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| 23 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsI’m a female best friend and I agree, there’s usually drama and I end up being used a lot to justify one’s bad actions. I.e if they’re fighting they have to get me in their side only. I’m mostly like we can be friends but I don’t want to get involved in y’all’s relationship because I’m not a therapist. Still never works, I’m somehow always brought in because I’m too nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:35 PM |
| 51 | Men stating they fear “Marrying the wrong woman” is a mind game and power play.You saying this reminds me of my guy friend who is recently divorced. Caught his wife in bed with another man not even being married after a week. Funny part was he caught her sexting another man on Snapchat like 5 months prior and still stayed with her. I swear anyman that says he’s divorced I’m either thinking he got played, cheated/abusive, or a “lovesick” idiot who ignores red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Ma'am, you cannot buy a man's love.I can’t, my best friends birthday was 3/4 days ago and I got him a new keycap set. Was 35 bucks and the way he was so thankful and started crying and loved it….he’s literally obsessed with it. I just couldn’t imagine being friends or being in a relationship w/ a man like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 5 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?I wouldn’t give him any money unless it was the courts ruling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 70 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementIf she was going to have a baby should’ve just had it with her billionaire ex like Janet Jackson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 34 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"I won’t have one come in every week but definitely once a month. You’d be surprised at just how much better of a job they do even if you’re a clean person. My parents are military and expect everything spotless. I hired them a cleaner once and was surprised at just how good they were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 16 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”I will say Leo talks when it comes to him dating younger women make me feel…sad/uncomfortable? When I point out why his relationships aren’t healthy scrotes don’t care. It’s like scrotes don’t care about people at all. I had a few tell me they don’t care he’s a abuse victim but they like seeing him with younger women cause it proves younger women are better like ???? He can’t form normal relationships with women and scrotes think that’s fine???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 25 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”Not even surprised. He was a victim himself and instead of getting help and being better he perpetuates the cycle. Sad all around. Hopefully she gets help as well after he dumps her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 16 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfThis i agree so much! I dated broke men because I thought oh I’ll help him build, it’s what we’re supposed to do as women, he’ll truly appreciate me…nope, never happened. Thank goodness I got out of that thought and FAST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:10 PM |
| 46 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfI have a friend group of men and women, weirdly enough like 70% of the men believe a man should behave like the guy you’re dating. About 2/3 are VERY vocal saying they’ll “buy” them stuff every once in awhile but the gf has to work and pay 50/50. They refuse to take care of a woman. My other guy friends just sit there and say it’s the man’s job to provide and be a kind, and responsible leader. Then the vocal few will say why does a man need to take care of a woman blah blah blah, it’s not fair, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Wouldn’t be surprised since he was abused and passed around by sickos while he was a kid/teen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 33 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?For sure he was, especially since most of the higher ups are pedos. He’s another man who was failed as a child and it’s clear he has severe mental issues- BUT instead of getting the help he needs he chooses to date young women so my sympathy for him is very tiny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.I’m contemplating this SO MUCH, my pubic hair is ultra curly and snags on everything and it’s so painful. Especially on periods (since I use diapers). My only concern is my skin is dark so I don’t want to get hyperpigmentation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 151 | 100%If R.Kelly didn’t marry her it would’ve been dame dash or Jay-z, the entertainment industry fails children, especially young women so much. It makes me so mad. Edit: also why in the heck was there so many old ass men in love with Aaliyah at 14 and Beyoncé at 17-19. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 135 | 100%Not to mention how a lot of people he know said he was in love with Aaliyah and I believe she was even younger than Beyoncé. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 17 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.My parents worked, had 3 kids and me a special needs child and still banged 1-3x a day, if you want something bad enough you’ll do it I guess. They still do even after 30 years of marriage, don’t ask me how I know (I have tons of story times) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Tired of getting ads for cheap engagement rings and society telling me I have to lower my standards for essentially costume jewelryIdk if I’d be comfortable with that type of ring , that would be 30k+ for me. I couldn’t wear something that expensive lol minimum for me overall would have to be 2.5k max maybe 7k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 63 | The bar is in hell ladies 🤦🏻♀️To be fair most of us were once in her shoes, can’t be too harsh on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 48 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?That’s not even a pick me, that’s just being straight trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 19 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..She won’t have to worry about it being taken advantage of, I say this from experience. Because of the pain I have during sex I’ve only had it last maybe 2 minutes max. Lvm men literally won’t deal with me or dump me because “by 25+ you should know how to have sex, I’m not here to teach. You should be able to tell me what you like and don’t like.” Never had the chance to see a guy who wants to take advantage of my inexperience with sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 86 | I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation.I refuse to date a fat man. But unfortunately due to society coddling males and shunting womens earning potential men think they can have a dad bod and women like that 🤮. I always say this to anyone who is struggling with being overweight, being healthy and skinny is hard, being fat is hard. Choose your hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 20 | This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thingEven if they get cs something like 50% of men don’t pay it. They’d rather go to jail then pay child support lmao. The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 9 | What power shift?? Lies men tell XD Women get BETTER with ageIt’s always been they think that because they typically improve their net worth as they get older and women’s typically gets lower. Women’s value has always been based off her beauty and body. So yes by their logic if her beauty starts to fade (a single wrinkle) then her desirability goes down the drain instantly. Most men think even if they’re ugly and fat as long as they have money they’re more desirable than any women because they know money starved women will put up with their bs for some of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | As she should !Agreed, I do call my closest male and female friends ho when greeting them and vice versa. We’re all millennials. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 54 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over there90 day fiancé is the name of the show I think you’re talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Targeting👏Young👏Girls👏Is👏Wrong👏I recently developed a crush on my best friend (knew for 8 years) and he’s 25 and I’m 29 and I feel like a groomer and a pedo. I feel like a creep if I talk to a 25/26 year old man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 34 | I confessed to a fat man and it lowered my value in his eyesI agree with you, when I was fat any man that would ask me out i instantly thought less of them. It showed me that you would date someone who obviously didn't love themselves. I think he probably was into her and was truthful with his response. With that being said no man or woman with low self esteem or self hatted should be dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 6 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️If you’re in America have you tried any Walgreens/cvs/rite aid brands, etc? I get the neutrogena one for like 10 bucks and it lasts me a long time, even putting it on 2x a day. The waxing? I use my 50.00 shaver LOL, I just sit on my toilet seat, place a mirror underneath with a light and just shave. It’s like a 20 minute process but it saves me so much money. I just wear a cheap-ish wig so I don’t color my hair or anything crazy. My nail tech used to cost me 70 once a month but I just do my own … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 07:28 PM |
| -7 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️Is it really? I bought a 50.00 shaver two years ago and have only had to spend maybe 10 bucks on upkeep supplies in the past 2 years. Skincare is 36 bucks every 6-10 months(the ordinary is a life send), makeup is 30 a year (eyeliner+ brow pencil). I invested 600 almost 4 years ago on quality essential clothes and haven’t bought any since. I think the essentials for a woman is relatively inexpensive. It’s just if you want more luxurious items or want to splurge/buy more random stuff. And there’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 28 | 🤪🤪 male redditors are so funny 🤪🤪Yeahhhh ima just keep hanging out in the tech subs where I don’t see this at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted ToIt could be that possibly. I’ve noticed my mindset and how I feel about myself draws like minded people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:50 AM |
| 43 | Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted ToWhen I was super big (270, 5’7) I did get rejected /dumped 2 times but most guys dated me with 0 issues. I lost 70lbs and right after I was in a Walmart and a male employee came up to me said I’m hot and grabbed my butt. I reported him but he still works there yippee~~~~~ I guess I’m just happy that when I was big I had guy friends who treated me well, and genuinely cared for me as a person. I see how some guys treat their friends who are women and I’m like yeah no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 188 | wage gap isn't realThe real question is why have you been there 10 years knowingly making 10k less???! A job no matter male or female will pay you as little as they possibly can. It’s worse because we’re women. They know we won’t speak up on it. You should’ve left 5-8 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 16 | Is it possible to trust any man these days?I hope you were getting some as well during that “open relationship “, please tell me you did... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 75 | I said what I said. Stay mad.8/10 the men get mad and want to end the arrangement or have the girl dump her main partner and I’m like WHY, you suggested it/you knew you wouldn’t be her #1. Unless you’re super hot women won’t flock to you but men will flock to the woman. Mind boggling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Pick me propaganda! This “advice” is clearly targeted towards women because 99% of men are going to get off regardless. Don’t excuse sexually incompetent men that don’t make an effort you off, there’s already way too many of those. Thank you. ☺️✨Cckolds and cckqueens do LOL, and apparently both of those groups are growing at a scarily rapid pace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 11 | REMINDER: “The wall” is a patriarchal myth 🙌🏼Also their diet, most men eat pure crap all day everyday, we throw some veggies in our meals at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:31 PM |
| 9 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.True LOL, I’ve seen some women still equate my dad when he was in the progress to still being a lvm so that’s why I’m kind of torn I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 17 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.If someone says they have avoidant personality disorder, VET VET VET. It’s one of the rarest personality disorders ever and VERY hard if not almost impossible to treat, I would know I have it. There’s no real medication for it, I go out much more often than I used to but before I found my therapist I couldn’t really. If I didn’t say thank you perfectly I’d self hrm, if I couldn’t learn something in 1-2 tries I would slf hrm and tell my self oh well x,y,z can so it this fast you’re just a failure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 22 | This lady spitting TRUTHS. Remember to focus on YOU first and not settling up for less.This one is a tricky one for me, my mom is the best example of dating a broke guy (my dad was showing he was getting his act together though) and they married and now own multiple properties,had great careers (retired at 40/45) and are upper middle class. He appreciates her being there and being with him, he’s very sweet, dotes on her, scold her when she tries to do even the slightest of work (she was paralyzed for 2 years so he worries about her doing too much labor). But then she’s like the on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.Does that happen to men who watch porn but are virgins? (Ya he was a virgin until recently-ish) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 49 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.He lasts too long apparently, 20 minutes or more they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 255 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.I was JUST talking about this with someone I know, he was complaining that he can’t cum with condoms on and now his gf (although she can’t do bc) let’s him not use a condom until he’s close. I was like no girl no don’t do it clutching my invisible pearls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:19 AM |
| 6 | So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?Interesting, I’m going to try that. No matter the size it’s incredibly painful, I bleed and go numb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 23 | I don't know who needs to see this today, but never believe men when they lie about condoms being too small for them.Wouldn’t even touch the man if he didn’t have condoms that fit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 52 | Can we just laugh about howBingo, the avg salary in America is 60k as a household. That’s literally nothing! Women and men just cannot afford children. Not when rent on avg is 1400. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.This doesn’t bother me personally but I can now see how it would bother a lot of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:16 PM |
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