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Maybe men don’t talk to their friends or reach out for help IN THE SAME WAYS THAT WOMEN DO (as a population average) . In that case looking for the same signs in both men and women would miss struggling men. I agree that the field of psychology seems to be centered towards feminist/modern leftist ways of thinking/assumptions about the world. Combine that with pressure to publish and the general difficulty of doing truly reproducible experiments in social sciences and it’s not a huge surprise tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 06:45 PM
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To be honest, as someone who has had mental health issues for a long time, I can completely believe the results of those surveys - people who are suicidal are probably more likely to express their emotions in a way that frightens their partners and probably more likely to snap physically as well compared to someone who is in a good place mentally .I am sure suicidal women take out their emotions on their partners in abusive ways as well. The question is how to interpret this - the authorities se…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 06:39 PM
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Honestly, it’s hard to do and I haven’t done my share to be honest, but the best thing men can do in my opinion to help men’s mental health is enthusiastically step up to mentor other men. Whether it is pursuing teaching as a career or something like volunteering at an after school program, leading community sports or hobby groups, or teaching career skills. If you notice new male hires at your job seeming lost, mentor them (at many jobs, the company will have an entire formalized program to pai…
/r/MensRights28/07/26 02:07 AM
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wtf?
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:57 AM
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I would say some types of intelligence come easier to boys and some to girls, but obviously each individual is different
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:55 AM
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When I see this I HAVE to ask “if you hate men so much why do you have sex with them?” And to the commenter who mentioned having a husband “do you hate your husband the same way you hate a theoretical son? If not, then you are at least somewhat capable to distinguishing that not all men are the same”
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:53 AM
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That describes most social media, not just Reddit . And obviously the censorship isn’t just on gender equality, a lot of things that are politically incorrect just can’t be said on social media, which would lead AI to believe the politically correct side is consensus
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:49 AM
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“Work on yourself “ or “go to therapy” seem to be the politically correct way to say “go fuck yourself” while still feeling like you are being empathetic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 03:07 AM
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Yeah incel is coded as “ a bad person, probably shouldn’t have any friends (even male) or a job” as a pejorative it goes way beyond “unattractive and can’t get attention from women”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:40 AM
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Whenever I read feminists talking about “the mental load” in relationships, it sounds like the traits they are describing that are problematic in men are basically indistinguishable from ADHD and sometimes Autism. But they ALWAYS ascribe this to “the man is using weaponized incompetence to avoid helping” and never seem to consider that “planning and executive function might be a huge challenge for the man”. Yes I totally get why women side eye any man who lives alone with no problems but suddenl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:37 AM
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I sometimes assume that the people in charge of marketing or management for “neurodiverse” or similar activist organizations are either not actually neurodiverse or their neurodiversity is something that doesn’t actually cause the social difficulties people stereotypically associate it with. I hate seeing people who basically act like high school popular kids claim to speak for me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:30 AM
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Was the original comment about Milo? I remember he got nuked from relevance instantly because of some comment saying he had a relationship with an adult man as a teenager and actually learned a lot and doesn’t see it as wrong now that he is an adult
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:23 AM
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Do you still talk to her now that you are 22 and she is 19?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:20 AM
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Also I feel like socializing with adults outside ones family is how older kids (like 15-18) learn to adult. Like think about when every kid got a summer job- their boss was probably much older than 18, and obvious power imbalance was there, and no one immediately side eyed the boss
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:18 AM
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Wait this actually happened?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:16 AM
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Also I think neurodivergent men are more likely to mature slower and socially have more in common with younger people. Whenever I watch stuff like speedrunning streams, I could easily convince myself that some of the men are 17 by the way they dress and act even if they are actually 25+. I would find it more odd for a 25 year old woman to be attracted to these guys than it is for these guys to be attracted to a 17 or 18 year old girl. It sounds creepy as hell and I hate to say it, but I can’t ha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:15 AM
