HouseOfInfinity Archive

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–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have My husband and I are incredibly happy and satisfied with raw sex. Others, who may be risk-averse, likely opt for the safer option. It’s simply common sense. My sister, who identifies as a lesbian, occasionally shares glimpses of gaybros and lesbian subs with me. Don’t try to deceive yourself it doesn’t happen. Everyone agrees on this point. Since you’ve made this discussion about all straight women, regardless of whether they’re on here , every sub going on is fair game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 03:01 PM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Tests are not infallible and some STI ‘s don’t manifest until later. Your “ logic” overrides common sense. Not once had I seen a LGBTQ person harassed or condemn for their dating choices. Just straight women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 02:44 PM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have So how do you discriminate, be prejudice towards something invisible? Some ppl like to play victims when there’s no one to fight. I couldn’t care less how they present themselves. If a woman don’t want to date them, or any other group more power to her. Stand your ground. If I get the ick from them or the ick from over hypersexual males I can. If LGBTQ can’t be judged because of attraction it goes the other way around too unless you’re a hypocrite with double standards. Careful your biases are s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 01:50 PM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I don’t think bisexual men cheat more than men however higher statistical risk for certain health issues, primarily HIV, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and specific mental health challenges. You can say use protection but condoms are never 100% safe. At some point when you go exclusive with your partner you going to want to forego condoms. The risk is too high for many women and not worth it. https://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment-guidelines/msm.htm	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 01:44 PM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Bigot: narrow-minded person who obstinately adheres to their own opinions and prejudices. Anyone who keeps trying to call out others dating choices and refusals are being narrow minded. All they do is obstinately double down on not accepting other opinions. Bigotry is a broad term. It can fit a lot of people into its definition. Especially the ones calling it. They’re the main intolerant ones. Going after groups of people who don’t bow down to their ideas. Prejudice: an irrational attitude of ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 11:14 AM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Bigot: narrow-minded person who obstinately adheres to their own opinions and prejudices. Anyone who keeps trying to call out others dating choices and refusals are being narrow minded. All they do is obstinately double down on not accepting other opinions. Bigotry is a broad term. It can fit a lot of people into its definition. Especially the ones calling it. They’re the main intolerant ones. Going after groups of people who don’t bow down to their ideas. Prejudice: an irrational attitude of ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 11:13 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have It’s your life. Date or not date whomever you want for whatever reasons. Unless it’s illegal or you’re not harming the person of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 10:28 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Straight women with gay experiences is something I only heard on Reddit platform. It’s like the women want Chads and go on dates for free meals myths. These folks are caught up in their insecurities and see women as the problem. How about not dating women you don’t like or who has a problem with your sexual identity. Actually go outside and get a life. You’re too caught up in what others do and say. That’s not the foundation for good mental health. Go live your life as you please. My husband and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:38 PM
-1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You call it whatever you like. I refuse to acknowledge your definition. Even if it was based on prejudice. So what. Dating is too. If you want to “criticize”’one aspect of dating inherently discriminatory practices you have to do them all. Which is time wasting, redundant and irrelevant in the end. Accept you can’t make women find bi men attractive. It’s not the end of the world and my life goes on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:26 PM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Then you’re not free from people discussing why they don’t bisexual men and criticizing them in whatever manner they see fit. If you don’t like it too bad. Life is full of things you have to accept and deal with. Which includes women dating choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:21 PM
-1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You fight for rights and not want to be a part of the community. People are not obligated to date bi men just because they believe they should free to date whom they please. That’s where the confusion is coming from. Everything always leads back to women and their dating choices. We’re not responsible for others dating issues. There are women out there that date bi men. Stick to them. It’s the same thing as complaining a hot woman won’t date you because you’re not to her standards. Okay. She has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:06 PM
-1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Okay. That attitude didn’t develop overnight. Hollywood and porn helped with that. If you don’t care about what you’re upset about or you prceive as wrong you can’t expect others too. Indulging in boasting is not a sign of special treatment. It’s a character trait. I couldn’t care less what homosexual women do. That’s their right. They’re not ashamed of who they are as it should be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:21 PM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have It does. You just refuse to acknowledge it and revert back to virtual signaling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:11 PM
-2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Circular logic and entitlement to think you have a say in people private business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:10 PM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Not just my husband. It’s an online and Hollywood thing. No one talks of this IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:11 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Not dating them is oppressing them. That’s an entitlement issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:10 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I’m nor any other woman responsible for what a grown adult man does. Bi men have agency. Withholding who you are because someone or people refuse to date you is an insecurity and low self-esteem issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:09 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Just like porn watchers are a group. With your logic no group can’t be excluded from dating because it prejudice. You can criticize my reasons all you want but it doesn’t mean I can’t call BS on those judgements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:06 PM
–	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I get second hand embarrassment reading butt-hurt comments from bi people and feminists begging other sexual orientations to date bi men. Then cry wolf when people double down on their preferences. You’ll lack self-respect, dignity and pride. Seek therapy for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:03 PM
4	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have It is not a doge, but a fact. There is a distinction between social issues that restrict access to public spaces and engagements and social issues such as sexuality and orientation. These latter issues pertain to private individuals’ lives. It is not something that can be regulated. This would be akin to men on this subreddit advocating for the government to intervene and regulate who women can date and engage in sexual relations with. A fundamental principle of the LGBTQ human rights movement i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:01 PM
2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have That’s fine. Date whom you want. I did and married who I wanted. Everyone should without caring what others think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:51 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You’re being prejudiced towards them. Which makes you a hypocrite. No one is oppressing bi people. Dating is not a human right issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:49 PM
5	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Life is filled with bias. However no one is taking away from bi men or denying them human rights. You’ll conflating societal issues with personal private matters. People date what’s familiar and similar to them. It’s not racist nor any sort of phobia and prejudice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:47 PM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Dating is not a matter of discrimination or equal opportunity. You can’t criticize someone for their private intimate matters. You can’t negotiate attraction. It’s not different than criticizing women for not wanting to date men shorter than her or men shes find physically unattractive. Its ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:43 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Humans engage in sex. Men engage in sex. Sex is a sexual act that humans engage in. When you engage in sexual acts you’re participating in a part of sexual behavior. MSM are engaging in sexual behaviors. Men watch OF and porn to jack off. They’re engaging in sexual act/behavior. Let’s break this down. People with your mentality believes it’s bigoted/bi phobic/homophobic/prejudice/discriminatory to exclude a whole group of people from your dating pool. Bi men are seen as a group/category. What is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:37 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Biphobia is a social justice matter. You’re conflating personal intimate matters with social constructs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:30 PM
5	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You’re the one smothered in ignorance. Sexual coercion is unwanted sexual activity that happens when you are pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a nonphysical way. Coercion can make you think you owe sex to someone. When people get judgy about women dating behavior we’re contributing to the oppression men and the government already does to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:29 PM
-1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have This is not true. Not every men is attractive to bisexual women. My husband asked me on our first date. An ex lied to him about it. He prefers straight women. I don’t know any man that think two women together is hot and no they’re not anywhere religious. I see this on the internet so often I opened up the topic IRL. It’s certain types of men that do. I’m going to bet they highly likely to be frequent porn watchers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:08 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Here you are generalizing and stereotyping heterosexual people. You’re being a bigot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:01 PM
-2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Biphobia is a social justice matter. Dating is not equal opportunity. It’s no different than when men on this sub call out women for too high standards, not giving unattractive men a chance and a host of other reasons. I guess everyone engage in some sort of phobia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:52 PM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Thank you. Men having sex with other men (MSM) is an arousal killer. They need to understand that people won’t date or will breakup with partners based on sexual behaviors often. Not wanting to perform oral sex, engaging in anal sex, watches porn, MSM, BDSM etc are all parts of sexual behaviors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:47 PM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Dating is in the exclusion business. It’s actually inherent to dating. Men get rejected based on all types of reasons yet here are bisexual men demanding special privileges and crying unfair treatment. Shy, not confident, cheapskate, bisexuals and unattractive men are all the same. They have behaviors that make them undesirable. Everyone has some disadvantage when it comes dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:38 PM
7	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Not everyone is bigots because they don’t like you or what you do. I don’t like bodybuilders I guess I’m engaging in bigotry not liking a whole group of people. No you need to understand Not Interested. You’re trying to shame women and get them to date men they’re not comfortable with or attractive to with accusations. That’s coercion behavior. Since sex is usually a component it’s sexual harassment and borderline sexual coercion. One of the ways this manifests is feeling pressured, forced in a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:31 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have The cope is strong is this one. Maybe there are some women with insecurities of competing but it’s not the majority. If anything I heard the reverse of why women decline to date bisexual men. They use being cheaters and feminine as more palatable than they’re disgusted or believe them gay. Your argument doesn’t work because most women don’t look at each other and compete for men. So seeing a man as competition is nonsensical. The majority of straight women are drawn to masculinity. Desiring men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:24 PM
6	Women handle rejection worse then men Statistics on child abuse show that women commit a slightly higher overall percentage of general child maltreatment cases than men, whereas men commit the vast majority of child sexual abuse cases. Women commit abuse in the form of neglect by being the primary caretakers. Men commit the overwhelming majority of sexual abuse. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0145213423002338	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:18 PM
1	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? Where’s your credible sources of information regarding mothers kill 55% to 75% of child(ren) compared to men? There’s different types of abuse. Men perpetrators of abuse are more frequently linked to severe physical abuse and sexual assault, whereas female perpetrators are more frequently cited for neglect and emotional abuse”. “Men sexually abuse children significantly more than women do. Data from child protection agencies and research studies show that men commit roughly 85% to 90% of child s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 09:09 PM
2	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? Men sexually abuse their children at an alarming rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 05:00 AM
-9	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. Maybe you don’t have deep and intimate friendships as I do or define them differently than I do. I honestly don’t really know or care about bisexuals lifestyle. The only thing I know and care about are the guidelines and boundaries my husband and I established. Which is no close friendships with the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 08:41 PM
1	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. 😮‍💨 I’m not bisexual and don’t know any therefore I can’t speak on anything related to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:58 PM
0	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. If you can’t manage your feels then you shouldn’t be in any type of relationship. You’re not bottling up your feelings to maintain a friendship with a woman. What data or evidence you pulling the “leading to bad outcomes” from? It’s about being a legit friend not a circling shark. The man was never really interested in friendship with the woman . Full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:37 PM
3	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. I agree with no close friends with the opposite sex. Especially with how women experience close friendships. The bond, the emotional support, relationship troubles, comfort, etc all would be emotional cheating. Yet people love to scream insecurity over this stance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:11 PM
-1	Continuing a “Friendship” with a woman is not a good idea. From personal experiences this is the part where you keep your feelings to yourself. Nine times out of ten you already know how she feels about you. Eight times out of ten she already knows. Romantic/Sexual feelings don’t occur in a vacuum or out of nowhere. Informing her of your feelings is just a roundabout way of saying “here’s my feelings, return them or lose my friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:03 PM
6	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Unfortunately probably 99% of men have questionable ideas about consent. They just won’t own up to it. Just listen to their stories of conquest and they tell disgusting and disturbing tales of coercion sex and even questionable consent sex or non violent sexual assault (sex with females while drunk or sleeping).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:53 PM
9	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. No men have questionable ideas about consent. It needs focusing on and studying. In this one study these are the men that admitted it. Now imagine how many more men that has not. The number would be way higher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:16 PM
8	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Access means the ability, right, or permission to enter a place, use something, or see a person You can desire women all you want but thinking you should or have the right to access to it like women are sex toys is entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:12 PM
11	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. She’s exactly right. It’s sexual assault. You’re getting women to have sex with you through deception. Legal definition: Sexual coercion is unwanted sexual activity that happens when a person is pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced through non-physical means. This is what your lack of morals leads to. Therefore it’s considered SA. Just like continuing sex with a woman after taking off the condom without their knowledge. It’s illegal. As should be sex through deception. There’s a pattern her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:21 AM
10	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Lying to women for sex is disgusting behavior and show a lack of integrity and morals. Wanting access to sex is an entitlement. Women are not instruments of sex for men. Every time I’m on this sub I’m thankful for my husband. Ladies the good ones really are taken. Sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:15 AM
2	If sex isn’t something to be ashamed of, then don’t hide your desires for it. Sexual compatibility is very important to me. Therefore I use to bring up sex early in the dating stage even if I’m not planning to have sex with them early. There are certain sexual behaviors that are dealbreakers for me. It’s best to get that out the way. However I’m not going to announce it to society or randomly at social events and meeting people. It’s for privacy purposes. Only my friends and potential partners need to know about how much sex I like and what turns me on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 02:37 PM
1	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. No it’s not the same. On this sub men are always saying average women attract “Chads” to sleep with. By being “Chads” they automatically don’t have to settle for average women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 12:53 PM
1	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. I’ve only ever started conversation with men but never asked one out. They always picked up on that I was interested. Once at a book store I saw this hot guy. I’ve looked to see the genre on the aisle he was on. Then started thinking about books I’ve read in that genre. From there I approached him and asked him about the book he was reading. We had a long conversation. When I had to leave he asked if I’ll be interested in going to a book cafe with him. Very easy way for women to approach men but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 10:36 PM
1	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. Women are not passive when it’s a man they like. Key word of LIKE. Even if it’s not directly said it is expressed and known. > There is cap to where you can exactly "improve" and largely begins to view the opposite sex as adversial/tools to have their needs met. < This quote/phase by you sounds very rapey…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 10:22 PM
1	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. There’s no economics of the situation. It’s pseudo data that’s not representative to real life. Go outside and observe people. Many average people in relationships with other average people. It immediately disproves your argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 10:07 PM
7	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. If you been told your whole life how pretty or beautiful you are how do you measure “several points more attractive’ than you are? Women usually don’t use men degrading rating system. A man is either handsome or not. One of my sisters had asked men out in the past. She stoped for the same reasons as RefrigeratorMarathon. Men will think you’re desperate or an easy lay. These men are not better looking than her. It’s just the majority of men mindset when it comes to dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 06:00 PM
3	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. Thank you. They must never seen a group of women when they notice a cute guy. Women be all in his face laughing and smiling. She may never come out directly for your number but she will indirectly. By asking if he has a girlfriend. In high school it was even worse. Girls got territorial over a boy. If we like a guy we had to claim him so other girls wouldn’t. It’s part of Girl Code.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 05:37 PM
1	Women should make the first move, its better for everyone. No women shouldn’t because they don’t need to. In my social circle or anyone I know has no trouble approaching women. They very confident men. So while you’re waiting for this magical shift in gender relations other men sure within himself will be out there asking women out successfully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 05:09 PM
1	Women, when you ask a man to take out the trash, what is the time limit for the man to do that? If it’s needs taken out I don’t bother to ask. I do it myself unless I’m busy and notice it needs taken out. The time limit is at once or at least by the time I complete my task.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 03:09 PM
3	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe Ok. What you don’t seem to comprehend is that my point stand regarding men violence comparable to women. If you don’t like that fact I don’t what to tell you… Mr. I don’t trust credible sources unless they reflect my bias and agenda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 04:07 AM
2	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe You obviously didn’t read it good enough. The OP was about men violence. Men reoffend for violence at a way higher rate than women. Women do it for NONE VIOLENT reasons. Full stop there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 12:04 AM
1	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe How about getting more credible source than Wikipedia. Within five years 55% of women reoffend compared to 66%. Women were arrested again for drug or property offense. Men were 30% more likely than women to get arrested for violent offenses. There’s a distinct difference in the offenses committed by male than females. Which is violence. Men commit it at a higher rate. Unlike boys entering the legal system, girls are most often nonviolent offenders. https://bjs.ojp.gov/press-release/recidivism-fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 10:50 PM
12	Women aren't as innocent as the crime stats make you believe I hard agree with this. Women are also less likely to reoffend. When they’re in prison women adapt to their surroundings to survive. Maybe some do violence for self-protection. Once they’re out, all that other stuff might as well been an alternative personality. Women may have some PTSD but it won’t impact her life to where she can’t be part of an active community again. Working hard to reintegrate into a law abiding citizen. There’s no study that will ever convince me that women do violence and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 06:53 PM
1	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. No women don’t and this one especially. Good luck with that 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 11:21 PM
