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In my personal experience as a former "nice guy," I can honestly say women aren't looking for the nice guy. They're looking for a good guy, and yes, they are different. Assholes often seem to win over the nice guy fir one simple reason, they're more "honest." Yeah they're assholes but they wear it externally, they also tend to be significantly more confident abd charismatic, they also don't out women on a pedestal, a practise that often backfires on "nice guys. Nice guys tend to not succeed beca…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 05:23 PM
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Alright I'd love to see your sources then.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:11 AM
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And do you enjoy it or do you also view it as pointless?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:10 AM
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Do you socialize with men in any capacity?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 01:57 AM
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Not even saying this to be rude, I say this as someone who works in mental health, you honestly need to talk to someone in a professional capacity. These thoughts can become very dangerous if left to their own devices.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 01:54 AM
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Well I'm speaking anecdotally but I'd say it's very possible. Roughly half my friends are women and since I'm sure it'll come up, no I did not want to date most of them at any given point in time.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 04:35 PM
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Would you say that your findings are empirically proven or anecdotal?
/r/ExRedPill03/11/23 04:33 PM
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It's very evident that you have a very limited and narrow understanding of how the dating world works for women and it shows. I would even argue that it extends to how you perceive everyday life with regards to the experience if men and women. I would recommend doing some earnest research into these subjects.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/23 04:26 PM
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I don't think that's the majority if relationship advice that's out there, I think that it's more if an issue on where you're sourcing it from. Keep in mind that due to the various algorithms content sites and search engines use to individualize content push on us the more likely you are to encounter a sounding board that eventually cools you into thinking that this content is most if what is out there on "said" subject. In this case it's relationships. I would advise being more self aware if th…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 09:13 PM
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If that's the case I would really take some time to think about how strong the foundation of your relationship with him is because that's control, not boundaries.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/23 04:53 PM
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So a few follow up questions. Why did it matter to you that they like or comment on your social media posts? Did you ever hang out with them outside of seeing them at the gym? Even if they were using you for "validation" why did this upset you enough to confront them about it? What bother you on a personal level about that possibility? Thought experiment for you. Since you perceive that you were a really nice guy to them, why do you think they'd want nothing to do with you after "one" mistake?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 04:05 PM
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I'll be honest you weren't actually ready to apologize then since you weren't prepared for every outcome. So what triggered you regarding their response? Also I do think more details are needed regarding the original fallout you had from them and your reasoning behind it if you don't mind?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 12:23 PM
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Well, I'm going to ask the obvious question. Have you tried apologizing to your friends?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 02:26 AM
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I think you're in the wrong reddit group bud.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/23 02:25 AM
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Definitely toxic and mysoginistic. Honestly the best thing to do is step away from worrying about others and focus on you. That being said you hit one good point though. You mentioned that when you see someone doing well in life you want to know their secret, that's actually really great and can have a lot of positive benefits for you if you take the time to ask them and learn what they're doing. However, do not pursue this knowledge to ultimately be better than that person, but to improve yours…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 09:04 AM
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Yeah that's a fair analysis. I would agree that under the right circumstances individuals can set themselves up to being more prone to being victims of cheating. Ultimately ties into self-esteem and the need for men to work on it and improve it over time.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:51 PM
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I won't lie I have a limited knowledge of the incel community, but I have definitely noticed a trend to focus solely on the appearance if women and their partners alongside playing to very shallow stereotypes regarding those people. Maybe take the time to try and understand what it is women find attractive about these men beyond just their physical appearance. Yes that matters to some degree particularly at the beginning when you're just getting to know one another, but it doesn't sustain relati…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:45 PM
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Actually you didn't ask me anything, that's someone else. However based on your question it seems like you're implying that they're somehow at fault in some capacity. Now if I'm wrong in my interpretation I do apologize but surely you can see how one might infer that.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:28 PM
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So are you suggesting it's somehow his own fault he got cheated on?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:13 PM
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Your claim that women only ever seem to date tall men even though your referencing a very small population of women you deem attractive. If you broadened your dating pool you'd probably find that's not always the case.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 04:09 PM
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Because people want the fast and easy answers to their problems and circumstances; therefore they want a guide from some "guru" who appears to have accomplished what they wish to achieve. Then they want that guide to check off the clear and concise boxes hoping they end up where said "guru" is. Reality is that self improvement is constant, it's dirty, it's time consuming, it's difficult, and no one individual or philosophy can successfully get you there. Truth is self improvement is a very abstr…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 05:58 AM
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I feel like you've just put yourself into a very narrow corner with regards to your dating criterion for women, as a result you've taken anecdotal evidence from a very limited and highly specific pool and generalized it across the population.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 05:51 AM
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As someone who never pilled honestly just take time to yourself, really truly by yourself and start figuring out what your specific journey is.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 05:47 AM
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You were still looking up content at least closely related to the subject matter which would have skewed your algorithm. I never see this kind if stuff on mine for instance.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 03:03 PM
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Redpill is a Red Flag. I hate to say it because you've been with him for a year but you probably need to end it.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 06:04 PM
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I think a major barrier you're running yourself into is that you're still generalizing what women are attracted to. I can say with absolute certainty that there are women out there that will find you attractive. Based on how people have described I'm guessing you're a bit more sensitive and emotionally intelligent than some men based on that criticism. If that is the case let me tell you that that is awesome and a great advantage when it comes to forming meaningful relationships with people a d …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:58 PM
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No now you're just arguing semantics. Our species will be fine. They clearly mean "Men don't need Women" in the context of relationships, not overall.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:33 PM
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I disagree with your overall assessment of youtube self improvement channels. There are a lot if great channels for Health, Fitness, Self Care, etc. that never step into red pill or red pill adjacent content at all. I'd argue you skewed the algorithm in favor of seeing such content based on your original motivations for self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:22 PM
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The assessment of the women from the dog training class you took. Do you or have you had any really close and strong friendships in the past or present?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:15 PM
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Out of curiosity how did you make that assessment? Was it verbalized by them or assessed? I might be delving a bit deeper into this than intended but are you just feeling an overwhelming sense of loneliness over all?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:10 PM
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Well that's unfortunate that there was no single women there to meet. Curious to know what you mean by "posh." I would still consider diversifying even more. When I was single and looking I was taking classes, doing meet ups, joining rec. leagues, doing online dating, going out with friends often as possible and to any social gathering that resulted from there. It can be a lot of work but you got to just be out there and honestly manage your expectations as well.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:01 PM
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Alright, have you tried other options? maybe speed dating? joining a meet up group or a recreational class/league related to a hobby or interest?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 12:01 AM
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Genuine question, what are you doing to put yourself out there to meet someone?
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 04:41 PM
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