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Depends on age. If you’re younger you can go for drinks, boba, coffee, ice cream and walk on the beach etc
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:18 PM
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Height doesn’t even matter, it’s a lie bro.
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:54 PM
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DM me, I’ll show you
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:53 PM
1

Sounds interesting, how many have you dm’d on ig? I have honestly never DM’d a bunch of girls directly from IG just a few and the success rate is high. Let me see some game fam
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:29 PM
1

I think you should try to get good with women if to is something you genuinely want to do. If not then cheers mate
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:26 PM
1

Like 5’9
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:24 PM
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follow the other things first. You are probably not even meeting girls
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:31 PM
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use the internet man. You have YouTube and google. Reach out if you have specific questions
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:25 PM
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SEDUCE THEM. Look you don't have to lie, if the perfect girl came a long you probably would get in a relationship with them. Tell them you are not necessarily looking for a girlfriend but if the right girl comes along you would be glad to settle down. Take them out. Escalate. Have sex. If you don't like them don't continue dating them. Don't do crazy dates, just keep it as simple as possible, keep flirty and make sure you are somewhere you aca slowly escalate then leave elsewhere to do the deed.…
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:55 PM
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Glad to be of assistance bro. You're a stud btw haha
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:48 PM
3

I have been there and that Is what I would tell my old self.
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:46 PM
5

If I was 18 again, Here's How I Would Pull like Crazy. Be SOCIAL - to date girls, you need to meet them. Go to social outings, make friends, go to clubs at school, be involved on campus if you go to school. Meet lots of people, talk to everyone, be social. It translates to charisma. When I was in college my most cherished, genuine relationship with women came from clubs and extracurricular activites. Do things you like, not solely for girls. USE DATING APPS- Hard but once you have great pictures…
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:37 PM
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It is never too late. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Get better and be ruthless to make up for lost or else life will be ruthless to you. I recommend some sort of dating coach since I assume you are not broke. If you don't want to spend money just get more numbers coming in. Simple, not easy fix. Get good at getting dates. Use dating apps. Approach in real life. Get numbers or instagram, ask them on dates. Do this enough times and you will definitely find a partner.
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:33 PM
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brother, rejection is affecting how you feel. You don’t have it down as much as you think you do. Take care. God bless
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:11 PM
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Say no the 6-7s. Stop getting your validation from sex. You will become old and have nothing to your name besides body count. Chase your dreams not women, put them first in your life. Cut back on women. You have nothing to prove bro. Time is the most expensive thing we have. When you are old on a rocking chair, you will wish you had more time. Use it wisely
/r/seduction06/07/24 01:09 PM
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You need yo get a sense of self worth and purpose. What comprises your life is what makes you important, your goals, values, what type of person you are etc. Don’t solely base your self worth on others. Also don’t be delusional. Accept reality and force change.
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:56 PM
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Honestly, I really tried I think I can get a 1-2 a week. Are you getting a lot of matches? Are you using multiple apps? Use bumble, hinge, and tinder. If that is not working, improve your profile. If you are already getting a lot of matches and just not converting. Get their phone number or insta. Make sure you are not being too friendly! Then people will waste your time. Try being more polarizing or bold. Voice messages or calls to build rapport. Schedule dates. Quick ones where you can build r…
/r/seduction06/07/24 12:54 PM
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Hinge translates best to real dates for me. A lot of women on there are to waste your time. You just need to get them off the app and onto a date. Get their number or instagram and then ask them on a date. Mention a date or you guys hanging out and if they aren’t into you the. They wont really keep talking talking to you. Match>Flirt>Get number or Socials > Get on date. Have sex or fall in love
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:34 PM
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D might not be good enough but you might be getting also be getting too attached after sex. That can scare girls away even if they do want a commitment.
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:12 AM
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Other girls
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:10 AM
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You act more desperate when you put focus in women. When you have other things going on in life and women aren’t your highest priority, you naturally are not as desperate and your actions convey that. Women can sense this through your behavior and social cues.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:36 AM
1

Just use your car dude. Get tints on it lol
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:25 AM
1

