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| 1 | How do I cope with being an Indian American manI’m mocking the notion, not you. A lot of minorities literally hold that view, that interracial dating = dating white, and it causes a ton of avoidable struggle. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I cope with being an Indian American manYes, the two types of women, indian or white | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/26 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Lookism as Epistemic InjusticeIt worked for me | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsI get the OP is getting some pushback for seeming to imply that women wouldnt fuck a hot guy for its own sake, but there is some truth to what he’s saying. A significant number of women (and men for that matter) engage in casual sex for validation reasons. Some women do actually think that, for example, getting lots of matches on tinder or getting lots of guys to fuck them means that they’re attractive. Ive been at parties where women in their 20s were shocked to find out that even fat, 65yo wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedNothing is guaranteed except failure if u dont try 100%. It’s difficult to acquire this mentality though, particularly the mentality of trying w/o giving a fuck about the outcome. I only reached that stage when i hit rock bottom, had just gotten out of jail, felt like id ruined my life anyways so fuck it 🤷🏾♂️might as well try to get laid. Thats why i have so much empathy for blackpilled incels, bc i was one for so long. IMO once uve been in the black-pill mentality for too long, no amount of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?Dont waste ur effort trying to explain our culture to Americunts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedI get what ur saying, status is local, agree 100%. But at the end of the day ur still interacting w the mainstream dating market, even if its indirectly. Dont u earn more money w ur ivy league degree than most men? Cant u use that $ to max urself out and create opportunities for urself? U really think youd have been better off if u were some poor schmuck who went to a community college or no college at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedlots of Ivy League men are scrawny nerds So? Many proles are scrawny nerds too but unlike u theyre not even exceptionally smart nor do they have the earnings potential to looksmax or statusmax. And half of them are obese, i bet 95% of ur campus had a healthy BMI. There may be individual guys all over the place that mog even elite ivy leaguers or celebs but on average the men on tinder are bottom tier, just like the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedBro theres other apps, theyre just becoming more specialized and gimmicky. Theres ones catering to specific ethnicities, theres ones based around matching compatible astrological signs, etc Young ppl are still overwhelmingly using swipe apps, theyre just not limiting themselves to tinder like in the early 2010s. The ratio imbalance doesnt prove shit, it just means women spend less total time on the app than men. If u survey a group of 100 young women i still guarantee u most of them would’ve use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedWhy would u think that? The league is for ivy league alumni only, u know they probably have a lower average BMI and higher average height than the general population right? (Solely based on the fact that elite college alums tend to come from wealthy families). Raya has literal celebrity men on it, u think tinder has more attractive men on average? Just lol. Raya is invite only, its meant to keep the uggos out, unlike tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedAre u tall and white? ive also had some success on apps, but i always let incels im talking to know that im a Im a 5’8” indian guy so they dont dismiss my experiences as being out of their reach. Frankly my dating app experience was nothing like urs, girls literally never read my bio (i knew cos theyd ask me things id already said in the bio lol) and the girl i ended up w swiped right and met up w me solely bc i had dark skin and facial hair (her words). My pics were better than some shitty car … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedOnly pua weirdos do that shit, normies do warm approaches - they’ll approach “strangers” sure, but only in a context where they have some background connection to that person i.e. theyre at a house party and they both know the host, or they’re taking the same class or something. Cold approach specifically refers to approaching ppl when u have absolutely no socially normal reason to talk to them, such as at the grocery store or or on the street in the middle of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedTheres plenty of apps other than tinder bruh. The newest thing for really high SMV men is exclusive apps like Raya or The League. Individual apps like tinder may be dying (or changing their purpose, increasingly ppl just use it for validation and self-assessment, its like what Hot or Not used to be), but swipe apps as a whole are thriving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemShit just happened? What so he tripped and fell into her pussy? Lmao. The shady undercurrent is he was the type of guy to cheat lol. Its an intentional action, and he did it after a year+ long relationship. Doesnt make him a full blown sociopath or anything but definitely makes at least a little bit of a badboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having Sexhis personality...😂😂😂😂😂😂 girl u dont know that man, how tf would u know what his personality is like? Based on what, his standup routine? Lmaooooo Ppl really just get on here and say anything. Its okay to just say u had a crush on a famous guy, lmaooo “his personality” Im not your bruh ...holy shit ur so white lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexIt doesnt solve anything on its own but it can be the first step to escaping inceldom. If nothing else it helps u realize that the act of sex itself is not the biggest deal in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemShit when i was younger i almost killed myself from lack of sex but i guess technically ur right. U have moral objections to prostitution or just not what u want? Can i ask ur age range? 