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4

Idk why guys want "variety" when most are bad at sex and only want to get themselves off. Variety doesn't make you better in bed, so I couldn't imagine a life of bad sex completing a person. So immature. And ppl in relationships have more sex.
/r/seduction12/07/26 06:05 AM
1

You understand that you will gain weight, bald, wrinkle, get sick, and die like everyone else, right? Choosing a partner bc they're fit only is stupid. First off, most fit women won't opt for drinks. At your age, if you can't afford to take women on actual dates, don't bother. After 42, you're passed the age of meeting someone to start a family with or have kids bc no one wants a 20 yr old when they're supposed to be retiring. Your options are women who had kids already, or women who don't want …
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:34 AM
1

A big d, being good in bed.
/r/seduction02/07/26 08:52 PM
2

Women in her 30s are young, looking for men themselves. You need to look like Cavill to get these women.
/r/seduction22/06/26 09:58 PM
2

Bc women generally grow a spine and set boundaries around 30. Our brains don't mature beforehand and women often move away from family and peer pressure after having their real jobs. Then, women date to start families or stop dating.
/r/seduction25/05/26 11:57 PM
2

Austin isn't known for makeup or dressing up.
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:22 AM
1

Looking nice can get your foot in the door but if you're not intentional and forth coming, nothing matters. You say you're looking for a relationship but act the opposite? Cut off. And single dudes do not have as much sex.
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:13 PM
27

Casual and exclusive don't exist together
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:08 AM
8

FWBs starts as friends. You don't start off flirting and sleeping together. These are people you either knew or previously dated and it didn't work.
/r/seduction09/05/26 04:34 PM
15

If you're not chatting them up until the date, it screams not interested in them as a person. Some of us have lives and jobs - we are not going out on work nights.
/r/seduction28/04/26 08:41 AM
2

Lol Men age out at 45 having first kids. Bc no woman wants a 20 yo kid when they're 65. If you think you'll have kids when you're older, you're going to have to have something the woman really wants, like money. The larger the age gap, the more likely the woman will drop their mates as they start to age and become another child.
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:34 AM
0

You need help. You better be upfront with your age.
/r/seduction16/04/26 07:09 AM
1

If you can't drive 2 hrs then stop talking to her
/r/seduction13/04/26 04:25 PM
1

What's "seeing how things go"? You get upset bc you give TWO options: casual OR see how things go. If you don't see them as gf material, don't sleep with them or give false hope. If sex is all you're after, be very plain when you say that - get rid of the "or" like there's any other option. If a girl is giving you her attention and time and YOU KNOW she wants a relationship it is YOUR JOB to not sleep with her and be very clear beforehand that you are not dating - that means you're not going out…
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:51 AM
1

Dude wants to experience sex with a 10 but won't commit to one bc he wants sex, not a relationship. And that's why you'll have issues.
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:29 PM
1

You don't exist to them.
/r/seduction08/04/26 10:32 AM
1

Ha. Girl wants to make plans with you and she's your secret Saturday girl but now she's got other plans Saturday so she's free Fri or Sun. But those girls want Saturday and Thursday. You're not available any of these days bc your bros want to go out... A guy with a guarded schedule who's never available or able to accommodate is not single or free to date. And women know this. Eventually, you'll end up on a dating app rat out app like awdtsg and catching an std, meanwhile your schedule is so bus…
/r/seduction06/04/26 10:07 PM
2

That does nothing for a girl but feel used. You need to provide presents or money.
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:54 AM
11

Haha I was like 30+ min late for a first date with a guy bc he chose a horribly crowded place with only valet - and I don't do valet parking. Time was important to him. Easily accessible, noncrowded places were mine. Sometimes it just works out like it should.
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:13 AM
0

In 3 years, you're going to see a shift lol
/r/seduction28/03/26 03:47 PM
1

You need a job. It is not social media peak now, that's why there are so many. Obviously you're young and naive.
/r/seduction26/03/26 11:39 PM
1

I thought this was a dude writing until they said they were on their period so now I'm confused on the story.
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:51 PM
4

Yep. That's how you get on Are We Dating the Same Guy and Tea App. Cross a psycho with anger issues and you'll end up like Dicaprio when he got a beer bottle to the face. Karma does, eventually, get to you.
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:19 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:17 PM
6

You're going to end up on those groups/apps with your face plastered everywhere bc you use ppl if you're not telling the truth. You just want sex, no relationship. Be honest or deal with the consequences. If you cross the wrong girl, you'll learn a very valuable life lesson about why you don't hurt ppl and always be honest.
/r/seduction24/03/26 07:15 PM
4

