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Escalation & CalibrationHumble-Language1269/r/seduction29/06/21 06:42 PM
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Don't text her at all, next time she tries to say hi, in a playful manner you need to say something like "oh hey ms flakes flakerston!" If she says sorry, say "what are you going to do to make it up to me?"
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:24 AM
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Don't do coffee dates
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:55 PM
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You need to relax, keep it to drinks when you are first dating. If she shows up she's attracted to you. Don't act nervous or scared, she's there because she likes you. Once she starts touching you, make the move. No speeches. Text for setting up the date, no texting to flirt. Texts should be used to coordinate the date, that's it
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:37 PM
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Texting should be used to meet up only, no good morning texts until shes dating you and she has to be the one to reach out
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:22 PM
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Just say hey, you're great, but I'm not looking at you in a platonic sense and I have no wishes for a platonic relationship.
/r/seduction28/09/21 08:41 PM
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Just ask her questions, get her to open up and tell you how she actually feels. Was she the one who initiated the monaganomous of bf relationship or was it you?
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:05 PM
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You need a new therapist. There is nothing wrong with approaching a woman during the day that you have interest in. Just be honest and forward. Say things to her that would amuse YOU, not her, make yourself smile when you are talking. Make it fun and she'll have fun, make sure your eyes are smiling. And work on yourself, confidence comes from within, be the best man you could be, this is going to show. Women can sense that shit and that is what turns them on, it's not about what you say but how …
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:30 PM
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Watch Alpha Male Strategies
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:52 PM
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Dance with her, be sexual and confident with the mindset that this could be HER lucky night. When she's grabbing up on you and giving you signals, say "hey, I'm gonna get out of here and grab some food at xyz. You should join." Eat and offer a nightcap at your place after, don't pay for the meal.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:32 PM
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17 girls, I was a "nice guy" when I was your age, so I was at the same point. I'm 33 now, I'm far more direct and upfront with my intentions and that alone has helped dramatically. Last year I was in a FWB relationship with 4 different women at the same time. Almost felt like a full time job.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:17 PM
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When you approach more women to entertain yourself, you get better. If you are amusing yourself and having fun people sense that. Your not spamming approaches, if you see a girl that interests you ask yourself why? Once you know the answer you approach her, try not to take yourself so seriously. Women who rejected you will see you differently if you are with a beautiful woman, that's a fact. They will have a sense of regret and they will treat you differently.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:11 PM
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Ok, still, let her do the chasing and the initial texts. She reaches out, then you set a date or have her come over
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:05 PM
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Never take a girl too seriously, flow with the banter. "I had a date with a demon last night... But I'm not really into the possessive type."
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:49 PM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:31 PM
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Smoke a lil weed. Shift your mindset to "If SHE plays her cards right, maybe she'll get the D." Get her to qualify herself, sit next to her, sexualize the date early. Smirk like you know what's going to happen. Be funny and chill, let her do most of the talking
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:30 PM
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Say "hey, I don't give a flying fuck what dr fauci says, I wanna see you. If I get sick, then my flintstone vitamins, teddy grahams, and sprite will fix me just fine."
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:19 PM
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Say "Hey, I'm a very busy guy, I'd love to take you out but I have no time to interact with pixels on a screen all day. When are you available next week?"
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:15 PM
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Don't initiate, when she reaches out, set a date, just the two of you. Take her somewhere, sit next to her, smile when you look into her eyes, be sexual. Make a move.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:48 PM
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It's like in sales, every NO is one NO closer to a YES. And when the NO's see your YES's, odds are they will also change into YES's.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:43 PM
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Be brief but direct. Use the phone only to set a time and place to meet, not have conversations. I repeat, do not have conversations via texting.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:25 PM
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You need to keep the messaging as brief as possible, use the app to set dates not have conversations.
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:46 PM
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Your happiness is key here man...
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:45 PM
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Say "hey it was great meeting you, what days are you available next week?" If she replies with different options, pick one, say "Awesome, let's meet up at XYZ place at 7:30." Make sure you set the date at night. Let her do most of the talking when you are out with her, take her to a couple of different places, make sure you make a move sometime DURING the date.
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:21 PM
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Therapy is always a great start. Keep going to the gym, find other activities that will force you to stay away from the computer. If you have to install an anti-porn software, destroy the password so you can't uninstall it. Find something you love to do with other people outside or join different groups that interests you. Focus on that, become addicted to that activity. Make yourself so busy that porn is an impossibility.
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:14 PM
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That's where you're making a mistake on logistics. Try to set the date close to home, if you are going out and shes a no show, no big deal. Approach other women, this saves time by disqualifying those who'd have low interest from the start.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:05 PM
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Set the exact date on your first interaction. The exact day and exact time. Then get the number. And text her your name so she knows it is you, don't confirm the date over text, just assume she'll be there. If she doesn't show, NEXT
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:37 PM
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There are some universities who offer free counseling and therapy to non students. You can find psychologists in training, who have a licensed psychologist watch all interactions to make sure things are going well, who will charge you near nothing to help you with your inner thoughts. It's going to take some dedication, I did it for a year and it made me much happier. I can't even believe how much better my life is now. I went to UNT in Denton for help. https://www.aptc.org/?module=Members&event…
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:30 PM
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rejection breeds obsession, this shouldn't bother you, find someone who is really excited to hang with you, once you do and you haven't called this girl or txted her she will reach out if interested
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:23 PM
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Walk up to the girl and just say "hi, nice to meet you. What's your name?" If she says her name AND ASKS FOR YOUR NAME TOO, she's interested. Now just start bantering with her.
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:58 PM
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Also at first, one date a week. Don't text her unless you are setting a time and place to meet. Once she starts to reach out more then you keep setting up times to meet, always go for kiss first date. If she turns the cheek, NEXT. Sex should happen by third date. She needs to earn your time and be present on the date, she should show some serious effort. Make sure she isn't just a pretty face, don't let her waste your time.
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:52 PM
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When you are talking to her, smile, and think about doing the dirtiest things to her. She's going to wonder what you are thinking about her. Say "hey, I'm gonna go grab a drink after this at xyz place, you can join me if you want." Just leave it at that, get away from the social circle when you are with her, and don't text her unless you are setting up a time to meet.
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:23 PM
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