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Ah, well then we think about those things differently, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:57 PM
5

That isn’t the question, how would you feel about it if it happened to you? Just give an answer instead of these weird copouts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:31 PM
7

No, a sportsbra is not the same thing, something like a “vagina tightener” would be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:15 PM
5

Like another commenter said, sexual compatibility is a must, so the sleeve would be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:12 PM
3

A penis sleeve, would be the same as something that for example makes your boobs bigger (a boob sleeve?) or a hip sleeve or something. Maybe even something that makes a vagina tighter or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:53 PM
1

Okay so I’m kind of done, so I’ll give you the last word honestly this time. I mean, you went back 34 days, like damn. That takes dedication
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:52 PM
1

Again, arguing is fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:26 PM
1

I just find it funny you know, most people who don’t get any, start talking about how others don’t get any. I was like that back then too, no shame in being a virgin bud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:05 PM
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When did I say I was tall lol, prime projection from you my friend. It is honestly so funny that from all these comments I can see exactly what you’re insecure about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:45 PM
1

34 days ago, you went deep into post history damn. Did I really get you that riled up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:12 PM
3

Ah, a bit like never getting over your first love etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:12 PM
3

What is “being alpha widowed”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:47 AM
1

Damn, thats a weird comment to make if you take away the context
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:50 AM
1

But only maybe 2 out of a dozen confirmed your “suspicion”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:29 AM
1

Why ask then🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:06 AM
1

Lol everyone denied it, one person confirms it and you’re like “I knew it” You weren’t going to change your mind in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:00 AM
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ESTP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:13 PM
10

Yeah, and please do something you actually like. People will see right through you if you only come for the women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:05 PM
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Or just, maybe not looking at my own experiences and my friends or families experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:53 PM
3

Look at the pictures, if there isn’t anything interesting there then just don’t message
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Even OLD isn’t nearly as shallow in my experiences than it is portrayed here, do some users live in another reality or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:38 PM
17

Oh no, our secrets have been revealed!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:37 PM
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Orrr…. That won’t happen because irl isn’t the internet. Also I am in the age group that doesn’t have resources (college aged)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:37 PM
1

Then date your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:24 PM
5

We were talking about social circle game right? I see it happen very often, friends, family etc. They can’t be all chads right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:17 PM
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Nope, still see this happen many times irl, family, friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:15 PM
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I mean, I can’t speak of experience because I am not that old yet, but I know that my parents still talked to all their friends even when married. And other people older then me have this too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:13 PM
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I have seen it happen, many, many times. You meet through social circle and boom they’re a pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:02 PM
7

Lol, then either there are many, many more chads then PPD likes to say or you are just lying (at least in my experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:01 PM
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Why though? If this keeps happening to you, then maybe you are at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:00 PM
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Social circles aren’t only good for finding women. Even friends and company is good for you to step out of loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:58 PM
2

Because there are other qualities in life then looks or money (Also is everyone IRL a chad then? I see so many people dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:41 PM
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Its not even “men” who are not getting it, its the chronically online men who have never even talked to a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:04 AM
3

most women would say 10/10 No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:54 AM
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Don’t wait to long with asking someone on a date, don’t let it “come to you” (not gonna happen).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:52 AM
6

Cool opinion, don’t cry when someone asks for you to be snipped then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:10 AM
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You are really saying this while also saying abortion should be illegal, you don’t get to have an opinion on this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:02 AM
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Outside the internet I know very, very few people who have trouble making friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:53 AM
1

Bruh both of you are right, halo effect definitely matters but not forever, after a week or 2 it doesn’t matter anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:51 AM
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They think every guy is as shallow as they are, makes them feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:55 PM
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Well if you constantly get ghosted or stood up, you are doing something wrong, either the messages you send, your looks eventually etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:43 PM
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Huh weird, I know way to many men in the top 20% then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:40 PM
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How though, looks is what reels you in first yes, but it isn’t the main reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:39 PM
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There is a difference between thinking “I’d hit that” and “I’m only with you because you look good”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:33 PM
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Because that is just not what happens, IRL no man is 99% with someone for their physical appearance. It is definitely part of it but just not all there is to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:31 PM
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So because someone wants a woman for more than just physical appearance they are low test? What is that logic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:30 PM
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In a relationship sense? Friendliness sense? How exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:21 PM
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Every woman or just some? Because if that many women or every women stood him up, then he’s the common denominator and something could be wrong with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:21 PM
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Good that I don’t need to change anything then😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:01 PM
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Being horny is a bit different then feeling sick, having cramps etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:01 PM
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Already am so no luck needed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah i’d rather be myself and pull women that way then faking my whole being
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:01 PM
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Yeah and? You want a fuckbuddy or someone you can spent your time with, different things work. I wouldn’t want to spend my time with someone while faking my whole personality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:58 PM
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Someone who actually loves you for who you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:33 PM
1

That way vetting will become very hard for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:28 PM
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Depends on what you want, you want ONS? Go do that, but for relations it wont work because your personality will leak out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:12 PM
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No, but don’t expect to turn into a chad suddenly. And do it for yourself, not for other women, so yeah the first commenter was right with that it is a bit simpy ic you do it to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:54 AM
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Natural selection, if you somehow can’t attract a single woman, they aren’t the problem, YOU are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:56 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:28 AM
1

If both isn’t an option then the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:16 AM
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Because sex and love can be seperated. Sex without love and sex with love are two whole different worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:40 PM
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People judging people for normal ass choices have the smallest dick energy though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:16 PM
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Nah she can want whatever she wants, no one is going to give it to her though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:16 PM
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No because part of cuckoldry is that the man doesn’t get anything at all, while swingers fuck and suck eachother all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:15 PM
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Isn’t masochism physical pain? Not whatever the fuck cucking is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:14 PM
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Its the same type of non-advice as “pick better men”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:06 PM
2

Yeah just like “not everyone” dates people because they’re toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:28 AM
2

Right, but you still chose him first lol. From a male standpoint he “won” Yeah because time and place isn’t a thing lol “chose him first”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:26 AM
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The former is more attractive because of confidence, and when you’re young asshole and confidence get confused
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:55 PM
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You know why everyone at that age gets with toxic people? Because they don’t have experience, they don’t get with them because they’re toxic. They get with them because they don’t see the red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:54 PM
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You sure you aren’t the one living in a fantasy land? Not a single healthy couple does this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:50 PM
1