They're an insecure attachment style and have a false sense of what relationships are. You can't save them.
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:31 PM
0

You're leading her on and you're going to either end up on an app called out or in the ground for crossing the wrong girl
/r/seduction19/03/26 07:39 AM
-7

You mean you didn't expect to have to wait for sex? That's like when I ask dudes what they're looking for and they say long term/serious then get frustrated bc I won't put out for a while. You need to invest time, money, and energy. The trash takes itself out. And that's what you're doing.
/r/seduction18/03/26 05:50 PM
1

When you get one pregnant, you're going to wish things were different. After 30, women in Japan are expected to stop working, stay home, and raise kids. Things will shift for you when you're older, and you're going to wish you had relationship experience.
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:02 AM
2

Disagree. My ex didn't respond in 4 days so I cut him off. There's a point when a dude is too unavailable to waste time on.
/r/seduction14/03/26 10:58 PM
20

She asked about Sunday and to make plans, but instead you call her when she's out like a needy lil bish. When she asked for Sunday, you should've texted suggested plans then. Obviously she doesn't like talking on the phone. Take her hints.
/r/seduction10/03/26 12:30 AM
3

Don't represent yourself like someone you're not. If you're getting in shape just to date then you need to keep it up after. Otherwise, look how you plan to be in the future.
/r/seduction27/02/26 10:25 PM
24

You can't give advice for guys to go for underage supermodels like the IG profiles they follow, or the IG women with a million followers. They chose which women to talk to on the apps, which ones to waste time on. Eventually, they will be 45+, alone and single, across the table from a woman who asks why are you single and they'll say bc they're picky. Red flag. You'd do better telling these men they aren't perfect either and relationships take work. To find compatibility and find a woman you res…
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:02 PM
2

Approaching that many women over 2 years and no gf?
/r/seduction27/02/26 02:49 AM
6

Bc she can take your movements as hostile and report you for rape. If you don't trust her, don't do it.
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:38 PM
6

You sound desperate and pathetic. She's not asking you about what you like or did bc she doesn't care. Just bc she slept with a football team doesn't mean she'll sleep with you. You have to accept that even labeling women a hoe doesn't get you laid.
/r/seduction21/02/26 05:41 PM
43

Fwb always ends with one party getting hurt. She finally understands you don't want to date and she's no longer wasting her time with you. Also, some fwbs are exclusive. If you liked her and what she provided, you should've stepped up.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:18 PM
1

Don't you have a life?
/r/seduction17/02/26 04:04 PM
1

If you send a girl a voice note like that, she'll share it with her friends and make fun of you. Voice notes are for lazy ppl who can't spell. And needing a phone call before meeting screams insecurity. Total turn offs. I know bc I'm a girl and I've been doing this longer than anyone in these posts. Slow and steady wins the race when you're getting older. Under 35, just be honest.
/r/seduction17/02/26 05:18 AM
3

☝️👆☝️ Most women under 40 do not swipe on guys over 40. The old adage you can't teach an old dog new tricks is especially useful. At 40, men are set in their ways and are least likely to change. After 45 especially, the chances of family planning is pretty much out the door. In today's age, women <35 are usually focusing on finding themselves and fun. Women >35 are more serious and deciding if they want kids. After 40, most people have a lot of baggage. You can't be ambitious anymore - your trac…
/r/seduction12/02/26 06:04 PM
12

They see you as money and temporary if they're young.
/r/seduction12/02/26 05:53 PM
2

This. If a guy's schedule is grey and ambiguous, there's someone else he's talking to. Women leave bc their instincts are they're not alone. If I ask you if you're busy on a known time you aren't at work, I'll be like ok. But the days around it? Plans need to be flexible. If a guy isn't free for you on the weekend nights, he's not the one. A lot of us aren't actually talking to any guys, so when we start and his schedule doesn't align, we distance. You lose out on I opportunities by playing game…
/r/seduction11/02/26 11:17 PM
1

Lol when you marry, you're going to learn your wife put up a front and thinks you're nothing but a way to have kids and pay for her. Her sex interest will drop and you'll end up in a deadbedroom. You should've been dating for compatibility and shared values.
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:04 PM
6

Lol I was a part time gf to 3 guys a few times. They all thought they were special and the only ones, too. You're dumb if you think women you don't live with are exclusive to you.
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:23 PM
14

