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Because I don't want to, myself I'm not even 30 so perhaps the question doesn't apply to me as much but, I certainly believe a man can chart his own course and choose when to have kids regardless of any differences in fertility between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:58 AM
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they dont say you have a moral imperitive to do anything about it though; hell guys who are enjoying the decline know at best they're neutral but most likely contributing to the degradation of society but they still partake so less anger phasey people arent judging them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:16 PM
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fertility still drastically declines The NYT posted an article that found that 38 year old women who underwent 3 entire rounds of IVF still had a nearly 1/3 chance of not having kids. Even asking a top specialist he said 27% fail to carry to term a single child. if I have options why wouldn't I see dating a mid 30s woman as more if a hassle then dating a younger woman, I'd be thinking do I have to move faster than is ideal for me, faster than I want because she's already 35 and we both want to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:56 PM
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Why do those men get jaded, because they were like the men the op described before learning women aren't sugar, spice, and everything nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:53 PM
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It can happen in France. It's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:19 PM
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bs just 7-8 years ago on this very forum BP were arguing tooth and nail that only personality matters looks aren't important and just world fallacy ran rampant. RP and semi red leaning PP ideas from the places like the MISC permeated throughout society and made things like get in shape women like attractive men who are sucsessful obvious but I remember growing up and always hearing just be yourself. Personality is the only thing that matters if you wait long enough you'll find someone. I found p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:01 PM
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if they have money , status, or power + game they definitley can. It can even be local status like a sucsessful drug dealer. I've seen that happen multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:51 PM
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damn bro really? Are you super attractive or something cause I'm in the top 20% but the most that's ever happened to me was some chick grinding on me when I was passed out on booze and benzos at a rap concert that had a table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:39 PM
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NYT posted an article regarding egg freezing and IVF and it was 27%+ failure rate for 38 year old women undergoing 3 entire rounds of IVF. They literally gamble with their family legacy. If they're the only daughter that's nearly a 1/3 chance that their bloodline going back hundreds of thousands of years will die as a consequence of their decisions.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/24 12:58 AM
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Rollos been around so long that he claims he came up with the name of the movement( though he wishes he chose something else because it's not expressive enough about what it's really is; describing reality per one of his videos on his channel). So he definitely has some authority and had significant influence on it's foundation but yeah your right even someone like that is not an autocratic leader. People disagree with his conclusions and some even talk shit all the time. He's generally respecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:37 PM
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Or just people with some cajones that arent afraid of being told oh I have a boyfriend 95% of the time and 5% of the time being told derisive comments. And really why the fuck do you care about being rejected have you not listened to them women will reject men they find attractive, funny, and charismatic even if they're signal for the most mundane reasons " oh my horoscope", "oh I need to find myself first" etc seriously I think fresh and fit asked multiple panels of women this and they all admi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:14 PM
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Girls lie about n ccount so have no shame in doing the same.
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:50 PM
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Old pics up artists would do something called exposure therapy where the goal was to be rejected over and over again so one would eventually achieve outcome independence. That way later on when theyre actually implementing the taught techniques it doesnt matter if theyre being rejected or getting a number/instant date whatever it didn't matter, it didn't affect their self esteem. I think some dating coaches like James Tusk still recomend doing it but really I just realize women will reject you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:33 PM
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Exactly ive heard that phenomenon described as schrodingers feminist and I think its pretty apt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:44 PM
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I mean fresh and fit has episodes where they invite women with graduate degrees and the women are still pretty much the same as the random bimbos they invite. Maybe the type of woman who is likely to want to show up for a fresh and fit show skews things but you can't deny that they have brought women from multiple, demographic backgrounds, different countries, and different levels of education/employment even if the majority are simply random thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:37 PM
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She just has to perceive you as 1-2 points above herself you dont have to be actually above her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:06 AM
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There was a study that asked 26 year old British men if they were virgins and 1/6 to 1/8 confirmed they were. That's a pretty sizable chunk.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 07:04 PM
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Yeah Rallo said something along the lines that it's not that they don't mature but what precipitates the maturation at such a convient time. If we suddenly had a cure for aging and she could look exactly like her 22 year old self would her matured prefrences still hold.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 09:20 PM
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The bottom 50% of men get 4% of all likes, the top 1% of men get 16% of all likes The top 1% gets 4x as many likes as all men dead average and below get combined. And I mean there's nothing wrong with that women are free to sleep with whoever, and men aren't entitled to a relations with their looksmatch.
/r/AllPillDebate29/04/23 04:51 PM
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Really a strong foward browridge akin to a Neanderthal is attractive? There's not a ton of celebrities like that Jason Mamoa has one and i know ive seen a couple other celebrities with them but overall there's only a couple with really strong brow ridge. Or do you mean a weaker browridge than them?
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 03:46 PM
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Even then you want to go to a gym different than your normal gym, that way you dont have to see her again later if she says no, and she might be more willing to go on a date with you if you go to a different gym because she knows if you two start dating and it goes bad there's probably not gonna be a bunch of awkward interactions.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:23 PM
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There's a story on the strong sucsessful male youtube channel where a couple changed their respective chores and the feminist wife ended up regretting it ( its only a single data point but it's a good story) https://youtu.be/kafm1S6jHYg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:50 PM
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Relevant search terms for thst protectiveness is is in group bias women like and side with women far more than men like or care about men, according to the studies I've seen female in group bias is about 450% greater than mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:09 AM
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Sometimes you can leave such an alpha impact that even if something happens and your not the same chad you were when you met her she'll still stick by you and is truly pair bonded with you, look at Christopher Reeves he became paralyzed and told her he wanted to die and she apparently cried and begged to take care of him. She could've just taken the money he had after he offed himself and got another man but Chris left such an impact she didn't want to lose him even once he became a burden. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:44 PM
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Theres multiple videos like this online including from different youtube channels who are implementing the same show concept. Some women are just like that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 08:24 AM
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Sneako too? Damn wtf is with the manosphere a disproportionate number of people in the manosphere are cucks/former
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:31 PM
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Step 1 Look at the most common methods women use to kill themselves2. Repeat the aformentioned in men looking at their sucsess rate using those same methods ( the methods women favor most)3. Realize that men kill themselves at significantly higher rates even when we localize on the methods women favor4. Come to the realization either women are incompetent, they have it easier, or they know that they'll be taken seriously a cry for help will be heeded and as a general rule men are seen as disposa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:03 AM
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I know someone who successfully did this they were a mid 30s associal neet and then they brought a 7 from the Phillipines over when he managed to get a six figure job after being jobless / working sub 10 hrs/week for close to a decade. But I'm sure there's lots of scams too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:49 AM
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In the next age range ( up to 49) there was still more women dating than men, the ratio is just decreased, so I'm sure some are dating older men but that's definitely not the whole picture. Only thing I can think of is soft harems / lots of women would rather share a hvm than be saddled with a faithful beta ( obviously the women hope that the hvm will have her as their only girl eventually).