Maybe start looking at what you have instead of what other people have. Focus on yourself, not on others
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:37 AM
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How far did you reach up your ass to conjure that statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:33 AM
1

I indeed don’t need them for that, good observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:18 PM
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You need daddy government because you can’t vet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:22 PM
1

I have seen them, and mostly it is “taller than me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:18 PM
1

And did dyson help in the firefight or just hero’s? They were asked for what they did to carry the world, not what hero’s did
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:07 PM
0

If you have basic social skills you pick up on this, but this is ppd so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:05 PM
1

People have different types, like stated above. These traits are universally liked yes, but not everyone seeks it, not nearly everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:39 PM
1

“Tall” isn’t the only factor women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:12 PM
2

I never understood though, why is that bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:25 PM
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Both aren’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:10 AM
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Why is “being yourself” such a bad thing, its automatic vetting for the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:08 AM
2

No because preferences are never hypocritical imo, you like what you like because people wouldn’t call it hypocritical for a fit guy to want to date chubby women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:29 AM
0

Yeah except this wasn’t about who was more in the wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:51 AM
3

Yeahhh no way you are a woman, nice bait tho it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:47 AM
1

Depends on if you do it knowingly, if you don’t know, you don’t know and can’t do anything about it. But if you do know, then yeah you are partly at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:29 AM
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Not a woman, but think of it like food. There is a perfect meal, but food is just good in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:37 PM
4

Seems weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:02 PM
6

Why do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:02 PM
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Username checks out though, but idk why but it really sounds like a revenge fantasy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:53 PM
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This sounds like a revenge fantasy lol If this is true, you’re only continuing the cycle and a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:21 PM
1

And what if you’re promiscuous yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:10 PM
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Andrew tate is becoming pretty mainstream, and he’s a red pill guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:27 PM
1

Honestly that is pretty toxic. How is it ever someones own fault for (for example) getting raped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:53 PM
1

Yeah no, i just don’t think you need to blame the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:31 PM
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I think you just don’t understand me, so lets just agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:10 PM
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These are just all very good looking attributes, universally liked. Same thing with men, we also have universally liked traits. Doesn’t mean there aren’t different tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:09 PM
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Than my point still stands, I am saying that they shouldn’t blame them. If a child gets overrun by a car in the situation you described, it is a dumb move but isn’t their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:04 PM
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Yes you are a dumbass, but you aren’t at fault, you aren’t to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:25 PM
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You are partly speaking the truth, because yes, people should look out for themselves. What I have a problem with is you blaming only them for these events, not the actual perpetrator
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:31 AM
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The largest part is about sex, not about relationships. And even i. Relatoinship it is talking about sec
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:19 AM
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“Better sexual experience” is what you are talking abour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:13 AM
2

It’s the truth, you aren’t going to blame a woman for being raped because she was wearing revealing clothes right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:13 AM
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Completely disagree. Someone who knows what she’s doing would always be better than someone who doesn’t know anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:11 AM
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You don’t agree with anyone, don’t begin with this “you think like a woman” shit because right on this thread, even when most men say “more experience is better” you’ll say “nah that isn’t true”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:09 AM
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Nice classic victim blaming, making it sound like it is all the guys fault. Nah, she is way more at fault than he is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:03 AM
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Or just maybe relationships aren’t only about money and sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:01 AM
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Holy shit imagine breaking up over something so simple. Glad he dodged that bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:52 AM
1

Oh yeah that is what I meant yeah, “you in general”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:19 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:39 PM
1

Yeah? Thats obvious? I mean its for getting into relationships and probably staying in them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:35 PM
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Meh, necessary sort of, at least for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:29 PM
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Then they have something else interesting going on, only being “nice” isn’t enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:28 PM
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Something I don't understand about ppd men is if you're not getting the sex life you want why not just leave? Oh yeah definitely, that whole thread about a guy who had to wait a whole month for only a kiss? Bruh just leave if that isn’t what you want. I get it, sometimes if a girl is inexperienced or just not into "that" ofc we are more lenient but at the same time there should be a time frame to work into a sex life you find decent if is not the case you should break up. Is confusing to me so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:26 PM
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I don’t know for sure, depends on how the sex life is etc. For example, if she still does the same thing to me then aight. But if its a video of a train being ran on her then no, probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:10 PM
1

