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| 207 | The central part of taking the red pill is fully accepting the overwhelming advantage women have in sexual, dating, and relationship landscape. | Discussion | Humbaae | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 01:25 PM |
| 22 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there. | Discussion | Humbaae | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 07:52 AM |
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| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?This is reddit, you can be as honest as you want. So tell me, what's the truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 05:42 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Thanks for your honesty, really eye opening. If woman's attraction and by extension the relationship is so fickle, then why should a man give her monogamy and/or think about having a future with her? It feels like a bubble, enjoy while it lasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex.But we never pretended that we don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 08:45 AM |
| -1 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Punctuation please, I don’t quite understand what you are trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.See, I am not saying that everyone does this. Some people realise how much it hurts because they have been through it, so they would be extra careful to not subject other people to the same, but some may be vengeful and do to others what was done to them. To say that all red pillers are in the latter category is wrong, taking the red pill can help you avoid getting in that position in the first place, and if you still do then it’s primarily yourself that you will hold accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.This is what I was discussing a couple of days ago, when you hurt/mistreat someone you are essentially amplifying the suffering in this world because then the victim would be more inclined to inflict it on someone else to balance the cosmic ledger. Now some people are mindful of their actions so they are able to reign in their revenge fantasies but others feel a cathartic release when they dish out what they had received in the past. So, people, don’t be horrible to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?No bro, I did engineering because I love engineering, I can’t stand doing anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Using pop-fiction as an anchor point, what relationship dynamic do you favor and why?Kim Wexler and Jimmy McGill are my favourite on screen couple by a wide margin. Kim is a strong, successful, hot, intelligent, good, no-nonsense type woman, she sees something good in a struggling man and stands by his side all the time. I think this is every man’s wet dream, to have a woman by your side through thick and thin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?useless degree rhetoric Some degrees are less useful than others, say a degree in art history is less useful than engineering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone shifted their views since coming here?My views have shifted further towards red pill, these women on this sub shove the redpill so far down my throat 100%, and I don’t blame them, it’s just that we were fed the wrong information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are.But then there are acceptable and unacceptable forms of efforts. Caking face and hiding cellulite is an effort in masking the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:44 AM |
| 0 | Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are.It’s not that it will make someone look 90 lb lighter, but extra 25 lbs can be easily masked with shapewear, giving the butt and tummy a much firmer look than they are. Light makeup is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are.putting in effort Putting in effort is eating right and working out, not eating a tub of Ben and Jerry’s and then hiding the resulting breakout and weight gain with makeup and shape wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 3 | A man has no value in today's worldacquiesce Unrelated question, I suppose you are a native English speaker, are words like these used in everyday setting? In your opinion, what percent of native English speakers know the meaning of this word? I mean English is my second language but I did really well on TOEFL, like got 29/30 each on reading, writing, and listening but I know fuckall about this word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Circumcising baby boys for either cultural or religious practicesLet me tell you a private problem that I sometimes run into. Sometimes when I am out and about my foreskin rides up my glans and the head is out there hanging naked in my underwear. It’s very uncomfortable, I can feel it rubbing against the fabric, after some time that uncomfortable sensation is mostly gone. What does that tell you? That dickhead is sensitive when it’s covered by the foreskin and loses some of its sensitivity when it’s exposed for prolonged period of time. Also I think it’s an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 06:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf billy escalates and she doesn’t put out like she did for Chad then: She has every right to not put out for any darnedest of the reasons, she does not owe sex to anyone. Billy also have every right to next her if he feels like she does not like him enough, he is better off investing his time and energy elsewhere, somewhere where he gets what he is looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 06:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause you take it from someone and take it out on someone else. Because you are not immune to extrapolating words of some bitter men to all men. Because when someone is telling you their problems, you inserting your own problems into it is seen as deflectionary tactic. Imagine venting about your coworkers to your partner and instead of listening to you he retorts with “my coworkers suck too so what are talking about?