Some girls like you some girl’s don’t. Discomfort is temporary, regret isn’t. Some girls arent open to dating some girls have boyfriends, some girls love the fact that you have approached them. Rejection is part of the game. When you make your life all about girls its easy to take rejection personally. Always have other goals, don’t make your sole goal to be good with woman. If you do rejection will crush you
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:23 AM
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Forgot to add to have a good instagram. Lots of high quality pictures definitely helped me. Seems to make your dating life a lot easier.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:19 AM
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When I was dating I would do both. Keep 1 or 2 girls on rotation but then a little 1 night stands on every now and then or until it fizzes out. Rotation girls want a relationship eventually so it doesn’t last that long.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:18 AM
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It does take someone that long to decide if they like you. Waiting that long isn’t because they are not ready, its because you are not ready.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:14 AM
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It’s all a numbers game. Just go on a shit load of dates. Go on tinder, bumble, hinge. Approach girls in real life as well. Go on dates, escalate, once youve built attraction take them home or somewhere you can do the deed. Might take anywhere in from 1-3 dates. Me personally if I don’t close in 3 dates tops, I’m out. You don’t have to spend tons of money, boba and simple things work like that when you’re 20. Like being new with everything, you are going to fail most of the time but eventually g…
/r/seduction11/04/24 03:04 AM
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By time you whip it out its too late. Doesn’t even matter. If you want it to NOT be a one night stand then you might need to perform better or have a bigger package
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:26 PM
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Lot of people think so but if you like fuck it. I love it so I do regardless.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:45 AM
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That’s called swagger which is damn near sex appeal.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:25 AM
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Satisfaction lmaoo
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:24 AM
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Yuuup if you feel sexy you sexy
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:23 AM
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Style, grooming, how you carry yourself, smell good, body language, eye contact, have a good mouthpiece aka being smooth. I’ve learned a lot from Brad pitt and Leonardo movies those guys exemplify swagger and sex appeal. They’re smooth asf too, body language is on point.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:23 AM
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Online dating
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:10 AM
2

Facts, looks come first and can be improved tremendously in a few months time.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:15 PM
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Facts bro! They think they can escape self improvement. They know they can be a better version yet hope and pray OLD will solve their problems.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:14 PM
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Most dating advice is actually shit. Don’t be yourself. Don’t take the moral high ground. Don’t be on dating apps expecting to get🐱thinking it’s some magic trick to get girls. If you’re ugly in real life you’re uglier online. Improve yourself relentlessly to become better and even out the playing field instead of spending time and money on dating apps.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:13 PM
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YES! This will get more girls in the long run.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:53 PM
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Let’s assume you’re already good looking. You make a profile and improve it, keep testing, post good lifestyle pics and keep improving your game then you’ll have massive success. Most people don’t tick those boxes though. Id run tinder, hinge and bumble if I was you.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:52 AM
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6’1 is short? You joking right?
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:50 AM
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Good shit braaah
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:48 AM
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5’9 isn’t short bro💀
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:54 AM
1

That’s some bs
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:45 AM
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There’s no such thing as everyone’s type. Some girls have boyfriends. It’s not always your fault.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:45 AM
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I’ll pray for you
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:39 AM
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Because you confessed your love for her and she doesn’t see you like that. If she hangs out with you you’re going to become more attached and won’t stop bugging her and she’ll have to break your heart again. Trust me, try it
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:33 AM
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You asked why she wants to be your friend that’s why she wants to be your friend. Try to hang out with her like you do with your other friends, I bet she won’t do it. She’ll just keep you around to know that she has options. She won’t ever do anything with you like she would with her actual friends. You seem young though try it out and you’ll see you get no benefit from it whatsoever
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:31 AM
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Free attention and validation. You make them feel good by being there at there every need or beckon. It’s that simple
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:27 AM
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They’re both overrated for meeting girls imo. More competition and girls are more stuck up since everyone’s approaching them. I like clubs better though. Meet way more girls there than bars
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:24 PM
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Pimps are a prime example.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:34 AM
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Do coke off tits
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:33 AM
2

Move locations inside the bar or cut it short. Go do your own thing for a little bit let the tension build up and they’ll either come see you later or you start talking to them later in the night. Talk to more people in the mean time. Also if you’re convos is going good get an Instagram or take them home
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:24 PM
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Date girls you’re actually attracted to
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:22 PM
3

