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Agree with u/_aroo but I like this more in detail description by u/neoreactionsafe All social hierarchy is based on up or down communication. If you see an opportunity to climb up you Charm (understand your target and manipulate them by giving them what they like) that person which triggers the instinctive down reaction where they feel Love towards you and give you advantages. Win friends, influence people. Then when you climb high enough a woman notices and Charms you. ...the process goes aroun…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 08:29 PM
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Alphas are men who make their own decisions on their own terms, and confidently pursue the endeavors that matter to them Agree. And in fact, this very rebellious nature is what turns women on. While few among these rebellious alphas end up doing something that adds value to the society many end up being messed, probably behind bars.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 08:23 PM
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Aunt Sue quotes a few here Study after study has demonstrated the erotic appeal of male dominance. Women prefer the voices of dominant men, the scent of dominant men, the movement and gait of dominant men, and the facial features of dominant men…Scientists believe that the ventrolateral prefrontal cortex may be responsible for processing cues indicating social status or dominance, and it appears that almost all female brains are susceptible to dominance cues.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 07:58 PM
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Can you ELI5 or at least mention some preliminary materials that i should know to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 01:47 AM
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To some extent this style thing matters, it depends on the woman's race/culture, age, the location of pickup(bar or campus or library) and there by the logistics and more importantly our own end goals, whether SNL or LTR or whatever, So, on one level we have Day game, Night game and then we have Direct game, Indirect game. Basically, it all boils down to social calibration and frame control.
/r/seduction11/06/15 05:44 AM
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As a man, i spend most of my time and energy on my mission, Mission which has nothing to do with women. I develop the skills necessary and work towards the goal. Now, what if the present-ability of my skills so developed is constrained. See, its easy for a man who is an artist and whose primary mission is say music or painting or poetry or Humor than a man whose mission is to develop highly evolved defense systems whose functionality not many can understand and besides whose matters are supposed…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:53 AM
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The goal has always been(at least to me) to make the other person talk, To open them up. This is done by questions...questions that are disguised as statement will also do.
/r/seduction18/05/15 03:03 PM
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Benefit or burden? Attraction in cross-sex friendship Research paper from University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire, USA ABSTRACT: We propose that, because cross-sex friendships are a historically recent phenomenon,men’s and women’s evolved mating strategies impinge on their friendship experiences. In our first study involving pairs of friends, emerging adult males reported more attraction to their friend than emerging adult females did, regardless of their own or their friend’s current relationship st…
/r/seduction19/04/15 07:21 AM
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Downloading works!!! Got some job..Will report back once i go through the material... Thank you..Looks like you have put lots of time into it.
/r/seduction15/02/15 05:26 PM
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DO NOT enquire personal details...Besides the goal is to make her smile, amaze and what not..The goal is to take her on an emotional ride through your words and make her feel the pleasurable life you have of which she can be part of. The goal is to seduce not to profile.
/r/seduction10/02/15 03:26 PM
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Unconditional love is a myth, That was the most disturbing but yet most useful lesson i learned from TRP.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:23 PM
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Voltaire says it best "It is not enough to conquer; one must learn to seduce. "
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:07 PM
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You don't pass shit test question by answering with LOGIC, because it's not about LOGIC, but frame. Firstly, I am not concerned about passing her shit tests for the record I am the one who tests and qualifies her. Second, You should read my post clearly i said Again, we may not verbalize the answer but can radiate it through our body language, which women pick up. Read my reply to u/RedHeimdall where i have posted(pasted!) much clearer explanation of the concept by yareally, The Frame Statements…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:05 AM
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“I don’t care what people think”. My shell is “I don’t care what people think”. So when I wear a fuzzy hat or a pink shirt or an Armani suit to a dive bar, I’m signaling that. But if someone teases me about my outfit or I get socially pressured to change it, my next action determines whether I’m congruent. If I laugh it off and continue to fully believe what I’m wearing is awesome, I’m congruent to that shell. If I get self-conscious and my state drops or I run home to change my clothes, I’m not…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:51 AM
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Spot on.