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah whenever I've seen a wife make significantly more than her husband and he's not sufficiently alpha they don't fully respect their husband's and they start to resent them, women are on their best behavior when they're with a man they can look up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:23 AM
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To those who say no, isn't the past in the past, what if he says he'd never do it again he's grown as a person and matured. How are you going to judge him based on his sexual history. Or does that only apply to women with high n counts. Edit: I'm talking about a man who hooked up with a legal well paid escort in a first world country, so both individuals are truly consenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:19 PM
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What like a woman being beaten in public? That could be a very costly mistake, theres been multiple cases where a white knight intervenes and instead of being gratful the couple calls the police and arrest the savior. Hell there was one case where a man was badly beating his girl someone intervenes trying to save her he gets killed and then she doesnt care and just hesds off with her bf like nothing happened , they are grown adults if they didnt want to be in an abusiabusive relationship theyd l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:30 PM
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I found the article they were discussing but couldnt find the discussion that i remembered reading i found one but it wasnt the same one I remembered ​ http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/it-happened-to-me-i-ended-up-in-bed-with-a-27-year-old-virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:22 PM
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I mean if your gonna betabuxx mimight as well get the best deal and hopefully with a truly traditional betabuxx arrangment not how most betabuxx arrangments are in the
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:57 AM
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Even the people who say that judge others based on their past, hell they even judge others based on their sexual history. Go on to askwomen ask them if they'd date a 27 y.o. virgin and you get a whole lot of nos despite them saying that refusing to date a promiscous woman is this terrible thing. There was a thread a while back where a man and woman literally got naked and he told her he was a virgin and she was so turned off she said not happening not gonna sleep with you anymore, and the the ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:41 AM
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So in your opinion attraction precludes genuine friendship? Does that mean you wouldn't have a lesbian friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:27 AM
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Do you mean that they always secretly pursued you or that they were always willing to sleep with you. Cause I know fresh and fit ( and I'm sure there's others doing similar) well they have "tests" where they ask a girl to send their guy friends a text saying I'm horny at like 2 am. And the guys always say to pull up to their place. But just because men are willing to sleep with the majority of women doesn't mean that their doing some ploy to get into your pants. I mean I'd be willing to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:43 AM
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Men dont have innate value women do, a man must become women just are, so a man will get far better options as he ages if he builds himself, because male attractiveness is aresult of looks,affluence ( status and monetarily), frame , and game most of which are associated with age ( looks is the one thing that generally declines but even then if you take care of yourself as a man you can remain handsome longer than a comparable woman could remain bueatiful because a worn male face can still be des…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:54 PM
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Marley and Me I understand but forest Gump ends up with a drug addict diseased slut who rejected him in her prime and only accepted him once his value is starting to peak as a rich war hero and hers has been on a downward spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:53 PM
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Please post a link please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:44 PM
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There's no need to castrate him he doesn't have any balls in the first place, if he did he would've already left, but since he's probably got this scarcity mindset plus a captain save a hoe mentality you end up getting what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:36 AM
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No but then again i like fit chicks even those that take gear ut like lauren findley levels max, like a little anavar but not much more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:31 AM
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Sexual history is also important ironically enough. On r/askwomen for example they are very anti "slut shaming" even to the point I've seen them call a religious volcel man an asshole for not being willing to date a woman with an n count of 50 ( admittedly they said it wasn't sexist but said it was asshole behavior nonetheless). That same subreddit, however has come to the popular conclusion that judging a man for his sexual history or lack thereof is okay, even though judging a woman's isn't ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:15 AM
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You have every right to do whatever you want with your body but so do men. And if an extensive sexual history lowers your value as a romantic partner in their eyes ther is nothing wrong with that they do not owe you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:58 AM
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The wall starts in the brain not the body
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:23 PM
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And the majority of adults fail in their fights with high sugar/ high fat foods. That's why over 70 percent of adults are overweight or obese.clearly instinctual evolutionary evolved firmware is influential enough to markedly impact peoples descisions (in aggregate) even when the prefrontal cortex desires sonething else. Why would this not also hold true in the dating realm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:44 PM
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Or 4 He's leading with his wallet and he's basically a John paying for a trick/ hooking up with gold diggers. You don't have to create a formal sugaring situation to get women with money.
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 02:22 AM
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Yes it was an actual MD who has his own rehab, with one other physician. Part of the thing that happened is they were the 2nd doctor since the patient moved, well the previous doctor prescribed two cns depressants and so the new doctor carried on the prescription only in different doses. The 2nd appointment with him he claimed that they must have stolen the rx pad because he would never prescribe two depressants like that even though he did and I guess it made him mad and when I told them that I…
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 06:16 AM
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I don't know man I personally heard an addiction doctor in the USA that their parents were justified in violating them as a child because they did drugs ( that they only started as a means of cope with the trauma which continued)
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 04:39 AM
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Yeah at least an escort will make him more confortable and can teach him some skills he'll need on actual dates.
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 04:36 AM
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I'm not sure which part you don't understand I can explain what i mean if you tell me which part exactly your not understanding. But basically overall I'm saying I don't blame women who look out for number 1 themselves at the cost of others, at one point I did. But that belief went away very quickly and I've been adopting that mindset myself ( fighting fire with fire) though it's still hard for me to do so since I was indoctrinated to put others first even above my own needs. A lot of men were t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:39 PM
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Its how I got over my very brief anger phase by looking at things through a female primary evolutionary lense. I realized that af/bb women are just following their biological imperatives and doing what's best for them when they do what I described. I realized that I simply was misled into playing the game using a different set of rules, once I realized this I was briefly angry that I was manipulated into establishing others needs as my mental point of origin ( though now I kinda think of that as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:43 PM
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I would leverage my smv to secure a high value man when young if that were unsucsessful and I couldnt get an alpha bucks man then alpha fucks beta bucks seems like a very reasonable option I would pursue, I mean really I don't blame women for looking out for themselves and following their biological imperatives at the cost of mens at all; I'm irritated that I was taught to place others above my own needs. I made so many sacrificies and gave up so many years playing by a rule book that others wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:39 AM
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I mean to be fair that r/ask feminists do you really expect a rational take from them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:10 PM
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You can change your personality, if the real you wants to nichemax how is that not authentic.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 07:06 AM
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Your completely right Norah Vincent a radical feminist who dressed up as a man for a year thought she knew what it took to attract women she thought basically being nice,respectful, etc basically your classic actual nice guy ( not "nice guy tm" )would be sucsessful, at least with high quality women. It was not, turns out women want more aggressively dimorphic men not just physically but behaviorally the men she hated as a radical feminist she realized where the men who were doing the best with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:30 AM
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Lol to be honest Im not even a fan of mdma I'm a downer type of guy lol. And I've never even seen a house shaped e pill, some teslas, some Mitsubishis and medusas thats it. I watched house the TV show and was planning to roll at the time hence my username.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:06 AM
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And yet because of just world theory people will assume your a terrible person. I saw a small group of women crash a fucking memorial service for an non-misogynistic incel (and sure that was only a couple people normal people don't crash memorial services and confront the family of a suicide victim IN PERSON), but they also live streamed it and there was so, so many people saying they were popping champagne, celebrating, etc his death. If the information provided was true the dude was an self ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:11 AM
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Anyways don't women say their looking for a 6/6/6 man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:08 PM
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More like knows whether they wouldn't fuck them in 5 seconds than if they would, women have more reactive libidos and if your not in the top 5 percent instead your in the top 20% it'll probably take some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:51 AM
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To be fair it's only like 1 of them that's that bad, second one is still very blue though and 3rd one is pretty naturally red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:21 AM