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 04:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWear the raincoat and go bang bang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Do women here have a problem with men spinning plates?This dude puts it succinctly https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oflfnz/do_women_here_have_a_problem_with_men_spinning/h4dad5x/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 04:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread8/10 is my subjective rating of their personality, of course I will tailor it according to my preferences and how well their personality will mesh with mine. They could be a gem of a person but if they are more hedonistic than I am comfortable with then it wouldn’t fly. Anyone who’s mentally stable, of average EQ/IQ, kind, empathetic, honest, good communicator, has high integrity, knows themselves reasonably well, is socially well adjusted, has some active hobbies (sleeping, listening to music, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 04:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnything over an year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou know when your deficiencies are such that they compound each other’s? When you are anxious and they lack empathy, so you get even more anxious and they get even more annoyed, and it breaks the whole thing down. That. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it ran its course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey probably are, but the way this math works is that 8 and 8 should add up to nearly 20. That means I should be able to cover their shortcomings with my strengths and vice versa. For example, if we both are short tempered then we both will be fighting nasty fights all the time, but if they are more temperate then it will prevent escalation and over time my own temper might lessen because every time your temper is encountered with kindness and empathy, it makes you feel ashamed for acting out l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI did in the past. She was like 7.5 on both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Women's standards ("the bar") are indeed low, but not for the reasons you thinkYep, it recently occurred to me. I look at those Instagram thots and wonder what else have they done in their lives, something heroic, something difficult, something noteworthy, if they haven’t then they really don’t belong on the pedestal that simps have put them on. But show me a woman who is a doctor, a social worker who has legit helped people, a researcher, a nurse who worked tirelessly, a teacher, a military officer and I will kneel to them, for they are indeed a great contribution to thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe woman I want for LTR should be at least 15/20 and at max 16/20. 10 points for what’s on the outside and 10 points for what’s on the inside. Cutoff for both is 7. Personally I am 7/10 on the outside, 8/10 on the inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Women - as described by red pillers - are more logical than men.Boop! You wrote exact opposite to how marriages work in extremely patriarchal society in India. Hypergamy is the norm here and I was first surprised that this practice is scorned at by some people. Women absolutely do not marry down here, it always has to be equal or above their own social status. BUT. Since it’s a patriarchal society, the man still wins because here the father of the girl pays hefty dowry to groom’s family, the dowry includes a swanky new car for the groom, cash, all household … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | We often hear how too many previous partners are a red flag, but what about too few partners?As I have said before, shaming is the primary weapon of the weak. It only takes few strokes on the keyboard, or a few spoken words but it cuts deep on the person on the receiving end. It stops them dead in the track and fills them with self doubt. Then a socially well adjusted person would re-evaluate their behaviour to gain acceptance from those who shamed them. It would require extraordinary conviction in your beliefs to brush aside those shames. Observe how young men are framing their relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 02:19 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on skincare?Yeah, keep it simple. Wash face twice a day and moisturise each time, sunscreen when going out, twice weekly exfoliation, drink lots of water, eat clean, don’t smoke/drink/do drugs, exercise and you’ll be golden. Hopefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:55 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on skincare?I think mid-20s is the right time to start, before that you really don’t need it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Feelings vs. "logic" in datingWhile I don’t claim to have fought off lions, I have been attacked by animals (dogs, monkeys, cows, bull), I always stood my ground, never ran (maybe I did when I was a kid), but approaching a woman and chatting her up; I find it scarier than facing animals which could seriously hurt me. I mean it shoots up the heart beat and floods my brain with lactic acid before I have spoken the first word, but when facing those animals it happened out of nowhere and I felt those effects AFTER it was over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Feelings vs. "logic" in datingIf you are talking about killing a lion with a weapon then most able bodied men will be able to do it with varied success depending on the lion, their weapon and skill of using it. Otherwise I don’t think there’s any human ever born who can take down a full grown lion with bare hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 07:14 AM |