/r/seduction18/12/14 06:22 AM
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Human relationships in general are things that are bargained. True and that is the reason i said we should approach with “You should talk to me because you are ....” rather than “You should talk to me because I am...........” That way people can see that it is profitable to them, "Make it relevant to the target" is what i can offer you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:17 AM
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II. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s int…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:07 AM
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And this one. Doctor Destiny: You know, I could let you go. You're a distraction now. And as the others who have the real problems. We're like insects to them. They step on us, ruin our lives. And they don't even realise it. But you're different. You don't have any special powers. Batman: Oh, I have one, Johnny: I never give up. -Justice League
/r/seduction05/09/14 02:05 AM
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Do watch from the beginning its just 3:25 long.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:30 AM
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I've #-closed and both girls didn't respond to my texts A girl flakes if you don't build enough comfort or rapport And if you don't make her to make some emotional investment (or decision) during your very first meet. At the end of the video Todd clearly explains what comfort is? (Not feeling discomfort!) and how to connect emotionally.
/r/seduction27/07/14 01:22 AM
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Definitely check out from 1h40m to the end for the Hooking part . Believe me its worth it.
/r/seduction27/07/14 12:58 AM
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Thanks to Yareally for this TL;DR His Hooking Model is “FRED”: Focus (getting her attention fully on you) Relevance (making what you’re saying relevant to her life or something interesting to her, in a positive (value, like teaching her something relating something to her life talking about her, etc.) OR negative (threat, like teasing negs dominant talk causing drama etc.) way) Emotion (getting her emotionally invested/reacting, good or bad) Decision (forcing her to make a decision to stick arou…
/r/seduction27/07/14 12:53 AM
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Your education your pace, bro. If you don't mind, Just make sure you Give your 100%. All the best.
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:06 PM
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How can confidence be fake? To me, Being Fake-ingly Confident = Being courageous To enter a dark cave for the first time we need Courage. To do it a second time we need confidence and we develop that confidence by being courageous and entering the cave the very first time. We cant be confident the very first time while entering the cave, we need to be Courageous or as some people like to call act confident Confidence= mental strength + Knowledge Courage = fake confidence = Mental strength withou…
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:55 PM
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Agree. what's the point of sticking with a long term goal just for the sake of it? There is no point in it, in fact there is trouble, with that regards you might be interested in Why Self-Discipline Is Overrated: The (Troubling) Theory and Practice of Control from Within
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:35 PM
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That metaphor drew the point home. I love metaphors.
/r/seduction17/06/14 04:42 AM
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Beyond Words by Lovesystems If you don't mind texts, here are few I recommend What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People Some of the common beta body language mistakes I see guys making: Walking over to the girl too quickly Doing everything too fast Being too stiff Closed body language Holding drinks too high Adjusting himself Leaning in (pecking) Weak eye contact High pitched, incessant fast talking Beta body positioning Poor stance Poor sitting Showing his palms…
/r/seduction17/06/14 04:32 AM
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How to be a beta in attitude is basically what this is.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:34 PM
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association with TIME website .. Or I didn't word the title to make it interesting enough. FBI in title, TIME link, made all the difference. good example for Persuasion in action.
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:30 PM
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4) Ask for help Is based upon FITD technique and Benjamin Franklin effect Foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique is a compliance tactic that involves getting a person to agree to a large request by first setting them up by having that person agree to a modest request. On your argument of asking for an Unearned Favor They have not stated it explicitly but the tactic is to start with Modest favor ((Naturally)Earned favor). Modest favor is something we are ready to do to a complete stranger. It might be…
/r/seduction09/06/14 05:21 PM
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And don't forget to go through Related readings given at the end of the article.
