Huemanretreat4000 Archive

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40	I think I’ve made a realization about the “female gaze” and why it seems like women tend to underestimate the importance of looks Ever heard of the book "How to Make Friends and Influence People" Just being a great listener, asking questions and showing engagement is all you need. Just regurgitate what they said back to you to be on the same page. Head nod. Don't hesitate to make them laugh!	/r/seduction	30/10/22 09:46 PM
209	I think I’ve made a realization about the “female gaze” and why it seems like women tend to underestimate the importance of looks People won't remember who you are but will remember how you made them feel. Charisma is a cheat code for a reason. It's how you boost people's mood they will gravitate towards you. It's all about making them feel special.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 06:53 PM
1	I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode. she says literally. Your job is to deliberately misinterpret, tease, and most importantly, not be butthurt. You're not an accountant for some company, you crunch the numbers for a Latvian mob syndicate. You don't play chess, you hustled as a professional gambler until you were banned from all casinos west of the Mississippi. You're not from a family of attorneys, your mom is a Stimulate her mind the rest will follow Did this naturally in high school. I playfully teased a lot of women but also tr…	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:27 AM
1	I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode. Your manic sounds similar to my ADHD. When my energy is high, I get that crackhead grizzy bear confidence to approach. Women enjoy it. Flow of state. When my energy is low, I'm more secluded than the planet of Pluto. Confidence is the drive of action. Any action is better than doing. Drive on drive on!	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:17 AM
2	Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itself Happiness is a inside job. It comes within. Your true fulfillment comes from achieving your goals and being on your purpose Having some cool ass women to smash on the side is also sweet. At the end of the day take advantage of your life. Have fun. Make money. Make memories. Live experiences.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 03:20 AM
6	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Same here. I enjoy sex but I enjoy it with girls who make the experience worthwhile.	/r/seduction	26/10/22 03:07 AM
4	Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behavior Don't forget lower vocal tonality. A deep voice is like crack to a woman. High pitch sounds like you're trying to sell them coupons from a supermarket lmao	/r/seduction	18/10/22 03:09 AM
10	Girls are getting weird!! Read the room. After that. Resume. Using your observation skills and ready body language and facial reactions. Yes, girls can be socially awkward, neurotic and paranoid lmao. That's why you chose the fun ones. The ones who aren't always on defense like a spider in the wall. In that way, you'll be less disappointed.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 03:06 AM
2	Toxic/low value behavior I have seen in most men that enter game that you need to be on the lookout for. This is spot on. This advice can also be beneficial to the opposite sex as well.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 03:03 AM
4	if a girl shuts down all ur kino advances does that just mean she doesn’t find you physically attractive enough? A lot of girls can be intimidated by confident guys. He should aim for confident girls. Match his energy.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 04:46 AM
30	if a girl shuts down all ur kino advances does that just mean she doesn’t find you physically attractive enough? Every girl is different. You'll have to use discernment to notice the subtle differences in their personalities. Learn how to read the vibe. Girls who are more guarded require more trust, patience and familiarity to become comfortable with you. Girls who are free-spirit, eccentric and wild go are heavy on the bad-boy vibes. As for you, never audition for a chick...ever. Change your mindset from "Does she like me" to "Do I like her". Not every woman is worth your attention, time and energy. Not e…	/r/seduction	17/10/22 04:43 AM
4	Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excuses This is significant advice OP. Be the victor, not the victim. Women mostly look for winners, not those who act of self pity and sorrow. Discover the traits you're ashamed off and own up to your insecurities. Be fearless. Life is too short to live in mediocrity. Have an outcome independence mentality. The antithesis of neediness and thirsty. Reframe your mindset from "Does she like me" to "I wonder if I like her". This shifts the paradigm because you're evaluating whether or not this person fits …	/r/seduction	13/10/22 08:07 PM
1	Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s? It DOES get easier because your 20's are used a coming of age moment. A time of self discovery. Those years of experience turn you into a self-proclaimed leader. I was a very shy teenager but over time, I started tasking risks to navigate through social situations. It's not easy but it's worth if you're willing to do the work.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 07:31 PM
1	Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl? Said this before. Got away with it	/r/seduction	12/10/22 05:29 AM
0	You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things? Be honest about your sexuality. You have a dick she doesn't -- make that movement! Physical escalation. Touch. Don't be passive be active. Don't second guess it - just do it! But never go 0 - Harvey Weinstein -- that's some next level shit LMAO	/r/seduction	31/08/22 07:13 AM
2	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success. This can go both ways. Women can pretend to be nice for a guy's attention. However, women can finesse a guy's attention for resources and clout. Had a chick tell me this overseas. Being charismatic, real and confident attracts not just women - but people in general. People detest fakeness.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:24 AM