Well, is the “leak” with or without consent, I looked at it with consent but without it might be a different matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:06 PM
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Being nice isn’t a skill, its the default… if thats the only thing you’ve got going….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:38 PM
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Yes and no. But the first one could turn into a no if she is suddenly low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:35 PM
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These are things that you should communicate through your relationship, and especially not hide like you already said. Hiding it is indeed the worst she could do, that only makes it more suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:33 PM
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I didn't ask what guys don't like. You recommended guys filter based on hobbies if they want to avoid sluts who are playing games pretending to be sexually conservative and making them wait and then only offered up "clubbing". No I was just commenting on your “she is for the streets” if she goes clubbing, which I don’t agree with As if a bitch who's lying won't know to hide that she used to get drunk and fuck strangers at the club. Thats where the friends of her come in, you can ask them, or acq…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:30 PM
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Meh idk, clubbing is pretty fun, idk if it is to be considered a hobby though. But guys on here tend to really dislike people going clubbing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:45 PM
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For those type of guys? Probably clubbing, things along that line
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:00 PM
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-date religious people while they’re young (20-25 range) -go for the “normal n-count” girls -look at who their friends are, hobbies etc. -just ask on dates (you wont filter out decievers but it can help) It isn’t really all that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:19 PM
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We don’t know though, and we can’t know. Because we don’t know the full story behind it. And thats why guys need to become better at filtering out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:10 PM
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They're the type of guy who won't date fast women. They don't care about dating and taking things slowly, it's actually their style. Their "sin" here is that they do not immediately assume that every woman they like is a whore. Thats why I said filter people out, you can pretty easily tell what kind of people they are by looking at friends etc. The real question is: why do women who know they are not what these guys want waste everyone's time? These women 100% know they are not compatible with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:53 AM
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It is unfair, indeed, but why don’t you filter people out then? If someone is holding back for a month or three like in the post, why even date them if you don’t want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:12 AM
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I don’t think it is warranted to generalise indeed. But I think it is a communication problem to begin with. Which of course stems from him, he should’ve been more honest in the beginning. But we don’t know the extent of the story because of course it was deleted by the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:54 AM
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It depends on if it is the only time, I’d still be uncomfortable with it. But alas, I wouldn’t even date a woman who has me waiting for a month to even kiss so it doesn’t even really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:34 AM
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It still might feel like a shitty thing to do, having a threesome with someone but you’d have to wait a month to even kiss. I personally would be very turned off by that because it seems unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:13 AM
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What is going dutch? Split the bill or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:47 AM
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No, but that might be because I drink myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:41 PM
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I mean, thats kind of obvious because everyone has those standards right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:58 PM
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Yeah there is sadly always some truths in stereotypes. But it is still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:44 PM
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A white male, so maybe thats why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:41 PM
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Idk? At least not for me, I’ve never seen it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:40 PM
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Does this happen? Damn thats racist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:31 PM
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Then what did you mean by your sentence, I’m just trying to understand. Idk why you associate that with “being emotional” all of a sudden just because you don’t like what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:26 PM
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Huh? No I am just trying to confirm if what you sad was indeed alluding to women being at fault for the rape of nankin. Which would be an extremely weird statement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:14 PM
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That’s fine if you want to live in your delusion where males are more likely to be hero than villain, I’m not here to convince you, I’m here to convince women. I mean, I agree that men are more prone to do bad things at that it definitely wasn’t the minority when those horrid events happened. Males will never fully except what they really want subconsciously. But this is just not true, “all men want to rape” is a weird thing to say and not even close to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:16 PM
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Are you saying, the women who were raped in Berlin, or in Nanjing. Is somehow their own fault? Or am I understanding it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:03 PM
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Yes, the women plays a role in getting raped, seem completely logical
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:57 PM
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no way 100% of the men here are struggling, just a part of this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:56 PM
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Okay so obviously attractiveness is subjective, so I probably should’ve said she isn’t attractive at all to me. But I guess I can see that she is objectively above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:59 AM
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Honestly no, she looks extremely plain, nothing special about her. On top of that she just looks annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:40 AM
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You know exactly how it goes with these types, only their anecdotal evidence counts, not yours
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:33 AM
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You don’t need to be attractive to be succesful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:31 AM
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Okay, opinion of a man then. Confidence is ALWAYS important, because it can be used for so much more than in relationships. But even some women will fall for you when you are ugly and confident. They may not be an 8 or 9 but thats just what happens, most people date in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:26 AM
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Oh man that was my special technique I’d just slide behind them and grab their hips and they’d start grinding on me 🤣 So why go on a whole spiel about you being the “nice guy” then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:43 PM
1

Oh wait I first didn’t understand your comment lol, yeah indeed, sexual compatibility is very important so why wait so long to have sex. (Like you said)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:08 PM
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I mean, being shit in bed is something that can be learned no? You have to guide eachother to what feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:49 PM
1

That actually makes sense from a tactical standpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:31 PM
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Whats the strategy behind not fucking the person you want to date, but fucking the people you don’t want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:51 PM
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What does it matter? Everyone has preferences, and that is never going to change, you may think it’s unfair, but thats just how life is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:17 AM
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Became friends with two of them, super nice people (and not just halo effect) because we had the same interests etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:08 AM
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How is talking over the app dating though? It starts being dating once you actually see eachother irl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:14 PM
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Would be disappointed, but glad she just said it instead of ghosting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:11 PM
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Always the people who aren’t into clubbing that say this exactly. Just let people enjoy things. Me and my partner go clubbing and to bars together or separate, because it is fun and not all a “meat market” (same age bracket as you) I think our generation just goes to these thing for other thing than “getting laid”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:06 PM
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Hmm, makes you a bad person, but can’t really stop you. You’ll probably one day receive the karma right back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah but, why be that destructive to people who have done nothing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:36 PM
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I mean, one is sport and the other is fiction, what you are doing is actively hurting people around you. A bit different ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:45 PM
1

Yeah true, I just don’t get why you want to hurt someone I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:34 PM
1

Interesting, seems kinda weird tho, wanting to lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:29 PM
1

Lying is just never the right call, at least if the lies can be detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:27 PM
2

Why? If I may ask
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:26 PM
2

Depends on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:33 AM
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I mean, If you trust your partner why not? Most people get together because of their shared interests. The guy probably has a lads night out too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:41 PM
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I was cringing the whole time reading it. Because it is either fake, and if you put that much effort into a fake story it’s cringy. Or the husband he talks about is such a huge cuck that it is also cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:33 PM
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No one calls a man a “man child” if he is the only one providing for his family while having a stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:26 PM
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It may not be completely justified, but killing your abuser (who puts your life in danger) shouldn’t be met with a death penalty. Also, it’s a child bride, that in itself is abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:24 PM
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Yeah but, no one is saying this. That is the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:05 PM
2

A very toxic mindset, wouldn’t you want the best for your buds?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:48 PM
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No one is talking about that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:46 PM
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I mean yeah in turn, go have a lads night or something. If you are in a trusting relationship, this shouldn’t be a problem at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:45 PM
3

Perfect bait. Worth a chefs kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:29 PM
3

So when is someone “not short”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah exactly, can we just stop mocking people for who they are. You don’t have to date them, you can have preferences, but we shouldn’t constantly mock them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:27 PM
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Ohh, yeah okay no then it isn’t really a problem. People may judge anyone for any reason tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:43 PM
1

