HugoJP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
153	Marriage from the POV of a (modern) woman	Red Pill Theory	HugoJP	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/22 08:53 AM
76	Nuclear shit test example	Red Pill Theory	HugoJP	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/23 10:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Nuclear shit test example they don’t like losing Can't argue you on that point. Fair	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/23 10:07 AM
21	Do men really age like "wine" (especially past 40)? No, most men don't. The difference in aging between men and women is that for men, it is possible to keep increasing their SMV into their 40s. Yes, physically you start looking worse as you go into your late 30s, but proper diet, workout routine & possibly TRT can do miracles. In addition, physical appearance is just one of the components that contributes to a man's SMV. Status, confidence & game play key roles as well, and those increase with age if you play your cards right. Whereas for women …	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/23 02:06 PM
34	"I'm sorry if I came on as an asshole" - most men are Nice Guys Nothing wrong with being a nice guy. But when most people say nice guy, they essentially mean simp. And there is absolutely something wrong with being a push-over, having no mental point of origin, seeking female validation & having no SMV. That's very unappealing to women. The female fantasy is to get the asshole (confident, high SMV guy) to simp, but only for them (and ofc when he does she leaves him). The reason lots of men simp today is that they never had a father figure & were raised by th…	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/23 05:07 PM
1	How do I fix my brain and mind? Your brain is addicted to dopamine from short format videos, videogames, porn & shit food. You probably have brain fog 99.9% of the time & are operating at subpar capacity. Quit Cold Turkey. It's easy when you understand and see that your life will continue to be as shit as it is currently unless you change your behavior	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/23 01:45 PM
3	RED PILL KILLED MY GAME: What I wish I knew all this time A Chimpanzee would also say that cars don't work. But sure, it's not you, everybody here who thinks TRP works is just delusional.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/23 03:24 PM
36	RED PILL KILLED MY GAME: What I wish I knew all this time TRP didn't kill your game, you did because like most moronic noobies, you misinterpreted and misapplied most of the shit you read here.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/23 07:16 AM
1	The Betas who Think they Exist How do you know your path is your own though? You are, of course, completely right. Most people follow (and pay) some guru, the church, a celebrity, their mommy/daddy etc. How can you ever be sure that what you want is truly what you want and has not been imprinted onto you? Even if you do the opposite of what they want you to do, they are still controlling your life & you are not free. I think the best you can do is critically analyze your motivations & reflect on how much you think about the o…	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/23 08:12 AM
2	Don’t fall into negativity - it can get so much better You're not wrong, but how is your comment constructive? Just giving short guys an excuse to cope & be miserable & fall into a negative spiral, like OP pointed out. Everybody has their hardships & challenges to overcome. Yes, some may be harder to overcome than others, but the point is to keep trying & refusing to give up. If your attitude & consequently your actions don't change, you will never be more than what you are right now.	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/23 09:32 AM
2	Don’t fall into negativity - it can get so much better Yep. I'm the same age as you, was in the same boat as you & doing much better now, much like yourself. You gotta go through some dark places, but as long as you keep going, you will reach the light at the end of the tunnel. Fundamentally, RP is pretty simple, but it's not easy to implement everything into your life in 1 go. What you mentioned is pretty complete, the only thing I'd add is focus on developing social skills (game). Your social skills automatically calibrate to a more sophisticated …	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/23 09:26 AM
36	Intelligence and attractiveness In my experience, as a 95+ percentile intelligence guy who has gone on dates with ladies of average/below average intelligence, it's hard not to seem like you're flexing on them in some way. Even if you don't talk about your job or complicated shit, but just mundane stuff. It's going to be obvious that you're in another league when it comes to cognitive ability & hard to not come off condescending unless you actively focus on 'meeting them at their level'. A.k.a. you should completely try to avo…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/23 07:27 AM
4	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. Men with poor social skills tend to be shy and retreat This. And you see them coming from a mile away since they usually look the part. So you set your expectations accordingly. women with poor social skills tend to be obnoxious and rude Exactly. And that is something that will stick in your memory. The guys with bad social skills filter themselves out. They don't go to the 'cool' parties. You don't talk to them in the office. Obnoxious women, however, you can meet anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 05:12 PM
1	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. Women have naturally evolved to develop instincts (or whatever you call it) to be better spotting social/emotional cues. (As they have to know when a fight is about to break loose so they can gtfo for for example) But in modern times, they don't have to rely on their social calibration as much, as the world is much safer in general. Meanwhile, they can get away with shitty social skills much easier at a young age (the more the prettier they are), when men are just looking for a wet hole, so they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 05:02 PM