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Something people on all sides politically are VERY uncomfortable with is that only a blink of an eye ago in evolutionary time it was normal to start having sex and babies at ~14. The idea of an extended adolescence (even to the point that when an 18 year old dates a 21 year old people say the 18 year old is being groomed ) is a modern social construct. None of this excuses people who are much older and knowing use power/status/money imbalances to seduce or coerce minors, but we need to stop pret…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 02:07 AM
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Basically , why is the “manic pixie dream girl” cute, while a boy with similar behavior patterns is seen as a clear threat and probably has the cops called on them quickly?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:58 AM
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Honestly, it’s probably the same with antisocial personality disorder , borderline, bipolar, narcissist etc. a woman with these traits, if she is attractive, might suffer a lot in her relationships with family and friendships with other women, but I think if she is attractive enough she can always find male friends to orbit, men or women to date, and men or women to give her a chance at a job pretty much regardless of extreme behavior. People do excuse antisocial behavior from extremely handsome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:56 AM
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I mean I think even if you are not “alt-right” , it’s good to not introduce yourself by making politically incorrect jokes or steering a conversation towards controversial topics. I don’t think that implies “hiding” your real beliefs, just knowing what is appropriate for small talk
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:52 AM
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I think people’s idea of autistic men is like an Elon Musk or Tony Stark - but for the vast majority of people on the spectrum, they might have specific interests but they don’t have some genius level ability that cancels out the importance of a personality in finding jobs
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:50 AM
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There are people who are both
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:48 AM
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I think that usually means saying polite words in a condescending tone, or actually being polite but having an ulterior motive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:47 AM
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I haven’t heard the name Cassie from the Red Pill in a long time, I wonder if that documentary still holds up since the culture was has changed a lot since the
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:27 AM
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Heh, middle school was the best time of my life and things went downhill after that for some reason. I started fitting in less and less as I got older
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 01:23 AM
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I don’t think asking men “hypothetically if you were forced to have sex at gunpoint by a woman would you find it pleasurable , or do you think another man would find this scenario pleasurable?” is a good way to judge men’s attitudes towards male victims . That’s just finding what % of survey respondents might have a fetish. I think the only way to judge this is to look at how men vs women respond to actual accounts of male victims. I also think both men and women can have fetishes and fantasies …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:20 AM
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Would you rather date someone who had a party phase, decided that was not for them, and then decided to settle down for long term monogamy, or someone who never experimented with sleeping around but might always be wondering in the back of their mind “is the grass greener” ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:12 AM
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Who said virgin? Or focused on having lots of kids? Maybe for religious conservatives that’s the reasons, but for others it might be “the more partners she had, the more I worry that she is mentally comparing me to one of them” or “people (men or women) who have had many short relationships might be more likely to be into drama and I am an introvert who wants someone chill”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:10 AM
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Women are attracted to men who project confidence , competence, and honesty. That might overlap with “visibly true care about them” but often does not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:04 AM
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Yeah look how many very pretty women had shrines to the Columbine shooters and shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:02 AM
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Red pill is about behavior as well, especially unconscious stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:01 AM
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In my (admittedly very limited experience dating or talking to others about it) does anyone actually care about this? As in, how many people are filtering out a partner who they otherwise have a strong connection with because of “body count”? 1) most people I know have enough trouble getting a date that actually wants a date and not a free meal/online attention, so they aren’t filtering out people they otherwise vibe with 2) most people probably take information about past history into account a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 12:00 AM
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Yeah that is what I assumed .