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No your partner should not be your best friend your partner isn't just a friend you fuck, the best most fruitful relationships (sexually) occurs when there is tension not when your so confortable you call each other best friend. Comfort and familiarity breeds boredom and lackluster sex. Let me ask those who think differently when do you have the most earth shattering sex when you schedule a romantic dinner and have a pre planned night of passion or makeup sex after a breakup when the anxiety, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:51 PM
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You want a fisherman who started from a similar position as you and through self improvment became sucsessful, natural alphas are terrible at giving advice. I have multiple male model friends and some of the advice I've heard them give makes me roll my eyes back into my sockets I get girls because I'm nice and because I'm being myself, girls can sense genuineness and appreciate it. Mr 5'4 autist these girls you've approached are just not quality women and if there were any they rejected you beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:37 AM
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Do you really think they have that mentality of supply x niceness credits to buy a relationship or have they been taught that being nice to a woman is the correct non asshole way to get a woman. Also let me ask you should we mock the reversed situation a woman sleeping with a man hoping to lock down a relationship for trying to put sex tokens in and hoping to get a relationship, because I can tell you women get angry at far higher rates than nice guys when their tokens fail to get them a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:28 AM
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When she is near the wall and she failed with all her actual s tier choices yeah seen that plenth. And also I've seen some relationships that arose out of negotiated desire but I've yet to see a single good one that came from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:21 AM
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Submission doesn't mean she's a slave, it means she partakes in a captain first mate dynamic where yes ultimately the guy wears the pants but he greatly values her opinion and acknowledges when she's more knowledgeable in an area. The president has more power than his advisors but he gives them considerable autonomy and influence because they specialize in said areas. Why a woman would do this could be for a couple reasons; first truthfully, I think a lot of women are actually happier in a submi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:19 PM
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Uh definitley not number 2 it's cool you get some shocked faces, a smile, and might be able to more easily reach the a/p spots but by that point the girl has already decided to sleep with you, and a more avg guy can still reach said spots with some creative positioning. You aren't going to be getting lots of girls because you have a big dick doesn't matter if your in the top 0.01 percentile, and if you don't believe me go check r/bigdickproblems and you'll see lots of people confirming that ( an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:15 AM
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Yeah I'm pretty red leaning purple piller but this was one of the points why I don't consider myself fully red. A lot of women will shoot their shots with chads and hvm and only choose a man of their own league through a process of elimination. But ive also seen plenty of avg Annie's choose avg Adam's from the start despite them not being their hypergamous match. Despite an avg woman in their 20s having more value than avg man a decent chunk of women act like you. Hypergamy is not universal stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:02 PM
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First things first in the vast majority of cases women are not the breadwinner ( and I know I know your going to bring up the 1/3 statistic but making ever so slightly more money does not make you a bread winner if someone is making 50k and his wife makes 53k their making about the same you have to make significantly more to be considered a breadwinner). In the vast majority of cases women will only marry their hypergamous betters whether that be on the alpha fucks or beta bucks side of the equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:05 PM
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Wait they benefit more from marriage? How so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:35 PM
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Most women won't allow themselves to fall in love with someone who doesn't bring a lot to the table ( usually more than she brings to the table due to hypergamy). Whether that hypergamous filter is satisfied through the af or the bb side or both is the question, but women aren't looking for companionship from somebody who doesn't satisfy one of those categories. You don't regularly see women with 5'0 Indian janitors despite how good of a companion they might be. Guess according to you most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:30 PM
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Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap men have to become women just are. Women have innate value all they have to do is remain neutral to maintain it, men have no innate value he has to create value being nuetral keeps his value at null . Ergo avg Adam has less value than avg Annie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:31 AM
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Except there is a pretty significant distinction, your message suggests a lot of people in this sub think it's wrong to be a promiscous woman when really we feel they can live their life however they want do whatever makes them happy; but just how they can choose how they live their life I'll live mine and decide who I allow into mine as a girlfriend. I've been friends with women who have slept around but I haven't ever dated one it's just something that unattractive ( though I personally might …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:31 AM
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No it's just unattractive there is nothing innately wrong with it I can respect them as a person without wanting to date promiscous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:16 PM
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A lot of them are idealistic romantics larping as purely logical beings
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:13 PM
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A big thing I keep seeing time and time again is on r/askmen and r/relationships is men saying they are afraid to ask women their n count because they are afraid of the answer. I've heard that way way too many times why would they be afraid of the answer except for one reason they don't like promiscous women many of them would never knowingly be with a promiscous woman yet they are too beta and have such a scarcity mentality that they become willfully ignorant. I've seen similar things amongst p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:55 AM
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Because hispanic is an ethnicity not a race, I used to work for the census Bureau and we had it a seperate distinct category in a seperate question because of the confusion. The government doesn't recognize raza as a race am saying this as a brown skinned latino by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:56 PM
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I used to be quite blue pilled and turned purple after being here, I used to be that idealistic self sacrificial beta who truly put others first and now I've got mental point of origin and a more pragmatic mindset. Note this was my first real exposure to the manosphere sans a little bit of rime on femra debates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:31 PM
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That's why I said it was only situational, it's the term I heard when people say x rich dude is an alpha because he came from nothing dominates the board room etc or is a special forces operator, champion mma fighter etc but then gets completed dominated by his wife is completely beta whatever, so i saw other people use the term situational alpha; because they can appear alpha in those contexts but beta or in my case probably omega in others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:16 PM
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Because it would offer you experience, and why would it hurt your self esteem, it's a temporary measure. I can understand it hurting your self esteem if after sleeping with an escort you were unsucsessful in the dating realm, but if you just use it as a stepping stone I don't see why you'd feel ashamed. Tons of men have done that throughout history princes and noblemen regularly lost their virginity via prostitutes, and today I've heard of several rappers who lost their virginity via prostitutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:07 PM
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Go and tell the guys you want to date that you rode the cc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:13 PM
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Sure I don't deny it being unattractive, but focusing on similarly stunted women is not the way to go because they are so much rarer than stunted men. What he needs to do is just put himself out there a bunch and be willing to get rejected a bunch. He needs to play the shotgun strategy instead of trying to snipe ridiculously autistic girls because they are going to be the only girls his age that are similarly unexperienced. Men are far more willing to see awkward or even moderately autistic girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:14 PM
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Yeah he could have social anxiety, he can be entirely capable of forming friendships, having a social circle, but scared of judgment from women. I know I did for a while, I was undoubtedly a top 20%er, and what many would call alpha but It was only situational, legitimately getting shot at didn't scare me, extreme sports didn't scare me, judgment from men didn't scare me, but judgment from women particularly in a romantic sense utterly terrified me I really it scared the fuck out of me. Women at…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:59 PM
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First things first never admit your unexperienced it's far preferable to be thought of as a bad lay than to be seen as someone lacking pre selection ( even though you weren't trying, doesn't matter). Two if your a virgin consider seeing a professional escort go on a date get some practice there and then lose your virginity ( if your still a virgin) this will help wash off the desperation and scarcity mindstate you probably have, though never tell people you saw an escort not saying to lie just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:40 PM
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Women have a distorted perspective of the average man finding 80% below average and even finding a top 10 percenter as avg ( above avg ratings in the ok cupid study started at top 9%). And the reason why redpill talks about plate theory is to give men choices in partners when a man is ready to go into a serious relationship, because beta men often run into the boyfriend role far too quickly. This significantly limits their choices, and creates a mindstate that results in tolerating far too much …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:56 PM
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I really like the feminine energy some women provide. And I really like how some women can really go into nurturing mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:31 AM
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What post were they complaining about not being able to find men on their level was it the one screenshotted by op
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/22 02:31 AM
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You are right that men being worse at taking photos probably contributes to the 80/20 rule of online dating. Men idealy need to get professional pictures taken and they should honestly touch them up a little bit women use heavy ass filters men can use them also ( though probably best to get filters/ slight photoshops that aren't noticably different than your actual appearance on first glance, you want plausible deniability where she can think oh it was just a good angle or lighting or whatever).…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:48 PM