4	Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive. I'm 2 years older than you, in the exact same shoes. Millionaire before I even graduated. I'll tell you what I did & my perspective; His money will never be your money. Even if he gives it to you. Even if he tells you there are no strings attached. Even if you think there are no strings attached. Once you do something that he strongly dislikes, you will find out that here are always strings attached. A man must make his own way. Like you said, the alternative is being a grown child. To elaborate…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/23 09:01 AM
-1	CMV: Women don’t actually care about money There is without doubt a not insignificant percentage of women who absolutely have money in their top 3 list of important things if not #1. And 100k will not even come close to their threshold if you live in a high cost of living area. Some won't even care about your income, they want you to be a (multi)millionaire already. On average though, I think you're kind of right. But 125k will go a longer way than 75. Again, number depends on aerial cost of living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 07:34 AM
1	Struggling through breakup The real Red Pill is when you realize that the reason she left you is why you're feeling like shit. Shit is triggered because on some level you are depending on her. Emotional stability, sex, feeling loved/needed, whatever. And women instinctively sense this & start distancing themselves. If you couldn't care less if a woman left, she most likely wouldn't. And if she does, it would bother you for about 10 minutes.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/22 09:14 PM
1	I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster. Don't people need a dream to be motivated to work towards? That's the approach taken by most people. Always living for some moment in the future. Which quickly fades when it actually does occur, if ever. And they are onto the next thing already. But that's not required to live life. That's just 1 path. There are others, but you won't find them if you don't look. I once contemplated suicide after a crazy acid trip. Couldn't think of a reason not to do it. But I couldn't think of a satisfying reas…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/22 11:51 PM
1	I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster. But the frame stuff, the masculinity stuff, burden of performance, all that jazz. Basically turning myself into a caricature for women's amusement. And not even the type of caricature that I can be proud of. I've always thought alpha type guys are brutish assholes. Funny because you've made a caricature from the term 'Alpha'. Not all alpha's are assholes or bullies. Most aren't, actually. That's just a segment you've focused on because it irks you the wrong way. 'Alpha' has much more to do with …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/22 03:43 PM
17	People should be 100% transparent on the first date I'll tell you why this is stupid and doesn't work, even with the best intentions; You are assuming every person has perfect self-knowledge and self-reflection capability. Most of us are not even aware of half our flaws. In addition, a 'flaw' is subjective. I might call a certain personality trait in a partner a benefit, while you might call it a detriment. Most people absolutely believe they are authentic & mostly honest. What most of us think of as bad guys often even believe they are 'good'. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 03:02 PM
1	I'm very weak, and need to change. But I've been stuck in the same rut for almost 4 years. Could I please have some advice? Ey man, life is not easy, but I can tell you it gets easier. You have to come to terms with the fact that nobody really knows wtf they are doing on this tiny pebble of a planet that is circling a giant nuclear reactor. Nobody is going to live your life for you, you are the one that has to figure this shit out. And the sooner you begin, the better your life will be. And it will take years because humans are slow learners. In the end, it's all worth the hard work & struggle if you can have some fu…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/22 01:19 PM
2	Some of this is gonna be bullshit depending on what you want out of life 26 here, been here since I was 19. (i seriously don’t believe AWALT and there are some women who actually want a guy who’s human, has emotions and can admit their mistakes or shortcomings) They absolutely do. But you haven't yet fully understood what TRP is aiming to do and the reason you came here in the first place. The reason this place attracted you was because you were lacking with women in some aspect & also because you were lacking internally. The underlying reason for this is most likely…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/22 01:02 PM
1	Women live in a neurotic hell Same for me minus the abuse. If you are unconfident (for whatever reason) sense negative emotion in you, such as fear, suffering, or self-hatred, they will be utterly repulsed and horrified of you. this is what happens. And women pick up on this from a mile away. Being unconfident and self-conscious is like walking around with 'Stay away from me' written on your forehead. And women react to this much more negatively than other men, although popular/high status/alpha men will try to avoid you als…	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/22 09:59 AM
2	CorporateLand: Don’t Kill the Job v. Quiet Quitting. Now, there are certain benefits to being prosocial. I’m a believer in it, in terms of building relationships and making my life easy. As I say, “Make sure you have a positive balance in the ‘Favor Bank’." There are few things more important than being 'likable'. The ability to get along with just about anybody (without having to compromise your integrity) is a huge benefit. The overwhelming majority of people don’t have careers, they have jobs. I'd say about 1% of people have a career. My defini…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/22 02:02 PM
3	Marriage from the POV of a (modern) woman How is it something she 'offers' when she wants his children more than he does? The guy is offering up half his assets potentially. And paying for an expensive wedding, probably. That's not something he wants, hence why that does qualify as an 'offer'.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/22 08:26 PM