0	Men gotta stop getting offended because woman don’t want them. Netflix has a great documentary called Victim/Suspect. It’s about how police don’t believe women who report rape/sexual assault. They even turn around and blame the victims. Pressing charges against them. So I don’t think not being believed is exclusive to men. It’s something the police have no training on and consider other types of crime more important to investigate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 03:31 PM
1	Question for women: What is your audio preference during sex? I’m a screamer when I orgasm and I’m not faking it. It’s quite intense. As for my partner I like when he moans are make some kind of sound and talk to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 01:47 AM
9	how frequently you turned on about men you see in public ? Random men going about errands… not many. Going to events or restaurants… quit a few. All when I was single. Now I just notice they’re attractive but no desire or fantasies about having sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 01:24 AM
0	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. No. I don’t need to explain myself. That’s what you’re trying to get me to do under the pretense of “deconstructing”. I come from a religious family but as a teenager I stopped believing in God. I’m total capable of examining what I was taught and discarding them based on my own views and personal beliefs. Besides emotions and feelings are not based on reason or logic. Women get unexplained icks all the time. Are we supposed to deconstruct that too? Dating very nature is based on exclusions. It’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 09:57 PM
2	It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market. … she clearly isn’t as bad looking like you think she does. This part here. Men on this sub are always complaining about average women getting attention and simps in which they think they’re better looking and high value than they are. I know some average looking women and they don’t get any attention. Now my gorgeous friends do. They’re very feminine and always dressed up. Well put together. It’s a myth these men have about what the average woman look like and the attention they get from simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 09:41 PM
0	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. Conflating two different issues. One is political and the other is personal/private. Dating is an intimate matter that women don’t and shouldn’t explain themselves. No is a whole sentence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 09:37 PM
-1	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. Women don’t need to think deep, a reason nor explain themselves. All you need to understand is not interested. Be as that may, women feel all kinds of icks based on sexual behaviors, vibes, political beliefs, social behavior etc. In the end it comes down to preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 09:20 PM
2	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. You sound bitter. You shouldn’t let the outside world influence your internal world. That’s giving people power over you. Anyway many women believe in having manners, being politically correct and not wanting to hurt others feelings. This often bleeds over to their dating life. Since not dating bi men is perceived as biphobic by certain groups they won’t say it aloud or try to be polite about it. Unlike men women do try to hold other women accountable based on their values and beliefs. That’s an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 08:30 PM
2	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. You just don’t like the reasons so you call it biphobia. Not dating bi men are not harming them. It’s not a theft of their rights. It’s not the same thing. Everyone goes into the dating game with some kind of disadvantage. You’re misconstruing things. Homophobia/biphobia are social justice issues about human rights. Now days it’s turned into if you don’t date/fuck me your homophobic/biphobic/bigot and other terms that don’t apply to dating and sex. No different than telling women to lower their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 08:21 PM
0	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. It’s not biphobic to want to date into your sexual orientation. No men is owed sex or relationship. If you think so you are pretty entitled. Believing a person should live as they please doesn’t mean they have to actually LIVE your values or lifestyle. Get over yourself. Liberal women can date however they want. Your insecurities are showing which is never attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 06:36 PM
1	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. My husband is a pretty boy. His face is far from being masculine yet he always been able to get women and women still flirt and come onto him. He’s also politically progressive and liberal. Now he does have mostly masculine traits like very confident, leadership, logical reasoning, direct, bold, watch and participate in sports etc… I know many women that are drawn to men with softer features. However those men were always masculine in attitude. Still you were referring to looks of progressive me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 06:25 PM
0	It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market. Yes I’m very sure. Personal experience. None of them are fat. Just plain faces. We go out to drinks and meet up in lounges and other events. Just me and some of my friends get hit on all the time. The other ones don’t get the attention. I know what attention is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 03:51 PM
–	It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market. > … she clearly isn’t as bad looking like you think she does. > > This part here. Men on this sub are always complaining about average women getting attention and simps in which they think they’re better looking and high value than they are. I know some average looking women and they don’t get any attention. Now my gorgeous friends do. They’re very feminine and always dressed up. Well put together. It’s a myth these men have about what the average woman look like and the attention they get from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 02:20 PM
0	Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west. I’ve been in a couple of relationships where I was fetishized. They focused on me being mixed race and talked about having designer babies. Had preconceived ideas about who I was or would be willing to do sexually. Ugh. All that along with many stereotypes. People are more than their race and your sexual fantasies. There’s nothing wrong with having a preference. I have many and my husband did for mixed black women. The problem is if that’s all you care about and focus on a person race. It’s some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 10:27 AM
0	Passport Bros aren't leaving the western dating scene for genuine desire, they are leaving for a chance at genuine desire, which is more than they would ever have in the west. Why do you want to be exotic. You will be fetishized. It’s gross. As a mixed race (black/white) I get fetishized a lot. They don’t like you. They’re fixed on what you are not who are. That’s nothing to celebrate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 10:23 PM
1	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Rarely. Watching others have sex is not a turn on. I’ve had better arousal from using my imagination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:07 AM
5	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Sounds like projection. You want it that way because that’s how it’s is for men. The same difference between men not caring if they objectify or harass women because they wish women would give them that kind of attention. Different values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:20 AM
–	Why are men with money seen as very attractive for women? The same reason anyone is attractive to it. It comes with many privileges. Instead of getting only your needs in life you can get your wants too. This is the first time I’ve seen anyone confused or not understanding the draw of money. Especially men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 01:37 AM
1	If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted. I have yet to see it. Women usually don’t go around thinking it’s unfair to be undesirable. As if they’re entitled to a relationship and sex. It’s a uniquely male phenomenon. Everyone goes into the dating world with some disadvantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:03 PM
-2	If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted. Self-defeatist. They’re their own worst enemy. Selfish and self-absorb people usually are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 06:54 PM
2	If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted. Only someone with limited life experience world talk about fairness when it comes to dating. There’s no such thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 06:07 PM
–	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem How does a woman tell if they’re average or above it? To me it’s when they’re often told by strangers how pretty they are or always have men asking them out and coming on to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 03:17 AM
0	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men Which is very subjective. What one person may see as beautiful another won’t. You’re either approached or not. Which you’re guaranteed to get if you invest in your appearance and dress a certain way. Ask me how I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 07:37 PM
0	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men Luck has nothing to do with it. You just put yourself in places high quality men frequent. Certain lounges, art and history museums, volunteer for charities etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 07:27 PM
4	Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed So men listen to women when they say don’t approach however when they tell you what they like in a man you don’t listen. Tell the truth. One requires confidence and courage while the other doesn’t therefore you choose to ignore and disregard it. It’s called taking the easiest and low effort way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:36 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. Models have great bone structure which makes them photogenic. Especially the high cheekbones. My mom had me in modeling when I was very young and my sisters still in the business with her girls. I’ve been around a few models want-to-be. Many are baseline attractive. Makeup makes them stunning. I have yet to see one that looks like the photos in magazines and on runways. Victoria Secret use to do televised shows with behind the scenes peaks. I’ve seen and know more or as pretty women IRL. Persona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 01:20 PM
3	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Great video and it touch on the disturbing history of highway system. Language framing change but the context remains the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 03:17 AM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. Hot women with a full face of makeup. Models are no way or form natural 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 07:46 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. It’s no coincidence that the most successful and wealthy men are with women that look like supermodels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 07:37 PM
–	Women discard what men say they like in women, then turn around and tell men what they like in women. My friends, sisters and I all wear full makeup and get hit on a daily basis while our friends who are natural or use little makeup don’t get the same attention. It’s not only personal experiences. Going out to events or observing people you will see men always going for the women with super model aesthetics. Then you look at celebrities. Tell me how many rich men, athletes, singers, rappers etc do you see with women that wear no makeup? Very few. They all with glamorous types. Ask these men whos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 07:20 PM
–	Men can become angry because they cannot get laid, and that anger can make them less likely to get laid. Excuses. It’s stupid, childish and pointless being angry because you can’t get something/what you want. You have to have a sense of entitlement to get to that point. With that logic people are justified in being resentful of not being rich or good looking. Definitely sign of immaturity and lack of life experience period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 08:07 PM
4	The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better. This thread makes for an entertaining read. A temporary distraction when bored.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:33 AM
0	Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family) Nawh this is a certain sect of Gen Z failure to launch issue. Gen Alpha not going to follow in the same footsteps. No generation does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 12:24 PM
1	Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity. Lies of omission… still find it bizarre wanting to date someone that’s turned off by you. Self-esteem issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 10:49 PM
–	I am exhausted by the fake empathy and invalidation I sometimes experience Dating is inherently discriminatory. You exclude people by value and interests until you find the right person. I bet you’re as discriminating as the next person. You just don’t care because it’s not you. Expect that same energy back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:04 PM
–	I am exhausted by the fake empathy and invalidation I sometimes experience Maybe the effort is one sided with you but not with another person. You’re only seeing it from your perspective. It happens when a man is interested in a woman however she has no interest in him. Yes people should be valued for whom they are. The problem is not everyone going to value the same things or those things the same way you do. How is that unfair? If a woman you don’t find attractive wanted to date you is it unfair to her that you’re not interested? What can be done about it? No one can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:51 PM
2	Fear of automatic cheating or getting an STD aren't the biggest reasons why women won't date bi men. Their reasoning is mostly due to their idea of masculinity. Ugh, it’s entitlement to call out women dating choices. You or anyone don’t get a vote on a woman intimate relationship decisions. The nerve of people is always… bemusing. Saying men are on the DL because straight women don’t want to date them is no different than blaming women for not dating undesirable men or telling them to lower their standards. All that said, every woman I know wouldn’t date a bi man and it’s all based on ideas of masculinity. I know a few who tell men or other people it’s …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 06:34 PM
5	Men who are successful, high earners, or providers— I have a debatable question All that earns is the badge of entitled cheater. With that logic a woman beauty "earns" her the right to have sex with multiple men. She works hard on her fitness, skincare routine and beauty regiment which gives her many options. Therefore it entitles her to indulge in sexually validation whenever she sees fit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 06:14 PM
4	Men Shouldn't Apologize for priortizing beauty and refusing to settle for less Men that love women with certain aesthetics will never complain about paying for dates and her upkeep. Many of them draw you in with how much they’ll spoil you. There’s no victims in this lifestyle. It’s beyond men on PPD to understand. Complain about gold diggers while having no gold to dig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 02:38 PM
-4	Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and Context I did you just choose to over look it because it doesn’t fit your narrative. You can’t reconcile the fact that attraction is a combination of amoral and moral qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/26 07:06 PM
-3	Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and Context Two things can be true at the same time. It’s been painstakingly repeated to you that attraction doesn’t rely on physical attributes alone. You keep repeating the same things. As if a word said or conversation had can’t instantly turn a person off. You don’t want to accept that fact. There’s this narrative in your head that you’re trying to prove but it’s not measurable. Yea looks matters. Yes it comes first for many women but not all. Just like a “bad boy” attitude won’t deter some women but it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/26 05:51 PM
3	Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even close Do you really think a band of whinny and awkward men on social media going to bring down women? 😂. All on the basis of them not dating you or choosing undesirable men. I can’t believe the things I read on Reddit at times. Men that think like that need to get some self-respect and dignity. Focusing on women that don’t want you not going go anywhere and it can’t be good for your self-worth. Imagine women being bitter about you not wanting them and decide you have to be brought down. Now you can se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 04:35 PM
-1	Feminists complaining about issues like women being objectified, or approached by men is always the most frustrating thing ever, due to their cognitive dissonance in their expectations for men in society. If you’re secure within yourself the media shouldn’t influence you too much. Common sense comes into play. School can be brutal but that’s where you’re supposed to learn and grow not stagnate. Unfortunately parents can fail us but as we get life experience it can challenge and change our upbringing. I grew up in a very religious family. When I was a teenager I started to question what I was taught. It didn’t take me long to realize it wasn’t for me and break away from it. That happens when you l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 12:30 AM
-1	Feminists complaining about issues like women being objectified, or approached by men is always the most frustrating thing ever, due to their cognitive dissonance in their expectations for men in society. Who are all these people telling adult men how to behave and are keeping track of what they do? That shit played out after high school. No one (women) is expecting men to protect them or be leaders. If someone is shooting up a store I promise you women aren’t expecting men to jump in front of or push them out of the way. Stop getting life/romantic ideas and behavior from Hollywood. As girls/boys become aware of each other as something more than friends they learn how to understand and navigate r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 10:37 PM
3	If you're not that observant, that's your fault. Care to share this study? It’s sounds interesting. I couldn’t find any credible sources or any data on this statistic. In politics alone women diverge heavily. If women think and want things differently in that one area alone then it’s impossible for us to be a monolith. https://prri.org/spotlight/american-women-are-not-politically-monolithic/	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 04:41 PM
1	If you're not that observant, that's your fault. Two of my older sisters fit the mold as toxic boy moms. They cater to their sons and do everything for them. Cook then serve their food to them, pay their phone bills, fund their gamer life, clean and wash their clothes etc. All that’s expected of them is to SOMETIMES take out the trash and assist bringing in groceries. While they’re not socially stunted by Reddit standards my other nephews whose mom doesn’t coddle them are very much more sociable, mature and emotionally intelligent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 04:13 PM
2	If you're not that observant, that's your fault. Men not knowing how to approach and talk to women is not the norm. It’s an online thing where awkward men go to vent and blame women for their lack of social skills. Just like Icy_Ad_ 4544 I don’t know any men that have trouble talking with or getting dates. These men are not autistic and speak with women as normal people. There’s no special class for women-speak. Only normal social awareness and interactions. Which starts developing in kindergarten, school events and social activities. Men that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 03:53 PM
2	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". Only certain types of people go around making sweeping assumptions about groups of people. Who are you to stay someone is over styled or groomed? That a person is “obsessed” with how they look. Just stupid generalizations based on nothing. I could be like you and have bad opinions of people that don’t put much into their appearance. Write them off as lazy and sloven. However I’m not insecure. Only the ignorant with limited life experience believe that a woman who takes care of her body and looks…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 10:40 PM
2	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". Oh wait attractiveness is now separate from physical appearances? You must have access to some new data sources that show men are no longer visual creatures. Please share this shocking new insight into male attraction. It makes no sense to say these women are getting attention despite their aesthetics when there’s plenty of women who don’t wear makeup and long blowout hair. Those women would be getting all the attention. If anything women who dress up are less likely to hookup or hard to get wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 10:22 PM
1	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". You’re making assumptions. You know what they say about those types of people… In my experience and observations the men that usually have negative opinions on women who invest in their appearance are bitter little boys who know they can’t get one or the religious type. These type of men shoot outside their league. They can’t help but shoot their shot. Who knows maybe you’re one of the rare men that don’t. Existing outside the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 10:05 PM
6	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". It’s amusing when men claim to not like makeup, long nails and “fish lips” yet lust and jerk off to Victoria Secret, Instagram and super models. None of these women are “natural beauties”. They just have the glamorous looks of hair, makeup, fitness and lighting. The majority of the women I know in real life go for the glamorous aesthetic. Only a few friends and a couple of sisters don’t wear makeup or go for the natural, laid back look. Now ask me who gets the most attention from men. Who’s the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 12:55 PM
7	Women who call themselves "baddie" are just as cringe, if not more cringe, than men who call themselves "alpha". There’s a big difference between the two. Men that refer to themselves as alpha do it to distinguish themselves from other men. To appear superior to other (beta) men. Women that refer to themselves as baddies are doing it to hype themselves up and have narcissistic tendencies. They don’t usually do it to appear better than other women. Something similar that comes to mind is when that trend where women posted pictures of themselves with the Madonna/Whore aesthetic saying they’re not like other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 12:21 PM
1	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" Yes of course calling all men rapists is terrible. If someone did it to my husband I’ll be pissed off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 12:05 PM
2	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" You said you find it wrong but it was only used as a disclaimer so you can drive home a point. That point being women are the bigger perpetrators of child abuse and it can be used against them. Which brought me to my point of males being the bigger perpetrators of sexual child abuse. If we’re going to be making points let’s not exclude relevant information.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:58 AM
2	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" No I understand exactly what you’re saying. I just don’t believe the terms and usages are on the same level. It’s not common for women to think, believe or call all men rapists or abusers. Whereas it’s common for men to refer to women as girls/females. Yes they’re some women on social media that call all men rapists/abusers but it’s not the norm. I never hear this in real life. Meanwhile using female to refer to women is prevalent online and off. Both behavior and attitude is bad but I don’t bel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:50 AM
2	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" Women are the main cause of child neglect and physical abuse by a slight margin (52 % to 56%) compared to men. It’s because they’re the primary caregivers therefore discrepancies is bound to happen to reflect that. Now when we talk about Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) men are the overwhelming majority. So if you want to use women as interchangeable with child abusers be sure to use men interchangeably with sexual child abusers. https://psychiatry.uams.edu/ar-best-for-children/child-abuse-statistics/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:38 AM
3	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" Pointing out the risk of date rape for women is not referring to all men as rapists. It a legitimate concern that happens regularly. Anyone thats bother by it needs to do some deep reflecting on why they’re drawing those associations. Women personhood being taken from them is not the same as men being called rapists. One of them makes a person less then. An object. A denial of humanity. The other is based on credible data and resources that shows men are the biggest perpetrators of sexual violen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 02:19 AM