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Bullshit, the average man will get far better results approaching in person compared to online, women rate 80% of men on dating sites as below average, and 5% of men get 50% of the likes on tinder. Approaching in person allows you to display other attractive traits and results in a much smaller pool of competitors your competing with, with online dating it's nothing for a woman to drive across the city to meet a chad but chads from across the city aren't driving across to make approaches, so it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:11 PM
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It's just part of their evolutionary firmware, hypergamous instincts we're forged over 100000 years it can't be completely supressed in three generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:20 AM
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20% is just to be rated average or above, 5% is where women focus a lot of energy though 5% of men get 50% of likes on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:11 AM
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Why there is nothing wrong with putting slutty women in the fuckzone and "good girls" in the relationship zone just like there is nothing wrong with alpha fucks and beta bucks as long as your not lying there is no wrong doing. No one is owed validational sex, or a relationship no one is entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:48 PM
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Well women do say that they want to be with someone special
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 12:03 AM
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6-7 years ago on this very forum blue pillers refused to admit that lifting helped with getting girls, it's funny how red pill advice went from bullshit to blatany obvious with no in-between. And this is coming from a purple piller whose back in the forum after some years. Of course back then the just world fallacy ran rampant here, which probably played a part in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:31 AM
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Not wanting to date a hoe is not the same as shaming her, they are lots of fun but the idea of wifing one up is gross on an instinctual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:17 AM
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Women dont know that they are shit testing, it's subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:12 AM
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With regards to no. 2 I like the term schrodingers feminist they're empowered boss bitches capable of making any and all descisions and victims who lack any agency depending on what position is advantageous in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:56 PM
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Yes team normal distribution for sure, I think the true rate me guide is pretty decent though they don't properly account for how fat people really are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:58 PM
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Lmao what ridiculous cope, yeah these men accept beliefs that utterly destroy the blue pilled dreams they've held for years and years, they decide I'm going to make my life so much harder, im going to get angry at myself for letting myself be lied, played, and manipulated. No red pill grants men an internal locus of control sure and the sucsess or at least improved outcomes is why it grew so massively. Some of then get angry and truly misogynistic but being misogynistic is infinitely more benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:00 AM
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Well it's based on the ok cupid study where women rated 80% of men as below average in looks, that plus the fact that most women I see mainly care about looks, I know women who reach the epiphany phase care about other things, but I'm still dating young chicks and I saw a poll that most the men here are 20s to early 30s so I figure they are dating or can still date women pre epiphany phase where looks is the no 1 thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:19 AM
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What are you talking about. I said in the op that ~70% of the 20-39 cohort are overweight or obese ( 40% are obese ~30% overweight). You said that that that range is too large so I found the obesity rate for college age students which instead of being 40% is 1/3, that is only the percent of the population that is obese you still have to include the overweight population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:11 PM
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BMI is quite accurate on a societal level despite the occasional in accuracy on the individual level, I was very into lifting before some major injuries ( still recovering) so I am well aware if the prescence of outliers. However the number of individuals who are obese/overweight by bmi but not by body fat percentage is not enough to alter the statistics to a statistically significant degree. Not only that but you also have individuals who are healthy weight by bmi yet overweight based on body f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:58 PM
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Fair enough still the obesity rate is massive, nearly 1/3 of college students are obese. https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2021-11-23/almost-1-in-every-3-college-age-americans-are-now-obese
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:15 PM
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I don't think just be white theory is correct, I don't think being ethnic is going to subtract too many points if your black or hispanic ( I'm a ~6ft hispanic man) maybe being Asian might be a bit more of a downside idk about real life for them my only asian friend right now is a 6'4 bodybuilder. But while the ok cupid stats showed it was definitley harder than online dating as a white male, being an Asian male despite being the most detrimental cohort to ones dating sucsess, even that wasn't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:00 PM
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This statistic is for the 20-39 age cohort where obesity is slightly over 40% overall obesity is 43% when you include all age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:50 PM
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I mean yeah being in that top 5 percent of men is where women will actually pursue you regularly and you can say some absolutetly crazy shit and still be sucsessful ( i have model friends and the stuff they do utterly shocks me but it works). And yeah in online dating about 5% of men get 50% of likes but being in that 20% at least means you have some options and getting casual hookups is at least reasonably doable. While online dating will still be somewhat difficult because your competing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:43 PM
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Of course there is less need for the beta buxx side of hypergamy so unless a man sparks and maintains a genuine spark of desire in her for perpetuity divorce may occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:40 PM
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There's nothing wrong with a high n man preferring a low n woman just as there's nothing wrong with a woman who makes 32k saying she won't date a man who only makes 32k( which in a survey I saw where the women avg 32k/year they said they wouldn't date a man who didn't make significantly more than them, significantly more = 50k/year income). But there's nothing wrong with either preference each side gets to chose what's important to them and they don't owe anyone a relationship no matter if there…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:00 AM
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Yeah they say that the top 20 percent of guys get 80 percent of the casual sex and basically women shoot their shot with them, and only after getting shot down repeatedly then they decide to date someone their own league (though they dont acknowledge the fact they are in the same league, instead she thinks shes dating down and could grow to resent her equal value partner because of that in the long run). I'm purple pill though red leaning. And tbh I generally think that RP are right on that poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:41 PM
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How is the 80 20 rule explained by red pill some grand conspiracy. Women have access to both more attractive men and men on their level why would they not try and attract somebody hotter than them and then if they fail they can go for guys their true own level as a back up. No body is calling that some malevolent act, she's just trying to get the best she can. Furthermore, women don't always understand that men don't view sex the same way as them and that men have a far lower bar for having casu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:27 PM
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And does redpill say you need to be the hottest guy or that the top 20 percent of men get the majority of the casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:10 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success Before the creation of societally enforced monogamy sucsessful men would practice polygamy and less sucsessful men would get their hand. Traditional monogamy was a compromise between the masculine and feminine biological imperatives and tamped down on alphas having multiple partners they could breed with but also tamped down on women's dual mating strategy ensuring an average beta could easily have an average wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:00 PM
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It's a lot more complex but basic basic basic oversimplified looks affluence and game ( social skills and social status included in this) are the most important things as a man when trying to attract women. Also women are hypergamous that means they want somebody they can look up to somebody that is at least equal or better than them in one of two categories, in the alpha fucks category or the beta bucks category. The alpha fucks category is usually short term ( often because they won't commit) …
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 01:09 AM
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Well Rallo the creator of the red pill name now regrets the name because people keep narrowing it down to only that scene instead of grander thought about societal programing of values and beliefs and realizing that that is what is happening and thereby having the freedom to make more informed decisions and stuff. He really hates how other people like conservatives are now co opting the verb redpilling as meaning only "learning the truth" when he thinks it's so much more.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 12:41 AM
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Yes absolutely wrong is the correct assessment because there is a significant chunk of the movement that holds views like the influencer lexi nimmo who made a post that blew up a while back that said that prefrences were okay; but that wanting a girl who likes pizza or likes kayaking is a prefrence , but not dating an overweight woman is not a prefrence its discrimination and is fat phobic not a prefrence, because whenever you exclude a marginalized group it's bigotry. And note I didn't say ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:50 AM
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Yup it has a biological basis just how women tend to dislike older virgins because the lack of preselection triggers their brain making them think something must be seriously wrong if no one else fucked this man. If I get with a low quality man that could be bad for my security. Obviously, that's thought subconsciously, but it manifests in disgust. Yet it's okay for them to judge others based on n count but only in that direction, judging based on n count in the other direction is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:59 AM
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Your absolutely wrong if you believe there isn't a significant chunk of the body positivity movment that says not being attracted to the morbidly obese is due to societal conditoning and is discriminatory because they can't be a healthy weight because their "set point" is in the morbidly obese range. Hang out on r/fatlogic for a while and see the entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:50 AM
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Because the past is in the past. Especially since he's moved past such activities and it'd be incredibly judgmental to hold it against him now that he no longer engages in the practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:52 PM
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But prostitution is legal and regulated in the Netherlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:48 PM