Well if spinning plates is a rotation then that is more of a “bad trait” than just dating multiple people, because those first dates is just meeting people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:43 PM
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Yeah okay, I guess its a good way to weed out people you don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:05 PM
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But why interfere in someones hobby lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:55 AM
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Maybe not talking about prostitution the very first date? People get turned off on that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:53 AM
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Completely depends on what your definition of “spinning plates” is. And even then, when have you seen people crying about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:52 AM
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Nice bait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:49 AM
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I hope you’re being sarcastic, I really hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:47 AM
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I don’t get why that would be hypocritical? Because what you do in bed is a preference isn’t it? It would start to be hypocritical if she did it with a previous partner, liked it, but refuses to do it with a current partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:30 AM
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“The nerve to deny you” bruh you aren’t owed sex, even if she spend the night with 100 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:05 PM
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No not really, I just don’t care if it isn’t that high
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:44 AM
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I mean, I am a man, but I just don’t care if it isn’t that high. If someone would have a body count of 8 at 21 for example, I wouldn’t really care. But if that same person would have something along the lines of these women, then yeah, I’d rather not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:37 AM
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Ah, okay, well I guess high body count is subjective then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:29 AM
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Hmm, I’d say around 10 is high for a 21 year old. Because casual sex still exists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:24 AM
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I think you know what I mean lol. Okay lets say a 21 year old, what is high for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:13 AM
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Pretty sure that everything in life is worth pursuing, But still, what do you think “a huge body count” is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:00 AM
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Ah okay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 AM
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Well the key word there is “wannabe” And I mean early in life, if you go for a “trad” woman later in life then that doesn’t mean anything because you don’t know what they have done/experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 AM
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How did you get that out of my comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:44 AM
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If you want a trad wife, go for a religious one… it isn’t that hard of an equation for those copers. But define “huge” please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:29 AM
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“Where did you meet” “Boyfriend” That seems normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:26 AM
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This isn’t representative as a whole, and why do I say that? Because any self respecting mentally sound woman wouldn’t post this shit on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:20 AM
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But that doesn't match up with evolutionary biology. Its just your small group of acquitances. Nope, not even close, it is EVERYWHERE, and your comments, THAT is the actual exception in my experience. Talk to people. Read something. Talk to other people. Read some more. And I’ll get to the same conclusion That's certainly true. Someone like you has no chance. True, because its like talking to a wall, you will never change your opinion. But at least like a wall, no one will take your opinion. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:07 PM
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Walk outside. Look. Observe. If you need evidence of human nature than you're a goofball. Pretty sure I already told you what I observe, and what did you tell me again? “Uhh no thats anecdotal” There is no “winning” with you, only when one agrees with you, you’re happy. And then you’ll still wallow in your misery I've never uttered the phrase women are shallow. Do you ever think before you comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:53 PM
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If you have ANY evidence I would believe you, but sadly you don’t. So you can scream in the abyss about women being shallow, but no one will believe you, which has already been demonstrated plenty of times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:29 PM
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It is anecdotal evidence because you haven’t even proven it, I’m sorry but that is how anecdotal works. And “many others” is really just an excuse, you just don’t have any evidence. May I ask you something, what age bracket do you fall in that you have gained so much “experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:55 PM
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I said that your insults were OK with me. But keep up the victim complex. Another caricature. Cool then I’ll keep using them incel. My claims are not anecdotal. Yours are. I see just as much evidence presented by you as me, so no, your evidence is definitely anecdotal. But since that's not true you'll have to come up with another mindless insult to hurl my way. except it is, literally textbook incel. We're laughing at you. The incel community? I don’t really care because I know how you people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:29 PM
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No no no, you don’t understand, only his experiences are truthfull, not yours. Only he speaks facts without sources, but you are just speaking anecdotally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:03 PM
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Fine with me. It's the only recourse you've got. To act like a clueless woman who calls everybody an incel. Ah so when you insult me its all okay, but when I do the same its not okay. Seems hypocritical to me (a women trait) Next up: Source! I don't need a source for basic human nature. You have single anecdotes which is so stupid as to be comical. Ah so again, your anecdotes are all true, but mine aren’t. Hypocritical again (women trait) So you agree that your claims are comical. Great. Didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:55 PM
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This happens every single day in the real world, ma'am. Thx for saying ma’am again incel, I think I’m just going to call you that, cuz you seem very bitter. LOL.Totally clueless. Ever had the experience of touching grass? You couldn't be more of a caricature if you tried. The "I know a guy" anecdotes. And you think this passes for the real world? You haven’t backed up your shit with a single source either, so its just your against mine. And looking at other threads, seem like people are constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:23 PM
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Sorry but you sound like every PPD woman that's ever existed. Denying reality. Seems like your reality is online, and mine is in the physical world. You can guess yourself which is more real. Stop talking in exceptions. Height matters a lot. Stop giving people outliers. Give them the reality. Clearly isn’t exceptions if I know exactly 1 guy who put his height in his bio. Here comes the "Nah uh! I have two friends....blah, blah, blah" The reason I thought you were a woman is because this is textb…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:41 PM
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Believe me, ma'am, this happens every Friday/Saturday night in every city in America. Not a woman though, and my experiences may differ because I am from Europe Because it's so obvious that it goes without saying. Men know to just put 6'3" in their profiles. It doesn't have to be said. It may help, but it isn’t the definite thing. I have never put my height in my bio and know very little men that do All things being equal, a guy over 6'0" will win over a shorter guy every time. I can say from ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:02 PM
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And you can keep living in your internet world. I have never, NEVER seen a length requirement on tinder, NEVER. And in real life I only got the comment “its nice that you’re taller than me” a couple of times. But never the 6” delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 PM
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It really does not though, you can keep telling yourself and people on this sub that to blame shortcomings on, but it really doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:47 PM
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Yeah, because you’d expect the exact opposite, with my country having the tallest women and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:09 PM
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Country actually, the Netherlands. And before you begin, I am 5’8” myself so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:45 AM
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Could very well be the case, idk, i haven’t looked up studies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:32 AM
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Yeah except it really isn’t like that in real life. Not even with online dating in those age ranges
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:31 AM
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The stereotype of “the super hot bitchy cheerleader” is just not true, the hottest people are often the nicest, the average or just above/below it, those are the people who maybe aren’t as nice. Idk why it happens, maybe because everyone is always so nice to the pretty people, that they can only do that back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:15 AM
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So you agree with me, that it isn’t about the arbitrary number of 6” but just height in general
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:08 PM
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I have seen the lineups, woman constantly pick guys taller than them, not the arbitrary 6” height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:41 PM
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Well if it was only my own then it would be too anecdotal, but when I look around me, and just in all social places etc, then I see the same thing. Plenty of people dating and being under 6 ft
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:04 PM
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Because in my own experience, and some of my friends (the ones below 6’0”) have never struggled with dating etc. I also almost never see height mentioned in profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:51 PM
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You can always ask, it shouldn’t be taboo to talk about past relationships or to judge people by those past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:03 PM
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I mean single moms and women that only want you for your money or other ulterior benefit. Yeah that happens when you have nothing to offer and look for the worst women. But having a slight something to offer could steer off from those “bad” women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:23 PM
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I think social skills can also stem from friendships, from men and women. You don’t have to have had an relationship. But I am still relatively young, so maybe its easier for me. But you really don’t have to “settle for the worst women” and if you really are that ugly (inside and out) maybe you deserve the same. People need to looksmatch more often. But pills? You mean real pills or?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:50 PM
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I have never had one but now I have, so how is that possible according to you? I had to change myself, get more out there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:18 PM
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I mean, the “chad” could still be stable, thats what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:54 AM
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Focus on yourself, why look at someone else when you have gained so much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:52 AM
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So simple and true yet so daring to say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:45 AM
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You know that physical is not the only thing in this world right? Go outside and touch grass, you have know idea how attraction and love works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:07 AM
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I think a big thing that this sub needs to understand is that in the real world, people don’t ONLY go for looks. Looks is a great initial attractor, but eventually personality comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:03 AM
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I mean, being stable doesn’t necessarily mean BB though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:02 AM
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Imagine thinking this way, women do this to, just less, but they do this too. Just like women do great things, also like men. We are one flawed species and to blame everything on a gender or race is just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:00 AM
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I’m sorry but I agree with OP on this one, just go outside, and everything you are commenting here just isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:32 AM