2	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" If I didn’t read your post I wouldn’t be able to point out how your comparisons weren’t related. Not all men is usually a subject derailment. An example would be women discussing dating men is risky due to fear of date rape and someone comes along to insert “not all men” into it. While using terms of girl/female is usually used to demean women. For example a man saying modern females dating expectations show their entitlement attitude. It’s different when if a man was to say “I have more female …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 12:41 AM
32	Women who complain about being called a "girl" or a "female", have no defense when they're called out about "not all men" False equivalence. The correct correlation would be to refer to men as boys or males. Refer to a man as a boy in real life and watch as they try to intimidate you to prove otherwise. Women get angry about referring to us as females but it ends there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 11:00 PM
1	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. When men compliment me with pretty/beautiful I say thank you out of politeness. However when it’s to tell me how fine or sexy or hot I am I ignore them or give them a fuck off stare. Men usually use compliments as a conversation starter. A way to draw you in so they can get an award. Which is usually your number or sex. With women we do it out of pure appreciation with no hidden intent or ulterior motives. I often bond with other women over clothes, hair styles, shoes and jewelry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 04:28 PM
–	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care Very few men in my circle or family are single. The ones that aren’t like to play the field and I’m stating that nicely. Even when one breaks up and is single they definitely don’t bitch about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:54 PM
–	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care You don’t understand what a patriarchal society means. All gender have in-group bias. When it comes to women it’s higher for a few reasons. Women had to band together to fight for their rights, to get meaningful systemic change and protect/support each other from men violent nature. That creates a strong bond. While men favor women more than each other because of sex reasons. The more access they have to sex the more they prefer women. Men are also the biggest perpetrators of violence against ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:51 PM
–	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care With that logic in a population of millions male and female violence would be equally distributed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:19 PM
–	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care If you can’t see the pattern that’s on you. I’m not going to engage in whataboutism with you. You’re derailing the topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:13 PM
1	Cheating is almost inevitable in human relationships. Transactional relationships are on the same side of the coin as conditional love. There doesn’t exist a relationship between humans that doesn’t require it in some form or another. It’s called having standards and principles. When someone violate their values those with self-esteem and self-respect end them. Even parents and children relationships are based on conditions on shared history, behavior and attitudes. Maybe you never really been in love or didn’t value them enough. Not once has I eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:11 PM
6	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care Yes and those issues dissolve into dating issues. The draft one is infamous now for it. Men thinking women get favorite treatment because they’re not drafted. Therefore should be grateful for their protection which extends to dating/fucking them. Men get harsher punishment because they commit the most violent crimes which get the longest sentences. Men are also highly more likely to reoffend. What average men is expected to be a provider in this day and age? The men and women that desire those t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 11:32 PM
3	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care You got any data on toxicity of women is the same as men? You don’t know what my feed is showing me. Worry about your own. On PPD the amount of blaming and gender hating is heavy screwed towards men. I don’t see women on this sub going around blaming men for being undesirable or wanting to take men rights away to limit their dating options. I’m not going to get into whataboutism. As OP stated men don’t care about men issues. It’s used to shut down women. In the end it all comes down to women are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 10:27 PM
7	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care You can’t hold anyone accountable for their personal trauma. It’s ludicrous and entitlement to believe you can dictate when a SA survivors and allies discuss it. The only thing you’re proving is insincerity. You want to play victim to invalidate sexual violence against women in dating. We see you. We’re holding you accountable for being disingenuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 10:15 PM
4	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care I read it and you’re using the same tactics you’re accusing women of doing. Date rape is not irrelevant. Will never be invalid. Especially when it comes to women dating men. It’s a lived reality and I look suspect at anyone trying to shut women down when its brought up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 08:47 PM
10	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care Many women are not sympathetic to men issues because they don’t see them as legitimate and majority of men don’t either. There’s no organized legit movement for it. No men in my life or anyone I know complain nor talk about men issues. It’s an online phenomenon. When on Reddit all men issues comes down to women not wanting to date/fuck them. They blame women for it. I can guarantee you they have dealbreakers and standards of their own yet expect women to tailor fit theirs to include them. That’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 08:44 PM
6	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care There’s a pattern going on in this thread. Where men either bring up their own SA or someone they know to shut down discussions of dating sexual violence. They’re using SA survivors trauma to paint a picture that talking about it up invalidate SA or only causes other survivors pain. It’s something that can never be invalidated. I don’t believe a survivor of sexual violence would use the rhetoric I’m reading.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 08:19 PM
13	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care I see what you’re doing. You’re flipping the script. You keep bringing up you’ve been SA and others are trying to minimize your suffering when it’s you doing it. You’re using SA survivors stories to apply them to yourself therefore shut down the discussion since your one. This way anything a woman say about their experience you can deflect as a victim. What you’re doing is disingenuous and needs to be called out. Women don’t let this man shut you down with talk of me too. Look at his comments. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 08:12 PM
10	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care Women that have been sexually assaulted don’t dismiss others bringing it up or into a discussion where it’s relevant. That kind of insensitivity and disrespect are usually done by those who are ignorant of sexual violence. Olympic oppression doesn’t belong in SA discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 07:53 PM
15	Most of the time men bring out serious complaints only to shut women up, which proves that they don't actually care Sounds great. How do you fix the issues of men being bitter that women find them undesirable and refuse to date/fuck them through equality? It’s impossible since it’s an intimate individual personal matter not equal opportunity for everyone. The very nature of dating is exclusion until you find the one you want. Men also discriminate in their dating choices. Women mostly overall accept it. The ones that have problems with men dating choices aren’t bitter about it the way men are. It’s rather wei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 07:30 PM
2	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" Meanwhile… according to data systems men vastly sexual assault and harassment more than women do. Men rape other men at a higher rate than women. You’re just plain wrong. Accept that sexual violence is a big part of men nature. It’s a power dynamic in which men hold both physical, institutional, and systematical over women. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/statistics-depth/ https://www.cdc.gov/intimate-partner-violence/about/intimate-partner-violence-sexual-violence-and-stalking-among-men.html “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 07:01 PM
2	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" I was sexually assaulted in the military. Reported it but many more women who didn’t because of shame. Let me not get started on sexual harassment and abuse. Men are the biggest sexual predators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 01:56 PM
3	Do you believe that straight men and women can actually be fully platonic friends? No close friends. You’re going to cross the boundary of emotional cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/26 11:40 PM
1	Where are all the straight women!? It’s not a contradiction. It’s matter of statement. Instead I always saying people are sexually fluid you need to say some are. Not speak in absolutes. How do you know if I ever spoke up nature vs nurture. Kids are greatly influenced by those around them and society. It’s now considered cool to be queer. Gay people and themes are represented on most entertainment medium. Especially in Hollywood. The Greeks use sex with other men as punishment. I wouldn’t go around advertising them as something t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 08:43 PM
1	Where are all the straight women!? Religion is always the go to reason. As if you had to be brainwashed if you don’t believe in sexuality fluidity. In a previous comment. I mentioned my sister is gay. That she and her friends believe as I do. I never once meet a single queer person that believes sex is fluid. However they, like me see it online sometimes. We lived for long periods time in multiple states. Chicago is where we grew up. When in Dallas her and friends are not afraid for their life. They go out and hold hands with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:55 PM
1	Where are all the straight women!? My point is that sexuality is not fluid. It’s fluid for some people. On some social media platforms people parrot as if some known fact for everyone. Then right on time you presume that the majority have at least thought of it. Mind reading doesn’t exist so I know there’s no way for you to know that. My sister is a lesbian and I know plenty of queer folks through her social circle. They’re more offended than I am since they fought so hard for their rights on one of the tenets that sexuality is f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:15 PM
1	Where are all the straight women!? No I don’t acknowledge that the majority of people are sexually fluid and women more specifically. Nothing in my life, my family or friends experiences shows me that. Studies can be screwed any way the one who’s funding them wants it to. It’s trendy nowadays to say sexuality is fluid. Which makes not choosing your sexual orientation invalid. If it’s invalid then it shouldn’t be a protected characteristic. Laws can be changed on ideology. Only prostitutes go around having sex with someone they’re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:49 AM
1	Where are all the straight women!? I’ve lived in red and blue states. The longest was in Chicago and Dallas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:11 AM
1	Where are all the straight women!? Well misrepresenting means providing an inaccurate or misleading account of something. It involves omitting key details, or lying to create a false impression. Heterosexuality means sexual orientation characterized by romantic, emotional, or sexual attraction between individuals of different sexes or genders. If you’re having same sex sexual relations then you don’t fit the description of what it means to be heterosexual. When you know how heterosexuality is defined yet choose to add caveats to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 01:44 AM
1	Where are all the straight women!? There’s no double standard. Women fought for their rights. Not caring about society rules. If men want to explore their sexuality then do it. No one is stopping them. Gay men fought the good fight and now look at them. I don’t know where you live but women still get judged for being promiscuous in the states. Women just don’t give a damn anymore. It’s only on social media do I ever hear about women sexuality being fluid but never IRL. Men have agency. They need to stop caring what people think o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 01:28 AM
1	Where are all the straight women!? It’s funny that you label it as “owe”. Sexuality is not something you can give away. It’s weird how you framed telling someone your sexuality. If a person isn’t ashamed of themselves then there’s no reason to frame it as an exchange system. I can’t imagine hiding that I’m heterosexual. It would never occur to me. Knowing that it may concern someone, like OP, and not disclosing is lying by omission. It’s definitely at least, misleading. My husband (white)has a preference for mixed race women. He …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:46 PM
1	Where are all the straight women!? It can come across as misrepresenting yourself. In the end it’s all a matter of perspective. Healthcare use MSM (Men Who Have Sex With Men) and ask your pronouns to be more inclusive and not come across as bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:12 PM
3	Where are all the straight women!? Where is the line? When does it go from being straight to being bisexual? After one encounter or several? We have labels because it’s part of a communication system. A way for us to understand each other. Things get confusing when you say you’re one thing yet your actions belies what that things means or represents. If I say I’m black yet I look white can I claim it? Part of being black is appearance because it affects everything in a black person life. Those experiences shape black people reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:55 PM
4	Where are all the straight women!? This is Reddit. You’re more likely to meet people with all kinds of backgrounds than IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 12:57 AM
20	Where are all the straight women!? Straight woman here. No experience or fantasies about lesbian sex. None of my friends either. Social media is not reflective of real life. Those women you called straight are bisexual. Sometimes it’s hard for them to accept themselves and don’t want to give up the straight label.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 04:09 AM
–	How important is sex? 🤣 Men need to accept that sex is not a right nor need. I see it’s hard to accept that men who complain about not getting sex want women to have less options therefore no choice but to accept men they don’t desire. It’s wild that self-respect is a missing component for some men that want sex provided to them. As I said before it’s about entitlement to sex with women. Get over it and find something else that can fulfill you or get to a life of continuous misery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 02:19 AM
–	How important is sex? You want to take away women safety nets so society can regress to when women had little options/rights. A time when women would date men they don’t necessary desire but needed 😂. Men really are insecure. You guys can’t handle or accept women are independent and don’t need them. That women have many options and you aren’t on the list. Where are men self-respect and pride? Wanting women that don’t find you attractive. Disqualify it or talk around it all you want but it all leads back to men entitl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 02:01 AM
1	Men and Women Often Fear Opposite Forms of Rejection If you know each other through mutual friends or at work and the woman let you know she’s not interested in you sexually/romantically then she did her part right. It’s not her for his expectations. What worse and terrible is when the guy stick around as a “friend”. Believing their time will come. But it doesn’t and you get a new boyfriend. The so called friend got mad and left the friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 02:19 PM
7	Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"? You’re damn right. Are women supposed to just open their legs for any man that wants what’s between them? Let’s be real. That’s what it’s really about. Sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 12:03 AM
0	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Only on Reddit will anyone believe that women are not held to a higher standard when it comes dating period. These people have never been part of a social group either in school or work. Women choices are ripped to shreds over any perceived infraction. Men on the other hand are given a pat on the back until recent times. They’re starting to get held accountable which many can’t handle. If a man doesn’t have a girlfriend he’s a bachelor or playa. A woman doesn’t have one she can’t get one or she’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:44 AM
1	Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on? A woman worried about raising another woman kid? Never heard of such a situation. Women just wouldn’t marry the man. How does having good genes relate to anything? As for the cheating part that just plain stupidity. If he cheats with you he’ll cheat on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:23 AM
-5	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. False equivalence. Women dating selection is not comparable to men dating failure. It would be correct if you said women dating selection get treated as if it’s beyond criticism while men dating selection is always considered fair game to critique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 11:24 PM
1	Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on? It’s been culturally groomed into us that it’s men being men, they’re biological inclined to cheat and other excuses. Women also have been conditioned to forgive and be empathetic. It has not been that long since women began giving pushback from that mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 09:36 PM
–	The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about. Who’s going around telling boyfriends/husbands what sex they enthusiastically did with another man/men? How does it naturally comes up and who tell them how much they loved it? This sounds like how an interrogation would start. You’re badgering them. These situations and scenarios don’t occur organically. They’re too specific. Now you’re crossing a boundary no matter the answer. As for the boyfriend taking his ex to some expensive place and didn’t take you is different. You already answered the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 08:41 PM
2	Q4All: What would you do if your partner cheated on you? Would you immediately leave them, or would you give them a chance for forgiveness? Do you think there's a gender-based difference in how people react to being cheated on? Change the house locks, pack his bags and have it waiting for him on the curb. Women are usually more forgiving when it comes to cheating. Not me. Instant dealbreaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 03:02 PM
2	Heterosexuals: would you date your best friend if their personality was put into the body of an attractive member of the opposite sex? Nope. I’ll always see them as a female. It’s not something I can psyche myself out of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 02:14 PM
17	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? This question is disingenuous. It’s fine if it was just venting. However it goes beyond that. You know that. I know that. Everybody knows that. We get a whole lot of misogynistic spite blaming women for their dating woes. They come on here to spew hate, lies and insults towards women. You can tell from how they “vent” what they really want to convey. Complaints about how back in the day women options were limited to the men around them. Complains women won’t sleep with them on first date. Compla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 06:16 PM
2	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? As a heterosexual woman let me put your mind at ease. In the past when I rarely watched porn it was only heterosexual content. Since I often exchanging sex advice and ideas with my sisters and friends I can reassure that there are many other women that don’t watch lesbian porn. Now you can’t reduce women down to a monolith. You may want to consider therapy. It’s not healthy to let what women you don’t know do affect you so badly. It’s not normal nor attractive behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 12:59 PM
1	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? I think it’s only women that are chronically online that read stuff like that. They get caught up in fan fiction then start branching out. The most popular genre among straight women is romance. With the subcategory is historical and contemporary, romantic fantasy, young adult and thrillers/mysteries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 12:43 PM
1	When will people admit that masturbating to lesbian porn as a woman is extremely gay? I don’t have to admit to anything that I have never heard of or been told about IRL. It’s something I only read about on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 12:29 PM
–	Do you fall in quickly or slowly? You’re speaking my language. Too many people don’t know what it feels like to meet a stranger eyes from across the room or crowd and feel instant chemistry. It’s an awesome feeling and I never seriously dated a man I didn’t feel that instant connection with. Many men I turned down thought if they stuck around as a “friend” I’ll change my mind or develop feelings for them but my mind/heart doesn’t work that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 04:49 AM
1	Do you fall in quickly or slowly? I fell into infatuation easy but I recognize it for what it was. Attraction was either there upon first meeting or not. It didn’t come later. I needed instant chemistry. Once dating it didn’t take much for me to exit. When I found a guy was a Trump supporter I lost all feelings. Broke up with a guy because he was a follower, too laid back and went along with whatever his friends did. One guy because he played video games regularly. Then a couple of guys over the fact they were simps over Instagr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 04:34 AM
–	Why do females gaslight me when i vent? I was on a AskReddit thread “What You Wish the Other Gender Understood”. Men were in the comments referring to women as females but referred to men as men. Not caring about the distinction. I posted how it takes a woman personhood away reducing her to her biological sex. One guy made excuses and deflected saying the fault lies with females for having a problem with it. He even called one woman too emotional about. Probably not aware or comprehending what’s was wrong with that statement too. Thes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 09:53 PM
3	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? Yes I’m sure there’re homebodies out there. I don’t know how easy it is to find them. The few women I know that are didn’t start off that way. It’s only after they had kids they became that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 01:56 PM
3	Genuine question for all women Do the majority of men cheat? Same difference. There’s no way for us to be sure one way or another about what other people do. I’m sure there’s studies out there. Marriage is a gamble. You have to take your chances. As a married woman I never cheated at any point in our relationship nor have I’ve ever been tempted. I know I have a great thing going on. No man has anything he can offer for me to throw my marriage out the window. Cheating is a dealbreaker for both of us. It comes down to how much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 01:08 PM
5	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? She meant you want only want a girl for access to sex. Not a relationship that involves socializing with friends and family, going out to events and restaurants, emotional bonding, good communication and conversation etc. along with all the other things that comes wth having a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:44 PM
2	Why aren't more women happy that men are analyzing human attraction and trying to figure out women? I know what goes on in my household and what’s on our computers. We talk and discuss everything. Porn is no exception. Part of a relationship is being open and honest with each other. We make our on porn and as I said before my husband engages in sex not watch others do it. He a mature adult who’s busy with work. Any free time is spent with family and friends. There’s no sneaking or creeping around to watch strangers fuck. Some people watch others have sex while others are too busy actually doin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 03:36 AM