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Schrodingers feminist they're empowered boss bitches and victims who lack any agency depending on what position is advantageous in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:46 PM
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Why is it so hard to believe, men have the task of being the pursuers ( in general) so they understand that the dude is just shooting his shot. I cant speak for all men but all the men I've seen in my liberal state who have been hit on by gay men I've never seen a negative reaction, im sure they happen but ive never seen one. And one gay dude keeps asking 2 of my friends out every month or so, despite repeated not interested responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:51 PM
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Yup seems like I hold the popular opinion, and most men wouldn't care or would actually be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:04 AM
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Well ask men if they feel scared when a gay dude hits on them, I know in my case no I don't get intimated if I tell them I don't swing that way and they kept being pushy then I'd get agitated but a simple approach isn't something I'd get worked up over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:34 PM
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Even if they truly believe in the black pill they shouldn't give up. They should save up for the surgery and get on with their life. Fillers are only a couple thousand, jaw implants sub 10k. Yeah that's a lot of money but if they feel there life is really that impacted 10k to get on with your life isn't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:25 PM
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I turned one down even to sleep with it just disgusted me too much, she told me she had a different man for lunch and dinner for the past 6 days. That is just insane, I was friends with her for a while after and she was really really into me and some of my family members ( don't know why none of us was very high quality at the time). But the more I hung out with her the more and more I became disgusted by the thought of sleeping with her, even offers of group sex couldn't convince me and it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:26 AM
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A lot of people who enter the manosphere were really self sacrificial people who put others first then got played most say they were lied to as well to make them vulnerable to getting used. Once they got hurt, instead of whining about it ( they do for a bit but move past it eventually) they come to the conclusion that them being played was a fair this is how the world works, they say it was fair that they got used and because it was fair to use them it's okay for them to use others as well. If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:27 AM
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It's just not a tactful thing to say on a date, it should be something a man keeps in the back of his head and maybe asks roundabout questions but straight up asking that is autistic unless you really are some super super high value male who can get away with the comment. Although it should also be in the minds of women who want a high value male, tons of women want the same guy( even if you believe some of the stuff that I've seen on FDS that 80% of women are on the same level as the top 10% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:27 PM
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Wrong young women feel that way, once a woman catches babies rabies at 30-35 they'll settle. The wall anyways is basically a myth or at least way overexaggerated it just means a woman cant date out of her league anymore and she's forced to date her looksmatch or there abouts, and to someone accustomed to top tier men a man of similar quality to her is distasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:57 PM
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Nah cut that idealistic/ for the betterment of society crap, no one thinks that society should function as it does people simply accept that this the way the world works and say we might as well enjoy the decline. You have to realize that a lot of these guys are former idealists who got played/ screwed over and instead of whining ( well for a little bit they get past it) they realize this is the way game works people are selfish and use others and it's our own fault we got played, we let ourselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:13 AM
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Because a lot of people still cling to blue pill ideas, I know I still do I want that idealistic style love I want a wife who would truly be by my side through thick and thin, who wants me for me not for my stabillity or whatever. The failure to find a unicorn a woman whose not hypergamous who doesn't do all these shit tests etc can frustrate people in the manosphere ( look at mysterio the PUA the dude was getting laid left and right yet he became so depressed and I believe even suicidal that al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:00 AM
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What's the forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:25 PM
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I'm not telling you to lie I'm telling you, you don't need to advertise things someone might not like about you. If it's that important to them they can ask, don't lie to them in that case, should they ask. Edit: and sure there are a small percentage of women but honestly either lose it with a pro or get laid and know in the beginning your probably just going to be seen as a bad lay, but it's probably better to be sceen as that in the beginning of a relationship than a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:27 AM
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Fuck a prostitute and then never mention it to anybody do you think most hoes go around telling potential partners that they had a train run on her, or whatever. Alternative is just don't mention anything at all sleep with her and she'll probably just think your a bad lay big whoop who cares. And your on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:21 AM
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Got to partially disagree with this most men don't care about career much beyond it not being embarrassing ( like a sex worker) and her being able to support herself. The reason why a female doctor for example has a much higher chance of marrying another doctor is primarily because of proximity. Though intelligence is also a factor men do not want total airheads and want a woman who they can have an intelligent conversation with and there are a higher proportion of these individuals in higher pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:54 PM
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Yeah I definitley did this was a couple years back and trust me when I say there was more to run away from too, that 4 way was 2 men 2 women ( the other guy was my 1st cousin) . The constant hitting up of my family freaked me out like idk why she wanted us none of us were hvm at the time in my opinion either . That plus the absolute batshit stuff I saw after being friends with her for a while made me so glad to gave never tapped that so fucking glad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah she was a bit weird for sure, I was even thinking about still hitting that if she would get tested but then she started asking me and some family members to netflix and chill( not at the same time) and also to do some group sex and not a normal three- four way either weird ass shit. Even told me I could step aside during some of that fetish play but it was too damn weird. I was in a dry streak but I was too grossed out/ scared to hit that, and the thought of sleeping with the same person as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:21 PM
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And she had two long distance boyfriends who didn't know about each other and thought they were the only guy. Plus she was bisexual so I don't know if she had any girls that week either. She was definitley the most sex crazed person I have ever met, I wonder if she meets the requirements to be considered a diagnosed sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:14 PM
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I really don't think that they are trying to plow their way through low n women. Being part of the party scene for years what I've done and seen is high n men focusing on high n women to have casual relations ( because they require far less effort to bed) and then wanting to seriously date a low n woman ( which a lot of times they inadvertently fail to do because they catch feelings for a "slut" they fucked). Also there's nothing wrong with a high n man preferring a low n woman just as there's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:32 PM
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Even to men to whom n count matters it predominantly only matters when considering a relationship,for casual sex it doesn't matter almost anything. I say almost anything because it has mattered to me in the past but only in the most extreme of circumstances where I found out a girl had slept with at 12 seperate guys in the past 6 days ( claiming to have had one for lunch and dinner) and that was too much for me I was so grossed out I didn't even want to smash despite her being the one making mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:01 PM
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Balding is also indicative of age and while men can have kids at any age there is increased chance for deleterious mutations with increased ages of the father. This is why balding is generally seen as unattractive in men despite being a sexually dimorphic characteristic.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 05:05 PM
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For hispanics 5'7 is average height for men so hispanic women aren't really expecting 6ft tall men (i know for Asians it's also short but Asian women for some reason still care about height a lot in my experience, at least a lot more than Latinas). So I think it's also important to consider who the supposed short men are sucsessful with, and what else they bring to the table. I know hispanic women while generally caring less about height do generally expect a lot of machismo and weakness isn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:25 AM
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At least your consistent but in my opinion there's nothing wrong with a woman who wants to do that. If you look at dating from the starting point that no one is entitled to date anyone regardless if theyre a looksmatch, money match, whatever and that people are fully entitled to determine what they find attractive/unattractive for their partners just as the opposite sex is justified in doing the same for their potential partners, you'd come to see it same as me. Anyways I was gonna pull a study …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:13 AM
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Is it hypocritical for a woman who makes 30k to refuse to date a man who makes 30k?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:51 AM
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What hypocritical double standards are there if I say that men are entitled to their dating preferences and women are entitled to theirs, they have every right to not date me for being promiscous just as I have every right to see promiscous behavior as unattractive in women. If women don't care or think I've made up for said unattractive behavior via my other qualities and still want to date me cool, but just because they're cool with me doesn't mean I have to date a promiscous woman who doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:49 PM
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Sure but having the low body fat percentage that people like chris evans has results in better facial aesthetics too, it results in a better jawline, more visible cheekbones, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:17 PM
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Just world fallacy people like to believe that if somebody is not succeeding in what ever facet of life it must be their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:25 PM
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When women say they don't like muscles their saying I don't like people who look like Ronnie Coleman they call people like Chris Evans in captain America "athletic" and they like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:21 PM