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:18 PM
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I thought “black fatigue” was referring not to “people are tired of black people committing crimes” but more “people are tired of activists always pushing racism in the news, blaming white people, excusing bad behavior by black people, and talking about all black people as oppressed” like a specific example of compassion fatigue - people felt more sympathy for racial issues in 2016 and 2020 when large Black Lives Matter protests happened, but after many years of activists talking about the same …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:17 PM
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What was it originally referring to?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:12 PM
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More psychology professionals need to speak out against these therapy speak terms just being thrown around in a way that is so unhelpful and disrespectful to victims of actual abuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:11 PM
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Body shaming, policing standards of dress and cleanliness etc. how often are women changing their behavior because of fear of being judged by men vs fear of being judged by other women. E.g as a guy when I went over to other people’s houses I barely noticed how clean or dirty it was, but my mom insisted I spending hours cleaning before inviting any guests over, especially in laws.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:10 PM
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Between men and women there is a lot of embarrassment about bodily functions type stuff, or talking about dating, sexual attraction (assuming the people involved are straight , but that if that is not true you might have reasons to talk more openly around the opposite sex than the same sex) Like say a group of men have a opinion about dating someone with high or low body count , they are probably going to feel a bit nervous saying that bluntly with a female friend standing there. If a group of w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 11:04 PM
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But if the gullible idiot is repeating the same talking points as an actual bigot, or authoritarian, or otherwise extreme actor with bad intent, how are we to judge which is which? And shouldn’t the gullible idiot still bear some responsibility for the harm caused spreading the bad actor’s influence?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:46 PM
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You mean wishing for someone to love you in a way that takes away that person’s autonomy? Or are you just saying you should wish for someone to love you because you are valuable and good, not just because you are scared of being alone or rejected?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:38 PM
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Were they portrayed as oppressed ? Or just dumber than the Barbies? A lot of films seem to have a message of “men compete with each other, while women build each other up” but the message is generally “and that is why the men are unhappy, because they choose to be more aggressive and negative and if they chose to love each other like the women do they would not be lonely”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:36 PM
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I definitely remember seeing a study showing that both men AND women had more problems with a female manager than a male manager, and the women interviewed basically said that most male managers judged them on the quality of their work, while many female managers judged them on their ability to play office politics. I would say that kind of behavior counts as toxic femininity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:32 PM
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Not just “marginalized groups” , cis women can often act extremely toxic even to other cis women. That’s like saying the behavior seen in “Mean Girls” is only bad because it was directed at less popular kids, when the popular kids were even sabotaging and making each other miserable .
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:29 PM
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If a boy just handles it silently , I think that doesn’t necessarily show to the audience how damaging the anti-male bias is. But if the boy hardens into backlash , resentment, or destructive actions (which sadly is more realistic imo when it comes to bullying) the story just gets looked at as a toxic masculinity story like Adolescence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:27 PM
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I would argue that for most of human society across many cultures, segregation (based on sex, class, caste, or even race and religion) was the norm. And even when that segregation was not hateful, it was understood that the hair salon was a place for women to talk about their problems, the sports bar was a place for men to talk about their problems, the barbershop was a place for black men to bond… etc. I think it’s only recently that people have seen gender segregated social spaces as inherentl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 10:23 PM
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I think I found another study that is broader than these metropolitan areas, but there are definitely some places where that is not true https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:39 PM
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Yeah that first paragraph is part of why I find the idea of a single household vote by the “man of the house” to be both sexist but also dumb. The extreme religious conservatives are saying that they trust women enough to make decisions on the most important parts of life (where to live, how to spend money, how to discipline and raise the kids) but not enough to have an opinion on foreign policy? Also I agree that decisions outside of the family unit are an oligarchy, but in many places that oli…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:34 PM
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I think the argument there is that if the child is adopted, there will be another parent or caregiver financially responsible so the birth mother or father doesn’t need to still be responsible. But if the birth mother decides to keep the child, the child needs money from both parents. And if the child goes into foster care that is paid for by all taxpayers