Bro you can be desirable put in the work so you become the 10 percent.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:08 PM
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Start by planning the whole date. Get her comfortable with your touch asap, keep the vibe flirty and playful. Put your arm around her when you walk or sit down for extended periods of time. Get her alone and if the vibe is right you go for a kiss. Girls want to seduced, remember that. To do all this you have to plan your dates. Keep clear away from dinner dates and aim to do things you like to do and go to places you might already be comfortable with. Make sure they’re fun things where you can a…
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:36 PM
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Some more direct advice on how to not get attached is simply spend less time with them. Always have other options in your life. It’s hard to be thinking about one girl when you have 3 others you’re going to see later. Also have hobbies and activities you like to do, this way you stay busy and aren’t just thinking about them 24/7. Even then though you meet girls who check all the boxes and you have to control yourself to not act out of character. This is the approach that has worked for me. I’ve …
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:26 PM
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When they ask what are we or even ask for your attentions tell them this (it’s technically the truth): “I’m just dating, guess I haven’t found the right one” The thing you have to know about rotation chicks is that you can only string them along for so long. They can last months but most of them will eventually be pressing for a relationship. You can tell them you like to take things slow but that only works for a short amount of time so you need to know that eventually they’ll leave. Come to te…
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:22 PM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:26 PM
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How to manage or how to get one?
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:10 PM
1

Facts, make your intentions clear. Give off friend vibes and you’ll be treated as one
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:07 PM
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This! Guys hesitate too much, we can never be afraid to lead
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:20 PM
1

Facts
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:17 PM
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Swagger. They’re confident and display themselves as the best option. I’ve known guys who are bums but they have swagger and a mouth piece. Basically they carry themselves like they’re the shit and they are very smooth. If a girl finds you attractive, this comes before finding out you’re a bum so you can get a lot of girls. However keeping them long term is a different story.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:16 PM
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That’s called bussin your ass stoopid!
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:08 AM
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Yeah if you want to smash busted ass chicks you don’t have to put in work and level yourself up. If you’re fucking w top tier bitches you got be on your shit. You probably smashing 5s and 6s
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:33 PM
1

How much ass have you got from tinder mofo?
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:32 PM
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Facts! Never stop leveling up fellas. It’s sooo easy when you have your shit together. Can’t expect these girl to treat you like a king if you don’t do the same for myself.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:30 PM
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Yes it is bro. But you have to date still though just a less than you would if you weren’t grinding. You don’t want to be a rich dork then you’re going to get played by females. You should keep leveling up every aspect of your life and keep dating. Sometimes you have to cut it out. But having no experience is gonna fuck you over in the long run. Still always prioritize your money and you over any girl
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:56 AM
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Get more girls. You need abundance man
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:53 AM
1

She don’t like you champ. She’s deliberately giving you nothing to work with
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:30 AM
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Love to see it man
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:35 AM
1

Loool what the fuck. Dude just be confident
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:30 AM
1

How do you know she has you blocked from her story? Just like one of her pics and if she likes another one of your DM her
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:11 AM
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I would have just got up and dipped.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:55 AM
2

Physical touch.
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:21 AM
1

Improve your life. Become desirable. Time will pass anyways. Hit the gym, work on your style, keep your grooming on point, work on your social skills/ charisma and get some money in your pocket. I promise you, you will get attention from women. Time will pass anyways brother, might as well spend it becoming the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:37 AM
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Guys if she doesn’t respond SHES NOT INTERESTED. Move on. Stop trying to decipher a message that’s not there. Instead of dreading that one girl get another one! If you can’t get another one then work on yourself
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:19 AM
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It’s a nice way to leave you on read. If she’s interested in you she’ll initiate contact
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:08 AM
1

You have no swagger, no pep in your step and no game!
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:40 PM
4

You can’t. It’s over. Move on
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:33 AM
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You’re 30 champ, change or complain and stay the same
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:46 AM
1