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But don’t you think, that if something constantly goes wrong with women (as in your dating life just doesn’t work) that the common denominator is you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:24 AM
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It kinda still is a choice for us, just like its a choice for a woman. Everyone but at the same time no one deserves it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:14 PM
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Why do men deserve it and not those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:27 PM
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Welp, its clear from this convo you aren’t going to change my mind and I’m not going to change yours. So we’ll just agree to disagree ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:14 PM
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I guess you just hang with the wrong crowd then, also haven’t met guys that are as shallow as you describe. Maybe the US (thats what I assume you’re from) is just that much of a shitshow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:08 PM
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Question for you, have you ever had women friends? Women in your friend group? Talked to women? They aren’t as shallow as you think they are… I mean, everyone has shallow in them, but not as much as you’re describing women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:04 PM
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Okay, you still think there is an arbitrary height that women MUST choose from, no, it is as easy as being a couple inches taller, even short dudes can do tthat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:57 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:56 AM
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Weird that you are the one deciding what a chad is, while you aren’t a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:52 AM
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Just look at real life ONCE, you see it plenty. People shorter having game or great relationships, people taller not pulling anything. The internet is different, and a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:51 AM
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Ah so again, it only counts when your fictional chad does it. Face it, you just can’t fathom that someone who isn’t your definition of a chad can actually pull women. With examples like me, you’re whole blame game goes down the drain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:41 AM
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They tell me, it isn’t that hard. And I notice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:19 AM
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I don’t really care, it is just that you kept adding rules for “being a chad” when I passed them time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:19 AM
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Yeah by your own definition it wasn’t, it was “women break rules for you” and when I said “that happens to me” you started adding things to your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:47 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:46 PM
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Idk, every time you said what succes was, I qualified, and everytime I qualified for something you were like “okay but not that much of a chad”. Almost like you just don’t want to believe someone short CAN be succesfull, so you don’t have height to blame all your failures on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:46 PM
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Why are you commenting 2 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:45 PM
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And again, everyone does that when they lack something, even tall guys. They aren’t literal gods on earth, stop idolizing them that much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:44 PM
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And yeah, I am the short guy of the group, awlays have been
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:37 PM
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It litteraly doesn’t matter that muxh. Because hey, it isn’t “over” and I am belowe 180
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:36 PM
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If you think height matters THAT much, you need to get a grip. The key is being taller than them, not being over an arbitrary number
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:05 PM
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I doubt it, people who spend time on this sub looking for advice almost never improve
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:05 PM
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But again, has this sub actually helpen with your desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:54 PM
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So by your own definition I could consider myself a chad, and I don’t even consider myself that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:53 PM
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Yeah that doesn’t give me enough info chief
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:44 PM
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You say “I went to these message boards because I was rejected” and has this helped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:43 PM
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So when is someone “succesful” in your eyes, when is someone a “chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:37 PM
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So why go complain on a message board and wallow in your own misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:36 PM
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So you have failed in the dating game, and now blame women for it because they don’t want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:17 PM
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I was calling myself “succesful” compared to my group, not compared to this fictional “chad” you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:16 PM
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What do you want from me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:12 PM
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And does this kind of stuff help? Honestly? Yeah I guess i am compensating with something if you are talking literally, but so are tall guys who aren’t good looking or funny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:53 PM
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Sometimes yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:51 PM
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But still, it doesn’t really matter because I am 1. Not compensating, and 2. It isn’t “over” for me at all. Step into the real world, get of the internet and it all becomes a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:01 PM
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I’d call 4 different people a month pretty succesfull (and I only go out on the weekends)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:59 PM
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Yeah that is true, I don’t know if I am ultra succesfull, but I do know that I am at least the second most succesfull of my group of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:49 PM
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174 cm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:48 PM
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It is exactly that, they believe that anyone who fucks must be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:33 PM
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They aren’t really compensating, and one of them is me, so I know how succesful I am
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:31 PM
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I mean, that is just human nature, it happens in men the exact same way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:28 PM
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Both 20
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:24 PM
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Huh idk, the two shortest of my group are the biggest players right now, so weird that my experiences differ from this sub time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:06 PM
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But would you consider it “over” for them? Even deemed short by most of their peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:02 PM
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But when is a man a manlet though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:51 PM
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But when is a man a “manlet”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:51 PM
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Probably yes, but I’d say the exact same about them. “How can you be such hypocrites”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:40 PM
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I personally think it wouldn’t come that far, there are many simps, yes, but also enough self respecting men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:24 PM
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Idk if it would ever come that far, because all men need to suddenly agree to be cucked then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:58 PM
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How can someone be such a hypocrite, how can your own mind think “yeah I’m allowed to do that but the second he does that its over”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:49 PM
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Allright, doesn’t really have anything to do with my point though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:36 PM
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Except that is a bit different than “letting men fuck women” like the OP alludes to. Men have contraceptives, body positivity is a bit harder though. But men in this day and age can also be very sex positive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:41 PM
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You can’t live without food and water, you can try to live without healthcare but it is very dangerous, and you can try to live without a roof above your head but also isn’t ideal. Sex however, you can live easily without
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:39 PM
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Q4M: How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife had sex with a woman behind your back? Is it cheating in your eyes? Why/why not? Cheating, because it is without my consent and it is behind my back. That person broke the trust I’d have in them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:34 PM
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Wait, how do feminist consider sexual activity a women’s right? Can you explain that one please?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:31 PM
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You can live without sex, not without healthcare, water, a roof above your head (although that is debatable) and food
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:28 PM
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Is this some kind of “gotcha” you are trying to pull? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:27 PM
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So weird though, that two people can have that different of an experience? Which country are you from? Maybe that explains things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:23 PM
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And sometimes it can be as easy as saying the right thing at the right time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:46 AM
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I don’t really think money would help up their game though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:29 PM
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A lot of them have just lost hope, or absolutely refuse to lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:12 PM
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At least in my age bracket (18-24) money is never a big thing, we are all starter/students so I never see a girl who was like “I want them to be rich”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:28 PM
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The problem isn’t really even that its 37 at 22 years (I mean, still a high number) but that she lied about something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:23 PM
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But just like money, time can be well spend (having fun) and not so well spend (idk, a shitty date)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:07 PM
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Except this isn’t true at all if you look anywhere else than the internet. You see it so many times irl that there are happy couples
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:05 PM
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This has to be an age thing tho, this isn’t something you see in the age group 18 to 30 as much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:04 PM
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The more time I spend on this sub, the more I think the “Blue Pill” is most based of them all. Just seems like the option you’re going to be the happiest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:57 PM
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Not everyone is as shallow as this sub tends to present. Not everyone only goes for “attractiveness”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:55 PM
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What if they are attractive to them. If they fond them attractive but you find them “mid” who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah thats true, but from my experience it has always been “just taller than me”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:27 PM
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I’ve always found it weird that some people on this sub say things like “if you’re under 6” its over. Sometimes I genuinely think they don’t come outside
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:55 AM
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Face Trumps all though, you can be 1,90 and still get less attention than a 1,70 guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:12 AM
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Because you present it as fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:51 AM
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If that is your experience, then you are with toxic women. I know plenty of women who don’t have the toxic ex, and they’ve dated plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:10 PM
3