0	Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men. As a married woman no I don’t even want those two to sexualize me. If I had was single I wouldn’t mind them finding me attractive and flirting but there’s a line. Treat me like a sexual object and I’ll walk away or give them a set down. They’re not exempt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 08:25 PM
2	Women sexualizing themselves in the media should never include men. A majority of the time I dress sexy. Even when I have no where to go. Sometimes I even wear lingerie around the house and my husband not home to seduce or entice. I love how I look in the mirror. A reward for the hard work I put into my body to be able to wear the clothes I want. It’s not to get men attention. Not an invitation to men to approach or stare at me like a pice of steak nor cat call and blow your horn at. Men just need to get use to women bodies the way women are to men. That way you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 08:14 PM
3	Why aren't more women happy that men are analyzing human attraction and trying to figure out women? My husband doesn’t watch porn. He’s too busy engaging in it and making out on porn. Men that are obsessed with porn are those that aren’t getting sex or ones that see women as sexual objects to satisfy their needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:04 PM
1	On all Your STR’s did the guy you had sex with always standed out on something I’ve never been so horny that I had sex with men I’m not attracted to. Theres only been a few times I’ve engaged in casual sex. It’s wasn’t for me. Besides those times I only had sex with men if we were exclusive. Many of those relationships were short term with a few being long term. If a man didn’t stand out he wouldn’t get a chance with me. Which is someone that I find attractive, engaging and have chemistry with. I know none of my friends or sisters ever had sex with men they’re not attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 02:52 PM
–	Solve dating problems mainly through culture/society, or mainly through politics/laws ? Not entirely. Prenuptials separate any assets from before marriage, but child maintenance is still scaled based on the wealth of the spouse, rather than the needs of a child - so it's still covert alimony. That should be abolished also. All of it should, it incentivizes people to get married and have children for money. Prenups can also cover assets acquired during marriage. Child support is always determined in the best interest for the child. Which the courts decide not the parents. It’s not s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:32 PM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. Already married with children. As long as RP/incels spread their dangerous ideology I and other women will always be concerned and pushing back. Believe it or not women can multitask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:21 PM
–	Solve dating problems mainly through culture/society, or mainly through politics/laws ? You do know that all this is taken care of in prenuptial agreements. The rich person AGREES to the amount of alimony and child support that will go to the non rich person. Let’s be real. It’s usually the man paying for child support and alimony. The husband agrees to a certain amount of alimony. He knows that his wife is giving up her income source to raise their children and manage the household as a stay at home mom and wife. During that time she becomes accustomed to a certain lifestyle. Once…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 01:15 AM
–	young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol. Nobody cared until they learn how dangerous incels can be. When they started killing women because they can’t get laid. Many RP men are a danger to society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:08 AM
3	“Women can’t handle the truth” is manspeak for men not being able to handle incompatibility or not being able to handle valid reactions to his wrongdoing I wasn’t saying your experience wasn’t true. Just asked for clarification in order to understand from your perspective. The same way the OP and I gave examples. Otherwise it’s rings hollow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:48 PM
4	“Women can’t handle the truth” is manspeak for men not being able to handle incompatibility or not being able to handle valid reactions to his wrongdoing Men that make those claims are usually average men who don’t have money to dig. Women that are “gold diggers” wouldn’t date them. They seek men that couldn’t care less about them being with them for their money. In return men get women that look like Instagram models a sign of their status. These men have a type they know they can only get with money. They’re not on the internet talking shit about it. They’re not some misfortune dupe that are getting taken advantage of. They’re part of an exchan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:57 PM
5	“Women can’t handle the truth” is manspeak for men not being able to handle incompatibility or not being able to handle valid reactions to his wrongdoing How do you idealize wanting fidelity and honesty? Can you elaborate on these situations where reality went against what women you were with created in their mind? The way the OP did. Edit: Example of a man not being able to handle the truth. In the past when I told men I wasn’t interested in them. They stuck around as friends. Then when I get a boyfriend they get mad or accuse you of using them and stop being friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:12 PM
6	Glorification of step dads is harmful to society Nobody glorifies step-dads. This is not a thing in society. You created a false narrative to disguise your misogyny. All your comments use is circular rhetoric that always leads back to demonizing women. How about you mind your own business instead of worrying about what others do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 05:35 AM
1	What's your relationship/sexual history? How old were you when you had your first kiss? It was at a creek when I was 12yrs old First relationships? As a teenager (15-16) As an adult ( 17-20) Casual sex? Was 15 and drunk. How many relationships/partners have you had? Only three long time relationships before I met my husband. I stopped counting partners after three and have no interest in going down memory lane to figure it out. What's the longest you've gone single/ sexless? I intentionally went a little over a year without sex or a lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 07:30 PM
–	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel Is that what happened with your mommy and daddy? Poor, poor child. Hating on others good fortunate is not going to make your life less pathetic because you’re undesirable. Jealousy is such a bad look 😂.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 05:14 PM
–	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel Jealousy is not a good look. Sorry life sucks for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 03:28 PM
1	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel 😂 Of course not. I’m a married woman. We don’t believe in open marriages. No dating for either of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:53 PM
–	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel Congratulations your incel material!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 02:03 AM
2	Women have no idea what an average man is Of course I didn’t ask you a question. You’re not the OP who made incorrect statements about what an average woman is. My point being that average is different for everyone. Besides I can’t ask something to someone that doesn’t exist at the time. By the way I get asked all the time. Whether it’s going about my day or out with my friends. Maybe it’s because I tend to dress on the sexy side. However it could also be because my makeup and hair is always perfect. Well it could be because of both. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 05:25 PM
0	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel Well you sound like them. That’s a slippery slope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 01:43 PM
6	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel If you’re dropping out of dating because you can’t find love it’s the opposite of being successful at it. You’re saying a whole lot of nothing. A words salad. Men are not dropping out of dating because of “no love at the end of the tunnel”. They’re leaving because no woman wants them. They give up. It’s women who are dropping out of dating due to men only wanting a relationship to have access to sex. It’s laughable that men want or know some secret about giving love that women don’t. On PPD all …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 02:47 AM
–	Men do not understand when women are not attracted to them and deploy ego-protective mechanisms Men paying for the first date is a dating rule. It doesn’t mean women are after your money. Anyway, that dating rule is slowly changing. Entitlement means having a right to certain benefits or privileges. The fact that men don’t have any money is directly tied to your claim. You can’t be entitled to something that doesn’t exist. If a woman felt entitled to a man money she would be demanding money to get her nails done, to go to the hair salon, to go shopping or give her gifts. Believe me women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 03:17 PM
14	Telling men not to attach their worth to dating women is a tall ask when women collectively act like it IS about men's worth. You can’t make a woman give you sex. That’s what all these “lonely” men really want. Women have the freedom of personhood. They’re not responsible for any man “dating” woes. If men assign their self-worth to their dating success it’s on them. They need to make their life about something other than sex and women. To call women sexuality silly because of rejection or denial of sex is a sign of bitterness, fragile ego and immaturity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 02:47 PM
–	Men do not understand when women are not attracted to them and deploy ego-protective mechanisms What reality are you living in? The majority of the average man can’t even afford to go on a date and pay their own way. That’s RP brain rot BS. There’s no money to go after. Men that have money to date are dating women in the same or slightly below tax bracket. Women that usually go for men with money are not going to date your average man. They spend time and go to places where men with disposable income spend their free time. Believe me those men know these type of women and actively seek the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 01:09 PM
–	Men do not understand when women are not attracted to them and deploy ego-protective mechanisms What kind of entitlement are they showing? Choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 12:29 PM
2	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? Yeah but you’re making a claim as if what you said is the universal experience. These comments sections alone prove your statement as not the norm. Even if what you said was true that would make bisexual women the majority. Instead heterosexual women is the norm. On no other social media platforms besides Reddit do I see such outrageous comments like yours. Go outside. Touch grass and live a little. Stop rage baiting for attention. This is not how you go about getting it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 12:13 PM
3	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? For me it’s the opposite. I hear women and my friends gush over men bodies all the time. Only seen talk of women gushing over other women bodies online. Never read or seen it directly online myself. Maybe it’s the circle you socialize in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 01:37 AM
1	Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected men Well your last point goes back to what I first said. Wanting to complain without really caring about a solution. Which circle back to attractive PEOPLE date each other. The majority of people date their attraction level. It’s not only a woman thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 09:08 PM
1	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? This is BS. You have no ground to stand on except your algorithm feedback. I’m 100% heterosexual and never once thought about kissing let alone doing more with another woman. No women I know or my friends thinks that way either. All women are bisexual is a terminally online pseudoscience being pushed nowadays. Stop invalidating other’s sexuality. If someone did it to you I bet you’ll be posting everywhere screaming mad saying otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 08:36 PM
3	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? I agree with you. I think it’s straight up deception. Straight women wouldn’t consider him straight. Sexuality is a spectrum is the new pseudoscience. People like to invalidate others sexuality but let someone do it to them. Physical attraction and finding women bodies subjective more physical attractive is two different things. Physical and sexual attraction are two sizes of the same coin. I can look at a woman butt and be envious thinking it’s more round than mine but not feel physical attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 08:09 PM
7	Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? Confirmation bias and your search algorithm feedback. I’ve never heard straight women make these claims IRL or online. Only by those that push their agenda that all women are bisexual. I call BS on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 07:58 PM
3	Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected men Pointing it out is the same as saying water is wet. How you frame something matters. RP comes off as whinny. Complaining for complaining sake. You can choose to frame it how you want just as others can call it out for how they see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 02:02 PM
5	Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected men You just want an acknowledgment of the issue. Not a solution or the truth. Dating is not about equality and equal rights and opportunity. It’s inherently discriminatory. Until you understand that you will continue to be confused and demanding attention from women for all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 01:33 PM
–	Maybe one way to reduce red-pill misogyny is letting “average” guys have their own hoe phase later…..? No, women are not going to give out sex for pity sake. What you said sounds borderline forced sex. Who’s going to establish and implement these sex stations for the average men? How are women chosen for this honor? Who’s going to decide what the average male look like? What if one sex worker/volunteer thinks the guy is ugly? Will he be charged a hidden fee for being unattractive? No one is stopping your average man from whoring around. By saying let them do it there’s an implication of sex owed.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 04:55 PM
2	Women have no idea what an average man is I feel sorry for you. You’re your own worst enemy. Change your mannerism and maybe you can get some luck with women. As for your looks cry about it to your Maker. Maybe someone will find you at the least… average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 02:00 PM
3	Women have no idea what an average man is Lol, my husband wouldn’t have to find beauty in the average. He’s too hot for that. My point is what is average for you or another person is not to someone else. It even varies by countries. Imagine that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 12:18 PM
1	Women tell us to not objectify them, but they end up doing it themselves No those bodies belong to them. Not me, you, the government or any organization trying to manage it. A woman has ever right to wear a bikini when going swimming or short and fitted clothes if it’s hot outside or because she like how it looks. Full Stop. Get your thoughts out the gutter. You got a problem with it don’t look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 04:08 PM
4	Women tell us to not objectify them, but they end up doing it themselves Men need to learn to not look at women bodies as a source they can use for sexual pleasure. Breasts are a source for a baby nourishment. Men are the ones that sexualize them as well as the rest of a woman body. Men are taught to sexualize women as objects. You can unlearn this behavior. Women don’t objectify men bodies because they’re not sexualized by society. As for women objecting themselves. It’s their body. They can use it as a source of revenue if they want. It’s called body autonomy. Stop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 03:19 PM
9	Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards. It’s called being able to be happy with yourself. Loving your own company so that you don’t need a romantic relationship. It doesn’t mean you don’t want one or will continue but be good without it. Besides if you can’t make yourself happy you for sure won’t be able to make a partner happy. You’re using toxic out of context. A toxic person is one that is negative, add drama, manipulates, gaslight and things of that nature. Saying a woman is toxic for saying you have to compete with her peace of m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 02:02 PM
0	Women have no idea what an average man is I’m 5’6, pretty fit and worked as a child welfare social worker. Some men might find me average but my husband doesn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 04:59 PM
9	Women have no idea what an average man is Yes this right here. Those women know where to go in men spaces to meet those type of men. They will also typically look like the women these men go for. Which is a model or Instagram type looks. What I mean by that is full makeup, nails done, long hair, fit body, and nicely styled outfits. Well at least in my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 04:49 PM
6	Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women. Yeah and infants turn into these brainwashed men. Not go after grown men? Women challenge men in this very sub all the time and all over social media. Let’s not forget real life where it really manifests. At this point you’re only doubling down out of pride.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 12:17 PM
12	Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women. Some don’t vote against their interests nowhere near the amount men do. This huge discrepancy doesn’t account for the differences. If men were conditioned by women psychopaths wouldn’t target them. It would only be men they go after. If women in the west had everything then body autonomy wouldn’t be in the hands of the government. Medical research wouldn’t be centered on males. The orgasm gap wouldn’t exist. Daycare wouldn’t be so high and be affordable. etc. I can go on and on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 05:13 AM
13	Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women. So men are punk b*tches that don’t have any agency and are brainwashed since birth. Okay. Account for the men that vote against women interests? Men that physically abuse and kill women? Men that are misogynistic towards women? The one that are casually sexist in their everyday life? How do these high essence of masculinity break out of their conditioning? With your logic women would be on top of the world and have everything they want. We wouldn’t be fight for body autonomy or equality. There a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 04:08 AM
13	Heterosexuality in women should be stigmatised as much as homosexuality in men is in our society One of the most ridiculous things I read on here and that’s saying something. These days it’s considered trendy and great when women turn out not to be straight. Good luck trying to convince anyone that straight women aren’t really heterosexual or that they lie about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 07:20 PM
9	A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationships There are many insecure and low self-esteem women out there who would agree with a one sided open relationship. The men don’t even have to be high status. Just use her emotions (if you loved me) against her. You can’t love two people at the same time or be having sex with multiple people while in a relationship and be in love. You may love that person to a certain extent but you’re definitely not in love. It defeats the purpose of what a romantic relationship is. Then there’s the fact that you’r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 06:19 PM
-2	If a man didn’t ask the right questions about dating, it’s not women’s fault he didn’t get the answers he wanted. Cry a river. It’s not women fault that you’re not desirable. Attraction does matter and that involves good looks. It just the case that it’s more important to some women and not to others. Stop hating women because of that reality and for not being able to compete in that area. Everyone goes into dating with some disadvantage. However I think the majority of men complaining about not getting a date or girlfriend only want access to sex. Sorry (not really) but that’s usually goes to good looking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 02:03 PM
1	What do woman mean by when they say its good dick? It’s a broad and general phrase. You don’t get to choose how a woman interpret it. Hence the remake “it means different things to different women. Otherwise you’ll get everyone replying with the same definition or meaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 04:48 PM
3	What do woman mean by when they say its good dick? There’s not much about me that is submissive. In personality or in the bedroom. All my friends that are size queens actually have very bold and strong personalities. They know what they like and are not afraid to let it be known. If it matters maybe it’s a race thing. I’m mixed, black and white. Although I heard some of my white friends say they don’t want men with small dicks, it’s the majority of my black friends that specifically like big dicks. They just differ in how they express what they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 12:18 PM
6	What do woman mean by when they say its good dick? It’s a culmination of things. I’m not in the camp of size doesn’t matter. Average to big dicks for me. However they have to know to use their tongue, hands and work my body good in multiple ways. Hit all the weak spots (behind the ear etc). Unlike most Reddit women I know too many women that are size queens. I also love PIV sex. It feels great even without an orgasm but that’s always the end goal. Without it you feel frustrated as hell. Maybe because I’m one of the less than average women that c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 09:44 AM
1	Would you enter a relationship your ideal male partner if you could never have sex again? I already have my Hatachi Magical Wand. It works wonders my husband to tongue can’t begin to. I can get down with using it solo as long as I still have him. He’s the perfect man for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 01:07 AM
5	There are a FAR too many cons than pros for dating for men. You’re absolutely right. I recently had twins. The pregnancy destroyed my body which I was very proud of. Lots of hard work went into it. I had to get a tummy tuck and plan on getting a breast lift too. If my husband wants more kids we’re going to have to outsource it to a surrogate. He thinks it’s funny and I’m will change my mind since we “fixed” the main issue with pregnancy. However I’m dead serious. It’s more than just how it ruined my body but I don’t like the feeling of being pregnant. Co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 12:36 AM
2	The refusal to date people is more born out of a cycle of normalized false beliefs, and in nothing ‘innate’ to what one is attracted to Thank you. The more someone try to teach me a lesson the more I reject what they’re saying. I’m not a child and this is not school. The audacity and entitlement it takes to tell someone they need to do some introspection on their deeply intimate choices is wild. Calling people out as if that matters. The claim is that they’re not trying to tell anyone who to date or be attracted to. However it’s exactly what they’re doing in a roundabout way by “calling out” women who choose not to date bi men. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 07:47 PM
1	The refusal to date people is more born out of a cycle of normalized false beliefs, and in nothing ‘innate’ to what one is attracted to I’m very capable of introspection and questioning beliefs I’ve been taught by society or my parents. As are many people. My mom is very religious and raised a family on that belief system. As I matured and gained experiences outside of home, I examined then disregarded that dogma as a teenager. Just because some women choose not to date bi men doesn’t mean they’re not aware or didn’t analyze societal norms and biases. Only that they came to a different conclusion than you on the matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 04:20 PM
0	The refusal to date people is more born out of a cycle of normalized false beliefs, and in nothing ‘innate’ to what one is attracted to All anyone needs to understand is NOT interested. People need to start respecting women personal choices instead of trying to get them to relinquish major concessions based on profound personal choices regarding sexual/emotional intimacy. A central tenet (wholly valid) of the LGBTQ human rights movement is that a person's sexual identity and sexual attraction is not under their control. That they shouldn’t be judged for their private dating life. That cuts two directions; if a person doesn't wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 03:03 PM