Not easy but very possible
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:42 PM
2

and go bald and get all the ladies loool
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:06 AM
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I've always wanted to get good with women so I've always carried out self development in that regard. Gym, style, grooming, social status, social skills, game and all of that. I wasn't naturally good with women so it took me a while. if you know what you're doing or have good guidance you can be better than most dudes in the dating scene. Women I have sex with come from my social circle, instagram, hinge, bumble, and tinder. You've got to always be improving and be putting yourself out there (ba…
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:51 AM
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It will increase your quality of life versus not having sex at all ever. But it’s nothing crazy, your confidence will become much better but sleeping with a lot of women isn’t always the easiest. Went from no sex to sex 1-2 times a week and honestly it’s annoying to have to keep up with getting dates and all that. Also if you’re getting no girl as of now you’re going to experience rejection and it’ll get worse before it gets better. But once you are able to get consistent sex it’s very enjoyable…
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:48 PM
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True, just edited it. Put some quotations for you lol. Thought it was obvious my bad
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:12 AM
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Don’t need to be. Deal with them all the time.
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:18 AM
2

?
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:25 PM
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If she says she has a lot of guy friends and commitment issues she’s for the highway bro. She’s literally telling you, “I cheat on all my bfs and I happen to have tons of guys friends.” Good girls that aren’t promiscuous don’t hang out with a gang of dudes and commitment issues isn’t in their vocabulary. Smash and kick her to the side of the road.
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:26 PM
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Yeah bro, whenever a girl is trying to make you come into her world like this she’s going use and abuse you. While there’s another guy that’s smashing on the first date after taking her to get a drink. If a girl is trying to get you to cooperate under their terms don’t let that happen. She thinks you’re the nice guy that’s why she’s doing it, she’s not suuuper interested in you. Tell her you’ve got enough friends and don’t have interest for more. Don’t be a girls friend when you’re interested ro…
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:09 PM
1

Fix your mental health if possible, if you can and aren’t taking actions for it don’t expect to be able to attract females.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:09 AM
1

Stop pissing yourself and go talk to her. Talk about your environment or just say “hey, you ever going to say or just keep starring” playfully and laugh it off. Continue conversation, get her number or Instagram and boom
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:01 AM
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Stop complaining and improve your life. Find a way to improve looks, style, social skills, game and all that. Tons of resources on YouTube. Staying the same is going to be more painful than changing.
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:52 AM
1

I don’t think a few bucks is getting used bro. That’s just apart of the game imo. To each their own though
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:21 PM
1

We can agree to disagree bro. If she offers to pay, I like that. I’ll let her pay if she genuinely wants to. I just don’t take a chick out and expect to go half half on fucking frozen yogurt or some beers and expect her to be completely into me. If you’re referring to dinner, you shouldn’t even be taking her to dinner dates unless you’re already getting kitty and genuinely like her. You can definitely get away with half and half when it comes to 6-7s but not once you start dealing with real attr…
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:08 AM
0

Still gonna retire👀
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:28 AM
1

Got you with any help you might need brother ;)
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:15 AM
1

This guys YouTube is sick! He pulls!
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:17 AM
4

Wtf is inner and outer game?
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:55 AM
9

STDs and babies bro. If you’re having sex 1-2 times a week with different girls you don’t want to risk it bro. You’re not the only guy the had sex with. Same for you, now you’ll get the bad wrap off having chlamydia or other stuff if they test positive. Even if it wasn’t you.
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:56 PM
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He’s got the sex appeal and swagger bro. You don’t need hair for it
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:55 PM
0

Got you mate! That’s badass. More power to ya.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:48 PM
1

Facts! Everyone loves a well spoken confident approach. They don’t have to love you, just respect you.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:52 PM
0

Great comment! I’ve found leaving them alone, no contact whatsoever at red lights bring them up to yellow or green real quick!
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:11 PM
1

You ever take girls to dinner? Or strictly coffee and low commitment things like that. Genuinely curious, I like to keep a roster so if I like the girl I’ll move it past froyo or coffee.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:06 PM
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Ahh bro that’s different! Say if you guys came together, feel like they would have expected it. In this situation feel like it’s implied you’re not going out of your way for a coffee. I think it makes a difference say when you pick her up, take her somewhere and then order right in front of her and don’t ask her if she wants something. Just my two cents.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:02 PM
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I’m referring to dates bro. Not simping and paying her phone bills and shit. I’m taking her out, not the other way. To each their own though, champ
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:43 PM
3

Read how to win friends and influence people. People like talking about themselves, make eye contact as if you are listening intently. Let them finish speaking and then ask them a question. Eventually they’ll be pouring out their life story. Be genuinely curious and try to learn about whatever they’re speaking on. Almost like a podcaster Don’t be afraid to talk about yourself too, make statements and comments instead of JUST only questions. Read more books and watch more movies. There are good e…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:28 PM
1