Well the same holds true for me, and that is the problem with this sub, its all anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:21 PM
6

It is just weird that you think women’s tingle is for “assholes”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:02 PM
8

Honestly think it depends. Is it as the situation you described? Then 3 to 4 dates. But is she for example a religious girl? Then I’d wait longer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:30 PM
3

No that is indeed possible, but why use that as “tingles women feel for lunatics”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:26 PM
6

Not really though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:19 PM
6

Except women pretend men they don't want to have sex with are evil serial killing psychopathic baby eating monsters. They attribute bad traits to harmless men and choose abusive men. Then either every woman I ever talked to wanted to have sex with me, or you are just plain wrong. Young women don’t see abusive traits easily as older women (and this is true for men too). And you always here about bad shit, not good shit, because that isn’t nearly as sensational. If I think a woman is unattractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:05 PM
1

Hmm okay, and that group represents all of us? And it isn’t a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:02 PM
7

Except it works with men that exact way, you want attention from someone who you think is attractive, and there is nothing weird about that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:02 PM
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The women who do feel that way are psycho’s themselves tho… A random self respecting woman isn’t going to swoon over a guy because he’s an asshole but happens to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:01 PM
2

Bruh what? Since when is this a thing? I get not being a simp for some random woman who may or may not like you. But for your gf? Don’t you want to treat her the best you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:58 PM
1

Yeah or it keeps being taboo because it is no fun if it becomes normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:25 PM
1

You know, this would be an actual good argument if people wouldn’t get villified for the saying the same thing but against women. (Things like “keep your legs closed” etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:24 PM
1

That just isn’t needed, you can get a good date by just having fun and sitting by a café, or terrace. And that isn’t very expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:16 PM
1

I think the “taboo” aspect is what matters to these people, that is the risky part and that gets them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:11 PM
1

Idk, ask the other commenter, I was just pointing out what they were trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:25 PM
1

The choosing part is what he is trying to point out, a prostitute doesn’t choose to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:38 PM
1

Thanks! Yeah certainly enjoying it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:27 PM
8

Who is this “we” you are talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 PM
2

Because the law still sees women as the helpless creatures they once were (no voting, weren’t allowed to work etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:07 PM
1

Meh, worked everytime to just say something along the lines of “hey we’re both students, lets split”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:05 PM
1

Well, I guess I am still a bit young so splitting is the best option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:31 PM
1

Ah that makes it clear, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:15 PM
1

The OP misses the point by a hair. It isn’t female beauty standards that are low, it is males standards that are so low
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:13 PM
1

You come to a point where one time you pay full, the next time she pays full
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:10 PM
1

So no matter the scenario, both parents need to pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 PM
1

Yep, first date is always half half, but most women I dated didn’t mind. I don’t know if that’s the standard but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:03 PM
1

I think that is more a case of environment than not being able to communicate though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:58 AM
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I mean you say nobody thinks like that, but anecdotally speaking I know more people who don’t think like that than people who do. I actually know 0 people who look at money and education first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:15 AM
1

Again from what I have experienced in clubs that is just not the case. It depends on looks in these environments mostly, and confidence. Not loud narcissism imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:09 PM
2

Depends on the person and how far you are in life I guess, someone like that can still become your numero uno
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:57 PM
3

Yeah, it gets you the wrong type of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:50 PM
3

Very weird, that is something I haven’t experienced in the slightest. Maybe it is a different environment, or that most guys I know don’t go for these low value women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:47 PM
2

But first choice in mate, that can mean anything, because you keep meeting new people. Someone that was your first choice can become second or third easily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:21 PM
3

But do you mean first choice in everything? Or only in body/looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:32 PM
6

I think the aim would be to not be loathed by someone… But if it is just a ONS then idk?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:31 PM
4

Its hypocritical and you probably aren’t going to find anyone like that (except female cucks?) but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:57 PM
4

Yeah all those people who oppose abortion want exactly what this person is describing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:32 AM
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This is the real answer honestly, so probably below 170 or something. But even then if one isn’t insecure it won’t affect them as much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:50 PM
1

So whats all the talk about beta buxxing on this sub then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:27 PM
1

So how much did that help? Did you grow much taller? A little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:56 PM
1

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:55 PM
2

Not every woman would just randomly fuck a man just because he has money or status. AWALT might be true in internet circles, but this just doesn’t happen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:40 PM
3

