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Why is that the solution though? To just ignore their problem and get angry in response to their anger of being ignored. Could you imagine if that was the response to things like same-sex couples, slut shaming, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 05:08 PM
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I think you are looking at this from the viewpoint that the only way to solve this problem is for women to change who they are attracted to. This is like the whole fat-positive movement. Women can't change that most men are not attracted to fat people. However, what feminists could do is create a movement to help guys that struggle with women and support them. Make them feel good about themselves. That would likely garner enough good-will to help quell the misogynistic talk. These guys are turni…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 05:05 PM
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I disagree I have been asked out and those are the women I liked the most. Like you said not every man and woman is the same. I think a lot of men would love the attention and be extremely grateful. Men don't get it as often as women so it means more to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 12:34 AM
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multiple concurrent "dating" sexual relationships What do u mean by this? Like going on dates with multiple people at once but not seriously committing to any of them? Or is it being in actual relationships with multiple people at once? The latter seems very uncommon or at least I haven't seen it. Yeah, the latter is a red flag for me. The former could just be a woman testing her options before seriously committing to one of them. As long as she is open about it and it doesn't drag on for a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 11:43 PM
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It sounds like you are saying highly promiscuous people attract other promiscuous people and that creates an environment that is perfect for cheating. I agree with that. Certain lifestyles attract certain people. I would never slut-shame anyone. I do think that lifestyle though does undermine the relationship. I would never marry someone like that. I would have fun or even a relationship with someone like that. I do think people can change, though. So for instance, if I met a girl and she was ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 11:15 PM
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I think you are looking at it from the POV of a man. A man usually has to invest more time, energy, resources than a woman to get sex. So they end up more invested and it means more to them. That is not always the case for every man but most men. When you can get sex easily it can become meaningless and something you do when you are bored/horny/etc. Without the investment, you become less attached to the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 10:50 PM
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Well I didn't know about common low marriages. I was just assuming if that was a big deal for you that you could easily avoid it. I will admit it seems a lot harder and more complicated than I initially thought. Though not many states have common law marriage, they have other mechanisms it sounds like to assume you are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 10:13 PM
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I think it is because of the societal views instilled on people. Women are usually seen as more pure and good than men. These societal views hurt men and women but I think that is why for some women not being pure and good is more of a shock. Like you said men leave women that are sick more often because beauty is something attached to women. Women leave men over money because providing for the family and the woman is something attached to men. It is unfair for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:09 AM
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I agree but I was like the person in this article. I was giving weak signals that I wanted him to stop and he took that as an invitation that I just needed more convincing or that I would like it when it happened. I wanted to say no but didn't wanna ruin the mood completely and I was feeling peer-pressure. It wasn't until I was clear that it stopped. I just don't believe that believing in the good-will of people or for them to know your true intentions unless you make them clear is a good idea. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 07:49 AM
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You can still be considered feminine and be a lesbian. If you are gay you lose your masculinity and are considered to be more feminine. Society still largely shackles men to the concept of masculinity. If you don't follow it you are shamed for it. That drives a lot of their behaviour. I consider it slut shaming for men. Women were slut shamed imo for not following society's vision of female sexuality. Men are shamed through masculinity for not following society's view of male behaviour in genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 07:38 AM
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Yeah, it may be different where you are from. I am bi and when I am with women I feel like I need to perform for them. A huge quirk of being with guys is that since I am much younger and usually with much older guys I feel like the performance burden is on them to please me. So it is nice for it to be more about me for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 07:10 AM
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Dude that is everywhere. People always aren't paying attention. That is why there is an accident everyday on the highway making traffic horrible. Yeah, it is irresponsible and terrible. However, somebody being unable to say no is like driving with no brake pedal and expecting everyone to just get out of their way. It is just crazy. If you are actually trying to help stop rape you do it by teaching people to say no not relying on the rapists to stop. Yeah in an ideal world I should be able to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 07:03 AM
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I think the partner that wants to stop should just say that... Why make things so complicated. Ever do anal? It always hurts a lil at the beginning. Literally would never have sex with your advice. Hence why it is a bad indicator of stopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:50 AM
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You don't need to overpower him. You just need to open your mouth and say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:48 AM
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No both parties are equal and should share responsibility. I am a bi dude and I would not rely on some dude to just know that I want him to stop are you crazy? That is how you get raped... I was a skinny 18 year old and pretty much had the physique of a girl. I met up with guys in their 30s and 40s who could easily overpower me. I had one dude try and rape me and I just pushed him off (he didn't resist) and said no loudly. If you cannot say no you shouldn't have sex period. Also I was in the clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:48 AM
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I didn't vote for Trump and really hate that he is our president. However, he is crazy rich, has a hot wife, is the president of the USA and gets to rub that in people's faces. Of course he is happy. Damn what more do u need to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 06:32 AM
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Can't you just get a pre-nup or get married without signing the marriage license?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:55 AM
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So if a woman lies to a man and tricks him into paying for a date when she's not actually interested in the date, red pillers have no moral judgments with that? Oh wait, they do. But it happens all the time and no one says anything about it... There are running jokes about it at this point because it is so commonplace and accepted. This isn't about you vs your girlfriend. This is about the child deserving to have some sort of support from both parents after it's born. He isn't saying child suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:49 AM