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:30 PM
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I think most people today , even feminists, recognize that lying about being on birth control, or especially getting a man too drunk to properly make decisions, is a violation of consent. That would be considered sexual assault no matter who is initiating in any of the workplace or college campus sex lectures I have seen. I think the issue is that in practice those types of he said she said are nearly impossible to properly pass judgement on, so most people give up on holding women accountable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:25 PM
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Honestly , in the last few years, yeah. Online feminists spending all day talking about stuff like “manapreading” makes people care less about real women’s issues. And DEI hiring + the constant public discussion of it has made some people more likely to see a woman in a position of power and wonder if she got their by diversity points instead of merit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:20 PM
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At least in the US we are in a strange place with respect to children/teens autonomy. We treat 17 year olds (and honestly 18-19 too) like babies when it comes to age gap relationships, but we give 11 year olds unlimited access to social media where real groomers (or at the very least older people with no idea of boundaries) are . Like people will lose their shit at a 15 year old dating a 17 year old or even a 21 year old with a 25 year old
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:14 PM
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But civilization is destroying itself as people are having LESS sex, not more. My parents generation was the free love hippie generation, and most of the people from that generation had several partners and used some drugs in their 20s, and then got over that phase of their life and decided to settle down, get a career, get married, and have kids . Today’s 20 year olds are having less sex and using less alcohol/drugs than previous generations, but seemingly to not go through the life experiences…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:52 PM
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Maybe there would be a separate law for human trafficking for the purpose of forced prostitution, and that law applies mostly to trafficking females in practice. But other labor related laws cover any other type of forced work and wage theft
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:46 PM
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Is it a matriarchy when the politicians and judicial system that imposes these extremely anti - male policies is controlled by mostly men? This seems to be a common theme in a lot of countries. Old men holding a lot of power and using it to dismantle the old social order in ways that disproportionately harm other (lower status) men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:43 PM
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I guess in the post I’ve looked over too much I don’t see too much about class, race, environmentalism, economic systems in general , which is what I would assume a “left wing” sub would talk about . Or maybe this is a sign that the modern (U.S. centric) left has become so focused on identity politics, “privilege” and academic buzzwords that I don’t recognize left wing thought when it doesn’t come with all of that. My question to the sub - how much is society responsible for providing help to me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:36 PM
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I am a straight guy, and I think that feminist is a broad enough label that you can’t say all feminists support double standards in the judicial system/hiring. I honestly think a large number of people who call themselves feminist actually just buy into the “it just means believing in female equality and freedom from fear of rape or harassment” labeling. I don’t feel the same way about the leadership of modern feminist movements or feminist academics pushing identity politics. Those people are s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:30 PM
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I don’t have any female friends but I barely have male friends either. It’s normal for me to talk to no one on my birthday outside of my family. Happy red flag for me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:15 PM
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Yes, what ever happened to “be interested, not interesting” as life advice? Which basically , as you said, puts the onus on people to be curious about what makes other people tick instead of just saying “this person doesn’t match my preconceived image of interesting so they must be uninteresting and therefore bad”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:14 PM
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Maybe this is a personal pet peeve of mine, but those vague and moralized buzzwords are often code for “look down on anyone with traits often seen in autism/ADHD/any other mental health challenge” Usually said by the same people who are hypersensitive about “abelism”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 07:09 PM
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What do you mean “adultist”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 06:55 PM
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Who is they? Are you talking about feminist women or white knight men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 06:51 PM
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In the past i.e before most dating online, both men and women weren’t faced with the illusion of infinite choice which really means having infinite people to compare both yourself and your partner too. This has massively changed the psychology of dating. Before people might meet at a concert/bar/party/class/through mutual friends, so there was already some social and interest commonality much of the time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 06:50 PM
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Men don’t make more money if you compare men under ~40 to women under ~40, the wage gap is starting to reverse but the left never talks about that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 06:46 PM
