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| 1 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?Everyone's gone through horrible crap. You're not special. You're selfish. Nothing I say can change you, but I sincerely hope you take a good look inward at yourself and decide to be better. And by the way, manipulating people into giving you affection will never lead to lasting happiness. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?Yep, it can be successful for sure, if you're willing to risk emotionally destroying someone. It just makes you a horrible human being. That will hurt you in the long run. Show some respect for the people around you like a decent person, don't act like such a vomitous mass. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?My advice? Don't be a manipulative, heartless jerk. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?You have a disgusting attitude, I hope you're aware of that | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:09 AM |
| 2 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?Wow. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s weird that I’m a young guy who has no interest or desire for sex?Sounds like youre just asexual | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 01:16 AM |
| – | Girl can't meet after 5pm? TINDER.Lots of bitter guys in this sub, holy crud. Why do you care enough about this woman's personal life to accuse her of being a slut? | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 06:05 AM |
| 7 | What Was I Afraid Of?Ok I'm an idiot but I've never understood. Why would anyone get angry at someone for dating their sibling? What's wrong with my best friend dating my sister? | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...How do you not do this | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I [19M] officially asked out the girl [20F] I've liked for the past 6 years! Now what do I do?So don't apologize for taking so long? I have social anxiety so a script always seems easiest, but yeah I guess it's pretty dumb | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Second date with girl and still haven’t kissedHave you tried just saying "wait"? End of the date, middle of her sentence, it works any time for instantly creating the moment you need | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Invited shy girl in bedroom, then what?What do you do when your comfort game is overpoweringly strong? | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 02:29 AM |
| 11 | Female needs male advice on how to subtly hit on manHonestly this is all it takes, please do it | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm [19M] in what is most likely a perfect place to make a move on the girl [20F] I like, but I'm afraid I'll chicken out. Help?I know she won't wait when I haven't pulled my weight. I'm here trying to figure out how to fix that correctly. But I don't want to overdo it. If I come on too strong, I have no idea how she'd react, so I don't want to go all out all of the sudden. I think a nice night and a simple move would be a great start. After obviously some flirting to work our way up again. I'm sure she doesn't feel as strongly about me as I do about her, though she had been less scared to show it. A full on romantic and… | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm [19M] in what is most likely a perfect place to make a move on the girl [20F] I like, but I'm afraid I'll chicken out. Help?I like this, but I'm worried it's too similar to what I've always been doing. I feel like I've kept her waiting long enough by now, if that makes any sense | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 07:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm [19M] in what is most likely a perfect place to make a move on the girl [20F] I like, but I'm afraid I'll chicken out. Help?I'm trying to be willing to go as far as a regular kiss. Neither of us are looking for sex for religions reasons. As for the cheesy and slightly less intimate stuff, I'd do anything if I knew she'd appreciate it. I want to tell her how much I want to just hold her and have her near me, how I feel about her and how much I love every moment I'm around her, how my favorite memory is the one where she got scared watching a creepy video and wouldn't let go of my side, but none of that seems like stuf… | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm [19M] in what is most likely a perfect place to make a move on the girl [20F] I like, but I'm afraid I'll chicken out. Help?Every time that moment comes up, I chicken out and I kill it. I'm asking for help with changing and growing a pair | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 12:34 AM |
| 5 | I'm [19M] in what is most likely a perfect place to make a move on the girl [20F] I like, but I'm afraid I'll chicken out. Help?She has given me so many hints, you wouldn't believe it. The only issue is I don't know if she's single like she was 3 weeks ago. And the main one that I don't expect people to really understand, that I am just having trouble switching mindsets into being intentionally intimate. I've never had real intent, but I know if I could, I'd get my first kiss, 85% sure. It's actually closer to like 97% but I'm not one for being overly optimistic. I'm not afraid of getting rejected. I doubt it would happe… | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan?Yeah I mean, the girl and I have done lots of stuff just short of star gazing, but years ago. At a birthday party, for example, we say on a trampoline against the net, and she was all but resting her head on my bony shoulder. But that was years ago and I realize I should build up to it again. As for your questions, we are in Gilbert Arizona, both still living with our parents. We're both religious, so sex is not either of our goals. I like just chilling with people, watching movies and hanging o… | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:42 AM |