Same. Horny women use toys. That's why there female sex toys business has skyrocketed over time. Toys lack companionship, which this guy also apparently lacks. Would rather pick toys.
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:18 AM
3

No sane woman goes to guys' houses as a first meet. Seriously.
/r/seduction08/02/26 11:44 PM
1

He swipes on the easy chicks, older chicks, married chicks. I can tell you 100% he's lying lol.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:42 AM
11

This advice is going to land you on the wrong apps lol. This dude clearly has no life and needs to work on his anxious attachment style. Find hobbies that are healthy and won't result in unwanted children or stds. The only way to keep "rotations" is with clear schedules. You're only available on Tuesdays and Thursdays? She knows. Not available enough? She'll find someone else. You're not learning to be a good partner or sex skills this way.
/r/seduction25/01/26 07:54 PM
21

Fwb is founded on being friends first. You can't cold approach and ask to be anything but a hookup to people you don't know bc friends don't ghost each other. If you lie, you will end up posted on the awdtsg and tea app and your face will be known. Men in relationships have more sex. You're just being lazy and pathetic.
/r/seduction09/01/26 05:18 AM
2

Let her find someone who wants to marry her. Soon, you'll be 43, too old to find a wife. Passed over by women. No one will want to listen to your travel stories. Let her go.
/r/seduction07/01/26 09:16 AM
1

Your only options are women your age and in your shoes: previously married and/or has kids. Don't mess with the childfree or the younger women. You'll get burned. At your age, women know you can't give them what they want. All you can offer is low energy fun that's temporary in a shared house. That's not fun for anyone.
/r/seduction05/01/26 09:44 AM
-1

Ew
/r/seduction03/01/26 01:27 AM
7

He invites them out... on one of the available nights that aren't taken by 5 other girls? Lol. Such lies.
/r/seduction02/01/26 11:23 AM
-1

Or 35+. Leave <35 alone.
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:51 PM
3

Notice this person didn't pursue these 20s interested women lol. It's imagined.
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:50 PM
-9

The rule is: don't date 40 unless you are 40 yourself. Dude can find younger women, but he'll have to pay for it and, in the end, they'll just leave. Men over 50 are gross. And men over 42 are too old to grow a family with. OP is finding out what every guy over 45 realizes - that men falsely think they get better with age. It's a lie that men say to make you feel better when women turn you down or you realize nothing in life is free.
/r/seduction30/12/25 09:47 PM
0

All these women you're claiming you have sex with but don't stick around means you lack in that department. If you were good at it, they'd chase you.
/r/seduction28/12/25 07:07 AM
1

Bar, but it's a date? Don't touch me. Maybe a huge goodbye. You're just trying to game.
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:00 PM
5

Guys in relationships have more sex. If you were good at it, the chicks you banged would be inviting you over. But they aren't bc you're not good at it. Random hookups doesn't teach you to be good at sex or to be a good companion. This will follow you as you get older and the lack of relationships will leave you sad and lonely in the next 10 years
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:36 AM
1

You can date men.
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:55 AM
2

Tell him you don't go to a guy's house unless he's your bf
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/25 07:56 AM
1

It swaps after women hit mid 30s.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:35 AM
6

It's not a date if she pays. Why bother go out at all?
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:23 AM
2

You haven't met yet but you're going to be fwb?
/r/seduction10/12/25 02:40 PM
0

To summarize: more quantity, less quality.
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:33 AM
-1

I'm 41, never married, no kids. Men over 42 are too old to date if they want kids. Even at 41, I think men 5+ yrs older are not attractive. Men over 40 are stigmatized as being old dogs and less likely to learn and it's true. I've dated way younger the older I've gotten. The older you get the more you're going to find out you should've got a wife before you lost your looks and attractiveness.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:54 AM
1

"Nice tits."
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:49 AM
4

Lying and leading women on for sex will get your dirty laundry aired out online at the least. You might get murdered if you cross the wrong person.
/r/seduction25/11/25 12:18 PM
4

Idk. I started keeping condoms in my apt as a girl bc so many dudes would play oops I didn't bring one or oh I'm allergic to latex or oh that's not my size. Their reactions when being told no sex bc no condom was really puzzling to them. I believe too many women lack a backbone so when they cross one who puts her foot down, they're very shocked.
/r/seduction24/11/25 12:49 PM
3

I had 2 guys arguing with me against wearing condoms. The thought of not barebacking me enraged them both but neither wanted to commit. Just knock me up.
/r/seduction24/11/25 12:45 PM
1

Step 1: get job. Step 3: get wife.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:27 AM
-2

