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ResourcesHovland767/r/seduction02/01/22 02:47 PM
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What's your dating history like so far on life? Have you had sexual experiences/and or relationships before?
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:27 PM
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Haha well, I'm not on a dry spell right now. But I was on a dry spell one week prior to writing this post.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:42 AM
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Balancing outcome inpendence with intent is the heart of game .
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:49 PM
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I agree with some of the comments, the "go the the gym"-approach is not the best option for people in your situation. It's an introverted activity, and it might make you even more narcissistic and cynical than you already are. What you need to do is understand the basics of social dynamics and male to female polarity. Most people who are successfull at dating know deep down inside that the media and society's portrayal of male-female relations is very unsound, and it is the fact that they know t…
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:43 PM
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For most guys who are virgins, I would say their problem lies within the fact that they are not really trying. If you are still a virgin, I doubt you've ever been situation where you've been talking to a girl and thought to yourself "I like this girl. How can I get her back to her place or my place?". Go out thursday, friday or saturday night, find a girl and vibe with her for a few hours on and off. If the interaction is going well and there's a spike, ask her about going back to her or your pl…
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:42 PM
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Try and get a social circle and hit the town. Don't go RSD-mode, and don't take it too seriously. You will be amazed at how receptive women actually are to guys who apporach them during the night. Use your intuition, stay in the momemt, and most importantly have fun when you vibe with girls. Force yourself to be confident with women, which if you're not used to it will feel weird in the beginning, but I'm a firm believer in 'fake it till you make it' when it comes to inexperience and dating.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:05 PM
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That particurlar girl, I'm afraid, is not interested you. Move on to another girl, the last thing you want to do is get oneitis with a girl who is not into you.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:16 PM
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That's what I thought too. The girl hasn't been in the guy's friendzone for years, but I know for a fact that he was interested in her.
/r/seduction22/08/21 04:52 PM
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Because I was genuinely concernced if I might have rubbed her the wrong way.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:51 PM
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UPDATE: I'm sorry about the confusing timezones, I don't use the am/pm time system in my country. I've updated it now. Also, I regret referring to the two gentlemen the the afterparty as "asians". I do not consider this a racist remark by any means, but I should have still predicted the controversy it was bound to stir up. I do not support people who call out other people when they refer to them by their "race/ethinicity", but I should have still predicted that people were going to react they wa…
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:43 PM
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An arrangement we have in my country where more experienced students at the university make activities for the new ones. But, I would think typical house parties were a good way to meet women and pursue them either sexually or romantically.
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:19 PM
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Sure. I don't have time right now, but I'll post later :)
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:13 PM
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So how was my post racially stereotyping? I've clearly stated that refering to them as "asians", wasn't supposed to suggest that their race/ethnicity was the reason for how they behaved.
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:00 PM
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I find it hilarious that you are suggesting that I said they were acting the way they did, because they were of a certain race/ethnicity. That was never what I suggested.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:34 AM
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Yes, and if there had been something else about that was more characteristic I would have used that description instead. Referring to them based upon their ethinicity was not an attempt to be racially biased.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:30 AM
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I don't mind referring to someone based upon their looks, and race/ethnicity is an important part of a person's appearance. Whether a person is tall or short, might also be totally irrelelevant for a story, but people throw it in there. If you are suggesting that I'm racially prejudiced because I used the reference "two asian guys", then I stronly disagree with your point of view.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:09 AM
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Do you have "buddy weeks" at the start of the semester. Because we have.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:56 AM
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Okay, long story short. I was on my way to a meet-up with some other people from a university group, and I saw the girl on the subway while I was on my way there. We chatted together, and later we met with the group. We hung out with them for a few hours, before we went to an afterparty. Then we left the afterparty and went to her place. The two cockblockers were with us, unfortunately, but then they left and things escalated to sex.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:30 AM
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Nothing at all, really. But people refer to other people all the time, in regards to how they look, two tall guys, two short guys, two petite girls etc. It's just that people seem to dislike it when you do it with their race/ethnicity.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:16 AM
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If you are comfortable with it, I'd recommend trying out social circle game with alcohol. Don't go overboard with it, a few beers and some vodka should do the trick. It'll loosen you up and make you more sociable, but if you get too loaded then obviosuly that will hurt your results.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:08 AM
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Yes, touch her while your lying in bed together. You really have to feel your instincts from a primal level. Just go for it, even though it's extremely difficult the first time. My move was yesterday was to grab her down there, and start fingering her. We had already been lying close to each other and touching before this. When you get to a certain point, everything takes care of itself.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:02 AM
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For some reason she agreed that they could come with us, and they stayed there for over an hour. They were from a late night party that we were on earlier. Asked me all sort of silly questions I didn't wanna answer. Finally, I asked them to leave (indirectly sort of), they took the hint and the rest is history.
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:59 AM
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No, unfortunately it doesn't live up to it :/ But, man how much easier it's going to be to be around women, now after I've finally done it :'D
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:24 AM
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Meeting women becomes easier when you have more friends 😁. To be fair, I would be cautious with going the down the route of "I don't care for anyone, other than potential dating partners". There's more to life than money and girls. Simply focusing on finances, looks and getting sexual partners seems to be one-way ticket towards Patrick Bateman narcissism. And that's not to say that women and sex are not important, because they are. But you have to be careful with PUA, it's one of the most common…
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:21 AM
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I've obviously considered this :) The problem is that I've acted too confidently with her before, so I suppose it would be a problem with what PUAs call "congruency". When a man takes control with a woman and acts with confidence, most women would assume that he is not a virgin.
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:22 AM
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Yeah, I know that's where I fucked up. Should I've gone for the kiss. I made a mistake the first time, by not escalating towards cuddling. Now I managed to do this, because I promised myself that I was going to make an attempt at it at least. I will have to promise myself to make an attempt at kissing the next time I see, which will be next week.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:21 AM
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The viewpoints seem to be slightly different in the comment section
/r/seduction25/06/20 11:23 AM
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