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Men aren't intimidated by sucsessful women, that's just something women say so they can attribute failure to the male side of the equation instead of looking inwards as a way to preserve their self esteem. The primary reason why career women have less options is primarily because of hypergamy, they self select for men who aren't even just sucsessful but as sucsessful and wealthy as them or more. They see wealth as attractive in men and project their preferences onto men and think of themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:14 PM
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I mean I think your best options are to look for somewhat younger religious men, or religious divorcees/widows, or even some late 20s/early 30s s.t.e.m. grads. Also I think you gotta be willing to take a more active role maybe ask them out, actively search in person and on specialized sites like christain mingle or other such sites, show clear interest, maybe go Dutch on the regular, and maybe go as far as your willing to take it while explaining to these men why you feel the way you do so they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:01 AM
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I mean searching for a virgin guy, thats really gonna be hard to find at your age, if you continue to search for it best of luck, but that's gonna be a tall order, assuming you want a well composed, fairly well off, decent looking guy. Even if he struggled while younger he probably already experienced a change in dating conditions by his late 20s or early 30s. Even religious guys are usually all paired out by their middle to late 20s at the latest. I honestly think you might be looking for a Tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:12 PM
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I mean thats a totally fair preference, look for religious guys, or shy guys, cause they are definitely out there having been in a fraternity every year when they asked the virgins to step foward there were several people who are solid decent/good looking people who were virgins that one wouldnt expect to be virgins. The thing is that they wouldn't step foward at first they'd lie and act like they weren't because they were afraid of judgment but after telling them it'd be kept secrect and other …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:51 PM
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What double standards if I say that men are entitled to their dating preferences and women are entitled to theirs, they have every right to not date me for being promiscous just as I have every right to see promiscous behavior as unattractive in women. If women don't care or think I've made up for said unattractive behavior via my other qualities and still want to date me cool, but just because they're cool with me doesn't mean I have to date a promiscous woman who doesn't have sufficient redeem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:33 PM
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If she decides she wants you when she's still within her peak that's something I could live with because the chances that she's just settling for me, that I'm Mr tolerable are still low. But having a LTR with a woman who you have evidence that she is only with you because she failed with the guys she actually desired and only after sustained failure then she "matured" and wanted a relationship with you that's not a good person to date seriously. You don't want to be chosen through process of eli…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:07 PM
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The feminist Norah Vincent has a book where she cross dressed for a year and pretended to be a man and talks about how different it is being a man vs a woman, and ended up a lot more sympathetic to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:44 PM
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Dogs still love people who abuse them its heart breaking to see but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:34 PM
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No they don't have you gone on incel forums, most of them just want a girl whose not fat if they aren't fat. The girls they thirst over are sub 5 with weird face structures and ridiculous acne. The most demanding mainstream ones I've seen are those that feel like they deserve their looksmatch. Now look I'm no expert but I did check out braincells, incelswithouthate, and some other incel subreddits a couple times when I was looking into what the blackpill was ( it was mostly stupid is what it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:11 PM
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Dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:57 PM
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So should any guy who is struggling with loosing his virginity or is simply on a fairly lengthy dry streak despite his efforts should he identify as an incel or might he choose not to identify as one because a minority of incels give the whole label a bad name. Despite what it's origional strict dictionary definition who associates with the label is also important especially when people feel the bad actors are not clowned and attacked by others using the label enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:06 AM
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Maybe sorta, the energy might exist but I never understood why it's called Big dick energy, it's not like having a big dick is gonna make you super confident like being super handsome would be it just means your not worried about your dick being too small and some bitch laughing at it. Anyways it definitley has some cons like no quickies and never getting an actual proper bj. And trust me when I say having a huge dick really doesn't help with getting women at least not too much thatd itd actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:36 PM
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Have you considered getting a bride from the 3rd world? I've know someone who did that and while she might not see you as an alpha, you could still get the old school old order beta bucks where she at least contributes and will actually sleep with you at least semi regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:54 PM
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The wall is just going from being able to sleep with Chad and maybe date him for short stretches to having to date her own looks match which can feel like settling to someone who never had to do that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:04 PM
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Hey what happened to atlas b shruggin why is her account suspended, I've recently come back to the subreddit and saw that she's not allowed to post anymore. She had been here forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah but even If you are considerate a chunk will take it poorly 15% of US millennial and gen z women think its always or usually sexual harassment to ask to buy them a drink. https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2017/11/17/over-friendly-or-sexual-harassment-it-depends-partly-on-whom-you-ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:04 PM
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Yeah as long as it's not aggressive groping me and won't take no for an answer, not gay but I'll take it as a compliment. Even the times I've been hit on by really icky people I don't take it as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:26 AM
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Why was incels without hate banned then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:16 PM
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Of course when women hear how men talk its always considered toxic. It's why locker room talk is in locker rooms and not in front of women. And this forum provides anonymity and allows men to speak their mind / vent their frustrations because it'd be a social death sentence to speak it in public because no one gives a shit about male problems, and complaining about not being able to get into a relationship is only going to hurt your chances even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:22 PM
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Hey dick picks work even if they very rarely do so. I have an aquitance/ Distant friend ( used to be a lot closer years ago) who told me he's been doing it for a couple years now and he told me he successful approximately 1/90 to 1/100 of the time but he just plays it as a numbers game and mass messages tons and tons of women and some are into it.: Though from what I've seen even though some are pretty attractive they tend not to be nuerotypical (some strippers, a pornsrar ,a cougar looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:03 AM
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Do you really think she really gets off on her husband washing the dishes, and vacuming the carpet really, I mean really. Why is it men who do more chores and have a more egalitarian division of chores have less sex. Choreplay is not really a thing at least not one that works on 99% of women, doing chores is orthogonal to sex/sexual attraction. Fact is or rather in all liklyhood she used that to soften up what she's saying so her husband doesn't feel like an utter loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:38 AM
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Your making it seem like it never happens when there are people out there giving advice that says basically to do that and tons of women taking said advice. I mean shit look at what Sheryl Sandberg said in her number one New York Times best selling book "When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:29 PM
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No man wants to be Mr tolerable, the back up choice, the guy who was chosen by process of elimination when she was unsuccessful with Mr alpha bucks and alpha fucks. Think of yourself all your characteristics, your body, your look, your personality, all your idiosyncrasies, your passions and then think of being chosen not for any of that instead the deciding factor being your stability or worse your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:24 PM
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Being called husband material from a wife material good girl can be a complement but the way its used is not like that most of the time. It's your husband material, I won't date you right now because I refuse to waste my youth on a boring less attractive man but once I'm ready to settle down I'll consider marrying you or somebody like you because you will probably have good resources and good parenting skills, and you probably have less sucsess with women so you'll probably treat me better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:16 PM
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Go to old posts here 6ish years ago and it was something that had to be debated ad naseum a chunk of people really refused to admit that male looks played a significant role. The prevalence of just world theory was really through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:35 PM
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Hey the Romans did it to the Sabines and look how Rome turned out. Anyhow relevant meme https://imgur.com/a/Sq0B5MU
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:30 PM
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Can you provide a source about the Sweden thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:01 AM
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Uh I literally said in my comments it'd be beta bucks but it'd be a more equitable old order type beta bucks situation. And yeah they'd obviously know what's attractive bueaty standards are pretty uniform across the world ( yes there is difference across different nations but far more overarching similarities.) Thing is for most men who can't get anything this or just sleeping with prostitutes is the solution. It's certainly better than ending up with a western woman who thinks herself superior …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:17 AM
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In that case get a girl from a 3rd world country, a very traditional one. She wont understand western social cues so you wont appear autistic in her eyes only exotic and unique and while you might not be an alpha in her eyes and you'll always be a beta but at least she started from the get looking for a beta so you'll actually be her first choice ( or at least first tier choice). You'll get a loyal companion and while not ideal maybe if you know what your getting into it can be a fair happy arra…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:16 PM