I am the table
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 10:38 AM
2

You're so much older than her lol she's going to burn you to the ground
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:15 PM
-3

That's why there's the Tea App, AWDTSG, etc. And you're going to catch something. Hopefully, you learn the hard way when a woman turns psycho and you start to realize why guys shouldn't do this. It's not safe for you and your life. Tread carefully.
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:18 PM
13

👆☝️👆☝️ the flames that burn twice as bright often burn for half as long. These dudes who need constant dopamine hits and feel validated all the time are doomed to repeat cycles.
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:32 PM
-7

You sound like a cheater.
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:28 PM
5

You sound young.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:25 PM
1

You say high interest but you mean women who are only interested in sex. With strangers. Prostitutes are available.
/r/seduction24/10/25 01:27 AM
2

It's not intimacy lol
/r/seduction15/10/25 12:33 AM
-11

If you had a big dick and were good at sex, you wouldn't be chasing women - they'd be chasing you. It's obvious you don't have anything they want. You caused this. Gay is an option.
/r/seduction12/10/25 08:37 AM
1

Being gay is an option.
/r/seduction11/10/25 11:12 PM
-3

You think the women chose to sleep around?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/25 12:00 PM
2

It's necessary. So is asking them if they're married or have kids - despite whatever their profile says. You need to directly ask to avoid confusion.
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:18 AM
5

🔥
/r/seduction02/10/25 03:15 PM
2

Most women don't have orgasms in sex. Those that do don't multiorgasm - we're pretty much one and done.
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:51 PM
1

No. There.
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:50 AM
1

He just wanted sex.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/25 07:24 PM
7

If she's not enthusiastic NOW, you can bet she won't be even more so as a wife. As a girl who's given a lot of great bjs and gotten off dudes who don't normally cum to head, I can tell yoh that loving dick and being good at bjs doesn't keep a man or make a wife. So why try. You're not heeding the warnings now, but one day you'd wish you had.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:28 AM
6

Pretty much. Not shocked. Women don't want to be approached. It's strange you annoyed enough women and no one did anything until it was a guy who complained.
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:38 AM
-2

According to reddit bros, you flat out ask on dating apps if they want casual and you go from there. That's never been me though. I'll left swipe and report if you put anything but your true intentions on your profile.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:23 AM
-8

Not true. Most women are aware of men killing or raping women.
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:26 PM
1

Take note on who you're asking and what they're looking for. Bc not all of us do first date sex. Most don't.
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:24 PM
10

And most women who want sex will choose a guy she already knows or has had sex with while looking for person.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:59 PM
-7

These are horrible convos. He's using banter with false women. Keep in mind if you post looking for a relationship or anything other than what you're seeking on your profile, and change it in chat or how you act in person, it's a bannable offense on pretty much all apps. Even if you inmatch, women can still report you. Saying you want casual but having long term on your profile will get you kicked off for sure
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:57 PM
1

Low 20s kids are still under their parents insurance, can't rent cars, need cosigners, and are often unable to rent out places or hotels until closer to 28/30. 25 and under and still considered children in this country.
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:39 AM
1

How old are you for you to think this way? You'll change that thought later. Stress (kids, work, money issues, bad spouses) in life definitely ages you vastly in comparison to your peers.
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:34 AM
1

Bc my experience is drawn from every woman I know and their experiences as well. It's not just my experience. It's meshed with every woman I know and share experiences with. My God, it would be so much more horrible if I shared JUST MY experiences lol.
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:33 AM
1

Gawd, this. But are any of us happy?
/r/seduction11/09/25 04:30 AM
1

She was over it and going home alone. Ten thousand other ways to respond, but she clearly said I'm going home. There was no greyness there.
/r/seduction10/09/25 03:15 PM
33

No. That's a very real fear. 30+ men on college campuses are creeps. Obviously she asked you what you were studying and which classes you had. Just a weirdo hanging out on campus and bothering me while I rethink life at a table outside by myself. 1000% didn't happen. Esp the sorority house.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:37 AM
-23

I'll make it easier: No. Once we're older, past 40, and we've had enough life experience, we're far too into our own lives to entertain others. Most often, our discernment is greater. I've learned personally that most sex is bad sex. I do not entertain men who don't do the work. It might've been my lower 30s that things were easier and the playing field more equal. Now I've supported myself and lived alone long enough, make more money than most, and kept my youthful appearance that I'm not willi…
/r/seduction07/09/25 01:48 AM
-2