1	If You’re Bi and You Won’t Date Bi Guys, You’re Being Hypocritical AF People use sexual preferences all the time to rule out dating someone. I know men that won’t date a woman that doesn’t give blow jobs, I know people that won’t date someone with a low sex drive, I wouldn’t date a man that didn’t give oral sex or who likes to eats/lick ass etc. It’s perfectly fine to not date a person due to sexual incompatibility or any sexual behavior such as men having sex with other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/26 07:44 AM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Whataboutism: the act or practice of responding to an accusation of wrongdoing (Not dating bi men) by claiming that an offense (Not dating a certain race) committed by another is similar or worse. If you can’t understand that then it sounds like a YOU problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 12:59 AM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily The goal is to get you to change your mind. Which is coercive. They’re just going about it in a roundabout way. These people need to stop conflating dating with human rights issues. They’re NOT the same. However men don’t try to guilt or shame other men into dating people they don’t want to the way women do to each other. They also better at not bowing to peer pressure in this area too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 12:40 AM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily You’re deflecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 12:28 AM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily False equivalence	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 12:27 AM
0	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Yes I can. Just as they can. In the end it comes down to minding your own business. It’s bad enough women have the government telling them what to do with their bodies. Women shouldn’t be doing it to each other. Otherwise you’re a hypocrite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 06:02 PM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Dating is not a matter of equal opportunity. Its very nature is discriminatory. You date to exclude others. I decide who d*ck goes into me. No one has any say nor does their opinion account for anything. People need to get over their entitlement. Relationships are not a democracy. You’re not owed one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:52 PM
1	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily The problem lies in you believing you’re owed a reason or a good reasons. Women don’t have to explain why they won’t don’t a man. How about respecting people choices on personal intimate matters instead trying to guilt or shame them into dating someone they may be uncomfortable or uninterested in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:44 PM
1	Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship? Not in this life or any other either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 03:45 AM
2	There's absolutely no point in marriage, for both genders. Love is a gamble. There’s nothing in life that doesn’t come with some disadvantages and eventually disappointment. It all comes down to how you view relationships. Not into marriage and the ultimate commitment? Cool, just don’t date anyone that is. You’re incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/26 03:49 PM
6	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? All you’re saying is that men nowadays are unsuccessful in life. Women are not out there advocating for take “opportunities” from men. It’s men like you that whine because you can’t compete. Your egos are too fragile. It’s feels like oppression because you’re to use to things being handed to you instead of working for it. Good luck in life. You seem to need it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 06:48 AM
6	In the wake of the global U-turn to conservatism, do you think there is need for course correction in promoting gender equality? It’s men that want to take away job opportunities, financial security and autonomy from women. They believe women should be obedient to them, want No Fault Divorce and reduce women dating options to their advantage. It’s clear here who is doing the oppression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 09:09 PM
1	Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possible I’m an American and can’t speak on Turkish women. Turkey culture is very different from Western culture. It wouldn’t be surprising if we go about dating differently too. Women don’t use men for money. I know that’s what you’re implying. The majority of women are financially independent. At least in the west. The average man doesn’t make enough money for a woman to use him over. Many men admit they can’t even afford to date even if they pay for their own food. There are women that date men that c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 01:55 PM
5	Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possible Women that are in the top 20% wouldn’t need to use a friend for any financial reasons. She can easily pull a man who’s more than willing to do it for her. All you have to be is pretty for men to offer to give or buy you things. Men seek out women to be friends with thinking that soon or later they will give in or change their minds. They CHOOSE to pay for outings, food and drinks. It’s their intentions that are sneaky. Women often take turns paying for get togethers and food. Men friends have hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 11:08 AM
5	Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possible No, you’re wrong. Women don’t go around dating men they find undesirable or pretend to be their friends just to meet other men to date. There are women that are willing to date men they find unattractive if they have other desirable qualities like good listener, good hygiene and see them as an equal. Women don’t use men if they’re friends with them. They value relationships and would see it as wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 04:24 AM
15	Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possible Don’t worry no one would ever mistake this narcissistic behavior as ethical. It’s straight up manipulation and deception. No woman wants to be used for any purpose nor want a fake ass friend. You’re intentionally misleading women and treating them as objects (placeholders) until you find someone more to your liking. Before you guide anyone towards this type of thing remember women are human and value friendships. One ending can hurt as much as the end of any romantic relationship. Playing the bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 03:01 AM
0	What do you like about your husband/bf? Being with him is easy. It feels as natural as breathing. We’re both silly and love children. He always try to understand my perspective. He’s romantic and brings me chocolates, flowers, perfume, cute keychains or anything he see that I might like. When I find random places for us to visit or go to he’s always down for it. Even if he’s tired or wants to stay in for the day. He lets me know how appreciative he is of the work I put into our romantic nights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 07:15 PM
1	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction Something has value when you give it. The choice is yours. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 10:30 PM
1	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction Is it working for you? Then power on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:27 PM
1	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction That’s something you’ll have to figure out yourself. There’s no tailor fit for you advice a stranger can give you. Only a professional could do that. Just remember everyone goes into the dating with some disadvantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:08 PM
2	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction The topic is men thinks there is a code to women attraction that they cracked. She said women individuals not a hive group. What causes one to reject a guy may not be the same as another one. It’s useful because it’s telling what you think you know you actually. That if you’re going by that code it’s not going to be useful to you. I mean look at all the men that keep doing the same thing over and over again yet it’s not even working. That’s insanity. Stop thinking you know how women tick. Adjust…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:14 PM
3	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction OP is a woman. She’s literally giving you feedback. You just don’t care or not receptive towards it because it’s not what you want to hear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:12 PM
3	What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship? I completely agree. Fortunately my husband understands that when I’m upset Im not going to have sex with. It’s not punishment. It’s about frame of mind and not being in the mood. I’m still deeply sexually attracted to him and find him gorgeous. However in that moment attraction isn’t a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 03:37 AM
4	What would you need to see/get from a woman in a relationship to feel certain that you were not being settled for, or used for resources or companionship? No you’re not overreacting. Testing is the same as giving ultimatums in a relationship. It’s starting a relationship with dishonesty and deceit. Who knows what other “tests” they’ll manufacture for drama or get a reaction. Not worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 02:58 AM
20	Men actively police the preferences, sexual tastes, and dating choices of other men, and it makes everyone miserable As a woman I’ve seen what you listed all my life. Women just go about policing other women differently. When a straight woman say she wouldn’t date a bi man women come down on her hard with virtue signaling. The goal is to shame and wear her down through peer pressure. When a woman want to date outside her race other woman try to bully her into changing her mind. From penis size and commonality to micro racism comes up. They want to convince her it’s a bad idea. When a woman wants to date a man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:29 AM
0	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. Men only looking for affection? Women fuck only the hottest guys? Different standards depending on looks? This guy got it backwards. This is how man in general think and behave. They’ll screw any woman but won’t respect her enough for a relationship. That makes them untrustworthy and without integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:52 PM
–	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse Topic: Women in group bias Conversation Derailing: divert a discussion away from its original, intended topic. You: MEN do this also You seem ignorant and aggressive. Looking for a reason to be argumentative. From your history I can tell you’re unhappy with yourself and don’t know how to get men attention. It’s highly probably your bad attitude. Hopes this helps you. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 10:29 AM
1	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse It is a gendered issue. Are women not a gender now? Many women put pressure on each other to think like them. Look at you. Want me to fall in line with your mentality. Bye. Go find an appropriate topic for your issues with this topic. Stop derailing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 11:58 PM
3	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse Okay. 😂 WOMEN not MEN. Topic is about women group bias. “Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse”, Literally the title. You’re derailing the topic. Something men usually do. There. You have something in common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 02:57 PM
5	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse That’s off topic. This is about women group bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 02:16 PM
3	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse This is especially true when it comes to dating. Women will shame you for anything they feel is discriminatory in your dating choices. The goal is to get you to change your mind and conform to their way of thinking. Which they think is the righteous thing. Through in bigot and X, Y or Z and other women fall in line. Too much virtue signaling for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 06:10 AM
7	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. Clearly not by your mindset…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 12:16 PM
6	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. Type-O Don’t chase after women is what I meant. Let me fix that. What I should’ve said is don’t date women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 11:44 AM
7	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. Edit: to correct type-o Okay buddy. You’ve lost the pot. Don’t chase women. Just recognize that and maybe women are not for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 11:17 AM
5	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. Good job nitpicking a sentence of a whole paragraph that has a point. You don’t get to decide what another person choose to do in regards with their time and attention. Stroking a woman ego has nothing to do with it. You’re missing the whole point of dating. Generosity is relative. A person can be generous with their time, money, attention or other ways. You’re being incredibly narrow minded on what generosity means. No one is generous across the board and every way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 10:47 AM
14	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. We born into an unfair world. From being poor to being born in a terrible country or being ugly. If a woman is born poor but is pretty she can offset that by only dating men that got money. Whether that’s fair or not depends on men. Some are okay with that reality. If you’re not then just stir clear of women like that. It easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 10:37 AM
4	Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered. If you can’t afford to take a woman out just say so. The possibility that you get a woman you’re into is greatly reduced but hey that’s life. Nothing to do with stroking a woman’s ego. What you won’t or can’t do for a woman another man can and will. It’s called competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/26 10:28 AM
2	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. What you said makes no sense in terms of relationship. Cover girl meets money bags. He wines & dines her, buy her jewelry, give her one of his credit cards in her name, take her places etc. In return she gives him her time, attention and plenty of good sex. She’s his arm candy and adapts her life around his world etc. No cash given as it’s prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 03:34 AM
–	Do you as a man want a financial equal partner? Husband makes way more than I do. He’s always been fine with being the main financial provider in all his relationships. It was how him and his brothers were raised. I’ve always been a work to survive instead of career path woman. While a temporary SAHM/W I do plan to return to work when kids enter kindergarten. I love my husband and want to be with him forever. However sometimes things don’t work out as planned. I’ll need to go back to being financial independent. I can’t do that if I’m out of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 02:23 AM
–	"Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night. You’re comment was already edited before I ever saw it… Are there any credible sources of information that shows women reject men that are not 6’3 or over? While I know women love tall men the height you listed is dubious. The majority of women want men that’s taller than them which many are. The way the majority of men want slim women. I feel sorry for anyone woman that need to depend on men for their survival.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 08:23 PM
–	"Passport bros is just about money" is a fable Western women tell themselves to sleep better at night. Very few western women care about Passport Bros. They actually feel sorry for the women that these men use. There are some that do care and they show it by calling it out for what it is. Tourism prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 06:18 PM
24	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. Men with money know it’s a natural exchange system for women that look like models. Beauty and youth are what women are admired and wanted for by men. They’re willing to pay for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 04:55 PM
–	Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display. Sure. Drop that friend or call them out. Hold them accountable. Please, with your wisdom, tell me why anyone wants to remain friends with someone that physically abuse their partner or talk bad and down to the person? It makes no sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 08:58 PM
2	“Men will treat you as well or as poor as you let them” is a mindset that absolves men of accountability. I agree with the sentiment someone only treat you the way you allow them to in a way. It’s a platitude that generalize. For instance, I have an older sister that always vents, upset our younger sister who lives with her won’t help with the bills. I told her that its only happens because she allows it. She never setup boundaries or rules nor does she communicate this to our other sister. Obviously our younger sister should at least offer something. Especially when the older one talks about all th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 04:30 PM
–	What do women think about a guy who ignores them? Grateful to tell the truth. Please continue to do so. Not being snarky at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 01:31 PM
–	Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display. Yes. He’s defends them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 01:26 PM
2	Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex? Isn’t there a “dead bedroom” phenomenon in the lesbian community… I’ve heard of it across social media platforms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 01:02 PM
–	Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display. Men that remain friends with other men that are physically or emotionally abusive towards their girlfriend/wife. They quick to say it’s not none of their business. I see it too often and it’s often excuses. I actually stopped going around my brother because his one of those type. Guilty by association.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 12:19 PM
1	People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"? Choose someone with a similar belief system and moral compass. Many people avoid tough conversations in the beginning like politics, race and religion but that tells you a lot of things about a person. Do they have problematic beliefs about life or women? Such as men are superior to women or must be in charge in the relationship. Is he emotionally stable and mature? Doesn’t expect you to be his secretary or assistant or his housemaid. What are his views on sex? Sexual compatibility is a HUGE one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 02:54 AM
2	if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them? Yes I’m this way too. Most women I know look at a man face first for attraction. They will differentiate between a man that’s hot and good looking. As long as the guy is slim his body is secondary. When I first saw my husband I did a double take because he was gorgeous. Which he was counting on (told me this later) to get my attention. I went from a casual glance to someone saying excuse me to get something to a full turn around with a hi and smile. He likes high maintenance women. Loves the way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 11:24 PM
-2	Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicap I knew you get demonized as soon as I read your comment. Unfortunately you’ll never get some people on Reddit to admit that MSM (Men Who Have Sex With Other Men) are at a higher risk for STI’s. You can have links to government and credible sources of information yet still get called bigot/homophobic/liar etc for pointing it out. https://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment-guidelines/msm.htm https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/health-issues-for-gay-men/art-20047107	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 08:36 AM
1	Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...? When a guy I dated learned I love role playing he wanted to watch porn so we can do the acts in the videos. It was a hard no for me. So I’ve met a few different kinds of porn watchers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 11:49 PM
5	Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...? Being a habitual porn watcher always been a dealbreaker in a relationship for me. Not all men watch porn regularly or are sex focused. The ones I’ve been with are too busy having sex than watching it and/or rarely watch. The ones that rarely watched it only did with the woman they were in a relationship with. A couple of men I been with we watch it a couple of times but mostly to mock or laugh at it. My attention never last. Nothing enticing or arousing to me about porn. I also rather be having …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 07:58 PM
5	Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem. Women rights are at stake. Their body autonomy is at stake. Their personhood is at stake. Hordes of men voted for someone that go against women rights. Yet you want them to have empathy for you’ll? To believe your inability to get your dick wet or women out of your league is a societal problem? Get the fuck on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 12:11 AM
-2	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? Well no woman in my social circle or family like to be approached by men. When my sister got pregnant she put on some weight even before she started showing. I thought she’ll be upset by that. Nope. She says she’s enjoying it while she can because men don’t approach her anymore. As for me it’s bad to the point I only run errands with my husband or one of my brothers-in-law. It’s not only asking for my number it’s that it often lead to harassment. Many men can’t take no for an answer in my experi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 11:09 PM
–	The avêrage man has no reason to promote womên’s rights If the average woman doesn’t deserve the average men then why are you desperate for one? On Reddit whining about them not wanting to have sex with you? All incels are full of hot air.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 07:11 AM
–	The avêrage man has no reason to promote womên’s rights Another disgusting post of an insecure man. Just the thought of trying to force women to date and have sex with you should make you go running to a therapist to work on your self-esteem. Maybe in the process get some dignity and pride to. These posts are so tone deaf. As if women are actually going to want to be with men that are for taking her human rights away. You can’t get a woman now it’s pretty stupid to think your chances go up if their rights are taken away. If anything it will send her …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 07:09 AM
-10	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? How many women on this subs say this? A few hundred? A few thousand? Even if every other woman on Reddit said they like being cold approached by men (I HIGHLY doubt that) it doesn’t compare to the millions of women across social media saying they hate men cold approaching. So much so that it created a generation of men too scared or unwilling to approach women on the street. Holla back at me when you see the same phenomenon of the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 07:00 PM
0	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? Men telling women to smile has a different vibe and context than women telling men to smile. With women telling men it's rare but does happen. If it happened a lot we'll know via social media platforms because men see it as a positive. They're starved and desperate for attention from women. Whereas when men tell women to smile it's mostly because they're pretty. It's also a precursor to start a conversation that will lead them to them asking for their number. A few times I asked men why me? Why …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 06:52 PM
-17	Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile? Men don't blindly categorize every unsolicited public interaction as "harassment". That's the key. It’s not “blindly categorizing every unsolicited public interaction “ with men as "harassment". Men tell women to smile as a precursor to start conversations to ask them out. There always an agenda. Which can lead to harassment. It’s annoying but I never heard or read of women calling it harassment. Maybe men shouldn’t blindly approach women. The majority of women are not interested in “unsolicited…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 05:45 PM