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Well maybe not GTA but you can learn some stuff from Forza like if you are driving fast it is better to hug the inside of a turn. I think most people know not to do the outrageous things but can still pick things up from games/porn/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 05:49 AM
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He also may see that as abusive and unhealthy. I am not saying he is right but there are a lot of reasons he could have been very put off by that request, enough to break up with her. In the past, I would have probably thought the same. If someone told me they did that to their girl I probably would think they are abusive even if they said their girl asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 05:44 AM
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Come on, try and think a little bit. You want to stop drunk sex, you'd have to stop alcohol No, you don't... You could say the same about drunk driving but it doesn't make much sense. You assume everything is all or nothing. Oh, he said drunk driving is bad. We need a way to stop it 100%. The only way to do that is to get rid of alcohol. Conversely, you could see not everything is 100%. You can just have huge punishments for getting caught and discourage it. That is what we do with drunk driving…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:21 AM
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Sounds good to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 10:50 PM
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If you don't want kids it is a very bad idea. There is almost no reason you should get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 10:45 PM
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even at many high income levels At high-income levels, people realize you can actually hire someone to do that job and it doesn't cost much. Why else be a housewife after the kids are in school? The only reason I can think of is that you don't want to work. That is a fine reason but that is also why people will look down on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 10:02 PM
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I grew up in a really wealthy environment and not everyone who is wealthy is anywhere near that busy. Sure my siblings and I played sports but that was pretty much it. Cooking and cleaning was paid for and done by maids or nannies. How hard is it to tell them what to do? For example, where I grew up people were so wealthy they had servants' quarters that were bigger than most people's houses. Most of the time my siblings and I were just hanging out with our friends. In fact being wealthy makes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:42 PM
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So is manslaughter but driving while drunk is now also a crime to help reduce cases of manslaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:24 PM
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No, those problems are not like rape or manslaughter. Really isn't even funny to compare them. That is why drunk driving and drunk sex should be illegal. The consequences of those actions are much more severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:22 PM
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Why limit it to sex? It is limited to sex and drunk driving because there is a prevalence of cases where being drunk was a contributing factor in rape (sex) or death (drunk driving). They both get in trouble. Of course, they could both keep it a secret and no one gets in trouble. I could get drunk and dox you. If that becomes a common problem then sure we can address it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:19 PM
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The difference is that driving or having sex while drunk can put people in dangerous situations (drunk driving/rape). Getting drunk with friends you trust does not put people in those dangerous situations and should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:11 PM
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What do you think my brother's wife is really contributing? I feel like my brother's wife is the typical wife. Stay home and watch the kids. That is a pretty small contribution imo. A teenager could fulfill that role. My brother could drop his son off at my mom's while he was on leave and she would do it for free. That is what some people do as a job. When I was little my mom would hire a live-in nanny to watch my siblings and I. She would be gone on business trips frequently. I doubt the money …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 09:05 PM
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Sure multiple partners but kids with multiple partners is sketchy. That seems like a lotta money going down the drain. I doubt most men would want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:53 PM
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5x nothing isn't much. To be single you also give up nothing. I agree with you that it is better than being single but with such low odds of success anyway why not shoot for the stars and do it TRP way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:49 PM
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I would say most of the time she didn't contribute. Staying at home and cleaning the house is really not an equal contribution at all. My brother got married young since he had a child with his girlfriend and now regrets it. He is in the military and while he is gone and working his wife is just dropping the child off with her parents and hanging out with her friends. Wow, what a great contribution! Even if she was watching that child that would be practically no contribution. Growing up my mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:34 PM
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Yea, get in a relationship sure but don't get married. It isn't worth the risk. These days it is becoming more common and acceptable to forgo getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:10 PM
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Yeah and there also is a ton of women posting "If you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best!" on social media. Like they even acknowledge it themselves freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:06 PM
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Your stats show that but I would like to see a breakdown on the types of relationship (new/ltr/marraige/etc.) I think we will get a lot more information from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:01 PM
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Censoring content never works. People have been pouring a shit load of money and time into it and it still doesn't work. You will always be able to see that stuff for free. Movie/Music/etc. companies can't stop people getting their content for free and they have been trying for a while. The governments of this world can't stop terrible things like child porn. This has no shot of ever working. This wouldn't help women at all because it is unenforceable and would only generate ill will towards wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:29 PM
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chaperoning women doesn't stop unwanted sex Lol, it does stop it... If the chaperone says to stop having sex, guess what you just stopped unwanted sex! it just makes predators target relatives. Plenty of women get raped in ultraconservative societies by creepy uncles and cousins and fathers Yea predators have to target someone new because you just reduced the number of people they can target lol... That is a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:16 PM
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If you can't stand up for yourself or 'freeze' up you should not be having sex without a chaperone period. I am a bi-man and when I was 18 (literally no muscle just skinny) met up with guys a lot bigger and way more muscular than me (they could easily force themselves on me if they wanted). They were in their 30s. I have had guys try and get forceful with me but I still would just push them off and tell them no. If you are scared to do that or won't do that you need a chaperone. Also, the situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 08:16 PM
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