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:20 PM
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Take your time and read, The thread below does help.... Tread the fine line Play to your strengths 3. Go where you're comfortable
/r/seduction09/06/14 11:55 AM
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as Rapport ≠ Attraction (rapport does not equal attraction a lot of times) True. Also, Rapport is essential to escalate successfuly without triggering her bitch shield or ASD
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:11 AM
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Mystery Method “One of the most admired men in the world of seduction” (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women For every man who ... Google Books
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:01 AM
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For me, the '10) Managing Your Own Expectation' is the BIG thing. And 1) Establish false time constraint; was taught by Mystery way back. Sure MM is still Sed Bible
/r/seduction08/06/14 05:20 PM
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Show me one study, even one you've conducted that shows that. I have no data to show that; But those who are more concerned about their number of lays or notches, about her Rating etc are definitely that kind of people and one could find many such in PUA forums.
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:20 AM
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Not a study; but a PUA day game guru Krauser
/r/seduction05/06/14 08:05 AM
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Oedipus Complex! You Misread it. Or may be I didn't express correctly(Language problem) When i said love, that means to my girlfriend not to my mom. I was saying just as i can't think of any other women in my mom's place, I could not think of some one else in my gf place. thats it
/r/seduction05/06/14 07:00 AM
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Awsome!!! LOL
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:30 PM
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Do not force a conversation topic. thats being said. If i were to suggest my hypothetical son an activity to engage in his spare time, it would be "Sports betting".* What weight training does for muscles, diligent betting does for emotional-self. It teaches you what it means be uncertain and risk taking It demands emotional self control; Getting greedy or being afraid are steps to disaster. off course I hate gambling. *How you do bet determines whether you are gambling or Investing.
/r/seduction04/06/14 02:11 PM
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Action-PASSIVE TIME -Reaction Agility training reduces the amount of Passive Time, true for both physical and mental movements(quick wittedness(Opening)). How could one train for situations that are "randomest" and unexpected? You said it; Opportunities happen in the most "randomest" and "unexpected moments"; True. But also realize that the Opportunities themselves are not Unexpected and random-est, meaning, The "woman walking beside me and my bicycle, a car zooms past the "walk only" intersecti…
/r/seduction31/05/14 02:01 PM
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a zillion ways to fail, and resolving to avoid the mistake that you did in the first time doesn’t shield you from making another one. ... “I suddenly realized that the right method, at least for me, was to look for the thing that worked and for the people who perform. I realized that I, at least, do not learn from mistakes. I have to learn from successes.” This is the reason why they advice us to hang out with Naturals and Pros. There is no need to earn those embarrassing Reference experiences t…
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:44 PM
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I prefer this wording; That woman was sexy…Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won’t screw you, don’t do it for them. From here
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:30 PM
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Every time I do something wrong, I don't know why but I hear "I told you this was not the right thing to do. You should have done like that instead" in my head. I think may be its because, every move we make w.r.t game is a decision making process, meaning choosing one move over the other and since we had options, we just fool ourselves like we actually really understood what was the right thing to do while it was just that we knew the option. So, you get this feeling that you didn't perform you…
/r/seduction27/05/14 03:48 PM
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Agree. But what goes wrong with me is that when I find out that these Hunting, Rock climbing, ...etc.,skills do have that "Novice to Expert" scale in them, I start to Work rather than Enjoy. Outcome dependancy breaks in. Though I started those habits for my own amusement. I just can't stop myself getting into Rat race; Any suggestion/remedy on this matter??