I've dated and slept with up to 3 guys in the same periods of time. But that was a very short part of my dating life. Most of my life I've been celibate. Even now, it's been a few years.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:45 PM
1

Guy doesn't want to be left out based on height is looking to leave out most women based on looks. Ironic.
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:35 AM
2

Don't put out for months. Be vocal with your boundaries. Let people show you who they are. Now be the psycho life lesson for him. Bad mouth him in social circles. Spread distain of him trying to use sex as a means to climb socially. He's trying to spin plates and realizing it doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/25 10:52 PM
5

Just bc you want, doesn't mean you can. Your friends are lying about their experiences. Men in relationships get more sex. If a girl you liked heard your friends or your stories of sex clubs and prostitutes, she'd walk. Now imagine trying to pick up chicks while you have stds. Imagine the type you're going for also have the same. You have no room to ask for values when you have none.
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:40 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:06 AM
-2

Wait until they go psycho or you lose your looks. You'll wish you'd treated women decently.
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:01 AM
1

Your sex wasn't that great
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:32 PM
2

Friends is important in your 20s, as well as figuring out who you are and schooling. The 30s were the most fun in growing and dating. At 41F, men my age dating someone 5+ yrs younger are losers. They prey on younger bc you don't know any better. You shouldn't be having kids til you're 30+. 35 is best. You have plenty of time to divorce, grow, find yourself, and have fun in life before dealing with all this crap.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 12:10 PM
3

It's so funny watching dudes ask other dudes this. Bc when a girl is obviously into sex, it still doesn't get you married. Dudes always want that eye candy to play with instead of going with the dtf kinda girl. Grass is greener attitude gets you nowhere.
/r/seduction12/08/25 01:18 AM
1

What age ranges do these things lol
/r/seduction10/08/25 01:47 PM
19

Most of the dudes I've dated but never ended up in a relationship were the ones that bravely just out right asked for sex. The answer was always no though. Quite pathetic to try and avoid dating just to get the benefits.
/r/seduction09/08/25 10:48 AM
14

If alcohol is involved or any substance, prepare to ruin your life if you go through with this plan.
/r/seduction09/08/25 10:46 AM
1

How old are you? When women wise up, you're going to get burned.
/r/seduction30/07/25 05:24 PM
2

Stop messaging him. When he reaches out, ask how he's been and 3 lines in ask what he's looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/25 05:37 PM
-16

No dude who is in their lower 30s has anything to offer you, honestly. You need to focus on yourself. He's still trying to figure out life. He sounds like a lossr lol.
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:41 AM
15

Pretty sure we don't like casual sex bc most sex don't bring us orgasms, and we hardly have any fun. A guy could have sex with a couch and rate it 5 Stars. All that matters to him is whether he had fun.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:44 PM
-3

41F. Engaged twice, 10 yrs apart when I only slept with meaningful partners. Then, in my 30s, I've had way more fun. Upper 30s, situationships. Now I'm 41, complaining there's no good guys left. But my ex situationships are all still single and wanting to bridge the gap. I'm ghosting on dudes weekly. I date my age +/- 10 years. But, through all of my life lessons, the most important is discernment. What I didn't have when I was younger was discernment. I didn't know I had the ability to state my…
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:24 PM
1

You should be employed, living on your own, cooking, and cleaning for yourself by age 35.
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:04 PM
1

Most people on dating apps are of the Insecure Attachment style. I can tell you're of an Anxious Type and you were drawn to an Avoidant like me. She's not over her ex and she has a few years before deciding to marry or have kids. She's just enjoying her time. I see myself a lot in her, bc that age was the most fun to date. Sorry you missed out on the fun but she doesn't know yet what she wants and hasn't figured out she's avoidant yet.
/r/seduction16/06/25 11:51 PM
5

Remember that some people react different to smells. Guys that smell too loud, I need to get away. I'm also allergic to Cedar and that seems to be in most colognes.
/r/seduction16/06/25 10:59 PM
-5

30s was the party phase lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/25 02:52 AM
1

Most men feel the need to hide infidelity bc they know their partner will leave if found out. There are rarely any men who are rich enough to have a wife and a mistress.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:24 AM
3

It's a club. Get over it.
/r/seduction03/06/25 03:52 PM
8

That's why this dude's been on so many first dates lol. It's not great advice.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:08 PM
1

If you touch us while splitting a check or getting a drink/coffee, don't.
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:31 PM
51