5	Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached? Stop approaching women at night when they’re alone. Stop approaching women with headphones on. There’s a reason why they wear them. They don’t want to be bother. It’s a conversation stopper. Stop telling women to smile and using it as a tool to start conversation leading to asking for her number. If you don’t tell men or unattractive women to smile then stop doing it at all etc. Pretty women are approached multiple times a day. It gets annoying. Men don’t know how to respect a woman marriage. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 03:07 PM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? I highly doubt alllll these men are voting against you because they feel entitled to sex. Spare me. Men admit it all the time on this site. They don’t care if it harms them as long as women get punished and have her rights taken away from her. All over sex or rather women not giving it up to entitled men. “You sound delusional with this cookie cutter response. What they care about is correcting course and reversing all of the damage done to society by vapid, soul-less women such as yourself”. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 03:50 AM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:41 PM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Happily married to a hottie with twin girls. My life course is set. There’s really nothing to project.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:34 PM
1	What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person? No sex is great. It’s being bitter and hateful towards the attractive women that are not into you. That anger wouldn’t be there if you didn’t feel entitled to it. There are men out there not attracted to me but that’s okay. Even when I was single I didn’t care or rather I never thought about it. Being mad about such a personal intimate matter is weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 04:35 AM
0	What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person? Women are not a cum dumpster for men. They’re whole human beings with feelings, emotions, wants, needs, hopes with many experiences and personhood. Maybe men like you would have more success with women if you treated them like a real person. Not someone there to fulfill your sexual and physical desires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 12:46 AM
-2	What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person? You come off as entitled. No man is owed sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 11:39 PM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? I don’t have to explain anything to you because I don’t care. Your insecurities are means nothing to me. Nothing is more pathetic than needing women to be so low that they’ll date men they’re not attractive to. Maybe it’s a get used fetishized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 01:45 AM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Get help please. Stop relying on others for your happiness and blaming others for your shortcomings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 01:24 AM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Hating women for rejection and other preconceived ideas. That type of hate is rooted deep inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/25 01:22 AM
0	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Hate? You’re projecting. You or anyone else are not worth hating. I don’t allow anyone to have that kind of power over me. I don’t need you to appeal to me. I couldn’t less but I’m getting second hand embarrassment for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 10:40 PM
1	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Stop being a pick me with these type of men. They’re not appealing in any way and are a giant red flag. All they have is hate towards women and an agenda to push. They’re damaged beyond repair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 09:05 PM
0	Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ? Men that think like you need to get some self-respect and dignity. You’re not entitled to women and sex. You think taking women rights away going to help losers get women? 🤣🤣 Continue to dream in your delusional and pathetic world. Women will band together and support each other before dating a man she doesn’t want. You’re not wanted or needed. There are many good men out there. I got a great one. Women will continue to have multiple options while incels wallowing in their loneliness. You’re res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 09:01 PM
3	Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love. I’ll probably feel sorry for you guys if it wasn’t for your hate of women and blaming us for all your failures. You should never allow outside influences to affect your inner peace. Being bitter can’t be a good feeling and hurts you the most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 07:42 PM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love. I’m sorry you’re a lazy and dishonest person. You shouldn’t talk so bad about yourself. It’s a sign of low self-esteem. It’s probably why you can’t get women or sex. All of you are obsessed with not getting picked by women. Continue to hate women for not being up to standard and go be even more lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 07:38 PM
8	Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love. Sure, you can/s. That’s why you guys always vent and complain about “Chad” getting it and how problematic women having options is. Having to pay for sex instead of easily getting it from women is nothing to brag about. It shows a person as undesirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 07:34 PM
12	Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love. Ugh I’m so tired of these misogynistic men bitter over women not wanting them or having sex with them. Life is not fair. Move on. Work through your hate on women and develop your personality along with your mindset then perhaps some women will give you the time of day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 11:45 AM
3	Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men? Shhh, you’re killing their narrative. Without it they have nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:49 AM
5	Yes, women’s standards have changed and no, its not the way you think. Those acid attacks are disturbing. Disfiguring those women all out of spite because they turned them down. They’re making sure no other man will get her either. Horrifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 03:03 AM
1	Do women like both masculine and feminine traits in a man ? No I don’t like men with feminine energy. My husband is very masculine. The way I like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 03:26 PM
–	Women without straight male friends: < A common story I hear is: Female/male best friend then male best friend says he develops feelings for her. Do you think these men are lying and that they just wanted to fuck from the beginning of the friendship. > Depends when this friendship begin. In adolescence? Then no I don’t think he’s lying. Later in life friendship. High probability. < Do women never develop unrequited feelings for their male friends? > Some do but not me or any of my female friends ever have. < And is it gross when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 10:48 PM
1	Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal? Playing video games and watching porn often are dealbreakers for me. Yet I found an amazing man that doesn’t do either and before him I was still able to find many men that didn’t consume that shit. No worries ladies. There are wonderful men out there who will meet your standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 07:29 PM
–	Women without straight male friends: Experience. Plain old experience. I never had a male friend that didn’t try to have sex with me. The friendships came to an abrupt end once they realized I would never be interested in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 01:52 AM
–	Does it makes sense to you at all when men say some women are entitled in dating? Many woman expect man to pamper them. Women that want to be wined and dined choose men that know this and are okay with it. If you look a certain way (long hair styled, full makeup, nails and toes done, cute clothes) men will sell themselves to you. Tell you what they can do for you or that they’ll love to spoil you. Women and men that desire these type of relationships seek each other out. If you see a woman that look as I described above, believe me we spend lots of money to achieve our looks.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 08:42 AM
1	Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This has to be the most pathetic and entitled comment ever. It shows men like you only see women as sexual objects for your pleasure. Get a life. No woman going to setup other women to be some man cum bucket. I bet your attitude is 99% why you don’t get sex or a romantic relationship. Take some accountability. Go be more lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 07:49 PM
1	The internet has enabled men to listen in on female spaces, and men don't like what they hear Heterosexual relationships are not dying😂. Even the complainers are mad because they can’t get the woman they think they deserve would absolutely jump at the opportunity to date a woman they think is attractive. Men now know how women feel about a certain segment of men. These men are not pulling women in any case. Reddit is not representative of the world. Very few people in my social circle and those I engage with casual are single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 04:37 PM
3	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards Child I couldn’t care less what a bunch of mom basement Shreks feel, think or do. How fucked up and desolate your life has to be thinking being beautiful is an extraordinary claim. 😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 01:15 PM
2	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards Yeah it shows male entitlement even online. As if a woman going to jump to appease them and seek their approval. It’s a manipulation tactic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 07:00 PM
–	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 06:55 PM
–	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards 😂 sure because that’s how the real works. Go touch grass and seek therapy for your bitterness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 06:23 PM
–	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards You’re creepy. Demanding a woman post a picture for you. Gross. I’m not you. I don’t need or seek validation. I have something called self-esteem and self-respect. You’re a nobody. Not someone worth my time. Enjoy being the sticky stuff at the bottom of the barrel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 06:09 PM
6	Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.) One Hundred Percent of women I know would remain heterosexual. When some women were trying to get political lesbians going all the straight women in my friends group and my sisters found the movement amusing. We have our issues with men however we wouldn’t choose to be gay no matter the circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:59 PM
11	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards I don’t have anything to prove to a stranger. You’re disbelief is a you problem not a me problem. It’s not something you can understand because it’s not reflected of your reality. When you’re beautiful as a woman the world with let you know. It’s called pretty privilege. Take it as you will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:44 PM
8	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards The average or below average looking woman don’t think they can get or deserve a man wealthy man. It’s usually certain types of women that believe that. Ones that are very attractive and are use to men chasing them. Many rich men nowadays are still willing to marry women based on only looks. I know. It’s my reality as well as some of my friends. However the average/below average man truly believes they can get/deserve a Victoria Secret model. When faced with the reality they become bitter. Women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:38 PM
12	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards Men want women that look like Hailey Bieber is a conundrum. Women that look like that put a lot of effort in their looks. From makeup and clothes to diet and body fitness. Which is very expensive. All this make a woman high value to many men giving them many options. Which for the most part is not the average man. They lust after these women yet love to call them superficial whores or prostitutes. Then they claim to hate makeup, long nails and women that dress sexily and don’t eat. All the thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:17 PM
16	What would you describe as unreasonable female standards 😂 that sounds like most men mentality than women. They especially want women out of their league looks wise. The amount of unattractive men that think they have a chance with me is pretty amusing. Women that put a lot into their appearance are not going to be interesting in the average joe off the street that can’t even bother to put any effort into their attire. All my friends and sisters experience this often with men. Now how many men experience this behavior and encounters with women? I bet …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 04:09 PM
–	Women hold onto the concept of male privilege because they are deeply attached to feeling lesser than men. You’re feelings are hurt over the truth. Pretty strong language you’re using. Everything I said are facts that can be searched and proven. Whatever blind hatred you have regarding women is your personal issue you to work through. What you said makes sense. Telling me to take accountability. For what exactly? Abuse? No one ever abused me nor have I ever done so to another person. Stop the projecting, lol😂. Google is your best friend my brother in Christ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 01:20 PM
–	Women hold onto the concept of male privilege because they are deeply attached to feeling lesser than men. It’s not that easy for many women to leave an abusive relationship. I believe you know that and are being disingenuous. For example: SAHW/M. A man marry a woman who’s wiling to be a stay at home wife and mother. In exchange for shelter and food a man gets a nanny, maid, housekeeper and sex. If the man starts to physically and emotionally abuse the woman she can’t just get up and leave. She depended on her husband for financial support. Not only does she has herself to look after but a child(ren)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 12:08 PM
–	Women hold onto the concept of male privilege because they are deeply attached to feeling lesser than men. This makes no sense. Going with that logic them women are in an abusive relationship with men and women are attached to being mistreated by men. You’re basically saying women and me have severe psychological issues. Then its how far down the rabbit hole do you want to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 09:25 AM
3	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? My husband doesn’t care what people think about him, me being black or our relationship and protective of me. Very confident in himself, knows his place in the world, where he’s going, wants out of life. He doesn’t shy away from difficult topics like racism how if impacts our relationship and the children we’ll have. Know it’s important to teach our children about generational wealth, racial identity and social class. Even though he’s traditional in many aspects he’s liberal and progressive like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 09:07 PM
2	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? 😂 I said it was baseline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 02:28 PM
2	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? One Hundred Percent Heterosexual, no porn, no video games and don’t follow women social media platforms. That’s the baseline requirement my husband had to meet It fit all those and don’t have anything besides Facebook which he’s barely on. When men masturbate too forcefully to achieve an orgasm his penis may become overly accustomed to this method. This can negatively affect his performance when the time comes for PIV. It’s why you hear these types of me talk about loose pussy. A vagina can’t co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 02:05 PM
4	Why does it seem like women care WAY more if their male s/o is watching porn than men about smut? Smut is a niche market for women. I’m sure on Reddit you can find a big community however it’s not reflective of real life. The same with romance books or erotica. Not all women read them. Even if they do it’s not problematic. Depending on the books many have lessons you can learn dealing with tough themes and situations. It more than entertainment. Whereas porn it’s fake and bad performative sex, your objectifying these women, lusting over strangers, it put problematic ideas in men heads on how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 01:08 PM
–	No it’s not anti bisexual or anti gay or lesbian for a guy not to be into threesomes with another dude I call BullShit on that. You pull this out your ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 12:12 PM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? That’s a false equivalence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:56 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Your gaslighting has no effect on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 04:10 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? I would disagree on first one, because I'm a BI guy, never had sex with another guy and I'm 40. It's not like I'm craving dicks and losing sleep over what I'm missing out 😂 I'm traditional, loyal. That could be the case too. I’m only going by what I’ve been told or read. But hey I'm not denying your right to have your preferences no matter what they are. No mater if racist, sexist... our freedom to chose with who we have relationships is one of our most basic freedoms. When it comes to dating/fu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 03:43 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Men that want low N count usually have high N count. They’re hypocrites. In the end it’s anyone business if the women they date don’t have a problem with it. As for younger women. No, don’t go there. With age comes experience and power imbalance. It’s disturbing on another level. These men usually one step away from pedophiles. It’s NOT the same. Too many Shannon Sharpe’s in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 03:32 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Yet again, this has nothing to do with being bi. Being bi is just an attraction to individuals of both sexes. It has nothing to do with your sex life nor is it a personality. Straight people can also "eat ass". What rock you been living under? lol. Once again, for those that never took sex education in school. Did you know sex is a sexual act you participate in? Therefore it’s a sexual behavior. 😱 Shocking I know. Oral sex is sexual act you participate in therefore a sexual behavior. 😳 Two peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 03:13 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Nope, you’re fantasizing this and thinking people want access to you that definitely don’t. Stay away from bi men. Hope that helps. Do you hear yourself? Fantasy is an imagined scenario or situation you want and desire. Women that are not interested in bi men definitely don’t fantasize about them. Edited to add: in fact yall are objectifying and demonizing a whole group of people. Objectify: to treat a person like a tool or toy, as if they had no feelings, opinions, or rights of their own You’re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 02:05 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Stop FUCKING using black people as a litmus test for your dating struggles with straight women. They’re NOT the same thing. Let the issue stand on its own if it’s valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 05:39 PM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? 😂 Attraction is one of the defining traits that determines sexuality/orientation. The simple fact you’re attracted to men will be a dealbreaker to straight women that don’t want to date bi man. This is why women that care and only want to date real straight men need to learn how to phrase their questions to weed out liars/misrepresenters/liars by omission men. Before I was married and was day I asked: “Have you ever been “Curious About/Experimented/Fantasized/Wanted To/Thought About/Engaged in s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:50 PM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? It’s definitely only a bisexual people community thing. The only time I ever heard of it on any social media platform it was by bi people. They talk about tops and bottoms not us (heterosexuals). Offline I bet you the majority of straight women never heard of those terms. They believe bi men are really gay or all engage in anal sex taking turns getting it up the bum. A man being a top is a way to reduce the homosexual aspect of men having sex with other men. It’s pointless to straight women. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:10 PM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Sure. Nobody wants to fuck me it must be their fault. They must be insecure and homophobic. Grow up. Nobody owe bi people sexual attraction. Do you even know what insecurity means? I promise you it’s not “Not Wanting To Date/Fuck bi men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 10:03 AM
–	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? You’re derailing the OP. Create one on your own. Also I’m a black woman don’t speak on my behalf. People can decline a relationship for ANY reason they want. Race, gender, hair color, sock choice. We all can discriminate against anyone or group we want. Dating is inherently discriminatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 09:02 AM
4	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? I'd like to ask a couple of questions. What about a bisexual man which never had sex with another man? No, he’s still sexually/romantically attracted to other men. He’s going to wonder what he missing out on and want to experiment one day. When craving dick he will expect you to engage in sexual activities he would with a man or open the relationship to where he’s allowed to have dick on the side. Go to bisexualmen and bisexual subreddits. You will soon see exactly what I’m talking about. It’s a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:04 AM
3	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? 😂 Google is your best friend. Many legitimate websites with credible studies and articles show that the majority of straight women and some bi women wouldn’t date a bi man. They find it a turn off and emasculating. If that’s not enough check out other social media platforms. Lots of posts, videos and comments of women stating they won’t date bi men. Reddit censorship can make posts on here unreflective of real life. In comments on many posts some women just say they don’t want to get banned so t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 12:55 AM
2	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Once you start being curious and experimenting outside heterosexuality you’re not straight. Do those women you date know you had sex with other men before? You’re misrepresenting yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 12:33 AM
4	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? A straight woman only wanting to date a straight man makes perfect sense. Just the way gay men and lesbians dating within their sexuality. Attraction is more than physical attributes. It’s mental and behavioral traits too. Sex is a sexual behavior. Everyone rules others out over this. Oral sex is a one that men and women rule out those that refuse to do it. Men that eat ass is a sexual behavior turn off to me the same way men engaging in sexual relations with other men. Dating is by its nature r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 11:37 PM
9	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? The problem lies when women say I’m not attractive to MSM (MenThatHaveSexWithOtherMen) and find it a turn off. We get peppered with: Why? I just told you why. There’s not a reason… People can’t accept a simple reason. That DEMAND an EXPLANATION. This is when boundaries are pushed and entitlement starts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 11:17 PM
0	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Except that’s exactly what you are doing in a roundabout way. You’ll want to guilt/shame/condemn women that don’t want to fuck/date/marry non heterosexual men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 10:34 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? We live in a western society. Sex is usually expected within confines of a relationship. When you’re shaming and guilting women they give in. The end results is you win. Straight women pressured into dating bi men. I’m married but thanks for staying away from women that want to only date within their sexual orientation. Now if only you can advocate for other bi men to do the same as you. Better yet use your coerce methods against straight women towards bi men that lie about their sexual orientat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 10:32 PM
4	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? It’s a debate subreddit if you notice. A question was asked and I answered it. Social media platforms if a place where you share opinions and ideas along with interact with others… 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 10:12 PM
3	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? No most men don’t. What women are considered high value in western society? Models, actresses, singers, rappers or any woman that look like them. Those women are not known for their chastity. Yet rich men, famous men and your average man desire and want them. High value men marry those type of women. If what you say is true why aren’t these men seeking out virgins or sexual chaste women? I bet all these men wanting virgins or low BC women would jump at the chance to date Kim Kardashian, a Victor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 09:09 PM