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Username checks out ragggy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/26 08:45 PM
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On the other hand, if men / people who look at these issues from an egalitarian view just avoid those spaces, they will stay echo chambers
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:59 PM
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How is red pill anything like Hitler? That is such a huge leap to make between personal advice on dating and life strategies and societal beliefs of “society should be governed by a single strong leader with few checks and balances, individual rights should be violated for the good of the state, only certain ethnic groups count as a legitimate part of the state and others should be removed or killed, it is our right to take territory and resources from our neighbors… and other beliefs of ethnona…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:22 PM
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I’ve never understood the social dynamic of posting pictures with public comments and likes enabled, and then creating drama when someone likes or leaves a comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:16 PM
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Yes, I would say identifying as a feminist is no longer “in” the way it was in the 2000s and 2010s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:13 PM
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What hurts for me is when the people who talk the most about empathy and “lived experience” have the harshest judgements of me and men as a whole. When conservatives respond to men struggling in life with “change your attitude, stop complaining, and take responsibility for you own bootstraps” , I expect that from them, and at least they are consistent in applying that view to many different situations. But when feminists / leftists go on and on about how “modern society/capitalism is alienating …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:12 PM
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Friendlessness is a common problem for everyone in modern society regardless of gender , but the way that men and women build and maintain friendships tend to be different , so there are gendered differences in friendship and friendlessness. Many men say they feel lonely not because they don’t have a romantic relationship but because they don’t have any close relationships with other men. Male friendships have a weird societal tension between desperation for connection and fear of appearing weak…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 07:16 PM
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I agree than “men being expected to give up their social circle and join hers” isn’t really a systemic thing that is women or feminisms’ fault. But I do think that third spaces centered around men and being men’s “safe spaces” for lack of a better word often get labeled as toxic, which either forces the group to change radically (I.e Boy Scouts becoming scouts ) or is a self fulfilling prophecy where only actual toxic guys join
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 07:10 PM
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But what does “radicalized” mean for women in this context? Are women changing their beliefs faster than men are and moving to more extreme beliefs? I think women are less likely to be driven to extreme anti-social/criminal behavior by these beliefs - when I think of someone being “radicalized” I think of someone committing violence against the target they are radicalized against.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 12:26 AM
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Third spaces also cost a LOT sometimes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 11:15 PM
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Yes, but how many people at these events are trying to meet people and really engaged, and how many are checked out on their phones. I think that is the key difference between third spaces now and 10 years ago
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:51 PM
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I also have spent a lot of time going to various hobby groups trying to make friends, and after years of doing this I have realized I can spent the entire day with these people and still feel lonely because we never actually talk about anything emotionally important to me. And whenever these friends leave the hobby, they usually leave the friend group and I have a very hard time keeping in touch with them. I don’t know if women also experience the same type of loneliness, but this is definitely …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:50 PM
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Emotionally I agree with your last paragraph, but in terms of logic and values, I don’t think I can support the state restricting free speech based on “this content is too negative” or “this is addictive and wastes peoples’ time” . Even if the net effect of social media algorithms and clickbait/emotional ragebait is VERY damaging to society, I don’t see how regulating that is different than social conservatives trying to restrict media that teaches “poor moral values”, or claiming that video gam…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:42 PM
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Not sure why this was downvoted
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:21 PM
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I think some “isms” and social issues do increase when economic times are hard, but others become less relevant. Like I haven’t heard anyone complaining about trans people in bathrooms after gas hit $6 a gallon in California
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:20 PM
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True, but when most people talk about loneliness they don’t mean not having a gf, they mean not having close friends, strong family relationships, or a community that they care about/feel cares about them. A romantic partner can be part of that , but people can be in a relationship and still extremely lonely because they only have surface level connection everywhere else , and people can be single and not lonely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 09:25 PM