Foot massages and licking my toes. The foot massage bc certain pressures around the foot really turn me on, even if in public. While during sex, I've had twice experienced a guy unexpectedly start putting their mouth on my foot while either fingering or fcking me. It was very shocking and messes with the senses.
/r/seduction25/05/25 07:46 AM
4

3 meetups in and I find out the dude has weird food tastes, allergies, and eats weird? Now, I've lost 3 evenings I could've spent elsewhere. Pushing off a lower dinner or lunch just to say it's bc of a lower return of interest is preposterous. If you're trying to spin plates and have sex with the dumb ones, I could see the argument. I would never go to some guy's place after coffee or drinks. Most women wouldn't. And if they agreed on coffee, don't be shocked if that's exactly what they mean. Le…
/r/seduction25/05/25 05:21 AM
3

You're either looking to buy a house or car, or you're not. You make it difficult for yourself. When you're 45+ you'll have wished you spent more time on relationships.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:11 AM
-2

I don't dress up for strangers anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 01:29 PM
4

Bc twenty somethings don't want them. Ew.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 05:40 AM
1

Gets ripped, gets girl, social media changes again...
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:24 AM
-1

Guys who are good in bed AND GOOD COMPANIONS are not on dating apps bc they get invited back to places. If your sex is good but you're not someone a woman wants to spend time with, then you're free to go. 💅💅💅
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:17 PM
1

At the time, she's hoping that's what you want so you'd choose her. But if you're anti commitment and it shows, she'll disappear.
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:34 PM
2

How'd you check it was her number? That might be your issue
/r/seduction15/04/25 11:29 AM
3

I'm 40sF. I'd consider being with younger - but not for games.
/r/seduction14/04/25 07:03 PM
18

This is terrible advice lol
/r/seduction07/04/25 11:58 PM
0

When you find out that she'll withhold sex for longer bc she wants a relationship vs you go to jail for pushing sex onto her
/r/seduction04/04/25 10:01 AM
24

You don't need to escalate on a second date. Foreplay and teasing doesn't always have to lead to sex. Sleep overs and playing around is a perfect way to get to know someone without actually having sex. Pushing sex when she's not ready will only cut yourself short on the option in the future.
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:25 AM
6

You must moan a lot and make weird noises. It was her ick.
/r/seduction29/03/25 04:09 PM
3

Who wrote this BS? I can tell the age is under 42 lol. Dude hasn't seen the other side yet. Don't dish out advice on stuff you haven't dealt with, yo.
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:28 PM
-1

I was wondering where all the single good guys are. And I went to a block party yesterday when a dude motioned with body language "what's up?" to me, and I made the stink face like wtf is wrong with you lol.
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:03 PM
3

That's a whole lot of coffee. How do you sleep?
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:18 PM
-6

Don't listen to this BS
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:28 PM
6

40F, I have dumped many more men than this person bc I'm actually making them put the work in. This dude is targeting lowly fruit, and he's probably caught many things in the process - aside from mental issues. Your 40s will be very tough for these bros.
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:14 PM
1

If you're not looking for dating then don't date. One day when you cross a cray, you'll learn your lesson the hard way.
/r/seduction05/03/25 11:20 AM
11

Lol these suggestions assume he has money
/r/seduction01/03/25 01:02 PM
3

You're going to have to buy a car sooner or later, or walk.
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:05 PM
1

I'd cross a few of these events, but I do a lot of weekend events on weekdays.
/r/seduction14/02/25 02:13 PM
0

Was she in sweatpants, a baggy shirt, and hair a mess, or was she dressed for attention and all dolled up with her chest showing? Don't approach girls at gas stations either way.
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:01 AM
-7

You didn't vet her properly as a partner if things didn't work out then. You probably went for looks and attraction instead of shares interests and similarities. Many men after 40 are in your shoes - but they'll be 50 and 60+ still single in a few years. They can claim to be happy alone, but if they're seeking attention on dating apps then that's not actually true, is it?
/r/seduction07/02/25 12:13 PM
14

This. Pretty much 45 yo and alone at the club makes you more of a creep and less of an option.
/r/seduction18/01/25 08:10 PM
9

Posts like this are why some of us hate social media. When Instagram is old and gone, your whole reason for living would diminish. Imagine when all these 10.5k follower influencers turn 50. Like Facebook, but becomes Oldbook. Get offline. Work on your life.
/r/seduction14/01/25 01:19 PM
7

Betty White and other opinionated older women actually have more freedom to speak out and be heard than when they were younger
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 04:17 AM
4

I've never seen this on a profile and I'm on Bumble and Hinge
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/25 02:52 PM
-6