| -1 | Online dating is usually a lost cause for LTRs$50.000,00 Spotted a European. Why are you not asleep at this hour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadvacation shopping or to work Which one of the two is more conducive to having sex? Although people can and do fuck at almost every place, some places/environments are inherently easier to have sex in. For example. A person while in a relationship staying over with her guy friend. It's possible that the are 100% platonic friends, but having sex in that environment is so damn easy and nobody will find out. Similarly solo vacations. It's easier to trust your partner when they don't repeatedly put i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 7 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?What are you doing here bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLololol, you are right. Going 0-100 in such short span of time is not going to bode well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Women have no right to complain about the state of men if they don't even care about a man's mental healthOf course, you have to assume that OP is talking about wanting their partner listen to them whine 24x7. That's the most convenient way you can counter his point, after all, who wouldn't get sick of someone who wants to whine and cry 24x7. It's called strawmanning. What OP is suggesting is that while women can whine, vent, cry about anything they please, if their partners do even a fraction of that then those relationships go downhill fast. But the way women disagree to this assertion is that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Women have no right to complain about the state of men if they don't even care about a man's mental healthThe more I hear them talk the more my faith in Red Pill increases. Her offer for support came with a rider that don't be "grown baby who can't regulate their feelings" and that she doesn't want to "parent" her partner. Perfectly acceptable. But now the onus lies on you to self-evaluate if the problem that you are going to discuss doesn't makes you "grown baby who can't regulate their feelings" and if you aren't somehow asking her to "parent" you. Once your problems have passed the internal quali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 9 | Women have no right to complain about the state of men if they don't even care about a man's mental healthWe care about your mental health, im fully in support of men being able to open up and ask for help Great. What ppl are not attracted too is a grown baby who can’t regulate their feelings and needs constant emotional support. Sigh. This pattern of reasoning manifests without fail. How can you offer support and be judgmental in the very next line? Do you really think anyone would want to open up to you if you put such an insulting rider to your offer for support? Because if you told that to me th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Women have no right to complain about the state of men if they don't even care about a man's mental healthI think every man has to take his individual journey to figure out the lies you are told on daily basis. Being emotionally vulnerable to your partner is one of them. I feel like it's one of those lies that are spoken to find out the truth, the truth about your weaknesses, anxieties, fears, insecurities. You fall for the lie, expose your inner world and now they have an easy time discarding you, for you are not that through and through strong manly man that they thought you were, or that they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on skincare?It's awesome. I am 28 yo man, so 30s is just around the corner. If I start taking care of my skin now, along with clean diet and regular exercise then I will continue looking great, or age like fine wine as they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 11:24 AM |
| 6 | If we accept that looks are the most important thing when it comes to attraction for both men and women, then why do we look down on plastic surgery?would catch a lot less shit Why would she catch any shit AT ALL? She worked for it after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:17 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe feel most comfortable among people who are like us, so you see all sort of attempts at converting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | We often hear how too many previous partners are a red flag, but what about too few partners?Don't try to make a law out of it and approach people on case by case basis. Someone could be in their first relationship but still be an excellent communicator because these are not some esoteric skills, you use them every day while dealing with your family, friends, coworkers, clients etc. There is a learning curve with every new sex partner. If someone is a virgin but a quick learner and enthusiastic about pleasing their partner then they can learn in no time. But if you want it all ready mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | We often hear how too many previous partners are a red flag, but what about too few partners?correlation isn't causation. The actual term is "Correlation doesn't imply causation", which means, mere existence of correlation is not sufficient proof of cause-and-effect in every case, BUT in some cases it is clear-cut when you can explain the correlation. For example, ice-cream sales increasing in summers, number of mosquitoes also increasing in summer. They are correlated but not causing each other. I cannot think of any reasonable explanation how sale of an ice cream will affect the repro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | We often hear how too many previous partners are a red flag, but what about too few partners?Insecurity is a buzz word these people throw around casually, don't pay heed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?What would you tell him while dumping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?If you tell us then at least we can decide whether to try harder or give up, but you’d rather mentally ridicule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?I think women are happy to play alongside expectations wherever it suits them. I have seen it several times in my own life. Communicating clearly and/or showing some moral courage/integrity? Nah, it’s uncomfortable and women are expected to be nice anyway. So I will dole out silent treatment/ghost/lie. Don’t dress and act like a slut? Excuse me? You can’t tell me what I do with my body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?It’s a skill to get your point across without massively offending people. Jeez you are my worst lay ever. Vs Babe, I know you you get excited very quickly and a lot, but it takes me some time to warm up and get in the mood. How about we spend more time in foreplay? I think we both will enjoy the actual sex part even more when I am fully turned on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?It'd be easier to just dump him. It’d be easier to dump him than tell him the areas he needs to improve in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | PPD Demographics Survey July 2021Whhaaaat? I have met only two other Indian men on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 03:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow are they an enigma? Do you want to predict the behaviour of 3.5 billion people by the same framework? There are so many variables, biology, physiology, culture, upbringing, life events, personality that their preferences will be all over the board, distilling it would be an attempt in futility. Your best bet is to understand who you are, never stop growing, and find someone who wants what you are offering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is being “her best” your responsibility?I don't know if you are hanging out with weird folks or arguing in bad faith because the claim that virgins cannot cheat is just stupid, there cannot be any guarantees with humans, except death. But it is reasonable to predict future based on track record. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Why is being “her best” your responsibility?Would you like to minimise the risk of your life and family torn apart? If yes then rule out all candidates with apparent failure points upfront. I have said here multiple times, men wanting virgins is a strawman constructed to shame men. Although there are some men you want a virgin women in her 20s but considering how rare such men and even rarer such women are, it’s safe to not focus discussions around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 03:50 AM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitherI think you are misunderstanding him. He’s in nutshell saying that give struggling dudes a chance, support him on his way up, by support he doesn’t mean that mommy her, you just being there for him at the end of the day and not making his life hard is enough. Then he goes out and does what he needs to do, comes back to a stable, loving home, and goes out again the next day invigorated. Overtime he becomes a really successful and you are rightfully a partner in his success. It doesn’t mean you co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 10:21 AM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitherI think you are walking on a different track here. OP is saying that if you are waiting at the finish line (your personal success isn't a part of this discussion) then it's only fair that he selects the best among you. What you seem to be suggesting is finding someone to go on a journey you both want to go on. I don't know where men (I have that too to some extent) got the fairytale idea of romance that they will find a great woman when they are at lowest, and with her by their side they will sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:33 AM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitherFair enough, it should be framed that you can invest in your partner/spouse all you want, but do it out of love and without expectations of a reward down the line. And I think we don’t always invest in people hoping for a material gain but also to have a strong relationship, if the receiver can’t reciprocate that then it’d suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 08:52 AM |
| – | Women, if you're not willing to compromise on your mating strategy then don't complain that the men you want aren't willing to eitherIt's better to invest into yourself, not into another human being that can leave you at any moment. Can you elaborate on that? Who are these human beings that we should not invest in? Family? Friends? Romantic partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Has casual sex experiences changed you?Note that casual sex = sex with someone who is never officially your boyfriend at any point in time, so casual sex includes FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 07:24 AM |
| – | What's going on here?Whenever you start losing hope, think of this guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:12 PM |
| 12 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierI agree with this viewpoint more based on what my life is as a man and the observation of life of some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 05:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have something to say to me bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 04:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does your flair mean? I have scars on both knees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 03:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is probably the only sub that has women AND people can openly say politically incorrect stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 03:26 PM |
| – | Straight/bi women, what actions can a guy do to turn you on?take notes gents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 10:24 AM |
| 6 | If you were a Male Gold Digger, what would your strategy be?Buy a metal detector and a shovel. Beep beep dig dig dig $$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 08:52 AM |
| – | Straight/bi women, what actions can a guy do to turn you on?Good-fucking-post. Thanks 🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | When did you experience key sexual and relationship events?15 to my teacher Story time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadunless she loses interest in her current partner. Why and how does a woman lose interest in her current partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 11:15 AM |
| – | Is there a study that explains zombies/ghosts that return to their ex after 2-3 months?What did you learn? Would you like to discuss the specific experience that pushed you in this direction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would definitely take the pill that would take away all my desires to want sex and female companionship, provided it doesn’t fuck me up in any other way. The desire for sex and companionship is like an itch, having sex and relationships temporarily fix it but as soon as you take them away the itch comes back. It would be nice to permanently get rid of that itch and break the shackles that our biology has put us in. I mean pursuit of sex and relationship for a man for whom they don’t come easil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:13 AM |
| – | Is there a study that explains zombies/ghosts that return to their ex after 2-3 months?I think there is no reliable way to vet for this kind of people, it’s a risk that comes with dating but if you know a way then tell me about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:01 AM |