| 2 | I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan?You're a beautiful person, thanks for your help. I'm definitely gonna take your advice. How did you get this good at this?? | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan?Thanks, I'm glad I posted here first. Would a park be better? As for making excuses for years, I have. I'm trying to fix that now, and if you look at my other comment, it will clear up what I'm talking about. Judging by your format, we chatted a few days ago. I'm trying to take your advice, but I obviously have no idea what I'm doing. I will not be making any moves at my house, not for a long long time. I live with my parents and 4 of my siblings. So that's not happening. I was hoping the star g… | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan?I've got plenty of reasons to think she's interested. Or at least she was. I could make her laugh so hard she snorted. She would always follow up with "I love you" or "you're my favorite". As a friend group, we watched a scary video once, and she clung to my side for several minutes. Later that night she pretty much rested her head on my shoulder. We'd go to the park and she'd always 'accidentally' put her hand on my hand and say "J____! Are you trying to hold my hand?" and I'd laugh it off each… | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan?Man if it's taken me 5 years (she's had her own relationships and there were times I hadn't seen her for months) to decide to make a move, I'm not gonna be able to do anything I didn't spend more than a few days psyching myself up for | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding relationships for the rest of my life. Bad idea?I don't know you and I don't know what I've been through or what you're looking for, but I would avoid making a decision or that till my 40s or 50s, since I've always seen a happy relationship as one of my top life goals | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding relationships for the rest of my life. Bad idea?It's super early for a decision like that | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | A girl [19F] I [18M] went out with twice told me she's sorry for chickening out earlier and that I'm free to ask her out again. I don't feel like I should when I'm still hung up on my friend [20F] of five years, who doesn't know how I feel.I've thought about very little more than this comment since you posted it. You're right. I need to find some time with her and make a real move. If I'm any judge of signals, that's what she's been waiting for for 5 years. I've always tried to stay in the friend zone cause it's quiet and comfortable, but I gotta stop contradicting myself. I want this girl, so I've gotta step up and get her, the right way. I'm ready to grow up, I just hope I can do things right when we actually meet again. | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | A girl [19F] I [18M] went out with twice told me she's sorry for chickening out earlier and that I'm free to ask her out again. I don't feel like I should when I'm still hung up on my friend [20F] of five years, who doesn't know how I feel.1 I don't have the nerve yet to make a real move. I just have too much anxiety for that. I feel like I could be honest over text in a way that wouldn't end up being awkward. In the past, it was just little things. I'd make her laugh, she'd say she loves me, I took it as a joke, I'd move on. She would also say I was her favorite, in similar situations. Once, I said that to her, and she said "Aw, am I really your favorite?" and I said she was one of my favorite friends. That stuff happened somewha… | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 05:34 AM |
| 0 | A girl [19F] I [18M] went out with twice told me she's sorry for chickening out earlier and that I'm free to ask her out again. I don't feel like I should when I'm still hung up on my friend [20F] of five years, who doesn't know how I feel.No, she really isn't. She knows nothing about A, and she's been stressing over paying for converge and other decisions she has to be making. I totally understand what's going on with her | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I [18M] tell her [19F] we should try again later?Nah, sex isn't the goal for either of us here, I'm 100% positive of that. I've built a house in the friendzone, but now I don't know how to leave it. Well I guess I do, but it's out of my comfort zone to do so. Any time tension arises, I kill it instantly because I've never had the need to do anything else. I know that if I really wanted to build tension and escalate, even just to kissing, I could, I just can't bring myself to do it. At least not with this girl yet. I've met tons of girls who ar… | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I [18M] tell her [19F] we should try again later?Could you elaborate? I can't tell if you're telling me to ease up or if you're asking whether I actually need more than one message to plan things. Things with her go better if I have her help plan, so I do need more than 1 message for that | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | So I recently realized I friendzoned my crush.Haha that reminds me of an ancient Julian Smith video where he talks about the Facebook "Rate my Friends" app | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:10 AM |
| 2 | So I recently realized I friendzoned my crush.I might as well have said that tbh | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | A stop to line cutting.Happy cake day | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/12/14 09:19 PM |
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