I call dudes dudes all the time. To refer to him as bro after sex means he didn't perform well and she's not into his version of crazy sex. She's moving on.
/r/seduction19/12/24 11:40 AM
1

If the women are okay with him having multiple partners, or they both open the relationship to have multiple partners? Bc generally speaking, when the option for women to see others comes up, now it's an issue. That's why men cheat. They don't want to lose what they have, and opt to keep a security blanket while wanting to explore. Most interest and opportunities to cheat that men think they have aren't much more than a fun fling to women who want to see these men burn.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/24 05:32 PM
1

I agree. Women learn the game and it gets more serious after 35. Boys who stay with the game theory are then lying on apps approaching 50 and in denial they'll die sexless, old, bald, and alone.
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:33 PM
4

We're not uninterested in dating. We're uninterested in sleeping around and playing games so the guys can stay single, uncommitted, and nonmonogamous. If they wanted sex, they should do all the things, including investing in their potential mate.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/24 04:55 PM
11

Just say K. Then sever all ties. Don't reach out ever again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 04:56 AM
5

Talk to him about commitment and what you want. If he wants sex and no relationship then leave him
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/24 11:52 AM
1

Good for you for not putting out. But honestly, he was going to do those things anyway with someone and you probably weren't the only one he was talking to. If you want to date a doctor, check 50+ year olds on dating apps bc there are a TON of them. There's a reason why they're "single." He probably is married or divorced with kids, and deep in debt. You dodged a bullet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 06:14 PM
1

This is so dumb
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/23 08:45 PM
1

Attachment styles.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 05:19 AM
0

Honestly, women also want variety and it's hard to not act like a whore when you're chased by so many guys - but the amount of time, energy, and worrying for our safety keeps us from doing a lot of stupid things.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 10:22 AM
1

Having a gf or wife. Bc commitment is attractive
/r/seduction09/10/23 03:11 PM
-1

If a guy matched with me and asked for my number without talking over a series of days, I'd say no.
/r/seduction09/10/23 01:24 PM
1

I buy homeless guys drinks. I wouldn't kiss either of you lol.
/r/seduction13/08/23 06:08 AM
1

What girl would go on a trip with a stranger they've only chatted with online? That's literally throwing caution to the wind. If you asked a chick on an app like Seeking, you'd probably find someone to go with you. But any normal girl who doesn't want to put out with someone who spent money on them or expects things, who is safe and doesn't gamble with her life, who also is off work and available and interested in anything to do with you MIGHT opt to join you IF you weren't just strangers. That'…
/r/seduction03/08/23 08:51 AM
4

Anxious attachers sometimes prefer the avoidant attachment style.
/r/seduction03/08/23 08:42 AM
1

Join a sugar dating app.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:35 AM
14

The doctors that make it through med school unattached get caught up in the 'player' persona. A lot of them play games, but don't realize that their schedules actually put themselves in a bad place to be equally, if not worse, played by the girls they think don't notice. Most of the doctors I've dated or are friends with who are single and never married are not happy. They battle depression, are guarded, and often times feel the need to prove something to themselves or others - so they seek big …
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:17 AM
2

Teaching lol at a University level
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:50 AM
1

Why aren't you into dating her?
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:20 PM
1

I only post and tag my guy friends who are platonic. All relationship potentials are not social media friends with me, and unless we're in a serious relationship, you won't be in any of my pictures when/if we go out. It helps to keep stalkers and haters at bay, clears the air for everyone and, you don't have to delete pics when things go south. If there isn't a tagged dude there, then she's single. If you're not the dude tagged but it was you, are you clearly her bf? If not, then why is it bothe…
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:19 PM
1

You spend the night with a guy without having sex to see if you're attracted to them WITHOUT sex being involved. If the guy is weird, can't entertain, has a shitty place or lives in a dirty place, isn't accommodating, or snores horribly, then those are all red flags. If you have nothing to talk about or he collects weird things like anime, swords, or has a sex toy collection or dungeon, or a couple of roommates, then it's obviously not going to work out, either. What you need to do is chat her u…
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:21 AM
1

Why would that dude post that story? He could just link his fetlife account. Who journals their sexscapades lol what a loser.
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:37 PM
4

You have a lot of "not looking for anything serious" suggestions in there, but say not to post that you're looking for something serious? Some girls like me are husband hunting, and are tired of the liars using "friends first" or "marriage minded" as a way to mask "casual" seeking in order to meet in person. If you're looking for serious relationships only, duly note it in your profiles, guys. Girls want guys who stick around and learn what you like in bed, as well as how you like your coffee. H…
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:29 PM
1