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Yeah that's I've been told. I don't understand how some people can have so little self respect I'd rather be single than in a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:48 PM
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I actually know a woman a very average woman ( overweight not fat, avg face) who wanted to be a stay at home wife not mom wife and ended up manipulating her simp husband into going for it only he doesn't make enough so he works 2 jobs so she doesn't have to and then she refuses to clean or cook nearly anything because that's sexist and also refuses to work outside because that's men's work. So she stays home refusing to cook, clean, and work but she pulled it off albeit ending up with the betaes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:58 AM
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I got a rule violation: warning for promoting hate. ( Did this come from the mods or other users? And have I already been found guilty cause I don't see how I promoted hate according to site rules) We’ve been alerted that you’ve violated Reddit’s rule against promoting hate in the following content. Link to reported content: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wdgkxa/comment/iijphik Reddit is a place for creating community and belonging, not for attacking marginalized or vulnerabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:19 PM
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I don't know why you make it seem like young women are kids they're grown ass adults I treat them like adults like i would a man. A lot of BP seem to say that women are just as capable or better than men and then infatalize them and suggest they lack agency. Come on be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:53 PM
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Come on have you not heard people on twox Chromosomes and woman dominated subs bitching about him, or places like askmen asking about him, or the absolute torrent of recommendations on YouTube and his clips being reposted all over on YouTube shorts. Outside of this sub I don't look at anything about gender relations or watch gurus or anything like that but this past month I've been swarmed with him, and for reference I watch/google stuff about finance, science, street polotics, drugs, and guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:46 AM
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That's entirely reductive sometimes they say they're unsucsessful because they don't bathe and have terrible hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:14 AM
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Women who get used as starter wives after sticking by their mans side when he had nothing and being ditched for a younger peice of ass when hes sucsessfu. That's so messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:01 PM
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That doesn't necessitate cheating in fact millennial women are more likely to cheat than men https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.washingtontimes.com/news/2018/jan/11/millennial-women-have-higher-rates-infidelity-mill/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:42 PM
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He's just parroting what a lot of men get told.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:37 PM
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But some governments ban unauthorized reincarnations https://foreignpolicy.com/2007/08/29/china-bans-unauthorized-reincarnations/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:33 PM
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I mean a lot of them didnt start out that way they honestly placed women on a prdestal thinking theyre amazing wonderful beings, but after being burned several times their views on women changed (arguably too much) and decided most women arent worthy of being in a relationship with them and most just bring looks to the table and nothing else of value. So they decided to switch from being a self sacrificial man who puts other first to a LOT more cynical selfish man who thinks if everyone else is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:04 AM
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Yes because most of the time they say that they want him to show emotion and share his feelings they mean they want him to show the emotions that they want to see like their boyfriend expressing adoration, love, and how he loves her so much that being around her makes his heart flutter they want some emotions; wanting to pick and choose, they just dont say that because a) they dont believe men have the same emotions as women b) they dont want to sound lile a bitch c) they didnt even know thats h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:03 AM
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Bro fuck a prostitute that way your not a virgin, then you can hook up with whoever and at least have some ide what your doing and if anyone asks what u did just lie, i mean shit tons of women lie about n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:43 AM
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Whats the show?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:34 AM
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Its crazy how a good chunk of women have ever increasing standards wanting an amalgamation of the best charectaristics of all their exes. So as they get older their standards get higher while their smv drops yeah yeah not all women but its just another reason to date a young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:10 AM
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No one here well the vast majority ( save some of the incels but their a miniscule portion) wants to force women to lower their standards becase they dont want to be settled for why do you think afbb scares the men here so much theyre scared of being settled for and not being an s tier choice in their girls eyes. Hell even if their not rich theyre scared of simply being used because their stable even if she makes more. So no they dont want to make women lower their standards because then theyd j…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:42 PM
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Honestly its funny seeing how women in thid sub will often justify lying about n count and then get angry when a guy says hell just lie about ever seeing prostitutes if his girl asks ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:33 PM
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When women approach they tend to only approach those men who are out of their league and then theyre shocked when they get pumped and dumped. I asked a friend who did that all the time and she told me if im going to put in the work and risk rejection the guy needs to be hot af. I think itd be pretty effective if you go after someone who is roughly equivalent in looks to other men youve been sucsessful getting commitment from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:44 PM
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See that doesnt make sense to me because men are able to have kids even at 100 or extreme ages thats how theres a man alive today whose grandfather fought in the revolutionary war.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:38 PM
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Blind dates in ukraine
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 07:16 AM
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No one here ( save some of the incels but their a miniscule portion) wants to force women to lower their standards becase they dont want to be settled for why do you think afbb scares the men here so much theyre scared of being settled for and not being an s tier choice in their girls eyes. Hell even if their not rich theyre scared of simply being used because their stable even if she makes more. So no they dont want to make women lower their standards because then theyd just be settling . Now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:25 AM
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And you dont think that that might be more indicative of you than them if every single other man you see is bigoted/a bastard might that not reflect on your abilities to pick. If you smell dogshit everywhere you go check your own shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:18 AM
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Honestly when women hit the wall its not that bad for them in their 30s it just basically forces them to settle with their looksmatch instead of punching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:15 AM
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Come on its not that much yeah i know a small portion of men are having tbe majority of the casual sex but over 60% of men under 30 reported having sex last year at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:12 AM
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Not even a red piller( im purple) but i understand where theyre coming from. Do you really think most red pillers started out that selfish way where women are treated dismissivley i can guarantee that a large portion of them started out self sacrificial putting others first and viewing women as these absolutely wonderful creatures who are so kind compassionate loving etc, but their experiences with women changed all that. Sure not all women but a lot of them dont really bring anything attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:59 AM
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Lot of anger phasers in thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:21 AM
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Lol but some of think that just because theyre not asking for wagyu filet mignon that theyre being reasonable. They only want to date up 3 levels not 6 means thats totally reasonable Lol. Worst ones are the ones who are aggressive about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:11 PM
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If it does it won't be for a VERY long time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:18 PM
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Trusting but verifying as the old saying goes. It's just dotting your eyes and crossing your ts because if your wrong and you never truly positive unless you test your only 99.99% positive not 100% it can greatly fuck up your life. I've seen it happen twice to family members. Honestly I've thought about just mentioning it a potential partner way before we're married or thinking of having kids that way they know I'd do it to anyone regardless of the situation and not singling out her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:02 PM
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Women go to college at higher rates and women under 30 make more money. Men make up the highest number of suicides and homeless populations. How it is as a guy is pretty polarizing either its pretty easy as a top guy or you struggle. And no one cares avout male struggles even in children, I know that from experience getting laughed at by my teacher when they asked how I broke a bone and I told em the truth i was hit by a baseball bat (abuse)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:47 PM
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Why do you even care what these women think at all think of it in the grand scheme of things in 3 years will it matter at all what a woman your not dating thinks about your approach. No it shouldn't so why would you alter your approach and self handicap yourself by carring what a couple female npcs in your life story thinks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:31 AM
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Ugh I hate world fallacy, it's so often used to justify injustice. I know someone who hit and ran going 60 and hit a pedstrian and later justified it by saying if he wasn't a bad person God wouldn't of let him get hit by my car. Because they assumed of course that they're good and the pedestrian got hit meaning he must of done something and it was karma of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:21 AM
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The graph pictured in his post is from the Washington post originally and its literally titled "young male virginity on the rise" Sub title "share of young men under age 30 who report ZERO sexual partners SINCE age 18". How does it not refer to virginity (or rather a proxy for virginity) Please explain. It's not like professor Ingraham just misinterpreted the graph thinking it related to virginity when it did not its literally refrences virginity in the title a title a title created by WP. Did t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:55 PM