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“Shopping malls” are dead where I live. I think much of today’s extreme loneliness comes from “no 3rd spaces, go only to home or work, anything else can be ordered on Amazon”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 09:21 PM
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The amount of lonely men is way more than 20-30% at least among men that i know . And a large number of women as well , but there is a lot more systemic support for women’s mental health and helping women find friends/hobby groups, while if a man goes to things alone all the time trying to meet people, some people immediately view him as suspicious.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 09:20 PM
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You can’t expect men to step up and share active parenthood/fatherhood while also being inherently suspicious of any man who is being an active father in public. And children who have a father that takes them to the playground don’t deserve to internalize that there is something weird or suspicious about their dad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 08:08 PM
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I think women can be very accepting because they see gay men as “all of the supportive aspects of men with none of the ‘threatening’ aspects of straight men”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 08:05 PM
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I think I know what you mean, but can you give a specific example? I do think that in some ways language shapes beliefs and behaviors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 01:50 AM
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At least in family guy, American dad, and South Park, the mothers are also portrayed as having their own obvious flaws. Especially Family Guy. There are as many episodes where Lois is batshit crazy as Peter. The Simpsons Marge is the straight man smart character in most of the episodes I remember
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 02:28 AM
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I do believe that certain “feminist” issues like “manspreading” on public transit only exist because the media pushes the culture war
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 02:26 AM
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Touch grass means “get off of pointless internet arguments and enjoy the real world”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/26 09:54 PM
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They do, they just aren’t willing or able to keep pouring $200 a week probably out of network for every insurance into something that they don’t see helping them. The way most therapists connect seems to speak more to women’s communication styles in general (not all therapists and not all women have the same communication style obviously , this is a generalization)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/26 09:53 PM
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I think there is an explicit choice by the media to describe all those groups under the “manosphere” umbrella
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 07:48 PM
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Yes, I remember in the 2010’s hearing about “MRA/Men’s Mental Health groups” “Pick up artist” , “MGTOW” and “Fathers’ rights” as separate groups with occasionally overlapping goals. (Though to be honest, fathers rights is usually the exact opposite of pick up artist - one of those groups wants to sleep with as many people as possible, not have kids, and take no responsibility if there are kids, the other wants to settle down and have a meaningful relationship with their kids). But the term “Mano…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 07:46 PM
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Downvoted because you are right on all 3 points- although I would argue both left and right thinking is led by a small core of strategic thinkers and a much larger base of emotional thinking messaging. And right wing thinking also thrives on victim/oppressor mentality. A lot of their messaging is about how good family values Christians are being pushed down by greedy hedonistic leftist culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/26 07:34 PM
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Who do you see as the enemy doing it? Marxist/Postmodernists?
/r/MensRights13/05/26 09:04 PM
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Weaker in what way? Physically is true in general
/r/MensRights13/05/26 09:01 PM
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One silver lining in this is that a lot of the people I have seen who describe themselves as “feminist” literally do mean “equality” and just say it as a trendy label. The “feminists” who are published are the ones that are the most well spoken and most extreme in some sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 05:41 AM
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“Placed” in pedagogy and hr? They sought those positions out. Also I can’t say her father is a terrible person for being a “girl dad”
/r/MensRights13/05/26 05:24 AM
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It would fly if the white parent was constantly apologetic and talking about “doing better” and “only keeping family and friends who are actively anti-racist” in my life
/r/MensRights13/05/26 05:23 AM
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But if someone says “ my few interactions with [insert racial group] were often negative” they would be judged as an irredeemable hateful racist.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 05:20 AM
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Hopefully this person gets that in order to put her son first, she will have to push back HARD against any anti-male bullshit from her friends, and probably lose some of those friends. The fact that she is thinking about it makes me hopeful that she will try hard.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 05:18 AM
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Yeah, body positivity doesn’t cover height, facial features, literal disability/deformity, the only thing they seem to consider socially unacceptable to judge someone on is weight, which people do have more control over than the other physical attributes I mentioned
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 11:27 PM