3	Your coolest stories or other ways to convey value? Taking risks, going out your comfort zone and endeavors is how you create stories. I was the host of a few parties. Became a backup dancer for a couple of artists in Baltimore. Freestyled a bunch of poems to girls at college. Visited Monrovia Liberia wandered a bit...almost got stabbed over a pair of sunglasses I negotiated with them. Played with a couple of session musicians at Washington Square Park.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 10:29 PM
2	How to stay away from logical conversation? Just like you I've been through this experience. I notice that humans connect on a emotional level. Intellectual conversations should be saved for those who are on your wavelength. However, I also found that vocal tonality and open ended questions can spark inquisitiveness in others - it's how you approach. If someone didn't know a topic I would act as a teacher. Guide them, teach them and gave the knowledge they was looking for. A sense of humor and a playful attitude is a cheat code with most …	/r/seduction	25/08/22 10:00 PM
1	I started cold approaching women. Had no idea this is so easy! I used to do a lot of roleplaying in high school and my community college I would use different accents or different characters. It was fun. Attracted a lot of women from that.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 09:46 PM
3	I started cold approaching women. Had no idea this is so easy! College is one of the last places where its easy to approach women. Take advantage while you're there!	/r/seduction	25/08/22 09:41 PM
1	Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1? It was nothing more than a shit test. Treat her like a little sister just ignore them and laugh how illogical they can be lol. Learn how to be assertive in the situation. Take charge. Keep a masculine frame.	/r/seduction	25/08/22 09:36 PM
0	Getting girls is easy Getting women is easy af Realize they're just human like you. They're just individuals that look for connection like the rest of us. They also want to feel your vibe. Last by not least, I quote Cyndi Lauper "Girls just wanna have fun" Drops mic Be confident, remain a masculine frame and don't be a simp.	/r/seduction	15/08/22 06:49 AM
1	The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summary I was referencing Genghis Khan hahaha Genghis Khan was the best cold approach individual in history. He was a fearless warrior who bedded multiple women but it's more like "c'mon here bitch" DMX aggression. Testosterone along with dopamine are motivators for approaching women. Men today don't have the testosterone they had as much in previous decades. Due to presence of xenoestrogens in a lot of products (https://www.urologytimes.com/view/testosterone-levels-show-steady-decrease-among-young-us-m…	/r/seduction	13/08/22 07:44 PM
1	What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street? Hello trouble come ruin my life for 5 minutes hahaha Got a bunch of situational openers Remember I use to tease this hot ass Serbian girl in High School, called her "Britney Spears" Ironically, she found me very attractive once she found out I had clout and confidence.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 05:32 AM
1	Wings NYC Ill be there tomorrow. Mostly playing guitar	/r/seduction	12/08/22 05:04 AM
2	Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them? Women don't like inauthenticity. They despise it. People in general do. Pretending to be somebody you're not gets you called out. Scolded. Side eyed. Being genuine in your individuality while having a cool presence makes you a memorable person.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:59 AM
5	Wings NYC Washington Square Park is one of the best places for daygaming. It's one of the best tourist attractions of NYC. Right by NYU so a bunch of college aged chicks down to get approached.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:54 AM
2	The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summary Unless you're overseas cold approaching is the best option. In your approach the communication is strictly human. Vocal tonality, body language, physical touch and eye contact. Plus you have the advantage of using your charisma to win her over. Online lacks a lot of these characteristics. Emojis help with words. Adding voice notes can enhance the intimacy. Overall, face the face communication is how our ancestors got through life.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:48 AM
6	The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summary Makes you feel alive!	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:46 AM
9	Aproaching guys during college Just say "hey would you like to chill or go on an adventure" Men are simple.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:43 AM
1	I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it” Son....There's a lot of fish in the sea and some of these fishes are poisonous af LMAO Observe and read women more often. Ask more questions to get her outlook on life. That should determine if you want to deal with her or not. Not every girl is worth approaching. Access the character. Carry a stoic mentality. Remember that people will always be people. The best people will always be cool af no matter what. The best women are the most attractive version of themselves.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:41 AM
6	you're not a nice guy. Being assertive is what gets you women. Being pleasant and cordial makes you a vibrant cool-cucumber capable of meeting people of different walks of life. Being an asshole can get you murdered. Being a doormat can get you finessed. Be realistic, assertive and lead your way into the interaction. I always flirt with women who show interests. Planting seeds in their head. Slight touches.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:32 AM
2	A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago: Also voice notes. Voice notes make the interaction more intimate and personal.	/r/seduction	10/08/22 09:05 PM
1	A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago: It's all about the energy and the aura.	/r/seduction	10/08/22 09:03 PM