You can’t really create chemistry but you can create attraction. I value my time and would rather find a girl who has mid to high interest in me than raise a girls interest. However if you do wish to raise a girls interest (a time consuming process) you have to basically charm your way into her pants. She’s made a perception about you from the first time she saw you. (This is why tattoos are so effective, they portray you’re a bad boy.) You change her perception of you through flirting, eye cont…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:19 PM
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Idk bro, I expect them to be fully feminine so I’m gonna be fully masculine and not expect them to pay. I don’t want half the coochie. I guess I just prefer them to become invested in other ways. I definitely tell girls to cover a round of drinks every now and then but I just don’t expect half and half.
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:10 PM
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Ain’t no way y’all getting high caliber woman splitting the bill.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:43 PM
3

Nah bro, split the bill for coffee?? I just can’t bro, unless the vibe is like friends ya know?
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:41 PM
1

Oh yeah disregard my comment up above this is much better
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:22 PM
1

“i make money online” if they want to know specifics tell them ehhh it’s nothing too crazy. Just some online office stuff. They can find out later in the process
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:21 PM
1

I like kitty
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:07 AM
1

Nah bro, you’re not an actor. You don’t need all that. If you really want to then go ahead but it’s not seen as attractive by females
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:25 AM
0

Because not everyone can do it.
/r/seduction01/05/22 03:17 AM
1

Big on this right now. Need some coochie every two weeks at least tho, withdrawals aint no joke :((
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:34 AM
1

Lmfaaaoo you joking right?
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:03 AM
1

Dude CHAT me, I bet I can help you with this.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:20 PM
2

Hey bro, I think you’re making the mistake of leading with your wallet. They fall in love with your money before they can with you. It’s just social skills and game you have to develop. In the span of a year or less you can drastically improve this. The good thing is once you do you’ll have access to higher prospects that do care more about money. Even then you shouldn’t use it to your advantage but it gets you in the door forsure.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:16 PM
1

Yesssir that’s preselection for you. Same goes for non romantic interests
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:52 AM
1

Congrats on the approaches man. Do you consider yourself smooth or your interactions smooth?
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:26 AM
1

Keep having sex with different girls
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:58 AM
1

Girl won’t touch repeatedly if she’s not into you at all. Pretty sure this is because most guys get attached at any small action that could be hinting at them liking you.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:35 PM
2

All you need is self belief
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:09 PM
2

Usually whenever we get heavy I’ll just lead with foreplay and stimulate her clit and I’ll try to make her nut (without oral/ I do that later). Sounds cringey but I just tell her to taste daddy while she’s aroused and try to stay in a position where I can keep playing w her. But if you just want head I would skip below the waste foreplay or maybe just some clit action and whip your johnson out. I don’t see her turning that down tbh. Does she hate giving head?
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:02 AM
1

Haha good luck
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:52 AM
5

You tell her she’s really good at head, like she’s amazing at it, even if she’s not. Now she’ll like giving it to you. Works for me loool
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:50 AM
0

Good bro. Way better than most folks
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:33 PM
1

Yessirr exactly, simple not easy.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:35 AM
1

You worried about the wrong thing bro
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:09 PM
2

Facts, it’s simple. Lot of guys on dating apps for months and haven’t got any likes or matches. I’m just like broooo get off the app and improve your life.
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:12 PM
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Complain and stay the same or change fellas. That’s just how it is
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:07 PM
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Don’t pay for sex bro. Use that money to level up in other areas of your life. Put in the work to be better and women will come. All the guys saying you’re not a loser for paying are bs. You can’t attract any females so you have to pay? These girls are fucking the guys they like for FREE and you’re comfortable paying. That makes you lesser of a man. You’re losing! I think if you have to pay to get pussy you’re a loser. If you weren’t they’d genuinely want to fuck you.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:03 AM
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forsure mate
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:55 AM
1

Glad to help player, and appreciate it ;)
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:49 PM
1