4	FR: This shit works for real As most people pointed out, the part where you blundered was going for the divorce card. The reason why you shouldn't use that card is that ... well, where do you go from there? She WILL do stupid shit like this again. When that happens, are you going to walk? Unless the answer is yes, you'll have to backtrack which undermines your position. This this this. Never threaten a woman with leaving her unless you wouldn't hesitate to put your words into action. Which is why you NEVER should get marrie…	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/22 10:27 AM
4	FR: This shit works for real This shit really works. What shit? STFU. IDGAF. My frame not hers. Dread. THIS SHIT WORKS. This is the crazy thing a lot of BP'ers cannot fathom. That it works. I invite any guy to try pleading with his girl about something. 'Please honey don't do xyz, it hurts my feeling/I don't like it please please cut it out. Note how she reacts (or doesn't react). Then 2 weeks later run some dread game on that bitch about something that she's being a pain in the ass about. Compare your notes. It's night and…	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/22 10:20 AM
13	Marriage from the POV of a (modern) woman Average age of fathering the first child is 36 with that age increasing as well. Nah it's not that high (yet) in the US. In Korea women are 33 men 36 when the first child is conceived. And that's the latest worldwide, I think. But yeah it's pretty nuts compared to just 50 years ago...	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/22 02:35 PM
44	Marriage from the POV of a (modern) woman Yep most women go (partly) subconscious through this process. And she verbalizes it quite well. What amuses me is that despite this relatively high level of introspection, knowing that marriage is not a good deal for him (and men in general) + him stating years previously he doesn't want marriage, she's still determined to find a way to change his mind. That's her imperative. She's playing the game and determined to win. The post is certainly nothing new, but it could be an eye-opener for a fe…	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/22 11:14 AM
3	Dating down? Thoughts? I've stumbled on a few articles saying many professional women cannot find their match so they date down in income, education, etc. Of course it is true, most will have to. The amount of men who are making 100k+ is quite limited and many of them are not interested in dating a woman who is (as) career oriented (as them). Is this feasible long term? This is so dependent on the people involved.. I would say, yes, it absolutely can work. But more often than not it probably doesn't, which doesn't say…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/22 02:02 PM
10	High Maintenance vs. Low Maintenance Energy This is a top tier post It means being satisfied with the boring reality of the everyday, not looking for the next dopamine hit and relying on men to keep you entertained (More dates! More vacations!) Yes.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/21 08:50 AM
22	Tips on finding a high value man? Yes, you and all women. There are no shortcuts to getting a HVM, especially not when you put such an emphasis on the income aspect. The only 'shortcut' is be to very attractive, as in the 9-10 range. Which you most likely are not; because you wouldn't be asking this question. Ultimately, you don't pick a HVM. He picks you. The most you can 'do' is be as physically attractive as you can and display that you are 'wifey' material. (Enough info on this sub what this entails). And, of course: be avai…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/21 03:36 PM
–	FEAR: the only thing stopping me from doing everything Don't speak of becoming fearless, that's impossible. Speak of acquiring great courage. Greg Plitt said something along the lines off; "A man with only courage on his side can accomplish anything." "If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do us no harm" -Les Brown If you were completely or close to being "fearless" you wouldn't even need pick up theory :) The only way to expand your comfort zone is to push its boundaries, take massive action or create a "buffer overflow" (google that t…	/r/seduction	06/08/16 08:22 PM
1	Need advice: what am i doing this for? I do it for a lot of reasons but I believe there is at least one that everyone can on some level relate to. Fear is what drives me. I want to choose a woman I like. I don't want to settle, I don't want to cope. I've read the stories about men that lost everything because their woman left them. Women that cheat on their men. No more or very little sex after marriage. Women poison dripping their man. Men spending their lives with women they grow to despise but can't leave. Men having their kids ta…	/r/seduction	06/08/16 08:04 PM
–	How can I stop putting my crushes on a pedestal? Heard Tyler say this in a video a few years ago. He said just remember, every hot girl probably goes to a McDonald's at the end of the night. There, she's going to cram herself with junk food. When she comes home, she's going to go to the bathroom and have the most insane diarrhea imaginable from all that fiber-free food. Just imagine that girl sitting on the toilet with her dress down and poo flying in all directions next time you put her on a pedestal.	/r/seduction	06/08/16 10:03 AM
0	My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop it This is somewhat accurate i'd say. Idk about the statistics I see the reasons behind it. Women almost exclusively cheat on beta men, not alpha. So let's assume he's beta. Scenario: Woman cheats on beta man. Man blames her and starts viewing all women as "whores". >He becomes even more beta. When he finds another girl he's scared she will also cheat on him. He will try to take measures so she doesn't. This creates even more scarcity, neediness and more. >This girl also cheats on him inevitably. C…	/r/seduction	04/08/16 05:03 PM
-1	My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop it OK I'll show you a way out of this pit. Answer: Watch Real Social Dynamic videos concerning NEEDINESS. Below me smacking you in the face with reality, sorry. You don't have your shit together at all bro. You're so fucking needy of this girl it hurts me to see a fellow man like that. Your ego is completely being demolished by 1 little girl, embarrassing when you think about it but we've all been there. You built delusional confidence through fucking so many other women. You built your confidence …	/r/seduction	04/08/16 04:53 PM