2	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? It’s borderline sexual coercion. One of the ways this manifests is feeling pressured, forced in a nonphysical way or make you feel as if you owe someone sex. By calling out women by labeling them bigot/homophobic/biphobic the goal is to create an environment where they feel pressured and bad. This way women finally make concessions on matters of personal sexual intimacy she’s uncomfortable with. It’s a similar tactic social justice advocates use on politicians. Which is downright scary to me. So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 08:49 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? My apology if I misunderstood your comment. I call BS on the economy and high food prices . That person in the Oval Office was president before. He didn’t fix anything then and wouldn’t now. The demographics he flipped is very telling. Speaking further ok this issue is derailment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 08:22 PM
3	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? No it’s people who don’t care and know they don’t have to explain themselves to anyone. In real life all someone needs to say not I like straight men only. Only other answer I when I was dating was I find it a turn off and didn’t bother when pushed for why or more information 🤷🏽‍♀️.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 08:15 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Serial monogamous relationships EQUALS Short/Long term relationships EQUALS Successive/Back-to-Back relationships You’re math🤨? You don’t even know how old he is or when he started having relationships🙄. Maybe you have trouble getting women but he’s hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 07:54 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? “Top only”, and split attraction model (Liking Women romantically/Men Sexually) are all loopholes trying to reduce the homosexual aspects of men having sex with other men. Which is a very deceptive practice. If it was about Top Only then women also have buttholes too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:52 PM
6	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Lol, incels, low effort men and losers. They’re also in the undesirable category. Unlike some people women have enough respect for themselves not to want to be with men that think like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:38 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? You can’t reason with attraction. Your comment lacks a basic understanding on what bonds are and how they’re formed. People that feel entitled to relationships and attraction are usually incels, rejects from society, and femcels. Which leads to no self-respect and low self-esteem within them. These types of people are desperate to belong somewhere and will believe anything. They’re also usually sexually promiscuous and feel as they’re owed something with a victim mentality. People like this usua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:25 PM
4	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? You’re a bigot as well by refusing to accept others boundaries on sexual intimacy. It’s rather rapey and stop throwing buzzwords around. They’re meaningless by over usage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:03 PM
2	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? You’re talking in ignorance and generalizations. Hey kettle, meet pot. You’re co-opting bigot/biphobia/homophobia which are terms associated with and created for issues pertaining to human rights. People need to stop trying to conflate human rights terms with a person deeply intimate dating/fucking choices in their private life. Not wanting to date or fuck a person or group is violation of their human rights. No one is owed attraction or a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:59 PM
3	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Fortunately it’s only a Reddit thing. You see it on other social media platforms but since they’re not as heavily censored as Reddit you see even more people pushing back against that mentality. Not one woman I know from friends to women in my family would date a bi man. When I was single I always asked the man if they’re bi or sexually experimented with other men. Not once did it give them pause. My husband and I come from very different backgrounds and social groups. No one in either groups co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:50 PM
6	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? No biological differences? You say that as if it’s the only guiding factor in dating men. First I want to make it crystal clear. Women don’t need to look within herself for a reason. We don’t need to explain ourselves. The reasons behind it are important to YOU. However you don’t get to say what other people find important. Too many people narrow down attraction to physical appearances. Attraction is also psychological and based on behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:37 PM
10	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? 😂 I get amused and annoyed at the same time. They’re using the term out of context anyway. Homophobia was a term coined for the illegal discrimination against gay people in an organization, public services or business. Biphobia is just a subset of homophobia. They’re taking a term used at the government level for illegal discrimination and applying it to people private lives. They refuse to acknowledge that dating itself is a discriminatory business. We literally date to exclude out those we’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 01:17 PM
11	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? Those men are bisexual. You can’t go about engaging in sexual relations with other men and call yourself straight. Sexuality is part of your sexual behavior and identity. Some of my sisters and friends that are still single don’t date MSM (Men Having Sex With Other Men). Those type of men are ashamed of themselves and are afraid of the stigma. Whatever they are it’s not heterosexual. They’re misrepresenting themselves and in the process lying to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 12:57 PM
7	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? It’s not that bi men are not relationship material. Only they’re not for me. I’m only interested in relationships with super straight heterosexual men. Not only have I never experimented with the same sex or been curious about it. I’m not attracted romantically/sexually to other women. My husband had to have the same opposite sex sexual experiences only too. I also didn’t date men that watch porn or engage in casual sex. It’s different from high body count. Everyone different on what they consid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 12:43 PM
1	Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ? Only difference is that men had to achieve things to be able to have something to exchange in the first place. They had to built careers and earn money. What they exchange is what they built, created with their bodies and minds. This is assumed out of ignorance. Being beautiful is an investment. There’s a whole industry based on it. Men with expendable money don’t just date pretty woman. They date a specific look. A model look. Which is a high maintenance look. Most men that can afford to take c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 01:53 PM
1	Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ? Okay. Those men are getting exactly what they want from these women too. Model looks. They’re considered high value women due to their beauty. A status symbol. It’s called an exchange system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 04:19 AM
1	Do men tend to overinflate the importance of financial success in order to attract a "High value woman" ? So you’re repulsed by me that wouldn’t date you? Gotcha. It’s weird and crazy to be repulsed towards someone because you’re not their type or you’re not interested in them. If men said this there would be war in the comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/25 04:01 AM
1	Can there ever be a consensus on penis size for women ? Not to be too nosy, but would you say there’s an obvious difference in pleasure between the “average size” and an 8? Yes. A size eight can take time getting use to. Unless you’re well wet a stop and pull out during sex will be fourth coming. However just like when you first start having sex there’s an adjustment period. Pain and pleasure is a thing but once you use to his size it only goes up from there. Could you have adequate pleasure from an average size after having experienced an 8? Of cour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 11:24 PM
3	What do you consider emotional cheating? Emotional cheating is specific to a person own boundaries. Not everyone going to have the same parameters regarding relationships. Loyalty, trust and fidelity is important to me. I can never be with someone that doesn’t have those values. If my husband started building connections, holding confidence, valuing and hiding or not telling me about spending time with other women that would be emotional cheating. Any intimacy he shares with another woman is emotional cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 10:21 PM
2	I have come across a few women who say they are egalitarians, but I rarely see women who call themselves feminists. So do some of you still identify as feminists? I don’t consider myself as a feminist nor do most women I’m friends with. It’s not about not wanting equality for women. Feminists have a lot of beliefs I don’t share. The ones I’ve ran across online and in person make it a part of every aspect of their life, have a if you’re not with me, you’re against me attitude, believe their morally superior and virtue signal a lot. There’s no way I can get with the mentality that a person not sharing my values are terrible and bad people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:49 PM
1	The current generation of daters are frustrated and entitled because we are in an uncomfortable transition period where what was standard, successful monogamy, is now the exception Sure. The same way heterosexuality is not the default sexuality anymore. In twenty years being gay in polyamory relationships will be the norm. Then in forty years humanity population will drop and the world will be not be overpopulated. Then you wake up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 10:28 PM
2	Can there ever be a consensus on penis size for women ? My preference is my husband size which is an 8. Maybe because I can come from PIV. However in the past I had enjoyed sex with the average size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:15 PM
1	Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving. Buddha contributed greatly to over Six Thousand Years of servitude for women. Maybe not intentionally but that hardly makes a difference. My sister is a feminist. I use to think she hated men because she’s a lesbian. Men on social media quickly made me realize it’s not that simple. That maybe, just maybe she had an awareness in regard to men I didn’t from being too close to the matter (date men). However, once again, it’s not a simple as that. I can see your point. With feminism it’s all of noth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 05:45 AM
1	Are all or most women attracted to women? You’re going to really use prison as evidence? A place where men are often raped and forced into sexual relationships with other men. Many men have no choice. They do it for protection reasons only. Sexually assaulted by on or a gang. Victim choice. That’s why it’s stupid and beyond ridiculous that anyone actually takes the Kinsey scale seriously. It’s so flawed I laugh whenever it’s touted as some universal truth. Women being more likely to be asexual is the same area of BS as men are more like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 05:22 PM
–	CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the norm Time to check my husband past bank statements. Even though he’s not the kind that needs to go since women throw themselves at often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 06:09 AM
0	Are all or most women attracted to women? Its offensive when I hear all women are bisexual or all women are a little bi. It’s just not true. It only seems that way because it coming from white liberals/leftist girls/women. I keep seeing this stuff about the Greeks and other civilizations of the past had openly gay society for men. I’ve yet to see any legitimate research on it. One a civilization dies it depends on it stories to be passed down by words or songs. Good look with that one. The authenticity can never be validated. I don’t be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 05:56 AM
–	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? Men and women are socialized differently depending on the culture and environment. I’m in a western country and are only concerned with men that have western culture. The method is men being more active in dating and women benefiting from it. Do men actually like the women they’re actively dating? If so then they’re benefiting from it too. Otherwise why are they dating women? It would be pointless. So men initiate relationships and relationships just kinda happens to women? Men initiate or show …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 10:13 PM
1	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder Argumentum at populum fallacy. Just because people believe it doesn't make it true. Deflection from another man. No surprise here. You can play most games minimizing the amount of violence, assault and murder. Most people don't attempt to minimize it though. Why minimize something that you enjoy. Men that play these heinous video games love committing maximum harm towards women. The only viable difference between rape games and murder games, is that rape games tend to be very focused on the vict…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:15 PM
5	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder You see most of them don’t answer the question. I believe they know and understand very well what playing videos games of that nature mean and say about them. That men seek out these games due to their hatred towards women. It’s interactive sexual assault with them as the abuser. They don’t acknowledge it cause not only does it show who they are as a person but they’ll have to accept the consequences that come with loving an outlet that levels physical and sexual violence against women. This way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:54 PM
1	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder > Media depicts all sorts of violence, gore, and other things. How we got to the mindset that SA is somehow worse than torture and murder is beyond me. People have their priorities messed up imo. This is calling excusing sexual violence. People always have a reason to do something. What you participate in or consume impacts you. Que PUA, Red pillers, incels, Andrew Tate fans more common than ever. All of them hate women. I bet you the majority of those men play video games I don’t believe video …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:25 PM
1	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder So? So? as in who cares men want to sexually abuse women. Someone saying SO to material depicting men raping and sexual assaulting women obviously have a callous disregard for women humanity. Men with this kind of mentality are not only a danger and a threat to women but society at large. All sex offenders and sexual predators should be castrated then shipped off to a deserted island. Violent, despicable and depraved men should not be allowed to be a part of polite society. Bdsm exist, and you w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:26 PM
10	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder If it looks like a woman It's meant to represent a woman Therefore it’s a woman It doesn't matter if it's a real woman or drawing of a woman It's still an ATTRACTION to RAPING & SA WOMEN. But it’s only… save this crap. It’s creepy and disturbing when men choose to play video games where they get to SA and rape women. There’s been many news stories of men creating AI girlfriends just to abuse them. These AI look like women. Are created in the image of women. It’s something meant to represent wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 01:48 AM
1	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? Traditional lifestyle as opposed to what? A modern lifestyle? Define “modern lifestyle”. Those are catchphrases and buzzwords often thrown around too often. A traditional life is a woman staying at home to take care of household and kids while the man worked. I have a job, we both take care of the household and he does the most of the cooking. My husband doesn’t control me nor does he have final say over decisions and matters that need taken care of or addressed. I’m married and don’t need to do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 11:59 PM
1	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? Key dynamics is how boys/men and girls/women are socialized to interact with each in romantic situations/encounters/relationships. Which I already explained in my previous comment. There’s a method, a setup, a dance or whatever you want to call it. Man see a woman he thinks hot. He approaches and ask her out. Woman see a man she thinks is hot. She catches his eye and smile or start up a conversation. Woman dresses up, go to places where the type of men she likes be. Man see woman he finds hot. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 10:36 PM
-1	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? Sighs. Always willing to help inform the ignorant on women bodies and sexual pleasure. Communication is the key regardless of penis size. Communication is the key to everything. Good talk? Okay. That’s great.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:30 AM
1	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? “Anything over 6” is not getting entrance to most vaginas.“ Lol, this is not true. My husband and some of my exes are definitely bigger than 6 inches. Not even taken in the women I know experiences there are many men out there with big dicks. All of them probably aren’t virgins either. The vagina can and do elongate during arousal to accommodate a penis. I’m sure that there are women out there that can’t handle a large penis or maybe not aroused enough and feel pain. However there are women out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 06:19 AM
0	What are some of the biggest misconceptions men have regarding women's attraction to size? Those are lesbians and bi women. Of course PIV is not going to matter to them or not as much with straight women. Anyway, the OP said heterosexual relationships. Men love blowjobs but PIV is essential to heterosexual relationships. I’m sure the majority of men prefers PIV. Women need clit stimulation to come however some of us can with PIV too. Even if you can’t orgasm via PIV it still feels pretty good. Except with a small penis. I prefer big dicks. Some may take awhile to adjust to but hey, we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 05:04 AM
2	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? Men liking pussy so they cheat is a false equivalence. You’re not understanding or being willfully ignorant on key dynamics between men and women. Men chase after women. You don’t want to be in it then you get left behind. Many men can’t compete with certain type or groups of men. Deal with it. There’s this misconception I see on these type of subreddits all the time. That men women find desirable don’t chase women because they have many options. It’s just factual wrong. They go after women they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 04:29 AM
0	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? “And the women who expect men to pay still have traditional gender roles and identify with the SAHM, potential help meet, religious, traditional and conservative worldview” This is incorrect. All the women in my family, social and friends groups expect men to pay on dates are very far from religious nor hold conservative worldviews. We, like the majority of people, are moderates. We hold traditional values in some aspects and liberals beliefs in others. My husband out earns me by far. I choose h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 02:37 AM
2	Why do women want men to provide but not make more? Two separate and different issues. The first one. Of course any woman will be upset that they do the same work, have the same experience and skill set as a man but are getting paid less. That’s a matter of equality in a profession and organizations. The other is a private matter involving your personal life. Many woman expect man to pamper them and there are many that don’t. Women that want to be wined and dined choose men that know this and are okay with it. Thinking about this made me go down …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 01:49 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Race is always used as a litmus test to validate a perceived bias or wrong. It says more about the person who first instincts to go there. This post was about dating in relation to sexual orientation. I’m not going to engage in whataboutism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 04:56 AM
2	Are all or most women attracted to women? I agree with you. Women sexuality is fluid is something I only see on Reddit that’s mostly heavily left leaning and LGBTQ majority. It’s also a white women thing to kiss other women for men attention and pleasure. No woman in my family, friends or coworkers believe that crap. We talk about this stuff all the time nor do we find women kissing or making out to be hot. On here I see a lot of posts of women crying that their boyfriend/husband wants a threesome or they did a threesome only because th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 10:16 PM
1	Are all or most women attracted to women? All people are bi, women are more sexually fluid and sexual attraction is a spectrum is only new age pseudoscience. It’s away to make everyone and everything appear inclusive even if it’s not reflected in real life. Only on certain subreddits do I see this mentality. It’s not anything I see a lot of on other social media platforms nor ever heard discussed before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 10:01 PM
2	Writing your preferences into your dating profile is wrong No, everyone should be up front about dealbreakers even nonphysical ones such as gender identity and sexual orientation. Those are highly divisive issues but hard and fixed dealbreakers for the majority of certain groups. If I was still dating people not wanting to date my race or body type would be ideal to know. It is only a filter and time reducer. Either way the rejection going to come unless you’re still willing to lie and build a relationship on false pretenses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 08:49 PM
-1	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them It’s toxic masculinity at work. First it was women only want bad boys, then it was women friend zone “nice guys” and now it’s not being progressive about any and everything. It’s always some narrative with you men. Men don’t need to worry about whom women date is in the same vein as men/government controlling women body autonomy and worrying about what others do in their private sex lives. It’s none of your business. It’s personal intimate choices on the individual level. Stop trying to make wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 12:07 AM
1	Your opinion on men who purchase relationships or rent girlfriends. It sounds desperate. Men who have to pay for a girlfriend implies something is wrong enough with him that he can’t get a real girlfriend. Which implies lack of confidence, not desirable and desperation. Not qualities women are looking for. I wouldn’t respect him either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 10:58 PM
-3	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them Men do not need to worry about who women date. We can date/fuck whomever (consensual) we want. It’s none of your concern. You don’t get to decide what issues women are progressive about nor what aspects of traditional masculinity she’s attracted to. If you’re so liberal and progressive then you shouldn’t be trying to stuff women into boxes that you perceive as “not progressive”. Stop being hypocritical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 06:22 PM
1	CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The Other When we’re talking about the most desirable men we immediately look at their wealth, status and power. Celebrities are the best example because of those reasons alone. Business, executives and politicians men are among celebrities these days. When celebrities going to some big event or charity it’s not just entertainers with their girlfriends/wives we see on tv. Look at the women on the men arms. They all have a certain look. During basketball games the owners and managers are there a lot at cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:54 PM
3	CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The Other I was responding to this, “But the men who are at the top of desirability, the ones who all women are attracted to and can have whatever women they want, may be a different story and they may be much more interested in that” point. You said that the average man is not seeking inexperienced or virgin women. However, that the most coveted men are different from the average man and would be interested in those types of women. That implies high value men wouldn’t be attracted to or want the Kardashi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 04:46 PM
