HtownTheory Archive

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2	Hesitation and shyness Well the first thing is to make sure you have an opening line ready. Like "Hey, I know this is a bit random, but I really liked your smile on the train and I had to say hi". It can be any direct compliment but if it is day game make sure to say the "I know this is a bit random". Getting your opener within a few seconds of going up to her helps break the anxiety loop. If you can't do that then you could try progressive desensitization. Like start with going up to girls you think are attractive an…	/r/seduction	11/10/25 04:39 PM
1	How to talk to one girl in a room full of people I mainly approach women in bars/clubs, I dont know where you are going Sunday, so my advice might change depending on that: " If I have one shot I don't want to waste it" That mindset is the problem because you are putting too much pressure on yourself. I assume the place you are going to is going to have multiple women you are interested in. Go with a direct approach (ex. I think you look attractive/nice). You need to get into the mindset of "As long as I approach, thats a win because it will m…	/r/seduction	11/10/25 06:27 AM
1	Hesitation and shyness We probably need more context. Like how often do you try? Where are you doing these approaches: nightgame or daygame?	/r/seduction	11/10/25 06:09 AM