Practically, yeah
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:48 PM
1

It’s basically social influence. People are influenced by what others perceive to be valuable. So say I go out to a bar and immediately get swarmed by a few friends and they’re super happy to see me and want to hang out and what not. That shows they like me and that people want to spend time around me. Therefore socially proving I’m valuable. This can play a role in girls liking or becoming obsessed with you since it shows them that it’s not just them being delusional. You’re actually liked by a…
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:45 PM
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Guys why are y’all hating so bad? This sub is r/seduce. This is literally seduction. Pick up isn’t meant to be deceptive. It’s not like he’s lying and saying his a gabillonaire and saying he’s going to marry them. He’s just perfecting the art of meeting someone, creating comfortability and creating attraction that leads to sex. Put in the hard work for anything and you’ll get better. And congrats OP
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:44 PM
1

Social media has made it so they have access to options they didn’t have before. Why are they going to settle for greg when they can dm tyron and get their guts dug out that night?
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:20 PM
1

It’s a good thing!! It’s because all guys do it, when you’re calm about it you stand out and look like a g. You’re basically telling her I’m not desperate aka you’re not the only one
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:15 PM
2

Yeah but not that she can get
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:57 AM
2

You being the best one.
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:55 AM
4

Treat her like regular girl. Chat her up, take her out, smash and become a dad. Last step is optional.
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:50 AM
3

I do foreplay and get head then sex then back to foreplay then back to sex that way she comes a few times before I do
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:47 AM
7

This is my swap
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:13 AM
1

The more reason to
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:13 AM
13

Fr we need a pic cause every girl thinks they’re Beyoncé.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:13 AM
6

You’re probably not attractive or you’re talking to guys who have better options.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:11 AM
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If a girl is obsessed with you it means you’re usually their best option so they want to get in a relationship with you. Social proof and preselection play a huge role. They become even more obsessed when you don’t reciprocate their attention and energy all the time
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:58 PM
1

Mirror thing works good, it shows you’re not too needy. She’s interested dude. Don’t get all giddy but set the date and time, good shit.
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:49 PM
4

Go pull then
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:57 AM
0

Game ain’t told it’s sold playa
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:54 AM
8

These are the chads and tyrons of the world bro. They’re born with it. Most have to develop it
/r/seduction22/04/22 05:26 AM
28

Asking them what they’re celebrating is a good one that gets the convo flowing easy for me
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:49 PM
2

Try more statements and less questions. This way they have to pursue you or the convo dies. Girls who are interested will keep it going and next thing you know you’ll be on a date. You can set a flirty vibe with your first line, try to open with something in her pictures or profile versus just saying hi. Spice up convo by making fun of certain things but not touchy subjects, poke things she says and slightly make fun of her when you get the chance. Keep it short and mysterious, don’t double text…
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:35 PM
1

Ignore her texts. Focus on in person, girls in college have done this to me too and if you schedule something outside if class or directly after class they’ll come. That’s when you make your moves, then she’ll start texting you more when she’s more emotionally involved
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:50 PM
2

You’re simping if you’re asking, thinking way too much already
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:49 PM
4

You can always joke around with your job. Just think of something funny for it and say it non chalantly like it doesn’t bother you. If it bothers you it bothers them.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:48 PM
1

Tell her you want an open relationship or you can’t commit. She won’t want to sleep with other guys if she loves you and you come out winning. Now you can your girl can have 3somes and you don’t need to be ducking and dodging
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:22 PM
1

She has a lot of male friends, so if she’s telling you she has commitment issues she’s basically saying she’s promiscuous. So yes, I’d be money on her seeing other dudes casually. This is good for you because you dodged a bullet. What if she brought this up when you guys were dating? Now it’s a whole different deal. So I’d just wrap my willy and let things play out, be chill about it.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:19 PM
1

Friends and benefits
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:03 PM
0

Sometimes it’s a better approach to stop chasing tail and improve your life. Women will come when you level up
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:53 PM
3

Enough time and dedication and you’ll get good at anything. Congrats
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:00 AM
3

I get what you’re saying bro but there’s just so much he left out and he just made the account. He’s not replying to a lot of comments either. I want to see these stories because they show guys there’s hope but there’s just so much missing.
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:59 PM
2

I think he’s 🧢 but that’s true after a good 30 you just want to get rich and bang 10s🤣
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:52 PM
1