He didn't like his options of available women to him and wanted girls that wanted other guys, meanwhile he sponsored his exwife who seemingly only wanted him until she was legalized. But he doesn't want to be wanted by the women he finds ugly. Imagine that. Dude had 10,000 other dating apps. I'm sure one of them is for aspies seeking aspies.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:59 PM
2

I personally would say yes to a show or something date with a guy I met up with for dinner a week or two before, as a second date. Just in case she works or has plans, you'd need to give her at least 1 weeks notice to move work around. I wouldn't go with a dude who only asked me out for coffee though. Cheap meetup then actual date is inconsistent. You should go out with 2 different chicks within 2 weeks of the show and if one doesn't want to go, ask the other. They may both want to go, and both …
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:50 PM
2

I keep my matches in chat for a while to let those who are trying to get laid quick pretty much drown themselves. I don't give out my number or switch to other apps, won't videochat or call or w/e guys with low egos do to try to get you to prove you're a girl or isolare you from the app. Get the important crap out of the way first. Niceties: Hi, how are you? I saw ___ on your profile. That looks pretty cool. Ask something specific about her profile - a reason why you swiped on her. Refrain from …
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:44 PM
2

Psychopaths tend to be more manipulative, can be seen by others as more charming, lead a semblance of a normal life, and minimize risk in criminal activities. Sociopaths tend to be more erratic, rage-prone, and unable to lead as much of a normal life. In other words, sociopaths have trouble blending in. Almost 30% of serial killers were psychopaths. Being that they blended in with their communities means they seemed pretty normal. Narcissistic personalities, which are mainly found in males, woul…
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:20 PM
4

It means nothing
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:05 PM
3

Yes and No. If OP only had genital hsv, he could still get the other strain type, oral or genital. And yes, a person with hsv in that region has a biggest concern with catching hiv due to the breaks in skin. To prevent from catching stds, you shouldn't shave prior to sex, should always wear protection, and spend time actually looking at what you're about to play with. The flip side of the coin is that an astonishingly 90% of the world population has one or both strains of hsv and aren't aware. W…
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:04 PM
2

Most adults who live alone and are single, choose to binge watch TV shows alone by themselves and hang out with friends for dinner. Other seldom free times you think you'd spend out, cruising for partners, would be during non-working hours - most likely the weekend nights only - unless, of course, you spent the little free time you had throughout the week earlier just swiping on apps to chat up potential matches already. It's all about simplification of not wasting your time. Also, Tinder has th…
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:40 PM
-4

Dude talks about his dad and mom, says verbally assaulting women is okay. I think you need mental help and to stop looking at porn. Meet a nice girl at church. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:30 PM
1

Likewise. Don't reply to my messages and I'll call you out. Call me psycho and start having less interesting convos less often, I'll delete all of you - regardless if we were hooking up. Bye bish.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:11 PM
7

This. Eventually, even as a friend you hang out with in groups but then casually invite out to dinner with an "I'll pay now, you get the next time" no expectations, can actually lead on to FWBs and relationships. When you outright seem pushy and desperate for attention, and say you WANT something more than friends, then a girl will drop you. You're just digging your own grave when you try to assert yourself or be needy.
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:55 AM
2

OKC filter for religion. "Btw have you visited any churches around here?"
/r/seduction11/01/20 05:40 PM
1

Until you're no longer interested in girls under 21, learn this: girls under 21 only want alcohol, and they will only seek out or loosely associate/"date" men for their ability to buy them alcohol. As soon as they turn 21, whichever older guy who thought he's been seeing and showing off a 20 yr old to his friends is suddenly dumped and left without an entourage of young girls at the club, which made him look and feel great. If I were you, friend up some of the frat guys and crash their parties f…
/r/seduction11/01/20 04:22 PM
1

I think everyone has come to the general consensus that you must first actually fuck before asking her what her fucking preferences are. Right? Make sure she'll even let you have a chance before you think you'll rock her world.
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:49 PM
5

This. You shouldn't make passes at chicks during their shifts or at their workplace, because they can't walk away, be themselves, or ignore you. Badger her or make her or the other girls feel uncomfortable or feel stalked and you'll find yourself looking for a new comic shop with Bill and Ted working the counter. Telling you about her boyfriend being picky was a nice way of saying she wasn't interested. If you want to talk to chicks, join dating sites, meetup groups, fb events, or opt to show co…
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:09 PM
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