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There are many programs both public and private to advance women getting hired in some fields
/r/MensRights12/05/26 09:43 PM
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That paragraph at the bottom is actually Mark Zuckerberg being based “imagine if you replaced it with “Muslims are trash” . Obviously offensive. We don’t want to be in the business of deciding which groups are disadvantaged enough to be protected so we will apply our content policies equally”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 09:41 PM
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You think straight people in general are good at understanding gay dating social norms? I’m straight and I don’t think I could give much good advice there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 09:21 PM
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It started before that, but 2024 was a disaster (both for the reason you stated, and because we got stuck with an unpopular vice president who had to choose between saying “the Biden status quo is great” and running against her own record as VP, both of which were losing options). I think the messaging towards men vs women was a secondary reason why Democrats did so poorly in 2024 even though Trump was not “popular” by historical polling metrics
/r/MensRights12/05/26 06:41 PM
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The charitable way I see feminism is like those Japanese soldiers on remote islands with no radio contact who kept fighting years after the rest of the world knew that WW2 was over. By that I mean, there was a real issue of sexism in some fields (teachers explicitly telling girls into go for nursing school instead of medical school, or not to study computer science, hiring managers not hiring anyone who they think might have a baby in the next few years, women being expected to put up with quid-…
/r/MensRights12/05/26 06:37 PM
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They conscript women too though unlike many countries.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 06:25 PM
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Okay that’s actually messed up. And if a teacher is telling students in their class not to take the AP exams, in my mind that reflects worse on the teacher who knows they didn’t teach the material well than on the student . I’m lucky enough that I didn’t see any overt and noticeable anti-male bias in my education, but the lack of male mentors and role models I think did hurt me in college and my career (when compared to women in the same field who had many programs explicitly to pair them with a…
/r/MensRights12/05/26 06:17 PM
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To be fair I was like that in AP classes too,5 on all AP exams but not necessarily A in the class. The class and exam end up testing different things
/r/MensRights12/05/26 05:52 PM
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This is true for me, except I don't have a wife and have had very little luck attracting any women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:51 AM
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I mean mothers also have a duty to protect their children, of any gender, for much of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:49 AM
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That actually is interesting! were you doing research/interviews specifically about Covid? I would love to see some actual research on men/women mask and distancing behaviors as opposed to think pieces written by non academics about "toxic masculinity". I am a man and I definitely feel uncomfortable wearing a mask in public if the majority of others in the room are unmasked, but I have never thought about it as feeling unmanly, just that I might be making other people uncomfortable or making the…
/r/MensRights26/05/22 07:36 AM
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do the 50+ year old women in whatever specific place you are thinking of have significantly healthier lifestyles?
/r/MensRights26/05/22 07:27 AM
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Do you think that was because more men had physical labor jobs, or just an attitude that they didn't need a mask
/r/MensRights22/05/22 01:24 AM
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There was at least one death from the heart problems mentioned in that article, but that was an old source looking at only the first 6 months or so of the vaccine rollout. Almost 95% of vaccine-linked myocarditis cases were mild, but one fulminant (sudden and quickly escalating) case was fatal. Surveillance occurred from the vaccine's market introduction, Dec 20, 2020, to May 31, 2021 In addition to at least one person who died of unknown causes shortly after being discharged for myocarditis It …
/r/MensRights22/05/22 12:29 AM
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Dang, I had thought the male-female risk ratio was more like 45%-55%, I did not know the ratio was that lopsided.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 11:44 PM
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There are a bunch of different estimates I have found, it is pretty rare in both sexes but I have seen a few studies suggesting a drastic difference (8-10 times) in the risk ratio between young men and young women. Here is one source: https://www.cidrap.umn.edu/news-perspective/2021/10/covid-vaccine-related-myocarditis-rare-usually-mild-studies-say Overall, data suggested that myocarditis occurred in approximately 1 of 26,000 men and 1 of 218,000 women after the second vaccine dose. Most cases m…
/r/MensRights21/05/22 11:42 PM
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That's what I am saying, all of the articles saying that Covid hits women harder are talking about social factors, not actual death rates. They handwave away the fact that death affects men more often.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 10:57 PM
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fair enough. I am implying that better science could have been done to figure out things like the best time interval between doses, or whether to administer anti-inflammatories with the vaccine in men. I think there would have been more interest in at least asking these questions if more women than men had the side effect. But maybe there would have be no difference in the actual medical science whether there was more sympathy or not.