Improving in all those aspects takes years bro. Smashing 59 girls in the span of 2 years is possible but you probably wouldn’t start getting girls til like a year or further along in the process. Maybe you’re just a fkn stud, who knows. I did 20+ in the past 6-8 months and wasn’t only focused on chasing girls so I do think this is possible. It’s just something about your story doesn’t scream “I’m confident”, which I think is required to sleep with 59 women.
/r/seduction19/04/22 11:48 PM
2

Glad to help, eventually these will become second nature. After you get these down hone in in body language and your social skills will be fuego.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:08 PM
3

Facts!
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:26 AM
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Practice interacting every single day. Make small talk with cashier, mechanics, clerks and people in everyday situations. “Busy day?” “How’s the day going?” “Is it always this packed in here?” “You guys always busy at 4pm?” “Always get a burrito here but what do you recommend?” For those girls? “What are you celebrating tonight?” “Am I the only one who thinks this Dj sucks?” “Is it just me or is the music good here?” “What you drinking tonight?” Common misconception is that every convo has to be…
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:24 AM
1

Sadly, yes! Better photos and green text has a bad connotation. Younger people apple as better as well. Face time has it’s advantages too.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:41 AM
2

Level out the playing field bro. Not easy but when you learn you’ll be in another world compared to most guys. In this instance don’t take it too serious, you have just reversed it on her and been like oh so we’re just going to act like you weren’t checking me out” gave her a weird look and dipped. Don’t let them make you feel bad. Think to yourself, “goddamn somethings wrong with them for not wanting me” and go find another check.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:23 PM
3

I have read tons and I’ve honestly found youtube to be better. You get more viewpoints in less time. Test them and find out which ones you want to keep and which ones you want to toss based on your success.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:18 AM
1

It’s definitely true.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:14 AM
1

Get a hotter girl or tell her you want an open relationship. Don’t be a bitch and talk to other girls behind her back.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:13 AM
3

That’s what’s holding you back
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:08 AM
2

Develop your social skills, your style and hit the gym. You’re in college meet a bunch of people, get comfortable talking to girls. Hang out with people that have a lot of friends and also get women. Don’t think they don’t want you because you’re Indian. Just put in the work. Everyone is virtually attractive if they are confident have a decent body composition, well groomed and have good social status.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:03 AM
1

See might actually have a bf. If she’s feeling you though and giving you choosing signals then keep making moves. If she’s not even interested than dip.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:21 AM
1

It was going great but you asked for a date too quickly. Try chatting a little bit more and seeing what she’s about or just call her for a few mins, build rapport and ask if suggest y’all should hang out sometime. You just met so you don’t want to be too straightforward
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:27 PM
3

Find a new man you like.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:38 PM
2

Instagram is the ultimate dating app
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:45 AM
1

Yeah it’s okay but it’s no easy. If you’re asking if it’s ethical well that depends. You can just say you’re dating and you like taking things a bit slow before labeling them.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:26 PM
2

Not good to be considered harmless by a group of girls. You want them to respect you. Not just like you. Keep in mind girls don’t have the guy the really like in their friend group, gossiping and spilling all the beans to him. The two are a different dynamic. Being in the friend group can ruin the possibility of a romantic interests with that said girl since you can get friendzoned. If you’re too much of a pal they’ll say “I would but I don’t want to mess up our friend group.” Here’s what you ca…
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:27 PM
1

Most guys are a lot closer than they think! Don’t stop 3 feet from gold
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:44 PM
1

I agree with everything except live with girls. You’re going to be a soyboy drama queen
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:43 PM
1

This is what happens when you’re not afraid to make a move boys!
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:35 PM
1

THIS GUYS. This is called having living in abundance. Your life is good, you don’t need them they’re just an addition. Your girl should never be your world, just part of it.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:33 PM
2

Goated.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:02 PM
1

You just have loser friends. Friends should be competitors but be happy for you if you’re doing better than them. You’re better than your friends, get new ones
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:55 PM
2

Confidence is a mindset but it can either come naturally or it can come through accomplishments.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:34 AM
1

Confidence often comes from accomplishments. Girls will notice you if you’re well dressed and well groomed. This can definitely incite confidence
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:32 AM
1

Dressed better than everyone = more confidence
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:26 AM
1

Cap😂
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:26 AM
6

Matters all the time playa
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:20 AM
1

Having good style gets you more looks, girls love a dude who takes care of himself and can dress. Shows your more than just the average male. Also you get a certain swagger from it, highly recommended honing in on style and grooming
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:15 AM
2