30+? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexDude he isnt really famous now, he was always a D list celeb. If anything he peaked back in ur day. Still 1000s of times more fame and status than 99% of men. Better looking than most men too, hes only “conventionally unattractive” for a famous entertainer. I have a gf bruh im just saying ur example is laughable. I like how u assume anyone who disagrees w u is some incel tho lmao 👍🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemU dont need sex tho? U see escorts? My bad if thats a TMI question lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemOut of character? Nah, i think people just reveal their character. As nice and polite as he might have seemed on the surface, obv that wasnt the whole story. My working theory is that p much all women are drawn, often unwittingly, to that shady undercurrent that can exist in even the most unassuming of men. Idk. Just my take based on my real life and my observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexSo the actual rapist might not have the personality of a rapist, but the depressed virgin shitposting online does? Hmmmm almost like the whole concept of “rapist personality” is nonsensical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexWow u wanted to bang a famous celebrity when u were younger —> there’s someone for everybody? Lmao come on bro 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexI think escorts count at least partially, i notice a fundamental difference between the guys who at least accepted reality and just got a hooker versus those who hold out for that perfect opportunity well into their 20s and 30s. The latter are just way more inhibited and risk averse, theyre the ones i can see being celibate for life. At least the escort guys have a little bit of “whatever, idgaf anymore” energy which can paradoxically make u somewhat more attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemBruh u really must think a “bad boy” is some dude on a motorcycle w a leather jacket and a cigarette dangling out his mouth. Smh.. in reality some of these “square, passive, introverted, risk-averse” guys are the biggest sociopaths of all. Dont go by movie cliches. What is badboy energy? Badboy energy is when u impulsively cheat on ur LTR the second another prospect comes along. Thats pretty low/inhib and risky for such as supposed “square”. Can I ask how u found out? Did he confess? Did he try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:40 PM |
| – | Men get 1 thing wrong about the nice / douchey debacleAgreed. Being douchey to others, while not a nice thing to do, is an expression of social status. Only psychosocially dominant ppl can get away w it, so it does attract a good chunk of women, esp for short-term mating purposes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemI feel u bro i definitely learned the hard way myself, had no one to show me. You never think about changing up ur approach though? I recognize the objections regarding personal integrity and not changing for other ppl and stuff like that... but for me, the pain of being i n c e l so long was unbearable, i got to the point where i was willing to do almost anything to change my situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemSuch a redditor thing to say lol. u know ur nerdy introverted boi can be on that demon time too, right? Im a nerd, i still ended up catching a felony charge. At the end of the day he cheated, and after a whole year too, which is pretty cold blooded. He had badboy energy whether u were conscious of it or not. Guys who are just “funny and sweet” dont cheat 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problem🤷🏾♂️in a capitalist world we are all salesmen to some degree, love it or hate it. I glanced at ur post history, may i ask, are u just single...indefinitely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemAh so he overcame his looks w badboy energy (i mean he ended up being a cheater, he cant have been a gormless Nice Guy). Thats a notion i can co-sign, being a cheater/badboy/thug is the only thing more viscerally attractive to women than looks. Definitely worked for me, i never got as much attention from women in my life as i did after i got out of jail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemYES. We arent as good at telling stories w our profiles and often when we do its not very socially calibrated (esp for inexperienced guys) so it comes off as cringy. Its a catch 22 for late-bloomers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemDude flirting is a bigger part of sales than youd think. Hell for some ppl light flirting w ppl you have no intention of getting with is a part of workplace culture. Its just a social game grown ppl play. I sympathize w having difficulty understanding the rules though: i come from a culture w arranged marriages, where these sort of interpersonal skills arent as important. I think they do serve some broader purpose tho. I definitely notice that guys who come from “dating” cultures are more confid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemNah theyre great for sales and networking as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemIm guessing those relationships didnt last lol. I wish women would just date guys they were attracted to from the jump instead of jedi-mindtricking themselves into thinking an ugly guy is cute bc he “said something sweet” or whatever. Personally Id be devastated if my gf hadnt been attracted to my looks first and my personality second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemEven pictures in a dating app can convey (or fail to convey) neurotypicality. Awareness of social norms and the rules of the courtship dance (which vary from subculture to subculture) is still just as important as looks. Its really just that everything is more important now than it was for previous generations of men. The bar continues to be raised for men, its adapt or be celibate in 2021. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Who else here is a good social circle but suck with dating and girls....I see girls throw themselves at guys all the time, guys who barely seem to go out of their way. How the fuck have you never seen that in 30 years? | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 08:55 PM |
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