fufilling prophecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateHuh? Are you saying I said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:29 PM |
| – | “Hook-up culture“ is mostly a myth, the vast majority of women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire adult lives.Good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateGotcha, then I'm wrong I think you are still being a bit hyperbolic, but yes women almost always have more options via online 'dating'. We agree, yep were at a disadvantage there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 17 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateYea she probably pays for the premium, is on there a lot, and is super hot bro. Most girls arent like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateGood question, idk depends on how you define it Example of cold approach: At a fun party-like event and girl says hi and asks me what my name is. We talk for 5 min, exchange snapchats, then part ways. Sometimes it happens more than once at the same event if I stick around for a while. Not rocket science, this is probably pretty common. People do this platonically to too make friends! Exanple of social setting: this hapoened to me last night. Me and my buddy were a little baked, driving through T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateOn real life its always I get approached bro. Its not super often but enough to be noticable I dont really use social media, at least not facebook or instagram, at all so idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateIn my experience yeah. Girls approach me more than vice versa The girls you are talking about are often just lonely and have no close friends so they just do that shit to not feel isolated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:42 PM |
| 41 | Men mistake women ignoring most men as her being loyal. Let's debateYour tripping bruh, girls dont get that much attention unless they seek it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 06:35 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elsePeace homie ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:57 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseNot sure how you interpet that. You can break it down for me how u got there LOL You assumed the most radical interpretations of my post. Thats what social media encourages, and what a lot of people do because shades of gray are hard to think about. Look at it like this: Im not making a "people these days" complaint. I am making a "people are always this way" complaint. Fear of change inhibits change, a good relationship should work to overcome that no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:46 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseTechnology cant change who someone is as a person. As far as human behavior goes, there is nothing new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:40 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseThere is nothing new under the sun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:31 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseYou are right about what YOU are saying. You are also assuming things that are incorrect about my position. I think change is hard and sometimes even impossible. Its difficult and painful. Ask my buddy who stopped using heroin. There is no easy way and often times, maybe even most times, it fails. People are fairly rigid and most people will likely never have material wealth or social fufillment, no matter how hard they 'grind'. I dont view working longer as making your life more boring. On the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:29 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseThats a good point. I stand corrected, because fear is probably a much larger player than arrogance. Then I guess what I'm saying is having someone who cares for you can abate some of that fear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:17 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseThank you sister. All the best of luck Your friend, -Hot Radiosensitizer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:13 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseI would expect you to be able to exercise some level of deductive reasoning. But, fine Ill elaborate You should probably be thanking me right now for kindly allowing you the freedom to take the argument where you want to go, got it punk? 🤣 My girlfriend helped me to stop vaping, something that had been a goal of mine. If I thought I shouldnt change, I never would have done that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:07 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:03 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseYes, of course. Its an internal locus of control. For example, most people cant work 60 hour weeks anymore. The government gives people free money to leech of of too, that certainly doesnt help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:03 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseYeah ofc this doesnt apply to casual dating. My post specified in a relationship, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:01 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseIm 20 years old. Maybe its a larger problem with people in my generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:58 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseThats a good point. Self improvement gurus are generally scam artists with no substance. Im talking about being actually being willing to sacrifice your own time and energy to maybe not make any improvement at all if your not lucky. Noone said change was easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:54 PM |
| – | People nowdays just too rigid or arrogant to try and change for someone elseYes, the post is vague. It is meant to criticize a problem I see. Not specific examples of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:49 PM |
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