5	CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The Other You know what men are at the top of desirability? Movie stars, athletes, business men, singers, rappers etc can have any women they want. Who do they go after? Victoria Secret models, instagram models and women that look like them. Who they definitely KNOW gets around sexually. The entertainment industry is known for being very promiscuous. Look at the Kardashians, women rappers that rap explicitly about sex. None of them are hurting from having rich and powerful men date/marry them. Men that wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 05:01 AM
1	A culture that centres female pain struggles to acknowledge when women cause it You claim that the internet if filled with “numerous” women abusing their partners. While others looked on as if it’s was nothing. However you failed to provide evidence and prove this statement. You’re full of hot air with no valid proof of anything. Life is full of problems. No need to go making up issues. Good luck with that attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 01:53 AM
0	A culture that centres female pain struggles to acknowledge when women cause it A lot of projecting going on here. Athletes that hit each other on the butts, butting chests or shoving teammates in victory are abusing each other with your logic. It’s rather sad you don’t understand or experience that kind of camaraderie. You’re the reason domestic violence is not taking seriously. Calling playful physical hits and roughing around abuse is disrespectful to real survivors. Get some perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 10:53 PM
-2	A culture that centres female pain struggles to acknowledge when women cause it The first one was a prank. It actually says it bottom of screen. That second one was over dramatic. That’s stuff for views. No actual physical abuse. Can you not discern when something is a skit? Check out the couple other videos on their channels. You said there were many video of this kind while others act like it was nothing or unbothered. I’m calling BS on your post. It’s hyperbole. When my husband is being risqué in front of company I sometimes elbow him in the stomach. His abs can handle i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 01:03 PM
0	A culture that centres female pain struggles to acknowledge when women cause it That’s interesting. I went online searching for these type of videos. So far I’ve yet to find any on social media where women are physically assaulting their husbands/boyfriends in public or private out of angry while it’s brushed off by everyone. Since you implied there are numerous videos it shouldn’t be hard to find them. Can you link the videos or at least the social media platform and channels?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 12:10 PM
-2	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? They’re porn focused either because they can’t get sex or cum in the normal healthy way. If you’re getting sexually satisfied in a relationship there’s no reason to seek it elsewhere. Signed a sexually satisfied wife. Why do men with small dicks send unsolicited pics to women? They don’t care. Why do men with a small penis still have sex if they believe women care about size? They don’t care. Why would men [insert X] if women don’t want to date [inset X]? They don’t care. Nothing changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 12:15 PM
2	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Sounds like men problems. Not women problems. Men have agency and need to stop trying to pin blame everywhere but where it lies. At their feet or hand. Edit: autocorrect	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 08:11 AM
1	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Of course it’s fair. A woman can use whatever metrics she wants when it comes to who she dates/fucks. Any man that watches porn is sex-focused. I only like and respect men that are getting sex not watching it. It’s such a turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 07:59 AM
1	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Not everyone in life going to like you. It’s a fact of life but that’s okay. You only need that one person. Make it to where it’s okay to you internally. Don’t let outsides sources you can’t control affect your inner world/peace. Ignore those types of woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 09:04 AM
1	Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not. Look, I don’t care about your butt hurt or the mental gymnastics you use to excuse the offensive terms you use. The term I like to use is biological woman. Unless of course only some groups are allowed to call themselves what they want. I’ll say again as I said before. Don’t use certain terminology to describe or refer to people that you know it will offend if you don’t want them to meet you on that same level. It’s not hard to comprehend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 03:05 AM
2	How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner? Get her friends to collect different data on him, all flirt with him to check to see if has a girlfriend or has a type, if he’s a man whore and dating habits. At some point I’ll make myself noticeably with a flirty hi and smile. It’s very nuanced and multifaceted. Lol, my friends and I were strategists before marriage. However if I was already in a relationship and in love I’ll be casually friendly but not too nice. Talk to any man for more than five minutes or hold their eyes a second too long …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 02:28 AM
1	Men are tired with the games If any man are doing all you laid out yet not receiving interest or a relationship then there’s something definitely wrong with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 02:14 AM
0	Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not. Spare me your mental gymnastics. I couldn’t care less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 01:46 AM
1	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. You said, “Women have been conditioned to think their looks are all that matters, and so they don't work on their personalities or inner qualities. Men who chase women only make this problem worse because all this does is make women's egos bigger. They put on make up, fake eye lashes, draw on their eyebrows… ” which is about their appearance. Nothing about the average woman. The next part is speaking on about how terrible their personality and attitude are. Men in general will choose a girl that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 04:06 PM
1	Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not. The same ones we been using for centuries. Penis: male/boy Vagina: female/girl After the baby is born, the doctor observes a penis which in science signifies the baby is a male. Based off those two qualifiers the doc can let the parents know it is a boy. The doctor wasn’t “randomly assigning” babies boys or girl based on a quota. If they observed the baby had a vagina then it’s a biological female which in society has always meant girl. I’m a biological woman: I was born with a vagina making my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 03:12 PM
–	I think there needs to be reforms in the paternity system It’s called using a condom or be celibate. Men have agency. Take some damn responsibility. This is the mindset of deadbeat dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 11:42 AM
-2	Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not. What makes a woman so special that a man will give HER an access to his stuff? Looks. As if she belong on a Glamour or Cover Girl magazine. Men usually want a family. These kind of men usually go for a trophy wife. They actively seek them out. Such a woman is a sign of his status. That he made it in the world and can get a woman very wealthy men get. Which are usually models of some type. Don’t be bitter. The average woman and man use different metrics than men that make good money and rich men.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 06:59 AM
2	Both sexes experience privileges that the other sex does not. I loathe the terms cisgender, assigned at birth, and heteronormativity. They always used as a slur or to intend insult. What makes it worse I can’t read an article without seeing those words. I immediately stop reading knowing they’re bias with a narrative to sell. Many trans get offended when I refer to them as an transgender identifying woman/man or use biological woman/man to make a distinction between trans and biological sex. When you make the comparison they get all pretentious about the “…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 05:29 AM
–	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? Lol. Men on this sub are not different than red pillers. Bitter rejects. “… paying for a girl’s meal who has probably seen more poundings than Omaha Beach on D Day”. Men like you are gross, misogynistic and bitter about women not wanting you. You hate that they have many options while you don’t. Jealousy is not a good luck. Too bad you’re not good enough to get in on the “pounding”. Meanwhile men with your mentality is why there’s a male loneliness epidemic. Women recognize that sticky stuff at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:41 AM
1	Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return. None of this really matters. Women that want providers are not going to date men that don’t already know and accept they’ll be paying for everything on the date. So no middle management, bank tellers, customer service, mangers at a department stores or computer technicians etc men are going to be given the time of day. A woman wanting a financial provider put herself in spaces that wealthy men frequent such as expensive hotels bars, grocery stores in upscale neighborhoods, walking their dog in p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 12:16 PM
0	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. Why do women need to acknowledge anything about a story from an unreliable source? As information is passed down it is lost. About the time the story got to @NothingWho key details and context was lost. He didn’t give a story. He gave gossip. Even if we go by the little info provided it doesn’t even qualify as “baby trapped”. First of all they’re married. Therefore highly likely to not wear condoms. Was she supposed to be on birth control? Did he contribute with birth control and wear condoms? W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:55 AM
1	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. Okay how’s that baby trapped when they’re married? If the baby not his then that’s a whole different issue. If he married her because she got pregnant then he’s as responsible as her. Why do men have unprotected sex with women they don’t trust or if they have an irrational fear of being “baby trapped”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:16 AM
1	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. It’s really disgusting how society condemns women for getting pregnant and blamed for being a single mom. Meanwhile men are praised for hitting and quitting it. There are a few key words here. One is referring to girls/women as “it” taking away their personhood. Making them less then. An object. Next is men being admired for “quitting it” as if it’s something to aspire to. This creates an environment where men don’t have to be accountable. The irony here is that one of the biggest aspects of mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:35 AM
2	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Women are not cum buckets for men. You’re not owed sex just because you have testosterone. What you said sounds very creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 08:00 PM
2	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Don’t men put the condom on and then pull off afterwards? When would the woman have an opportunity to put a hole in it? Once done the man can always flush the condom down the toilet or take it with him to dispose of later. Also bring your own condom instead of always relying on women for birth control. Unwanted pregnancies can be prevented by the man greatly by just doing those few things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 07:57 PM
1	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Men these days are very bitter. The reason they suffer from male loneliness is their own fault. They want a traditional woman which is code for women that depends on them for their survival. Nowadays the majority of women are financially independent therefore unlikely to accept any man that comes her way and put up with their BS. When they get that type of woman they cheat or leave them for a younger woman. Then they come on social media to whine about child support and losing their home etc. wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 06:27 PM
1	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Lol, you don’t know too many women. You’re more likely an observer watching through a window with no context on the actual dynamics behind it. Men that are into women that dress and look like models know exactly what they’re getting into. They actually seek it out. A woman that looks like a Victoria Secret model is a trophy and sign of status. There’s no victims or naive innocents here. It’s called an exchange system. Men get women that are general perceived as beautiful, have great bodies and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 05:50 PM
1	What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women? Two requirements I had for men when I was dating was don’t watch pornography or follow women on social media to objectify and lust over. It’s a goddam shame how hard that is these days. I married the man that didn’t do those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 12:37 PM
1	What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women? Those male friends are probably only hanging around hoping to get lucky with her one day. I have yet to have a male friend that didn’t try to have sex with me. It’s all about opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 12:32 PM
1	What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women? What you say sounds good and people like to say nowadays that women and men are more alike than not or that both do x, y or z. Unfortunately what OP said is more true than yours. Husbands leave their wives had a higher rate when she gets seriously ill. Men also have a tendency to leave wives for younger women. Women are also the ones that contribute most to the relationship. Not only do they work they do most of the household duties. So no men and women don’t sacrifice equally for each other. Me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 11:56 AM
1	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. That’s the best you can do? An autocorrect error? 🤣 Settle in for a life of loneliness. Wait there’s hope yet. There’s foreign brides at the price of a green card. However I highly doubt they’re virgins or have low body counts. Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 08:29 PM
1	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. There’s nothing wrong with women wanting a tall, hot man who at least in the same income bracket as her. You don’t get to pick a woman preferences. If you don’t fall into that group it really shouldn’t matter to you. However by the way you talk in your comments I bet you’re the problem. No woman that’s has self-respect and good self-esteem would be with a man with your mentality. As soon as you start talking and sharing your opinions and values I bet you get ghosted. Maybe you can find your idea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 11:05 AM
1	The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments. This is not true. Both my husband and I had many options. However he had more because he’s a good looking white man with a great career and money. Neither one of us settle because looks was the only thing that mattered. Women don’t need to compromise just because they want a man that’s handsome. Attraction’s absolutely should be a priority. This is the person she’s going has to kiss, cuddle with and have sex with. Normal people don’t engage in sexual acts and intimacy with people they’re not att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 10:41 AM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Involuntary celibate comes off as if someone is consciously keeping it from you or preventing you from getting it. I’m not saying that what you meant. Only how it sounds to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 06:11 PM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic The IMPLICATION is there. You called women that don’t date bi men biphobic. In my previous comment I explained EXACTLY how you’re doing it. That by calling them names and telling them to do some type of deep introspection. Then you throw in the disclaimer as if it erases the intention of your statement. When showing this to my husband he said I should’ve addressed the ignorance remark. Ignorance means a lack of knowledge. That’s also where the assumption comes in. Thinking that when straight wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 03:13 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic There’s a disconnect going on here/the world/society. On certain subreddits I often see posts where some people are shocked about what they think is casual acceptance of bigotry or homophobia. Until I looked into it a few years ago I wasn’t aware how prevalent bisexuality in men is. At the same time I learned it was considered biphobia/homophobia to not date bi men by some people. I’ve never heard of this anywhere else but online on some social media sites. No one I know in real life believes th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 02:14 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Nowadays “I’m Not Trying To Make Straight Women Date Bi Men” or You Should Date Whoever You Want… but X, Y and Z” disclaimer is automatically thrown in before the person does exactly that in an roundabout way. Anyone shaming and calling out or judging women regarding their private dating choices are indirectly trying to tell them what to do. The goal is to create an hostile atmosphere where women are treated as terrible people. This put pressure on them to set aside their preferences on an intim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 09:34 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic You would be wrong. Check out the bisexual and bisexual men subreddits. It’s filled with bi men posts and comments about women breaking up with them or being turned down because of the woman disgust. On many threads all you’ll you see is comments removed and women saying that if they give details they’ll get banned. It happened to me. Some communities allow you to admit to not wanting to date bi men. However once words like gross, disgusting, and sickening get mentioned, comments get removed or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 06:24 PM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic “Well, bigoted women deserve to have their sexual attraction policed as a result of their moral inferiority”. Tell us you’re an incel without telling us. You want control over women bodies. This is what this is really about. You or any other men not ENTITLED to women bodies now do we OWE you sex, sexual attraction or a relationship. Morals are subjective. What is not is your incredibly disturbing and misogynistic mentality. Men with your beliefs need to be seeking therapy instead of relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 05:28 PM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic That’s exactly what you and others are doing in a roundabout manner. You’ll want to guilt/shame/condemn women that don’t want to fuck/date/marry non heterosexual men. In order to create an hostile environment to get them to make concessions over a serious personal matter. Which they’re obviously not comfortable doing so. Biphobia is about fear, hating or aversion to bi people as a whole. It’s about intolerance and mistreatment of bisexual people overall. You’re co-opting bigot/biphobia which are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 05:06 PM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Race is always used as a litmus test to validate a perceived bias or wrong. I know all about colorism in the black community in America. Where light skin is very valued. However black women don’t value light skin in the same way black men do. My history with it is different though. I’m mixed race myself. Some of my sisters were bullied for it while the rest like me are not the type to get bullied. Many of my former friends and other black girls often told me I wasn’t really black. Colorism, in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:58 PM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic She doesn’t owe you a reason. Women don’t need to explain their dating choices or do any deep introspection over them. Learn to understand and accept no. The end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:27 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Yes! This is the thing I noticed most. Women disparaging other women for their private and intimate dating decisions. What’s worst is that they’re mostly feminists. Women that should be on the side of other women automatically not men when it comes to these matters. Any woman trying to coercer (Shaming, Calling Out,Condemning) another one into dating men she doesn’t want to (Bi Men) needs to check herself. Congratulations to them. They’ve become what they’d been fighting against. It’s usually do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 08:07 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Actually it’s not getting better. Social media is only getting better at censoring anything it perceive as homophobia and biphobia. In the past on some subreddits I’ve been banned for only saying that any man that is bicurios/heteroflexiable/bisexual or engage in same sex relations is a dealbreaker. Whenever the question of “will straight women date bi men” comes up many women on Reddit have stated that they won’t say. Those women said they fear getting banned. YouTube AI is very hated for remov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 06:55 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic No it’s not. With that logic any requirement a person has is some kind of phobia. Thinking anyone has to adjust their belief system to suit your ego is an entitled mentality. No one should have to tailor fit their lives and standards to fit or accommodate another person or group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 06:19 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Who are you, or anyone else, to call women out? No one has the authority to hold anyone accountable. So it’s purposeless. It’s trendy now to put in a disclaimer: Nobody is trying to force straight women to date bi men. You should only date whoever you want. Then they do exactly that. Claiming that excluding a whole group from your dating pool is bigotry and wrong. That there’s no “good” reason to not date bi men. That it changes nothing etc. When women are told they’re a bigot or some kind of ph…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 05:34 AM
3	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic The problem lies in the fact only one option gets you censored. Alleging that someone is a bigot/homophobic/biphobic/transphobic can get them banned from social media platforms and fired at work. Social justices should never cross over into someone private life and personal dating choices. Individuals are not organizations or institutions to regulate. I should be able to say I wouldn’t date X, Y or Z without being labeled a negative term and being censored. It also leads to a reality that’s not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 03:37 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic It’s because we’re often are reported then banned permanently from the sub and temporarily banned from Reddit. Many subs will only allow you to say you wouldn’t date bi men. However when a woman is pushed for a reason or details, using terms such as disgusting or gross will get your comments removed and you banned. For whatever reason when speaking about what you’ve heard or been told by others is okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 03:16 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Women don’t need a “valid” reason or to contemplate on her dating preferences. The real problem is thinking women have to explain themselves over such an intimate matter. I see two handsome men but only one I’m attracted to. I don’t run to my computer to write an essay as I analyze and overthink think it. Trying to understand why I’m drawn to one over the other. If I dating a man and were vibing. Then I find out he likes to eat scat during sex or engages in role playing where he’s a baby or he’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 02:45 AM
1	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic This is not true. There are many men across multiple social media platforms waxing poetic about women of the Past that they never experienced. These men are always talking negatively about Modern women who want equality. Men want a traditional/trade wife to come home to. They expect to be catered to. Men get sex, a nanny, housekeeper, personal maid, a cook and personal shopper. Which are based on feminine/women gender roles. There’s a male loneliness epidemic because men and women expectations o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 12:52 AM