If you want pure shallowness then yeah go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:34 PM
2

I mean, obviously being homeless doesn’t help and being a complete social outcast also doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:28 PM
4

But do you want to be with people who only care about those superficial things though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:14 PM
2

Making your insecurity your personality always is a red flag, and for some reason you see it happening here a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:10 PM
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It just all stems from insecurity, you’d only experience that if you are insecure about your height tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:08 PM
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I am not the person you were talking about before though. But another thing I just find weird, why blame short guys for your preference? Because no way every guy shorter than you has called you fat, giant etc. And honestly, you aren’t even that tall, almost 6 ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:05 AM
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Oh no you can post anything you like, it just seems like you blame someone for anecdotal evidence while you do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:49 AM
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Isn’t your story just as much an anecdotal story as that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:19 AM
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Yeah I guess that is kind of fair, personally I just can’t do it knowingly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:26 AM
1

Oh lol you’re just a troll, carry on then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:30 AM
1

So you take pleasure in knowingly ruining kids lives. Because if you didn’t know than that of course doesn’t matter, but seeing your comment you actively want to know. So again, do you take pleasure in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:24 AM
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Are you actually taking pleasure in not only ruining the guys life, but the kids life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:12 AM
2

Knowingly though? And to what extend with who? Your friends girl? Your brother girl? Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:10 AM
3

There is a difference in “another man pur his penis in your girl before” and actively fucking your brother/good friends girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:07 AM
4

Huh, so we have different definitions of what a Chad is, no matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:53 PM
1

The weird thing on thid sub is that chads are always portrayed as assholes, most “chads” I know are very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:26 PM
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But being a chad required you to be nice though, thats what it is to be chad. Some asshole is just a brad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:08 PM
1

The Netherlands, and before you ask, I am short for my country
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:58 PM
1

I guess different experiences…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:43 PM
1

And that instantly means they are that much different? Its only height…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:59 PM
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But the definition of a “9” is different for everyone, you can’t just choose someone who if factually a 9 because attraction is subjective. Beauty however, that is something that can actually be measured
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:34 PM
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The second and fourth are definitely debateable, the last one could be debateable. The first one takes two extremes and the third one is too unclear for me to see. For some people one 9/10 may be a 7/10 and vice versa. It happens all the time when I’m talking to friends. Some examples are even more extreme than others. But yeah if you look at extremes you are always going to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:48 PM
2

Isn’t raw attraction more than looks? And aren’t looks universally different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:18 PM
4

I choose quality over quantity, and got what I like multiple times, I don’t need to approach 7 girls per night for that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:27 PM
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There just aren’t any guarantees with this thing, and if you go quantity above quality then you won’t have what you desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:48 AM
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Approaching a girl isn’t dating, and you really don’t need to approach a girl every day to get to a point you find someone worth going on a date for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:04 AM
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I mean, if you only want sex then dating indeed isn’t the best option. If you actually want a relationship in which you’re loved, then dating is the best option. And of course it’s going to take a few tries, but thats what dating is for, to see if you’re compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:21 AM
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Because they are hot, mysogony gets easier overlooked. Is the same as men who put up with “psycho” women because they are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:50 PM
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Its mostly men who are desperate, women can be ugly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:00 PM
3

I mean, you can be angry at both? You don’t have to pull up another statistic to prove the church ain’t bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:36 AM
2

Oh like that, yeah but this is a once in many case. We were talking about statistics and the norm, not outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:23 PM
2

Wait what? What is that last part about? Is this some reference or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:27 PM
2

But it does work out if your goal is LTR, then you’ll weed out anyone who doesn’t like you for who you sre
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:06 PM
1

Yeah that is what I am getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:58 PM
1

It would certainly raise more questions, why with one person but not with the other etc. Could be multiple factors
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:30 PM
2

Well an argument could be made that one thing is controllable, the other two aren’t. I don’t care either way, if you want to shame someone it’ll only show insecurity on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:28 PM
2

Only the most politically crazed ultra simp will actually get a vasectomy because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:26 PM
5

Statistically fatherless homes aren’t good. A two parent household will always be better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:24 PM
2

It is honestly just weird to me, and I get the same feeling with the guys who say: “she HAS to be a virgin”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:46 AM
1

I honestly think it is a bit weird that people got mad over an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:09 PM
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What I also think the problem is with these type of people isn’t the amount of partners, but the lying. If she’s ready to lie over something like that, she’s ready to lie over everything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:07 PM
2

You don’t get love from friends and family? Is that love meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:15 AM
1

Honestly, don’t people want to even look aesthetically pleasing to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:35 AM
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I’d argue that in modern society love is more important than sex, and that a life without love is more meaningless than a life without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:11 AM
3

Yep, they’re back, just saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:59 AM
0

Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:07 AM
1

Yeah but she just literally looks like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:09 PM
2

Hey, at least not in this thread I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:36 PM
1

“Preferences are only allowed for men!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:27 PM
1

Yeah that logic is pretty sound, it can just feel unfair for the men who have to wait. Because you can also see it as in: Someone is getting rewarded for just existing while the one she actually wants has to “work” for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:56 AM
1

Does that mean that you can’t care about a women. Friendships exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:39 AM
1

Okay John Kramer calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:48 PM
1

Depends on what your definition of incel is, the literal definition? Or what it has become
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:48 PM
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So don’t complain when women don’t want to be with someone who leads a “boring life”. Most people like a bit of excitement in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:46 PM
1