| – | Is there a study that explains zombies/ghosts that return to their ex after 2-3 months?I am a guy and I really liked the last girl I was talking to, she told me that she likes me too, we used to talk every day until we fell asleep, had made plans of vacation and stuff, but then one day I asked her one too many times if she was okay and she never talked to me again. It’s been 7 months since. So, the point is that this isn’t a gendered issue, people lead on people all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Marry carefully and don’t throw in the towel easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Family wise, the vast majority of people who have children together either break up or divorce. It’s sad, I believe it should be fixed somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.So no simultaneous sleeping around like in US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.My name is Capt. Obvious and today I am going to tell you some profound truths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Interesting. Do men approach women in public? So, it’s like if the physical attraction is there then they like to have sex early on to see what it’s like and if they liked the sex then they continue to get to know each other, if all goes well then they formally define the relationship. It's usually very casual, "hanging out", but it's usually exclusive. What do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.It is indeed quite flawed if your objective is finding love, which is why I haven’t succumbed to it despite tons of pressure to get married this way. I mean it’s a very risky affair, you can cruise first few months/years purely on the basis of sex but if your personalities, outlooks don’t match then it becomes a miserable existence and I frequently see such couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Unless you explicitly say you are keeping it 'casual" with a new date/sexual partner - it's a given that you are both exclusive. That’s the main difference when compared to USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:29 AM |
| 3 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.He is indeed very handsome and is alpha as fuck. His father died when he was 9, he shouldered the responsibility of his mother, his two younger brothers, his father’s farm, handled his father’s pending lawsuits, made crores of rupees through property dealing while he was in high school. Unbelievable guy and has a very good heart. Bro to be honest I never had any success on OLD platforms, but you can reasonably assume that looks are the primary currency on OLD, if you don’t have them and can’t di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:22 AM |
| 5 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Love isn’t considered a necessity at all in Indian marriages, reproduction and being functioning member of family and society is all that’s expected from you. Now after years of co-existence, some people begin to love each other and some resent, but I would say that most go on to love each other because they didn’t get into the union with any expectations that they will be loved, so they find it and build it, rather than bringing it and then losing it somewhere down the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:18 AM |
| 8 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Arranged marriage is a business deal in disguise. How much the guy earns, how much he will inherit, his liabilities, his family’s reputation etc, on the other hand how beautiful the girl is, how much her father will pay in dowry etc. After that if the boy and girl manage to build a successful marriage then great, else sucks for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Thanks for such a detailed description NarniaFox, cultural attitudes seem fairly similar to India. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 09:51 AM |
| 2 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.Thanks for a detailed description. How did you find this subreddit and what made you stay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.As a 19-year-old man from India, do you think the "hooking up" culture will spread in India throughout the next 10 years? It is directly related to urbanisation, education levels, and financial situation. As more people move to urban areas, are more educated and richer, they will rapidly copy what west is doing and voila! It is still very prevalent in big cities. The guy I talked about in my post lived in New Delhi for 9 months, and slept with 11 women in that time, which is LOT IMO. The other g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 09:36 AM |
| 4 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.If you kiss someone, that someone is your boyfriend/girlfriend implicitly already, unless it was very clear from the context it's going to be casual. Nobody dates for 6 month and is like "IDK maybe we should go official". Great, I like how French does it. But the degeneracy is spreading fast and wide, so it's only time until French catch the virus too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 08:41 AM |
| 16 | People from outside of US, give a detailed description of what dating and relationship is like in your country and how much does Red pill/blue pill apply there.India, 28, Man. First of all, there is no prevalent dating culture here. Most people live in rural, semi-rural areas and they get married to someone their parents/relatives suggest. It’s not a forced marriage type of thing for most people, they can exercise their choice in disqualifying prospective suitors but generally they don’t get a lot of time of decide, so if someone meets the broad criteria the family has and doesn’t display any red flags upfront (alcoholism, unemployed, disabilities, hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Women Uphold Toxic Masculinity in Dating More Than Men DoThat can be done without labeling a core aspect of my identity as "toxic". For women it's so easy to throw out terms like "toxic masculinity", for they can always throw in an addendum when confronted about it, but for men it's hard to dissociate the label from the entire concept of masculinity because it doesn't come in parts, it exists in different flavors in different men. But yeah, they are great tools to control the behaviors of men according to the feminine imperative. You can easily throw … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Women Uphold Toxic Masculinity in Dating More Than Men DoYes, there are some ways in which a minority of men behave in extremely problematic manner, but I just don't understand how that justifies inventing a word like "toxic masculinity" because every time a man hears the word he has to stop dead in tracks and evaluate every aspect of his behavior to see if it's toxic. Like say I am a masculine man, going about my day, hears "toxic masculinity", thinks "oh so that is toxic, I wonder what else is toxic about masculinity, about my masculinity" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 03:24 AM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Okay, let’s say he wants to date you. Next step? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:03 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Okay, what do you suggest to a man about how he should go about dating you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:56 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Yes yes, so why waste your time on a woman who is interested in other men more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:41 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?I addressed why men think the way they do, but it’s a hypothesis. I think if you internalise that men and women have some fundamental differences in how they think, operate, and their goals then maybe you’ll be able to empathise with their PoV, rather than trying to judge everyone by your lens. No self respecting man would be ever okay with learning that the girl he is seeing is making him wait because she sees potential in him while she’s having meaningless sex with other men. For, that could b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:35 PM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Mainstream advice is too contradictory to make any conclusions from, it’s better to create a separate ideology that presents itself as anti-mainstream advice to get people listen. I made every mistake in the book that red pill talks about and I got the result that red pill talks about, and now I can see the reasoning behind it and it makes sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:27 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?That’s reassuring to hear. I was starting to buy into it’s all doom and gloom out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:24 PM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?Men think we value the men we have casual sex with. Men do derive a lot of value from being sexually wanted. Think about it, birth control has been around only for a few decades which allowed women to fuck as many men as she wants but before that she had to be careful else she could get stuck with his child. So for 100 of thousands of years, a woman having sex with us meant that she was ready to have our child (or at least risking it), it wasn’t something she was doing with a new guy every week,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadAlright, good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneif you are looking for security and love, you are probably better off finding those things from within. Can you show me the path? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadWhat do you yourself suggest? What got you in this line of work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadOkay, do YOU look down on people who use Facebook? Are they bad people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 02:54 PM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?The last girl I was talking to told me about a friend of hers who used to sleep with a new man every week. She had no incentive to lie because she didn’t tell me anything else about that friend, nor identified who she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 02:53 PM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Are you a woman? For research purposes. While a lot of men tend to hold these opinions, it’s usually women whom I draw most flak from when even remotely suggesting that promiscuous women are not good bet for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?It’s much easier to be angry then put in hard, honest work. So your observation is probably correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadThat’s reassuring to hear, I think I should get off Reddit for good, it’s very anxiety inducing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 01:34 PM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Loose vagina (although it doesn’t work that way) is least of my concern when talking about a woman who has slept around a lot. It’s STDs, dozens of men lurking in the shadows each waiting for another chance, disassociation of sex with emotions, impulsiveness, insatiability etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 01:31 PM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Yeah, I don’t disagree with “women love sex too” part even in the slightest but that’s the usual retort when I ask what’s the need for dozens of sexual partners? As if each man is good for sex only once and then the man dies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?You are right, and actually I am not dumb, rather angry and bitter for feeling left out, hence picking up these arguments for no good reason when deep down I know that I am wrong. So, you have a good day 🤝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega Threadby most people That’s true, but the push is towards making it more acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 4 | What is “red pill”?Extreme components like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 09:20 AM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Well, I learnt that on Reddit. That the sexual history of the person you are dating is totally irrelevant, that having sex with one man 200 times is no different than having sex with 200 men, that women love sex too and bunch of other stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?I wasn't clear about the point I was trying to make. I have nothing against women favoring conventionally masculine men, that's how it's supposed to be. But biology is not limited to our sexuality, it transcends into our roles and responsibilities too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?It's relevant as in you can hide behind biology where it suits you and bash it where it doesn't. For hedonistic sexual pleasure, it's okay to follow basic instincts. For social conduct? Not okay, or pick and choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Understandable, that's what biology dictates. Biology also dictates that women be primary caretakers of the children but then women have no problem in dumping kids in the day care and go toil for their corporate overlords. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Of course I understand the difference, understanding and believing are different. I can take orders from 5'2" supervisor who sucked my cock last night because I want the paycheck, not because I see her as a leader who I will follow anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:33 AM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?I hadn't claimed it was simple, yet that person had put the qualifier "Why can’t you just summarize it in a sentence, if it’s so simple and effective?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:29 AM |
| 4 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?It just doesn't work that way with men. Men don't respect weak men, don't want to be subservient to weak men either. But the gap between strength of two average men is much narrower than an average man and woman, so it's not that difficult for men to take orders from a man. Everyone deserves basic respect, that's not the point. But you yourself are asking for asymmetrical treatment in different settings. We don't like that. Also, I don't blame you for holding those views, you are a woman, your b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadYou have a good day sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadI think you gave the wrong examples. You had to provide example of a business that is well respected but its customers are not. In your example, the businesses exploit the customers and in return they lose the respect of everyone who knows about their shady practices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadI subscribed to a free OnlyFans account (I'd never pay a dime to these thots), and the kind of messages she sends me in private chat are the exact kind a loving girlfriend would send to her man. I know she has mass sent them to each of her 100s of followers, but for a moment I can't help but fantasize what it would be like to have a woman who sent stuff like that only to me. So, yeah, these people are exploiting the loneliness of people. Deplorable. At least NaughtyAmerica videos don't pretend t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?Wrong, Red Pill is about self improvement first. They say, you build it and they (the women) will come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadMany businesses look down on their customers. Examples please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:05 AM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?Let me try. Fix your shit and don't be a fool. Fix your shit: Career, health, finances, fitness, mental health, hobbies, social connections. Don't be a fool: Watch what they do not what they say, give no shit, take no shit, nobody gets your commitment until they are worthy, only you get to decide who's worthy, society may tell you that girl who has fucked 5 dozen men last year alone is just as worthy as who fucked 5 in her lifetime BUT only you get to decide who's worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:29 AM |
| – | Red pill users here, what do you define as red pill?/r/TheRedPill Go and look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:18 AM |
| 6 | What is “red pill”?Red pill, if you were to boil down to bare bones is that sort your life first and foremost, get your career on track, lift and eat right to have a healthy and strong body, have some hobbies and some good guy friends who can shoot shit with. When it comes to women, focus more on what they do rather than what they say, de-condition yourself from viewing them on the pedestal that society has put them on, at best see them as just as full of shit as any man you know, know that they are into dating/se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Adult Entertainment Industry Mega ThreadOn one hand men who consume porn, fuck prostitutes are seen as losers, on the other hand women who create porn and become hookers are seen as empowered. What gives? It's like Cocaine manufacturers are awesome, but junkies are bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?You are conflating "equal" with "same", I didn't say same, same to me would be a man and I don't date men. You want to have it your way entirely, don't you? How can men who can bitch slap you in bed, can completely dominate you physically, can also disconnect from that reality and take orders from you in workplace? It's confusing as fuck. Like biologically we (the women) want to do things how biology dictates, but socially we want you to ignore that biology and give us what we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?Can you elaborate? Feminism want us to believe otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 6 | Women, what is the extent to which height matters on a man?I find it slightly weird that women are into men who are full foot taller than them, same as men who date women foot+ shorter than them. Is there equality in such relationship with such physical discrepancy? I'm 5'10" and I find women most attractive in 5'7" to 5'11" range, that's where they feel like an equal. I am not hugely into protector-protected, feeble girl - strong man dynamic, she better carry her weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Is this LTR over? Need a second opinion. LTR gave out her insta to chad. Rationalized afterward.Can you tell us about those moments? The discussions here lack nuance. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Never CommitTrrruuueeee. I run my own business too and I remember the early days and the desperation in my way of dealing with my early clients. Now after a few years and ton of clients and money later, I just don't give a fuck. A couple of days ago I told off a potential client because he was talking on and on about bullshit details, I said do you want a lawyer to chalk up a contract? Because I had told you everything you needed to know in the very beginning. I just didn't give a fuck if he took his busine… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/21 02:00 PM |
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