/r/MensRights21/05/22 09:35 PM
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You don't think that male myocarditis sufferers (or any young male who questions the personal cost-benefit of the vaccine) would get more sympathy if they were female?
/r/MensRights21/05/22 08:50 PM
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why did anyone have to fall in in that situation
/r/MensRights14/08/20 01:14 AM
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Men in our society are the same way, its not really about women.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/19 11:37 PM
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What is a blast? Is that a high dose TRT or a diet/exercise thing?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/19 09:21 PM
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Its just usually people past the age of 6 online bite people they are attracted to, it seems weird for a man-hating feminist to bite a guy she supposedly hates?
/r/MensRights22/02/19 08:05 PM
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r/thathappened
/r/MensRights22/02/19 07:01 PM
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Wait when did Bernie Sanders push gender or race identity politics? I think he has been pretty consistent about that. He does push class identity though, but I see that as a bit different.
/r/MensRights22/02/19 06:57 PM
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I don't see the stat where men are 80% of victims, but either way we need to accept that men aren't the only people who hit their partner.
/r/MensRights19/02/19 07:33 PM
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Pretty sure if you grow up uncirc, you think that looks normal, but if you grow up circ, you think that looks normal?
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:59 PM
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I think if you throw enough big lies, the smaller lies can pass undetected/Overton Window
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:46 PM
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Dishonest men gaslight and lie all the time, look at the tactics used by lying male politicians in countries where overt violence isn't tolerated.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:46 PM
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This is a bit confusing to read
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:43 PM
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I mean if you rip someone's fingernails out you will be sent to prison for torture...
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:40 PM
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Mr Bae also alleged that the London School of Business and Finance (LSBF) breached its duty of care The school has a "duty" to prevent adults in their late 20s and early 30s from cheating?? This isn't high school, or even undergrad. I hope this part of the suit gets thrown out fast.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:37 PM
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Why not a sperm bank if you want a baby that bad??!??? If this isn't satire.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 08:30 PM
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but then the older, more experienced players would Harvey Weinstein the new female players!!!!
/r/MensRights18/02/19 07:28 PM
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not while she is reading a book or magazine....just ask people to move their stuff
/r/MensRights18/02/19 07:15 PM
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I'm a man and I have definitely sat like that when there was no one else around. It would not surprise me if those magazines that were just left there by the last person to sit there.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 07:14 PM
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Social coercion is considered force when a man does it to a woman in some circles...
/r/MensRights24/08/18 10:34 PM
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Idk why feminists find themselves pushing 1940's social values sometimes
/r/MensRights11/08/18 08:01 PM
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yeah, this is actually an extremely old fasioned/regressive law
/r/MensRights11/08/18 08:36 AM
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Isn't the prosecution also required to disclose evidence to the defense before using it in court? So both parties are on an even playing field?
/r/MensRights11/08/18 03:10 AM
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That is not true after 1 or 2 children? I would think that the greatest decrease in working hours in going from 0 children to 1, with a smaller decrease with each additional child...
/r/MensRights11/08/18 03:00 AM
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It seems to me that a lot of the "boys falling behind" gap is explained by behavior/disciplinary issues, and those seem to coincide with physical outdoor play being gradually eliminated as a staple of daily life. Maybe boys are not as hardwired to stare at a screen all day at a young age instead of moving.
/r/MensRights11/08/18 02:36 AM
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To be fair, the article does mention a case where a woman had to pay ($30million?????) for cheating with a married man and thereby inflicting emotional distress on his wife, so maybe this is just a @#%!ed up law
/r/MensRights11/08/18 02:13 AM
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