/r/seduction27/05/14 11:42 AM
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You might be looking for some serious academic study or research on this matter, I haven't come across them, except this BBC and their documentary and few videos on Youtube. However I do consider this Bro-science(Subjective science, whatever) somewhat valuable. At the start of the comment he tells that there are things that grab a woman's attention and how we confuse them with things that do create attraction. It's really worth reading A woman will fuck a lot of guys she won’t date. I’m talking …
/r/seduction27/05/14 11:17 AM
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Is confidence an outcome of validating external factors, or is it an internal mindset that creates its own validation? Internal Mindset. If you attribute value to money, and obtain a lot of money, then demonstrate confidence from that, it may seem like the money is the cause of attraction you get but it’s not, it’s the confidence the money gives you. Someone who doesn’t put value on money won’t get the same confidence boost from it. And that’s fine, as long as you have money, you’ll be confident…
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:51 AM
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The Darkness in their so called "Dark Triad" is not all that Dark actually Narcissism = higher value in yourself…taking women off the pedestal Machiavellianism = pretty much game…using women’s nature to get what you want Psychopathy = aloof and unconcerned when a woman gets flighty with her emotions You don’t need to turn into a serial killer to get women…just understand these personality traits do have some benefit to your personality. Here
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:35 AM
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They call it Dark triad/tetrad Here, I digged it for you, enjoy. 1.Dark Personalities Get The Girl 2.Why Are Men With Dark Triad Personalities So Irresistible To Women? 3.The Dark Tetrad
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:16 AM
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Simply stated This attitude is what women are attracted to. The attitude dictates that you don’t care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin’. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude. from Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Few call it "Abundance mentality" few call it "Confidence", few more as "Being Jerk" , "Narcissistic Self esteem", " Aloof Alpha Attitude" etc.,
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:04 AM
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What women find attractive in man? Found on Reddit's own r/Askwomen This is what they said I was going to write about how for me once I like a guy's personality I become attracted to their body because the body belongs to the guy I really like, so therefore I like it. To phrase it more eloquently I'm going to borrow a quote from Dr. Who: "You know when sometimes you meet someone so beautiful and then you actually talk to them and five minutes later they’re as dull as a brick? Then there’s other …
/r/seduction27/05/14 09:58 AM
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So is it really about confidence or is it about going with what works? Thought experiment: Imagine you are talking with your best buddy(Who understands your humor and tells you jokes) in side a glasshouse. Your friend is facing you behind him is the glass on the other side of which are the people watching you both. The bud tells you a Joke and you smile, laugh... Will the people on the other side of the glass smile? If yes, What does it mean.?
/r/seduction24/05/14 06:51 AM
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I think of it as more like a distilled Field report. The point of Field reports and theories/hypothesis are to tweak/learn Game strategies to be effective, so I don't mind with such posts and theories, since they offer a different view of reality. Ultimately we have to check out everything in field for their accuracy.
/r/seduction24/05/14 02:43 AM
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This reminded me of 'If' by Rudyard Kipling If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; ...... If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; IF-
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:53 PM
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Check this out, I got few more ideas coming out for you; Below is a comment made by yareally in heartiste site. “How do you build these quick connections with random people?” Juggler’s Method was probably the best for learning this. (I’m not sure if this is Juggler’s actual book, or just some guy’s summary of the method, but either way Juggler doesn’t seem to be selling the book anymore so this is the only way to access this VERY useful/important comfort/social-vibing technique information): htt…
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:14 PM
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The goal is to convey value without drying out their interest. If the other person is not interested in what you are saying even though if it were for just few minutes it feel like hours of gibberish to them. However if you said something thats interesting to them and even though you just took few seconds to utter those words, they will remember it longtime. and their you have earned a connection Its not the duration of conversation it's the intensity. Make sure your conversations are Situationa…
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:32 AM
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you got this thing right social capital, Alpha traits does not act like currency.. I am not sure you got this thing right. It doesn't matter whether the girl has Social capital or not, it doesn't matter whether she stays with you or nor. You will be alpha, you are the prize. Confidence is the better word, that's the currency we use in our transaction with the opposite sex (i guess Social capital/Alpha traits doesn't completely capture the essence of being Alpha) we radiate/invest our Confidence …
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:01 AM