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At such a crazy high rate?, exclusive homo sexual men are only 1-3% and before you mention the 10% based on the kinsey scale that includes people who themselves don't consider themselves gay. I know gay relations have become more acceptable but so have lesbian relationships as well and the fact that there was an over 300% increase present in only one gender makes me think that's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:46 PM
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Actually the 2018 GSS shows only an 8% sexlessness over the past year for women which is essentially consistent with all the previous data ( virginity overall is likely lower) The increase in sexlessness is really only on the men's side. Personally I think women are inundated with options due to tinder and changes in dating culture and obviously don't want the bottom third of the population if they can have relations even temporary with better men. Not blaming women either if I were in their pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:41 PM
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Men who are exclusively homo sexual are 1-3 percent. Regardless the topic question isn't about some shock statistic its just a pretty decent proxy for iustrating a massive increase in male virginity in a relativly short span. w wheras female virginity ( or the proxy for it) has remained largely constant ( don't believe it even passed the .05 test to prove statistically significance). So the question I was trying to ask is with far more virgin men than women at later ages what impact will this ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:27 AM
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I mean 12-16.6% ( personally think its probably 14% as that matches up perfectly with being one standard deviation below the average assuming a normal distribution). Regardles I dont think that ~14% of 26 year old men are truly unfuckable, I mean it's not like a lot of 26 YO are studying hard still in college and broke no those are grown men starting their careers making decent money and they still can't get laid once not even once, that doesn't bode well for their future success. They're not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:16 AM
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No the 2018 GSS report covered both, the rate of sexlessness in the past year and sexlessness overall since 18. The rate of sexlessness in the past year was 28% for men in 2018 https://mobile.twitter.com/_cingraham/status/1111607604348805120 But there was a second measurement and it's the one linked in the post that found 27% of men under 30 haven't had sex once since 18. According to the 2018 data. https://mobile.twitter.com/_cingraham/status/1111629177575350279 Though tbh I haven't looked at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:46 PM
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This study isn't as good as the GSS which is an s tier study and it's based on the UK instead of the USA but according to it between 1/6 to 1/8 26 year old men are virgins https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/05/06/millennials-turned-sex-study-suggests-one-eight-still-virgins/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:38 PM
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Each point is supposed to be standard deviation on the truerateme ratings (its not standard basic ratings) so a 5 is roughly 50th percentile and 6 is ~85 percentile, its not a 60th percentile like you might initially think. They assumed a normal distribution and scores are based on that it's not your typical rating system most people use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:19 PM
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That's why they should just lie about it like a lot of women do about n count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:50 PM
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95% I think that's definitely to high its more like 85ish which kinda makes sense that's means men one standard deviation or below the average are not getting laid which makes sense if you assume a normal distribution. According to this study it's 1/6 to 1/8 men who are virgins at 26. That still means that a majority of men are not virgins but 95% is definitely overstating it. Edit. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/05/06/millennials-turned-sex-study-suggests-one-eight-still-virgins/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:53 AM
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I met a girl who slept with 12 separate guys in one week saying she had one for lunch and dinner most days. I was going to be 13 until I got cockblocked by a mutual friend. Tbh I was kinda glad I was after the fact because that's too much i wouldn't even want to smash and definitely never ever date. She probably doesn't have an n count of a thousand but there definitely are some women with sky fucking high n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:35 PM
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Because of our biological imperative and also because we are judged based on our sexual success. Women may be slut shamed but if your a guy people are just as judgemental only in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:26 PM
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What do you mean I've seen plenty of my young attractive female friends in their prime 20-25 date ~30 year old men. Yeah they usually date their age + maybe 0-4 years but I 100% see them dating older men. Truthfully the way that I see it ( and ive seen in on some popular subreddits too) women in general are more willing to date older men meaning there's fewer women around for men in their 20s to date because some of their peers are dating older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:38 PM
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What it was a super mild joke, I mean it's not like he compared her to a slut or something, he compared her to a trail blazing badass. If someone told a guy you could play John McClane in the next die hard movie 99.999 percent of bald men wouldn't take it bad at all, that is not a bad joke, well it's kinda lame primetine joke but not malevolent, especially given the fact that it's the Oscar's you go there knowing you very well may be roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:27 AM
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Proof of looks being able to override charisma deficits https://www.boredpanda.com/social-experiment-guy-created-fake-tinder-profile-hot-model-pictures-germanlifter/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organic Case studies like that were one of the reasons people like me who half assed working out like most people got seriously into lifting, some bros on the bodybuilding forums showed me that and similar things that got me started
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:32 PM
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Yes absolutely before lifting I never ever had random women I hadn't even talked to walk up to me and grab my dick, feel up my chest, grab my arms, give me a blowjob in the back of party bus. Without paying shit I got her carnal desires, now it definitley wasnt an every party thing but that shit happened when it never happened before. The best thing is that you dont even have to look like zyzz to start getting it because once you hit a certain level of aesthetics women dont even care that much i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:28 PM
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Sorry for rambling I'm pretty high rn, and just do u know I'm not red. The next paragraph is more of a response and the last is my personal feelings, but anyways I'm digressing heres my response. A good chunk of women absolutely are grossed out by virgins, not all but there definitely is a good chunk, I mean I know that from experience before I changed myself, and just listen to other women on this forum seriously search virgin/ virgin shaming, also look at one of the most common insults women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:47 PM
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There is a correlation between between n count and infidelity, not just in women but in men also, however men here aren't dating other men (at least most aren't) and so it isnt relevant and women dont seem to care about male n count because having a high n count as a men correlates with looks, status, charisma etc plus the cherry on top of pre-selection means women end up being fine with it. However, there is no positive correlation with women and n count so there's nothing to help men here get …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:26 AM
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I mean I thought and probably a lot of guys on here thought the same for women, with a slight difference that men are self serving assholes but women are wonderful bastions of morality and that if we got taken advantage of we get bombarded with stuff like oh you must of done somthing wrong to provoke her or oh she's an out liar and people who tell you that women are just as self serving and "bad" as men are just sexist. Which is what causes ( or is a major factor in pushing someone into) the ang…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:37 PM
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Oh that's ridiculous how many people haven't had drunk/high sex I mean come on basically anyone whose gone to a party and took someone back home then qualifies. Basically everyone I've had sex with would then qualify despite me all the times being way way more intoxicated due to a cocktail of drugs+drinking ( used to have a problem).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:19 PM
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How do they define to intoxicated to consent? does that mean having sex on any amount of alcohol or drugs or do they ask the respondent if they believed they were too intoxicated to consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:18 PM
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Anecdotal but according to the vast majority of the women in my bio class a couple years back in undergrad pre-selection is real. The professor (female) was trying to relate animal mating to human to try to get people to remember the concepts better and when pre-selection in animals was brought up she said somthing along the lines of it's similar to how you might find a guy with a gf more attractive right ladies, and sure enough the vast majority raised there hands ( we were raising our hands to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:37 AM
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Do you have a link to the thread sounds like a trainwreck that could be interesting to check out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:13 AM
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Well yeah if u dont know the guy and it's not a date with obvious visible chemistry that's different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:49 AM
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Unfortunately, it doesnt work that way with some women. For a lot of women it's a pretty big turn off, one of the most compelling examples I've seen in my life is when a friend asked for a kiss on a double date and I saw. , I saw how turned off she got it was palpable and that same girl only a couple weeks before was leading him to her bedroom after giving him a lap dance ( it was a party at her place, but her roommate stopped her from fucking him because she had a long distance bf at the time a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:50 PM
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You mean like try to interpret how your date is feeling or do you mean actually ask can I kiss you because all of them should do the former but the reason why people dont do the latter is because for a good group of women it's a major turn off, I was on a double date and the guy asked his date can I kiss you and she dried up like the Sahara they were going so well and honestly he was definitely more attractive than her but damn you could tell she changed completely I know SOME women are okay wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:44 PM
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You keep lifting; ask a lot of serious lifters why they lift (male lifters) if there new lifters maybe a year or so in or less they'll often say to attract women but if you ask longer time lifters they say for themselves. It becomes a true hobby seeing yourself get stronger and if your into bodybuilding (natural incljded) you start seeing yourself get more and more aesthetic but it doesnt really matter anymore for helping you get women because at a certain point women just see you as muscular an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:24 AM
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