I mean, there are indeed a lot of women haters here. But this sub is hardly like the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:13 AM
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I just think hate is a big word to use, hatred is a very powerful emotion and I think most men just don’t have that towards women. I mean, I have women friends, I know a lot of people who have women friends, you can’t hate someone and be friends with them. And also, the catcalling thing, talking to those friends it isn’t nearly as common as you think it is. Harrasment in bars or clubs however, that is way more common. But I guess I just can’t change your mind and you can’t change mine. So I’ll j…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:24 AM
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Yeah it really does seem that way. Because honestly how could you think that every man hates women. But then again incels exist and do the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:39 AM
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I mean, I guess misogynistic language is indeed a problem, but that doesn’t mean men hate women. And catcalling is again only a fraction of men. And again to call that “hatred of women” is a bit weird. Sex industry I can understand though, there is a lot of wrongdoings there. But being sex positive and supporting sex work seems to be more women then men supporting it. It just seems really incel like, to say “all men” just like that AWALT crap that also just isn’t correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:37 AM
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Don’t you? Males say they don’t hate women but their actions don’t match most of the time. In any case you’re a rare exception if you genuinely don’t hate women What kind of actions do you deem as “hating women” then? What is the minimum line for you then? Lol and? Men are sexist to women all the time it’s not the end of the world if I say something back And you think that it makes it okay? No, don’t drive the cycle of hatred forth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:17 AM
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At least, in my experience, men don’t hate women as you say they do. I don’t hate women as you say men do. It is a pretty sexist thing to say actually, “all men have an undeniable hatred for women” It just isn’t true. And if it is for you, then you’re with the wrong crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:01 AM
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Me, and many, many other men (everyone I meet) don’t hate women, the only time I see men actually genuinely hate women is some incels online. But in the real world? No. Indifferent is another case though, that’d actually make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:46 AM
7

Men hate women? What kind of environment have you been living in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:31 AM
10

Thats the mindset that’ll get ya when you only visit echo chambers and never go outside. The real world is actually less harsh than the OP describes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:11 PM
1

Doesn’t that say something about the quality you are pulling? If you think it is solely because of your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:05 PM
12

Most dudes do actually care about women, they’re human after all, with human interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:14 PM
3

So why not try to get rid of the social stigma, instead of literal eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:52 AM
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Carry yourself is probably a better word, don’t be all slumped over and scared someone is going to notice your height
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:07 AM
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It is definitely a thing, but if you care so much get a women who doesn’t do that, or do it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:16 PM
1

Get an FWB yourself and do the same if it is such a big problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:46 PM
2

Except it is your fault, it is the hard truth. Well partly your parents fault for your genetics, but personality wise, all your fault bud. And the only person who can change both is you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:39 PM
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It is sadly the hard truth, if you want to improve, love yourself first. Or quit alltogether, go MGTOW for all I care. And no, no one who does take up that advice will become an orbiter automatically, that is your choice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:29 PM
2

Losing face fat can actually be huge
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:22 PM
1

Yeah that is always hard, because imo to begin that journey you have to be satisfied with yourself first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:17 PM
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Why do I care if there are improvements but no one notices or thinks so? This is how it worked with me: Feeling happier after working out > wanting to work out more > gain results > liking yourself more > confidence boost > people will see your confidence But then you’re not attractive if you are the only one who thinks you’re attractive. It’s like thinking you’re smart but getting F’s on every exam. Or thinking you’re strong when you can’t even lift 10 pound dumbbells. Or thinking you’re a top …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:12 PM
1

I guess that argument also hold a merit here, but that is all I see on this sub, insecure people…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:07 PM
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Carrying yourself goes a long way, don’t slump over, act or be confident, act as if your height doesn’t change a single fuck about yourself. People won’t notice it as quickly, of course they’ll notice but for trying to attract people it definitely works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:59 PM
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What’s the point in doing anything visual to yourself if you’re not attracting the people you want or getting external validation? You do it for yourself, for example, lifting to get a better body and set PR’s, I do that for myself, I don’t need external approval for that, I can see the results myself. Everything requires some kind of external validation to know if you’re above average at something. Nope, you can compare your past self to your present self, and see if there are improvements. Loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:56 PM
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Yeah thats the reason why I think you should do it for yourself, because if you do it for someone else you wouldn’t know if the results actually pay off (like in your situation)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:38 PM
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Yeah, but that something could be from within no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:26 PM
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Changing for yourself and there are other incentives to do it, it doesn’t have to be external pressure (for example to get more women to approach you) but it can be because for example you like the way a more muscular body looks, so you aspire to be that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:15 PM
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What if a guy is happy if it produces results that attract women? I guess that is a bonus, I just think it is very shallow to get a better body or something like that for someone else, but I guess I think it is shallow because it is about your outside, not your inside. Doing it for yourself is fantasy talk. I could be a fat blob and be happy with myself. Is anyone else going to want to be around me? Probably not. So then I'm eventually going to feel awful because no one likes me, so it forces me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:14 PM
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If you want to get the wrong women then yeah, do this. Shit attracts shit, no respectable women wants a guy you’re describing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:31 AM
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This is just my opinion, but only change it if you do it to please yourself, not for anyone else. You are the one who should be happy with the results, not anyone else, YOU. But for these things, I think a lot can be changed to look “better” height Get shoes with higher soles, or act as if you are tall, this goes a long way. By carrying yourself and being confident in who you are you automatically appear taller. bad face lottery Probably a beard, and clean your face and take care of it. Even mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:30 AM
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Then why do you make dating your whole life? Why do you let your ability to date define who you are while you probably have many great qualities that don’t make you a disgrace
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:42 AM
2

You need the opinion of someone else (the best one is for example if you’re attracted to women an opinion of a woman is what you want) to know if you are really decent in those areas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:30 AM
2

But are you self improving for YOU or because you want more women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:12 AM
3

If you do these things only to find a woman and not for your own self improvement and for your own self worth. Then you are doing something wrong, this is almost simping to an extreme degree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:43 AM
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I can kind of agree with you here that those things can be seen as feminine, but I don’t really agree on you putting support as feminine. Because support groups both irl and online can help everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:59 PM
2

Wait so when are they attracted to masculinity and when more “feminine” traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:47 PM
4

I think there is a big difference in “simping” and just defending a woman. Simping would be more like unconditional admiration, while defending unjust things can be very well seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:38 PM
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So, first off, participation in social media outright is feminine in nature, so mere participation in that is inherently unattractive to begin with. Would you be so kind to explain this one? Because in my eyes it seems a pretty neutral “hobby” like for example watching a movie. I’ve had many women explain this to me after I tell them I have no FB, IG, Twitter or any of it. I have literally never had a woman tell me anything less than it’s attractive I don’t have those things. Some do try to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:36 PM
1

By “it’ll come” I mean that the right person will eventually come along (or not, its always an option) and that you can live without relentlessly persueing every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:47 PM
0

Why would I, or perheps anyone need to approach women? Why do we need to do these thing when you can be just as fine without.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:22 PM
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Another option would be to just not give a fuck anymore, work on yourself and let it go. People I know very well who still haven’t had a partner just stopped giving a fuck. “It’ll come”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:19 AM
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