Dm me champ, I’ll show you da way
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:53 AM
1

Not sure if it increases testosterone but I noticed my libido is always way higher when I’m consistently hitting the gym versus not. Plus once you get a decent frame you’ll get more attention from females
/r/seduction15/04/22 10:07 PM
1

Your testosterone might be low. But dude once you have sex you’ll probably get that libido back. Sounds like you’re somewhat sociable and have a head on your shoulders, you really haven’t had sex?
/r/seduction15/04/22 10:03 PM
1

You probably don’t have sex and are reverting back to your virgin state. No but in all seriousness you need to talk to hotter girls. Maybe you’re comfortable with low attraction in 6s and 7s
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:42 PM
1

I just make them pursue me. I’m not going to try to reschedule after your cat died or some bs excuse. If it was a genuine excuse they’ll reach out to you ask when you guys are going out.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:37 PM
2

Perfect. What’s worked in developing more attraction for me is posting stories doing fun stuff. It allows them to see I’ll have fun with or without them. Her seeing this in combination with you not messaging her in those 4+ days will show her you’re not needy and can have fun on you’re own. But since she is on that camping trip who knows if she’ll have service. Still recommend it though
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:54 AM
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It seems like she’s basically making you qualify for her. Not sure if you’re looking for advice but I’d try to make it the other way around. On the date say things like if you’re trying to qualify her. Seems like you can still do this but just don’t fall in the trap of wanting to fit into every description she fits for her ideal partner. Joke about not working and stuff like that works well. Also does she have you on social media?
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:46 AM
1

Take her out for froyo and then the beach if you have something like that close to you if not a simple look out will do. Smash in the whip.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:39 AM
2

Have you ever heard of girls like to have fun? More guys at 35 have their shit together which means more cars, boats, trips and FUN for them. This is the social media age bro
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:00 AM
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USA but I’d say it’s relatively easier everywhere due to social media and feminism
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:57 AM
2

Learning from rejection and mistakes and then correcting them brings confidence. You won’t naturally adapt, have someone who know wtf they’re doing help you or figure out what went wring
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:38 AM
1

Yeah dude you just need an exciting life outside of work. Use that interesting life to take good pics. Use those good pics to maximize options on dating apps and social media. Set up dates for the weekend. Obviously you have to work on yourself and develop areas you’re lacking. Body, social skills, game and etc. Depends on age honestly but I’d say this strategy would work for all.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:37 PM
2

Nah won’t work. Tried and tested. Might not be that bad and you could get away with it bit it will never be the same. I’d do it anyways though
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:21 PM
1

They don’t gaf, be a gentleman to her and she might actually try to get in on the action too.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:40 PM
3

They sound like wussies. Hang out with hitters, you need people who are like minded. If your friends pull you’re going to end up pulling, if they don’t then you won’t 🤷🏽‍♂️ Social media has made it so that a lot of status and lifestyle is involved in dating. These fat guys with hot girls may not be great looking but they can take her to the Maldives for some instagram pics. They still lose out against attractive guys that also have status.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:53 PM
2

She’s going to say no, she wears the pants obviously. It’s too late bro. If you’re ambitious now, and she’s mega leftist, doubt it will work if you been in compliance with what she believes. Lives to short to let your life run yours, follow your dreams mate even if it seems “unethical”
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:24 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:17 PM
1

THIS! Get a killer profile and you’ll pull forsure, but if not you’ll have to get her number.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:22 AM
1

FACTS
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:54 AM
1

Cause most guys don’t get any girls, so once they get one or get any attention they lose their shit and put them on a pedestal. That’s why girls can tell when a guy has options
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:15 AM
2

Know a lot of girl who show me their DMs on Instagram and their tinder and bumble. So many messages and matches. Some of them aren’t as attractive either. A story one of my friends told me is that she met with some guy and he got super drunk on the date and started making a scene at dinner and got arrested. So the girl had to find a ride home🤣 Basically they told me they met a lot of cool guys but they’re careful because some can be creeps and all that. Edit: sorry I’m not a girl this is what my…
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:01 AM
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Nothing bro, you leave. Because there are millions of people. If she doesn’t respond she saw it and doesn’t care
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:56 AM
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