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I don't know how relevant the message in this pic is going to be to your situation, it felt i should post. so... This guy has such an impact on someone elses life without saying a word
/r/seduction23/05/14 02:34 AM
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No Its not part of Nicks book, the mission thing is my advice inspired from the the Third commandment of poon which is one of the Sixteen commandments of poon. Visit The sixteen commandments of poon by heartiste
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:24 AM
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Challenges are nothing more than activities that demand Learning from your side. Chores are something you do with in a day. Challenges take time, Rome was not built in a day but it was built enough in a day that it generated confidence among its creators that it was going to be the Rome one day. How to make Every day of our life an adventure? Start a project Example projects: Starting a local business, rewriting textbooks , Learning foreign languages, Building Guns, RC Planes, computers, Creatin…
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:46 AM
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III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s in…
/r/seduction15/05/14 05:00 PM
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This thread might help too
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:07 PM
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The reason game sounds like a lot of effort has to do with the nature of describing subtle human interactions in print form. In the real world, these moves occur in millisecond bursts, and hardly take any energy at all. When you have internalized how to behave and speak with women, you spend no more energy seducing them than you would brushing your teeth. And it feels like even less energy expended, because you’re having fun. Complete post The Myth Of Effortful Game
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:03 PM
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Hmm, The importance of Questions, I came across this comic few years ago which essentially values questions over answers and I am pretty convinced about it.Treasuring question is worth it. few comments from the comic It's just that i would never trade a question for an answer. The only way a question can prove itself unworthy is by attracting a better question. Check out the comic A day at the park by kiriakakis
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:59 PM
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writing takes time for me, I do lot of mistakes. I wanted to say that, You will never catch a cat by running behind it, learn what it needs, arrange it and then watch the Show happen. There are many things similar to a cat, first among them is Women(love), next comes Money. Ensure you have what they need, they will come to you as if it were fate. Cat needs milk, earn it, Get on to your bed with that bowl of milk you earned. The cat will come to you so will women(love), money. Its literally milk …
/r/seduction15/05/14 05:18 AM
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You need to know two things Elderly Opener Vibing Roosh V in his book 'Day bang' writes about Elderly Opener, where you start conversating with strangers about topics like pens, books, laptop, their dress etc., whatever the other person is having and you are curious about. Doing this you won't look creepy to them and you could be comfortable too. Vibing, this concept is exclusively discussed in Nick Krauser day game book. Vibing is undirected, free-associating conversation in which the man and w…
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:57 AM
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well, That's how you sound if English were your Fourth language!!
/r/seduction15/05/14 04:46 AM
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Both investment analogies (paying in pennies or big silver coins) suck; check this out. CAT=Women MILK=Social status, Confidence, Dominance, Humor, wit, money, looks, Preselection, Risk taking and Empathetic behavior etc, etc.,, Day one: You + Milk=Cat >>Gets you the cat, thus at the end of the day You + Cat + Milk Day two You + Cat; (No milk, cat drank it) Day three You (single) No milk No cat. If you are Alpha, You know the limitation of above analogy; Beta takes it parallel word to word, sees…
/r/seduction14/05/14 01:03 PM
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Yes it's a matter of practice. Practice, where you undertake progressive challenges (moving on to next smart hot and challenging chick like we move on to next higher level in a computer game which is interesting and fun but not overwhelming) Right kind of practice involves gaming a girl who is challenging and en-lightning at the same time. Practice with overwhelming or boring girls takes us nowhere and our possibility of securing prize with them is outright minimal.
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:54 AM
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I don't know how to modify them to get what I want, without closing myself off. Know what I mean? This is called Conscious competence, you are aware of the fact that you are Closing yourself off. Once you are truly Alpha you reach your Unconscious competence. you could demonstrate your flourish of a scoundrel(look at my reply to mindfully_liberated) without effort and then you will fall in love, True love will happen. Gaming is all about making yourself immune to False love, to which betas succu…
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:02 PM
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Well, this is want he meant; (trying a different iteration to get closer to his intention) A lot of seducers mistakenly think that love is a garnish to the main course of pursuing and winning the hearts of women. It’s fine to be calculating about the pick up, and the dating, and even the relationship management, but attempting to corral as thermonuclear an emotion as love is only going to light the fuse on the bomb. They put all this effort into bedding her and making her fall for them that they…
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:52 PM
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